IVF round 1 | Start to Finish | Failed implantation | PGS | FET

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  • Опубликовано: 15 мар 2018
  • Our first round of IVF from start to finish with clips from my phone.
    This was a difficult one to share. I wasn't sure if I was ever going to post this because it's so emotional and frankly it was difficult to even edit. I truly hope this helps anyone going through the IVF process. I know watching videos of other women's experience helped me get through hard days and either scared the crap out of me (made me cry) or gave me hope! I love talking about IVF and I am so in awe of the science behind it. After 2 rounds I feel like an expert on it even though I know I am nowhere near one.
    Good news is after the ERA it showed my window of implantation was a day later. The 2nd round of IVF worked and I am due with our Miracle Baby June 10, 2018! I said casually to my husband yesterday "the three of us" then screamed "oh my gosh soon it will be the three of us". 3 more months until it is the 3 of us!
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    My name is Laura Laws and I started this channel because I wanted to get the word out about the ERA test (I thought it would be weird to put it on my Real estate channel). The ERA test is a biopsy they do in the IVF process to see when you are receptive to implantation. It is new and I wouldn’t be pregnant without it! My husband Phil and I live in the suburbs of Philadelphia. We have 3 ragdoll cats and we are due June 10, 2018 with our first baby girl! I have shared my 2 rounds of IVF as well as weekly pregnancy updates & other baby related videos. I am a real estate agent and you can check out that channel if you’d like to see more info on real estate, smart home technology and other random stuff here: / kansascitykitties

Комментарии • 274

  • @Renbacktome
    @Renbacktome 2 года назад +104

    I honestly think woman that pay for ivf and it fails they should get all their money back

    • @vvv1639
      @vvv1639 2 года назад +7

      They don’t care I just failed my first ivf am very sad

    • @pennystang6065
      @pennystang6065 2 года назад +7

      Norway they give half of your money going for second time soon

    • @khalishvo
      @khalishvo Год назад

      @@pennystang6065 really

    • @pennystang6065
      @pennystang6065 Год назад

      @@khalishvo yes true

    • @pennystang6065
      @pennystang6065 Год назад

      @@khalishvo i just applied to get money back

  • @susanmcnamara9793
    @susanmcnamara9793 6 лет назад +77

    I just found out that my first round of IVF didn't work. I remember watching this video in my two week wait and I am grateful to have something to watch to feel less alone. Thank you.

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  6 лет назад +2

      I'm so sorry Susan. I'm sending you my love. I hope you can find hope once you get through your grieving.

    • @jaycemarcelo2634
      @jaycemarcelo2634 3 года назад

      pro tip : watch movies at Kaldrostream. Me and my gf have been using it for watching a lot of movies recently.

    • @alfredmerrick3734
      @alfredmerrick3734 3 года назад

      @Jayce Marcelo Yup, have been using kaldroStream for since december myself =)

    • @hugohlf
      @hugohlf 2 года назад

      My wife and i feel the same way!

    • @vvv1639
      @vvv1639 2 года назад +1

      You are not alone same thing happened to me I failed my first ivf . everything was fine but from day 8 I felt sick and nauseous vomiting I called repromed end I told my symptom’s they said you should come and do blood test for pregnancy and it wasn’t positive I had hope this will work for me but no

  • @lauravgabot-sattler1259
    @lauravgabot-sattler1259 4 года назад +11

    Girl! Thank you for sharing your journey. It’s very comforting to know there some things that we all go through when we do IVF.

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  4 года назад

      That means so much! I'm glad it has helped you through IVF! Good luck. Sending you lots of love and hope!

  • @lindseys8700
    @lindseys8700 6 лет назад +6

    Thank you for sharing. Parts of this cracked me up, you are funny. I am so happy this worked out for you :)

  • @eleanorlaws9394
    @eleanorlaws9394 6 лет назад +17

    Laura is a very thoughtful daughter in law and funny.
    I know she’ll be a wonderful Mom. Since I live five hours away I’ve so enjoyed watching her weekly updates. She has a caring way about her and truly wants to help others get through their pregnancies.

  • @lilithssilvermoon3208
    @lilithssilvermoon3208 4 года назад +15

    Omg!! I just found this- thank you! Thank you! Thank you!!! My first round of IVF failed implantation- I’m on my second round- I did Neupogen and a endometrial scratch this time- I’m also doing acupuncture- the first time- they said everything looked great- but still a fail- hope this second one works!!! I’m 50- and did PGS testing on my 13 embryos and they all tested great except one- so I have 12 total now- one failed embryo so now I have 11 more and we are about to transfer again! Please send baby dust 🤞🏻

    • @deirdrelaski9460
      @deirdrelaski9460 4 года назад +1

      That's amazing that you have 11 embryos. What age did you do your retrieval? Take hgh? What's your AMH?

    • @foziaawais5803
      @foziaawais5803 4 года назад +1

      That's awesome I am 39 I got 9 eggs only and 3 made to day 6 and only 1 came back normal we transferred 1 embryo and i am 6 day post transfer

  • @dianagonzales-ramirez5527
    @dianagonzales-ramirez5527 4 года назад +20

    So I just got the news my implantation didnt work and now am here trying to find answers or something. This video made me feel like I wasnt alone, so thank you for that.

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  4 года назад

      That means a lot! I'm sorry you had to go through that. I hope you find the answers. Be sure to watch my ERA video if you haven't maybe that will help. Sending you lots of love!

  • @pamelaann7771
    @pamelaann7771 6 лет назад +8

    OMG! Thank you so much for posting this! I'm going through the same exact situation at the moment. Your video gives me hope. My husband and I had a great quality embryo with PGS BUT failed implantation. My doctor suggested the same test for biopsy. I'm waiting for my cycle to start the process. Congratulations on your pregnancy!

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  6 лет назад

      Keep me updated. The ERA is the reason we are pregnant now! Sending you lots of love and good luck!

    • @pamelaann7771
      @pamelaann7771 6 лет назад +1

      Laura Laws will do and thank you!!!

    • @vvv1639
      @vvv1639 2 года назад

      @@pamelaann7771 did you get pregnant 🙏

    • @pamelaann7771
      @pamelaann7771 2 года назад +1

      @@vvv1639 yes

  • @mandy6062
    @mandy6062 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing this with us. There are so many positives and not much content out there like this. Thank you.

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  Год назад

      I’m glad it helped! A lot of times women don’t share they are doing ivf so it is lonely. Also I just assumed ivf would work. It doesn’t always. Sorry it didn’t work for you but hopefully you get the answers for why. Mine was the ERA test.

  • @pcompton83
    @pcompton83 3 года назад +8

    I’m going through the exact same thing right now. I’m 8dp5dt (after 12 where I live) and I haven’t gotten a positive test yet. But I still have cramping, swollen breast and frequenter urinating. I think it’s bcuz of the PIO shots. Beta is Monday and I can’t wait to finally get some clarity. I’m glad it worked out for you in the end. This video was very comforting.

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  3 года назад

      Thanks for letting me know and sharing. Good luck and follow your gut if you think it is implanting late. Maybe you need to do the ERA test. Sending you lots of love and luck!

    • @veniqueoxox8327
      @veniqueoxox8327 2 года назад +1

      Did you get a positive? Everything you said is literally me, I’m 6 days past embryo transfer today and I took an at home test and no positive yet but I have all those symptoms. Thank you!

  • @kurkur078
    @kurkur078 5 лет назад +10

    Hi there. I failed my first ivf today. 2ww after embryo transfer and it was BFN. dont bother to look for the blood hcg result 😅 thnk you so much for the video! It means so much to me ❤️

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  5 лет назад

      kurkur078 I’m so sorry to hear that. I hope you keep trying. It’s worth it! Did you do the era test?

  • @MarcSklarTheFertilityExpert
    @MarcSklarTheFertilityExpert 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this Laura!

  • @aprilk569
    @aprilk569 4 года назад +6

    Thank you so much for sharing this!! I'm about to start my first round of IVF after three unsuccessful IUI's. Your honest, raw experience of all these ups and downs is so relatable and has made me feel so much more "normal". I'm so happy it worked out for you guys ♥️
    Side note: Your hair is gorgeous!

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  4 года назад +1

      I had 2 iuis fail too. Ivf is such a rollercoaster but worth it when you get your miracle baby! Good luck to you and thanks for saying hi and watching! Sending lots of love! 😘😘😘

    • @elizabethmason-leister6628
      @elizabethmason-leister6628 3 года назад

      I had a fresh transfer 6 yrs ago and was successful.. I was then blessed with two natural pregnancies. I am definitely blessed.. We have decided for t try IVF. We recently had our transfer and have no idea what to expect this time.. How long before you tested at home and what systems did you notice??

  • @Modozual
    @Modozual 5 лет назад +2

    thanks for sharing your experience... we're ready to do it on November 19

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  5 лет назад

      How exciting! Be sure to watch my era test video of you haven’t! Sending you lots of love and luck!

  • @lydiab6304
    @lydiab6304 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for sharing. We are in the same situation. It was hard seeing a lot of happy stories out there. We only had 3 embryos, none were aa rated either but we tried anyway and all three failed. Here's to hoping our tries work in the future and so glad you have your baby.

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  3 года назад

      Sorry to hear that and thank you for sharing! I hope you have your miracle baby! The ratings on the embryos didn't correspond to the chromosome abnormalities that were detected through pgs with us. Maybe look into pgs if you haven't! Sending luck and love!

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      @autahassan143 2 года назад

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  • @rebeccamiller3845
    @rebeccamiller3845 3 года назад +2

    So sad and heartbreaking failures happen to us..The first person we turn to when IVF cycle fails is a doctor. She is the person who performed everything from the ovarian stimulation to the embryo transfer. She is the one who advised to do IVF. And yes, she reassures that you have a good chance of succeeding. Patients naturally think that their doctor should have an answer for the most important question that haunts them ‘Why did my cycle fail?’ There are patients who are naive about the IVF process, and who get angry with their doctor when she cannot offer a satisfactory answer for the failure. They start imagining the worst - that their doctor did not perform the procedure well, or that the clinic is not competent, which is why the cycle failed..Well we all draw conclusions and move further.

  • @FruitfulMyFertilityJourney
    @FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 6 лет назад +8

    Thank you so much for sharing! I know this type of video is hard to re-watch for you! I am going to do something similar during my next FET! By the way, I cant wait to get my ERA test results back!

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  6 лет назад

      Hopefully you get some answers. I'm excited to watch your journey!

    • @mizzmellowyellow27
      @mizzmellowyellow27 2 года назад

      Hey. How'd it go? I know this was posted 3 years ago.

  • @noellesillart5329
    @noellesillart5329 10 месяцев назад

    Love that last question. I know this is an old video. It’s super frustrating when you are shelling out a lot of money to do this why not take every percussion whats another 600$ at this point. Glad everything has worked out. I enjoyed your video.

  • @feliciarivera4297
    @feliciarivera4297 3 года назад

    Thank you for sharing this.

  • @muhammadx656
    @muhammadx656 2 года назад

    Thanks for sharing your experience

  • @sherysha962
    @sherysha962 Год назад

    such a great information you shared. Can I ask how long did you try before you decided to do IVF?

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  Год назад +1

      I had 2 miscarriages and due to my age we moved to iui and then quickly to ivf once we knew the problem was poor egg quality due to my age. I'm glad this helped you!

  • @laila7078
    @laila7078 3 года назад

    what is ivf? please help me understand :)

  • @sandyacevedo9080
    @sandyacevedo9080 4 года назад +4

    Thanks for sharing my 1st round of IVF resulted to chemical pregnancy. Getting ready for my 2nd round

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  4 года назад

      I'm so sorry. I still remember the heartbreak. Be sure to watch my ERA video. Maybe it will give you the answers for why it didn't work.

  • @victoriaharper7273
    @victoriaharper7273 2 года назад +1

    I know this is old, but thank you for sharing. I’m 6DP5DT of a 4AA embryo. Negative testing so far. Very discouraged and heart breaking

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  2 года назад +1

      I'm so sorry. I know how hard it is and heartbreaking. I hope you find the solution and get your miracle baby!

    • @TheCrawfordFamily_
      @TheCrawfordFamily_ 2 года назад

      Hi. How did your beta test go. I have my beta in 2 days. I’ve taken a home test and it was negative

  • @sangitah8034
    @sangitah8034 3 года назад +1

    Thank u for sharing..very relatable.

  • @Brooke-zq7se
    @Brooke-zq7se 3 месяца назад

    I’m going through it now, negative tests on 7dp5dt with 3bc Euploid. I’m devastated, have one more but she is 3cc so really nervous.

  • @sfindley28
    @sfindley28 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you for sharing! I also got an ERA test done after two failed embryo transfer. I just did another transfer using the ERA results to time for implantation. I’ve been in bed resting for a couple of days now with light cramping (which I experienced on the last two transfers) & just hoping for good vibes. My doctors in Abington have been wonderful! Fingers crossed!

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  5 лет назад

      SinatraWee good luck. Fingers and toes crossed. 😘 did the era test show your window a day later?

    • @sfindley28
      @sfindley28 5 лет назад

      Laura Laws no it actually showed a day earlier.

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  5 лет назад

      That's interesting. I didn't know that was possible.

    • @sfindley28
      @sfindley28 5 лет назад

      Laura Laws I don’t even know what is or isn’t anymore I’m just going after what I was told & done by my MD.

    • @sfindley28
      @sfindley28 5 лет назад

      I just recalled reading up on my research about ERA stating that it could be earlier or later for some women.

  • @eleanorlaws9394
    @eleanorlaws9394 6 лет назад +2

    Oh yeah! Her husband is a pretty guy too! Understanding and supportive. You really need that support your hormones are taking you every which way. In the end it’s sure is worth it. A tiny, adorable new life.

  • @zeepatel273
    @zeepatel273 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for sharing ive had my 1st ivf and it failed im well gutted.

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  4 года назад +1

      Gutted. Yes. I remember that. I’m so incredibly sorry. Please keep hope and keep pushing for your miracle baby!! Sending you love!

    • @zeepatel273
      @zeepatel273 4 года назад

      @@magicalmomlaura thank you

    • @rebeccamiller3845
      @rebeccamiller3845 3 года назад +3

      I'm sorry to hear this. But when an IVF cycle fails unfortunately no one has an answer. Not even your doctor! You might have had a perfect cycle - lots of eggs, good fertilization rate, good quality embryos, excellent endometrium, easy embryo transfer - But no positive pregnancy test! On the other hand your friend might have had a very poor IVF cycle (with few eggs and poor quality embryos) and they might end up getting pregnant! IVF is like a gamble - which involves not only your money, but also your fragile baby dreams! The sad truth is that there is no logical explanation for the outcome of an IVF cycle. Be it a success or a failure. Once the embryo is transferred to the uterus, no one knows what happens to it after this..Be strong, luv, I'm praying for your following cycle to be successful.

    • @zeepatel273
      @zeepatel273 3 года назад

      @@rebeccamiller3845 thank you so much means alot honestly. Going To for a 2nd ivf in January hoping for the best. I feel so down now i have high thyroids so I'm on medication.

  • @fanypistolero
    @fanypistolero 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @krisdaniel9109
    @krisdaniel9109 3 года назад +5

    Hi Laura , got this video recommended on RUclips today and I m glad it did because I can associate our story so well with yours . My wife was 5 weeks pregnant and then miscarriage happened in IVF , my wife got gestational diabetes and now on insulin shots 3 times a day, I will also follow your diet tips on the same in your other videos , started to watch them now , also wanted to check did you get your IVF success in 2 nd cycle ? And what all things you did better on 2 nd cycle , we r planning on doing genetic testing of embryo before we get our 2 nd cycle started in august now , we had a good quality BB embryo and got 11 embryos , my wife got a good reading in hcg test too 3485 we were so happy until a week back when early miscarriage happened and with bleeding we lost it all 😑😑 watching your videos is giving us some motivation for sure , thanks Namaste and hello from India 🙏

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  3 года назад +1

      Hi Kris and Namaste from USA! I'm sorry for your struggles. We did have success in our 2nd round and we have our miracle baby girl who just turned 3. I did a video with tips for IVF success but our issue was we are older and my eggs were not good quality so testing them was key. Also, we discovered the reason for the first IVF not working was my window of implantation was later which we figured out from the ERA test. Sounds like genetic testing may give you more answers. Good luck to you and I hope it all works out for your family. Now that we have our daughter all that heartbreak and struggle is far behind us and I hope the same for you!

    • @krisdaniel9109
      @krisdaniel9109 3 года назад +1

      @@magicalmomlaura thanks a lot laura for sharing your story . I m sure we both feel motivated and not alone now . We too are planning to do a genetic testing of embryo and ERA test before we start 2 nd cycle . Thanks and pray for us too . We r hoping to get success with next cycle and now become mentally strong 👍🏻 god bless you and your beautiful family 🤗

    • @excelskillforall
      @excelskillforall 2 года назад +1

      God bless you.. Love from India

    • @krisdaniel9109
      @krisdaniel9109 2 года назад +1

      Hi Laura , hope you are doing well . Feeling happy to let you know that we took our 2 nd IVF cycle in September 2021 after 1 st failed as miscarriage and by gods grace even though had little hiccups on the way . Our son was born at 37 weeks and 5 days via da section 🙂🙂😇 finally after 8.9 years we got blessed with a baby boy on May 21 st 2022 👼🏻❤️❤️ thought of sharing this with you . God bless you and May gods bless everyone trying hard to have a baby . Have patience and have faith in god ☺️👍🏻

  • @llopez6017
    @llopez6017 4 года назад +3

    Hi thanks for your sharing your video and sorry to hear about the fail.
    I'm 40 yrs old too and had a fresh embryo transfer on day 5 with 2 embryos implanted out of the 6. So now I'm going crazy...I'm on day 10 after my embryos transfer and noticed some light pinkish/brown spotting. I cried and am wondering how is this happening all of a sudden? Right now I should be on my period so it's scaring the sh*t out of me. I even argue with my husband bcz I'm blaming myself whether it was something i did? I'm terrified right now but I'm praying that my spotting doesn't get worse or I'll be devastated.

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  4 года назад +1

      I remember how stressful it is. Try to relax and be kind to yourself! There’s a lot of reasons why ivf doesn’t work. Some are explained and a lot you’ll never know why. Good luck. I’m sending you lots of love and luck!

    • @llopez6017
      @llopez6017 4 года назад

      @@magicalmomlaura thank you for your kind words. Unfortunately my twins didn't stick 💔😭 I'm very mad more than sad bcz it's not fair.
      but i see looking at your more recent videos it was possible for you. I hope that my husband and I are still able to one last round. Xoxo

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  4 года назад

      Rena L I’m truly so sorry. It’s heartbreaking. Did you see my era test video? That was the reason for me. Be sure to check it out before you do another round.

    • @llopez6017
      @llopez6017 4 года назад

      @@magicalmomlaura I will definitely check out your era video thank you Laura🙏🏻 Right now I'm just taking some time to heal. It's very emotionally draining. Thanks for your help Laura 😔❤

  • @parisad2079
    @parisad2079 5 лет назад +2

    Can you please tell us how old you were at the time of ivf?

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  5 лет назад +1

      parisa D sure. I was 40 when I started and I turned 41 about 3 weeks before my transfer of our baby girl last September.

  • @kb4774
    @kb4774 Год назад

    Just coming across your page. I'm 8dpt and testing negative. I want to have hope but I'm scared to death it's not working. I go for beta on Monday. Thank you for sharing.

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  Год назад +1

      I'm so sorry. I hope you have your miracle baby soon! Sending lots of love and luck your way!

    • @kb4774
      @kb4774 Год назад

      @@magicalmomlaura Thank you 💛

  • @BRUK998
    @BRUK998 2 года назад

    How many cycles of IVF did you end up doing?

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  2 года назад

      I did 2. I did pgs. Era. And we have our beautiful 3 yr old daughter from ivf. I have an ivf playlist if you want more details on any of that!

  • @tamarulynt4962
    @tamarulynt4962 3 года назад +3

    I’m pretty sure this round (my first FET, first IVF Cycle) has failed. I’m heartbroken, but I know my feelings are justified watching other amazing ladies going through the process, and the feelings the same as me.

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  3 года назад +2

      I’m so sorry. It is heartbreaking. I remember. I had to grieve what could have been and then had to hope and look to the future to fight for our little miracle.

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      @autahassan143 2 года назад

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  • @knowledgeinsights_rosal1185
    @knowledgeinsights_rosal1185 2 года назад

    Could you please send the list and names of medicine you were taking

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  2 года назад

      Sorry it's been so long I don't have it. Also, they would change it quite a bit depending on the blood draw info. Good luck to you!

  • @swathipuramshetty3419
    @swathipuramshetty3419 3 года назад

    Hi, this video is so helpful can you please suggest going with PGS test IVF process for a 36 yr old person

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  3 года назад

      Hi! I’m so glad it helped. I had miscarriages so likely my eggs were causing it from my age so PGS was a must for me. Only 1 out of 7 & 1 out of 6 of my embryos were normal on my 2 rounds of ivf.

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  • @henrietta2443
    @henrietta2443 5 месяцев назад

    I failed all three treatments. They want to do an insemination next, but my husband and I have finances to pay for. Even though my insurance covers most of the process, it’s still a little bit much for us right now. I do feel like the treatments did help in some way since my issues is more of hormonal imbalance. A few times I had cysts, which resulted in having to skip the appointment until they ruptured on their own. The next few months, my egg was a good size and I did the injection. In the end, I got negative results. At this point, I’m not sure if I can get pregnant. To be honest, I think my body is killing the sperm. They said everything else looks normal. My eggs just won’t fertilize.

  • @kimberlyregina
    @kimberlyregina Год назад

    I’m confused on why you stopped your meds?

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  Год назад

      I got a negative but apparently the embryo was still trying to implant.

  • @SuperLuckao
    @SuperLuckao Год назад

    Well, what r u doing with the left over embryos??

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  Год назад

      I didn't have any to freeze. Both rounds I only had one normal embryo that we transferred.

  • @jenniferconly7559
    @jenniferconly7559 Год назад

    How much weight did you gain if any for each cycle

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  Год назад

      I didn't track it but it was a little. The hormones are tough on your body!

  • @BeachMama79
    @BeachMama79 3 года назад +1

    I just came across your channel! I am 41, just had my first IVF cycle failed. I have very low AMH and DOR. We had 7 eggs retrieved; 2 fertilized... (1 - 4 cell and 1 - 8 cell), did a 3 day fresh transfer for both embabies. Sadly we lost them, however I did have multiple positive pregnancy tests in the tww... unfortunately my first beta resulted in HCG levels 3. Thank you for sharing your story!

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for sharing!! I'm so sorry it didn't work. I remember the heartbreak! I hope you have your miracle baby! I'm sending you lots of love and luck!

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  • @GlimpseEurope
    @GlimpseEurope 3 года назад +3

    I am 39 and have 6 failed ivf attempts... Its problematic for me emotionally... What was your AMH during ivf?

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  3 года назад

      I'm so sorry. I know how hard it is so I can't imagine 6 times! Hang in there. It's worth it for your miracle baby. My AMH was high for my age. I can't remember exactly what the dr said. My problem was my egg quality was poor.

    • @GlimpseEurope
      @GlimpseEurope 3 года назад

      @@magicalmomlaura thanks for your reply

    • @rebeccamiller3845
      @rebeccamiller3845 3 года назад

      6 failed rounds is too much! Poor thing, I'm sorry to hear this.
      I faced ivf failures too. And know what? We all react differently. Some of us might blame themselves, because they start thinking that their body is not conducive for achieving a pregnancy. Or that their uterus is not good enough to accept the embryo. Or that they are not fit to carry a baby. Some believe that their body is defective or that it “rejected” the embryo. Many start obsessing about all the ‘mistakes’ they did during the 2ww. Starting from not taking enough rest to eating certain so called forbidden foods. Many patients start blaming themselves for the IVF failure and might even think that it is a punishment from God! But a well informed, IVF literate patient understands that an IVF failure is nobody’s fault ad that there are too many reasons for bfp not happening..This is a sad truth..
      Have you evr considered surrogacy?

  • @anonymousam4431
    @anonymousam4431 5 лет назад +2

    You are so gorgeous 😍😍😍

  • @nithanathan2186
    @nithanathan2186 11 месяцев назад

    Hi there
    I had been on ivf journey from 2020 tik 2023 n till now i have not conceived.
    I had a 3mths miscarriage
    I had a 2 n a half months twins chemical pregnancy n recently i had a 6weeks miscarriage too
    Now i am on my final journey before i give up forever
    I hope you do not give up as u can try til u reach 43.. juz keep trying n miracle do happen sometimes
    Anyway now i am 42 n i am waiting for a bloodtest in my 2weeks wait that is nearing in 3dys time

  • @NataliaNatalia-in2fb
    @NataliaNatalia-in2fb 4 месяца назад

    What was your medication dose? Menopur, Gonal F?

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  4 месяца назад

      I'm sorry I can't remember. If you check out the IVF playlist I may have covered it but it changed a lot.

  • @bhavinijoshi8434
    @bhavinijoshi8434 4 года назад

    What is grade of ur blastocysts

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  4 года назад +1

      I believe I talked about it in one of my videos but it's been so long I can't remember. I found that the grade did not make a difference because my issue was the quality of the eggs. So I had high grade embryos that were abnormal chromosomally.

  • @excelskillforall
    @excelskillforall 2 года назад

    I lost my baby after premature birth 10days...i know the pain.. It's nvr goes.. Alwys stays in it.. Whtvr v do.. I'm trying for 2nd..

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  2 года назад

      I’m so incredibly sorry. How heartbreaking. I can’t imagine how painful that is. I hope you are able to heal and have your miracle baby. 😘

    • @anjananandakumar8772
      @anjananandakumar8772 2 года назад

      I lost my triplets at 5th month on July due to premature delivery.. i know the pain. stay strong🙏I am now again on my 2nd round of IVF. U will soon get ur miracle baby.

  • @aaddarchholeranna6875
    @aaddarchholeranna6875 5 лет назад +2

    Which country do u live ?

  • @mylanagano5229
    @mylanagano5229 3 года назад +1

    You are indeed blessed ..my first ivf is failed, so hard, so lonely..

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  3 года назад +1

      Myla. I’m so sorry. It is so hard. I remember. Give yourself time to grieve and feel the sadness. It will pass! You will get through this. Go easy on yourself. It’s a roller coaster of emotions and you are adding hormones on top of it. I’m sending you lots of love and luck in the future!

    • @mylanagano5229
      @mylanagano5229 3 года назад

      @@magicalmomlaura thank you for sharing your amazing story and comforting words

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      @autahassan143 2 года назад

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  • @miao8699
    @miao8699 2 года назад

    Mine also 2 times failed ivf.i am very upset

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  2 года назад +1

      I'm so sorry. Hopefully you can find the answer as to why and get your miracle baby! Lots of love!

  • @yekaterinamakedon2993
    @yekaterinamakedon2993 Год назад

    I got my first egg retrieval , just 3 and immature😢 will try again…

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  Год назад +1

      I’m so sorry. Hopefully you get the answers you need to get some beautiful embryos! ❤️😘

  • @greaneciajyrwa2943
    @greaneciajyrwa2943 2 года назад

    I'm day 4 post egg transfer.. I'm worried .. it's the amount of miscarriages ive had i dnt know what to expect.. no implantation bleeding compared to my previous miscarriages .. I'm worried.. thank u for sharing this video

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  2 года назад

      Thanks for sharing. It’s so hard to wait. Try not to worry. Get lots of rest and watch funny movies to past the time! I’m wishing you all the best. I’m currently tickling my 3 yr old miracle baby right now!

    • @greaneciajyrwa2943
      @greaneciajyrwa2943 2 года назад

      @@magicalmomlaura God bless u.. ty for replying! Yes i do by best.

    • @greaneciajyrwa2943
      @greaneciajyrwa2943 2 года назад

      @@magicalmomlaura and congratulations!! So happy for u.. God bless

  • @eleanorlaws9394
    @eleanorlaws9394 6 лет назад +1

    ....pretty great guy...

  • @mariaclaros3375
    @mariaclaros3375 3 года назад +1

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  • @v.dsharma7352
    @v.dsharma7352 3 года назад

    My story is just like yours ...out of 14 only one of my embryo survived till 5 th day ...but my implantation failed last day as test came negative

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  3 года назад

      I'm so sorry. I remember the heart ache. Have you looked into the ERA test?

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  • @anaspad
    @anaspad 2 года назад

    I got first ivf and today my doctor told me that 10 eggs are not fertilize😭 I was so emotional

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  2 года назад

      I'm so sorry. I know how devastating that is. I hope the dr figures out what happened. Sending you lots of love and luck!

  • @anneloris2251
    @anneloris2251 3 года назад +6

    This life is unjust,,,,some peoples doesn’t want kids....they get pregnant 🤰 easily,,,,,some looking to get 🤰,,, and have a baby 👶 its impossible ,,,,,,God please 🙏🙏🙏🙏 ...........bless all the women here including me In Jesus Christ name Amen 🙏

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  • @indumurali8114
    @indumurali8114 2 года назад

    What's your embryo quality

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  2 года назад

      Due to my age the quality was not good so that is why I pgs tested for chromosome abmoralities.

  • @jenr6433
    @jenr6433 2 года назад +1

    I am 27 and for genetic reasons we decided to try IVF. We only had one normal embryo to implant and it failed : (

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  2 года назад

      I'm so sorry. I remember how heartbreaking it is. I hope you are able to try again and find the reason it failed. Take some time for yourself!

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  • @786peerzada
    @786peerzada Год назад

    My ivf failed....it feels like im devastated....

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  Год назад

      I'm so sorry. I hope it helps to know you are not alone and even though I went through it long ago I do remember the devastation. Just know it does pass and try to keep hope for your miracle baby!

  • @poonamrawat8905
    @poonamrawat8905 3 года назад

    It's painful to failed 1st IVF. My first IVF also failed on April. I'm afraid for future

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  3 года назад +1

      I’m so sorry. It’s painful and hard to move on from. Take some time to grieve and take care of yourself. 😘❤️

    • @SurinderSingh-sz5fw
      @SurinderSingh-sz5fw 3 года назад +1

      @@magicalmomlaura thanks is I go with 2 nd round.will it success.

    • @rhondapagan5759
      @rhondapagan5759 3 года назад

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  • @bradj.2834
    @bradj.2834 5 лет назад +2

    u dont mind how old are u

  • @anonymousam4431
    @anonymousam4431 5 лет назад +3

    How old are you Dear? Do you know your AMH level? Thanks

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  5 лет назад

      anonymous am I was 40 when I did both rounds of IVF. My amh was high. I can’t remember what it was. The quality of the eggs were low.

    • @anonymousam4431
      @anonymousam4431 5 лет назад

      Laura Laws
      O I see! Thanks God that your ovarian function is very good at 40. Congrats for your cute healthy baby 😍

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  5 лет назад +1

      Thank you! I feel very blessed and grateful we had high AMH!

  • @Plaisir09
    @Plaisir09 4 года назад

    What’s double AA?

  • @Mrsblue1
    @Mrsblue1 3 года назад +1

    Just got my first IVF negative. 😢

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  3 года назад +1

      I'm so sorry. Sending you lots of love. It's incredibly sad and take time to grieve.

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  • @gracelingirl5087
    @gracelingirl5087 Год назад

    It's Harder then most people can even know going through this because you want the baby sooo much. I lost my first after 7 weeks. And second fet no implantation. 1 more try. Tbh I think that I might have to harvest again seeing as it's a ca grade.

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  Год назад +1

      Yes there is a lot on the line. High stakes indeed. I’m so sorry for your loss. When I started ivf I just assumed it would work. It’s heartbreaking when it doesn’t. Good luck to you! 🙏🏻

    • @gracelingirl5087
      @gracelingirl5087 Год назад

      @@magicalmomlaura yeah i just assumed so too. I didn't know that it is actually very hard for many women. Not sure if it would have been better knowing or not knowing how difficult. And i have to go through so much emotional work to get through this.

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  Год назад +1

      It is a lot to get through emotionally but you will get through it! And be stronger for it!

    • @gracelingirl5087
      @gracelingirl5087 Год назад

      @@magicalmomlaura had my last 2 embryos transferred and it didn't take. I just can't decide where to go from there. Do I take a month break from it all to destress or do I just carry on. And a month break obviously delays getting a baby as December is closer. And you have to take a extra cycle rest from harvest. Does stress have enough of an effect on egg harvest quality.... feels like so much hanging on this harvest

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  Год назад

      @@gracelingirl5087 I'm so so so sorry. I remember the heartbreak and stress when my IVF failed. It's devastating and I had to take time to grieve. So listen to your body and do what's best. When I felt the grief pass then I was ready to go again. Did you watch my ERA test video? Did you rule that out?

  • @anunyakamu77
    @anunyakamu77 5 лет назад +3

    I have 19 follicles, I am 43 years old, retrived 14 eggs , 9 matured eggs, 8 become embryos , only one is normal after PGS :(, it started from 14 eggs become one only.

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  5 лет назад

      That is what happened to me. I had 2 rounds and one normal on each after PGS. But now I have a beautiful baby girl so it does only take one! Be sure to check out my ERA video before your transfer.

    • @canmaranaya5311
      @canmaranaya5311 4 года назад +1

      I'm 41 and my 1st round I had 15 retrieved, all fertilized, 7 made it to blast, only 1 pgs normal. Last Friday I had my 2nd retrieval 28 retrieved, 21 fertilized and 6 made it to blast (still have 13 that "might" come around). Will send for PGS testing tomorrow with any additional that make it. I'm hoping and praying for at least a couple normal. It's such an emotional process. These videos really help. Thank you for sharing.

    • @deirdrelaski9460
      @deirdrelaski9460 4 года назад

      @@canmaranaya5311 how did the pgs testing go? Hopefully ok. :)

    • @canmaranaya5311
      @canmaranaya5311 4 года назад +3

      @@deirdrelaski9460 Hi Deirdre, from my 2nd retrieval, 2 came back normal. So I have 3 frozen right now! So thankful. My transfer was scheduled for December but got pushed out to Jan. 😊

    • @gina_antoinette
      @gina_antoinette 3 года назад

      @@canmaranaya5311 wow! What was your AMH?

  • @lifewithdeedee3392
    @lifewithdeedee3392 5 лет назад +2

    Awwww do you have PCOS?? Sounds like your egg quality is poor

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  5 лет назад +2

      No, I didn't have PCOS but my egg quality was poor due to my age.

  • @brigittetofaily4904
    @brigittetofaily4904 3 года назад

    My first. Transfer did'nt work

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  3 года назад +1

      I’m so sorry. I know how heartbreaking it is. Take time to grieve and take care of yourself. ❤️

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      @autahassan143 2 года назад

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  • @genie121
    @genie121 2 года назад +1

    Mine didn’t work either, and as a nursing assistant i stopped my own meds the day before official test date. Because I knew my own body.

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  2 года назад +1

      I’m so sorry. I took time to grieve then I started again and now I have a beautiful miracle daughter. I hope you have a successful round! 😘❤️

    • @genie121
      @genie121 2 года назад

      @@magicalmomlaura Thank you so much. May I ask if they kept you on the same protocol? Or did they adjust? X

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  2 года назад +1

      @@genie121 My implantation window was found to be different than standard. We did the ERA test and that was the reason for my failed IVF. I have an IVF playlist with a video on ERA! Hope it helps!

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  • @margepaz
    @margepaz 5 лет назад +15

    40??? You look like early 30’s!! I was a grandma at 43 so my hat is off to you

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  5 лет назад +1

      Thanks! Yes, I'm sure it will be a challenge.

    • @elianas5374
      @elianas5374 3 года назад +4

      this is a rude comment "I was grandma at 43" SO? What is your point? Do you feel better for making it earlier?

    • @dianemorris9561
      @dianemorris9561 3 года назад +3

      @@elianas5374 someone who hasn't experienced infertility just doesn't get it. Sometimes comments can be so hurtful and the person has no idea!

    • @elianas5374
      @elianas5374 3 года назад +2

      @@dianemorris9561 exactly!
      Like we had a choice :( SmH

    • @dianemorris9561
      @dianemorris9561 3 года назад +2

      @@elianas5374 at least we're not alone! A lot of couples experience infertility but it's just not talked about a lot. I just had a failed IUI and everytime I think about doing IVF I burst into tears...

  • @noorparveen1304
    @noorparveen1304 5 лет назад +2

    Hi today is my ivf fail im so upset 😭

    • @magicalmomlaura
      @magicalmomlaura  5 лет назад +1

      Noor Parveen I’m so sorry. I know the pain of it not working. I just tried to keep hope that it would happen and it did. I definitely went through the grieving process and then focused on the next steps to take.

    • @batterflyalkhateeb9004
      @batterflyalkhateeb9004 5 лет назад

      y u tred second time