The fact that this guy brings Mercy in their arguments....hiyo ni hasira iko boiled up..... Ati hawa wanawake wanatakanga nini haki surely????huyo mwanamke anataka ukue faithful...huyu chali ndiye alichokoza huyo dem...
Exactly so she is justified to feel hurt, hata kama watu wanasema she is arrogant fact still remains the guy is not remorseful and hii yote was because of him, that is what the woman wants
@@SharonAwuor-fh5ty She is a very kind person from her story of how she supported her friend before she found out, they turned her into this. This is too toxic sidhani it benefits anyone not even the child to grow up in such an environment
In marriage, pray to God day in day out to help you resist the tempatiom to cheat because once you do it, you will never be the same and neither will your partner. Even with declared forgiveness, the wound might continue to fester and the rot will eventually break through its limits. That said, revenge is a fools errand.
Why is this man bitter, you cheated and forgave you forgive her too,upelekwe ushagoo kwani huna kwenu 🙄🙄gal hustle kama madem wengine Nairobi ni ya Kila mtu.
Right? coming here to tell us what he has decided and has not even consulted with her... like bro, mtoto mmoja hawezi shinda mtu. He is lucky she stayed, and to bring her up in their arguments is so low, he should just go and be with her.
I still stand with this lady, her hubby and her friend mercy turned her into this. She is no longer the same! This is a bitter pill to take😢 enjoying her, toying with her feelings like a kid was not fair. I think this marriage can't work anymore. This is beyond repair😢
I know she's right but the better thing just walk away then peace at peace right now the child is the one who is suffering but you are only looking for the right of the lady not seeing innocent kid is going to suffer
Give a solution coz there are people who are going through this and opening up is so difficult for them so when they come to such comments do you think you are helping or destroying, okay if you decide you aren't going to ushago then the husband decide to move out look for a place to stay for you to sleep around with upto when will you be satisfied with the sleeping
How people dont love ushago still beats me, my first destination landing in jkia ni shags kwanza nifukuzane na kuku,na kukamua ngombe. Long live my shags❤❤
Agurment then bring up your sudechick that she better 😂😂😂huyu dem alivumilia basi but cheating nayo ni mbaya..then akiulizwa why bring mercy up waakiwa in aguerment anasema si kwaa ubaya😂😂😂weeh men
They say a wise woman builds her own home while a stupid one destroys it with her own hands. Yes the guy cheated and she decided to revenge by cheating with his friend. That's done and dusted. You can't build anything by do I do. Her ego is too high for a marriage to stand. Bro, you are just wasting your time here. Even if you bring yourself down you can't take control of this lady anymore. Leave her alone and find your peace somewhere else. I am surprised that she is happy that the child you got with the other lady died. As a mother that's very bad. What if her current child dies (God forbid), what will she do? Ladies you need to learn to be objectively in how you handle some issues even if you are the one wronged.
@@tafadhalijiheshimu6229 No one denies the fact that the guy cheated. Is this a game or what? Anyway she is now a happy single independent woman because I doubt the other guy will ever take her seriously.
This lady is so much hurt beyond repair … some would have killed this man . Betrayal of this type is way too unbearable . The “ I don’t want my child to grow without a father “ is ridiculous if in the process you can’t stick on it .
It's wrong for a woman to bring your sister or best friend to stay in your house. In short you will be bringing your hubby a co-wife. It's a big mistake. Remember they are not his blood.
Siz kaa huku rent tutakulipia lakini ile kukudinywa tutakudinya ha haa we ain wifing up a single mum just understand that but kukutomba nayo issa must 😂
Never bring a woman/man to live under you roof with your partner, you will be attracting trouble even if it is your relative, you can help but from a distance
Bt to be frank sleeping with best friend hio nayo siwezi kosa kurevenge i gonna do it n leave you it's painful I'm trying to understand her even if she didn't do the right thing maybe it was meant to be that way meanwhile both of you are young you can start all over again n avoid kinda of mistakes all the best.
Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly is not meant to work. You cannot force someone to care about you. You cannot force someone to be loyal. You cannot force someone to be the person you need him or her to be. Sometimes the person you want most is the person you are best without. You have to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Do not lose yourself by trying to fix what is meant to stay broken. You cannot get the relationship you need from someone who is not ready to give it you. Moreover, you might not understand WHY NOW, but I promise you your future sister will always bring understanding of why things did not work out. I really feel the pain, which you have left/felt, in my heart, maybe it was not the right time to be together, maybe you meant at the long time, so so hurting.💔💔💔
Sometimes when a wayward spouse's cheating is found out, a common thing they will do is attempt to frame themselves as the victim of a betrayed spouse. When they frame themselves as the victim, they often hope to do the following: They hope to remove themselves from being accountable for their behavior.
Good girl. Usipojipanga utapangwa. Go forth, forgive yourself and shine. You should have walked out earlier than fight with a pig. Look, you dirtied yourself in the process. . .
They cheated on @ other with their best friends and one went ahead to conceive....all they have to do is lower their ego and forgive @ other and move on
The moment you start the reconciliation or healing process by blaming,then your won't sum(add)- up again. BMS should have educated them on how to reconcile B4 they met. It's done,they can't solve it anymore!!!!
He hurt this baby girl beyond what a young lady should go through. He should settle with the betrayer mpango wa kando. Why go to UShago. Crazy solution.
Philip why are you biter??she will not die of raising her child she might finally get her love of her life...Na hiyo Jamaal let him encounter new challenges in another relationship he might learn a thing or too or he will lose a second family with this immaturity
The best thing is break up and do coparenting lakini kusema heri mwenye uko naye na niliona akiwa amekwambia usikue unampigia kama hajakwambia juu utaruin marriage yake, so definitely ukiendelea na yy a time will come when pia wewe utakuwa umeharibu ya mwanamke mwenzako in the name of revenge na utakuwa unahurt the lady to the guy you are cheating with,
"I dont want to raise my child in a broken marriage". This is what exactly what the lady did by being rebellious. Its better to walk out rather than cheat in the name of revenge. Huyu dem atapata cha mtema kuni
Stevo that girl is not in love somewhere. She is just hurt. And the guy unknowingly continues to hurt her. Those two love each other. I only pray the man could wake up from some sleep. And you girl, you can't take a poison to heal. By cheating you took a poison.
there is no way anaenda na mtoto wangu... a statement that holds together broken marriages full of sorrow and problems.. bro if the child is yours let her go with him take that bitter pill its just for sometimes nature will bring the child to you...best way is to let her do what she wants if the baby needs your help she will look for you if she can provide its ok too but nature will give you your child kwanza akiwa more than 5 yrs before you break it means anajua babake already. if you learn this early you will move on quickly and start afresh
Hakuna msee huwaka moto kuliko mwizi akiwa ameibiwa katambe tu waendelee kucheat tuone kama ni kakinembe katakuwa mutaro ama ni mjulus itaisha. Men also learn to walk away and mute for some yrs find a new family start supporting kiburi itashuka
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The day that guy cheated on her,that was the day her love for him faded....😂this gal hates this guy
Kabisa
@@vivianmukonosi9054 amechoka kabisa
This lady was so betrayed it's painful and unforgettable... regardless of the revenge
😂Then she should've left! Cheating for revenge is idiotic.
The fact that this guy brings Mercy in their arguments....hiyo ni hasira iko boiled up.....
Ati hawa wanawake wanatakanga nini haki surely????huyo mwanamke anataka ukue faithful...huyu chali ndiye alichokoza huyo dem...
Kindness should never be taken for granted, because even the nicest people have their limits.
This girl is in pain because she nurtured mercy, the husband wants to punish her by taking her upcountry.
The dumbest man EVER!!
You want him to keep her around where vultures are preying on her?
The fact that the husband has been bringing up the ex- mercy in their issues lend to revenge ......its like rubbing it on her face
Exactly so she is justified to feel hurt, hata kama watu wanasema she is arrogant fact still remains the guy is not remorseful and hii yote was because of him, that is what the woman wants
@@SharonAwuor-fh5ty She is a very kind person from her story of how she supported her friend before she found out, they turned her into this. This is too toxic sidhani it benefits anyone not even the child to grow up in such an environment
The moment a woman's love shifts,that's a done deal!
umesema ukweli hapq
CORRECT
Kwanza kwa hii, haikai kurudi Tena
Infact huyu dem anamchukia
😲
In marriage, pray to God day in day out to help you resist the tempatiom to cheat because once you do it, you will never be the same and neither will your partner. Even with declared forgiveness, the wound might continue to fester and the rot will eventually break through its limits. That said, revenge is a fools errand.
Hata hivo ushago is not a solution,, but hapa sasa mtoto ndio ataumia kwa ujinga ka hizi😢😢
Sure
Jamaa should humble himself too
The comment I was looking for❤
Humble kitu gani..
Hakuna ku simp hapa huyo mama aende burugenge kabisaa..
@@veronicawaithera1355 what do you mean.....so he should allow her back to his life
Jamaa pia ako n kiburi sana
Shame on BMS saying akona kiburi! Don’t you see how hurt she is?? This is what happens when people purport to be what they ain’t ‼️🙄🙄🙄
Also for asking if she doesn’t feel like she is loose. Is he now implying that the husband was right?
The fact that he’s always on the women’s downfall and covering up on men
This girl has had it ALL 😮😮
No nonsense!!
Why is this man bitter, you cheated and forgave you forgive her too,upelekwe ushagoo kwani huna kwenu 🙄🙄gal hustle kama madem wengine Nairobi ni ya Kila mtu.
Right? coming here to tell us what he has decided and has not even consulted with her... like bro, mtoto mmoja hawezi shinda mtu. He is lucky she stayed, and to bring her up in their arguments is so low, he should just go and be with her.
I like this 😆
Ujinga ni ugonjwa! Ata hana aibu!
Exactly
I still stand with this lady, her hubby and her friend mercy turned her into this. She is no longer the same! This is a bitter pill to take😢 enjoying her, toying with her feelings like a kid was not fair. I think this marriage can't work anymore. This is beyond repair😢
I second you.thise who don't know men can't understand
True
True @@colletahmwikali48
I 👏👏 for her, wanawake tunangoja uone tumekusamehea then we trigger right on your ventricle, know now what she went through 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I know she's right but the better thing just walk away then peace at peace right now the child is the one who is suffering but you are only looking for the right of the lady not seeing innocent kid is going to suffer
Ushago my foot, ndio upate time na huyo so called mercy, ata mm siendi kanairo tuko sote.
Hiyo story ya kuwacha Bwana ushago uliisha wakati wa our shosh, saa hii ukijaribu mwanaume atakuwa malaya zaidi
Give a solution coz there are people who are going through this and opening up is so difficult for them so when they come to such comments do you think you are helping or destroying, okay if you decide you aren't going to ushago then the husband decide to move out look for a place to stay for you to sleep around with upto when will you be satisfied with the sleeping
you may decide you are not going then the man migrate to another place 😂😂
I feel for this lady..... Be ruthless! My current situation . tit for tat is a fair game
How people dont love ushago still beats me, my first destination landing in jkia ni shags kwanza nifukuzane na kuku,na kukamua ngombe. Long live my shags❤❤
Ushago iko sawa shida ni doh
@@JohnMwangi-jv3pp yes dear, but things in shags fresh n natural....some people have disowned their shags completely
Ushago kwa mother in law,hata mimi I can't entertain such nonsense
@@juliebirgen hpo sawa,but na ushago kwenyu?
Mimi I love ushagoo sanaa. City sio kwetu.
Mrembo ,uchungu wewe ndio unauchua i cant judge you
Sure
Why do men feel they have the right to cheat their partners?
Agurment then bring up your sudechick that she better 😂😂😂huyu dem alivumilia basi but cheating nayo ni mbaya..then akiulizwa why bring mercy up waakiwa in aguerment anasema si kwaa ubaya😂😂😂weeh men
Infact hiyo kusema si kwa ubaya ndio imeboil the lady kabisa
Congratulations baby gal dawa ya moto ni moto......men expect women to be tuff yet we are the weaker vessels..
They say a wise woman builds her own home while a stupid one destroys it with her own hands. Yes the guy cheated and she decided to revenge by cheating with his friend. That's done and dusted. You can't build anything by do I do. Her ego is too high for a marriage to stand. Bro, you are just wasting your time here. Even if you bring yourself down you can't take control of this lady anymore. Leave her alone and find your peace somewhere else. I am surprised that she is happy that the child you got with the other lady died. As a mother that's very bad. What if her current child dies (God forbid), what will she do? Ladies you need to learn to be objectively in how you handle some issues even if you are the one wronged.
I second you better he left as soon as possible juu her ego iko on another level
Well said, don't have to force issues that will easily get you unnecessary trouble... this man can easily find himself in jail out of anger
He started cheating why is he bitter when the table turns 😂😂😂revenge served well
@@tafadhalijiheshimu6229 No one denies the fact that the guy cheated. Is this a game or what? Anyway she is now a happy single independent woman because I doubt the other guy will ever take her seriously.
Hii paragraph yote, please summarize.
Bringing up mercy issues everytime killed the marriage
This lady is so much hurt beyond repair … some would have killed this man . Betrayal of this type is way too unbearable . The “ I don’t want my child to grow without a father “ is ridiculous if in the process you can’t stick on it .
That marriage ended the moment he cheated.. the moment you cheat.. it changes everything… that marriage will never ever be the same again.
It's wrong for a woman to bring your sister or best friend to stay in your house. In short you will be bringing your hubby a co-wife. It's a big mistake. Remember they are not his blood.
Very true
@@ericmwaki1056does it mean self control lost its meaning
I support this girl
💯‼️‼️
Siz kaa huku rent tutakulipia lakini ile kukudinywa tutakudinya ha haa we ain wifing up a single mum just understand that but kukutomba nayo issa must 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Uweee 🙌🤣 🤣🤣
huyu naye atadinywa mbaya hio kitu itatumika vile inafaa hii nairobi
Bona unasema ukweli
😂😂😂😂😂hatuwasemehei.....
Never bring a woman/man to live under you roof with your partner, you will be attracting trouble even if it is your relative, you can help but from a distance
Ghai 😢how can a woman who has given birth tell a man ATI endea uyo mtoi alikufa seriously haukusema poa madam🥲
That part she was wrong.. we understand her pain but it doesn’t excuse her
@@gladyskemunto6152 aki she really has to apologize aki
Lesson here is that cheating is not forgivable both ways so don't do it flee from it if you don't it will destroy you
Namba 3 wap likes za team strong😊😊
Hata mimi siwezi enda ushago😂😂😂💔eei weeh
She cheated because she is a cheater. Not because her husband cheated
Na the dude alicheat kwa nini?😂😂😂Say it! Am listening😂😂
Revenge is the best but not to all
@@AmMbithiKilonzoBecause he is also a cheater
😂😂😂
Mmmmh 😂😂😂😂 okay itakupata siku moja 😂😂😂😂
Number 2 wapi likes zangu jamani. I have tried 😢
This shows this lady said she had forgiven him...but deep inside her heart it was painful...
The offer someone a pill you can't swallow. I support the lady 💯
Mercy has caused a very huge damage here, bring her in for us.
Bt to be frank sleeping with best friend hio nayo siwezi kosa kurevenge i gonna do it n leave you it's painful I'm trying to understand her even if she didn't do the right thing maybe it was meant to be that way meanwhile both of you are young you can start all over again n avoid kinda of mistakes all the best.
Only a foolish woman brings her sister/best friend to stay in her husband's house.
Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly is not meant to work. You cannot force someone to care about you. You cannot force someone to be loyal. You cannot force someone to be the person you need him or her to be. Sometimes the person you want most is the person you are best without. You have to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Do not lose yourself by trying to fix what is meant to stay broken. You cannot get the relationship you need from someone who is not ready to give it you. Moreover, you might not understand WHY NOW, but I promise you your future sister will always bring understanding of why things did not work out. I really feel the pain, which you have left/felt, in my heart, maybe it was not the right time to be together, maybe you meant at the long time, so so hurting.💔💔💔
I support the lady 100%
Well done baby girl ❤❤❤ hawa wanaume hawananga huruma ukipata chance maliza kabisa bora ni yeye alianza then LEAVE 😂
Sometimes when a wayward spouse's cheating is found out, a common thing they will do is attempt to frame themselves as the victim of a betrayed spouse. When they frame themselves as the victim, they often hope to do the following: They hope to remove themselves from being accountable for their behavior.
Nimeona apo olive house like my name 😂😂❤wow
You did right girl,
Beautiful gal run jipee shuguli
Once u mention another woman in my life am done with u .l totally understand this woman l would cheat too and then dump him
Good girl. Usipojipanga utapangwa. Go forth, forgive yourself and shine. You should have walked out earlier than fight with a pig. Look, you dirtied yourself in the process. . .
This lady is not listening to herself,
Why do you forgive someone in front of your parents, then you come back to revenge on him?
But the guy didn't change for good
@@agathamwende3157 so she was right
Nipitieni niwapitie❤
Daughters of the mountain wachaneni nao hamskii...
Revenge ya uchungu😂😂😂ulianza jomba malizia
Acha tusidanganyane,whatever mercy did to this gal was very unfair ,i would have cheated as well
Let call a spade a spade. Her voice wow
I will repeat again.....the moment a man cheats a faithful woman the revenge is even worse than cheating .
Na faida si unajiona sasa ...
True
He was forgiven but due to pride he kept rubbing it on her face...sai anajamisha nini ata hana aibu
It appears the guy got his match.
I love my ushango
How is packing up and moving to ushago a solution...you cant run away from your problems, they will always follow you.
It’s a control move
We need the Co wife on set
Ati nini, jambazi
🤣😂😂😂 ata mimi singeenda
Ata mimi siwezi rudi ushago, no way. 😂😂😂
They cheated on @ other with their best friends and one went ahead to conceive....all they have to do is lower their ego and forgive @ other and move on
Apa kuna contempt which is deadly killer in marriage even experts say so.....miserable marriage.
Hawa wawili wako na kiburi wote, once mtu amecheat hakuna haja wa kuendelea na relationship, ivunjwe Kila mtu aende zake juu revenging all the time
Very true
Wanawake hutaka nini... You ask and you did the same..the double standards though? I don't justify cheating but both are cheaters
She knows what is good for her😅
What about STEVO MTU ajan asukume MTU Chini cz wen anger comes no second thought
The moment you start the reconciliation or healing process by blaming,then your won't sum(add)- up again.
BMS should have educated them on how to reconcile B4 they met.
It's done,they can't solve it anymore!!!!
He hurt this baby girl beyond what a young lady should go through. He should settle with the betrayer mpango wa kando. Why go to UShago. Crazy solution.
Dunga MTU mimba zikifuatana atulie😂😂😂😂❤
Naaaku😩😩
Hehe nowadays madem n wajanja hiyo mimba atadungwa kama yeye mwenyewe ametaka otherwise habari ako mkuu
Akothee typing.
Hii akili usitimie kuvuka barabara mimba tunapatanga tukitaka bro
Once betrayed 😂😂😂😂 weeh ogopa kuna watu hawananga sorry
Ulisema ulimsamehea ndio mtoto asigrow bila babake. Now what u did will make that happen. Revenge is never a solution..
Wanaume hujiona aje lakini??? We all have feelings yawah!!
When this guy cheated wakaenda home kusulihisha hii mambo that is the time hii marriage iliisha
I don't even blame the guy. I blame the lady for bringing her best friend to stay in that house.
@@ericmwaki1056 ....cheating is a choice
Talk of trying to salvage spilled milk.
Big man stivo you look like xabi Alonso
Simps will always see dust. Don't take back a cheater.
We don't want peace we want problems
wueeeeh
young marriages too much challenges io rosecoco italiwa izeeke kasichana
Don't know y men get bitter relex 😅
Na isipokuliwa haitazeeka?😂 yah joke too much
@@gladyskemunto6152 iliwe na vizuri c ovyo ovyo mrembo
Philip why are you biter??she will not die of raising her child she might finally get her love of her life...Na hiyo Jamaal let him encounter new challenges in another relationship he might learn a thing or too or he will lose a second family with this immaturity
The best thing is break up and do coparenting lakini kusema heri mwenye uko naye na niliona akiwa amekwambia usikue unampigia kama hajakwambia juu utaruin marriage yake, so definitely ukiendelea na yy a time will come when pia wewe utakuwa umeharibu ya mwanamke mwenzako in the name of revenge na utakuwa unahurt the lady to the guy you are cheating with,
What a man can do.... 😂😂😂
Female relatives and friends in my marriage is a big NO
By virtue of entertaining the thought of forgiving her says a lot
Cheating should be included as part of a marriage recipe
You are very beautiful gal
Ati look at my skin skin inakaa ...wacha tu.
Mbona mtu anatolewa ushago akionja Nairobi hataki ushago Tena,,,😢😢😢
Hata mimi saa hii nipate safari,ushago sirudi tena ng'o!
@@mercynyaga2053 😂😂😂y
"I dont want to raise my child in a broken marriage". This is what exactly what the lady did by being rebellious. Its better to walk out rather than cheat in the name of revenge. Huyu dem atapata cha mtema kuni
Surely office ni top roof
BMS hapo kwa roof top is very very dangerous..coz these r people who r hurting....on can push the other ....wewehhj
Stevo that girl is not in love somewhere. She is just hurt. And the guy unknowingly continues to hurt her. Those two love each other. I only pray the man could wake up from some sleep. And you girl, you can't take a poison to heal. By cheating you took a poison.
Skin do go to ushago coz all we are frm ushago, it's just to talk like one family and get a solution of that...
there is no way anaenda na mtoto wangu... a statement that holds together broken marriages full of sorrow and problems.. bro if the child is yours let her go with him take that bitter pill its just for sometimes nature will bring the child to you...best way is to let her do what she wants if the baby needs your help she will look for you if she can provide its ok too but nature will give you your child kwanza akiwa more than 5 yrs before you break it means anajua babake already. if you learn this early you will move on quickly and start afresh
In the bible there is a verse that many men have turned a blind eye it's about providing for your children. ..God is no a man you shall be judged
Once a partner cheats, LEAVE.Do not look back,do not forgive 😅
Bado atakuliwa tu na landlord sasa
Hakuna msee huwaka moto kuliko mwizi akiwa ameibiwa katambe tu waendelee kucheat tuone kama ni kakinembe katakuwa mutaro ama ni mjulus itaisha. Men also learn to walk away and mute for some yrs find a new family start supporting kiburi itashuka
Eti ampeleke ushago😂😂 ndio amtese vizuri! No marriage here
Uyu ni malaya. Afadhali auze kuma Nairobi to pay bills.
kama mamakko tuu