I had the most amazing relationship with my BF until our baby passed away. I'm the reason why...
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1 on 3 pregnancies end in a miscarriage, during the first month or so. Why do you think so many women wait at least 3 months before announcing it ? .... that soon in the pregnancy, the drinking night probably wasn't the cause of the miscarriage. Poor girl, at least she dodged a bullet with that guy.
Story 2: The boyfriend is an idiot. "Who likes a sequel more than the original?" *Camera slowly pans over to Terminator 2*
Cough cough Aliens, cough cough The Empire Strikes Back.
Deadpool 2.
Captain America The Winter Soldier.
Puppet Master 3.
Rugrats in Paris.
The Dark Knight
Shrek 2
Toy Story 2
Puss in Boots: The Last Wish
Spider-man 2...
Yes to all comments lol
1st story - Op I’m pretty sure your ex tampered with your bc. You didn’t delete anything & you dodged a bullet. Once enough time has passed you won’t even understand what you saw in that asshat.
Story 5 and the response from the narrator is the exact reason male abuse goes unheard. Watch all these videos back and you'll never hear the narrator question the abuse of a woman from a man. But here he felt so comfortable to doubt the story and suggest that op must have done something more. And it's even worse that time and time again we have proven from these stories that men are treated by the legal system regardless of location as "guilty until proven innocent"
What probably caused the miscarriage is the stress caused by the ex's toddler tier temper tantrum
Ya
Like even if the drinking is what caused it he stressed her so much she was drinking to cope. Which still makes it partly on him.
@@kurotsuki7427 yea, but i really doubt it did, especially that early on
@@kurotsuki7427ive met people whos mothers drank like hillbillies i strongly doubt the drinker causes it super early her ex was such a tool
@DumbAsh00 oh ya it was probably the stress not the drinking, just saying on the off chance it was the drink the boyfriends actions were a big part of why she was drinking
S1: The way I immediately started snapping and repeating “Drop him” while I shook my head when OP said their BF called her selfish for not wanting to be a teen mom and telling her to put her classes on hold. NTA, I’m utterly disgusted by that man’s behavior. Smh.
Story 3 OPs mom has definitely replaced her dead husband with her son, it’s very disturbing there was a Reddit story where the OP was the only girl and had 3 brothers, her and her 2 eldest brothers don’t get on with the youngest as he’s moms golden child. While they’ve worked hard he always coasted and was always drinking. At family dinner he asked to move into one of OPs properties and mom encouraged it but when op said he would have to pay rent he blew up at her and was really nasty.
The next day while at her home her 2 older brothers came round and they were comforting her, the brother in question came both drunk and crying he broke down and revealed as dad works away often she groomed him and plied him with booze so he couldn’t get his life together so she could keep him dependent to keep forcing herself on him sexually. They all felt bad and when revealed to the dad he was distraught he’d never seen it either.
Story 5 if anything you should’ve reported her for breaking into locked room to attack you. I get the feeling she’s actually cheating on OP and playing the victim card so she faces no backlash. It’s actually disgusting that Domestic violence and sex offences are very under reported and very under punished, but it doesn’t help when people like this women lies about it.
There was another Reddit story where OP broke off his engagement as found out his fiancé accused her ex of r**e when he broke up with her while they were in high school, she only admitted it was all lies 6 months later after the poor lad tried to end himself. He then did research and found out the poor lad after getting cleared tried a fresh start in college but later people found out he’d been accused and he did end up killing himself. Her family kept telling OP she was really remorseful and all that BS he only met them and her with his own family present but she then did return to form in his update to accuse OP of the same when refused to take her back as he couldn’t trust her. Surprisingly even though she’d previously lied and resulted in an innocent young lad killed himself the police said they still have to investigate.
The comments were really brutal hoping she get punished or that she actually gets brutalised and assaulted and they’ll go ‘stop crying wolf’. There was also a lot of actual victims saying how they felt so bad for OP that she could do things like that and agreed she should face criminal punishment as it makes a mockery of actual victims.
Damn…😢
This is the environment you foster when you take the mindset of the early 1900s and earlier and apply them to today.
Pro-choice = freedom. Isn't USA supposed to be the land of the free?
Telling OP that she'd be immature for having an abortion is almost comedic if it wasn't so tragic. She'd be immature if she didn't have an abortion if she's not ready for children.
Having children forced on you because prevention fails is a really bad environment for children to grow up in compared to when you've got your living situation and job taken care of.
Story 4 i think : OP should tell her husband that 80 to 90% most renown chefs in the world are men, cooking IS a physical task and good to know, husband is delusional
Yeah yhat first bit of "he's not into things men are typically into." My first thought was "your view of masculinity is so small, OP"
First Story, she better than me I would have been in that hospital bed laughing and and giggling at them and saying "womp womp and ahhh you mad" after bf said all that shit to me and broke my shit he was gonna get the petty and bitchy me AND catch a lawsuit. Ruin his life fr.
Story 3: Holy sh*t, OP's mom is a creep!!!
Story 4: FIL W. No BS-man. Love that. Husband, though? Huge AH. Didn't want his son to be bullied, so he started bullying him? TH? And then he cheats? One of the least manly things you can do. Come on... (BTW, IDK if this is a Mandela effect but I think I've heard this story on this channel before?)
Story 5: A RO for yelling when she violated his privacy? Are you kidding me? I read this story a while ago and I'm still waiting for an update. Assuming OP is telling the truth, this reaction from the GF (escalating things this much for something she started) is a red flag for me.
The fact the boyfriend rages at her for being upset over her stating she may not be ready to have a child and may not want to have one right now is just....wow.
She's still quite young. Perhaps she does not want to get pregnant and have a baby at 19? People don't think of that.
There is a reason why the child-free movement is rapidly gaining steam....because of people like her ex and his family.
Also, religion should have NO place over a person's body and choices. Gross.
Also, he put it in such a way that OP would be living in sacrifices for a baby she doesn't even want while no sacrifices or concessions would be made by him.
@@availanila Exactly....that is the biggest thing that is worrisome! My mother dealt with that with my POS "dad." So that hits close to home for me and I feel sick every time I see/hear stories like this....
While it's not EVERY person, I always do say "fatherhood is a hobby while motherhood is a fulltime job." Nothing spoke further from the truth than when my mom raised me.
There ARE exceptions like my cousin (rest his soul) who loved his son/my nephew. We don't talk about my nephew's mom....she's trash.
Yes. I think he messed with her pills. She's mature for considering her options and realizing she isn't ready for a baby. That's way more mature than having a baby to make a man happy. I'm glad she isn't with the guy and her parents backed her up. Not everyone has parents like that.
I'm pretty sure a lot of women would love to have a man who can cook for them instead of letting them do the cooking everytime...
I was first happy for op that the situation ended well until the year late update. The husband is a asshole.
In the story where OP yelled at his girlfriend Nta he reacted properly his girlfriend violated his privacy and what she did was in no shape or form okay I’m not sure how she thought unscrewing the door nob would be okay
Yeah, that's a huge boundary violation. 🚩 I also hated hearing OP blame himself for her behavior.
S1 first story huge red flag on the ex. His reaction is not normal, she's lucky they broke up because this would have ended very bad. He's a nutcase and so is his family. But drinking whisky like that... Hmm no...
Story 4 - about Matt the mini Chef
The fact that sexism with so called feminine jobs is still rife perplexes me 😒
“Female Jobs“
Cooking ---- Worlds top chefs: Male
Bakers---World’s top bakers: Male
Sewing---- Worlds top fashion/tailors: Male
Laundry--- Most dry cleaners workers/owners: Male
Cleaning---- Most cleaners in stadiums, buildings, hospitals etc: Male
The list goes on…
If I were her ex, I would've said that I don't want her to get rid of it and that I would take majority care of the baby until she is ready to take care of the kid too
drunk boyfriend story:
In vino veritas. Nothing else needs to be said.
Exactly.
The one with the girlfriend breaking into the bathroom. She has no boundaries and she is being abusive by stomping on them.
Wow, this narrator has really improved! A previous video I was scrubbing past all the green text, but now he comes across as authentic and relatable. Kudos for taking feedback and acting on it! Well done!
From what I've read so far, excessive alcohol consumotion has been observed to correlate with increased risk of miscarriage, HOWEVER nowhere did I see it mentioned as a direct cause (presumably the quantity required to make that happen would also end the mother-to-be).
I would therefore tentatively conclude that the "bottle after bottle of Jim Beam" was probably not the direct cause of the miscarriage, and if it hadn't gone on for a very long time (weeks, including prior to conception), I wouldn't consider it a contributing factor either. But I would need to know more details than that - how many bottles did she really consume, how quickly did she drink each one, etc.
44:45 the gf in the shower story is young and dumb. Anyone yelling or raising their voice can startle people. But yelling for the first time at someone doesn’t make them abusive.
The story with the shaving, the ex is a huge AH unless he's not telling us the whole truth. She forced her way into the bathroom?! Wow, just move on. Take a restraining order seriously, don't be an idiot.
EXSCTLY and plus she is trying to frame him as an abuser by faking bruises
@@SvenisreallyhotOkay, I was absolutely right about her. I don’t know what Reddit said in response to his first post, but I knew she had problems just from not only her reaction but from the fact she didn’t leave immediately afterwards. And if they don’t pay water… and she responded with “you’re wasting water” something is not right in that girl’s head.
Even if most of it is made up, I don’t doubt she used a screwdriver to get into the bathroom. I’ve had someone break into a bathroom I was in because I “took too long”.
Poor OP in story 1... 😭 this is why i truly hate pro-birthers
yeah accidental pregnancies are definitely something you discuss BEFORE sex especially with a serious partner
i mean things happen, one night stands, sex early in relationship, spontaneous sex
but it seems like that wasn’t case
either way tho, nta.
If the girl really wants to get into acting, she could try starting with voice acting, especially through dubbing or video games or on a channel like this one. The industry is pretty tight knit but the directors i do know love finding new talent
Why haven't they found me though?? 😭
S1: I'm rarely commenting on abortion case, since it's not my place to comment.
But I wish OP to reach out to her family and find support first. Imo, the decision of keeping it or not should come from a calm and composed mother.
I don't want to wish upon anyone to have regret after doing something out of emotion, be it for keeping it or let it go.
And it's really a shame that she has to lose it from miscarriage due to her stress drinking, I heard miscarriage can scar someone emotionally.
I wish nothing but OP's well-being, and yes, She's dodge a bullet.
Last Story: True, If anyone want to enter entertainment industry, not only actors. Any position, even it's the staff crew
You need to be prepared for the worst case and have back up. I've been in webtoon industry for years, and now I give up on the art and become the Project Manager instead in the same industry due to the competition is just way too much for me.
Being good at cooking will actually score him points with the ladies so idk what the overly masculine dad is upset about besides his son not being his clone.
Really enjoyed today's video. : )
If you want to get abortion, then get abortion. But drinking Jim Bean was just reckless, at least have some self respect and get better stuff
Yeah, Jim Beam is pretty nasty.
She's 19. At that age you'll drink anything unless you're used to shitting gold and wiping your butt with silk.
I do wonder how many bottles of Jim Beam it would take to induce a miscarriage 🤔
Well she was only 19, a beginner adult and they don't always do the best thing, she is still learning how to handle life. Ya it's not good to drink that much but she didn't know how to cope. I'm sure she has a better idea of what to do if she ends up in the same place again.
@@WomanRoaring Eh, going on one part assumption and one part reddit story, if this all happened in a couple of days (or less than a week at least), there's no way she drank enough alcohol to induce a miscarriage. Habitual alcohol avuse over time is listed as a risk factor in literature, but she'd have to be blackout drunk all the time to do that much damage that quickly. This amount of alcohol all in one go is just as liable to end her.
Without knowing exactly how much ethanol went down her throat and how quickly, I can't make an exact determination, but given the available account, I'm calling it highly improbable.
Thank you for giving your controversial opinion on story 1. You get a subscribe from me and a like.
Not really controversial, a 19 year old girl shouldn’t be forced into pregnancy?
That last story was so unnecessary. These mfs need to learn how to communicate better. All parties involved.
She was lucky she didn't die
If "the baby" is developed enough that it can survive outside the womb, and the woman does something that ends its existence then yeah she'd be a baby killer but this was not that. The OP dodged a barage of bullets.
I am sorry but that's not how it works
I am sorry first story is stupid if she didn't want the baby she should have got an abortion I am saying this because I've had a miscarriage before it is very painful and I was in pain for hours before I went to the hospital
I think she was trying to handle the stress not drink to the point of a miscarriage
@@kurotsuki7427 so drinking is how you deal with stress if that's your answer to problems sounds like they have a drinking problem
@tofluffybunny6780 not how i do, just what i thonk she was doing. She did get information on substance abuse treatment from the hospital after all
@@kurotsuki7427 drinking doesn't Solve the problem of make it go away I've had a miscarriage and it like contractions they hurt a lot to the point of cry and you will have to go to the hospital so they can get that baby out of you and you need to keep going so they can see if everything is fine and I am saying her drinking just made it worse for herself which I think it's stupid because I've been through this she should have just went to get an abortion it wouldn't have got that bad if she did and would have made it easier on her
@tofluffybunny6780 it doesn't solve problems i agree. I was trying to make sense of what she did and why she did it, not say it was a good idea.
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Op didn’t kill the baby u can’t kill it if it’s not even alive yet
Stupid comment ever
Soooo… prevented its life according to what you’re saying.
Which is basically kill.
@@Ars-Nova258fr he yapping
It is already alive though. That's the problem. The heart has usually already started beating by the time the mother notices she's pregnant.
@@highlyopinionated5611 I see it personally as if it’s not born it’s not alive / u can’t kill it
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3:41 “Trying to convince myself that the miscarriage wasn’t my fault…”
It literally is because you were drinking. That’s like saying a DUI isn’t your fault when you’re driving after knocking back 8 shots of alcohol.
Accept what you did, keep your abusive ex and his awful family out of your life, and find healthier alternatives than risking liver failure.
You didn’t want the child, and that’s okay. You wanted to terminate, and that’s okay. Drinking just wasn’t the best answer.
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Why would you tell him if you didnt want it? That just puts a knife in the wound. Smh. May not have wanted it but using alcohol to do it was not smart as it could cause more harm then good. Hopefully op is fine now.
“Who likes a sequel better than an original?”
SONIC. MOVIE. 2. I DARE anyone to dispute that.