Do I Send Her Back To The Streets?

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  • How to know if a woman you are seeing is girlfriend/wife material or if you should send her back to the streets.
    In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who started dating and sleeping with a woman while she was still in a relationship with another guy. He has tried to set and enforce some healthy boundaries, but still is unsure of what to do. She appears to have honored the boundaries they agreed to so far. There are several other red flags she is displaying that lead him to wonder if he should keep seeing her or send her back to the streets.
    “Relationships that start from cheating, almost always end due to cheating. People who show you through their actions that they are not trustworthy are not to be trusted. If someone screws you over, that is on them. If you enable their behavior by forgiving them and then they screw you over again, that is on you. Always look at what people do, not what they say. If you ignore reality, you will suffer the consequences of ignoring reality.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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Комментарии • 122

  • @shadowjfd
    @shadowjfd 3 года назад +78

    If you have to ask yourself that, the answer will always be YES

  • @victormartinez3250
    @victormartinez3250 3 года назад +61

    I need a GIF of Coach saying “SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS !”
    Just to send to my friends when they f*cking up lol

  • @2clau
    @2clau 3 года назад +65

    Coach, you're absolutely right; Most people don't really change, they become better versions of themselves. If they are liars, they become better liars.

    • @TheLouisianan
      @TheLouisianan 3 года назад +4

      That sounds terrifying but I can't say that isn't true

  • @Ragnarok691
    @Ragnarok691 3 года назад +26

    Finding out someone betrayed you is very painful but its only temporary, taking your life is permanent, do not take your life over something temporary.

  • @twinturbo3461
    @twinturbo3461 3 года назад +19

    I met a woman like this recently, at best they are just good for hookups. Don't spend too much money or shower them with gifts, just have fun and get out before she turns toxic.

  • @Chris-ey7zy
    @Chris-ey7zy 3 года назад +35

    I had a gf like this. Really was in love with her but fooled by my projection in how I wanted her to be instead of living in reality because it was painful. But I think everyone man women will go thru this once in their lives. And it test you to be strong. If you can quit loving them then you become A better man. Because it’s like having an addiction. And facing that addiction

    • @codemiesterbeats
      @codemiesterbeats 3 года назад +1

      Yes I had a cheating girlfriend and it was my first serious relationship it went on for about five years and who knows how many of those were spent cheating with different people LOL
      It's hard to do since love is not a light switch... but the icing on the cake is she contacted me like a year later attempting "make things right"
      Thank goodness her sister rang me up and told me she had a boyfriend *in the midst of talking to me lol
      What a Trainwreck dude
      It took quite a while to get completely over it.
      I finally was able to mentally separate being in love with somebody and loving someone in an esoteric sort of way (does not involve their presence or contact)

    • @josephstewart2580
      @josephstewart2580 3 года назад +4

      Yes!! You hit it spot on. I’m still hung up on the wrong girl. But it’s mostly because she rejected me after being hot snd cold. She was fresh out of a LTR, but SHE messaged me. She also kept it going for months. Then she dumped me like I was garbage. I’m learning and rebuilding, but no matter how hard I try I still miss her from time to time. I know deep down it would never work out. She has major daddy issues, plus she dated and abuser then an alcoholic for 7-8 years combined. Now she said she needs to “heal” even though she led me on and invited me to her house for our first date. All the sweet texts started to dwindle. So I backed off. But then she came back. This repeated for 2 months. Then I got vulnerable and weak and I lost her for good. I’m learning as much as I can from Corey and getting focused on myself again. I’m putting myself out there and hopefully the right girl will come a long one day.

  • @rbrishabh
    @rbrishabh 3 года назад +57

    For the second email: she didn't change, she just became better at hiding the red flags from you. Run. Eject. As Corey Says: Check please!

    • @paulinajaniak569
      @paulinajaniak569 3 года назад

      You have to run away from him too, getting involved with someone who's in a relationship? Why not wait until she's single and available?

    • @rbrishabh
      @rbrishabh 3 года назад +1

      @@paulinajaniak569 I agree)

  • @rbrishabh
    @rbrishabh 3 года назад +29

    Read the title and I'm already ready to laugh (and learn), you rock coach

  • @twinblade63
    @twinblade63 3 года назад +18

    this made me feel a lot better about my breakup, lol. in hindsight, she really was a low quality (low integrity) woman.
    thanks for everything Corey

  • @martincurmi8558
    @martincurmi8558 3 года назад +7

    Made the mistake of ignoring multiple red flags and not sending her back to the streets. Paid the price. Get rid and don't look back.

  • @goldinero
    @goldinero 2 года назад +7

    I have developed highly acute spidey senses thanks to a couple women who schooled me on a woman's keen ability to hide her deviousness. One woman I dated told me that it's *easy* for a woman to cheat on a man without him finding out (I assumed she had direct personal experience in this area).
    Unfortunately, those with integrity have a hard time believing how pervasive and complex the lies can be from those who allow their perceptions of what others think to control their behaviors. It's important that those with integrity step out of Fairy Land and realize how screwed up most people are in the world.
    If your gut tells you something is wrong, believe it and begin withdrawing your attention. That's because those who play mind games are the ones you're likely to get deeply attached to if you're not already centered and don't already enforce strong boundaries.

  • @trevorlawrence310
    @trevorlawrence310 3 года назад +9

    I wish I knew this stuff 20yrs ago. unreal

  • @Cassidyy88str
    @Cassidyy88str 3 года назад +5

    My ex said on the 3rd date that she was complicated, how bad could it be I thought. Oh lord was she right, the most complicated woman i've ever met.

  • @peterharper9703
    @peterharper9703 3 года назад +10

    You can forgive somebody that wrong you but it doesn’t mean that you have to stay with them!

  • @Justafayze
    @Justafayze 3 года назад +7

    If she has “only guy friends”, and/or drives a Nissan Altima - trust me bro she belongs to the streets

  • @socialpiratekeyboardwarrio6546
    @socialpiratekeyboardwarrio6546 3 года назад +3

    I’ve been following you for 8years coach and I paused this 33 seconds in to say she belongs to the streets he obviously needs to read and repeat 15 times and stay away from drama lamas

  • @justinwalker6902
    @justinwalker6902 3 года назад +4

    This hits home and is deep. Much love coach

  • @davidp2888
    @davidp2888 3 года назад +14

    If you start dating her while she’s with someone else, she’ll do that to you (monkey branching).

  • @ELdASenSei
    @ELdASenSei 3 года назад +6

    Well, if you have to ask..Then then the answer is mostly YES

  • @brian5682
    @brian5682 3 года назад +3

    don't get attached thats the answer, situation, people, things etc. love yourself first

  • @timothymiller5539
    @timothymiller5539 3 года назад +8

    I love that he has been making more videos of late.
    Here is to hoping current events form future trends. ; )
    Cheers!

  • @liezselmani5102
    @liezselmani5102 3 года назад +3

    People like that will never change, they just became better at hiding thing, and better liars.
    at the end they will monkey branch you to someone else, it doesn’t matter if you are married for 20 years or 40 years.
    Like coach Corey said look at their relationship history
    Look at their family history and you will find your answer.
    Finding out someone you married and loved betrayed you is very painful.
    this made me feel a lot better about my divorce
    low quality (low integrity) people will never change or stop the cheating.
    “Once a cheater, always a cheater.”
    Move on with your life and and stay away from toxic people find yourself a better beautiful younger woman with drama free, life is too short, we all deserve peace and tranquillity in our life.

  • @robertabeckham5012
    @robertabeckham5012 3 года назад +1

    The title alone gets the video a thumbs up from me. Thanks, Coach!

  • @IsraelSocial
    @IsraelSocial 3 года назад +3

    I purchased your book on amazon corey! A small contribution for a huge contribution that you made in my life! Thank you

  • @BoltActionBob
    @BoltActionBob 3 года назад +13

    The anti-communist message was the perfect bow tie on this gift of a video.

  • @PassportNick
    @PassportNick 3 года назад +3

    You a real one for the Title🙌🏾😂

  • @jeffstone4624
    @jeffstone4624 3 года назад +1

    Poor guy's wife is for the streets.
    Great advice coach.

  • @jeffstone4624
    @jeffstone4624 3 года назад +3

    Dem STREETS!!
    They hungry.

  • @coolkid69ist
    @coolkid69ist 3 года назад +6

    Corey, you gotta help these women that are in their early 20s rn, they're trapped mentally in their phones. lol

    • @freefinancialadvice
      @freefinancialadvice 3 года назад +2

      Yo its hard af when they think it’s normal to text all day every day and I’m like “Sounds good, see you THURSDAY” lmao.

  • @bakemixndash
    @bakemixndash 3 года назад +6

    Doooood. You're great! I love your wit and intelligence. She belongs to the streets!!!!!!!! My friends and I have been saying that as a joke and homage to you.

  • @milesjones9641
    @milesjones9641 3 года назад +1

    All I had to see was the title to know this is a banger of a video

  • @thomasyoung3268
    @thomasyoung3268 3 года назад +1

    Why can’t these people change? Surely there’s a way?

  • @coolcarlosa66
    @coolcarlosa66 3 года назад +5

    Know a girl like this, she's so beautiful too. But God is she damaged beyond repair. Oh well, in the friend zone she goes!

    • @stevec3526
      @stevec3526 3 года назад

      Why bother doing that? If she is damaged, she is damaged..

    • @coolcarlosa66
      @coolcarlosa66 3 года назад

      @@stevec3526 For fun. She's fun to hook up with. Sometimes I have fun hanging out with her. She's part of my larger friend group. We've all known each other since high school.
      I don't really invest time and money on her cause we usually hang out as a group. She's just kind of around.
      I'm not planning on being her boyfriend or anything.

  • @GiordanoBallenius
    @GiordanoBallenius Год назад +1

    I was with a woman like this, she had only guy friends, no girl friends. The thing that she had only guy friends was a red flag, seeking male attention because of dark-past history.
    Flirting with all guys in my presence.

  • @illswagr1
    @illswagr1 3 года назад +9

    Remember she never belonged to you, it was just your turn.

  • @mctransportation9831
    @mctransportation9831 3 года назад +4

    I used to say, release her back into the wild. I grew up semi rural. It means the same thing.

    • @stevec3526
      @stevec3526 3 года назад +1

      Sounds like catch and release.

  • @mariotibbrine1
    @mariotibbrine1 3 года назад +1

    When in doubt trow it out.

  • @frankdavf4599
    @frankdavf4599 3 года назад +2

    If you date someone in a relation you deserve all the pain and trouble for being that way.

  • @briantucker7173
    @briantucker7173 3 года назад +2

    Lol this title wild 🤣

  • @HungryDazeDP
    @HungryDazeDP 3 года назад

    Gosh, I would like a song with those closing music lines.

  • @davidmyers2419
    @davidmyers2419 3 года назад +1

    if you have to ask

  • @TheAlphaMaleofficial
    @TheAlphaMaleofficial 3 года назад

    I said that in my last video also , Totally agree with you bro

  • @imjuslooking7270
    @imjuslooking7270 2 года назад +1

    Yes, she most likely is "for the streets". If she cheats with you, she will cheat ON YOU. Bad idea to get involved with her, esp. since she was your friend's wife. Not cool at all this guy, or her.

  • @kazesensei4840
    @kazesensei4840 3 года назад

    Good title used this as my phone lockscreen

  • @BrandoeBrand
    @BrandoeBrand 3 месяца назад

    He looked over her shoulder and got the password 😂😂😂😂

  • @chriswalls5831
    @chriswalls5831 3 года назад +6

    Back 2 tha streets lol

  • @alias3549
    @alias3549 3 года назад

    I almost forgot to press the like button but fortunately at the end of the video you started speaking about communism so i rushed to click like. You are the man coach!

  • @DV8T1
    @DV8T1 3 года назад

    Thank you for this video.

  • @stevemellin5806
    @stevemellin5806 3 года назад

    Yes send her back I went thur it . you will feel better .... they won't forget what you for them .thier lost

  • @Mskiraven
    @Mskiraven 3 года назад +1

    This man quoting Maya Angelou and the rapper Future she for the Streets I can not lol

  • @jand8303
    @jand8303 3 года назад

    Didn't watch it but I would say yes! Send her back home!

  • @frankdavf4599
    @frankdavf4599 3 года назад

    Thanks 4 all the insights coach

    • @frankdavf4599
      @frankdavf4599 3 года назад

      May the force give you lots of abundance

  • @jaketinder3557
    @jaketinder3557 3 года назад

    If you have to ask the answer is yes

  • @BillyT531
    @BillyT531 3 года назад +1

    "She belongs to the streets...!" lol

  • @Flordiaman1
    @Flordiaman1 3 года назад +1

    Lol the title

  • @thebryanpereira
    @thebryanpereira 3 года назад

    Lmao I clicked just for the title Corey: #SheBelongsToTheStreets

  • @frankdavf4599
    @frankdavf4599 3 года назад

    If you pick up trash from the floor youre the one accountable for getting your hands dirty

  • @coastaldiva
    @coastaldiva 3 года назад +2

    How do people even have eagle eyes to see pass codes on the phone? Lol

    • @krompirusa100
      @krompirusa100 3 года назад

      Some phones have connecting dots or patterns that is easy to replicate.

    • @coastaldiva
      @coastaldiva 3 года назад

      @@krompirusa100 oh yes ok. When people type it in, i cant see crap. Too fast. Used to try that with my kids

  • @GhostRider-vd9bi
    @GhostRider-vd9bi 3 года назад +7

    Thank u - coach ur are like the father- I never had - all ur knowledge and wisdom has gotten me tru so many hard times - May the Creator GOD continue to bless u - with many more years of life - good health and abundance in all areas of ur life - much love - and Respect bro!!!✅💯🔨🛠🏌🏽‍♂️

  • @P_Sandhu
    @P_Sandhu 3 года назад +3

    Inevitably...she belongs to the streets 😉

  • @cmwhite2421
    @cmwhite2421 3 года назад

    If you have to ask, the answer is yes.

  • @TheTheone12360
    @TheTheone12360 3 года назад

    you watch Gerarld Celente? Awesome dude!

  • @austinmurray5444
    @austinmurray5444 3 года назад +1

    You can't turn a hoe into a housewife. There are guys out there that think you can, that are delusional to reality and unfortunately (or fortunately, however you want to view it) we need those people around to accept women like this.

  • @johnmora5830
    @johnmora5830 3 года назад

    Started when she was with someone else hmm that right there should tell ya. I agree u either have integrity or u don't.i went into the girls phone she don't know it but that's why I have tinder on stand by. I saw a lot I mean alot I have pics of some the stuff in a secret file. She is a sneak and just like her good friend the whole puzzle came together for me. Worst part is I have genuine love for her but u con not force someone to want same things as u and u can not force someone to change and the change be permanent

    • @MrMind-lr1hb
      @MrMind-lr1hb 3 года назад

      they all the same bro. I made different profiles won't different pictures and they tell all men different storys. If they look down at someone they say her daughter is in hospital or some other serious stuuf. Some they laugh and insult at and block. And some they say of course I have time tonight but just for an 1 hour (because of other guy dating or having boyfriend). they are all snakes. They just hide it good. Even the cutest women you can not trust!

  • @despachantecentral3841
    @despachantecentral3841 3 года назад +1

    HER name??? STREETS BRO

  • @bodazaphfa
    @bodazaphfa 3 года назад

    She belongs to the skreetz!!!

  • @kab59592
    @kab59592 3 года назад

    She belongs to the streeeeeeeeeeeeeetz!

  • @changedahanddlessss
    @changedahanddlessss 3 года назад

    shout out to the women of the night/streets lol

  • @Coolness18304
    @Coolness18304 3 года назад +2

    My girl said I was cheating on her, but she broke up with me two days before after she told me she was never coming back because I didn't have "it". Did I cheat if she breaks up with me all the time and comes back days later?

    • @Alan-rw3ez
      @Alan-rw3ez 3 года назад +3

      It’s not a good look to sleep with someone new 48 hours later, I guess that shows the relationship was dead though.

    • @businessmeetings5807
      @businessmeetings5807 3 года назад +4

      Whatever girls love men that can smash other woman

  • @NKUSoccer07
    @NKUSoccer07 3 года назад

    EJECTO SEATO CUZ
    - Fast and Furious

  • @prezz1257
    @prezz1257 3 года назад

    9.28 🤣.

  • @TheTheone12360
    @TheTheone12360 3 года назад

    Im going to buy that cup lmao

  • @NotTellingYou-
    @NotTellingYou- 3 года назад +1

    A bit off topic but what if after only a few days of no contact, she shares some Instagram posts to my DMs with a message that says, “I know you don’t want to talk to me but these are worth sharing and looking at”? Do I respond to that or ignore it?

    • @OGKILLa9365
      @OGKILLa9365 3 года назад

      Ignore 100%

    • @OGKILLa9365
      @OGKILLa9365 3 года назад

      Post Instagram stories and stuff of you with other females and doing fun stuff and that will driver her nuts LMAO

    • @Chris-ey7zy
      @Chris-ey7zy 3 года назад +2

      Manipulating you

  • @emmanuelroswell9464
    @emmanuelroswell9464 3 года назад

    Right on time, I observed a situation from
    My current past where her ex treated her bad and ignored her constantly until she went and text a next guy, just some casual texting said by her, nothing sexual at all although it’s the past and not with me, I’m
    Still considering if I want to be with her or not

  • @jeffstone4624
    @jeffstone4624 3 года назад

    The second chick sounds like my ex.

  • @earthpart3
    @earthpart3 3 года назад

    get those hos outta here

  • @SaycoPworrell
    @SaycoPworrell 3 года назад

    Shit… this happen to my ass.

  • @dahnger
    @dahnger 3 года назад

    She belongs to the streets

  • @behindthelinewithchefbiz870
    @behindthelinewithchefbiz870 3 года назад

    What’s a reasonable body count for a 31 year old female?

  • @josephmay447
    @josephmay447 3 года назад

    Marx pitched his books on the universities and campuses of Europe because the working class was not foolish enough to go for it, sounds familiar huh? Sorry but I'm a fellow constitutionalist and I couldn't help myself! Lol