Do Filipina Save themselves for Marriage? street interview

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024

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  • @williammcaleese5551
    @williammcaleese5551 Месяц назад +9

    I appreciate that tradition still exists. With all the single mothers. It is a good practice (staying a virgin).

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      Absolutely! Communication and Respect is key, and experience can be a great guide in making informed decisions about love and relationships. thank you for sharing. William😊

  • @MrDoobie834
    @MrDoobie834 Месяц назад +1

    it is the power of the woman and the gift for her husband. men will do it but they will not want the one who is run through by lots of men

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад +1

      Hi MrDoobie, Thanks for sharing your thoughts! A strong relationship often hinges on mutual respect and understanding. please stay tuned for my next video😉🥰

  • @fantasynovel5357
    @fantasynovel5357 Месяц назад +2

    Due to the biology involved you can think of a woman's ability to bond with her partner like a pizza.
    Every man she gets with has a piece of that pizza, so if she is a virgin when she meets her husband he gets the entire pizza.
    If like a western woman she has had 500 partners that means the same ability has been split up to 500 men.
    Each man has a tiny piece and she will always be remembering the good parts of each of those men.
    She will compare those good parts to the current man and not be able to settle down with him as he will be lacking.
    The odds of a successful marriage are next to non.

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Fantasynovel every person and relationship is unique. stay tuned for my next video😋😉

  • @bruceb7747
    @bruceb7747 Месяц назад +2

    Good video Annie. Staying a virgin until marriage is a personal choice. But if you choose not to wait, please practice safe sex so you don't join the single mothers club

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад +1

      Thanks! And absolutely safety first! No one wants an unplanned membership to the single mothers club! 😄

    • @bruceb7747
      @bruceb7747 Месяц назад

      You're welcome

  • @jeffcoleman7859
    @jeffcoleman7859 Месяц назад +6

    Great video ! I think the ladies that save their self's until marriage are the cream of the crop and unlike most their beauty isn't just skin-deep there 'still things worth waiting for and beautiful ladies who are smart and beautiful 360 degrees and what a treasure their husbands are going to receive ! Stick to your values ladies !!!

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      Thank you for the kind words! These ladies are indeed a treasure, inside and out! thank you for watching Jeff🥰😇

  • @johnr1348
    @johnr1348 Месяц назад +5

    No right or wrong answer...IMO...it's a personal choice...

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад +1

      that's TRUE. thanks for watching John😉

  • @gregorbegger9291
    @gregorbegger9291 Месяц назад +6

    We certainly must wait until marriage even though it’s tempting

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад +1

      oppss really! It's like holding out for the grand finale worth the wait! good to hear that Greg😋😉

  • @EastsideGardening
    @EastsideGardening Месяц назад +3

    Interesting video, Annie. Thanks so much for sharing! Hope all is well. 🎉😊

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      Hello Ben, all is well, how are you!?🥰😉

  • @rickedelman
    @rickedelman Месяц назад +2

    Another wonderful vlog Annie. Keep up the Great work.

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      Thanks Rickedelman🥰😉 please stay tuned for my next video.

  • @ningayeti
    @ningayeti Месяц назад +2

    Although it is admirable that many of the women wanted to save themselves for their future husbands, it is somewhat disappointing that none of them said that they maintained their virginity because of their desire to obey God and Gods Biblical laws. Even the Muslim women seemed to relate that it was because of what was acceptable in Muslim culture. They never mentioned Allah or the Koran.
    Luke 6:46 “Why do you call me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say?"
    1 John 5:3 "For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments; and His commandments are not burdensome."
    Matthew 7:13 "You can enter God’s Kingdom only through the narrow gate. The highway to hell is broad, and its gate is wide for the many who choose that way.
    But the gateway to life is very narrow and the road is difficult, and only a few ever find it."
    Matthew 7:22-24 " Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils?
    and in thy name done many wonderful works? And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity."

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      Hello Ningayeti, thank you for sharing your thoughts, It's important to recognize that different individuals and cultures have various reasons for their choices, thank you for watching😉🥰

  • @AlanAwesomeness
    @AlanAwesomeness Месяц назад +2

    My Pinay queen had been with two Filipino guys in past relationships when we married. She was in her mid-20s when we met. I had been with quite a few more ladies in my past and was in my early 40s. I would have had no interest in an LTR with a woman that was clearly "high mileage" as I think the baggage is monumental. They could be loads of fun if still single and looking for a short-term relationship, but not wife material. That might not be politically correct, but we all make our choices in life and they lead where they lead.
    One has to be realistic in expectations when it is common to find a 10 year, 20 year or even greater age gap in such relationships. Although not unheard of, there aren't very many virgin males nearing middle age that are looking for a Filapina abroad. It might not be fair or equitable, in a sense, but if both parties can accept it without issues than all should turn out fine.

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      Hello AlanAwesomeness, Thanks for sharing your experience! as long as both partners are on the same page and committed, it can work out well. please stay tuned for my next video🥰😉

  • @Murph_.
    @Murph_. Месяц назад +2

    I have a degree in math and orange is my favorite color, so I just fell in love with a math teacher.

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      ha ha let's get it on😆😉

  • @billlloyd9755
    @billlloyd9755 Месяц назад +4

    To each into their own

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      Hey BillLloyd, you can visit my patreon channel for more about this topic "Filipina single moms"😉🤗

  • @timothybush9633
    @timothybush9633 Месяц назад +2

    Hi Ladies, love comes sometimes when you least expect it but communication is important to a relationship.I can't claim that I am but I'm 66 and have been married with 3 kids but experience & knowledge is good to help you make a decision

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад +1

      Thanks for sharing your wisdom! . Love has its surprises, and it’s always valuable to learn from those who’ve walked the path. thank you for watching🥰😇

    • @timothybush9633
      @timothybush9633 Месяц назад

      @@DearANNIE28 I have been on both sides of the mirror, I've been the observer & I've been the one creating what the observer is looking at and either one has a story to tell

  • @TomRobertson-ss2mw
    @TomRobertson-ss2mw Месяц назад +1

    Sounds like filipina fall in love so fast that sex before marriage doesn't matter . She thinks we will get married anyway . Till the guy leaves before marriage. Then she is heart broken and pregnant . Because she didn't insist on protection . It's better to just wait for the wedding ring . You love that person you would wait anyway .

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      True love is worth the wait! Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Tom😋😉

  • @jeandupont7066
    @jeandupont7066 Месяц назад +3

    but why are soo many single moms there, when they are soo conservative??

    • @gregorbegger9291
      @gregorbegger9291 Месяц назад +1

      Political views have nothing to do with wanting to have sex before marriage

    • @ronito346
      @ronito346 Месяц назад

      Catholic against contraceptives. Phils has no dowry tradition.

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      check on my patreon channel for more about this topic, thank you for watching Jeandupont🥰😇

    • @jeandupont7066
      @jeandupont7066 Месяц назад

      @@DearANNIE28 Dear Annie, thank you soo much for your very kind message,
      Hope you and all your family are well, i am fine, just back from a nice walk, Best regards from Austria, Jean

  • @mrmadborg
    @mrmadborg Месяц назад +1

    Hi Annie, like with all cultural traditions and wishes of my partner i would respect her views accordingly. Makes no difference at my age long term to my feelings for the women in my life if she is virgin or single mother so long as the love ,respect and 100% contentment is there. I think if i was younger like in my 20's it would mean a lot more if honest but is nice to hear plenty still think to keep their virtue in this ever changing social challenges in dating.

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      Hi Mrmadborg! That's a very mature and understanding perspective. i love it, It's refreshing to see some girls value what truly counts!

  • @FlipandTheBlueMule
    @FlipandTheBlueMule Месяц назад +2

    Tamsak ❤️🌹👋🌹❤️

  • @puppyupper4565
    @puppyupper4565 Месяц назад +1

    God bless the girls who want to save sex for marriage. It is the will of God. I hope to find a Filipina who wants to honor God.

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад +1

      Hi puppyupper, Amen to that! Wishing you the best in finding someone who shares those values and honors God together. thank you for watching😋😉

  • @HunkyMan777
    @HunkyMan777 Месяц назад +5

    Really need to move to PH. Love the christian values. Beats the western women mindset

  • @Iron_Brad
    @Iron_Brad Месяц назад +2

    Great interviews and I really liked the variety of answers from everyone. I loved the bonus at the end. Good to learn about the Muslim culture in the PH. Do many of them date foreigners?

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      Thank you! Brad! I'm glad you enjoyed the interviews. nope as i know foreigners don't date Muslim woman.

  • @bj5083
    @bj5083 Месяц назад +2

    Nice topic, Annie! 😊👍

  • @backontherighttrack.
    @backontherighttrack. Месяц назад +8

    At one time i would have agreed about saving yourself for marriage. But nowadays i think its more important to find out if you are completely 'compatible' before marriage. Especially in a country with no divorce. Sex is an important part of a relationship although shouldn't be the be all and end all.

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад +2

      thank you for sharing you thoughts Steve, I understand your perspective. Each couple needs to decide what works best for them based on their beliefs and circumstances.😉

    • @puppyupper4565
      @puppyupper4565 Месяц назад +2

      so what is your acceptable limit for the men she runs through? 1, 10, 50, 100? if a girl shows desire for you before marriage such as very willingly French kissing then sex is not something that has to be tried before marriage. So you honestly would rather have a girl who has been with many vs the girl who saved herself?

    • @backontherighttrack.
      @backontherighttrack. Месяц назад

      @@puppyupper4565 did I say many? I mean with the man she is considering settling down with and if she has a moral compass that shouldn't be many. But what if she stayed a virgin, got married and then found out he was into butt plugs and gimp masks (for example). Too late to back out in the Philippines.

    • @paulruano1903
      @paulruano1903 Месяц назад +1

      Virginity before marriage is important.
      And using the west as a standard for "best practice" is an absolute FAIL.
      Just look at how far into a hrllhole the west has fallen.
      And according to Christianity and Islam... we are supposed to be virgins when we marry. No sex before marriage.

  • @edsteward7717
    @edsteward7717 Месяц назад +1

    Awesome topic Annie! Having never been with a virgin, I don't really mind if she isn't, but appreciate the ladies who wait.

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад +1

      thank you for watching Edsteward😉

  • @rorybellamy2533
    @rorybellamy2533 Месяц назад +1

    Annie i was looking for You today ! a nice surprise to see You

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      Hey Rory, I'm doing fine. thank you for watching🥰😇

  • @192Emanuel-on8oz
    @192Emanuel-on8oz Месяц назад

    Nice video. Glad the Judeo/Christian values are still holding up in the Philippines.

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      Hello Emanuel, Thank you for the super thanks!🥰😇 and Yes we are still going strong here. thank you so much for watching.

  • @NotinKansasanymore
    @NotinKansasanymore Месяц назад

    OK, Annie Annie, are you OK? Lol I’ve been watching your channel for a while. I like your content on this one. I’m I’m on the fence because you see what it’s done here in the west not waiting until marriage has caused an epidemic of divorce. The reason I say I’m on the fence is because, they put it bluntly. You wouldn’t buy a new car without test driving it would you?

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      Hi there! thank you for sharing, finding that balance is key. And hey, everyone’s test drive looks different! thank you for watching🥰😇😉

  • @CyclingMartialartswithMusic
    @CyclingMartialartswithMusic Месяц назад

    "Time to look for a foreigner" the desperation of my kababayans. 😂

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      Haha, the international dating scene does get interesting! Sometimes, it's less about desperation and more about expanding horizons! 😄

  • @brianbaxter3913
    @brianbaxter3913 Месяц назад

    Hi Annie. A very interesting topic with some very interesting answers. I think it is up to the individual and if you are waiting till you get married you want to make sure you have the right one and you are totally compatable since here there is no divorce. At least not yet. It also seems to be an uncommon thing these days with so many single moms. Keep smiling and stay safe

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Brian, You're right, compatibility is key, especially with no divorce here in the ph. Appreciate your support stay tuned for my next video and stay safe too!

  • @JTOCIII
    @JTOCIII Месяц назад +1

    I hope your summer is going well👍

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад +1

      hello JTOCIII, how are you! I'm having fun thank you for watching🥰😇

    • @JTOCIII
      @JTOCIII Месяц назад

      @@DearANNIE28 I'm doing well I' am glad you're doing good and you're welcome👍

  • @jameshudson5022
    @jameshudson5022 Месяц назад

    Your very well spoken

  • @fastwheels195
    @fastwheels195 Месяц назад +1

    There are key things needed for a lasting relationship.
    1 be best friends with eachother
    2 being able to have a meaningful conversation
    3 having different things in common
    4 being sexualy compatible.
    If you cant make all these things happen, the relationship wont last.
    I also feel sex should be reserved for the time both feel they want to get married. If the sex is not good, dont get married

    • @fastwheels195
      @fastwheels195 Месяц назад

      One more thing, you both need to be of the same religion

    • @paulruano1903
      @paulruano1903 Месяц назад

      ​@fastwheels195 good. But all the 3 big religion requires to abstain from sex before marriage ;)
      Sooo...
      Agreed on the list, with exception of the sex part.
      You do NOT need to practice sex before any marriage!.
      Evaluate if she is a warm person towards you! (Not everyone else).
      If she is warm, considerate, empathy, affectionate inclined towards you, etc... then she WILL be great at sex with you!
      Sex can be practiced together. Affection however can not be faked so much.
      So evaluate her love and warmness in her behaviours.
      If she is a cold personality... then find a better person to marry.
      And yes there is not even need for longterm dating.
      Dating is only for "getting to know the person... form of interview basicly;)
      In christianity and islam and hidaism there is no concept of dating.
      Not supposed to imvest emotions before marriage.
      Only supposed to evaluate compatibilities and what both wants. And that both have passion for building a marriage together.
      Have the mentality to WORK on the marriage. Life has ups and downs.
      You want a spouse who will put in the effort also in bad days.
      Iys all about mentality.
      A trully pravticing religious person will consider marriahe sacred! And therefor work on the marriage, to build a warm home together.
      So analyze her piousness.
      Or does she constantly make excusrs?
      Does she quarell?
      Or is she timid?
      Respectfull?
      Obedient to her parents? To God?

    • @paulruano1903
      @paulruano1903 Месяц назад

      Remember... "words are cheap"!!! Analyze her ACTIONS. And how dhe interacts with othets!.
      Does it match her words?

  • @josephdracula7487
    @josephdracula7487 Месяц назад

    👍🤿😎🇵🇭! Wow didn’t expect this but it only just reminds all to have respect for one’s own personal beliefs and values!👍

    • @DearANNIE28
      @DearANNIE28  Месяц назад

      Absolutely! Respecting each other's beliefs and values is so important. Thanks for watching Joseph!🥰😇