At the 7.22 minute mark you mentioned engaging in meaningful conversation with a woman. Let's face it - most women do not care about a man's struggles. They sit at the finish line and pick the winners and if a man momentarily fails they usually monkey branch to another man who they deem better. Women are hypergamous and lack loyality and commitment through the bad times. Any fool can stay when things are good. It's the woman who stays with you while you are fighting for a better life that is your match.
I get where you're coming from, and it’s true that a meaningful relationship requires a partner who values loyalty and stands by you through tough times-this goes for both men and women. But remember, not all women are the same. There are those who genuinely appreciate a man for his character, not just his status. Look for the woman who stands by you through every challenge; she’s the one who deserves your respect and commitment
@@vernonbigham4760 You speak from a place of pain and ignorance. Just because you say it, doesn't make it so. There are many who are in relationships with fiercely loyal woman. A woman whose loyalty causes you to ponder and re assert your commitments as well.
@ our most successful people in our society cannot stayed married. Or you can look at data points and use research to make an assessment like divorce rates in America/Military/ by class. My statement doesn’t just come from anecdotal experience.
Forget all these signs. If the communication is garbage get rid of her immediately. Not texting back, not answering your calls, taking days to reply. The relationship is over at that point period
Absolutely-communication is key. If it's one-sided or inconsistent, it's a clear sign. Don’t waste your time on someone who isn’t willing to invest in you. 🚫💯
Respect is very important in marriage. My sales trainer at work is getting divorced after only 1.5 years of marriage. She is devastated. But, I saw it coming. The only time she mentioned her husband was to make negative comments about him. She doesn't respect him. He decided enough is enough, and walked out. I actually don't blame him.
Pity that most people take on a role,one the other party appreciate the most,and or also can't see the difference between love and lust.Once the lust is over,and real personas surface, the relationship goes down the drain.
Thanks for sharing the key points! Breaking down the video like this really helps others follow along. We’ll consider adding chapters for each: 1. She never makes time, 2. Your efforts go unnoticed, 3. Emotional investment, 4. Respect gap. Appreciate the feedback
3 relationships ever. First one slept with everyone. Second and longest was extremely violent. 3rd, and the worst was all of this x1000. I see why dating is difficult these days. The answer to why I cant necessarily give but my opinion means nothing. I have one but its probably not appropriate. Guess they were right. Youre gonna die a lonely old man. Yeah, fishing. Riding my harley. Stress free smoking ribs and briskets. Arguing with nobody.
I married a psychopathic narcissist. Oh that was fun. She had an unwritten motto ... it's all about me. The physical was good, for a time. The mental was spirit crushing. Married for a year a half. Divorced 38 years ago. If I ever get an urge to get married again ... I'll just find some woman I hate and by her a house. Then, just because I like writing, I'll give her a check every month. I've been married and I've been divorced and to tell you the truth, I keep missing my ex-wife. BUT, I've been going to the range and my aim's gettin' better.
"Sounds like you've been through a lot, and humor is a great way to cope! Here's to living life on your terms and leaving the past behind. Stay strong! 💪
Exactly! True self-worth comes from within. Seeking validation from others, even a partner, can lead to dependence and insecurity. When you build your own sense of value, you become more resilient and less influenced by external opinions. Self-validation is the foundation of true confidence!
1) She treats you like a background character in her life’s movie. 2) She gives you the same level of attention as her Wi-Fi signal - only when it's convenient. 3)" Her responses " are so delayed, they might as well be sent by carrier pigeon. 4) She expects you to bring the emotional depth while she brings... well, the snacks.
These are the red flags we often ignore. Don’t settle for being an afterthought in someone’s story. You deserve more than just 'snacks'-demand respect and depth
Challenger Accepted Been living life on my terms since I was like 7. They drugged me segregated me and put me in homes. Still successful and still doing it my way. Always have Always will
Clearly described my last failed relationship with all honesty now the unfaithful lying treacherous woman wants to come back to Finish me completely can't allow that
Your instincts are spot on. Allowing someone back who betrayed your trust only opens the door to more pain. Stay strong, protect your peace, and remember that self-respect is non-negotiable. Keep moving forward-you deserve better
Don't take that serpent back, brother. She failed at monkey-branching and thinks she can just walk back into your life like she didn't hurt you on her way out.
I recently dated a so obese, so insecure, and broken, she would constantly disrespect me because of her own life, deflecting her own ugly less onto me, and I was allowing it, because I loved her. Not anymore. She is now written off, and will be dreaming about me, and after a while, will be missing me hardcore. Her loss and my experience.
Brother, the world isn’t a window. The world is a mirror. We reflect what we project. Only by going within ourselves and start fixing ourselves will our experiences change.
@@arkhitek2251 I don't know how old you are, but I've already been through that over 15: years ago.. No sir, this is not the case here. She just hasn't been there yet. ✌️
I've been dealing with a woman showing these signs. Majority of the time, she's too busy to go out. I never get a message from her first. When we've been out, she never asks me about me. I feel it's mostly been one-sided. I'm about ready to move on.
Trust your instincts. A relationship should be a two-way street, with effort and respect from both sides. If it feels one-sided, it might be time to prioritize your own well-being and move on
The truth is I've never really been treated as valuable by ANY woman I've ever known, not mom, not granny, not wives, girlfriends or even female coworkers. They ALL literally used me as their own personal "tool" in some way to get exactly what they wanted.
Challenge accepted. Thank you for an excellent video. Good women are almost non-existent. I am very fortunate to have found a loving, caring woman. We have been in a relationship for three years now and as far as I can see, she embodies all the good qualities you describe in your video. Of course, she is not perfect; neither am I, but we handle disputes in a respectful manner. Quite uncommon these days.
Your relationship is a testament to mutual respect and understanding-qualities rare yet invaluable. Wishing you both continued growth and happiness together. 🙌
You're right; a lot of guys fall into the trap of over-investing without getting the same energy back. It’s tough to change, but by raising awareness and focusing on self-respect and confidence, more men can break out of this cycle. Small steps can make a difference
Everything what you said is true. I 100% agree with what you said. The most painful moment is in the lowest point of my struggle where we find the true color of our partner. I have faced everything what you have said. I could literally feel the pain in my heart I had been going through it for many years. 😥😥😥 Thanks for making this video.
Thank you for sharing your story-it takes courage to open up about such deep struggles. I'm truly sorry for the pain you've endured, but remember, even in our darkest moments, there’s strength to be found. Stay resilient, and know you’re not alone on this journey. 🙏❤️
This is not about loving yourself because a relationship is consist of two individuals.A healthy relationships doesn't consist of self love only.Its about support, respect and value each other.
@@lyndenclarke1091 was just here to write something similar. This is not just about one person, but the relationship between two persons, a couple. Sure one could have all the confidence he think he has and live with a door. If it is the desire of the so omnipotent confidante, so be it. Now let go back and talk about relationships...
@@lyndenclarke1091 No, that`s simply not true at all. Until you love & respect yourself, no unconditional love is possible, at best you`l find a "helper", always with strings attached. How can you give something you don`t posses?
@@andrewfriman9443 PREACH THAT MF SHID BROTHER!! That is the ultimate truth and once shall not seek and/or get into any type of (serious?) relationship with anybody until they have knocked this one block out of the way. Why? You shall not because you cannot. If you don't truly love, honor, and respect yourself at the highest level, you will be constantly seeking validation, (re)affirmation, and she/he will soon become more of an attachment for you that you need to provide you that in which you lack. It is much harder than it sounds but the results will speak for themselves.
@@normancook965 i thought, because you love someone, you have respect him or her! Not the other way round! And then viceverser! Respect is a result of love, admiration,.. so that the other person can be able to notice your love for or her. Does respect, really just fall?!
@@timd-s1p That is true, but respecting yourself creates the possibility that she will respect you and come to love you, but not respecting yourself prevents any possibility of her respecting and loving you. When you respect yourself and she does not, it is a blessing as it means she is wrong for you and you can more easily walk away because you are protected by your self respect.
My previous woman said (only after I asked for an answer) that she was "busy" because she was "depressed" due to the dark winter weather and I told her I don't buy that bullshit and said I'm done with her.
Glory!!! After so much struggles I now own a new house with an influx of $360,500.00 every month God has kept to his words,my family is happy again everything is finally falling into place. God bless America 🇺🇸
Hallelujah!!!! Your channel has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good 🙌🏻🙌🏻.I was owning a loan of $37,800 to the bank for my son's brain surgery (Oscar), Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $8,000 and got my payout of $340,500 every months.God bless Mildred Evelyn Rooney 🇺🇲
Our God indeed is a covenant keeping God. Has he said a thing and not perform it? I watch how things unfold in my life, from penury to $355,500 every month and I can only praise him and trust him more. Hallelujah🙌🏻❤️🇺🇸
After I raised up to 825k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my 10yrs old son's brain surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.
Everything from video is the truth,I ditch the woman that I idealized and even worst of that is that I invested in her so for the brain it was even harder the let her go, she was highly manipulative but I rejected all red flags. It still hurts but it will pass, leaving her I oponed door for a womanto enter iny life, that is submisive and opposite from the previous
Sounds like you've been through a tough but valuable experience. Recognizing the red flags, even in hindsight, takes real strength, especially when you've invested so much emotionally. It’s all part of the journey, and you’ve opened yourself up to someone who truly respects and aligns with you. Healing takes time, but it sounds like you're on the right path. Stay strong - better things are definitely ahead!
@@Stoic-Monarch It is hardest to forgive to own self, I used Ho'oponopono technic when ever my mind start to back to past I would repeat "Thank you, forgive me, I love you". With new woman i do not make mistake all emotion I left on her, let her open to me, if not it's ok.
I had a hard time finding a woman that I valued and could remain interested in. I finally did though, been with her for 41 years. "Ever since the world began, woman confounded the mind of man. But hey, I made a plan, keep it up and don't try and understand".
spot on my friend in a variety of ways...i have come to find a percentage of women from other cultures (un-american) seem to be wired differently,better suited for loving trusting relationships that flow more naturally through ups n downs...having mutual for each other
Appreciate your insight, my friend! Relationships truly thrive when mutual respect and understanding are at the core, regardless of culture. Thanks for sharing your perspective! 🙏😊
Using these criteria, this is the only time one if my ex's ever scored 100% in her life. 😂 I was glad to see the back of her and there was zero sense of loss because the relationship was completely superficial.
In a society where everyone laughs at virgin, where everyone is ashamed of being single, where everyone is too hungry for attention... Respect, value, time, efforts , emotions all comes cheap. For those who have principles, they have it all.
"In a world that often measures worth by superficial standards, staying true to your principles is an act of courage. Respect, value, and emotions only hold meaning when they are tied to authenticity. Those who embrace solitude and self-respect find strength in themselves, not in others' validation. Keep your principles intact; they are the foundation of true success and fulfillment."
Thank you for the support! We're glad you found the points helpful. Adding timestamps is a great idea to help viewers find the info more easily - we'll work on implementing that in future videos!
I learned this, a bit late I had to have a toxic relationship first unfortunately. I and looked at the situation from the outside as if I was looking at someone else. Then I realized how incredibly stupid i was. But it was a good lesson learned, plus I got my son out of it.
Imagine dealing with backhanded compliments everyday at your job. Now if you're not married, imagine backhanded compliments for the rest of your relationship.
Thanks for the suggestion! Adding chapters for the 4 points is a great idea - it would make it easier for viewers to navigate. We'll look into adding them in future videos
Respect is what a REAL man, not a player, nor a hustler, truly wants out of a relationship. All other facets fall in line organically. As I have just read Marcus Aurelius’s “Meditations”, don’t think about what it means to be a man, just be one.
Well said! True strength lies in living with integrity and authenticity. Respect is earned through actions, not words. Marcus Aurelius' wisdom rings true-be the man, not the label. 💪✨
Chinese Idiom: [Good birds choose tress to roost in]. I think this is the truth! Love is the rarest resource on the Earth but we can still find it from our pets. And I still missed him so much.
What about when a woman does the opposite of all of this and more, shows you more intense love than ever before, and then goes right to doing all of these things to a T? Did I do something wrong? Is there a reason I can figure out? Will she come back? I was intimately close with a girl she came over to my house one night stayed until 3 am and ever since that night she has been extremely distant. Basically doing everything you say in this video…
Wasn’t even looking for a relationship then she step in an stir up the flames . First red flag was after a week she said she loved me . Heard this nuff times before . However she was exactly my type and a straight 9.5. A beauty but with emotional instability like a 16year old . We both in our late 30’S and just just one year apart . You think they would know better . All four of these slowly started appearing after the 4th month . Greed and disrespect became much more frequent . I step back an ask god for strength and discernment, I just walked away from her not saying a word , no argument nothing . We had even taken a drive together the night before but shit was still off , body language etc . The value of my time became non existent and she couldn’t pretend . 3 days in and here I am but it is what it is
You're right-love and respect are earned through our actions, integrity, and how we treat others. They aren't just given freely; they come from consistently demonstrating self-respect and showing value to those around us. True respect is built over time through trust, character, and mutual understanding.
@@jacutin5033 You always have a choice. If you're being disrespected, walk away. It's far better to be alone by choice than to feel lonely within a relationship. The former offers peace and self-growth, the latter brings pain and emptiness.
Like who likes you Stop caring for people who don’t care about you She needs to physically commit if your going to financially commit Learn to walk away accept regret and live with what if. Love who loves you. I’d rather someone who cherishes me and I’m not that crazy about them than the opposite. If she says sex isn’t that important than tell her relationship aren’t either if she gets offended than tell her that’s how you feel about it. Most to ALL women have a guy they’ll literally let have his way, any type of way and if she’s not doing that with you then your not it, your what she settled for. Watch how she acts at a concert with her favorite male artist, band, entertainer etc
Outline of points that my ex narc gf of 5 years did NOT do. It took me several years to see it. (This was during covid so I was a little distracted. But I finally saw the light decided enough was enough. She has two flying monkey daughters who enable her behavior. She has a rockn body and tons of $$$ from her ex doctor husband. But i just can't sustain that kind of life I was to her any longer. Goodbye and Good Riddance. It was the best 110 lbs I have ever lost !!!
Wow, it sounds like you’ve been through a lot and have come out stronger on the other side. Recognizing toxic patterns and deciding to walk away takes a great deal of courage and self-respect. It’s not easy to let go, especially when there are distractions like money or appearances, but choosing peace over chaos is always worth it in the long run. Congratulations on prioritizing your well-being-you deserve a life filled with genuine connections and mutual respect. Here’s to brighter days ahead
Says the internet. Without you even taking any risks in life while living INSIDE THAT SAFE BUBBLE YOU LIVE IN. Truly missing out on what TRULY IS LIVING LIFE.
Appreciate the perspective, but remember-wisdom isn’t just about taking risks; it’s about knowing which ones are worth taking. True living is a balance of courage and discernment.
Worse is a woman who says she loves you, but shows you with only things she approves with only things she likes, or situations she can control. Then, when things get confusing for you, you accept this perverted idea of love. -so, trust your gut! Never accept anything that doesnt "feel" right. Many people have weird ideas of what love is. Mostly because they grew up learning from "empty" guardians who tried their best to figure it out. ** furthermore, you'll be told, after youre onto them, that you have no empathy. (Which is only a mirror of who they themselves truly are)
Being alone isn’t a failure-it’s an opportunity to strengthen your self-worth and set boundaries that align with your values. True connections come when you honor yourself first. Stay resilient. 💪
It's true that external factors can sometimes play a significant role in attraction, but deep, lasting connections are built on character, mutual respect, and shared values. When a man has a strong sense of self and purpose, he naturally attracts those who value him for who he truly is. True relationships are founded on more than just what one can offer-they’re about understanding, respect, and growth together.
In this kind of dynamic, it’s not about who waits the longest-it’s about who remains grounded and shows emotional control. Both people may be playing a waiting game, but the one who demonstrates patience, self-respect, and strength without appearing desperate will naturally stand out. The real "win" comes from being comfortable in your own value, without needing to "win" through games. Let your actions reflect your inner strength, and the right connection will happen naturally.
You're absolutely right. A woman who operates with such imbalances isn't embodying the virtues of a wise and composed individual like Marcus Aurelius. True strength comes from self-awareness, integrity, and respect, not from seeking to manipulate or demand. Her behavior reflects her own flaws, not your worth. Stick to your values and maintain your peace.
My wife loves me and does everything to respect me and love me but we have constant disagreements over parenting. She let our 5-year-old son wash the dishes last night but I stopped him because he got water all over the floor and counter and then she yelled at me for stopping him.
Respect is key in any relationship. If someone can't treat you with dignity, especially in public, it's a huge red flag. You deserve someone who uplifts you, not belittles you.
I've noticed throughout life that we are not meant to be together in an everyday type relationship, it doesn't work. We're too different in the ways that our minds work. Women are very selfish, after getting what they think they want us men might as well be a piece of furniture, though the furniture probably gets more respected. I knew these things long ago, but thought I'd give it another go. I was so better off the other way.
Recognizing those patterns is a powerful step toward protecting your peace. Sometimes, stepping back is the only way to see things clearly. Focus on your own growth and what truly brings you fulfillment. Stay strong! 💯
It’s important to maintain a balance. If she takes time to respond, don’t feel pressured to reply instantly. Respond when you’re ready, showing that you value your time and can’t be rushed. This adds to your sense of strength and independence. Let her see that you’re not desperate for approval, but still respectful and engaged
At the 7.22 minute mark you mentioned engaging in meaningful conversation with a woman. Let's face it - most women do not care about a man's struggles. They sit at the finish line and pick the winners and if a man momentarily fails they usually monkey branch to another man who they deem better. Women are hypergamous and lack loyality and commitment through the bad times. Any fool can stay when things are good. It's the woman who stays with you while you are fighting for a better life that is your match.
I get where you're coming from, and it’s true that a meaningful relationship requires a partner who values loyalty and stands by you through tough times-this goes for both men and women. But remember, not all women are the same. There are those who genuinely appreciate a man for his character, not just his status. Look for the woman who stands by you through every challenge; she’s the one who deserves your respect and commitment
Facts
@@Stoic-Monarchwhat you just described is a mythological creature like a unicorn. Doesn’t exist.
@@vernonbigham4760 You speak from a place of pain and ignorance. Just because you say it, doesn't make it so. There are many who are in relationships with fiercely loyal woman. A woman whose loyalty causes you to ponder and re assert your commitments as well.
@ our most successful people in our society cannot stayed married. Or you can look at data points and use research to make an assessment like divorce rates in America/Military/ by class. My statement doesn’t just come from anecdotal experience.
Forget all these signs. If the communication is garbage get rid of her immediately. Not texting back, not answering your calls, taking days to reply. The relationship is over at that point period
Absolutely-communication is key. If it's one-sided or inconsistent, it's a clear sign. Don’t waste your time on someone who isn’t willing to invest in you. 🚫💯
Challenge accepted
Exactly and wanting SPACE or BREAK.....RUN AWAY She is a waste of time if you are ready now.
100%
This won't solve the issue
Respect is very important in marriage. My sales trainer at work is getting divorced after only 1.5 years of marriage. She is devastated. But, I saw it coming. The only time she mentioned her husband was to make negative comments about him. She doesn't respect him. He decided enough is enough, and walked out. I actually don't blame him.
Respect is the foundation of any strong relationship. Without it, even love struggles to survive. Well said! 🙏💡
@@timothythompson4036 is it to marry, ten divorce, then marry again & divorce just to gain half from him every time!
Pity that most people take on a role,one the other party appreciate the most,and or also can't see the difference between love and lust.Once the lust is over,and real personas surface, the relationship goes down the drain.
Good luck to him for recognising the narcissist much earlier before its too late
@@Koloviv48i Exactly, get out of there before you have kids with her. Then leaving gets much more complicated.
1. She never makes time
2. Your efforts go unnoticed
3. Emotional investment
4. Respect gap
It all boils down to the level of selfishness people give; or take 😆
Thanks for sharing the key points! Breaking down the video like this really helps others follow along. We’ll consider adding chapters for each: 1. She never makes time, 2. Your efforts go unnoticed, 3. Emotional investment, 4. Respect gap. Appreciate the feedback
Thank you. You're a legend among men, including those who think they're "stoic warriors" lol
3 relationships ever. First one slept with everyone. Second and longest was extremely violent. 3rd, and the worst was all of this x1000. I see why dating is difficult these days. The answer to why I cant necessarily give but my opinion means nothing. I have one but its probably not appropriate. Guess they were right. Youre gonna die a lonely old man. Yeah, fishing. Riding my harley. Stress free smoking ribs and briskets. Arguing with nobody.
Exactly how my mother gestures communicate with me it feels she's not my mother at all 👎
I married a psychopathic narcissist. Oh that was fun. She had an unwritten motto ... it's all about me.
The physical was good, for a time. The mental was spirit crushing.
Married for a year a half. Divorced 38 years ago.
If I ever get an urge to get married again ... I'll just find some woman I hate and by her a house.
Then, just because I like writing, I'll give her a check every month.
I've been married and I've been divorced and to tell you the truth, I keep missing my ex-wife. BUT, I've been going to the range and my aim's gettin' better.
"Sounds like you've been through a lot, and humor is a great way to cope! Here's to living life on your terms and leaving the past behind. Stay strong! 💪
Your last line killed me🤣- gonna keep that one in my back pocket
Aim small. Miss small.😅
😂😂😂😂
I burst out laughing
Do not seek validation from your wife, the only person who you should seek validation from is yourself
Exactly! True self-worth comes from within. Seeking validation from others, even a partner, can lead to dependence and insecurity. When you build your own sense of value, you become more resilient and less influenced by external opinions. Self-validation is the foundation of true confidence!
have to value yourself first
Très juste.Salut de France.
Plus especially seek validation from our Lord, Father, and Savior Jesus Christ. ✝️
AND THE LORD
This channel is better than having a personal relationship therapist.
Wow, that means so much! Thank you for your kind words and trust. 🙏❤️
1) She treats you like a background character in her life’s movie. 2) She gives you the same level of attention as her Wi-Fi signal - only when it's convenient. 3)" Her responses " are so delayed, they might as well be sent by carrier pigeon. 4) She expects you to bring the emotional depth while she brings... well, the snacks.
These are the red flags we often ignore. Don’t settle for being an afterthought in someone’s story. You deserve more than just 'snacks'-demand respect and depth
That's so funny, LoL 😂 He knows
Challenger Accepted Been living life on my terms since I was like 7. They drugged me segregated me and put me in homes. Still successful and still doing it my way. Always have Always will
"Respect! True resilience shines through-keep living life on your terms! 👏💪
Hard-core bro. Massive respect.
Massive
1) She never makes time 01:58
2) Your efforts go unnoticed 04:16
3) Zero emotional investement 06:48
4) The respect gap 09:17
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Yep I got four of them.
True
Clearly described my last failed relationship with all honesty now the unfaithful lying treacherous woman wants to come back to Finish me completely can't allow that
Your instincts are spot on. Allowing someone back who betrayed your trust only opens the door to more pain. Stay strong, protect your peace, and remember that self-respect is non-negotiable. Keep moving forward-you deserve better
Don't take that serpent back, brother. She failed at monkey-branching and thinks she can just walk back into your life like she didn't hurt you on her way out.
I recently dated a so obese, so insecure, and broken, she would constantly disrespect me because of her own life, deflecting her own ugly less onto me, and I was allowing it, because I loved her. Not anymore. She is now written off, and will be dreaming about me, and after a while, will be missing me hardcore. Her loss and my experience.
Brother, this sounds like my last two girlfriends. Never again.
Obese people have no business with relationships, one must first love and take care of themselves before they can claim to love and care for others.
Brother, the world isn’t a window. The world is a mirror. We reflect what we project. Only by going within ourselves and start fixing ourselves will our experiences change.
@@arkhitek2251 I don't know how old you are, but I've already been through that over 15: years ago.. No sir, this is not the case here. She just hasn't been there yet. ✌️
I've been dealing with a woman showing these signs. Majority of the time, she's too busy to go out. I never get a message from her first. When we've been out, she never asks me about me. I feel it's mostly been one-sided. I'm about ready to move on.
Do not wait another moment.
Move on...Run.
Trust your instincts. A relationship should be a two-way street, with effort and respect from both sides. If it feels one-sided, it might be time to prioritize your own well-being and move on
The truth is I've never really been treated as valuable by ANY woman I've ever known, not mom, not granny, not wives, girlfriends or even female coworkers. They ALL literally used me as their own personal "tool" in some way to get exactly what they wanted.
I feel ya brother, I have never been treated with value by any woman I know, just a resource.
So true! Currently just a “paycheck” 😢
Challenge accepted. Thank you for an excellent video. Good women are almost non-existent. I am very fortunate to have found a loving, caring woman. We have been in a relationship for three years now and as far as I can see, she embodies all the good qualities you describe in your video. Of course, she is not perfect; neither am I, but we handle disputes in a respectful manner. Quite uncommon these days.
Your relationship is a testament to mutual respect and understanding-qualities rare yet invaluable. Wishing you both continued growth and happiness together. 🙌
Congratulations 🎉
The problem is too many men simping, in fact, the majority. It'll never change.
You're right; a lot of guys fall into the trap of over-investing without getting the same energy back. It’s tough to change, but by raising awareness and focusing on self-respect and confidence, more men can break out of this cycle. Small steps can make a difference
exactly 💯
#JUSTTHEFACTS@@Stoic-Monarch
It can, but only if men become aware and accept uncomfortable truths about women, and stand on business.
Simps do ruin everything!
The only reason things like Only Fans exist is because of simps,and it ruins the woman in more than one way
This can be applied to any relationship, with anyone.
Absolutely! These principles are universal and build stronger connections everywhere. 🙌
Everything what you said is true. I 100% agree with what you said. The most painful moment is in the lowest point of my struggle where we find the true color of our partner. I have faced everything what you have said. I could literally feel the pain in my heart I had been going through it for many years. 😥😥😥 Thanks for making this video.
Thank you for sharing your story-it takes courage to open up about such deep struggles. I'm truly sorry for the pain you've endured, but remember, even in our darkest moments, there’s strength to be found. Stay resilient, and know you’re not alone on this journey. 🙏❤️
So true, .spot on. Challenge accepted. I am ready to life life on my terms. I will not accept disrespect. My worth comes from within 🙏
Absolutely! True strength starts from within. Keep standing by your values-self-respect is the key to real power 🙏💪
Her disrespect will gain her half the assets I worked for over the years
Self Love is the ultimate form of wealth...I don't need anyone to value me I myself and have supreme confidence
Absolutely! Self-love is true wealth. When you know your own worth, you don’t need validation from anyone else. Keep that confidence strong! 💪✨
This is not about loving yourself because a relationship is consist of two individuals.A healthy relationships doesn't consist of self love only.Its about support, respect and value each other.
@@lyndenclarke1091 was just here to write something similar. This is not just about one person, but the relationship between two persons, a couple. Sure one could have all the confidence he think he has and live with a door. If it is the desire of the so omnipotent confidante, so be it. Now let go back and talk about relationships...
@@lyndenclarke1091 No, that`s simply not true at all. Until you love & respect yourself, no unconditional love is possible, at best you`l find a "helper", always with strings attached.
How can you give something you don`t posses?
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PREACH THAT MF SHID BROTHER!!
That is the ultimate truth and once shall not seek and/or get into any type of (serious?) relationship with anybody until they have knocked this one block out of the way.
Why? You shall not because you cannot. If you don't truly love, honor, and respect yourself at the highest level, you will be constantly seeking validation, (re)affirmation, and she/he will soon become more of an attachment for you that you need to provide you that in which you lack.
It is much harder than it sounds but the results will speak for themselves.
A woman can't love a man she doesn't respect. Respect yourself, she'll respect you, and opportunities for love will naturally follow.
Well said! Respect is the foundation of genuine love-start with yourself, and everything else aligns. 👌✨
@@normancook965 i thought, because you love someone, you have respect him or her! Not the other way round! And then viceverser! Respect is a result of love, admiration,.. so that the other person can be able to notice your love for or her. Does respect, really just fall?!
In fantasy land.
Just because you respect yourself doesn't mean she'll respect you--believe me
@@timd-s1p That is true, but respecting yourself creates the possibility that she will respect you and come to love you, but not respecting yourself prevents any possibility of her respecting and loving you. When you respect yourself and she does not, it is a blessing as it means she is wrong for you and you can more easily walk away because you are protected by your self respect.
My previous woman said (only after I asked for an answer) that she was "busy" because she was "depressed" due to the dark winter weather and I told her I don't buy that bullshit and said I'm done with her.
Sometimes walking away is the best way to protect your peace. Stay strong and true to your standards. 💪"
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I needed this about 20 years ago, but I'm glad it is out there now for the young men coming up in this messed up world.
Timing may not always be perfect, but your wisdom now can inspire the next generation. Glad this message resonates-together, we can make a difference
I accept the challenge!!! Thank you!!! Blessings!!!
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Challenge accepted 😢
All of the above are present on my side
Thanks for your guidance 😊
You're welcome! Keep pushing forward, greatness is within your reach
Everything from video is the truth,I ditch the woman that I idealized and even worst of that is that I invested in her so for the brain it was even harder the let her go, she was highly manipulative but I rejected all red flags. It still hurts but it will pass, leaving her I oponed door for a womanto enter iny life, that is submisive and opposite from the previous
Sounds like you've been through a tough but valuable experience. Recognizing the red flags, even in hindsight, takes real strength, especially when you've invested so much emotionally. It’s all part of the journey, and you’ve opened yourself up to someone who truly respects and aligns with you. Healing takes time, but it sounds like you're on the right path. Stay strong - better things are definitely ahead!
@@Stoic-Monarch It is hardest to forgive to own self, I used Ho'oponopono technic when ever my mind start to back to past I would repeat "Thank you, forgive me, I love you". With new woman i do not make mistake all emotion I left on her, let her open to me, if not it's ok.
I had a hard time finding a woman that I valued and could remain interested in. I finally did though, been with her for 41 years. "Ever since the world began, woman confounded the mind of man. But hey, I made a plan, keep it up and don't try and understand".
spot on my friend in a variety of ways...i have come to find a percentage of women from other cultures (un-american) seem to be wired differently,better suited for loving trusting relationships
that flow more naturally through ups n downs...having mutual for each other
Appreciate your insight, my friend! Relationships truly thrive when mutual respect and understanding are at the core, regardless of culture. Thanks for sharing your perspective! 🙏😊
My uncle he married a Japanese woman she respects him house is clean dinner is made she makes his lunch and breakfast.
Respect is first
Absolutely! Respect is the foundation of any strong relationship. 🙏💯
So we not gon talk about the thumbnail 😂
Haha, the thumbnail definitely caught some attention! 😆 Glad it did its job! Hope you enjoyed the video too
Broo that thumbnail😂😂😂
This what I was looking for 😂😂🤣😭
That thumbnail means make her value you 😂😂😂😂
Nope.
Using these criteria, this is the only time one if my ex's ever scored 100% in her life. 😂 I was glad to see the back of her and there was zero sense of loss because the relationship was completely superficial.
Sometimes the best thing is walking away from what’s not genuine. Glad you found clarity and peace in it! 🙌😎
Thumbs up if you think this video should be re-titled "4 behaviors you won't find in women in the US"
Thumbs up for a fresh perspective! It’s always interesting to explore cultural differences in relationships. Let’s see what others think! 👍
In a society where everyone laughs at virgin, where everyone is ashamed of being single, where everyone is too hungry for attention... Respect, value, time, efforts , emotions all comes cheap.
For those who have principles, they have it all.
"In a world that often measures worth by superficial standards, staying true to your principles is an act of courage. Respect, value, and emotions only hold meaning when they are tied to authenticity. Those who embrace solitude and self-respect find strength in themselves, not in others' validation. Keep your principles intact; they are the foundation of true success and fulfillment."
Challenge accepted....thank you for sharing and strengthening my mind wuth clear validations.....
Your strength and determination are inspiring-keep embracing the challenge! 💪🔥
Bookmarking the 4 points, would be great for the channel
Thank you for the support! We're glad you found the points helpful. Adding timestamps is a great idea to help viewers find the info more easily - we'll work on implementing that in future videos!
I needed to see this video. Real talk 🤞🏾💯 gratitude cold 🥶 hard truth.
Glad this resonated with you! 💯 Keep growing and embracing the truth.
I learned this, a bit late I had to have a toxic relationship first unfortunately. I and looked at the situation from the outside as if I was looking at someone else. Then I realized how incredibly stupid i was. But it was a good lesson learned, plus I got my son out of it.
"Sometimes the toughest lessons bring the greatest growth. You’ve gained wisdom and a priceless gift-your son. 🌟💪"
Well said. I have been dealing with such situations for some time now and it's been difficult. Hmmm
I hear you-it’s tough, but remember, every challenge is an opportunity for growth. Stay strong, you’ve got this
I have found this video very helpful, thank you.
Thank you so much! Your support means the world to me. Glad you found it helpful! 🙏✨"
True facts thanks for informing us
You're welcome! Glad you enjoyed it. Stay inspired! 🙌🔥
Imagine dealing with backhanded compliments everyday at your job.
Now if you're not married, imagine backhanded compliments for the rest of your relationship.
"That’s a tough situation. Setting boundaries and staying grounded is key-never let backhanded words shake your peace. 💪"
@@Stoic-Monarch lol I just talk shit back to them. Anything good you do does not matter to women that do this.
inserting chapters for the 4 points would be great
Thanks for the suggestion! Adding chapters for the 4 points is a great idea - it would make it easier for viewers to navigate. We'll look into adding them in future videos
Very powerful message id rather be alone than getting into another relationship again after hearing it too the end
Thank you for sharing that! Embracing solitude can be a powerful step toward self-growth and clarity. Stay strong
Respect is what a REAL man, not a player, nor a hustler, truly wants out of a relationship. All other facets fall in line organically. As I have just read Marcus Aurelius’s “Meditations”, don’t think about what it means to be a man, just be one.
Well said! True strength lies in living with integrity and authenticity. Respect is earned through actions, not words. Marcus Aurelius' wisdom rings true-be the man, not the label. 💪✨
My ex once said," you're not even a real man,you don't make 100k a year. "
Chinese Idiom: [Good birds choose tress to roost in]. I think this is the truth! Love is the rarest resource on the Earth but we can still find it from our pets. And I still missed him so much.
Beautifully said-true love, whether from people or pets, is a treasure. Cherish the memories, they keep love alive
Thank You For This Infomration🙏💯
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my life exactly, but to be honest, a lot of women i have not treated with the same values as i require...time to think and change, thankyou
Self-awareness is the first step to growth. Respect to you for reflecting and striving to improve. You've got this! 💪🔥
"The quickest way for a man to destroy himself is to pursue a woman who wants nothing to do with him..."
Michael Ende, The Neverending Story
Powerful quote. Chasing someone who doesn’t value you only leads to self-destruction. Focus on your growth and those who truly align with you. 💪✨
If I already know my OWN value and my own worth well then I DON'T necessarily need her approval.
Exactly! When you know your worth, you become unstoppable. Approval is a bonus, not a necessity. 💪🔥
@Stoic-Monarch Yeah you got that right.
Absolutely truthful & so important
Truth has a power that resonates deeply. Thank you for appreciating the message! 🙏✨
Challenge accepted. Thank you
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Recognizing these signs helps us set boundaries or make decisions to protect their mental health.
Absolutely! Awareness is key to protecting your peace and prioritizing your well-being
Respect to you for the truth 💯
Much love and respect to you for recognizing it! 💯🙏 Stay strong and keep shining.
I needed to hear this
Glad you found the video helpful! Remember, applying the principles is what makes real change. Wishing you the best!
Challenge accepted. I’m grateful for this eye-opening message.
You need to go out and talk with people.
Excellent vid.
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What about when a woman does the opposite of all of this and more, shows you more intense love than ever before, and then goes right to doing all of these things to a T? Did I do something wrong? Is there a reason I can figure out? Will she come back? I was intimately close with a girl she came over to my house one night stayed until 3 am and ever since that night she has been extremely distant. Basically doing everything you say in this video…
So wise , Thank You
"Your kindness means a lot-thank you for appreciating the wisdom! 🙏✨"
Wasn’t even looking for a relationship then she step in an stir up the flames . First red flag was after a week she said she loved me . Heard this nuff times before . However she was exactly my type and a straight 9.5. A beauty but with emotional instability like a 16year old . We both in our late 30’S and just just one year apart . You think they would know better . All four of these slowly started appearing after the 4th month . Greed and disrespect became much more frequent . I step back an ask god for strength and discernment, I just walked away from her not saying a word , no argument nothing . We had even taken a drive together the night before but shit was still off , body language etc . The value of my time became non existent and she couldn’t pretend . 3 days in and here I am but it is what it is
No body deserves love or respect, it's taken or earned with your actions and how you conduct yourself
You're right-love and respect are earned through our actions, integrity, and how we treat others. They aren't just given freely; they come from consistently demonstrating self-respect and showing value to those around us. True respect is built over time through trust, character, and mutual understanding.
Nobody deserves disrespect, to be a temporary second choice, a pass time before a better and bigger deal comes along.
@@jacutin5033 the world and everyone in it don't owe you a thing.
@@bennywright12 doesn't seem like you understand what you read bro. Read it again before making irrelevant replies.
@@jacutin5033 You always have a choice. If you're being disrespected, walk away. It's far better to be alone by choice than to feel lonely within a relationship. The former offers peace and self-growth, the latter brings pain and emptiness.
😊Great Knowledge 👍
Thank you! Glad you found it valuable! 🙌😊
aahyes..so well made..!!! much love....LIONS NAMED LEO
Thank you for the love and support, LIONS NAMED LEO! 🦁🔥 Stay legendary!
@@Stoic-Monarch U R very welcome.!!! much love.,!!
Bottom line, she did not respect me if I did not have more money than she did.
"That’s a hard truth. True respect should never be based on material wealth, but on character and values. Stay true to yourself. 💪"
Like who likes you
Stop caring for people who don’t care about you
She needs to physically commit if your going to financially commit
Learn to walk away accept regret and live with what if.
Love who loves you.
I’d rather someone who cherishes me and I’m not that crazy about them than the opposite.
If she says sex isn’t that important than tell her relationship aren’t either if she gets offended than tell her that’s how you feel about it. Most to ALL women have a guy they’ll literally let have his way, any type of way and if she’s not doing that with you then your not it, your what she settled for.
Watch how she acts at a concert with her favorite male artist, band, entertainer etc
Wise words. True fulfillment comes from mutual respect and genuine connection. Don’t settle for less-cherish those who truly value you. 💯❤️
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Respect! Crushing challenges like a true warrior 💯🔥
Thankyou Challenge accepted yeee
Love the energy! Let's go! 💪🔥
I accept the challenge.
If I call a woman and she says she's too busy, I don't call her again.
"Exactly! Value your time and energy-those who truly care will make time for you
Good call.
Outline of points that my ex narc gf of 5 years did NOT do. It took me several years to see it. (This was during covid so I was a little distracted. But I finally saw the light decided enough was enough. She has two flying monkey daughters who enable her behavior. She has a rockn body and tons of $$$ from her ex doctor husband. But i just can't sustain that kind of life I was to her any longer. Goodbye and Good Riddance. It was the best 110 lbs I have ever lost !!!
Wow, it sounds like you’ve been through a lot and have come out stronger on the other side. Recognizing toxic patterns and deciding to walk away takes a great deal of courage and self-respect. It’s not easy to let go, especially when there are distractions like money or appearances, but choosing peace over chaos is always worth it in the long run.
Congratulations on prioritizing your well-being-you deserve a life filled with genuine connections and mutual respect. Here’s to brighter days ahead
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Says the internet. Without you even taking any risks in life while living INSIDE THAT SAFE BUBBLE YOU LIVE IN.
Truly missing out on what TRULY IS LIVING LIFE.
Appreciate the perspective, but remember-wisdom isn’t just about taking risks; it’s about knowing which ones are worth taking. True living is a balance of courage and discernment.
Worse is a woman who says she loves you, but shows you with only things she approves with only things she likes, or situations she can control. Then, when things get confusing for you, you accept this perverted idea of love. -so, trust your gut! Never accept anything that doesnt "feel" right. Many people have weird ideas of what love is. Mostly because they grew up learning from "empty" guardians who tried their best to figure it out. ** furthermore, you'll be told, after youre onto them, that you have no empathy. (Which is only a mirror of who they themselves truly are)
Powerful insight! True love is unconditional, not about control or manipulation. Trust your instincts-never settle for a distorted version of love.
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Is dit ook in het Nederlands te horen?
Bedankt voor je vraag! Misschien een idee voor toekomstige content. Stay tuned! 🇳🇱😊
...... Self worth, boundaries, requirements are very poor bed fellows. All of the scenarios seem to still lead to me being alone.
Being alone isn’t a failure-it’s an opportunity to strengthen your self-worth and set boundaries that align with your values. True connections come when you honor yourself first. Stay resilient. 💪
I scored all four! How great
That's awesome! Scoring all four means you're really on top of your game. Keep it up-you're definitely heading in the right direction!
@@Stoic-Monarch ha ha...I know! That is something to brag about and celebrate too
You are not alone!
TRUTH 💯
It's true that external factors can sometimes play a significant role in attraction, but deep, lasting connections are built on character, mutual respect, and shared values. When a man has a strong sense of self and purpose, he naturally attracts those who value him for who he truly is. True relationships are founded on more than just what one can offer-they’re about understanding, respect, and growth together.
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Love the energy-let’s make it happen! 💪🔥
So true.
I am a Scorpio & Sigma male.
I behave in exactly the same fashion
Scorpio energy and Sigma mindset-a powerful combination of intensity and independence. Stay true to yourself
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Truth always speaks louder-glad it resonated with you! 👍🏼🔥
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That's the spirit! Let's conquer it together 💯🔥
If a woman likes you she will help you. - Doc Love
Exactly! A woman who truly cares will support your growth and well-being. Mutual respect and effort make the strongest connections. 💯💪
Challenge accepted!!
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Challenge accepted indeed
That’s the spirit! Ready to rise to the challenge! 💪
What if both are doing the same thing....then who waits more will win ??
In this kind of dynamic, it’s not about who waits the longest-it’s about who remains grounded and shows emotional control. Both people may be playing a waiting game, but the one who demonstrates patience, self-respect, and strength without appearing desperate will naturally stand out. The real "win" comes from being comfortable in your own value, without needing to "win" through games. Let your actions reflect your inner strength, and the right connection will happen naturally.
Respect is Non negotiable .
Absolutely. Without respect, nothing else holds value. 💯🙌
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A woman like you describe will never be like Marcus Aerulius. It's not how she views you, it's her flawed character.
You're absolutely right. A woman who operates with such imbalances isn't embodying the virtues of a wise and composed individual like Marcus Aurelius. True strength comes from self-awareness, integrity, and respect, not from seeking to manipulate or demand. Her behavior reflects her own flaws, not your worth. Stick to your values and maintain your peace.
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My wife loves me and does everything to respect me and love me but we have constant disagreements over parenting. She let our 5-year-old son wash the dishes last night but I stopped him because he got water all over the floor and counter and then she yelled at me for stopping him.
Such a powerful perspective! It’s important to find balance and understanding in every relationship. Thanks for sharing! 🙌
@ thank you It has been rough
When a woman loud talks and raises her voice to her man in front of others, it's clearly disrespectful. She's not worthy ! Nor is she wife material!
Respect is key in any relationship. If someone can't treat you with dignity, especially in public, it's a huge red flag. You deserve someone who uplifts you, not belittles you.
Challenge accepted.
Let’s make it happen! 💥💪
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Love the energy-let’s make it happen! 💪🔥
This is definitely my life
Life’s toughest chapters often teach the most powerful lessons. Stay strong and keep growing-you’re not alone in this
I've noticed throughout life that we are not meant to be together in an everyday type relationship, it doesn't work. We're too different in the ways that our minds work. Women are very selfish, after getting what they think they want us men might as well be a piece of furniture, though the furniture probably gets more respected. I knew these things long ago, but thought I'd give it another go. I was so better off the other way.
Recognizing those patterns is a powerful step toward protecting your peace. Sometimes, stepping back is the only way to see things clearly. Focus on your own growth and what truly brings you fulfillment. Stay strong! 💯
Also tell me after a long wait if she responds so we have to reply instantly or let her wait.
It’s important to maintain a balance. If she takes time to respond, don’t feel pressured to reply instantly. Respond when you’re ready, showing that you value your time and can’t be rushed. This adds to your sense of strength and independence. Let her see that you’re not desperate for approval, but still respectful and engaged