"I'm Unlucky That My Job Comes With Fame!" Trevor Noah

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  • Опубликовано: 2 дек 2024

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  • @shaiawo8738
    @shaiawo8738 Месяц назад +131

    Trevor Noah’s self awareness is amazing it’s always great to see his interviews he helps change my perceptions of things.

  • @KingdomKashVideos
    @KingdomKashVideos Месяц назад +83

    I love listening to Noah’s interviews because he’s very introspective. 💯💯💯

    • @LazarusStr
      @LazarusStr Месяц назад +1

      Perfectly said. The cogs that roll in his brain 😮 I would love to just converse with him. 😊

  • @Dud-in9iu
    @Dud-in9iu 28 дней назад +6

    This is how interviews should be. This was such a breath of fresh air hearing something meaningful not just sensationalistic pop media or fighting. I loved this interview

  • @nicolakestel-lifestyleceo4040
    @nicolakestel-lifestyleceo4040 Месяц назад +24

    Trevor you have such an eloquent way of explaining things. Such a beautiful insight ❤

  • @valerie4912
    @valerie4912 Месяц назад +19

    Speaking of amusement parks.
    One summer I was standing in a long line with friends and family. A popular Adele song came on and the entire line started singing along. It had to of been over 100 people singing together, laughing, smiling, swaying back and forth.
    It was an amazing experience.
    I’m assuming there are a lot of experiences that get missed being a celebrity.
    Imagine wanting to just go to the mall with your kids for back to school shopping then sit in a food court eating fries and ice cream. Simple experiences are missed.

    • @kram9076
      @kram9076 29 дней назад +1

      Life lesson as well. Don't be discouraged when you don't become an automatic millionaire God wants you to enjoy your journey and learn a lot from the little you have

  • @quarteracreadventures855
    @quarteracreadventures855 Месяц назад +140

    If you become a famous author, you get the perks of fame without the visual recognition.

    • @AlistairStevenson
      @AlistairStevenson Месяц назад

      What’s your pseudonym?

    • @JaySlay69
      @JaySlay69 Месяц назад +6

      You don't think J. K. Rowling is recognised anywhere?

    • @nightrider6136
      @nightrider6136 29 дней назад +1

      What are the perks without being recognized?

    • @sierrab4885
      @sierrab4885 27 дней назад +1

      Tell that to jk Rowling 😂

    • @quarteracreadventures855
      @quarteracreadventures855 27 дней назад +1

      @@sierrab4885 This was her choice tho- I would not have known that JK was even a woman if she had not done like, interviews and stuff. She could have easily remained anonymous; unlike a TV/movie star

  • @anthonymichaels257
    @anthonymichaels257 Месяц назад +51

    Fame is something that can't be undone. There's no magic reverse card.

    • @santacruz7455
      @santacruz7455 Месяц назад +6

      I am not sure. Once you have enough money , you can move somewhere where its not a big thing to be you and where paparazzi are not around..Its not a good idea to live in LA or NY if you want to live a normal life..

    • @ksam5673
      @ksam5673 Месяц назад

      You obviously haven't heard of those one hot wonders or milli vanilli

    • @novemberkind319
      @novemberkind319 Месяц назад +1

      Just move to a country where journalists have to respect your privacy like Europe.

    • @MidnightPursuit
      @MidnightPursuit Месяц назад

      Yeah till your old and nobody cares about you anymore

    • @jasonmoukala8909
      @jasonmoukala8909 29 дней назад

      @@santacruz7455And Miami as well

  • @KTD2345
    @KTD2345 25 дней назад +3

    I haven’t been to a theme park in years, but thinking back to my experiences in childhood I don’t remember the roller coaster ride itself at all. I remember and can even see images in my head of the times waiting in line with my friends. Very interesting and spot on.

  • @nicoshealthtips
    @nicoshealthtips Месяц назад +43

    The theme park example is so true! Been through that before a few years ago and had the same reaction. It's a great example of what we think we want and what we really need. Can be applied to so many aspects of life.

    • @chrisatcgh
      @chrisatcgh Месяц назад +1

      Yeah I did orlando in my own and did the dingle rider lines. It was great bit after 3 days doing tonnes I am now over rollercoasters I think for years. I did the hulk like 3 times in a row because que was short and got dull very quick.

  • @JRspeaking
    @JRspeaking Месяц назад +35

    I love him. So insightful.

  • @top6ear
    @top6ear Месяц назад +74

    I used to be a photographer for the Canadian version of the Oscars, I refused to treat celebrities any different than I would a construction worker or somebody who works the grocery store.

    • @elizabethheyenga9277
      @elizabethheyenga9277 Месяц назад +13

      I was the same when I worked for doctors. If they were disrespectful I would call them by the first name and that always solved things

    • @AlistairStevenson
      @AlistairStevenson Месяц назад +1

      Apart from taking pictures of them and selling them to newspapers?

  • @editaatteck9587
    @editaatteck9587 Месяц назад +12

    Without a doubt; friction adds value and helps us grow I have so much respect for Trevor Noah as well as honest and kind conversations

  • @gg_kinz
    @gg_kinz Месяц назад +97

    People need to learn that money and fame is not the answer they think it is

    • @nxrth9463
      @nxrth9463 Месяц назад +17

      Money is, fame isnt.

    • @JuanPablo-o6c
      @JuanPablo-o6c Месяц назад +12

      You want to be rich and anonymous

    • @Bunny11344
      @Bunny11344 Месяц назад +3

      I knew at a young age as a child I never wanted fame, or children but especially fame but money is fine

    • @markallen9057
      @markallen9057 Месяц назад

      it is when you need it and then new problems require new solutions too

    • @Wealthy_Iam
      @Wealthy_Iam Месяц назад +4

      Darling, there is nothing humble about being broke. Money is a tool, we all need it, Einstein.

  • @lindaohanraha-hanrahan2817
    @lindaohanraha-hanrahan2817 Месяц назад +128

    Fame would be absolutely exhausting.

    • @polsyg6581
      @polsyg6581 Месяц назад

      try poverty sometime.

  • @CloudTribe
    @CloudTribe Месяц назад +36

    I think fame stopped being worth it with the internet and social media. There’s no where you can hide anymore and people can attack you constantly

    • @Batwam0
      @Batwam0 Месяц назад +4

      Famous people had the same problem before that, paparazzi following them, stories in magazines,… it’s probably worse now though

    • @mamahlahamoloi6950
      @mamahlahamoloi6950 Месяц назад +3

      And before everyone had a smartphone

  • @elisa-beary
    @elisa-beary Месяц назад +8

    As someone who grew up going to arts school & worked very hard on my singing & theatre & would’ve loved to do something in that realm, around the time of boy bands & Britney/christina I watched the boom of paparazzi, mass media, TMZ, tabloids, now add in social media & that changed. They’re revoked any semblance of privacy or humanity from their lives. There used to be a sense of mystery to celebs but now there’s info, lies & cruelty spoken about them 24/7, they can’t go through ANYTHING hard, surrounded & chased by paps, put in mag covers in their worst moments. The media pushes them right to the edge while they point & laugh but then when they inevitably fall off the edge & their mental health suffers, addictions begin to not care or numb the anxiety of leaving their houses or the things that have happened to them in the industry, then when tragedy strikes the same people that pointed, laughed & profited feign shock & heartbreak. It’s sick!

  • @ComputerGuru-tk2hg
    @ComputerGuru-tk2hg Месяц назад +6

    I am proud of my south african brother trevor noah he is an intelligent man

  • @mossiahday815
    @mossiahday815 Месяц назад +2

    " Turn opps into opportunities "
    -facts over feelings 💯

  • @hassanabdullah4061
    @hassanabdullah4061 5 дней назад

    The amusement park analaogy is an example of how intelligent Trevor is, I really enjoyed this clip…”all the death threats were worth it” that was funny

  • @SessionOneLive
    @SessionOneLive Месяц назад +10

    Friction adds value. I've always wondered.. why didn't the Eagles just take Frodo and Sam to the mountain day 1. This explains

  • @PravitLochan
    @PravitLochan Месяц назад +2

    Nice interview...Two great and very inspirational guys!

  • @armorbearer9702
    @armorbearer9702 Месяц назад +4

    (0:52) It is true. This is why first impressions are so important.

  • @phillipsebolemasango-za
    @phillipsebolemasango-za Месяц назад +6

    I remember sitting across Trevor Noah at the V&A Waterfront at Africa Beach Cafe in Cape Town, everyone was there to have fun and enjoy themselves with friends. About two girls walked up to him, while he was sitting with his friends and asked for pictures. He rejected the offer politely, they were not happy at all. It seemed like they had the expectation that he had to take the picture with them. I can relate to what he is saying.

  • @pamelaroberts4360
    @pamelaroberts4360 29 дней назад +2

    I always get something from your conversation Trevor 👏👏

  • @KetumileMahule
    @KetumileMahule Месяц назад +3

    Great episode,his opinion was valid. Never hated fame but there are so many disadvantages about it.

  • @ChristianMartt
    @ChristianMartt Месяц назад +12

    The thing about fame is that once you cross a certain threshold of notoriety there’s no going back. You can’t unknow someone. You can’t get into their consciousness and remove yourself from it. The only thing that can change is their perception of you, now you’re a has-been or not relevant anymore or whatever. In a legal sense you’ll be a public figure regardless of how much money is in your bank account or how much ‘clout’ or relevance you have. For the rest of your life and beyond. It’s a prison. And I get why people are attracted to it as a pile of gold that will solve all your problems but people go crazy. We like the idea and the fantasy of fame but not the reality and practicalities of it. You can’t turn fame off. You’re famous 24/7 every day of your life. You experience the human experience in public. Love, loss, sex, family, health issues, death, friendship, betrayal. All the normal things, but with millions of people feeling like they have the license to dehumanise you and put you on an unrealistic pedestal and comment vile things about it, wether it’s true or not. Your whole business model is to be on good graces with the public, so that your business is successful, so you craft your whole persona around being the most agreeable and palatable person you can be so you won’t get any backlash or criticism. You sacrifice your authentic self to please everyone, and you lose yourself. You don’t know who you can trust and who sees you as a resource of clout and money. You have to worry about parasocial relationships, stalkers. You have to walk around with security all the time. It’s awful. I actually have think this through so much because since i was a kid i wanted to become a musician, but my inner self was telling me that something wasn’t right about that decision. One of the wisest decisions i’ve ever made was to not pursue it, even though i love music. I think i’m making the better decision for my quality of life. My peace and my privacy matter muuuuuch more to me than some material success and fame. I know I would be miserable in that situation because fame affects the most important parts of the human experience for the worse.

    • @bl00dFairy
      @bl00dFairy Месяц назад +1

      Right. And when we die it's not like we take our net worth with us. You come to realize it's all so futile if you actually ruminate on those realities and practicalities of fame like you did.
      Ecclesiastes 1:2-4
      "Life is fleeting, like a passing mist. It is like trying to catch hold of a breath; All vanishes like a vapor; everything is a great vanity".
      God. Family. Friends. Good people who do life with you. Even bad people who teach you good lessons. That's a beautiful life.

    • @cesarmakhoul7723
      @cesarmakhoul7723 29 дней назад +1

      I related to everything you said.. I still find it hard to make a decision. I've always loved music and singing and I'm not sure whether or not I should pursue it.

    • @ChristianMartt
      @ChristianMartt 28 дней назад +2

      @@cesarmakhoul7723 it’s a very personal thing. To some people that decision leads to net positive outcomes. To other people like me, it would be a net negative outcome. It comes down to your values, what lifestyle you want to live, and a laaaarge etcetera of factors. It’s a very individual choice.

  • @ExecutiveZombie
    @ExecutiveZombie Месяц назад +16

    Amén. 🙏🏽 It’s been my pleasure to be anonymous until now and I’m entirety grateful. ☀️ Just Be! 🥰

  • @shookone568
    @shookone568 Месяц назад +3

    Never looked at fame like that. Very insightful.

  • @JC-dt7rn
    @JC-dt7rn Месяц назад +5

    Balance is bliss !!!!

  • @tizodd6
    @tizodd6 Месяц назад +12

    I would love to have the money, but I've known for a long time that I want nothing to do with the fame.

  • @johnsmith-iv6sc
    @johnsmith-iv6sc Месяц назад +2

    I love Trevor. What an amazing insight.

  • @70newlife
    @70newlife Месяц назад +6

    Narayan Murthy is Rich and famous. But he still travels in regular flights. Few months back he was waiting at the airport gate right next to me.
    It was a low cost airline with only economy seats!!!

  • @adelka123YT
    @adelka123YT 17 дней назад

    Hearing this after Liam's death, you really do understand his struggle a bit more. RIP

  • @redmoondesignbeth9119
    @redmoondesignbeth9119 Месяц назад +1

    What an interesting conversation. I'm 72 now and I could see that if I'd had a spotlight on my life all that time I would have ended up with a restricted sense of Self and little growth.

  • @kinssher5102
    @kinssher5102 Месяц назад +1

    May heavenly father God (creator) bless you both & keep you.

  • @thefacewhisperer6870
    @thefacewhisperer6870 Месяц назад +65

    Wow you both look so much alike.

    • @Galbadia970
      @Galbadia970 Месяц назад +3

      So I was interested in watching Diary of a CEO but I didn't know the interviewers name by heart yet to look it up, I had just started watching it.. I typed in Trevor Noah after seeing him elsewhere and then I was like wait thats him and I typed in Diary of a CEO Trevor Noah ...... 😭😭😭😭 How confused I was when he's the one being interviewed

    • @thefacewhisperer6870
      @thefacewhisperer6870 Месяц назад +1

      @@Galbadia970 That's hilarious!!😂

    • @tmbrad1288
      @tmbrad1288 Месяц назад +1

      I was thinking the same thing 😂

    • @petrzalkai
      @petrzalkai Месяц назад +2

      I thought these two are the same guy

    • @asieduaotsiwah9240
      @asieduaotsiwah9240 Месяц назад

      Very, you can't even have a bad day. You just can't be human. And the share fact that people judge you without even knowing you personally. Must hurt a lot. Sending you lots of love from Ghana.

  • @lessmore444
    @lessmore444 Месяц назад +3

    Fame, the ultimate “careful what you wish for”. Never had any interest, anonymity is too valuable.

  • @DJeSkahz
    @DJeSkahz 18 дней назад

    2 foyne smart black men🤩

  • @itslikelypastmybedtime8327
    @itslikelypastmybedtime8327 Месяц назад +3

    ...without learning how to first become grounded and having a solid foundation of morals/beliefs/valies

  • @gary6514
    @gary6514 4 дня назад

    For some famous people the one thing worse than fame is losing it.....

  • @izyomijeh1805
    @izyomijeh1805 25 дней назад

    Did anyone notice how at 05:35 the camera shook slightly? I feel like the camera person was caught off guard by the joke and couldn't help laughing & mistakenly caused the camera to shake 🤣Trevor is just awesome. Funny and laid back yet very self-aware and serious at the same time.

  • @mothonyanematsao2074
    @mothonyanematsao2074 Месяц назад +1

    Friends are Ultra important

  • @mfanakithi2002
    @mfanakithi2002 Месяц назад +1

    He does introspect more and more

  • @ThatOneSubTeacher
    @ThatOneSubTeacher Месяц назад +1

    I think knowing thy self is a useful expression for this phenomenon. Other people's perspective or false assumptions don't matter half as much, if you know Thiers not much reason or logical to them.

  • @KingdomKashVideos
    @KingdomKashVideos Месяц назад +2

    Famous people live in a global fishbowl. That’s why I decided that world of fame wasn’t for me. I buried my talent to keep my personal space. 💯💯💯💯

  • @gordenmohlala
    @gordenmohlala Месяц назад +2

    People should take a lead out of Keanu Reeves’ lifestyle.
    Fame can but shouldn’t destroy you or exhaust you.

  • @jenniferpoitier
    @jenniferpoitier Месяц назад +5

    Trevor you are wonderful. Bi racial woma here , who is thankful you share yourself with the world ❤

    • @darnitthelma4247
      @darnitthelma4247 Месяц назад +1

      Aren’t you thankful regardless of your colour 🤷‍♀️

    • @circa1890
      @circa1890 Месяц назад

      ​@@darnitthelma4247Maybe you should read Trevor's book.. 😮

    • @70newlife
      @70newlife Месяц назад

      Yeah he's been waiting for you all his life. 😂😂

  • @djshockafrica4330
    @djshockafrica4330 29 дней назад +1

    You look almost like brothers ❤

  • @KFontLab
    @KFontLab Месяц назад +1

    He seems to be a pretty cool guy, and I have always found it annoying that this has to be a conversation. “Famous people” are human. It’s simply about being thoughtful and understanding that we don’t own them and they don’t owe their private lives to us. It just takes a little bit of common decency.

  • @DiamondRay9D
    @DiamondRay9D Месяц назад +2

    I 💯 agree with him!

  • @AmiViks7
    @AmiViks7 Месяц назад

    100% agree! So relatable! Anonymity is Bliss ❤

  • @soyabeanmilkpancakeunderth5257
    @soyabeanmilkpancakeunderth5257 Месяц назад +1

    This person knows this...what it is like...however only the downsides and more localized. Personally, I very much do prefer anonymity. Although there are people who thrive in fame and under the spotlight.

  • @pindimabhena4586
    @pindimabhena4586 29 дней назад +2

    These two actually look alike You would think they are brothers

  • @pattersonellen
    @pattersonellen Месяц назад +1

    Constantly in defence mode when famous

  • @FireoftheRedSun55
    @FireoftheRedSun55 Месяц назад +3

    There need to be government-imposed limits on the activities of paparazzi. I don’t know how, but they often pose a danger to the stars they stalk and the public.

  • @MariaRogers-xh5od
    @MariaRogers-xh5od Месяц назад +3

    Love your humility!

  • @EnglebertFlumperjack
    @EnglebertFlumperjack Месяц назад

    What an amazing analogy.

  • @Remy-TCG
    @Remy-TCG Месяц назад +5

    both of them look and sound similar..i thought steven is interviewing his younger self using time machine 😂

    • @anonamouse.p4115
      @anonamouse.p4115 Месяц назад

      STEVEN BARTLETT is 32 years of age, and TREVOR NOAH is 40 years of age; STEVEN has Youthful middle age to look forward to x!

  • @EliaszPimpicki
    @EliaszPimpicki Месяц назад +2

    fame is a price to pay if you make any sort of media, art or enterntainment on big scale for big bucks. also politics, or owning a popular brand makes you famous too. that really sucks because there are a lot of unstable people all around...

  • @PukeSkinwalker
    @PukeSkinwalker Месяц назад +1

    Voice actor is where it is at. You get all the perks of being famous but none of the problems. The value in anonymity is key. Fame is hell for me as an introvert. It is why I don't go that route because exactly as he put it. Other people get to dictate your identity and your story. It is unfair and enraging because suddenly any conversation is going to be about or with that topic. It would be fun to do for a week or a few years but the lasting effects of people that watch you at the end of fame get weirder and weirder. The longer you haven't been famous or in the public view, the weirder the people that still are interested in you. Just saying.

  • @eladhaham1014
    @eladhaham1014 Месяц назад

    Love your podcasts, Please have Bryan Johnson

  • @Prashanthbentley1
    @Prashanthbentley1 Месяц назад

    Wow what a very different perspective Trevor gave... Never had an idea that a celebrity also thinks like this 👍

  • @Justhannahfashion
    @Justhannahfashion Месяц назад +2

    Trust me I appreciate my anonymity ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @medgarbarnes9342
    @medgarbarnes9342 Месяц назад +1

    The bigger the channel, the bigger the guest, and the bigger your packet gets.😂
    School days rhyming!!😂

  • @medgarbarnes9342
    @medgarbarnes9342 Месяц назад

    Like your shows!!
    Thanks!!❤

  • @elricowillemse196
    @elricowillemse196 6 дней назад

    Wow ❤ 🎉

  • @serenarobak3640
    @serenarobak3640 Месяц назад +1

    It seems that many people think fame is everyone giving you live but to me it seems like everyoone wants to fill themselves by sucking the life out of you. Fame doesn't give it takes.

  • @kram9076
    @kram9076 29 дней назад

    Thisnis the same feeling breadwinners have at home when they visit in December 😢. Everyone knows you from jhb ans assume you live this fabulous life and can talk about you however they want because they think you have it better. You don't become human to them but you are a cashcow. You known by every neighborhood. Assumptions made about you. You can't even downgrade peacefully without Assumption that you fell off

  • @majdavojnikovic
    @majdavojnikovic 28 дней назад

    Famous people are not strangers. Lot of people don’t think. So when they see a famous person, they approach someone they know, and even had experience with that famous person. Not really but they laughed at this guy jokes, so when they meet him the first request is:”say something funny”
    :))))

  • @baterd88
    @baterd88 Месяц назад +1

    weird how "Fame" by David Bowie is playing at my job as I'm watching this.

  • @gaddaitherage8204
    @gaddaitherage8204 29 дней назад

    I think the reason why so many people strive to be famous for the sake of being known stems from a desire to be loved by many. But those type of adoration is not real. You’ll become more of a fixture for people to take selfies with.

  • @aebk8439
    @aebk8439 Месяц назад +3

    Which one is Trevor Noah?

    • @JosannaMonik
      @JosannaMonik Месяц назад

      The interviewee on the left.

  • @Gngstrangel
    @Gngstrangel Месяц назад +4

    Ya’ll looking like cousins

  • @Brilliance728
    @Brilliance728 28 дней назад

    -Friends who *won't* go out with him cause he's too famous
    - joking with an ex
    what tribe of people has this man found that they have such values and healthy relational dynamics?? Cause ain't no f**king way

  • @ratelhoneybadger
    @ratelhoneybadger Месяц назад

    I see all the people asking who Trevor Noah is and just realised if I wasn't South African, I probably wouldn't know who he is too😂😂😂

  • @marymolloy4396
    @marymolloy4396 29 дней назад +1

    Like he is speaking about Liam Payne

  • @figgettit
    @figgettit Месяц назад +1

    everyone knows that fame is shit and everyone appreciates their privacy. he speaks fr himself when he says "people" dont appreciate the ability to start again with new people. lol famous people are up their own assholes really. they want to teach us in every moment things we dont need to learn.

  • @peterclow3829
    @peterclow3829 Месяц назад

    Fame does sound a bit crap... But well done the pair you for making it so relatable

  • @nkosinathindala4745
    @nkosinathindala4745 Месяц назад

    Riches and fame are very good curses.

  • @LauraDeVasconcelos
    @LauraDeVasconcelos Месяц назад +3

    Idk who Trevor Noah is, never seen b4

  • @bilelsk9000
    @bilelsk9000 Месяц назад +2

    If it is thaaaaat difficult just stop beeing famous 😂

  • @MidnightPursuit
    @MidnightPursuit Месяц назад

    What did Jim Carey say?

  • @Peter-mj6lz
    @Peter-mj6lz Месяц назад

    You look like brothers

    • @dionnepatrick2431
      @dionnepatrick2431 Месяц назад

      It's cool to see them together, they both have African mothers.

  • @varvarapok7377
    @varvarapok7377 Месяц назад +1

    Somehow I don't feel sorry for famous people 😂 it's their own choice to be there. A choice that comes with the price

    • @KFontLab
      @KFontLab Месяц назад

      It’s not about feeling sorry for them… It’s about understanding and respecting the fact that they are human and we have no rights to be in their business or in every area if their lives.
      It is interesting to me that this is even a topic…
      Some people don’t have common decency at all.

    • @varvarapok7377
      @varvarapok7377 Месяц назад

      @KFontLab in 99%of the cases they desperately want this attention. They want to have millions of followers on social media and people running after them on streets

    • @jasonmoukala8909
      @jasonmoukala8909 29 дней назад

      Dude what? It’s their choice to be there? No it was their choice to do what they love whether it’s acting, singing, rapping, being a ceo or playing a sport. It was their choice to make money. They didn’t choose to be stalked 24/7 by random nobodies who have nothing better to with their lives. They didn’t choose to have the whole world judging every decision they make or mistake. They didn’t for people to put unrealistic standards and expectations on them. They didn’t ask for people to worship them or put them on a pedestal.😂😂😂

    • @jasonmoukala8909
      @jasonmoukala8909 29 дней назад

      @@KFontLabexactly

  • @sbonelon9779
    @sbonelon9779 25 дней назад

    you took Zuma down.

  • @TheMarshallMalone
    @TheMarshallMalone Месяц назад

    This is hard to watch. Fame isn’t the real issue here. It does come with challenges, but it also brings unique opportunities to make an impact, connect with people, and share ideas worldwide. Losing privacy isn’t easy, but using fame to inspire others can be deeply fulfilling in ways anonymity doesn’t always offer. I’ve been a content creator for 25 years, and nobody knows who I am or what I’ve done… and honestly, it’s tough feeling powerless in a medium you’ve dedicated your life to. It’s all about perspective.
    Plus, with enough money to retire, you could easily live an anonymous life if that’s what you truly wanted. Maybe it’s the need to be known and seen as an artist that keeps you in the spotlight? Just my two cents… but who am I? 😅

    • @ChristianMartt
      @ChristianMartt Месяц назад

      The thing about fame is that once you cross a certain threshold of notoriety there’s no going back. You can’t unknow someone. You can’t get into their consciousness and remove yourself from it. The only thing that can change is their perception of you, now you’re a has-been or not relevant anymore or whatever. In a legal sense you’ll be a public figure regardless of how much money is in your bank account or how much ‘clout’ or relevance you have. For the rest of your life and beyond. It’s a prison. And I get why people are attracted to it as a pile of gold that will solve all your problems but people go crazy. We like the idea and the fantasy of fame but not the reality and practicalities of it. You can’t turn fame off. You’re famous 24/7 every day of your life. You experience the human experience in public. Love, loss, sex, family, health issues, death, friendship, betrayal. All the normal things, but with millions of people feeling like they have the license to dehumanise you and put you on an unrealistic pedestal and comment vile things about it, whether it’s true or not. Your whole business model is to be on good graces with the public, so that your business is successful, so you craft your whole persona around being the most agreeable and palatable person you can be so you won’t get any backlash or criticism. You sacrifice your authentic self to please everyone, and you lose yourself. You don’t know who you can trust and who sees you as a resource of clout and money. You have to worry about parasocial relationships, stalkers. You have to walk around with security all the time. It’s awful. I actually have think this through so much because since i was a kid i wanted to become a musician, but my inner self was telling me that something wasn’t right about that decision. One of the wisest decisions i’ve ever made was to not pursue it, even though i love music itself. I think i’m making the better decision for my quality of life. My peace and my privacy matter muuuuuch more to me than some material success and fame. I know I would be miserable in that situation because fame affects the most important parts of the human experience for the worse.

  • @ElizabethWarrenYeahYeah
    @ElizabethWarrenYeahYeah Месяц назад +1

    I must be some of the few people who doesn't know who this man it.

  • @TempleRevolutionProject
    @TempleRevolutionProject Месяц назад +2

    You don’t want to be famous because it requires receiving the Diddy treatment, on camera, with people watching.

  • @danwilliams1511
    @danwilliams1511 Месяц назад +7

    I can’t think of many things worse than being famous.

  • @Roberta-m3j
    @Roberta-m3j 27 дней назад

    Who IS Trevor something? 😂😂

  • @redstone3985
    @redstone3985 Месяц назад

    But Trevor,, you will remember that "the gifts of God come without trouble(•sorrow)" [▪︎Proverbs] _ and again- the Bible refers to "good success" (implies then to "bad" success) _ therefore you cannot make a statements like "every gift comes with a curse" 😮 many simply will swallow crap, be careful!

  • @harveyheinrich
    @harveyheinrich Месяц назад

    I'm a jedi

  • @teej70
    @teej70 Месяц назад

    I'd rather be someone like the founder of Zara, Amancio Ortega.. worth over $100 billion and pretty much anonymous to the public. That beats being a Hollywood star any day!

  • @graceandmarvellouswonders6249
    @graceandmarvellouswonders6249 Месяц назад

    I find the thumbnail disrespectful and misleading!! Britney is still on her journey, condemning her even by visuals is a lot of weight to put upon any shoulders! Take it down it is rude✌🏾

  • @njaphs
    @njaphs Месяц назад

    Thats why sex with one person is better than the hook up culture of today.

  • @maxmando2304
    @maxmando2304 Месяц назад +1

    Ah yes, the price of fame

  • @carolchocho425
    @carolchocho425 Месяц назад +5

    Can’t imagine how Meghan Markle feels every time she steps outside her home with constant negative press.

    • @olliew2932
      @olliew2932 Месяц назад

      someone who actually understands? great to see

    • @ManuelaJäger-e6t
      @ManuelaJäger-e6t 29 дней назад

      Not the best example.

  • @toomielola3495
    @toomielola3495 15 дней назад

    This is in English

  • @ChristopherDwiggins
    @ChristopherDwiggins Месяц назад

    Her left eye

  • @Rekoniz17
    @Rekoniz17 Месяц назад

    I keep tryna tell people if you think you can get out of fame scott free without some mental trauma you are gravely mistaken. The money ain't worth it for your sanity