Hi Jay! To be honest, I haven’t watched a video in a while because Paris isn’t so much a part of my life anymore and I’m not interested in the travel stuff as much, but I definitely watched THIS because I am invested in you as a person and your life story after so many years of watching your videos. I care about you and what happens to you. As I was watching I had a thought about a possible direction, putting some pieces together with writing, creating, sharing. I am wondering if there is a “self help” book that is waiting inside of you. The things you have been working so hard to figure out and grow from might have nuggets of wisdom for others. Anyway, I get stress that gets to the level of coming out in pain and distress and I hope you can continue to manage the stress. Best wishes to you, my friend.
I selfishly want this channel to continue forever. There have been a number of exceedingly lonely times where your videos have provided connection and some mirroring that was sorely needed. That said: The last thing that you should do is continue if it is impacting your health and wellbeing or the success of any of your endeavors. Paris in my Pocket has been an absolute godsend in my last couple trips to Paris as well. You’re successful and a bright beacon to others in more ways than you know. Thank you for being. Keep it up.
Hey Jay. I’ve been watching your videos for many years and for me what keeps me coming back is that 1) I’m curious about people’s lifestyles in other places (menial day to day stuff and projects as well) 2) Paris is a fascinating place, so catching glimpses of it on the go is awesome 3) the chill vibe and music relaxes me, I like watching it during breakfast 4) last but not least, it doesn’t hurt that you’re very charismatic, positive, and interesting guy. In summary, just catching you doing you in Paris is good enough for me. Sincerely wish you all the best with your challenges
Jay-Longtime listener and Patreon member. I originally found you because I wanted to move to France and watching your content gave me a way to be in contact with France everyday and the dream life that I wanted. Fast forward a number of years now and I have moved to Paris and while I don’t necessarily need the Paris content I do refer it to others often and when I am visiting the city…I reference it frequently to reacquaint myself. Now, the thing that has really kept me here is the process of watching your personal growth journey and using that as a way of questioning my own. As you have been willing to share your struggles and your growth I have found it to be inspirational and that is the content that keeps me showing up. Your journey is inspirational and you don’t have to do anything to make that so, just keep being you and allowing us to see the real you. I recently celebrated your French citizenship and was inspired to know that one day that is also now possible for me! Bon journée Jay!
I’m following you because you come across very authentic, honest and kind!! I’m praying for your health and may your find your happiness and purpose.😊🙏
Jay, I found you when Notre Dame was burning...and I have loved your daily vlogs. I am crying knowing about your mom. I can relate...and the body does keep the score...what I most want is for you to take care of yourself as that is what listening to you reminds me to do. Please take care of yourself. Thank you for all your content over time. And you did help me get through the pandemic. Thank you for that.
Hi, Jay!Bless your heart! The hospital is no fun( I was a nurse for MANY years)… first and foremost, take good care of yourself!!! You can’t go forward without good health ( both physical and mental), of which I’m sure you’re aware! You will prevail through all of these hurdles… your future is bright, because you care and love life!! 🌸❤️
Jay, I’ve watched your videos initially for insight on Paris life. What ended up adding to that was realizing your personal journey connected me and so many others to you! Your vulnerability is the connection;the struggles,doubts,self growth and self care. Your journey matters wherever it takes you! Your past does not define who you are now, embrace it and stay well! ❤
I came here to see Paris years ago after my first visit there. Your channel cheered me during covid, and I shared posts with friends. You have matured, and I stay because I have grown so fond of you. I wish every success to you and your team in the future. Thank you.
I’m interested in seeing the behind the scenes of your work as a creator, whether it’s as a writer or as a video creator or films. That means the process, the struggles, your feelings about it, etc.
I just wrote a whole thank you speech, but I decided to break it down to: I came for the Paris content and stayed for your personality. I'm pretty sure that's what your community is here for. You can't really go wrong. The "20 in 20" series, being guided through the Louvre or ranking croissants were so fun and helpful, because I like being prepared. And I still love the Paris content, but it's because of the way you present it. I would really enjoy getting to know more of you (only as far as want to share of course), like the phantasy writer side or daily life in Paris. I wish you all the energy, luck, success, inner calm and love that you need and deserve. Cheering for you from Cologne.
I've been following you for many years. Started watching your videos because of Paris but now I mostly watch because of you as a person and your personal growth. I'm also interested in how you deal with your family and the relationship with your new boyfriend. No stress, I will always be here for you, sleep and rest as much as you can. Love and hugs 🤗 Anna.
We first found you from a 20 in 20 video. We were planning our honeymoon trip to France in 2023. We were looking at hotels in Paris and wanted to check out where they were. We loved the video so we used your others to plan where we wanted to go as we only had three days in Paris. We carried on watching you because we liked watching and buying into your journey. Moving on you were one of the reasons we moved towards discussing relocating to France. Combined with our experiences of the country and watching you and a couple of others, especially Les frenchies we were helped in coming to the decision to start the process. We are now in the middle of purchasing our forever home in the Charente, after successfully receiving our visas. We continue to watch, partially to catch views of scenery that remind us of our wonderful trip, but also catch up with your story.
“O’Doyle Rules!” I apologize that this is one of my takeaways from this heartfelt blog, but I got your Billy Madison reference. That, and I need to check in on my accountant. 😂 Seriously though, I hope you feel better soon. Rest up and get yourself centered. We’ll all still be here when you return. For me, I came originally for travel information, but I stayed because I wanted to follow your daily life. So, as long as you’re willing to share what you’re up to, I’m happy to keep watching and supporting you! Cheers!
I’m so sorry you’ve been having a rough go and hope things change for the better soon. I found your channel while researching for a trip to France that never happened (thanks, Covid). I stayed because I like YOU. Your thoughts resonate with me. Your personality grounds, comforts, and uplifts me. I never end one of your videos feeling worse. Rather, always better. I hope you’re able to continue both channels but not at the expense of your mental or physical health. Sending you hugs and Cooper some ear scratches. Thanks for bringing joy to my days.
I’m traveling to Paris in a few months and went down the planning rabbit hole this evening, which led to a Reddit thread that recommended your videos. I started by watching the videos most relevant to my trip (about practicalities and the area we’ll be staying in) but then I found this one after quickly becoming enamored with you and wanting to learn more. You obviously have a gift for connecting with viewers and your vulnerability here just amplifies that in a really beautiful way. I’ll be purchasing your guide and look forward to keeping up with your content in whatever form (and on whatever timeline) you ultimately choose. Cheers from someone really new to the party but no less happy to be here. ❤
Found you in 2017 when planning a trip to Paris, had that "who is this guy?" moment, never left. "O'Doyle rules!" Hope you are well friend. I'm invested in your journey, so I hope you continue to share it with us. I'm here for the Paris content, but I'm also here for the ups and downs of your journey. I'm always looking forward to the next chapter.
Take care of yourself. I recently took a tumble and fractured my left radius. It's frustrating when things go awry but try to remind yourself of all the things you have to be thankful for. Everyone is dealing with something. Being resilient is a good skill to have. Hugs.
I love the vulnerability, Jay. I’m sorry things have been so stressful. I too have had a rough six months and have been doing a lot of self reflection as well. Just because you are in the best city in the world (IMO) doesn’t mean you are no longer susceptible to stress. Hang in there, you do great work!
👍😎 I've lived through difficult long phases too of things you mentioned with family, being very ill, money problems, losing a parent and can tell you this too shall pass, so hang in there.
Hey Jay. I’ve been watching you to about five years and found you by chance. I’ve enjoyed all that you’ve shared and your honesty. You should be very proud of yourself. You have accomplished so much. Just keep being you.
We’ve been on the ride with you for several years. Thank you for giving us all the Paris content and a peek into your life. Jay, what we both would like from you…is content that brings you peace and joy, we will follow along. BTW-in Paris right now enjoying snow! Weird when you’re from South Dakota and your first snow of the season is in Paris!
Like so many others here, it's simply interesting to see how you're living in Paris. I began watching probably 2-3 years ago when I was planning my first trip to Paris and was really intersted to see what the Olympics were like from your perspective. I'm so proud of you for learning the language and becoming a citizen, that is such a cool accomplishment. I literally woke up in the middle of the night last night and for some reason you popped into my head and I wondered how you are doing. Thank you for the update. I'll keep you in my prayers.
Hi Jay. My wife and I have been watching for a few years. We enjoy both "streams" of what you do (Paris and "your life"). We enjoy the vlogs with friends, trips to restaurants, coffee shops, bars etc. Be nice to see more of France - we loved your La Rochelle videos so much that we are going there for a week in February. Purely because of the way you presented it.
Hey Jay! You def have a great deal of value. You have shown me the real side of Paris and it’s amazing. I’d like to see more of your daily life in Paris!
I started watching you in 2017 because of TAPIF but stayed because a lot of our ambitions were aligned at the time (I’m a writer too). You were (and still are) a great inspiration for me and I love watching you for your philosophical talks.
Hi Jay, I first stumbled upon your daily vlogs at the start of the pandemic, and it was purely by chance. What really drew me in was how you shared the journey of navigating Paris as a traveler-the beautiful experiences, your growing circle of friends, and the excursions beyond the city. But if I'm being honest, what kept me coming back was the genuine hope I had that you'd find your happy place. There's something in all of us that wants to root for the "underdog," and I found myself wanting to stay connected to see you hit your end-of-year "champagne bottle" goals, and more recently, reach your dream of French citizenship. Life has a way of getting busy, but I always find myself circling back to your videos. It's been wonderful to see the progress you've made, and the inner growth you're experiencing. While I’m not typically a dog person, I have to admit, I’ve grown quite fond of Cooper, and I still get a lot of joy from your daily Paris adventures. Please take care of yourself-whether the challenges you're facing are rooted in somatic anxiety or something more physiological. The world is definitely better with a Jay Swanson in it!! Wishing you a happy holiday season and an awesome 2025! Take care!
Jay. Cant tell you enough what an influence you have been on me. Your videos both on self reflection and travel tips for Paris gave me the courage to get out and travel. See the places I have always wanted to see. Love Paris/France. Cant wait to get back next year. You take care of you. I'm sure you have had a positive affect on many. You make the content that makes you happy, gives you pride. The tips and trips of Paris are great. Even if we have been watching for years, your tours of Paris keep us updated on the changes. For those of us who have invested in your journey, you share with us what you want. We are always interested in where you are at in live, and where you are going. Again, thank you for the life lessons you have given me. Take care!!!!
For us it started with Paris and we will always have a deep love for Paris and all things Paris. We really love that about your content and it helped us immensely with our own trip to Paris. More importantly, your openness, your consistency, love your video editing, your willingness to share things in a positive manner always brings us back. Seeing you grow and change in and with Paris has been an extraordinary adventure. You are awesome Jay! Thank you!
Jay I found your channel during Covid and was so drawn to your warm, friendly personality. I loved hearing about your life in Paris and little did I know at the time that I would end up living here for a while and your knowledge and recommendations would be so useful. But mainly I agree with all the above comments, I watch because of you, your vulnerability and honesty and your journey with all life’s ups and downs. I’m sure there are great things ahead for you whatever path you decide to follow and I’m sticking with you whichever path you take. Look after yourself.
I started watching when I was deciding which arrondissement to stay in on my first trip to Paris last year (I picked the 9th). I kept watching because I enjoyed your unique perspective on Paris and life in general. I look forward to watching the new videos when they come out. Also you have great taste in coffee! I tried KB after seeing it in your videos and it did not disappoint.
Like many others, I found you while planning a trip to Paris. I stayed for your heartfelt content as I am invested as a virtual friend from across the pond. You're a creative. Your content is always valuable and appreciated. It was smart to separate PIMP from your channel (branding and focus). Take the time you need to prioritize your health and enjoy life! PS J'adore les lunettes!
Jay, you touch lives in the most wonderful ways! You pose philosophical questions and have ideas (and courage) to share with the World! I am drawn to your work all the way from California. Having watched this video we rushed to do a movie night with wine, Midnight in Paris. Thanks for the inspiration!
Hi- I started watching because I was moving to Paris for a year in 2022. I went to lots of your coffee and sandwich spots. What really hooked me was you. Your honesty, your openness. Haven’t watched since I’ve been back in the US but you just came up on my feed. Still wonderful. I’ll be looking at ways to financially contribute. Best of luck.
Hi, Life is tough sometimes, especially in the midst of a tough time your body jumps in too! I’m glad your stomach is improving the power of the mind on the body is insane! I am grateful for your artistry in the style of your vlogs they’re unique plus your knowledge is exceptional. Reading some of the comments you have a lot of unknown to you friends and fans who wish you wonderful success!
Hi Jay. First some advice, then I will try to answer your question. I went through a tough 5 years with my family which took a toll on me physically and mentally, and I realized that without my health, I have nothing. Focus on your health, reducing what is causing stress, and find peace. As far as this channel goes, I need nothing from it … just keep be being yourself and find a rhythm that works for you. You are an interesting and charismatic person and that is why I am here. With ParisInMyPocket it is already a very useful tool, thanks for making that. It made my trip to Paris in July very much more interesting. Take care of yourself.
Jay, I just have to say, You're like the friend that I don't have in "real time". Your analytic style and questioning self, while casually rolling around Paris, all the while showering us with bevvy of datapoints is incredibly enjoyable. I find myself smiling when I watch you, the wit dry. Carry on and see the beauty! Thank you!
Been watching you for 5-6 years now. Originally started watching to get recommendations for places to visit and eat in Paris but stuck around to see you develop and grow as a person. I enjoy your videos because you are open and transparent. I'll be sticking around to watch your videos in the future. Wish you the best my fellow Washingtonian.
As always thank you for sharing Jay, you’ve built a lovely community here and there is much support for you 🌟 I followed you to Paris from Spokane, for the Paris content and to cheer you on creating a life in a city I love, and would also hope to make a life in, and stayed because like many I invested in you and your personality, all you bring and it’s been wonderful seeing your journey unfold so far. Cheering you on as always from a chilly coastal town in the UK 🎉
I came for Paris, then stayed for you. I relate to your personal growth and your musings on life. I still enjoy the videos on Paris though! Hope you feel better soon .
Hope your doctor's appointment goes well, Jay. I have been following you for many years now and I love all of your content. I will never be able to go to Paris so I get to vicariously see all that Paris has to offer through your eyes. I love watching your personal journey also. I enjoyed watching you renovate your tiny apartment and also love your interactions with your friends. Cooper is a sweet addition as well. Whatever you do, I will enjoy watching the journey. Best wishes to you in all of your endeavours.
I feel like myself and everyone around me is currently going through all manner of things. This world we are in now is something else. We'll all get through this somehow, but it is indeed difficult to have optimism. As someone who is married to a French person, it is the little things in France that I adore most. Going to the pharmacie or enjoying lunch at the nearest brasserie. It is those things that I enjoy seeing in your videos as well and that is what originally brought you to my attention all those years ago. Keep up the good work in your own time, we'll still be here.
Hello friend. I think all of your videos have added value to my life in different ways. I really appreciate your honest and raw "this is where my life is now" stuff, as well as the tours of and recommendations for Paris. I find it all valuable. I also find it interesting that migraines have been a common theme in my family along with the abuse (and the "do I really have anything to offer of value... am I worthy?"). Thank you for connecting the dots. Take care of you FIRST, Cooper second and then worry about the rest of the world. Keep putting your beautiful and positive energy out there and we will continue to flock to it. Thank you for being a light for many of us and I look forward to continuing to see it grow. Much love to you!
It was Paris which brought me to you in the first instance but then I started following your life through the daily vlogs and have been here ever since. Would be great to see some behind the scenes when you re- edit your books or produce the video trailer you talked about a few weeks ago. Also I’m there for any Paris content- goes without saying! Your gut issues sound like IBS to me ( I’m no Doctor btw!) so make sure you do zone out completely for the rest of this week, you’re in the perfect city to do just that. Take good care of yourself Jay!
Now that you have mentioned. It would be interesting to know more about your journey in Paris... as a business owner! I have seen sooo many videos of expats in Paris and France of students, retirees, and people who found employment despite their limited french. Detailed videos about establishing a CREATIVE business, finding an good accountant, building your team, etc. would really be a big help. Thanks, Jay!
We've been watching you for years and support you on Patreon. We enjoy coming along on the journey of your content creation and your personal growth. My husband has read a couple of your books. You have helped me with my mental health, and I've even written down some of the insightful things you've said. We appreciate you.
Take care of yourself Jay. Glad to hear you're seeing someone and that's been nourishing. You deserve that big time. I think you know that you sold me way back when on the adventure of experiencing the ins and outs of you following your dreams. I love it and find it inspiring when you're taking us along on that ride but none the less it's nothing you owe any of us no matter how long we've been around. First and foremost, be there for you. THEN you can figure out what you're providing others. All my best to you in the current weather.
Dear Jay.. I’ve been following you for a long time. ..you are a true gem dear.. I’m so thankful for who you are and your strength.. I really don’t know how to thank you for being you!! Lots of love and Belgian chocolates and hope to meet you to hand you over them chocolates 😊xx
I stick around because I like listening to your perspective on things. I enjoy all your videos. I’ve bought your book. I guess I’m just invested in you as a person. I wish you all the success and pray for your good health…to you and for your team. I’ve seen people saying that you’re like the friend we’ve never met and that about covers it I think. Happy holidays.
I came for the French content but i enjoy the podcast, the monologs, sometimes i feel like we are having a conversation and that helps for my mental state.
Why am I here? Well, 23 years ago I went to Europe for a month in-between my college semesters. I visited Rennes, Paris and London. A bunch a years ago I got an inheritance and wanted to return to Paris. This time with my children who are 8 and 11. In my year of planning, I watched almost all or your travel videos and based our day-to-day travel plans around the insight I got from your "Paris in my Pocket" travel videos. I also started watching your regular content because it gave me an insight into who you are, what your tastes/perspectives are and just enjoy the journey that you are on especially watching you engage with the Paris Olympics. I did my second trip to Paris with my kids from Christmas Day to New Years Eve. We got an AIRBNB, traveled the metro like a pro, didn't get pick pocketed and saw all of the sights we wanted to see and then some. We even took in the Parcs des Buttes-Chaumont which is a place you recommended a while back. (We happened to be in the neighborhood getting French language Pokemon cards for my son, as well as pastries and cheeses from local shops in the area). I can't wait to see what you put together next and would love to see you doing "walking tour" style videos where you visit certain parts of Paris in a day revolving around a theme like Earnest Hemingway, Jazz or Amelie. Tell me if its worth it to visit Amelie's restaurant (I've been told it isn't) or whether you feel inspired visiting the parks that Hemingway frequented (I'm told he was so destitute he strangled pigeons so that he could have food for dinner) or what I could expect out of the music scene. Or visit other places. I would like to see the world and it does help when you see if for me first! Take care and great videos.
I went into le Cafe de deux Moulins when I was in Paris six months ago and I thought it was totally worth it! I went in an used the bathroom and took a video walking around the cafe. I was thrilled to be there. I totally recommend going in if you are a fan of Amelie!
Love the glasses. I’ve been watching for at least 6 years, as I started when I lived in Rennes and I moved to the SW of France in February 2020. I like listening to your voice. I like seeing Cooper. I like seeing you with friends, traveling and being in Paris. As a school nurse in the states, I tracked kiddos with head and tummy pain, to see what class they were in or if they would come to the clinic on a Friday afternoon. Stress and pain are not a comfortable combo. I agree with a self help book as I feel you have lots of words of wisdom. Sending healing support from Gensac and again, let me know if you need a nurse on call. ❤
Watching this I realise I’ve been watching since 2017 after a trip to Paris and wanting more. So initially I was here for Paris content but along the way have gotten to know and care for you ( as much as one can as strangers via RUclips 😀) so I’m here for all of it! I think the fact I’ve seen growth in you has kept me coming back. The filming and editing side has always been top notch. ❤
Hi, just got back from Paris. Your videos really made our trip. They were spot on. We visited The Shakespeare Cafe, Le Bouliion at Chartier, Le Cinq Marches. Your tips about the IDF card made life much easier. We did other stuff too but your top tips made everything go smoothly. Thank you so much. I hope everything works out, I’m sure it will!
First of all, my wish is for you to be well. Nothing is more important than your health. I found your videos a few years ago and look forward to each one. To answer your question, I keep coming back for a couple reasons: Paris is one of my favorite places and your content allows me to re-live what I love best about the city. Your videos are truthful - not everything is great and you tell us that - and I especially like how you find out-of-the-way spots to share. Second, I come back because you're real without being maudlin. It's too easy for people to think content creators have it made and live this fantasy life. You're honest with us, which makes you relatable. Take care.
Been following you since 2018 - what have I gotten from you? What do I want to see more of? Well my visits to Paris were forever changed, as a Boca Raton babe I’d never take a subway. Your tips and tricks for getting around on the metro turned Paris into my own Disney and the monorail 😂 Great spots to grab a rose on the seine, take photos, how to order simple water, uncovering Arr. and what they offer. You are the Rick Steves of a new generation! Not to mention great videography and music, I’ve copied your style for my own clips for our family, which will be timelessly cool. As a person we love your realness your flaws and constant introspection. Don’t stop ❤❤❤ 🎉!
I started watching you in 2017 for my first trip to Paris and have enjoyed your videos. I pass them along to friends who want to visit Paris and they have appreciated them as well. Everything you said in this video really resonated with me. I appreciate your candor and vulnerability. As for future videos, I like when you visit surrounding areas of Paris. Also, a now vs then look at a few of your older videos might be interesting i.e. how things may have changed or what you would have done differently. At any rate, I am wishing that this coming year brings you and Cooper better health overall. 🫶🏼
I found you for the Paris content and 2 years later I'm here for the inner work that you're doing. I live in a rural area in the US and emotional intelligence/maturity just isn't valued or encouraged. Familial obligations and conditional relationships are the status quo. I really value that you're willing to share your journey because I struggle with many of the same themes. So you're helping at least one person feel a little less alone ❤.
I think the glasses are good. And estranged family issues are so hard. My spouse came from abuse in his home, so I'm an outsider in some ways to the situation but also a witness to how all of those family dynamics play out as adults and it's very hard at times. Wishing you good luck getting the health answers you need. I started out watching because of tourism info 5 years ago, but now I'm just kind of interested/invested in how you are doing and how your life is going.
Jay, We have been subscribers since 2021 when we found you preparing for a trip to Paris. We devoured your videos on practical advice for visiting Paris (saying bonjour, how to order, etc) and your advice and videos gave us the best trip! I was so confident in Paris because of you. We also love seeing our favorite city through you. Take care of yourself and we watch all of your content so make what makes you happy! Much love from South Carolina.
Why am I here? Been watching you for several years. I enjoy watching personal development, our individual journeys thru time. I am of another generation. My kids are of the generation between you and I. You are part of my link into understanding what it your generation is experiencing.
Interestingly, you said it in your closing: I watch because I enjoy having Paris brought to me. I was finally able to visit a couple of years ago, and enjoyed it immensely--largely, I believe, because your information gave me reasonable expectations as well as great travel advice. But now that I'm back home and not likely to return to Paris soon, I very much enjoy the glimpses I get from you for occasional virtual visits--and not the touristy stuff that so many other sites do, but Paris as a living, breathing, modern city--warts and all. So thank you!
Life doesn’t have to be exposed to the world. Remain sane at all costs. Well, mostly sane. Privacy matters. Do what feels best for you. I’ll watch whenever you pop up. I simply appreciate your approach. Sub here and PimP…just noticed That acronym! 😄 and will continue to
I was introduced to you via a Nathaniel Drew video a few years back and while I definitely love the Paris content and your refreshingly unique filming style, I think the reason I stick around the most is the personal struggles you share and the high level of self-reflection that you engage in to work through them. I think part of your magic is that you demonstrate/elucidate to/for others how to actually start working through mental blocks (or the struggles of balance in daily life), whatever they may be, in a really practical and productive way for themselves. It's inspiring. I mean, we can read all the self-help books we want, but sometimes we just need to see/hear what those techniques actually look like in the real world to want to engage in them ourselves, so thank you for being that teacher/mirror. Related note: Sorry you're going through another period of struggle/stress. Hopefully you find your way through it with relative ease.
Echoing many of the same comments. Found you in 2019 when planning a trip to Spain/France and we knew nothing about Bayonne. Your video with Pujan showed up and I’ve never left…love your story telling regardless of whether it’s personal or Paris content.
But also wanted to ask if you’ve used MoneyCorp for transfers and how it compares to Wize, if you have any feedback? We’re moving to Nice this spring and our immigration lawyer advised opening a French bank account and making monthly deposits/transfers. Thanks for any thoughts you have 😊
Hi Jay! I’ve been a viewer for a few years and what you do is valuable! I like the variety of your videos. I was brought to your channel because I am a Francophile and I like seeing Paris but I’ve come to like all the variety in video types. I like the reflections you have in your apartment that then challenge me to look at things going on in my life differently. I like the vlogs but I don’t think they need to be daily. I also just like the strolls around Paris or exploring Paris with you.
Your channel and You definitely have value in my life and I thank you for the value that you do bring into my life. Thank you. I almost died in 2020 and part of my healing journey including RUclips. I picked a few channels to subscribe to and your daily videos really helped bring life back into my body! I don’t know how else to say it Jay…you helped save my sanity. 🙏🏻☕️Merci
I’ve watched you for years. At first for info on Paris as we traveled there frequently and I loved your take on Paris. The way you shoot your videos is incredible. I love seeing your life in Paris and how you are doing. You’re an interesting and intelligent guy and after all these years i feel I know you ☺️. Your life is interesting. You’ve done what only most ppl dream of. I wish you much success and will always watch !
Started to watch you because I was interested in your Paris recommendations. Then got into your life. Love real life videos of Paris daily life to continue. Regardless wishing you the very best, you are the real deal.
Thank you, Jay! First, for me, you resonate as an “Everyman”. You come across as honest and real. I started watching you during Covid, initially drawn by my interest in France, and then I was hooked by your personal sincerity, and your drive to “find” a high path to self realization. I love the travel aspect of Paris in my Pocket, and hope to see it grow; but my interest in, my feeling of respect for, and my sense of loyalty to your Jay Swanson channel is what keeps me rooting for your happiness and your success. Your content speaks to my own inner being, my own questions, and my own desire for self actualization. I will be interested in, and looking forward to just about anything that you feel called to share. My sincerest good wishes for happiness and success in your romantic relationships, friendships, business projects, creative endeavors, and family dynamics; and especially for your good health…and for Cooper’s! Anyone would be fortunate to have you as a friend, a confidante, or a partner. I like to believe that while it is important to find joy in our lives; that also, it is the difficult times that end up giving us the most satisfaction when we look back and see the benefit we have received through facing them, and working through them. I feel certain that you will find the strength and good fortune to get through this next phase of your life, triumphantly, with dignity, and wisdom. Thank you for sharing your journey, and being a beacon of light and hope for those of us who follow you. 🌞✨🌻
Jay, I feel like we are friends that have never met, I found your videos many years ago now, pre Covid whilst researching a French trip which my 2 sisters and I came on, and I have stuck around because I like your video content, be it a garage monologue, your travels, your daily life, family, the adorable Cooper…. The list goes on! I will continue to travel on this video journey with you as long as you continue to make videos. The last thing I want is for you to be unhappy or unwell, but whilst you are on RUclips, I’ll be here. I don’t really do the Instagram reels stuff much, I prefer being able to see you here xx Good luck and thinking of you and sending a big hug x❤ Karen xx
I started watching your videos to catch glimpses of Paris and of France. I keep coming back for you, though. If I met you in real life, I would want to be your friend. I love your authenticity, your meandering considerations, your examined life.
Hi Jay, I too suffer from migraines, so I understand about not being able to discern when I am truly sick. Times of transition are challenging especially since it affects your team as well. Hoping you find the right balance between work and life. I enjoy your thoughtful discussions about life, the universe, and everything.
Hi Jay. From someone who's been following a long time I see you and Paris as inextricably linked - it's a winning formula, but that can feel constraining and I think you feel that sometimes. But I would embrace it - Astaire and Rogers were great on their own, but their double act was so much more than the sum of the parts and it's kinda the same with you and Paris - like it or not, you're great together :) I really love your content when it allows me to have my finger on the pulse of the city (where to go, what's happening, meeting interesting people), even when I'm away. Your audience is maturing and will become more discerning - try leading them into more of the things people inevitably appreciate more as they move into their 30s and 40s - art, history, culture, dining, etc and if that seems daunting then a few interesting Parisian guests on your channels could help broaden the Jay+Paris universe. Get this right and you'll have a sustainable business model for years... just my 2 bits.
I found you through your daily vlogs after we got back from Paris last year. I found your vlogs insightful and the mix of going to places around Paris after we had been there for a week was a real treat. What I got from your content was interesting seeds of thought with the background of Paris. I always have room for "mini-essayists" and Paris is a wonderful treat to see at the same time.
My feedback on why I watch this channel: 1) It is interesting seeing how you live in Paris and how different it is than living in the States. 2) Like many I started watching because I was going to visit Paris for the 1st time and wanted advice on the Metro, what to see etc. So I got some information and I visited. 3) What has kept me watching is, and this will sound weird is, I like you and your thoughts. You are likable and it feels as though you are a friend or someone if I knew in my life, I would want to hang out with you. So I watch to see what is going on in your life. I like the way your mind works and want to hear what is going on with you. There has not been one video that is boring or mundane. So whatever you want to put out I will watch. Hope this helps. Good luck on your financial struggles and with dealing with pain. I wish I could help.
I like watching the vlogs about the ordinary lives of people in France. Maybe you can do some travelling to French villages and hidden spots (that's cheap to travel), which might be good for your mental health too. A vlog about hospitals and healthcare in paris for locals and expats, the differences, the good, the bad and the ugly (based on your recent experience ) might be a good idea.
Hey Jay, I’ve been watching your videos for a few years now, at first because I have a big fascination with Paris. You seemed interesting and entertaining, and I wanted to follow along to see where you would go in your life. I felt like you were someone that I could relate to, someone I would want to be friends with in real life. I have to say the last couple of years I began to question whether watching your videos was worth my time. It seemed like you had reached a plateau or something. Like something was holding you back. BUT, after watching today’s video, I’m so glad that I didn’t unsubscribe. Somehow, you explained things about your life that I always wondered about. I feel like you were your authentic self today, or at least as much as you’re able to at this time. I just wanted to let you know that I believe in you and I believe you are on the right track as far as your video content. I’m rooting for you to find what you want in life. Please continue with what you’re doing. You are a kind, good-hearted person. I can tell that you really care about people. Please take care of yourself. There are some of us out here who benefit from hearing what you have to say. Blessings to you, Cooper, and your family.
I intially began watching your channel because of the Paris aspect, having lived very briefly in Paris many years back. One of those life experiences that I am so glad I opened the windows to. You are a very curious person which is so great and refreshing to witness. You seem to continually revisit the questions you have regarding your life. You take chances not only in movements but in just looking. Yes, doing so brings up all kinds of stuff to wade through as you clearly are aware. I really wish the very best for you, your pursuits and, of course, Cooper. I will continue to tune in. Thank you and be well!
I’ve followed you since around 2018 mainly because I LOVE Paris and I enjoyed watching your daily life in Paris. Hope you are starting to feel a bit better….take care. Aroha from New Zealand.
Take care of yourself, Jay. I'm a long-time viewer and appreciate you and your content. You're one of the very few people that I follow, not because of a specific interest I have but just because I like you as a person. I'm not even that interested in Paris/France. I relate to your experience as an immigrant, and I admire how you approach life and share your story with us. I find it inspirational. I also struggle with many of the same things you talk about, but I'm much more pessimistic about them. Seeing another perspective on it is very helpful. Thank you very much for that.
Started watching for the Paris info maybe 2 years ago...stuck around for the personal stuff because I have some strained familial relationships and your candidness about steps you've taken to minimize further emotional damage is very insightful and helpful for me. I tend to be very perfunctory in how I relate to my feelings or thoughts. You are very reflective. I like it. I'm recalling the you had that video about Cooper being needy and how you respond to it. It was not only intriguing but touching.
I really enjoyed the longer vlogs you made last year while travelling in Europe. I remember the really cool , beautifully shot and edited trips to the U.K. with friends, your trip to Marseille, Corsica.. sharing your life and discoveries, really lovely. BTW these glasses are perfect for you 😀
First I love you in glasses. It's a very cool look. I follow a handful of influencers who have had to change their content, especially women who concentrated on fashion and all things girly. But times are changing, and a few have dropped out completely from YT. The surviving ones are now sharing their thoughts on their place in a changing worldwide culture. Some are sharing more of their art in videography, arts and crafts and just small day to day moments that are like little jewels. I find it more interesting then just the former superficial content. So go ahead and share everything, your thoughts on what's going on in Paris and France, your travels, your walks through Paris doing just ordinary day to day things, your art and coffee chats and enjoying French food, books and if you are comfortable with it, how you handle your family dynamics. I think their are an awful lot of people who can relate. Don't be stoic - take care of yourself.
Hey! J I’ve been watching you 4 many, many years now. And will continue to watch. Just keep doing what you do on this channel. Take one day at a time.Please take care of yourself. And I ❤ the glasses 👓 by the way :)
I saw someone wrote that 'it feels like we are friends that never met', i think thats a nice way of putting it.
Hi Jay! To be honest, I haven’t watched a video in a while because Paris isn’t so much a part of my life anymore and I’m not interested in the travel stuff as much, but I definitely watched THIS because I am invested in you as a person and your life story after so many years of watching your videos. I care about you and what happens to you. As I was watching I had a thought about a possible direction, putting some pieces together with writing, creating, sharing. I am wondering if there is a “self help” book that is waiting inside of you. The things you have been working so hard to figure out and grow from might have nuggets of wisdom for others. Anyway, I get stress that gets to the level of coming out in pain and distress and I hope you can continue to manage the stress. Best wishes to you, my friend.
I selfishly want this channel to continue forever. There have been a number of exceedingly lonely times where your videos have provided connection and some mirroring that was sorely needed.
That said:
The last thing that you should do is continue if it is impacting your health and wellbeing or the success of any of your endeavors.
Paris in my Pocket has been an absolute godsend in my last couple trips to Paris as well.
You’re successful and a bright beacon to others in more ways than you know.
Thank you for being. Keep it up.
Hey Jay. I’ve been watching your videos for many years and for me what keeps me coming back is that 1) I’m curious about people’s lifestyles in other places (menial day to day stuff and projects as well) 2) Paris is a fascinating place, so catching glimpses of it on the go is awesome 3) the chill vibe and music relaxes me, I like watching it during breakfast 4) last but not least, it doesn’t hurt that you’re very charismatic, positive, and interesting guy.
In summary, just catching you doing you in Paris is good enough for me.
Sincerely wish you all the best with your challenges
Jay-Longtime listener and Patreon member. I originally found you because I wanted to move to France and watching your content gave me a way to be in contact with France everyday and the dream life that I wanted. Fast forward a number of years now and I have moved to Paris and while I don’t necessarily need the Paris content I do refer it to others often and when I am visiting the city…I reference it frequently to reacquaint myself. Now, the thing that has really kept me here is the process of watching your personal growth journey and using that as a way of questioning my own. As you have been willing to share your struggles and your growth I have found it to be inspirational and that is the content that keeps me showing up. Your journey is inspirational and you don’t have to do anything to make that so, just keep being you and allowing us to see the real you. I recently celebrated your French citizenship and was inspired to know that one day that is also now possible for me! Bon journée Jay!
I’m following you because you come across very authentic, honest and kind!! I’m praying for your health and may your find your happiness and purpose.😊🙏
I think finding a compassionate, empathetic, smart therapist will pay dividends. SO GLAD you're considering it.
Just look after yourself Jay and take your time to figure things out. We're here for you.😎
Jay, I found you when Notre Dame was burning...and I have loved your daily vlogs. I am crying knowing about your mom. I can relate...and the body does keep the score...what I most want is for you to take care of yourself as that is what listening to you reminds me to do.
Please take care of yourself.
Thank you for all your content over time.
And you did help me get through the pandemic. Thank you for that.
Hi, Jay!Bless your heart!
The hospital is no fun( I was a nurse for MANY years)… first and foremost, take good care of yourself!!!
You can’t go forward without good health ( both physical and mental), of which I’m sure you’re aware!
You will prevail through all of these hurdles… your future is bright, because you care and love life!!
🌸❤️
Jay, I’ve watched your videos initially for insight on Paris life. What ended up adding to that was realizing your personal journey connected me and so many others to you! Your vulnerability is the connection;the struggles,doubts,self growth and self care. Your journey matters wherever it takes you! Your past does not define who you are now, embrace it and stay well! ❤
I came here to see Paris years ago after my first visit there. Your channel cheered me during covid, and I shared posts with friends. You have matured, and I stay because I have grown so fond of you. I wish every success to you and your team in the future. Thank you.
I’m interested in seeing the behind the scenes of your work as a creator, whether it’s as a writer or as a video creator or films. That means the process, the struggles, your feelings about it, etc.
I just wrote a whole thank you speech, but I decided to break it down to: I came for the Paris content and stayed for your personality.
I'm pretty sure that's what your community is here for. You can't really go wrong.
The "20 in 20" series, being guided through the Louvre or ranking croissants were so fun and helpful, because I like being prepared.
And I still love the Paris content, but it's because of the way you present it.
I would really enjoy getting to know more of you (only as far as want to share of course), like the phantasy writer side or daily life in Paris.
I wish you all the energy, luck, success, inner calm and love that you need and deserve.
Cheering for you from Cologne.
I've been following you for many years. Started watching your videos because of Paris but now I mostly watch because of you as a person and your personal growth. I'm also interested in how you deal with your family and the relationship with your new boyfriend. No stress, I will always be here for you, sleep and rest as much as you can. Love and hugs 🤗 Anna.
We first found you from a 20 in 20 video. We were planning our honeymoon trip to France in 2023. We were looking at hotels in Paris and wanted to check out where they were. We loved the video so we used your others to plan where we wanted to go as we only had three days in Paris.
We carried on watching you because we liked watching and buying into your journey.
Moving on you were one of the reasons we moved towards discussing relocating to France. Combined with our experiences of the country and watching you and a couple of others, especially Les frenchies we were helped in coming to the decision to start the process. We are now in the middle of purchasing our forever home in the Charente, after successfully receiving our visas.
We continue to watch, partially to catch views of scenery that remind us of our wonderful trip, but also catch up with your story.
“O’Doyle Rules!” I apologize that this is one of my takeaways from this heartfelt blog, but I got your Billy Madison reference. That, and I need to check in on my accountant. 😂
Seriously though, I hope you feel better soon. Rest up and get yourself centered. We’ll all still be here when you return. For me, I came originally for travel information, but I stayed because I wanted to follow your daily life. So, as long as you’re willing to share what you’re up to, I’m happy to keep watching and supporting you! Cheers!
I’m so sorry you’ve been having a rough go and hope things change for the better soon. I found your channel while researching for a trip to France that never happened (thanks, Covid). I stayed because I like YOU. Your thoughts resonate with me. Your personality grounds, comforts, and uplifts me. I never end one of your videos feeling worse. Rather, always better. I hope you’re able to continue both channels but not at the expense of your mental or physical health. Sending you hugs and Cooper some ear scratches. Thanks for bringing joy to my days.
I’m traveling to Paris in a few months and went down the planning rabbit hole this evening, which led to a Reddit thread that recommended your videos. I started by watching the videos most relevant to my trip (about practicalities and the area we’ll be staying in) but then I found this one after quickly becoming enamored with you and wanting to learn more. You obviously have a gift for connecting with viewers and your vulnerability here just amplifies that in a really beautiful way. I’ll be purchasing your guide and look forward to keeping up with your content in whatever form (and on whatever timeline) you ultimately choose. Cheers from someone really new to the party but no less happy to be here. ❤
Found you in 2017 when planning a trip to Paris, had that "who is this guy?" moment, never left.
"O'Doyle rules!"
Hope you are well friend.
I'm invested in your journey, so I hope you continue to share it with us.
I'm here for the Paris content, but I'm also here for the ups and downs of your journey. I'm always looking forward to the next chapter.
Take care of yourself. I recently took a tumble and fractured my left radius. It's frustrating when things go awry but try to remind yourself of all the things you have to be thankful for. Everyone is dealing with something. Being resilient is a good skill to have. Hugs.
I love the vulnerability, Jay. I’m sorry things have been so stressful. I too have had a rough six months and have been doing a lot of self reflection as well. Just because you are in the best city in the world (IMO) doesn’t mean you are no longer susceptible to stress. Hang in there, you do great work!
👍😎 I've lived through difficult long phases too of things you mentioned with family, being very ill, money problems, losing a parent and can tell you this too shall pass, so hang in there.
Hey Jay. I’ve been watching you to about five years and found you by chance. I’ve enjoyed all that you’ve shared and your honesty. You should be very proud of yourself. You have accomplished so much. Just keep being you.
We’ve been on the ride with you for several years. Thank you for giving us all the Paris content and a peek into your life. Jay, what we both would like from you…is content that brings you peace and joy, we will follow along. BTW-in Paris right now enjoying snow! Weird when you’re from South Dakota and your first snow of the season is in Paris!
Like so many others here, it's simply interesting to see how you're living in Paris. I began watching probably 2-3 years ago when I was planning my first trip to Paris and was really intersted to see what the Olympics were like from your perspective. I'm so proud of you for learning the language and becoming a citizen, that is such a cool accomplishment. I literally woke up in the middle of the night last night and for some reason you popped into my head and I wondered how you are doing. Thank you for the update. I'll keep you in my prayers.
Hi Jay. My wife and I have been watching for a few years. We enjoy both "streams" of what you do (Paris and "your life"). We enjoy the vlogs with friends, trips to restaurants, coffee shops, bars etc. Be nice to see more of France - we loved your La Rochelle videos so much that we are going there for a week in February. Purely because of the way you presented it.
Hey Jay! You def have a great deal of value. You have shown me the real side of Paris and it’s amazing.
I’d like to see more of your daily life in Paris!
I started watching you in 2017 because of TAPIF but stayed because a lot of our ambitions were aligned at the time (I’m a writer too). You were (and still are) a great inspiration for me and I love watching you for your philosophical talks.
Also as a bookworm, I would LOVE content related to your fiction journey
Hi Jay, I first stumbled upon your daily vlogs at the start of the pandemic, and it was purely by chance. What really drew me in was how you shared the journey of navigating Paris as a traveler-the beautiful experiences, your growing circle of friends, and the excursions beyond the city. But if I'm being honest, what kept me coming back was the genuine hope I had that you'd find your happy place. There's something in all of us that wants to root for the "underdog," and I found myself wanting to stay connected to see you hit your end-of-year "champagne bottle" goals, and more recently, reach your dream of French citizenship. Life has a way of getting busy, but I always find myself circling back to your videos. It's been wonderful to see the progress you've made, and the inner growth you're experiencing. While I’m not typically a dog person, I have to admit, I’ve grown quite fond of Cooper, and I still get a lot of joy from your daily Paris adventures. Please take care of yourself-whether the challenges you're facing are rooted in somatic anxiety or something more physiological. The world is definitely better with a Jay Swanson in it!! Wishing you a happy holiday season and an awesome 2025!
Take care!
Thank you for being open, honest and vulnerable. All some of the best skills any of us can have in our life toolkit.
Jay. Cant tell you enough what an influence you have been on me. Your videos both on self reflection and travel tips for Paris gave me the courage to get out and travel. See the places I have always wanted to see. Love Paris/France. Cant wait to get back next year. You take care of you. I'm sure you have had a positive affect on many. You make the content that makes you happy, gives you pride. The tips and trips of Paris are great. Even if we have been watching for years, your tours of Paris keep us updated on the changes. For those of us who have invested in your journey, you share with us what you want. We are always interested in where you are at in live, and where you are going. Again, thank you for the life lessons you have given me. Take care!!!!
For us it started with Paris and we will always have a deep love for Paris and all things Paris. We really love that about your content and it helped us immensely with our own trip to Paris. More importantly, your openness, your consistency, love your video editing, your willingness to share things in a positive manner always brings us back. Seeing you grow and change in and with Paris has been an extraordinary adventure. You are awesome Jay! Thank you!
Jay I found your channel during Covid and was so drawn to your warm, friendly personality. I loved hearing about your life in Paris and little did I know at the time that I would end up living here for a while and your knowledge and recommendations would be so useful. But mainly I agree with all the above comments, I watch because of you, your vulnerability and honesty and your journey with all life’s ups and downs. I’m sure there are great things ahead for you whatever path you decide to follow and I’m sticking with you whichever path you take. Look after yourself.
I’m just so happy you’ve found someone to cherish and love (sorry if I’m sounding like a greeting card)
I started watching when I was deciding which arrondissement to stay in on my first trip to Paris last year (I picked the 9th). I kept watching because I enjoyed your unique perspective on Paris and life in general. I look forward to watching the new videos when they come out. Also you have great taste in coffee! I tried KB after seeing it in your videos and it did not disappoint.
I came for the escapism to Parisian life. I stayed for the thoughtful meditations on what it means to live. Thank you for both.
Like many others, I found you while planning a trip to Paris. I stayed for your heartfelt content as I am invested as a virtual friend from across the pond. You're a creative. Your content is always valuable and appreciated. It was smart to separate PIMP from your channel (branding and focus). Take the time you need to prioritize your health and enjoy life! PS J'adore les lunettes!
Jay, you touch lives in the most wonderful ways! You pose philosophical questions and have ideas (and courage) to share with the World! I am drawn to your work all the way from California. Having watched this video we rushed to do a movie night with wine, Midnight in Paris. Thanks for the inspiration!
Hi- I started watching because I was moving to Paris for a year in 2022. I went to lots of your coffee and sandwich spots. What really hooked me was you.
Your honesty, your openness. Haven’t watched since I’ve been back in the US but you just came up on my feed.
Still wonderful.
I’ll be looking at ways to financially contribute.
Best of luck.
Hi, Life is tough sometimes, especially in the midst of a tough time your body jumps in too! I’m glad your stomach is improving the power of the mind on the body is insane! I am grateful for your artistry in the style of your vlogs they’re unique plus your knowledge is exceptional. Reading some of the comments you have a lot of unknown to you friends and fans who wish you wonderful success!
Hi Jay. First some advice, then I will try to answer your question. I went through a tough 5 years with my family which took a toll on me physically and mentally, and I realized that without my health, I have nothing. Focus on your health, reducing what is causing stress, and find peace. As far as this channel goes, I need nothing from it … just keep be being yourself and find a rhythm that works for you. You are an interesting and charismatic person and that is why I am here. With ParisInMyPocket it is already a very useful tool, thanks for making that. It made my trip to Paris in July very much more interesting. Take care of yourself.
Jay, I just have to say,
You're like the friend that I don't have in "real time". Your analytic style and questioning self, while casually rolling around Paris, all the while showering us with bevvy of datapoints is incredibly enjoyable. I find myself smiling when I watch you, the wit dry. Carry on and see the beauty! Thank you!
Been watching you for 5-6 years now. Originally started watching to get recommendations for places to visit and eat in Paris but stuck around to see you develop and grow as a person. I enjoy your videos because you are open and transparent. I'll be sticking around to watch your videos in the future. Wish you the best my fellow Washingtonian.
As always thank you for sharing Jay, you’ve built a lovely community here and there is much support for you 🌟 I followed you to Paris from Spokane, for the Paris content and to cheer you on creating a life in a city I love, and would also hope to make a life in, and stayed because like many I invested in you and your personality, all you bring and it’s been wonderful seeing your journey unfold so far. Cheering you on as always from a chilly coastal town in the UK 🎉
Been along for the journey since 2019 or so…found you because I adore Paris and really enjoyed your content - how you “keep it real” and relatable.
I came for Paris, then stayed for you. I relate to your personal growth and your musings on life. I still enjoy the videos on Paris though! Hope you feel better soon .
Hope your doctor's appointment goes well, Jay. I have been following you for many years now and I love all of your content. I will never be able to go to Paris so I get to vicariously see all that Paris has to offer through your eyes. I love watching your personal journey also. I enjoyed watching you renovate your tiny apartment and also love your interactions with your friends. Cooper is a sweet addition as well. Whatever you do, I will enjoy watching the journey. Best wishes to you in all of your endeavours.
I feel like myself and everyone around me is currently going through all manner of things. This world we are in now is something else. We'll all get through this somehow, but it is indeed difficult to have optimism.
As someone who is married to a French person, it is the little things in France that I adore most. Going to the pharmacie or enjoying lunch at the nearest brasserie. It is those things that I enjoy seeing in your videos as well and that is what originally brought you to my attention all those years ago. Keep up the good work in your own time, we'll still be here.
Your glasses are mesmerizing🤩.
Hello friend. I think all of your videos have added value to my life in different ways. I really appreciate your honest and raw "this is where my life is now" stuff, as well as the tours of and recommendations for Paris. I find it all valuable. I also find it interesting that migraines have been a common theme in my family along with the abuse (and the "do I really have anything to offer of value... am I worthy?"). Thank you for connecting the dots. Take care of you FIRST, Cooper second and then worry about the rest of the world. Keep putting your beautiful and positive energy out there and we will continue to flock to it. Thank you for being a light for many of us and I look forward to continuing to see it grow. Much love to you!
It was Paris which brought me to you in the first instance but then I started following your life through the daily vlogs and have been here ever since. Would be great to see some behind the scenes when you re- edit your books or produce the video trailer you talked about a few weeks ago. Also I’m there for any Paris content- goes without saying! Your gut issues sound like IBS to me ( I’m no Doctor btw!) so make sure you do zone out completely for the rest of this week, you’re in the perfect city to do just that. Take good care of yourself Jay!
I hope things get better all around. Rooting for you!
Now that you have mentioned. It would be interesting to know more about your journey in Paris... as a business owner! I have seen sooo many videos of expats in Paris and France of students, retirees, and people who found employment despite their limited french. Detailed videos about establishing a CREATIVE business, finding an good accountant, building your team, etc. would really be a big help. Thanks, Jay!
We've been watching you for years and support you on Patreon. We enjoy coming along on the journey of your content creation and your personal growth. My husband has read a couple of your books. You have helped me with my mental health, and I've even written down some of the insightful things you've said. We appreciate you.
Take care of yourself Jay. Glad to hear you're seeing someone and that's been nourishing. You deserve that big time. I think you know that you sold me way back when on the adventure of experiencing the ins and outs of you following your dreams. I love it and find it inspiring when you're taking us along on that ride but none the less it's nothing you owe any of us no matter how long we've been around. First and foremost, be there for you. THEN you can figure out what you're providing others. All my best to you in the current weather.
Dear Jay.. I’ve been following you for a long time. ..you are a true gem dear.. I’m so thankful for who you are and your strength.. I really don’t know how to thank you for being you!! Lots of love and Belgian chocolates and hope to meet you to hand you over them chocolates 😊xx
I stick around because I like listening to your perspective on things. I enjoy all your videos. I’ve bought your book. I guess I’m just invested in you as a person. I wish you all the success and pray for your good health…to you and for your team.
I’ve seen people saying that you’re like the friend we’ve never met and that about covers it I think. Happy holidays.
I came for the French content but i enjoy the podcast, the monologs, sometimes i feel like we are having a conversation and that helps for my mental state.
Why am I here? Well, 23 years ago I went to Europe for a month in-between my college semesters. I visited Rennes, Paris and London. A bunch a years ago I got an inheritance and wanted to return to Paris. This time with my children who are 8 and 11. In my year of planning, I watched almost all or your travel videos and based our day-to-day travel plans around the insight I got from your "Paris in my Pocket" travel videos. I also started watching your regular content because it gave me an insight into who you are, what your tastes/perspectives are and just enjoy the journey that you are on especially watching you engage with the Paris Olympics. I did my second trip to Paris with my kids from Christmas Day to New Years Eve. We got an AIRBNB, traveled the metro like a pro, didn't get pick pocketed and saw all of the sights we wanted to see and then some. We even took in the Parcs des Buttes-Chaumont which is a place you recommended a while back. (We happened to be in the neighborhood getting French language Pokemon cards for my son, as well as pastries and cheeses from local shops in the area). I can't wait to see what you put together next and would love to see you doing "walking tour" style videos where you visit certain parts of Paris in a day revolving around a theme like Earnest Hemingway, Jazz or Amelie. Tell me if its worth it to visit Amelie's restaurant (I've been told it isn't) or whether you feel inspired visiting the parks that Hemingway frequented (I'm told he was so destitute he strangled pigeons so that he could have food for dinner) or what I could expect out of the music scene. Or visit other places. I would like to see the world and it does help when you see if for me first! Take care and great videos.
I went into le Cafe de deux Moulins when I was in Paris six months ago and I thought it was totally worth it! I went in an used the bathroom and took a video walking around the cafe. I was thrilled to be there. I totally recommend going in if you are a fan of Amelie!
Love the glasses. I’ve been watching for at least 6 years, as I started when I lived in Rennes and I moved to the SW of France in February 2020. I like listening to your voice. I like seeing Cooper. I like seeing you with friends, traveling and being in Paris.
As a school nurse in the states, I tracked kiddos with head and tummy pain, to see what class they were in or if they would come to the clinic on a Friday afternoon. Stress and pain are not a comfortable combo. I agree with a self help book as I feel you have lots of words of wisdom.
Sending healing support from Gensac and again, let me know if you need a nurse on call. ❤
Watching this I realise I’ve been watching since 2017 after a trip to Paris and wanting more. So initially I was here for Paris content but along the way have gotten to know and care for you ( as much as one can as strangers via RUclips 😀) so I’m here for all of it! I think the fact I’ve seen growth in you has kept me coming back. The filming and editing side has always been top notch. ❤
I like your humour and think you’re really brave.
Hi, just got back from Paris. Your videos really made our trip. They were spot on. We visited The Shakespeare Cafe, Le Bouliion at Chartier, Le Cinq Marches. Your tips about the IDF card made life much easier. We did other stuff too but your top tips made everything go smoothly. Thank you so much. I hope everything works out, I’m sure it will!
Came here once to watch videos about Paris but now (and for a long time already) staying here to watch what YOU are telling us about Paris (and Cooper
First of all, my wish is for you to be well. Nothing is more important than your health. I found your videos a few years ago and look forward to each one. To answer your question, I keep coming back for a couple reasons: Paris is one of my favorite places and your content allows me to re-live what I love best about the city. Your videos are truthful - not everything is great and you tell us that - and I especially like how you find out-of-the-way spots to share.
Second, I come back because you're real without being maudlin. It's too easy for people to think content creators have it made and live this fantasy life. You're honest with us, which makes you relatable. Take care.
Been following you since 2018 - what have I gotten from you? What do I want to see more of? Well my visits to Paris were forever changed, as a Boca Raton babe I’d never take a subway. Your tips and tricks for getting around on the metro turned Paris into my own Disney and the monorail 😂 Great spots to grab a rose on the seine, take photos, how to order simple water, uncovering Arr. and what they offer. You are the Rick Steves of a new generation! Not to mention great videography and music, I’ve copied your style for my own clips for our family, which will be timelessly cool. As a person we love your realness your flaws and constant introspection. Don’t stop ❤❤❤ 🎉!
I started watching you in 2017 for my first trip to Paris and have enjoyed your videos. I pass them along to friends who want to visit Paris and they have appreciated them as well. Everything you said in this video really resonated with me. I appreciate your candor and vulnerability. As for future videos, I like when you visit surrounding areas of Paris. Also, a now vs then look at a few of your older videos might be interesting i.e. how things may have changed or what you would have done differently. At any rate, I am wishing that this coming year brings you and Cooper better health overall. 🫶🏼
I found you for the Paris content and 2 years later I'm here for the inner work that you're doing. I live in a rural area in the US and emotional intelligence/maturity just isn't valued or encouraged. Familial obligations and conditional relationships are the status quo. I really value that you're willing to share your journey because I struggle with many of the same themes. So you're helping at least one person feel a little less alone ❤.
I think the glasses are good. And estranged family issues are so hard. My spouse came from abuse in his home, so I'm an outsider in some ways to the situation but also a witness to how all of those family dynamics play out as adults and it's very hard at times. Wishing you good luck getting the health answers you need.
I started out watching because of tourism info 5 years ago, but now I'm just kind of interested/invested in how you are doing and how your life is going.
Jay, We have been subscribers since 2021 when we found you preparing for a trip to Paris. We devoured your videos on practical advice for visiting Paris (saying bonjour, how to order, etc) and your advice and videos gave us the best trip! I was so confident in Paris because of you. We also love seeing our favorite city through you. Take care of yourself and we watch all of your content so make what makes you happy! Much love from South Carolina.
Why am I here? Been watching you for several years. I enjoy watching personal development, our individual journeys thru time. I am of another generation. My kids are of the generation between you and I. You are part of my link into understanding what it your generation is experiencing.
Interestingly, you said it in your closing: I watch because I enjoy having Paris brought to me. I was finally able to visit a couple of years ago, and enjoyed it immensely--largely, I believe, because your information gave me reasonable expectations as well as great travel advice. But now that I'm back home and not likely to return to Paris soon, I very much enjoy the glimpses I get from you for occasional virtual visits--and not the touristy stuff that so many other sites do, but Paris as a living, breathing, modern city--warts and all. So thank you!
Life doesn’t have to be exposed to the world. Remain sane at all costs. Well, mostly sane. Privacy matters. Do what feels best for you. I’ll watch whenever you pop up. I simply appreciate your approach. Sub here and PimP…just noticed That acronym! 😄 and will continue to
I was introduced to you via a Nathaniel Drew video a few years back and while I definitely love the Paris content and your refreshingly unique filming style, I think the reason I stick around the most is the personal struggles you share and the high level of self-reflection that you engage in to work through them. I think part of your magic is that you demonstrate/elucidate to/for others how to actually start working through mental blocks (or the struggles of balance in daily life), whatever they may be, in a really practical and productive way for themselves. It's inspiring. I mean, we can read all the self-help books we want, but sometimes we just need to see/hear what those techniques actually look like in the real world to want to engage in them ourselves, so thank you for being that teacher/mirror. Related note: Sorry you're going through another period of struggle/stress. Hopefully you find your way through it with relative ease.
Echoing many of the same comments. Found you in 2019 when planning a trip to Spain/France and we knew nothing about Bayonne. Your video with Pujan showed up and I’ve never left…love your story telling regardless of whether it’s personal or Paris content.
But also wanted to ask if you’ve used MoneyCorp for transfers and how it compares to Wize, if you have any feedback? We’re moving to Nice this spring and our immigration lawyer advised opening a French bank account and making monthly deposits/transfers. Thanks for any thoughts you have 😊
Hi Jay! I’ve been a viewer for a few years and what you do is valuable! I like the variety of your videos. I was brought to your channel because I am a Francophile and I like seeing Paris but I’ve come to like all the variety in video types. I like the reflections you have in your apartment that then challenge me to look at things going on in my life differently. I like the vlogs but I don’t think they need to be daily. I also just like the strolls around Paris or exploring Paris with you.
Your channel and You definitely have value in my life and I thank you for the value that you do bring into my life. Thank you. I almost died in 2020 and part of my healing journey including RUclips. I picked a few channels to subscribe to and your daily videos really helped bring life back into my body! I don’t know how else to say it Jay…you helped save my sanity. 🙏🏻☕️Merci
I’ve watched you for years. At first for info on Paris as we traveled there frequently and I loved your take on Paris. The way you shoot your videos is incredible. I love seeing your life in Paris and how you are doing. You’re an interesting and intelligent guy and after all these years i feel I know you ☺️. Your life is interesting. You’ve done what only most ppl dream of. I wish you much success and will always watch !
sending you a big hug , hope you take the time you need for yourself and recoup ♥ Love always your videos, commentary and insight on life and Paris
Started to watch you because I was interested in your Paris recommendations. Then got into your life. Love real life videos of Paris daily life to continue. Regardless wishing you the very best, you are the real deal.
Thank you, Jay!
First, for me, you resonate as an “Everyman”. You come across as honest and real. I started watching you during Covid, initially drawn by my interest in France, and then I was hooked by your personal sincerity, and your drive to “find” a high path to self realization. I love the travel aspect of Paris in my Pocket, and hope to see it grow; but my interest in, my feeling of respect for, and my sense of loyalty to your Jay Swanson channel is what keeps me rooting for your happiness and your success. Your content speaks to my own inner being, my own questions, and my own desire for self actualization. I will be interested in, and looking forward to just about anything that you feel called to share.
My sincerest good wishes for happiness and success in your romantic relationships, friendships, business projects, creative endeavors, and family dynamics; and especially for your good health…and for Cooper’s!
Anyone would be fortunate to have you as a friend, a confidante, or a partner.
I like to believe that while it is important to find joy in our lives; that also, it is the difficult times that end up giving us the most satisfaction when we look back and see the benefit we have received through facing them, and working through them. I feel certain that you will find the strength and good fortune to get through this next phase of your life, triumphantly, with dignity, and wisdom.
Thank you for sharing your journey, and being a beacon of light and hope for those of us who follow you. 🌞✨🌻
Jay, I feel like we are friends that have never met, I found your videos many years ago now, pre Covid whilst researching a French trip which my 2 sisters and I came on, and I have stuck around because I like your video content, be it a garage monologue, your travels, your daily life, family, the adorable Cooper…. The list goes on! I will continue to travel on this video journey with you as long as you continue to make videos. The last thing I want is for you to be unhappy or unwell, but whilst you are on RUclips, I’ll be here.
I don’t really do the Instagram reels stuff much, I prefer being able to see you here xx
Good luck and thinking of you and sending a big hug x❤ Karen xx
I started watching your videos to catch glimpses of Paris and of France. I keep coming back for you, though. If I met you in real life, I would want to be your friend. I love your authenticity, your meandering considerations, your examined life.
Hi Jay, I too suffer from migraines, so I understand about not being able to discern when I am truly sick. Times of transition are challenging especially since it affects your team as well. Hoping you find the right balance between work and life. I enjoy your thoughtful discussions about life, the universe, and everything.
Hi Jay. From someone who's been following a long time I see you and Paris as inextricably linked - it's a winning formula, but that can feel constraining and I think you feel that sometimes. But I would embrace it - Astaire and Rogers were great on their own, but their double act was so much more than the sum of the parts and it's kinda the same with you and Paris - like it or not, you're great together :) I really love your content when it allows me to have my finger on the pulse of the city (where to go, what's happening, meeting interesting people), even when I'm away. Your audience is maturing and will become more discerning - try leading them into more of the things people inevitably appreciate more as they move into their 30s and 40s - art, history, culture, dining, etc and if that seems daunting then a few interesting Parisian guests on your channels could help broaden the Jay+Paris universe. Get this right and you'll have a sustainable business model for years... just my 2 bits.
I found you through your daily vlogs after we got back from Paris last year. I found your vlogs insightful and the mix of going to places around Paris after we had been there for a week was a real treat. What I got from your content was interesting seeds of thought with the background of Paris. I always have room for "mini-essayists" and Paris is a wonderful treat to see at the same time.
My feedback on why I watch this channel: 1) It is interesting seeing how you live in Paris and how different it is than living in the States. 2) Like many I started watching because I was going to visit Paris for the 1st time and wanted advice on the Metro, what to see etc. So I got some information and I visited. 3) What has kept me watching is, and this will sound weird is, I like you and your thoughts. You are likable and it feels as though you are a friend or someone if I knew in my life, I would want to hang out with you. So I watch to see what is going on in your life. I like the way your mind works and want to hear what is going on with you.
There has not been one video that is boring or mundane. So whatever you want to put out I will watch. Hope this helps. Good luck on your financial struggles and with dealing with pain. I wish I could help.
I like watching the vlogs about the ordinary lives of people in France. Maybe you can do some travelling to French villages and hidden spots (that's cheap to travel), which might be good for your mental health too. A vlog about hospitals and healthcare in paris for locals and expats, the differences, the good, the bad and the ugly (based on your recent experience ) might be a good idea.
Hey Jay, I’ve been watching your videos for a few years now, at first because I have a big fascination with Paris. You seemed interesting and entertaining, and I wanted to follow along to see where you would go in your life. I felt like you were someone that I could relate to, someone I would want to be friends with in real life. I have to say the last couple of years I began to question whether watching your videos was worth my time. It seemed like you had reached a plateau or something. Like something was holding you back. BUT, after watching today’s video, I’m so glad that I didn’t unsubscribe. Somehow, you explained things about your life that I always wondered about. I feel like you were your authentic self today, or at least as much as you’re able to at this time. I just wanted to let you know that I believe in you and I believe you are on the right track as far as your video content. I’m rooting for you to find what you want in life. Please continue with what you’re doing. You are a kind, good-hearted person. I can tell that you really care about people. Please take care of yourself. There are some of us out here who benefit from hearing what you have to say. Blessings to you, Cooper, and your family.
Miss you, love Volaree and I. So happy for you!
I intially began watching your channel because of the Paris aspect, having lived very briefly in Paris many years back. One of those life experiences that I am so glad I opened the windows to. You are a very curious person which is so great and refreshing to witness. You seem to continually revisit the questions you have regarding your life. You take chances not only in movements but in just looking. Yes, doing so brings up all kinds of stuff to wade through as you clearly are aware. I really wish the very best for you, your pursuits and, of course, Cooper. I will continue to tune in. Thank you and be well!
You do what you need to do to take care of yourself. Lots of love and hugs across the miles ❤🙏🏻
I’ve followed you since around 2018 mainly because I LOVE Paris and I enjoyed watching your daily life in Paris. Hope you are starting to feel a bit better….take care. Aroha from New Zealand.
Thank you for everything you do. I found your videos when planning a trip last year and stayed because I can relate to your journey.
Take care of yourself, Jay. I'm a long-time viewer and appreciate you and your content. You're one of the very few people that I follow, not because of a specific interest I have but just because I like you as a person. I'm not even that interested in Paris/France. I relate to your experience as an immigrant, and I admire how you approach life and share your story with us. I find it inspirational. I also struggle with many of the same things you talk about, but I'm much more pessimistic about them. Seeing another perspective on it is very helpful. Thank you very much for that.
Started watching for the Paris info maybe 2 years ago...stuck around for the personal stuff because I have some strained familial relationships and your candidness about steps you've taken to minimize further emotional damage is very insightful and helpful for me. I tend to be very perfunctory in how I relate to my feelings or thoughts. You are very reflective. I like it. I'm recalling the you had that video about Cooper being needy and how you respond to it. It was not only intriguing but touching.
I really enjoyed the longer vlogs you made last year while travelling in Europe. I remember the really cool , beautifully shot and edited trips to the U.K. with friends, your trip to Marseille, Corsica.. sharing your life and discoveries, really lovely.
BTW these glasses are perfect for you 😀
First I love you in glasses. It's a very cool look. I follow a handful of influencers who have had to change their content, especially women who concentrated on fashion and all things girly. But times are changing, and a few have dropped out completely from YT. The surviving ones are now sharing their thoughts on their place in a changing worldwide culture. Some are sharing more of their art in videography, arts and crafts and just small day to day moments that are like little jewels. I find it more interesting then just the former superficial content. So go ahead and share everything, your thoughts on what's going on in Paris and France, your travels, your walks through Paris doing just ordinary day to day things, your art and coffee chats and enjoying French food, books and if you are comfortable with it, how you handle your family dynamics. I think their are an awful lot of people who can relate. Don't be stoic - take care of yourself.
Hey! J I’ve been watching you 4 many, many years now. And will continue to watch. Just keep doing what you do on this channel. Take one day at a time.Please take care of yourself. And I ❤ the glasses 👓 by the way :)