no fr she’s so right about the “don’t try so hard” part!!! It’s literally how i lost this 1 guy that i loved sm. I was too desperate 😔 i’ll be chilling for now tho✌️
As a guy I gotta disagree on the first point If you show 0 interest we're gonna assume you don't give 2 shits about us and we're not gonna make the first move but you also don't wanna come across weird every guy's different, just do you
It really does work, you have to genuinely be focusing on yourself and improving yourself, and it’ll happen! It happened to me and my friend, I’ve been with my man 7 years (and we are married) and my friend has been dating her dude for about 6 months and they’re madly in love. You will keep meeting people who matches your energy and what your future holds so that’s why you gotta be focused on yourself and what you want to do in life and someone will come along to compliment that ❤
I’ve been single for over 10 yrs. Didn’t want a boyfriend nor did I want friends with benefits. Now I want one badly. I’m so lonely but I don’t even no how to find someone nor date. 😔 😔 😔 shit sucks
Dating is overrated. It ruins any future relationships. On the contrary, arranged marriages proved to be more successful. I know it sounds shocking but it's true.
I’m married not looking but she said binge Gilmore girls for the 5th time. So I had to like it 😂😂 and comment of course. I’m binge number 8 was on binge number maybe 4/5 when I met my husband 😂😂 KEEP WATCHING YOUR GILMORE GIRLS 😂
If you like a guy, make sure they know you want to be around them, if you just ignore them we will assume you have no interest in us. Just going out of your way to talk is enough, but if you just stay on your phone and avoid eye contact we will never make a move.
honestly, i dont agree with the first rule. its different for everyone, a majority of men will show interest if you show them interest. this doesn't go for every man however. you do what you think it's best. also, on the not going out rule, if you have problems getting out there, you don't have to force it immediately. it's okay to experiment with what you are comfortable with. at the end of day you do what you think is best for you, even if is forcing yourself to go out.
Guys no joke, just gaslight yourself and have the mindset “I’m independent, I don’t need to find a man” and then the universe will magically drop your soulmate.
As a guy- she’s talking nonese in my opinion. The part where she tells you to not make an effort is is not true. It doesn’t apply to every situation and it’s not universal She’s 5/10 btw
so like it started when he came to my school and i was ok and he will smile at me and i was like wtf and then i liked him and one time my friend told him so i said yea
(As a dude) The main point makes no sense, every guy including me I know likes a girl who gives them attention. We like clingy, as long as you don’t stop us from doing what we want to do, we like girls who want to be around us. Oh yeah, most boys are petrified of rejection to the point that we won’t even try. It’s the only true fear I have. We are terrified of being laughed at and or carelessly rejected. If you want a boyfriend, you probably have to approach him first, it’s just the world that a lot of terrible and rude women have created. I don’t think I stand a chance with any girl, so I completely cover up my feelings to the point where I don’t even sneak a look, but I’ll take anything. Don’t worry, most guys, if they can, will take anything they can get. I would honestly date a brick if it made the first move. If you really want a boyfriend, give him attention and be kind and friendly towards him. We find a bad, toxic and rude personality to be a 1/10. Be thoughtful and caring, we love that sweet, caring personality. I’ll answer some questions in the reply box below if I have time.
For your first point- guys like clingy attractive girls. Just like a girl won’t call an attractive guy a creep if he comes up to her. And girls are scared to of rejection. And a lot of them too won’t even bother anymore. It’s funny but a lot of men thing women don’t get rejected either. As you said a lot of dudes don’t ask out women anymore so for a while it’s been women being the pursuers.
@@baddiewaddie123 I’m one of those guys. I keep my crushes to myself and try to avoid getting involved with them. I refrain from eye contact and all that. He could be crushing on you, but it’s a gamble. The bar for most guys is pretty low. 80% of guys would give the top 80% of girls a chance. I’d give it a try, even if he isn’t crushing on you, I’m sure he would give you a chance. Be straightforward with it. We won’t get the clues, and it we do, we won’t be sure if your serious.
@@hiaddis7628great. You executed the first step perfectly, now you you have to follow through with everything else I taught you on how to approach a man without seeming creepy. I suggest next time you talk to a person in real life though...
Letting a guy know you are interested in getting to know them isn't trying to get a guy to like you. And if a guy doesn't like me bc I am interested than he isn't my guy😂 interest should be mutual
no fr she’s so right about the “don’t try so hard” part!!! It’s literally how i lost this 1 guy that i loved sm. I was too desperate 😔 i’ll be chilling for now tho✌️
Wtf bro that's a bad advice 😂
As a guy I gotta disagree on the first point
If you show 0 interest we're gonna assume you don't give 2 shits about us and we're not gonna make the first move
but you also don't wanna come across weird
every guy's different, just do you
no you right
So I'm 13 and I'm asking my crush out tomorrow do you have any pointers or tips for me❤
@daphnebaumanns9926 Did you do it?? ❤ I'm also 13, but i dont think I have enough confidence to ask out my crush 😅
@@Justanothergirl-tu6mv I did but he is giving me an answer on either Sunday or tomorrow (Wednesday) I'm so scared
@@Elliebaumanns38i am invested
the gilmore girls part was personal 😭
Fr I just clicked off an episode 😭
Literally I feel targeted
Really calling me out here 😭
Women:Don't try hard to men to get a boyfriend.
Men:Don't try hard to women to get a girlfriend.
In the end EGO wins both gender stays single 😂😂.
For real! 😂
It really does work, you have to genuinely be focusing on yourself and improving yourself, and it’ll happen! It happened to me and my friend, I’ve been with my man 7 years (and we are married) and my friend has been dating her dude for about 6 months and they’re madly in love. You will keep meeting people who matches your energy and what your future holds so that’s why you gotta be focused on yourself and what you want to do in life and someone will come along to compliment that ❤
I feel like it's okay to tell someone you like them. That doesn't have to come off desperate, more confident, if you do it right.
Yeah but how do you do it right? 😂
Come on, we need an answer
I’ve been single for over 10 yrs. Didn’t want a boyfriend nor did I want friends with benefits. Now I want one badly. I’m so lonely but I don’t even no how to find someone nor date. 😔 😔 😔 shit sucks
Dating is overrated. It ruins any future relationships. On the contrary, arranged marriages proved to be more successful. I know it sounds shocking but it's true.
I can confirm it works. Or at least it used to, in high-school 😂
Yesss that is so true, btw love your video!!!❤❤❤
I’d rather have a girl come to me and say they like me. I tried but ended up being hurt and I don’t want to go through that pain again.
I’m married not looking but she said binge Gilmore girls for the 5th time. So I had to like it 😂😂 and comment of course. I’m binge number 8 was on binge number maybe 4/5 when I met my husband 😂😂 KEEP WATCHING YOUR GILMORE GIRLS 😂
If you like a guy, make sure they know you want to be around them, if you just ignore them we will assume you have no interest in us. Just going out of your way to talk is enough, but if you just stay on your phone and avoid eye contact we will never make a move.
I love Gilmore girls
Buuuut where to get out???
"so you want a boyfriend?"
Me: yes!
"You need to go out"
Me: no
honestly, i dont agree with the first rule. its different for everyone, a majority of men will show interest if you show them interest. this doesn't go for every man however. you do what you think it's best.
also, on the not going out rule, if you have problems getting out there, you don't have to force it immediately. it's okay to experiment with what you are comfortable with. at the end of day you do what you think is best for you, even if is forcing yourself to go out.
boys in my class pay attention to popular girls, im not popular WHAT DO I DO LOLL❤
Get rid of the roblox pfp...
Alr ik it's late, but look, if they like popular girls, don't go after them, they probably only wanna be popular, find someone who likes you for you
Make your first move , sometimes boy also feels special and gives you princess treatment.💚
Guys no joke, just gaslight yourself and have the mindset “I’m independent, I don’t need to find a man” and then the universe will magically drop your soulmate.
I needed this thanks
I feel very called out with the not going out, and rewatching Gilmore Girls….. 💀
Now you should do one how to get a girl lol❤😂
Me bc i dont interact with men 😭 and i barely leave the house. I feel like getting a job will give me more opportunities so hopefully soon 🙏
As a guy- she’s talking nonese in my opinion. The part where she tells you to not make an effort is is not true. It doesn’t apply to every situation and it’s not universal
She’s 5/10 btw
Omg thank you bro this is the only true video ever.
Step 1: Don’t look for “a boyfriend”
As a introvert I give up😅
Not me watching this right after turning off gilmore girls
As a man. Fax
Frr, i liked someone for 4 years, and then i stopped like him and know i have a bf, and i liked the other guy, only 6 months ago
Look put together and look super feminine, and smile at them. Trust me, it works.
You lost me at look super feminine
so like it started when he came to my school and i was ok and he will smile at me and i was like wtf and then i liked him and one time my friend told him so i said yea
So true
(As a dude)
The main point makes no sense, every guy including me I know likes a girl who gives them attention. We like clingy, as long as you don’t stop us from doing what we want to do, we like girls who want to be around us.
Oh yeah, most boys are petrified of rejection to the point that we won’t even try. It’s the only true fear I have. We are terrified of being laughed at and or carelessly rejected. If you want a boyfriend, you probably have to approach him first, it’s just the world that a lot of terrible and rude women have created. I don’t think I stand a chance with any girl, so I completely cover up my feelings to the point where I don’t even sneak a look, but I’ll take anything.
Don’t worry, most guys, if they can, will take anything they can get. I would honestly date a brick if it made the first move.
If you really want a boyfriend, give him attention and be kind and friendly towards him. We find a bad, toxic and rude personality to be a 1/10. Be thoughtful and caring, we love that sweet, caring personality.
I’ll answer some questions in the reply box below if I have time.
For your first point- guys like clingy attractive girls. Just like a girl won’t call an attractive guy a creep if he comes up to her. And girls are scared to of rejection. And a lot of them too won’t even bother anymore. It’s funny but a lot of men thing women don’t get rejected either. As you said a lot of dudes don’t ask out women anymore so for a while it’s been women being the pursuers.
No one likes clingy. Stop trying to change the definition of clingy😂
if the guy shows no like affection is not interested. ive tired snapping him a few times and making eye contanct but he is pretty shy, any tips?
@@baddiewaddie123 I’m one of those guys. I keep my crushes to myself and try to avoid getting involved with them. I refrain from eye contact and all that. He could be crushing on you, but it’s a gamble. The bar for most guys is pretty low. 80% of guys would give the top 80% of girls a chance. I’d give it a try, even if he isn’t crushing on you, I’m sure he would give you a chance. Be straightforward with it. We won’t get the clues, and it we do, we won’t be sure if your serious.
@@Thinkingisdead thank you so much!
me looking for a gf searching how girls look for a bf 😅😅😅
Hi
@@hiaddis7628great. You executed the first step perfectly, now you you have to follow through with everything else I taught you on how to approach a man without seeming creepy. I suggest next time you talk to a person in real life though...
Letting a guy know you are interested in getting to know them isn't trying to get a guy to like you. And if a guy doesn't like me bc I am interested than he isn't my guy😂 interest should be mutual
Wow women need tutorials for this 🤣🤣🤣🤣? Bruh just be present and watch things come to you
How dare you call be out like this 😅
Ok una use this advice see if it works.
Ppl who think she looks like the gurl from dhar Mann 😂
As she puts on her fakeup😂
Not sure how this changes anything she said. Also, it was VERY light makeup lol
Who is single 😂
so we are now datin his name is roman and he is 9
Ok but what if we’re in school?
as a guy if you show no intresrt im not gonna like you also if girls make the first move they have like a 99% success rate
then he said do u want to date i was like yes then left
pov: me watching this as a bi guy with a crush on agut 👁️👄👁️
👀
im gay asf
there’s no need for you to bully me cora
You’re wrong
2 to like ahhhh
what if you cant leave the house? 🥲
Call the police