Frustrated? You're Playing the Wrong Game

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  • @AlexanderLasarev
    @AlexanderLasarev  5 лет назад +21

    Do you ever feel frustrated with your life? Depressed? Like a loser? Have you been trying to learn game, and social hacks, and how to demonstrate value to the people you meet but none of it seems to work and you're still not satisfied with your life? Well if that sounds like you, you might be putting a ton of effort in to the wrong things... check out this week's video for details!

    • @garyrickards9562
      @garyrickards9562 5 лет назад +2

      Sasha hi man Gary here again, things are getting better, nothing externally has changed, but internally I'm feeling better, I am just trying to become a student of life, hope your doing well. Peace

    • @Petarosus
      @Petarosus 5 лет назад

      Or in other words, sign up to workshop teaching you how to cope with shit sex life:-).

  • @Enriqiue
    @Enriqiue 5 лет назад +21

    Great message..once you understand you are not your mind and even not the body...then you ll know what i m talking about ;) blessings to you all

    • @AlexanderLasarev
      @AlexanderLasarev  5 лет назад +3

      That is the big one..... wheee.....

    • @Subs1338
      @Subs1338 5 лет назад

      You are by definition yout mind. What are you talking about?

    • @TheRick8866
      @TheRick8866 5 лет назад

      Serclf s Unless you look you’ll never find. Maybe he could have worded it different. If you have ocd or depression are you those negative thoughts or are you the thing that knows there are negative thoughts. If you die doesn’t your body stay and whatever powers that body, go someplace else?

    • @AlexanderLasarev
      @AlexanderLasarev  5 лет назад +1

      Delusion is believing you are separate from all that is... believing you are the ego. THAT is the lie. You ARE the soul, and you're connected to al others. And THAT doesn't change, even if you don't believe it. That is THE TRUTH. But ya gotta figure that out for yourself..... who cares what all the awakened sages say? :P

    • @Subs1338
      @Subs1338 5 лет назад

      @@AlexanderLasarev just because the brain is able to experience an egoless awareness doesnt mean thats reality. I known mindfulness and psychadelics are in vogue right now but cmon

  • @luisgregoryhinojosa
    @luisgregoryhinojosa 5 лет назад +4

    Right timing on the video Sasha. At 40 internally I’m struggling myself. I hit a wall , I know my soul & heart is feeling dark lately. I want to find the old me who was happy , excited, living freely. Gotta watch this again & again.

    • @AlexanderLasarev
      @AlexanderLasarev  5 лет назад +1

      The “old” You is you. Clean the layers of societal programming, beliefs, and trauma... and you will get back to yourself. It worth it :)

    • @luisgregoryhinojosa
      @luisgregoryhinojosa 5 лет назад

      Sasha Daygame Thanks Sasha I know this deep inside. It’s a gut wrenching in my stomach feeling. I used to fight it but I’m learning it’s myself talking to me. Any advice do you have for family relatives moving away. I carry some sadness with me because I’ve had many family members move away. I don’t have any ideas how to handle it but I would like this feeling to not take over me during my day. Appreciate it much man 💓

  • @spol
    @spol 5 лет назад +4

    Nailed him on the cross bro. Loving your self is the only game that matters. Even the homeless can live better than you when they are awake and you aren’t.

  • @TheRick8866
    @TheRick8866 5 лет назад +2

    There is no good and bad. The part of the brain searching for good is the same part that keeps you from finding that goodness. To wake up is to accept, there is no finding anything, there is letting go.

    • @AlexanderLasarev
      @AlexanderLasarev  5 лет назад +1

      This is true... but is something one realizez sure far down on the path....

  • @mav6232
    @mav6232 5 лет назад +1

    Sasha you're a beautiful soul brother! I hope you're great and happy and business is good as well.
    We love and appreciate you man.
    I went from a hardcase to now almost "advanced". Almost at the point I never have to worry about this again. Now my only concern is to get my happiness and money up and give back to the teachers and community.
    Thanks again Alex!

  • @TudoQueAprendiSobre
    @TudoQueAprendiSobre 5 лет назад +5

    This video came just in time. Thank you very much for this, Sasha. Huge hug from a brazilian fan, hope someday we can met

  • @nolanrheinish1904
    @nolanrheinish1904 5 лет назад +3

    Realest shit I've ever heard about "game". Made me a little emotional. Keep waking people up Sasha!

  • @timotot123
    @timotot123 5 лет назад +5

    That mindset is so toxic. I've been there and it's probably taken years off my life just from the constant stress and anxiety. If you even look at one example like if you're a celebrity. How many truly happy and stable celebrities are there out there? I think you'll find it's very few. It really is this way we're conditioned whether it's a result of our parents pushing their expectations on to you or peer pressure from those around you trying to conform you to their ideals.

    • @Petarosus
      @Petarosus 5 лет назад

      Dan Bilzerian seems pretty happy buddy. And that mindset reflects evolutionary reality of life;-).

    • @timotot123
      @timotot123 5 лет назад

      @@PetarosusYeah anyone would feel that way splurging off there parent's fortune.

    • @Subs1338
      @Subs1338 5 лет назад +1

      What makes you think there are only a few celebrities thay are happy?

    • @timotot123
      @timotot123 5 лет назад

      @@Subs1338Just look at the constant expectations when they're in the public spotlight for starters. It can range from big highs to huge lows, depending what's going on. A celebrity needs to be able to manage their day veey carefully in order to avoid being burned out, and that's certainly no easy task. It's different when a celeb has survived through the peak of their careers and start getting some slack as the new generation start coming through. That's when the pressure has tapered off unless some scandel comes to light. At the same time you'd think that most people working in the public eye would know what they're getting themselves into, but it's still easy enough for it to turn into a nightmare if you're not careful

    • @Subs1338
      @Subs1338 5 лет назад +1

      @@timotot123 you said a VERY FEW celebritied are happy, and you get that point of view from watching them try to get away from papparazzi or something? Sure you could say that some celebrities are unhappy due to their celeb status, but most? You are just trying to be a mindreader.

  • @danfc3s
    @danfc3s 5 лет назад +3

    Who has this guy been learning from, every single one of the people I've learnt from tells me that I'm the master of my self image.
    If I don't think I'm awesome, no one will.
    Great video Sasha.

    • @AlexanderLasarev
      @AlexanderLasarev  5 лет назад

      You said it. The world is just a reflection of your internal reality - and a great teacher .... nothing more...

  • @Chimsonovan
    @Chimsonovan 5 лет назад +1

    I had tears in my eyes and I really needed that. Appreciate your existance and wish I can some day return the favor Mr. Daygame! Namaste

  • @waynematthews3457
    @waynematthews3457 5 лет назад +4

    I needed this one. Thanks, man.

  • @lyciusmartin4660
    @lyciusmartin4660 5 лет назад +4

    This was powerful. Thanks!

  • @naveed4246
    @naveed4246 3 года назад +1

    Same here.i am stuck in engineering and i want to start online buissiness but i am too such scared to tell this to my father.

  • @diego1602
    @diego1602 5 лет назад +6

    I don't know man. Of course you have to meditate and those things, like find your passions and what you love and what you are.
    But remember: laws, money, organizations, countries, and all the society is there for a reason.
    You still have to eat to survive. You still need money and the more you are the more safety it gives from a purely survival point of view.
    You still have to compromise in many situations because you can't always do the best thing.
    People are fucked, they always try to fuck you over with money, power abuses, stealing from. You what they can, hating you for no reasons. These things happen and society and laws etc provide you with a possible way to deal with it without being in a ghetto killing each other.
    Humans have a dark side and not all the people are good each other as I would do, or you. So it's still very important to get status and money(yes, social status because we are fucking animals responding to instincts and we have social needs hardwired in the brain, that's why you feel alone, because it is your brain telling you that you need more close friends)
    Still i appreciate people are moving toward a position of more awareness. Meditate guys, daily and it will feel better and you'll get girls as sasha says

    • @diego1602
      @diego1602 5 лет назад +2

      Just to specify I agree with the fact that the paradigm of the guy is purely wrong and led to a bad path of suffering.
      But I don't feel like sasha says that all the society is bullshit.
      Try to leave in tribes or in different societies and see what happens :D

    • @ImTyMotivation
      @ImTyMotivation 5 лет назад +2

      He’s not saying don’t eat or earn money. He’s saying don’t make your life about getting those things. Make life about finding out who the fuck you are and following your path.

    • @aim-for-greatn3z947
      @aim-for-greatn3z947 4 года назад +1

      @@diego1602 wooow I honestly hope you're not lost like the guy in the video. Your response so much unsatisfaction, those things are need money mainly but social status is bullshit, when you meet a female for the first time they dont ask you about your social status thus being all in your head.
      Also FUCK THE TRIBES!!!
      like you said society is FUCKED so why be part of the "tribe"
      I can tell your definitely confused.

  • @muhametali5227
    @muhametali5227 5 лет назад +1

    You’re not your thoughts :) You think from what you feel and you feel from what you think 🔄

  • @chump4978
    @chump4978 5 лет назад +1

    Man you re the shit...i have finnaly realized...Love this video, love you 👍👍

  • @PabloHernandez-xp7yk
    @PabloHernandez-xp7yk 5 лет назад +1

    Sasha you're so aware that scares... Wow

  • @justus000000
    @justus000000 Месяц назад

    It's funny, I started with Sasha's old videos and watched his evolution come more in line with my evolution

  • @rinnin
    @rinnin 5 лет назад +1

    Hell yeah brother. Spot on with this one. Hallelujah! 👍🏻

  • @GentianLicenji
    @GentianLicenji 5 лет назад +3

    love the special effects my man

  • @deathd0therelol319
    @deathd0therelol319 5 лет назад +2

    Good video. Music is cheesy but still a good message.

  • @bilalchoudhry7618
    @bilalchoudhry7618 5 лет назад +1

    This video gave me goosebumps, wow! Sasha, you're awesome. love the new direction

    • @AlexanderLasarev
      @AlexanderLasarev  5 лет назад

      If new direction means being more of my self.... I love it too!! :)

  • @kungtony
    @kungtony 5 лет назад +3

    Sasha reminds me of Jesus preaching to anyone who will listen. Like a messiah lol would be nice to see him approach women based on what he is teaching and to see his students approach too.

  • @garylim3279
    @garylim3279 5 лет назад +2

    Love this video man. Thanks for sharing it. Really feel for this guy.

    • @garylim3279
      @garylim3279 4 года назад

      @@alcian33i Hope things are going well for you. Peace brother!

  • @bimjybam
    @bimjybam 5 лет назад +2

    This guy is going home crying for sure :D

    • @bimjybam
      @bimjybam 4 года назад +1

      @@alcian33i even better ;)

  • @mdragarg
    @mdragarg 3 года назад

    Thinking you're awesome doesn't really make you awesome. It just excuses your faults and makes you ignore them, putting yourself further in an illusion.
    "Love yourself" doesn't really work when others don't love you, because that's the opinion everyone cares about. And that's true too, because you loving yourself is not an achievement. Getting others to love you is because everyone is selfish and the fact that you've gotten someone who is self centred (everyone these days) to love you by going beyond their boundaries is an achievement

  • @S3aCa1mRa1n
    @S3aCa1mRa1n 5 лет назад

    With an attitude like that I can understand why a girl wouldn’t want to be with him. Sure looks, status and money matter but if you have a shitty personality your chances aren’t higher. Having a magnetic personality, a mentality of abundance and a lot of options will help. And if you are still brainwashed into thinking that materialistic things are the only way to a women’s heart than you will attract those women.

  • @sanketa6370
    @sanketa6370 5 лет назад +5

    always churning out amazing content :D

  • @calebishere2491
    @calebishere2491 5 лет назад +1

    Fuck it Sasha I don’t even know you but I love you. Your a great and selfless man for doing this.

    • @AlexanderLasarev
      @AlexanderLasarev  5 лет назад

      I don’t you either but I love you too! :D

    • @calebishere2491
      @calebishere2491 5 лет назад

      Sasha Daygame I got the first cold approach date ever yesterday because of learning from guys like you and TNL. I have a spark of inspiration that I plan on turning into a nuclear bomb of greatness. Anybody reading the comments, you can trust this content, learn it, meditate on it, and use it. It is truly world-breaking!

  • @bomberzero4
    @bomberzero4 5 лет назад +1

    I wake people the fuck up out of this dream!!! Awesome

  • @andongospov5490
    @andongospov5490 5 лет назад +5

    Deserves a place on its own. Cannot stress enough how many people this video needs to reach.

  • @ebaturk
    @ebaturk 5 лет назад +4

    Women want/need a good plunging

    • @AlexanderLasarev
      @AlexanderLasarev  5 лет назад +4

      By Plunging you mean....plunging them with the unconditional love that is emanating from your heart? I hear ya... ;)

  • @sevencolours5014
    @sevencolours5014 5 лет назад +2

    One must have a life-determination. Also the thoughts must be positive-negative-equalized and guided towards higher goals and must be evolutive in nature. The purpose of life is evolution of consciousness, or to be more precise, evolution of ever-living spirit, through conscious effort. That happens by striving towards that which is higher. Money, looks, status, the Earth, even the whole Universe will cease to exist one day, only that which is higher, the spirit is ever-living.

  • @batuhan8802
    @batuhan8802 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you Sasha 🙏

  • @DaygameLatinoamerica
    @DaygameLatinoamerica 5 лет назад +1

    That Is the kind of mentallity we need for the society nowadays, we are also teaching this stuff un our vídeos... F.... GREAT!!!

  • @ronaldjames1455
    @ronaldjames1455 5 лет назад +1

    Sasha ! Love you bro...ty for these words of wisdom

  • @TobiasHoendervangers
    @TobiasHoendervangers 5 лет назад +1

    Beautiful truth, man. Essence of being.

  • @BestFaceForward
    @BestFaceForward 5 лет назад +2

    awesome...

  • @glennmodelo
    @glennmodelo 5 лет назад +2

    Awesome video.
    &
    SIGUR ROS FTW!!!

  • @fcchannel6162
    @fcchannel6162 5 лет назад +2

    people think looks is everything you just got to know there millions of good looking actors who cant getting acting job to save they life

  • @zsoltbiro5723
    @zsoltbiro5723 5 лет назад

    Very good definition! :) thank you ... again :)

  • @TempleofYou
    @TempleofYou 5 лет назад

    I see you brother..... I want to validate the man in this video.... because men need connection, touch and intimacy. They thing that is often confused with the consciousness that this man is exuding and that many men confuse is that they confuse connection with sex and they try to go about getting sex by focusing on material gain. Be clear... yes you do need connection and intimacy... focus on where you can get that very real need met through many different avenues and watch yourself grow... from here you may attract sexual intimacy as a result of knowing yourself more deeply and being in alignment.

    • @AlexanderLasarev
      @AlexanderLasarev  5 лет назад

      Well said dude.Yeh It's tough focusing on the real work of healing/self love/self-acceptance when you are confused and lonely! But... it can be done....

    • @TempleofYou
      @TempleofYou 5 лет назад

      Sasha Daygame thanks~ not sure if I think of myself as a dude:) haha insta @templeofyou

  • @SigmaDatingDoctor1402
    @SigmaDatingDoctor1402 Год назад +1

    Beautiful!

  • @MFS1001
    @MFS1001 5 лет назад +1

    well you just woke him up, welcome to my city sasha please wake up some more people because I look around and I see people sleepwalking al the time with these crazy commercial ideas looking for external things to make them happy and ending up sad angry and alone.

    • @AlexanderLasarev
      @AlexanderLasarev  5 лет назад

      I’m doing the best I can. Share my videos, and let’s do it together :)

  • @diogoeskate3075
    @diogoeskate3075 5 лет назад +1

    You stole the music, but you did it so well, gold as Always

  • @TheJustbristol27
    @TheJustbristol27 5 лет назад

    My game is decent but it will never be good enough. One thing I’ve learnt is no matter how good you get, it will never ever be enough. You will always want more women, more frequently than you are presently getting and then when you improve more it’s still not enough.

  • @Zoningzoning
    @Zoningzoning 5 месяцев назад

    Oh yeah. Now this is what I came here for.

  • @MrEvrit
    @MrEvrit 5 лет назад

    Spend all your life busting your ass to impress people that you don't even like...
    Is that worth it?

  • @filipslansky01
    @filipslansky01 5 лет назад

    This rant is out of a movie or what? Perfect

    • @AlexanderLasarev
      @AlexanderLasarev  5 лет назад

      Out of my higher self perhaps .... but all credit goes to the infinite one....

  • @SunnyRiver
    @SunnyRiver 5 лет назад +1

    Amen brother

  • @Snurre86
    @Snurre86 5 лет назад +1

    5:55 Is that internal conflict "you can't literally pull me out of the matrix" part of him wants to stay in there?

    • @AlexanderLasarev
      @AlexanderLasarev  5 лет назад

      Nah he was just really confused ... the real him wants to get the fuck out of there 🚒🚒🚒🚒

    • @Snurre86
      @Snurre86 4 года назад

      @@alcian33i Thank you for replying to me, are you Phil from Taunton area? If you are I think we meet in Budapest a year ago. Ether way give me your number on here and I will add you on Whatsapp if you want.

    • @Snurre86
      @Snurre86 4 года назад

      @@alcian33i If you want to be anonymous just post a comment then delete it after 20 seconds then me and Alex (Sasha) are the only one getting the comment in our emails.

  • @cmsull3316
    @cmsull3316 5 лет назад

    I’d like to get that social freedom book, Sasha. But the link is not there.

    • @AlexanderLasarev
      @AlexanderLasarev  5 лет назад +1

      Here's the link buddy: www.infinitemansummit.com/the-one-secret.html

  • @gerrycueto6649
    @gerrycueto6649 5 лет назад

    Great work, Sasha. Have you read any Albert Ellis? He talked about unconditional self and life acceptance.

    • @AlexanderLasarev
      @AlexanderLasarev  5 лет назад +1

      Name rings a bell but haven’t had the chance yet ....

    • @gerrycueto6649
      @gerrycueto6649 5 лет назад

      @@AlexanderLasarev you both have a similar life arc. He also came from the pick up artist world, overcame his approach anxiety, wrote seduction books, then formulated REBT, which disputes irrational beliefs and expectations, kind of like you're doing here with these men.
      Seems like an author you might love. :)

  • @respawnlife6999
    @respawnlife6999 5 лет назад +10

    Loved this who agrees :)

  • @maxpalombella11
    @maxpalombella11 4 года назад

    Great message, but the music was a little much.

  • @wyldergoulding2320
    @wyldergoulding2320 5 лет назад

    Keep inspiring

  • @surya-ravi
    @surya-ravi 5 лет назад +1

    Sasha,
    I love you

  • @holistyczny
    @holistyczny 5 лет назад +2

    Uhh, it was very sad to hear this guy. He doesn't understand what it is all about :( Good thing that he met you Sasha.

    • @AlexanderLasarev
      @AlexanderLasarev  5 лет назад +1

      We were both lucky because he taught me a valuable lesson too... that there’s lots of guys out there in a bad place that really need my help. So.... I am More inspired to try even harder ....

  • @BOZ_11
    @BOZ_11 5 лет назад +2

    perfect, just get rid of the music

    • @marcelosalame537
      @marcelosalame537 4 года назад

      Yes, that music sucks! And the message is fantastic!

  • @abssrb4271
    @abssrb4271 4 года назад

    Epic

  • @Ben256MB
    @Ben256MB 5 лет назад

    This dude is totally screwed up , he needs some serious counseling . It's shocking how guy thank you need to make 6 figures to just talk to beautiful woman . This soo far away from the truth . Beautiful women don't need a perfect man . All they want to be around a man who's truly interested in them genuinely and a man who's hardworking trying to put his life together . That's what is required .

  • @ou_9268
    @ou_9268 5 лет назад

    Minecraft?

  • @pauls2679
    @pauls2679 5 лет назад

    Sasha is woke!

    • @AlexanderLasarev
      @AlexanderLasarev  5 лет назад

      Everyone is.... we're all just remembering it.

    • @pauls2679
      @pauls2679 5 лет назад

      @@AlexanderLasarev I would love to meet with you one day! Starting my own youtube channel soon :) also created this group www.LIBuddyClub.com check it out! Thx

  • @jimjones8808
    @jimjones8808 5 лет назад +1

    Sounds like the guy is addicted to external validation.

    • @AlexanderLasarev
      @AlexanderLasarev  5 лет назад

      He was. Hopefully that's changing for now him now.....

    • @jimjones8808
      @jimjones8808 5 лет назад

      @@AlexanderLasarev out of curiosity Sasha, how many of the guys that you coach or meet through your work are suffering with this particular addiction? It seems like it stems from low self esteem and a lack of strong sense of self.