How To Feel Confident Around Girls

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  • Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024

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  • @alexcosta
    @alexcosta  2 года назад +82

    Get 20% OFF MANSCAPED + FREE SHIPPING: www.manscaped.com/alex
    Thank you for watching! Have a GREAT weekend!
    -AC

  • @bindesh101
    @bindesh101 2 года назад +529

    1) Talk To Many People
    2) Talk To Her By Thinking That You Already Know Her Talk To Her like A Friend
    3 Look Your Best
    4) Rejection Is Ok
    5) Don't Come Up With Excuses
    6) Dressing To Impress

    • @carlosverde-datingtips7001
      @carlosverde-datingtips7001 2 года назад +13

      Nice summary - Bindesh101!
      Confidence is probably the #1 thing you’ll need before you approach any woman…
      And I agree with Alex - have no agenda, just relax, and talk to her like a human being - because women are people, whether you choose to believe that, or not! Lol
      But seriously, behave around her like you would with your friends, that way - she’ll let her guard down, and perhaps, let you get to know her!
      Just remember, it’s your job to put her mind at ease, if you can do that - amazing things will start to happen!
      Anyway, that’s my two cents.
      -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

    • @jokerff8497
      @jokerff8497 2 года назад +4

      Thanks man

    • @rajspyder9864
      @rajspyder9864 2 года назад +2

      Thanks bro 👍

    • @bindesh101
      @bindesh101 2 года назад +3

      @@rajspyder9864 You're Welcome Bro

    • @bindesh101
      @bindesh101 2 года назад +3

      @@jokerff8497 You're Welcome Dude 👍🏻🤞🏻

  • @RobinsWatchJourney
    @RobinsWatchJourney 2 года назад +444

    Here is a senior’s advice to young men to build their confidence: find something you like and be really good at it. Then build your confidence around the fact you are really good at this thing. You will be surprised how much success at one thing will give you confidence in other areas.

    • @chawker67
      @chawker67 2 года назад +7

      Dunno bout that man, I'm a programmer lol

    • @gcbe
      @gcbe 2 года назад +1

      @@chawker67 im a producer lol

    • @narahitesh1341
      @narahitesh1341 2 года назад +4

      @@gcbe i'm in identity crisis lol

    • @Qwertyyyy379
      @Qwertyyyy379 2 года назад

      @@chawker67 I am doctor bruh

    • @temrus2233
      @temrus2233 2 года назад +8

      @@chawker67 I think he told about hobby, not officially work

  • @priyanshunigam3658
    @priyanshunigam3658 2 года назад +98

    Perfect timing. I just needed this so much for tomorrow. Thank you Alex. You are the best ❤️. Keep it up !

    • @aravind.n3119
      @aravind.n3119 2 года назад +4

      Collage boy right.......?

    • @priyanshunigam3658
      @priyanshunigam3658 2 года назад +7

      @@aravind.n3119 umm no i am a school boy. But normally i am a shy boy and tomorrow i have to meet one of my female friends for a hangout so ya...

    • @xris1918
      @xris1918 2 года назад +5

      @@priyanshunigam3658 haha.your Age??

    • @xris1918
      @xris1918 2 года назад +6

      @@priyanshunigam3658 anyway. All the best buddy

    • @HarshSharma-do3om
      @HarshSharma-do3om 2 года назад +2

      everytime we need this

  • @jns9628
    @jns9628 2 года назад +52

    You helped me glow up so much over the past 2 years and the best part is people are staring to notice. One of the best feelings is seeing someone you haven’t seen in a while and them telling you that you had a glow up.

  • @seetavishwakarma9287
    @seetavishwakarma9287 2 года назад +13

    Bro, I really need this because I get nervous in front of some girls

  • @pohh389
    @pohh389 2 года назад +7

    6:15 Rejection is nothing more than a necessary step in the pursuit of success!... Guy's have a great day ☺️

  • @moneyman7020
    @moneyman7020 2 года назад +15

    Confidence is key. Talk to girls like you know them is the best tip as they open up about themselves and eventually end up feeling comfortable around you .

  • @gamingnews3260
    @gamingnews3260 2 года назад +3

    Alex your street style dress 🤯🙈😕🥰🥰 love from India 🇮🇳

  • @carlosverde-datingtips7001
    @carlosverde-datingtips7001 2 года назад +86

    Confidence is probably the #1 thing you’ll need before you approach any woman…
    And I agree with Alex - have no agenda, just relax, and talk to her like a human being - because women are people, whether you choose to believe that, or not! Lol
    But seriously, behave around her like you would with your friends, that way - she’ll let her guard down, and perhaps, let you get to know her!
    Just remember, it’s your job to put her mind at ease, if you can do that - amazing things will start to happen!
    Anyway, that’s my two cents.
    -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

  • @ayushsharma5150
    @ayushsharma5150 2 года назад +10

    Thank you Alex for this NEED OF AN HOUR VIDEO, Have not been met any new girl since 2 years (LOCKDOWN) and I will be graduate in next 2 months, lost my many social skills I don't feel confident around people, But who knows "Hope for the better prepare for worst".

  • @ayanchatterjee2664
    @ayanchatterjee2664 2 года назад +41

    Thank you so much for the efforts you put in the videos for us ♥️✨

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  2 года назад +18

      Glad you like them!

    • @liamdugu5755
      @liamdugu5755 2 года назад +4

      🇮🇳 hello Indian me too. His fan and Indian

    • @estacx.
      @estacx. 2 года назад

      @@liamdugu5755 wtf

  • @thepenguin4379
    @thepenguin4379 2 года назад +44

    To anyone reading this: I hope your crush sees you for who you are and makes it work
    Great video Alex

  • @gerwilkins
    @gerwilkins 2 года назад +7

    Worth my time always, watching Alex man🔥

  • @wesleyseibeb3301
    @wesleyseibeb3301 2 года назад +2

    Yoh!! Alex there's this girl who always stares at me at school I'm also into her what can I really do please help

  • @OmarDaily
    @OmarDaily 2 года назад +5

    Top Tip: Don’t be a simp, even if she is the prettiest girl you’ve seen.. She is still just a human that enjoys a good conversation and probably hot cheetos lemon.. Go get her tiger!.

    • @weirdhuh8046
      @weirdhuh8046 2 года назад

      how can u simp if u cant talk ?

  • @farhanbinraihan3050
    @farhanbinraihan3050 2 года назад +10

    Who loves Alex hair on this video the strand really elevates even more

  • @luqman.t3134
    @luqman.t3134 2 года назад +40

    One of the key to build a strong confidence is to just do the things that makes you uncomfortable . I used to be shy infront of girls now I ain't shy anymore .

  • @andrewramirez8822
    @andrewramirez8822 2 года назад +4

    I never thought Alex was a type of guy who would sponsor 2 in 1 shampoos 🤣🤣🤣

  • @setkey_12
    @setkey_12 2 года назад +8

    "The power of Confidence lets people more interested in you" - here's support

  • @jfreshh330
    @jfreshh330 2 года назад +3

    It always seems like the girls I want are always taken. I always think to myself "There’s no way this girl is single" so I never do anything. Id be so embarrassed if I went to talk to a girl and she told me she had a boyfriend. I’m such a pussy

  • @justintempleton7577
    @justintempleton7577 2 года назад +5

    I love when he makes videos on this, and we would really appreciate more similar videos!

  • @aroshmtv1121
    @aroshmtv1121 2 года назад +5

    Because of Alex, girls want them to feel confident when their around me

  • @aashik9295
    @aashik9295 2 года назад +12

    We need more content like this Alex

  • @AhmedAhmed-nm4dg
    @AhmedAhmed-nm4dg 2 года назад +1

    The confident not my probleme
    The probleme is i dont know what to say

  • @ARNOLD_289
    @ARNOLD_289 2 года назад +4

    What an outfit ! 💗🔥

  • @water-ow4714
    @water-ow4714 2 года назад +1

    Where did you get that jacket it’s really cool?

  • @phenomenalPrince
    @phenomenalPrince 2 года назад +3

    You have helped in each and every way … now i am way ahead of my past self in every area , thanks to you .. 😌

  • @rajbindukumari4488
    @rajbindukumari4488 2 года назад +1

    thanku Alex this video helped me a lot ❤❤❤

  • @DG-zx9zs
    @DG-zx9zs 2 года назад +4

    That jacket is fire 🔥

  • @SahilKhan-nl3gw
    @SahilKhan-nl3gw 2 года назад +2

    Hey Alex first of all love from india🇮🇳❤️and what's the best way to ask out a girl through online or ask in person. Actually the girl I like she lives a bit far away from me. So what's the best option??

  • @vishnu7268
    @vishnu7268 2 года назад +2

    Valentine's day is coming but still single.....😌😂

  • @merstax_9211
    @merstax_9211 2 года назад +24

    Alex coming in, helping and changing many lives. Appreciate it man.

  • @tonysgrazzutti1606
    @tonysgrazzutti1606 2 года назад +3

    Honestly, I think that talking to her when she is hanging around her guy friend or boyfriend is the best case scenario. Her guy friend, if he is a good guy, will hype you up before you go talk to her. If it’s her boyfriend, you can always be friends. It’s more social proof and that guy may not be her boyfriend forever.

    • @raggo1955
      @raggo1955 2 года назад

      That’s true my dude I have women who still has feelings for me after they got married or are married already and once a while I intentionally cross that boundary just to tease them and they show their hands like I should of been the one not the other guy. I feel bad sometimes but they chose their man and now they have to live with it even when mr right shows up.

  • @dripvader69
    @dripvader69 2 года назад +2

    "She might be *11...* out of *10"* pheww that really got me

  • @mensfashiontips7172
    @mensfashiontips7172 2 года назад +1

    What do I do if she has a boyfriend?

  • @pradipjgurung
    @pradipjgurung 2 года назад +2

    Great video as always, also be yourself, and good hygiene is a must, remember look good = feel good!

  • @theloi__
    @theloi__ 2 года назад +1

    Love ur that hairstyle bro 🔥

  • @ankitkarmakar2235
    @ankitkarmakar2235 2 года назад +1

    Thank you❤ sir you just chnge my over all personality. Now I m getting very positive compliments all because of you. Love you ❤

  • @nishantshinde8616
    @nishantshinde8616 2 года назад +1

    Alex you are really growing

  • @tirthshah1179
    @tirthshah1179 2 года назад +1

    Much love and respect from this beautiful world 🌍 😁❤️
    Not just from a specific country!

  • @tonymuro2834
    @tonymuro2834 2 года назад +1

    I needed to hear this video.

  • @piusbeats5487
    @piusbeats5487 2 года назад +2

    Been watching this channel for over a year but this video has got me so focused it felt like I was listening to him in person. Great video Alex💯

  • @dikshantjagtap9959
    @dikshantjagtap9959 2 года назад +1

    Bro you need a haircut

  • @Mahesharma_
    @Mahesharma_ 2 года назад +1

    i don't have an older brother you are like my big brother Alex
    I get awesome knowledge from your video your video is very helpful for me 🤗🤗🤗
    I am sending blessings from India
    keep progressing like this

  • @konstantinoskonstantinou2072
    @konstantinoskonstantinou2072 2 года назад +2

    How to feel confident around girls: Get drunk

  • @AjaychinuShah
    @AjaychinuShah 2 года назад

    Hey A. Costa: did you have reservations about starting this service on RUclips of yours; Doubts skepticism even haters interfering ... so Enlightening .. now

  • @aram_sargsyan74
    @aram_sargsyan74 2 года назад +1

    I just came back from army and I sooo needed this, thank you

  • @zorammawithiek584
    @zorammawithiek584 2 года назад

    Ayo Alex famm
    Send this 😎,
    Who ever noticed the graphics on Alex jacket😹

  • @monsterganigaming1217
    @monsterganigaming1217 2 года назад +1

    Love from India

  • @thetroothhurtz
    @thetroothhurtz 2 года назад +1

    Wow CRINGE LORD

  • @sunoanimations5393
    @sunoanimations5393 2 года назад

    NO MAN CAN BE confident around MEGAN FOX SO click bait

  • @al2xhunter977
    @al2xhunter977 2 года назад

    Idk if you still making hair videos but i can really use some help. I’ve been a sikh for 20 years of my life, having my hair packed with no oxygen my hair line receded way to back and now i have hair falling front like a bowl cut to hide it!! I can really use some help on how to hide my forehead. Please help!’ Thank you

  • @rossmitchell355
    @rossmitchell355 2 года назад

    Hey Alex, just gotta ask where you got that sick jean jacket from that your wearing in the vid looks amazing??

  • @wutchamacallit
    @wutchamacallit 2 года назад +1

    Can you please do a video for texting as well? Sometimes I don’t know how to carry a conversation over text. And then the thread just dies… Emojis are also confusing!

  • @AjaychinuShah
    @AjaychinuShah 2 года назад

    Hey Alex: can you stop making videos for Losers and just make content for us non-shy Men.

  • @badboy4lyfe88
    @badboy4lyfe88 2 года назад

    Does anybody know where the denim jacket is from? It’s gorgeous!

  • @defining_moments
    @defining_moments 2 года назад

    Alex I’d like to make an appointment with your barber

  • @taqueekhan245
    @taqueekhan245 2 года назад +2

    I am jealous of your hair mannnn

  • @louaiessayed1036
    @louaiessayed1036 2 года назад +1

    Your advices are so useful thanks
    Just subscribed and till now your impressing me👏👏

  • @solaimanmosavi342
    @solaimanmosavi342 2 года назад

    Sh**t, little bit too late. I already failed everything. I did everything wrong.🤯😑

  • @thodorisd365
    @thodorisd365 2 года назад

    You guys say the same things over and over again, that’s the same stuff literally. The same happens to other similar RUclipsrs

  • @abhijith.manikandan
    @abhijith.manikandan 2 года назад +1

    Malayali undo?👍🏼

  • @ahmedalnaimi8211
    @ahmedalnaimi8211 2 года назад

    here is a real advice
    you gain confidence by being successful in life
    so go do some hard work
    hit the gym and eat well
    build a business or get high paying job
    dress good
    good hair and beard style
    fix any insecurities if it is fixable
    you will become a chad

  • @Mohamed-uy2py
    @Mohamed-uy2py 2 года назад

    Alex why some guys look ugly in picture 🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @simontunnicliffe2107
    @simontunnicliffe2107 3 месяца назад

    Hot women are harder to talk to because I find quite often they are less engaging and seem to be colder towards men as I think they use it as a defence mechanism or to sift out certain types of men?

  • @ashaprabhashwara7761
    @ashaprabhashwara7761 2 года назад +1

    Never been this fast before. Thanks for the video alex. This is very helpful

  • @MARSMELLOFF
    @MARSMELLOFF 9 дней назад

    Wow thanks bro, I feel confident after looking at this 😊

  • @adamfox6169
    @adamfox6169 2 года назад

    Does anyone know where I could get that denim jacket that Alex is wearing?

  • @Karmagusion
    @Karmagusion 2 года назад

    Alex if I go out on for a walk and saw a good looking girl for the first time.Then how should I approach to her the moment I saw her.

  • @phoenixmotivation4635
    @phoenixmotivation4635 2 года назад +1

    Usefull

  • @lakpansherpa6550
    @lakpansherpa6550 2 года назад +1

    Need story behind your denim jacket. 😂

  • @kdot2513
    @kdot2513 2 года назад +1

    My issue is knowing what to say to girls, I can speak to guys but girls are like speaking to a French man to me

  • @lukeprins458
    @lukeprins458 Год назад

    Thank you Alex Costa for helping me with how to talk with girls'

  • @orionsbelt4115
    @orionsbelt4115 2 года назад +1

    Found this very helpful...Thanks🥰

  • @SumitSingh-oe6bj
    @SumitSingh-oe6bj 2 года назад

    M not sure how many time you have heard this but i m gonna say it again " You look like RDJ"

  • @statusbyshivam9804
    @statusbyshivam9804 2 года назад

    Hay alex your product is not available in india🙄 please provide product India 😔

  • @Aman-bf7jl
    @Aman-bf7jl 2 года назад +1

    Man, your ads are bigger than your video😂

  • @sarvdeepsingh9057
    @sarvdeepsingh9057 2 года назад +1

    The best hairstyle u wearing is today Alex 🤠

  • @rsthungti148
    @rsthungti148 2 года назад +1

    From India hii

  • @thezanitarium6147
    @thezanitarium6147 2 года назад +1

    6:07 end of ads

  • @mitakundu625
    @mitakundu625 2 года назад

    Yeeeee man his old denim jacket and hoodie that he use dto wear 2 - 3 years ago love u bro 🔥🔥🔥

  • @creatinganewlife1296
    @creatinganewlife1296 2 года назад +1

    thank you i need this right now.

  • @RajeshNikamYT
    @RajeshNikamYT 2 года назад +1

    ♥️

  • @nithin5530
    @nithin5530 2 года назад +1

    Indians like here ❤️

  • @basketballlook9233
    @basketballlook9233 2 года назад

    Hah Alex it’s a girl in my class and every time someone touches her I feel jealous

  • @athulbenny4515
    @athulbenny4515 2 года назад +1

    Hey

  • @anjumwaseem459
    @anjumwaseem459 2 года назад

    My school teacher is saying that I should get a haircut but I don't want to🙄 what should I do?

  • @mael5349
    @mael5349 2 года назад

    I loved his denim jacket does anybody knows about that one plss tell me!

  • @broski1550
    @broski1550 2 года назад +2

    This helps so much. I’m in my final year of high school and since the very beginning I’ve never really spoke to a girl or had one as a friend or even outside of school hang out. I’ve never had social media like Snapchat or Instagram even though my friends always asked me to get it but no. I was shy and scared and just let it be. I wish I can turn back time and pushed myself. I really hope I have the confidence to change this

  • @kennythomas7672
    @kennythomas7672 2 года назад

    Can you do a video next on places to buy affordable, fashionable clothes

  • @ashwinkumaar632
    @ashwinkumaar632 2 года назад

    Let's talk about the topic later What's the name of your hairstyle?

  • @ultrahard9176
    @ultrahard9176 2 года назад

    No doubt gays are known for thier confidence around girls

  • @AjaychinuShah
    @AjaychinuShah 2 года назад

    This is Sr. Alex Costa = Not trying to hurt the orgasmic neuroplasticity WITHin your nostrils.
    Amen

  • @tipstricks7
    @tipstricks7 2 года назад +3

    Thanks bruh you helped us a lot

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  2 года назад +2

      Happy to help

    • @eddieagui1554
      @eddieagui1554 2 года назад

      @@alexcosta is there any bodypart u dont shave?

  • @fashionandfrags
    @fashionandfrags 2 года назад

    Love ya, Alex, but you’re too old for that jacket.

  • @boharsingh2385
    @boharsingh2385 2 года назад +1

    feeling nice🙂 to be watching you from last three years dude! I improved alot😍.

  • @denisgonc4230
    @denisgonc4230 2 года назад

    Bruh with your looks it is hard not to be confident around girls.

  • @gamespace6020
    @gamespace6020 2 года назад +1

    Your LOOK simply FIRE 🔥

  • @inferno3211
    @inferno3211 2 года назад

    Wow, where did you get that denim jacket it looks awesome