The Dark Reality Of Detransition: Regret & Activist Bullying
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- Опубликовано: 24 окт 2022
- An emotional detransitioner video has recently gone viral, and their story has made them PUBLIC ENEMY #1 to the trans community. Here is my exclusive interview with KC Miller.
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I am a tattoo artist and we can’t legally tattoo a minor because they are not old enough to consent or understand the long term ramifications of having a tattoo and how it’ll affect their life. So I don’t understand how that reasoning means kids can’t get tattoos, but they can somehow make permanent and irreversible changes to their bodies at such an extreme level as gender transitioning. Tattoos can be laser removed pretty easily nowadays, yet still not okay for minors. I’m glad none of the stuff I did as a young dumb teenager was permanent. As an adult, 100% do your thing with your body. But if you are too young for a tattoo, a beer or cigarette, going to war, carrying a gun, etc then you’re too young to make permanent bodily changes.
Wasn’t a parent charged for allowing a tattoo just last month?
In your professional opinion, when is a good time to get your first body modification beyond typical piercings?
@@UltraDonny5000 as someone who is looking into tatts/body mods myself, and have always refrained because I didn't wish to regret whatever it was I got (where as I proudly bare the scars my cats have accidentally given me because they got spooked and just had their claws trimmed so extra ragged) what would be a good age? I get people wanting to use their body as a canvas or just for self expression but as someone who reidentified out of being ftm and got booted from the TRA/LGBTETC group (despite still being dysphoric, what causes my dysphoria currently can't be solved by current medical science-and not straight) I don't really… trust myself to get a tattoo because of my history as a child who was socially transitioning and was only resisting medicalization because I'd had highly untrustworthy experiences with other medical doctors (orthopedists) that I wasn't keen back in the mid 2000s to start taking hormones and such. And I didn't even know/realized I'd been gr 00 mmed at the time by someone going after not fully developed females, and was being abused. Which made my desire to transition away from the target (a girl) to anything but that even stronger. So I'm curious when you think someone who doesn't have a history of issues should start (much more reversible) body mods.
@@UltraDonny5000 I got mine in my early - mid 20s during non “sun exposure” months and durning my own slow season.
Only issue I’ve got is with my first one, I went smaller for the “future” I may be jeopardizing - and my artist said (I’ll never forget this) “if we don’t go bigger it won’t hold up and in 10 years she won’t have a face”. And sure enough. 10 years later, she doesn’t have a discernible face.
They know. They’re professionals.
You are the canvas, you know your body. Make sure you’re well hydrated and eat a decent (healthy) meal before your session. Almost all infections come outside of the shop, so change your sheets make sure you’ve got antibacterial soaps, don’t go swimming, avoid direct sunlight & apply the suggested moisturizer ((almost all artists have a preferred aftercare product))
A great argument against allowing minors to make 100% permanent, irreversible choices. As a parent, I would tell my child that they can make this decision as an adult. Imagine being the parent that advocated for this permanent decision and having to live with the fact that you promoted something your child will regret for the rest of their lives. That's aside from the mental anguish that someone in this situation will live with forever. I'm not against adults making this decision or choice, but without maturity and the cognitive thinking of an adult brain rash decisions can be made. There's so many things I thought I was, or thought I wanted as a teenager that I an so thankful didn't come to fruition because my life would be effed up.
Can we talk about how a teenage girl can have her breast removed basically on a whim, but if a grown woman has decided she doesn't want kids, they will deny her getting her tubes tied...
Exactly! I'm 44 now. Child 14 & 22, boy & girl. Divorced 8 years ago and always on IUD. I told my gyno 2 years ago I wanted my tubes tied since I won't be having more children, want no accidents ( have a 1.5 year old granddaughter) but want foreign objects out of my body etc. They refused. Said I needed to keep IUD. I was too fertile still and may change my mind😳🤬🤔.
@@summerschultz6685Wow, that's amazing and ridiculous. I had thought they only pushed that on women under 40. Wow.
The same insurance company that will approve a double mastectomy for a teenage girl will deny the same girl a breast reduction.
I can't go on mood stabilisers for severe PTSD and BPD because it "may affect fertility" I'm 28 and can't make my own decisions apparently but transkids can?!...
Im 15 lol
I’m a 15 year old trans boy, and you have no idea how thankful I am to, not only have common sense, but also have parents who are entirely against letting me start medically transitioning. At the moment, I feel 99% sure that I am a trans boy, but other people need to realize that just because this is how I feel now doesn’t mean I will feel this way when I’m 18, 19, 20, and so on. I’m a teenager. We are at the most emotional and hormonal stage we will ever be in and we tend to have some pretty fucked up thoughts. I’m not saying that every single trans minor will regret their decisions, but the possibility is definitely there, and so many people need to be aware of that.
(Edit December 2023): I literally transitioned back to a girl six months ago lol. Even more glad my parents never let me go on testosterone!
you don't even have to be a trans boy. you can be a short haired ,masculine dressing female. nothing wrong with that.
You are very wise and smart for your age!! Don't ever let anyone tell you different! And obviously your parents love you very much and are only looking out for you and your best interests! I wish more parents and young trans people had your intellect. ❤
You are very self aware for your age. Good for you!
@@LadyFairChildVideoI agree. I dont understand why parents arent supporting their masculine girls to just be a masculine girl. Or support their feminine boys just be a feminine boys. No teen is ever happy with their bodies and as a parent its our job to help our kids understand that not feeling comfortable in their body is so nornal. Why give them medication and surgery when they are under the age to concent for themselves? Also parents need to not look at their child as being homosexual as the worst thing in the world. Sometimes that is really the root cause. They are just gay but maybe a more masculine female or a fem male. Helping them feel loved, safe and accepted would solve the majority of kids that arent really trans from wanting to transistion.
@@andis60 there's more to it. It's more like a sense of hatred towards your sex and wish you were the other one SO badly. That's also why so many trans people commit suicide. It's not wanting to detransition, it's wishing they transitioned earlier
You have to be 18 to get a tattoo, consent to sex, buy cigarettes. You have to be 21 before you buy alcohol. If a 12 year old girl wanted breast implants. That would be horrifying. So why the hell is this concept so hard to understand? Thank you for talking about this. You are so courageous.
When I was 16 I had a classmate who had a tattoo, a memorial for her mother, and she explained how she needed her dad's written consent.
Fast-forward to me working at a gas station and someone who looks like a 12-year-old attempts to buy cigarettes. I ask for ID and she says, "I have a tattoo 🤨" as proof of age, which always brings me back to my 16-year-old classmate with her tattoo.
In Europe we can drink alcohol at 16/18
It’s even older than that now for cigarettes. They moved it to 21. It’s mind blowing that people are just deciding for children that sex change is where the line ISNT going to be drawn for consenting/maturity etc
@@yacobeinauan9533the age of consent here in UK is 16 and you can marry at 16 with parental consent.
@yacobeinauan9533 in Mexico you can drink if you can see over the bar. That doesn't make it right. Nor make it right for a minor to consent to life changing procedures.
“Children are incapable of making adult-level decisions.” We used to understand this, and we created an entire juvenile justice system because of it.
It's crazy how much power and control they want my 12 year old to have. He's very smart for a 12 year old and very mature for his age.. that being said, he's an idiot. There's no way he should have any say over something that would affect his life forever. Parents need to STOP wanting their kids to like them 100% and focus more on discipline and supporting them in a healthy way
Yeah but then we prosecute 15 year-olds as adults.
@@samiam2088 they have to commit a serious crime for that to happen
When your aim is to depopulate, the most efficient way to do that is to go after the females, ideally before they even reach the age where they can reproduce. It makes sense that the Left is pushing abortion and transitioning for underage women.
From what I understand, it's not easy to get testosterone. KC advocated hard for herself to get the hormones, to get top surgery, it wasn't an easy thing. Her parents had to be involved.
"we need to stop pathologizing the normal teenage experience"...exactly! I don't know any women that felt comfortable in their body as teenagers
Men either, I was so far from comfortable in my own skin as a teenager! How different I would look if I would've acted on every thought I had about my body holy hell! As far as this "community" they can burn in hell! Not trans people at all, but the organized segment that's online and spewing this hateful rhetoric, you can play in traffic! Absolutely disgusting to think that this is what someone can expect when they reach out to share their story!
So true, I remember at 12 being super upset and even crying multiple times because I did not want to wear a bra, literally, and at that age I would always get older men trying to talk to me. It was not a good time
Exactly! That's a part of being a woman, the insecurity, the rush of hormones, not wanting to be a woman. lol it's natural for women and men to not like their change but to let them think it's ok to be a whole different sex when they don't even know what sex is doesn't make sense to me. Once your adult you can do whatever you want but as a minor and under an adult responsibility, you would think that it wouldn't take place because these things change people's lives to the point where there's no coming back.....
KC still identifies as a man and is just mad about going bald. That is literally the whole story...
@@Fiorwestcoast Not true. He's detransitioning. His reasons are not completely clear to me but that, for sure is true.
I'm a 55 year old woman (born a woman). Every teenager (me included) felt uncomfortable in their body and hated their body! That is normal!
So important for people to understand this. And hating or feeling uncomfortable in your body during puberty is natural but it’s even worse because social media pushes an unattainable state of the body. Perfection is the goal but it cannot be reached. Sad
@DR-mq1vn
Warn every woman with a young daughter you know to teach them that. The trans groomers are targeting tween girls who were never told it's normal. It's so disgusting.
@@brittr1358 I'm shocked that this isn't common knowledge. Every person (boy and girl) are uncomfortable and hate their bodies when they are growing up. I was a popular cheerleader in the 80s during my high school days. I hated many things about my body. And all my friends were the same way. That is so normal. And even know that I'm a grown woman, there are things I don't like about my body. But that's life! How do people not realize that this is normal? Even super models and beautiful celebrities don't like certain things about their own bodies.
Yoy are really missing the point, it's literaly disgust to your secondary sexual characteristics and wishing you had the other gender characteristics....
@@DR-mq1vnexactly!!!
I'm almost 50 and I sure wish I had that body NOW, that I didn't like back then!!! 🤣😂
It does feel like a cult. The fact that they bully and try to verbally hurt detransitioners is so low.
They tried to suicide him
it *is* a cult
They are legion because they are many. My parents always told me demons were real and when people are possessed by certain ideologies they almost behave like a group of hornets. The more I grow up, the more I realize people do be acting a little possessed at times. Like the Bible story where a group of possessed pigs threw themselves off a cliff.
Blair is a perfect example of how you can transition perfectly well AFTER you hit 18. i have 0 problem with trans adults, but ill fight like hell against this movement to do it to kids.
There are even adults that regret it. How they expect for a child to understand the implications is beyond me.
@@bringiton5282 that can't be true. We're finding the schools are the indoctrination farms. Refusing to go to school runs counter to the mountains of evidence we're having shoved in our faces.
Blaire is a very special case. She's absolutely gorgeous. Puberty f'd me up and I don't really have the money for FFS or other body contouring surgeries. I still deal with really bad gender dysphoria due to these issues, but it's a lot LOT less at least
I'm not bothered by the aesthetic but I am bothered by the movement that very literally tries to erase biological facts and specifically tries to make womanhood an idea. I have a friend whose abuser followed her into a DV shelter because of an executive order allowing trans "women" into female only spaces now. These aren't issues that are being covered by media and anyone concerned about them is labelled a bigot or a TERF. Sex segregated spaces exist for important reasons and the biological realities and dangers of being female aren't just something you can self-identify with. I appreciate that Blaire doesn't suggest that trans women are the same as women.
@@anarchist_parable All this also the fact that Self ID is becoming a thing, women need a space away from males (no matter how they identify) women like Emma Watson and all those idiots can hang with them in mixed gender spaces but Im tired of seeing men in dresses in women's spaces and taking opportunities from them all because they lied on their birth certificate and SS card
*if minors can’t consent to sexual activity on the basis that they don’t understand the consequences- CLEARLY THEY CANT UNDERSTAND THE CONSEQUENCES OF THIS.*
Don't give them ideas...
define "minors" sarah?
Unfortunately, your comment is too logical. This cannot be used as an acceptable perspective.
100%!
What if they identify as adults tho?
I mean there are adults that identify as toddlers.
“Pediatric transition pipeline” is hands down the most horrifying thing I have ever heard in my life
Childhood sexual abuse is the precursor to SO MUCH OF THIS! We need to protect our kids from predators!
I am inclined to agree. I recently found out that a girl whom I knew about a decade ago is now living as a transman - she had been molested by her father's, "friend."
Now I wonder what might be the psychological implications which lead to wanting to transition during adulthood, after being molested during childhood.
Child sex abuse is the real pandemic! It's a scourge upon this earth. And while everyone is distracted with this or that the age of consent is quietly being reduced state to state and the world stigmatizes words like "grooming", which are a necessary component for identifying abuse. It goes without saying but the world has gone mad. Lastly, the trans community is somehow missing how they are being unfairly used. They will not miss when the pendelum swings back the other way against them as I fear it will be unjust and long lasting. I hope all the hard won positivity is not lost to this convoluted moment in time. Nothing about any of this is organic. You'd think everyone would be quite weary of the sudden attention and popularity.
This is such an ignorant take
pretty sure it's well-informed and based on substantive evidence... but whatever@@chaebu9812
@GaelynCunningham
Predators have rights ya know.
(I'm being sarcastically sarcastic. Don't shoot me)
The entire "trans community" went mask off and showed their true colors with KC.
They been like that for years people are just now noticing how sexist and misogynistic they are especially those TIM's
No. Haven't you heard of Trans Against Groomers?
@@SSGLGamesVlogs I thought it was Gays against groomers ??
@@elizabeth5898 It was. There's no Trans Against Groomers as far as I can find.
They've always been like this. I remember saying in 2016 that gender neutral bathrooms are fine, but men still shouldn't be going into women's locker rooms, especially when the majority of women would feel uncomfortable. Why should the feelings of the few outweigh the feelings of the many?
"I had top surgery after 6 months" That one sentence made me so angry. That is actually legitimately insane.
6 months versus -
forever! I just don't get it.
U r so right. omg, I still can't believe that this is allowed to happen to adolescents and children, in the fucking U.S.A. !?
Right
And then you have people like me that would be ecstatic to have that opportunity- how do these kids afford all this med care and surgery ???
@@johankaizzer5376 It actually makes perfect sense.
What happened to my LGTBTQ+ community?? We're supposed to be about love and acceptance. Detransitioners deserve our love and support just as much as anyone else!
The moment something is being called "community" or starts transforming into some kind of social cancer
@@zawarudo1041yup “communities” just create more problems and divide us as people
@@zawarudo1041The word community has nothing to do with these bullies. As they have no clue how a real community functions.
When you allow others to dictate the meaning of words you are allowing them to shape your world.
There is L. There is G.
And there is a very, very small group of genuine T for transexual.
All the rest is a screaming need for attention.
We're in a divide state now. Libertarian is kind of where I stand at this point because I don't trust either side but only one of the two get a say in anything. The two party system is so polarizing on purpose they're afraid of people not seeing red vs blue
I couldn’t make good life decisions at 20yrs. Let alone at 15yrs. SMH…😢
Everything alright?
The way the trans community has treated KC is absolutely disgusting!! It does nothing for their community. It just makes them more criticized.
It’s Heartbreaking
Narcissistic “community”.
They can tell their story… *BUT* they even tweeted they were balding *BEFORE* they took hormones and transitioned. *SO* they need to state the facts and blame *GENETICS* not the hormones.
@@ZoeyZoco But wouldn't testosterone speed up the process? I also don't know if KC was taking something to supress oestrogen which would further cause problems.
The community is a joke at this point i feel like. Someone can share their story like this person is doing, trying to warn others, and the community is so toxic about it. This is partly why people dont like the lgbtq community i think. They often advocate for crazy shit like having kids take hormones, but the instant you say something, they dont even care if you are transphobic, they’ll just use it bc they know it’ll make others angry.
The salesman at the mattress store was more concerned that my mattress decision would be permanent than doctors are with giving kids hormones these days.
No joke! Mine was actually encouraging me to weigh my options out for severe back problems and not to just go with the most expensive one. That's downright sad.
My barber asked me like 10 times when I decided to cut my long hair to very short.;p
I prayed to God saying I'd become a Christian if he let me get a win in Minecraft Hunger Games, and he straight up wrote me a message on a stone tablet saying I should probably just stay an atheist.
"It really is crazy how fragile your identity must be if you see someone else struggling with theirsand you think that is somehow an attack on you"
Well said. Their narcissism is what makes them feel attacked. Narcissism is the real mental illness here.
This is so sad that KC is being attacked for simply regretting their transition. :( I am sending prayers to KC and my strength!
At 15, I was an entirely different person from who I’ve grown up to be. Hell, at 18 I was entirely different from who I’ve grown up to be. The idea that a literal child is allowed to make a radical and permanent change to their body and their life is mind blowing to me.
There was a girl in my high school class who got a breast reduction for back problems and even she was required to wait until she was 18, senior year. It’s so crazy that things have changed this much.
People literally aren't allowed to vote or drink before 18, yet cutting off your breasts is apparently just fine
You literally have to also give a lot of medical info and evidence that pain is detrimental for you in order to receive it for free
I have polands syndrome (only grew one breast) and I also had to wait until I was almost 19 to get reconstructive surgery
That's what happens when we have evil unelected leaders in charge.
Hell you have to provide medical reasons for breast reduction in you're Forty's. Unless you want to pay for it.
“how fragile your identity must be to see someone complain about theirs and think it’s an attack on you” 😮💨
You're not wrong, but I can say it's pretty easy to fall into that and it's no one's fault. I had this experience myself, when someone for example says "not only trans people have discomfort with their body", a trans person can feel like their experience is less unique, and it feels like a drain of self value, it's just hard to hear there's nothing to do about it.
And I don't think that's the problem.
A lot of people just act with hate out of it, that is the problem.
It should instead be taken as an argument, that maybe contradicts yours, it hurts when you hear it but you need to be self critical and impartial, and just find what's really true.
It takes some time and it's not easy, but that's the way to grow and really find yourself, following the standard path for transitioning with your ears closed and just doing that means to numb yourself, not find your true self.
@@topolatte "a trans person can feel like their experience is less unique, and of less value" dude that's just absolute fucking narcissism. Who cares if your experience isn't so unique. That doesn't make it less valuable. The world doesn't revolve around you. And doesn't need to cater to your experience above others.
I can't believe how much narcissism and egotistical behavior and insecurity I've seen in trans identifying people
i follow a lot of movie groups, i find it funny when ppl legit feel attacked cause i didnt like a "movie" that they liked, and take it as a personal attack... and thats just the medium of Television, ppl get angry over nothing they should be, ppl are crazy
@@topolatte I don’t want to sound insensitive but it’s really helpful to teach people that not everything is about them the hard way. People need to get over themselves and stop taking everything personally. That’s a low key a narcissistic trait
@@analea6531 yea you're probably right, it's not easy for me to say something like that to another, but I think it's something that can really change their perspective and wake them up
It's so impressive how almost all the cases of people detransitioning have in common. People not happy with their body type, thinking that the opossite sex have more advantages, sexual abuse as a child, low self estime. These are issues that years ago were fixed with therapy. I remember I wanted to be a boy. At 13 years old I didn't have many curves. I hate the period, I felt unconfortable and nervous thinking that I could have a "bloody accident" also, I have 3 brothers, they always had permission from my mom to go out. Movie theater, parties, have girlfriends, few or no chores at home, etc. I was the only girl and my mom overprotected me. So, in my mind it was better to be a boy. I am so happy that happened 30 years ago way before this insanity. Today I would be "diagnosed" with gender dysphoria, taking hormones and in line waiting for the butcher. I hope these stories help the kids who are struggling right now.
I went by Johnathan for awhile when I was younger. I didn't fit in at school, I struggled with body image, I wasnt the pretty popular girl. I went through the emo stage, tomboy, tried to be girlie. All I can say is I'm so glad my parents didn't act on that like some do nowadays. I was just being a teen girl, in a world where kids were mean. I needed therapy and love. That was all.
@@mgracie8129 Glad to know that you are ok now. Your parents dis what is right.
@@lindilla I still hate my body but for different reasons. that's something I need to learn to love again after having my daughter. I grew up with eating disorders and just a general hate for my body thanks to bullies. I thought being a man/boy would stop that, especially the sexual, physical and mental abuse I went through growing up.
We're gonna see a huge boom of detransitioners unfortunately. If we all gave into our 15 year old impulses, I don't even want to imagine where a lot of us would be today. Sad for this person. But thank you for giving people like KC a voice.
15 year old me was suffering so much. I had severe body dysmorphia. I even thought of transitioning. Till now I realized it wasn’t me it was my dad who made me insecure. So thank god my mom had a talk with me and helped me. Go through the steps of realizing and understanding that I’m perfectly fine the way I am. Am I as pretty as some girls? No but I have my best friend who helps me feel better about myself! 15 year old me was better off without the power to change her life drastically.
15yo me just didn't want to exist anymore, I'm kind of glad I didn't take steps to get what I wanted.
My family didn’t care and let me do whatever. I ended up at 14 with a child (the father being a creepy adult) living away from home absolutely miserable. I’m 24 now, 10 years later and I’m about to admit myself to get some mental care because I’m reaching a breaking point… so yeah, it doesn’t look good when children are allowed to run on impulses… I’m so beyond traumatized I don’t know if who I was meant to be will ever come to fruition or if I’m ruined. I feel ruined.
I teach middle school. I deal with teenage decisions everyday. One of my kids got a schedule change and she spent ten minutes sobbing about how much she hated it and wanted it switched back. She was very, very upset. Genuinely. I asked her to wait three days and just try it out to see how she liked it before we went to the old one. The next day? Totally fine. She even said she kinda liked it.
Teenagers, let alone little kids, don’t know what they want. It’s crazy to think they could consent to transitioning.
Exactly. Every day teenagers are learning more about how much they can handle and the threshold for “this is the worst thing ever“. For emotional pain, physical pain being uncomfortable, and personal strength. I say all the time that these kids need to to develop a sense of mental fortitude.
I wanted a tattoo of Batman on my ass when I was 14 , I can’t even imagine if someone would have let me do that
did you just compare transitioning with a schedule 💀
@@adreliam No, use your common sense. She’s obviously not comparing transitioning to a schedule she saying that teenager’s threshold for inconveniences and changes being “the end of the world“ is rather small and shortsighted.
The things that they consider to be “a huge deal“ only appear that way because in their short time on earth they don’t have a real measuring stick of how bad things can get. So for that girl her schedule change is a huge big deal but after realizing that it wasn’t she was OK. It really has to do with the individual teenager and how they’re able to cope with change and the threshold for problems and how to view them. As adults we will see her problem as insignificant but for her it means everything. THAT’S what she’s talking about, don’t be ridiculous.
@@LoveAndSnapple I really appreciate the fact that you acknowledged why a teenager's threshold for inconvenience is low and didn't just dismiss it. I work with teens and their feelings get dismissed a lot and aren't considered valid. A lot of people don't understand that a teenager's view is small because they don't have much life experience yet, and they just expect them to feel and react as adults would.
An entire generation of youth are going to be sad when they figure out their looks are not a replacement for a personality.
Not only that, they're going to be _angry_ once they start thinking about starting a family (or their biological clocks kick in), only to realize the puberty blockers and hormone therapy effectively _sterilized_ them, never mind if they got _bottom_ surgery on top of that. They'll be furious at their parents for allowing/pushing it, at the doctors for prescribing/performing it, and at society at large (okay, mostly the _left_ ) for encouraging them into it and shaming them for no longer wanting it. There will be mass class-action lawsuits if it's legally possible, and it's gonna be a *hot mess.*
Yep
Or their inner identity. 😔 People who are at risk are often struggling to find themselves and nowadays people are conflating their group to their identity. Deep down everyone just wants to belong. So sad.
@@taliat1971 "nowadays people are conflating their group to their identity."
"group"?
@@wolu9456 they are taking the group they identify with.... For example, Republican, democratic, gay, trans, and taking that on as their whole identity, and along comes the mob mentality form of thinking. The truth is humans can identify with hundreds of groups. I don't know if that explained my statement better for you
i feel so terribly for this poor girl. she was only 15 years old and made a bad choice that will now effect the rest of her life. this is so tragic
Honestly, imo I say she didn't make a bad choice, so to speak. She was allowed to do it... it's almost like doctors really wanted to see if they could really change someone into a different gender... this is crazy that this was ever allowed...
As a conservative woman of color constantly being told I’m betraying my race or people by having this mindset, I am beyond happy to have found your page. To see a transgender woman with sane ideology on this topic is so refreshing.
It’s rare, and very appreciated! I love the dialogue her videos invoke
I agree. You're allowed to think whatever you want to think. Anyone who says things like you're "betraying your race" or something is discrimination because they're suggesting that you don't have a right to have a different view based on the way you look in accordance with what's socially/culturally "acceptable." I mean, who are THEY to put a label on everyone and call some "victims" and "privileged"? This mentality has a lot to do with why so many people are lost these days. Keep being the best YOU you can be and preach the truth.
Can someone please tell me was KC originally a boy or a girl? I can’t tell 😭
@@-FSY- Born female with self-proclaimed masculine features and more of a tomboy, transitioned to male and ended up regretting it.
@@-FSY- Really, that extremely feminine face wasn't clear enough? lol
I think it's hilarious how obvious trans people are but so many pretend they're not. Y'all are regarded with a hard t lmao
De-transitioners are so unheard and silenced. So glad you are being their voice!
If you did research you will know that KC doesn’t actually want to de transition he’s just mad that he’s balding
Kc is just mad he's going bald. That is literally the entire story...Blair just LOVES taking things out of context. Her entire platform is a joke. She caters to the ill-informed conservative crowd. And they actually believe it.
What are yall on about? Did yall actually watch their video?
And what does that matter they still regret it. The reason why doesn't really matter. They altered their body in a massive way and it had blow backs they didn't expect.
Nevermind all that though their are plenty of other reasons why this new fad is toxic.
@@niebruh That's ironic. If *you* did your research you would know that KC has already said and done a video entitled, 'I'm detransitioning'.
Stop being a heartless bigot.
@@realMaverickBuckley kc as of the 11th of October is still male and made this post on Twitter:
"Well I'm not happy about going bald but that started before I transitioned so I think it might have been inevitable. Gotta love PCOS!"
the individuals straight up bullying KC are simply showing how insanely insecure they are in themselves.
Not to mention, at a basic level, are VILE and HORRIBLE people to bully someone who is suffering with regret for life-altering procedures that they were more than likely coerced into by the very same community that is vilifying them! Truthfully, if this is the "support" that the trans community offers, NO ONE should ever provide the "community" as resource for struggling teens and adults...this is NOT support, this is akin to a lynch mob and need to be called out as such, maybe then people will stop buying into their hypocritical and damaging BS.
On god🤣
Ong bro, like how is transitioning back bad? Isn't that what they want? The freedom to pick.
They are evil, vindictive people full of hate.... banging on about trans rights and transphobia yet willing to bully their own to death in some cases... RIP Daphne Dorman.. As a 50yo white man who prefers dating biological women I'm probably considered transphobic yet have more respect and sympathy for people like Kasey than most other trans people do
@@Harleyy18 what?
KC did not deserve that hate whatsoever
I took my child to a counselor because she was really struggling with depression and self confidence. Told them they needed to work with her and her self image. They told my kid she was a boy and gave her trans kid COLORING BOOKS and spent all the sessions ignoring the underlying issues. She was 11, going through puberty, and needed professional help.
I Just feel like they betrayed her and never helped with the issues she was actually dealing with.
That is deranged! Poor girl..to think these pple are getting paid to brainwash is insane!
It’s so importantly talk about this - at 16 I thought I was trans (ftm) because I liked looking like a boy and hated feminine clothing, I cut my hair short and enjoyed it honestly. So I went to my mom and told her that I wanted hormones and surgery; and I’m so thankful for what said to me next. She told me that she will always love me no matter who I am, and I’m free to present however I like, but surgeries and hormone therapy is one step further and completely irreversible, so I should be absolutely clear and 1000% sure that this will actually make me feel better. If I still feel this way at least 6 months later, we will talk about this again
At first I was annoyed and thought she didn’t “get” me, but after 2/3 months I began to realize that I don’t actually want to be a man, as I thought more about hormones and surgery I realized I would become an entirely different person, and I liked the idea less and less. By now, I’m 19 and feel amazing as a woman and would even like to become a mother one day. Looking back I’m so incredibly grateful for what she told me that day, she knew I can be impulsive (especially at 16) and handled the situation beautifully. I love her so so much!! I realized that my hatred of my body stemmed from low self esteem and internalized misogyny, and I'm glad for my mom talking me out of it because there's no doubt in my mind that I would have gone ahead with the surgeries had I been encouraged to do so.
small edit, but wow I didn’t expect so many people to agree with me! 😅 The main point I’m trying to make is that I didn’t want to be a man, I just hated being a woman. I subconciously thought being a man would make life easier which of course is not true. I have a lot more I could say, but the comment would get way too long!
Again, sorry this was really long haha :)
No need to apologize for a life saving story
Thank you for sharing this story. I'm so afraid of this potentially coming up as a parent and what being forced on kids in schools. This was really helpful. Thank you again. I'm so happy to hear that you were able to get through this and are happy in your body.
Please speak out for young people around you! They need to hear this story
So glad to hear that there is people like your mom
No apologies needed as a matter of fact
I give you absolutely 💯 credit for having the guts to share your very personal experience and insight about your life!
I am sorry that these things happened to you. But you at least have the wisdom and insight to understand yourself. I feel in time will find a way to navigate and find ways for you to be comfortable in your body and appearance. I wish you all the best in the future and your journey.
Take Care 💖
This is so painful.
I had a major gender dysphoria after rape at my 16-18's and I hated that my country wouldn't allow transitioning at this young age. And I don't hear too often about that but it is a really common thing in female survivors. I entered therapy as "please refer to me as a he because i'm uncomfortable in femininity" and exited happily as a woman who addressed the trauma response in a better way.
Yep. I used to wish I was gay bc I was so terrified of men after what I went through. I'm sorry you had that experience btw. Glad you got some help and emerged strong
It’s always there. You listen to these people and they always say “I was a bit of a tomboy, never could relate to female things, and there was the constant violent se……. assault…”
I am so sorry you had to experience that
I’m so sorry for what you went through and am happy that you were able to get help. I really really wish there was a study on how many suffering from dysphoria suffered some form of sexual abuse. I was 8 when a neighbor boy who was 12 tried to molest me. I went full Tom boy after that for years. I know that’s not the case for everyone but I’d be really interested to know the numbers.
💗 love you sis 💗
I still sometimes can get emotional over getting a wrong hairstyle. I can't even begin to understand what detransitioners are going through. It just breaks my heart
The fact that they said "not just as a minor but I was dealing with mental health issues, as well" just proves the point that therapist are failing the youth. That should be the priority when a kid presents in a therapist's office---let's manage mental health. Instead, they ignored the main issue and tried to stick a PERMANENT "band aid" on a symptom of their main problem. Do your job, therapists!!! Treat mental health first and foremost before you push a CHILD down the road of transition!
Imagine being *part* of a community that hates you because you're unhappy. I feel so awful for KC and other detransitioners.
The detransitioners on Twitter all get bullied. They never really say anything inflammatory, either. It's mostly just "I'm unhappy. I feel failed by the medical professionals I saw. I wish kids had more information." And trans people will flood them with bullying statements, or accuse the detransitioners of wanting kids to die of su*c*de.. It's very, very hard to watch.
exactly. instead of sympathizing with them, the community instead turns it around and makes it about themselves
It's a bloody cult, with all the shaming, abusing and ostracizing typical to such groups.
It was revealed that KC already was balding before starting testosterone
@user-et9mc6gv3y balding at 15? Before getting on testosterone? Do you know how balding works? Because it's a combination of A. genetic combination. You need to have inherited the recessive allele for baldness trait. B. TESTOSTERONE. And that is exactly why women rarely go bald because they do not produce enough testosterone to manifest the baldness trait from their genetics into their phenotype.
Do some research before blindly subjecting to whatever either political ends want you to believe
I regretted dying my hair purple at 15 cause it’s caused damage to my hair……..I can’t imagine the regrets some people have after transitioning as a minor. It’s such a radical change……..it breaks my heart to see them hurt like this.
I know .....so true😁
He has an illness and was already balding before transitioning
How old are u now? I keep trying to talk my daughter out of it.. I keep telling her the hair gets damaged FROM THE ROOTS.. THE ROOTS WILL NEVER BE THE SAME! I did it too
@@Emivioricomex ? Dosent hair grow back?
@@Emivioricomex have it done professionally. It won’t damaged her hair. It sounds like you just don’t want her to dye her hair but as long as it’s not a color lifting dye (will lighten her hair, stay away if you don’t want that) take her to the salon and have them dye it
None of the haters that attacked KC could be as brave ! To open up on the internet when you're "vulnerable" so that people can be informed of the side effects of transitioning thus making sure nobody else has to go through what you're going through requires an enormous amount of courage. Those people should have been supportive, instead they attacked KC because THEY felt insecure, that is pathetic.
KC, the supremacist LGBTQ may have abandoned you... but you gained the heart of everyone else. Your self-awarneness, intelligence and honesty make you all the more charming. What's even classy from you is that you are disappointed but do not show resentment against anybody. I wish i was as brave and humble as you are.
OMG a sane trans influencer …THANK YOU so much ur doing gods work
The whole community is more concerend with looks and faking their apprearance, than people actually improving their life, daily habits, self worth etc.
First mistake is to say the whole community. Some members perhaps the loudest of community…
@@bcyes409 well most of them do.
Agreed. The toxic part is absolutely this way.
Wow
Does anyone know where KC Millers viral video is that got millions of views? I think it was removed as I can't find it? :(
This is heartbreaking. I regret soooo many things I did at 15. The fact that this many people can’t comprehend that a minor shouldn’t be able to consent to these things is so terrifying
I regret basically *everything* I did at 15 💀
yeap..... plus, it's not that they cant change gender or their haircut/clothes. It's just the things that are irreversible... I dont think is bad for people to have some time to figure out their own path. Maybe transitioning is your thing and you're incredibly happy... but maybe it's not.... just think about it well and do whatever you want, but after a deep thought.
This is like IMPULSE tattoos. Dont do permanent things out of impulse.
I had so many stupid ideas at 15…I’m so glad that 1. None of them were permanent, and 2. I was 15 long before the internet!
The feeble minded will fall into these traps every single time. And people wonder why people have an issue with the entire thing altogether. I blame the parents more than anything
But remember, everybody is going to work with that kid to grant her/him request, regardless of what the parents say. Teachers, medical doctors, peer pressure, activists, etc. will work to get this kid hormones replacement, surgery and the whole nine yards in spite of the parent wishes or consent. And then when the kid gets it done via medical reasons, and later regrets it, who’s going to be blamed. The parents will be left to pick up all the pieces to try to put that child back together again. These policies and laws need to be changed, because teenagers can be harsh to their parents, until they get what they want. If the parents say NO, they better get ready for WW3!!!😅❤
KC is so articulate and measured - a really gracious person
This is why kids don't have kids, get tattoos, make ANY permanent decisions. It's shocking how cruel these people are.
Ironic how a community who seeks acceptance and love is the most isolating, bullying (to their own) and hateful community there is. Its just….interesting actually
ive always been an LGBTQ supporter.... but now i question anyone thats trans.. "are they the crazy hatefilled ones or the rational Blaire White ones?"
Cult like behavior
Always thought the same thing
EXACTLY!
That's how all modern internet-based cults behave. Even the obesity cult will disown you if you happen to lose weight for health reasons.
“And it really is crazy how fragile your identity must be, if you see someone else struggling in theirs and think that’s somehow an attack on you.”
Thats exactly what I was thinking. Unfortunately people like this are so lost within themselves, they don’t even see when they are being hypocritical, and they lash out because their own egos were triggered and that feeling results in a negative reaction.
their identity is based on a lie and they cannot stand in front of anything that reminds them of that. Do gay people lash out when someone else realizes that his or her own attraction to the same sex was just a fleeting emotion and not an actual sexuality? No? thats quite telling, isnt it.
The trans community thrives and grew to power by exploiting the gay struggle, without having the same nature.
And isnt it ironic that now we are 'transing the gay away', while also having scary connections between 'child' and 'consent' being pushed by the T that the whole LGB fought so hard to dispel?
That also applies to detransitioners who become transphobic because transitioning wasn't right to them, that also doesn't give them the right to become TERFs and shit
@@moonoftheblood Wrong. They have the most reason and right. Also i dont think you know what that term is or how its used.
Once you flee the cult, you have the most reasons to know why its dangerous.
What people dont get is that there is no "right for me". Are lobotomies good for someone? Are liposuctions "good" for anorexics? They seem so happy after, after all, it helps them affirm their delusion.
And yes, i am one of those detransitioners who doesnt think anyone should be allowed to transition.
@@Apostate_ofmind oh and the definition of TERF (an acronym) is Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist, aka transphobic radical feminists, in case you needed any clarification
I see some people saying cis women are being called TERFs when no, only transphobic radfems and transphobes who support TERFs are called TERFs
@@moonoftheblood oh you sweet summer child.. look up 'terf is a sl*r' (without the asterisk) and "cotton ceiling" and tell me its only hurled at radical feminists... Not even to mention that the acronym is incorrect, Radical feminism doesnt exclude transpeople, just men. Transmen are included, as they are still women.
The fact that every person who attacks Casey expects everyone to show them empathy, when they have zero empathy for this person, just shows the level of narcissism in the "ideology" cult.
We need empathy in our society! I hate how these people always gang up and bully anyone who doesn't go along with what they want. It is such a cowardly thing to do.
KC - many women wear wigs, many women have deep voices. If you are unhappy as a man then don't let those things stop you from being who you are. Do what will make YOU happy. Much love. ❤
I’m not trans, I’m a gay man, so I really shouldn’t speak on this. What I want to say though is…. Detransitioners are not an antithesis to trans people. They are people who thought they were trans, and realized it was a mistake. Can you imagine going through something like that? I can’t even imagine. And to then be demonized by the very community you’re a part of, because you’re being yourself.
I’m disgusted with the current LGBTQ community.
Well, I am glad you spoke. You summarized the case simply and beautifully.
Well said!! Where's their empathy ?!? So sad 😞
I'm a trans woman and while I wish I could have transitioned before puberty, people like this are exactly why it shouldn't be allowed. My heart breaks for this person and they're very much a victim to those turning transitioning into a fad and into something to admire and want to do. Look, the truth in the matter is that being trans kinda sucks, and this is literally our cope to want to get through life without hating ourselves every step of the way. It should be praised no higher than someone taking medication for any other crappy condition. We're not special, we're not cool, we're just normal people wanting to get by.
Thank you for sharing this perspective.
Yes! Thank you. We all need to hear more of the Trans community speak up for your fellow trans that are going through something most of could never understand.
how do you feel about trans kids being put on puberty blockers and being able
to socially transition, but not taking hormones until after they turn 16 or 18?
@@saintnicole3209 hormone blockers are just as dangerous as hrt. It will still sterilize the child, so if they change their mind they're permanent damaged, and it will also greatly limit their bone growth. So sadly it's also a very poor alternative.
I have come across cases where puberty blockers have stunted the growth of the penis so much that it reduces the amount of tissue for a successful bottom surgery to be performed. This then led to complications and revision surgery. I feel that this is another reason people should wait until they are fully formed adults before being able to transition.
I can’t even perform a skincare service on a minor without consent of the parent and yet these kids can decide to have life changing medical treatment without the parents consent?!
Thank you Blaire for honouring this person. There are some very intolerant and unforgiving people in the world.
This reminds me of a fat, body positive influencer I used to follow. She was on a health journey as well as a self love journey. She was doing CrossFit, and eventually got skin removal surgery when she lost some weight and had skin folds that were causing chafing and other issues. She was still a large woman, but really vibrant and genuinely engaged in healing her binge eating disorder. After some time she wound of closing and deactivating all her social media due to being bullied by other so-called fat body positive activists. It was so sad. But I know she’s out there living her best life in the real world without being bullied by online activists.
What is wrong with people 😕
they tried to do the same to adele when she lost all her weight. its sickening how those people are.
So sad. I hope she's doing well now. The body positive community can be absolutely toxic at times.
That’s what the body positivity movement should be about, health and taking care of your body instead of celebrating being overweight and potentially being put in an early grave.
Some people are screeching that KC is wrong because testosterone doesn't cause hair loss which is ridiculous, excess androgens in a female absolutely do cause hair loss on the scalp, we have research on this through PCOS sufferers who have excess Androgens particularly testosterone, the likely reason KC had hair loss pre hormones was because of PCOS which KC has.
Also excess horomones for biological sexes wanting to transition.. the likelihood of getting cancer is higher..
who's KC?
@@ayrenbethancourt9379 the person in the video
I work in derm... androgenic alopecia is caused by excess male sex hormones. Anyone experiencing it should see a derm! Spiralactone is a common medication that can help improve this type of hair loss.
I have PCOS and can absolutely verify this. There are mental health issues that can be symptoms of PCOS as well. All of these things need to be explored and discussed for young women instead of mutilating them.
I regret the major I chose in college, I can’t believe people can say no one will regret such a huge decision made at or before that age. I also grew up in a similar religious atmosphere as Casey, and I can tell you that the guilt model of any community can cause deep trauma. No one should be pressured… ever.
I have a really close friend who came out as gay to me. And I was okay with that, but now, he recently told me that he wants to become transgender. I watch so many people online being courageous telling their friends that transgenderism isnt the answer, I thought I would be that person for him. I'm so angry at the public school system for pushing this, we need more people to speak up about the dangers and regret people have becoming transgender. I still don't know what to say to him. He's very unsure about it still.
@St4r27 thank you so much! I really appreciate ❤️
I am a MTF detransitioner myself and one of the lucky ones at that, I only barely began the first stage of hormones when I s=had to stop from heart palpitations. It was a wake up call that got me to be okay with being a gay man. My thoughts and prayers to Casey because I know from personal experience how these activists attack when you break away
You're in my prayers for your mental and physical health!!
@@jamisenmyers9301 Thank you very much
I'm so glad for you that you got out early! Hope your heart is better.
Sorry but that was your own fault and you dont get my sympathy for that.
@Lola Yes I agree 100% and I'm hoping we can get the gay community back to a point where it's about inward validation instead of having everybody else in society affirm our identities. One thing that Blair is touched on in her channel before is the fact that there is an element of major homophobia with a lot of the modern-day transgender ideology and it is caused so many problems and his even lowered gay Acceptance in a lot of ways
The tweets from trans people were so cruel. You can be trans and disagree with children making those choices before they understand what they are doing. This makes me emotional because this is a real person in real pain. Praying for KC ❤
I think this is a classic case of "the bullied become bullies"
@@TranswealthyTrillionaireexcept these people are pretty much the most privileged as soon as they join the woke cult
Agreed, they show their true colors.
Well that says a lot doesnt it? On top of that Blaire is also confirming that some people in the Trans community are mean and disgusting as well which also says alot about the community i mean CULT they are apart of. Yikes. Idc how nice people say they are, cant trust nobody or no group.
@@matthewbernier9587 If we are going with that, then that tells me you will agree all christians are pedophiles then.
Her parents failed her in the most horrific way possible.
Having nothing to do with the trans topic: I tried to get my tubes "tied" after my first child, but they refused because I was not yet 22 years old... It's absolutely absurd that pediatric transitions are possible, let alone such a fiercely debated topic.
This was a fantastic video. Well done
If KC ever sees this
1. Bald girls are hot af and just as feminine and valid as any other girl.
2. There are SO many amazing wig options to choose from nowadays. Honestly, I have long hair and even I think about getting wigs often bc it allows such flexibility and freedom in hairstyles.
3. Your voice is beautiful.
This is a really difficult situation to be in and I’m sorry those “experts” inflicted so much damage on you but it’s not the end of the world nor is it the end of you.
Bald girls are not "hot".
seconded on point 1
My friend lost her hair in college due to a health problem. It's not a gender issue,it's terrifying no matter who you are. Her wigs were prettier than a lot of natural hair. I agree with you 😊
Hot for selected population that is not majority. You are feeding girl that is victim of manipulation, with lies for her to feel better. This is not good
Don't feed kc bullshit
I think we're going to see a flood of lawsuits when the children realize what was done to them, a child cannot sign a waiver, so liability is going to be HUGE
I agree. But sadly money will never be able to undo what happened
That happened with the Tavistock Institute in the UK. It's shut down now cause of the amount of lawsuits against it
Yup
I think so too. It will be exactly like some of these influencer kids coming out to speak on the exploitation they experienced.
I absolutely agree with that
The influencers bullying Casey are disgusting and just jealous she's gained interest.
I wish the bullies had to deal w/ shit 100x worse than Casey has dealt w/.
Trans influencers who use it as a trend and to bully... are going to make the public reject the concept so they're just hurting themselves. But they're insulated and sheltered so they never realize.
I regret most of the things I did as a teen, to think that they are letting kids still mid puberty make decisions they will NEVER be able to change, is awful. I want to give Kaycee a big hug.
As a gay man, it was gut-wrenching to hear him speak about his sexuality and how that influenced his decision to transition. I had the same thoughts growing up. How life would just be easier if I was a girl. How my family, community, and society would accept me more if I were a girl, and not a gay man. I wish KC all the success and happiness he could ever dream of.
A1 Simsauce. This person is a SHE not a he. Do u not listen?? This is a person who was ftm but now detransitioning back to the original female.
@@laraoneal7284 For one, I will choose the language I speak. For two he is not detransitioning, he is bringing attention to struggles he is facing during his transition...or did you not pay attention? Lastly, YOU are choosing to be upset about a pronoun. A rather minor word that isn't charged with hatred as the trans activists (and apparently you) would like to think.
Eye-opening that society almost pushes young kids to act - medically! - in self-denial just to fit in. Horrific.
@@ruthanna4713 I fear this is a new form of gay conversion therapy... But worse, for it comes with psycological, emotional, and physiological damage that is irreversible.
I hope you don't think that girls have it easier anymore..
Too many people think transitioning is going to improve their looks, but often end up with a whole new set of insecurities when things don't go the way they expect.
thats goes for just surgeries in general as well, not just trans. hence why some women are constantly getting surgeries and are addicted
@@DeRockMedia yea botched plastic surgeries are scary
You hit the nail on the head!
@@DeRockMedia And if its not a general thing and not exclusive for trans teens then no issue in keep it it available and not banning it like red states are doing it right?
@@Sesshounamaru7 ...i have no idea what you are trying to say.
Omg. This hits home so much. I was told as a 90s kid that I couldn't have kids because of my meds. I also wear baggy clothes to hide my surgical scars amd i get jelous that men dont have rigid make up and clothing standards and they can take their shirts off, things like that. Come to find out my doctors recommend puberty blockers to my mom. Thankfully I got my period so it became a non issue but I would have been fast track trans this day and age. So scary.
My heart is broken for Kc I came across some of the videos KC made and it terrifies me that this was a kid!! I cant image one of my daughters coming to me with anything and not understanding and being on there side!! KC you are so strong💞there are people that do understand you💞😢
What their channel called?
@@Lollipop.er42 if you’re talking about KC’s channel I don’t know I think it might’ve been switch to something in one of the videos I saw I’ve only seen two so sad though💔
I can feel Blaire’s anger. You can see it. You can hear it.
This video needs to blow up. Seriously it neeeds to be talked about more.
Very true..she even got me all worked up. Rightfully so!
Agree
it wont blow up cause the bald dude is not saying its all bad,hes still running defence for troonshine consumption.
The original video definitely blew up, I’ve seen it everywhere. At this point it needs to stop and I only say that for the well-being of KC. The bullying can go the very wrong way for this vulnerable young woman.
KC I’m a nurse and my boyfriend is a social worker. We stand by you. I’m so sorry for everything that has happened to you as a young person. Stay strong you’re making such a difference
I'm a nurse too, and what the medical community is doing and pushing on these children makes me ashamed to be in the medical field. Do no harm, what happened to that? Since when is the mutilation and sterilization of children considered a valid practice of medicine?! I'm appalled
@@jennh2096 Today people are starting to ask for Pandemic Amnesty and in a little while they'll be asking for Transition Amnesty saying they didn't know they were doing harm.
This is so sad. I hope KC is ok. People are so horrible. Empathy is so terribly lacking in this world 😢
I talked two of my kiddos out of potentially beginning hormones because of the same reason. They both liked girls. I'm so happy they didn't listen to the therapist and talked to me first.
It's never fun losing hair. Ever notice how many bald men are muscular, how we often shave our heads so we don't look cringe. Hopefully you can still find happiness in this world.
That’s interesting, I’ve noticed that before
@@theidiot5500 yeah lol
@Luna lol you just let slip “do more to STAY attractive” you admitted going bald makes people less attractive
@Luna it’s not that they’re bad looking , they become insecure after balding so they try to compensate with lifting weights etc… i like bald men I’ve never thought it was unattractive it’s kinda manly imo
I feel it’s so stupid that people picked up on the hair loss thing, like I think anyone would be upset to lose their hair, it’s just like man are not allowed to complain, so they just suffer in silence. If you ever watch one of those videos where men get like a hair transplant, it’s like so wholesome because you can see that they feel so happy to have hair again
I feel like KC is one of those victim, who got swept away by the wave and over-inflated benefits, without proper guidance on the very very real potential negative side-effects of transitioning. And to see people bullying her for it is disgusting.
The whole ‘this will fix everything’
It's preposterous that people nowadays think that you can willy nilly body mod as if you're made of Legos. The entire world of medicine HATES having to needlessly open your body up bc of the countless complications... And how long ago have we discovered bacteria and started doing something about it? Exactly.
This is why I like Blaire. She admits children are vulnerable. Most people don't. They blame children for all their problems, as if children know what they are doing. They don't.
Before kids are even old enough to drive a vehicle they are allowed to make life altering changes to their body?! I’ve gone through SO many changes since I was 15 and my thought processes and mental health has changed so much. I would be so upset if my parents let me transition to a male as a minor that I had to jump through hurdles to reverse in my adult years.
I'm a middle age grandma, I struggle with my body image as it is aging. You are definitely right that we all struggle from time to time.
I became disabled at 58 which doesn't help body image which is really in our heads
I’m sitting here as a straight “cis” woman who is known for hating dresses, cutting her hair short because she likes it that way and dressing pretty androgynous. Thing is the androgyny aspect is not purposeful it’s just the style I like. I never really labelled it, it’s always just been how I dress. It makes me feel like me. But I have never labelled it or thought deeply about my identity. My sex or gender was never something on my mind. I love and accept myself and haven’t really pretended to be anything other than since I was 16 when I tried to fit in lol. I realised quickly I hated it. Make up is not for me. And that’s okay. This gender obsession is really concerning for me. Because girls like me can easily be made to think they must have something like gender dysphoria to be like that. They claim to rid gender stereotypes yet they only enforce it even more. It pisses me off.
Nail on the head.
I'm baffled by this idea that what we all used to think was individual personality, is instead one of what, upwards of 100 different genders?
Transgenderism insofar as gender dysphoria is concerned; that I can understand. Blaire has talked at length about it and I can understand that.
But to go so far as to label anyone who does or engages in anything that could be construed as an interest in the opposite gender as immediately transgender and should be offered surgery, hormones etc....
Absolutely insane.
The part about thinking they’re getting rid of gender stereotypes but actually they’re just reinforcing them
You can be whoever you want to be!!!!! People dont seem to understand that
Exactly that. They are so obsessed with labelling everything as soon as you tick a few boxes or miss others. They claim to want to abolish gender yet all they are doing is splitting the binary into a bunch of different sub categories based on the slightest divergence of the gender stereotype. If you are a girl who doesn’t like dresses, this doesn’t mean that you are now a boy simply because you go against the stereotype. You are just a girl who doesn’t like dresses. Sad how common sense is becoming a foreign concept and these people are being blinded by their hypocrisy.
Please don't say "cis", either you're a woman or you aren't. These labels are just to cause confusion and blur the issue. You can be a gay woman, a straight woman, bisexuality or you can be trans full stop. There's no such things as trans women or trans males, just trans. Wake up to reality.
If a child needs medical treatment for an acute medical condition or after an accident they can't consent.
good for you blaire. the way i saw people ganging up on him and blaming him as an individual just for expressing side effects that he wasn’t happy with… that was a major wakeup call for me.
Thank you for continuing to be the voice of not only reason, but ACTUAL true compassion in a sea of 💩.
Amen to sea of 💩
Hey Blaire. I am a detransitioned woman and I've been following your channel for a pretty long time. Thank you for always being so grounded when the world is insane. I appreciate you talking about what's going in in people's lives when it comes to detransitioning. It's tough and a many of us do have history of mental illness, so the support means a lot while going through this. The thing with Ty Turner really doesn't surprise me but also I used to follow him too similar to KC's journey and even my not being surprised, his reaction was still really disheartening. I've seen this for a long time and hope that I've improved as a person, because I used to be like that when I was in the cult. It's been hard to forgive myself for not asking for help when I really needed it and was really struggling with me mental health. I was young and I trusted voices like Ty's and people I actually knew in my community. It truly was a cult in the way that embracing that ideology separated me from my family and logic of those who were not narsastic. I was becoming narcasstic and triggered so easily. Inside, I wasn't ok but it was only on me to face it and give up. It was like ego death, not the manipulated kind that people try to emulate and think they know all about if you know what I mean. This is serious healing and recovery. The worst shame, guilt and remorse I carry is for the people who I was in relationships with at the time of attempting to defend my cult mentality. Just in the ways that I acted and how much emotional shit i must have been. And when the house of cards started to fall for me and I couldn't not face the truth of my actions on my world, I was just a mess. I didn't want to detransition for the longest time because of my ego and it was "safe", honestly it was a way to control something when I felt out of control of my life. But I just really lost myself and care for myself. My mental health declined. There was a while I worked at a crystal store too- another cult for quick fixes for healing. I chugged the koolade in some ways trying to prove that the rhetoric was true and my problems could be solved. But neglecting my deeper issues and turning to these ailments instead really wasn't right for me. I had a lot of mental stuff going on and not enough life experience to understand it. I was 20 when I transitioned. I'm working on taking care of myself now in the ways I really needed to a long time ago. I had a double mastectomy and that's been deep grief. Just working on making healthy coping mechanisms habit. I think this whole experience has made me a better person but it's not just like that. I have to choose to be a better person and work at that every day just like everyone. No more virtue signaling and escapism. Self accountability, forgiveness and moving forward from here and trying not to beat myself up if I'm not meeting my expectations. You seem awesome and sorry for making your comment section my diary entry but thank you.
Thank you for sharing your story. Lots of love to you ❤️
thanks so much for sharing your story ❤️ sending you love for your healing ❤️
@@ThesoundofSilenceshh thank you
@@cheeselouvre3605 thank you so much
Thank you for sharing your story, Jenna.
This might sound a bit crazy, maybe even triggering, as it has been for me for a long time. I myself have been lost for so long. And just 3 days ago I couldn’t take it and I surrendered to God, which was incredibly hard, especially if you grew up with negative feelings towards God and dealt with shitty “religious” people as i have. And with too much pride to ask for help to an “imaginary being”.
Think about why you were in this cult that you mentioned. Why you became attracted to crystals for “healing”. How this cult made you distance yourself from your family. How it made you selfish and narcissistic. Sometimes we live in a veil for so long….
I don’t know what i’m doing, Jenna. I’m not gonna say i have the answers, I’m still too new to this to confidently call myself a believer, as i’m only 3 days in but i’ll say i feel significantly better…like a veil has been lifted.
Give God a try. You have nothing to lose. I have nothing to lose anymore, so that is why i’m doing it. And this is coming from me, someone who HATED god. Whenever someone told me to go to God i would immediately cringe. If that is your reaction, let the emotion pass. Push through it. You have nothing to lose. Pray to God, ask for help.
I don’t know if this is real, i am a lost soul too looking for guidance and truth. So in the meantime, can I pray for you Jenna?
I just saw this video today. Thank you KC for sharing and letting more people know what is happening and thank you Blaire for sharing your platform and educating more people.❤
They’re not scared that your coming after trans rights , their scared that you will bring awareness of the horrifying problems and effects on kids becoming trans
KC Miller was also sexually abused and went through so much trauma on top of her homophobic parents. I think the sexual abuse had a huge impact too. KC wanted to be more in her masculine so she would feel safer. This happens to a lot of females. This is a huge issue I believe with people who want to transition as well that needs to be addressed.
But this video was great. Thank you for interviewing KC, my heart goes out to her
And that is the case for many when they admit to it. Sexual abuse as children can definitely want someone to want to be the other sex if the abuser has a definite preference. Makes perfect sense to escape the abuse to become someone else. Just another why long term and serious therapy to address this and hopefully be able to learn how to deal with it and move forward. Because self mutilation isn’t the answer.
@@gabesmom5615 ive been thru this. Wanted to be a boy so badly when i was a kid and then teen. Had proper therapy that taught me that i am enough and it wasnt my fault my dad abandonned me and i was abused at age of 8.
If my teen self was living now i am sure i would be convinced to be trans and later regret it. Because my issue is not with identification but abuse and trauma from neglect and sexual assault as a minor.
And i feel a lot of girls that transition to be boys went thru same trauma i did too and they just think this way they can cut themself off from the trauma and heal :(
AMEN! I believe sexual abuse often creates repressed trauma that affects sexuality and how one views their own worth. May more children heal and more adults seek therapy versus retraumatizing future generations.
“I’m sorry this has been your experience. Thankfully for me my experience has been totally different.”
This is how compassionate, understanding, and inclusive people would speak.
Eh not even tho, Bc why give your “better experience” when I’m talking about how it ruined me? I get what you’re saying , but that’s still fucked up😭😭😭
@@onnie.6815 But the transition itself is not the problem here. There are so many things to consider, it almost feels like a surreal coincidence when a person is okay with the results. I mean if I'm rich I can't act like I'm poor, right? Acknowledging the situation is still possible while continuing your life as it is.
@@OO-ct4hq because it’s rubbing salt in the wounds. Someone is sharing their life ruining experience, why would a ‘compassionate person’ give their positive experience ?
@@onnie.6815 How do you even know if they feel like it's salt in the wounds? Stop projecting. If they weren't able to comprehend and answer about their situations they wouldn't even be talking here. Blair didn't even say it in a tone or wording that sounded as if she was trying to have the spotlight. I think it was a suitable manner.
@@OO-ct4hq no projection , only logic. Which you CLEARLY don’t understand. I am not trans, what am I projecting ? That shit is pouring salt in wounds. If your mother died & you are talking about her death, why would it be ok for someone else to come along talking about how they love their mom and what they are going to do for her on Mother’s Day? You lack logical, comprehension skills
Super strong message! So proud of you, KC ❤ Very important words that everyone need to hear.
I spent the last two weeks on Twitter specifically interacting and following identity politics people just so I’m not in an echo chamber and legit they’re the cruelest people I’ve ever experienced as a collective. The way they’ve all been tearing down this poor woman and mocking her lifelong trauma makes me sick.
I hate twitter for this. It's no appreciation of nuance. They expand definitions of horrible things to include so many people that it dilutes it and makes people take the collective much less seriously.
This girl is the same age as me. Could never imagine making a decision like that at 15. I was nothing like how I am today
Exactly! Years from now there will be so many people with health problems and regrets.
Robert White is a sexual predator.
Puberty blockers are completely reversible. KC officially started transition after years of therapy and still to this day says they are a trans man. But they simply don't like being bald. That is literally the entire subject. Blair just like to take things out if context for click bait.
@@Fiorwestcoast it's not out of context, if you watch the video it's clear she regrets transitioning but doesn't believe she can go back
And puberty blockers are not reversible at all and can lead to long-term negative health effects
@@Fiorwestcoast That’s a lie. There’s a lot of issues that can occur after you stop puberty blockers.
I felt uncomfortable in my body in 9th grade just because I gained weight due to being taken out of my sport, figure skating. Skating 4 hours a day, five days per week for years. Then all the weight gain, struggled with a Narcissist mother who was physically and emotionally abusive to me. Then I turned bulimic.
So sad and that's where I get upset with the trans community and parents influencing their children to make these choices at a young age.
I appreciate Blaire…for talking about the issues that need to be talked about…and Kasey is very brave to come out and speak about it…
K.C comes across so very genuine. No background music or toxic positivity, just her in her car sharing a very real moment of vulnerability
So well spoken, thoughtful, and genuine. A really really cool person, and I really hope they're okay.
you mean her?
him lmao
Now I’m confused 😐
She*
Thank you for this video. I was such a tomboy in the 80s- wanted to be a boy, had short hair, did no 'girlie' things-even cried I wanted to be a boy so so much. If I was a kid today I'd have been convinced I was trans! Now I'm really happy to be a gender non conforming WOMAN. I'm so worried about kids today, they are being failed so badly.
What does gender non conforming mean?
I know my little brother just doesn’t understand when I tell him he’s not trans (obviously if it comes up years from now that he is he has my full support)
He wanted a cute nickname, you got it from me, he wants to wear girlie clothes, I buy them
But I don’t want him to have to stress himself with these BIG feelings as a kid when it’s normal to feel this way!!! especially coming into puberty
I did the same thing at his age and it scares the ever loving shite out of me that he could easily go to a dr and transition without fully understanding Any of it.
@@TwitX2007 Meaning she is a Woman but doesn't have to be told wear to skirt to be a woman.
Meaning she is a WOMAN but that doesn't mean she will do what expected of a transitional woman to do.
@@TwitX2007 she probably meant that she doesnt act/present what is traditionally expected of women ig
@@TwitX2007 I believe gender expectations/roles are mainly a social construct. Anyone can wear/like what they choose, irrespective of sex. Tastes, hobbies and preferences should not be restricted and sex stereotyped. Eg a boy can like dresses, dolls,pink etc...but he's still a boy. See the 70s/80s, Annie lennox,freddie Mercury, david bowie, androgony isnt new- its just unfortunately been relabelled as 'non binary ' There are feminine boys and masculine girls, you can do anything ...and still be your BORN sex. We should be breaking gender stereotypes, not cementing them. Trans buys into the stereotypes, its regressive.
Love you KC. Hope you see this and know you are a good person and you are loved. You are brave and strong. You are doing a great service to humanity by sharing your experience so bravely. You have more courage than most. I really hope you see this and it gives you a single moment of peace. Cheers to you and Blaire.
He doesn’t even look bad people can be so cruel.
No just no hair if hair is back pretty KC has a cute face
when people realize that full transition from man to woman or vise versa isnt for them then they should be able to speak their mind without fear of reprisals. Even when the proces Is already completed and they show regret.
Because this highlights how far out of range of reason some in these movements are, be it lgbtq+whatever or alt-right
I'm gay and I don't want to be associated with them
@@harpyeagle2588 exactly
@@harpyeagle2588me either
yeah, being shunned by a community for having a differing opinion/experience is exactly what a cult is
The community has gone off the deep end. As things get more crazy more regular gay people will be speaking out.
not that bullying on this level is ever excusable but the fact that they were a minor when they started their medical transition makes it so much more messed up. how are these people gonna blame a 15 year old for their doctor's malpractice?! disgusting.
You’re so sweet for covering this & showing support! 😢
This is the thing those of us being labeled as transphobic or hateful are the ones that care about this person and their suffering and would want them to access to all the support and services possible where the so called trans community turn their backs and deny what’s happening g
We can’t legally get tattooed without parents’ consent under 18 as a minor but when is comes to transitioning…its different?? And getting a tattoo isn’t even as bad when it comes down to regretting something that was changed/marked on our body
Point is, a child/minor cannot consent, why is is still debatable? lol
Yess this is soo true!!! Never thought of this!! Great comment!!
@@KimOkkayy thank you!!
It’s all a plan to eventually legalize sex with children. It’s pure evil
Exactly. At least with tattoos you can get them lasered off (it’s painful and not always perfect but it’s possible). Tattoos are insignificant compared to very invasive body modifications like mastectomies, SRS, hormones, puberty blockers etc. tattoos are literally superficial. Just to be clear, I’m not arguing that minors should be able to get tattoos. Minors shouldn’t be able to do EITHER tattoos or physical transition.
@@mollyoxy totally agree. While it’s a pain in the ass to remove a tattoo, it doesn’t actually do any damage to your body. It’s insane.