If you’re a Catholic or an Orthodox, I highly recommend you pray the Rosary every day. One of the promises of Our Lady is that the Rosary will remove vice and decrease sin. I’ve managed to come out of pornography completely (not watched a single piece of porn movie in two years now and I’ve lost interest in it) and I know that praying the Rosary has delivered me from this. So if you’re a Catholic or an Orthodox, pray the Rosary with devotion and you will receive many graces!
I got a knot in my throat with your accepting words. Society can be mean and makes others feel how you say inadequate or weird or just feel wrong to be a certain way. Also didn't realize straight men can be into gay porn. Thank You for all your hard work and amazing words ❤ Amen! The lord loves us
You are just healing me. Now I discover fully what made me addicted to pornography. Every causes you listed happened to me.I was abuse sexually by both at my 5, No intimate relationship with my parents especially my Father, Abandoned by my parents on sex education, Always struggled to belong in my family and because of my spiritual experience at my early childhood I was called demon possessed child. This and many more struggles at my early childhood contributed to my addiction.May God Bless you
Wow you did an amazing job talking about this for someone who never actually watched gay porn. I sincerely mean that. Like how do you understand it better than I do?
Great topic. This could be a week's discussion as it is very layered. Well, I introduced myself to porn at a young age, maybe 12. Had a male family member that had many vids. When he'd leave for work, I'd pop in. It was straight porn, but I never found myself attracted to the female part at all. The male part was where the excitement was. It was tangible with different sizes. It's just a nice piece of work. Yeah, I did have sexual feelings for guys before that, but watching the porn really heightened the feeling. With that being said, never been intimate with a woman. I actually prefer straight porn over gay. Just something about the straight guy that is still unknown to me, as a male myself, but gay. I often wonder what it's like to be a straight guy and to only be attracted to women. 🤷 Also, as you said, fear of another man, leads to curiosity, etc. That is absolutely true. I was bullied by straight guys. I feared them, and still do in a sense, as an adult. Quite a traumatizing experience growing up. But now, it is where my sexual desires lie, with straight men. Highly aroused by them. Never noticed there was a connection. You are really nailing these points. I keep editing my comment as you progress. Such relief to hear someone who truly understood the details of these life-altering events. I have been trying to build a friendship with a straight male, without having sex, but have been unsuccessful. I really would like to have a straight friend that I am not intimate with but find it so difficult to make friends at 40. I want to learn from him, what his life is like, etc. I have even looked into men's retreats for male bonding. Not looking for anything sexual. Id just like to have a connection.
Hey Drew !! Thanks for your vid. Informative and helpful. Really wanted to be on liive chat, I was working. So I definitely resonate with the discussion and thoughts here. Would be possible to seek some assistance at some point ?
“So many men *struggle* with gay porn”??? What you really mean is some men are gay, those men watch gay porn. Straight men don’t watch gay porn and gay men that watch it should do so out of enjoyment. I am glad to see you say these people are not “abnormal” but it’s honestly so sad (truly this was hard to watch 😢) to see instead of affirming these people, left to feel shamed and ostracized by their community and family, you espouse how to obtain “freedom” as though this is something oppressive. I see you have a wife and family and I’m glad you are happy. You also say you also admit attraction to men. I urge you to learn about Dave Matheson (Good Morning Britain and Channel 4 have good interviews). He himself was married for 34 years before realizing the harm he had done by trying to help gay men suppress their attractions. It’s 2024. I hope one day, hopefully before you grow old, you realize authenticity is intrinsic to true happiness… plenty share your story. ❤️
How sad that you feel sad. This is so uplifting and is open to everyone. I've never seen a straight man like gay porn because people like you quickly judge, that's where the problem is. You skipped part of the video my friend and are doing the complete opposite
Notice that this isn't about suppressing attraction, this is about dealing with addiction. Lust and love are not the same thing, and many people want to enjoy pure love without wanting to do things to people. As a gay man, I can tell you that getting erections and masturbating to attractive men is not a good life focus.
Its disgusting the homophobia being put out on this channel. I dont even know how tf I ran into this. You are all gay. Gtfo over it. Stop trying to compartmentalize
@@kenton6804so that’s SSA ? The initial sexual arousal/erection seen another man? That’s it ? Or is it the magnetic pull feeling towards man in a sexual way ?
I've always had a slight suspicion that purity culture helped push me to be attracted to men. Now that you said it I'm more convinced than ever.
If you’re a Catholic or an Orthodox, I highly recommend you pray the Rosary every day. One of the promises of Our Lady is that the Rosary will remove vice and decrease sin. I’ve managed to come out of pornography completely (not watched a single piece of porn movie in two years now and I’ve lost interest in it) and I know that praying the Rosary has delivered me from this. So if you’re a Catholic or an Orthodox, pray the Rosary with devotion and you will receive many graces!
@pmm2192
I'm going to go out on a limb here, but I guarantee that Josh believes Catholics/Orthodox Christians to be "Mary Worshippers".
I got a knot in my throat with your accepting words. Society can be mean and makes others feel how you say inadequate or weird or just feel wrong to be a certain way. Also didn't realize straight men can be into gay porn. Thank You for all your hard work and amazing words ❤ Amen! The lord loves us
You're welcome!
You are just healing me. Now I discover fully what made me addicted to pornography. Every causes you listed happened to me.I was abuse sexually by both at my 5, No intimate relationship with my parents especially my Father, Abandoned by my parents on sex education, Always struggled to belong in my family and because of my spiritual experience at my early childhood I was called demon possessed child. This and many more struggles at my early childhood contributed to my addiction.May God Bless you
Thank you!
Thank you so much want more healing video
Thank you for the courage of your love and commitment to Christ in helping husbands and men.
You're welcome!
Wow you did an amazing job talking about this for someone who never actually watched gay porn. I sincerely mean that. Like how do you understand it better than I do?
Oh man have I felt doomed and hopeless so many times. Still wondering if I am.
Everything thing you said is exactly
You did a very good job and hearing this from a predominant straight guy is affirming
Thank you!
Great topic. This could be a week's discussion as it is very layered. Well, I introduced myself to porn at a young age, maybe 12. Had a male family member that had many vids. When he'd leave for work, I'd pop in. It was straight porn, but I never found myself attracted to the female part at all. The male part was where the excitement was. It was tangible with different sizes. It's just a nice piece of work. Yeah, I did have sexual feelings for guys before that, but watching the porn really heightened the feeling. With that being said, never been intimate with a woman. I actually prefer straight porn over gay. Just something about the straight guy that is still unknown to me, as a male myself, but gay. I often wonder what it's like to be a straight guy and to only be attracted to women. 🤷
Also, as you said, fear of another man, leads to curiosity, etc. That is absolutely true. I was bullied by straight guys. I feared them, and still do in a sense, as an adult. Quite a traumatizing experience growing up. But now, it is where my sexual desires lie, with straight men. Highly aroused by them. Never noticed there was a connection. You are really nailing these points. I keep editing my comment as you progress. Such relief to hear someone who truly understood the details of these life-altering events.
I have been trying to build a friendship with a straight male, without having sex, but have been unsuccessful. I really would like to have a straight friend that I am not intimate with but find it so difficult to make friends at 40. I want to learn from him, what his life is like, etc. I have even looked into men's retreats for male bonding. Not looking for anything sexual. Id just like to have a connection.
Feeling like crying
Hey Drew !! Thanks for your vid. Informative and helpful. Really wanted to be on liive chat, I was working. So I definitely resonate with the discussion and thoughts here. Would be possible to seek some assistance at some point ?
Yes. Contact me at www.husbandmaterial.com/contact
I'm pretty sure i was exposed to porn around 20 yo. Gay porn in my 40s
Can there be videos to go back and watch later? For the HMA... I got the passion just not the time... that's family days
Yes, HMA includes 32 videos which you can work through at your own pace and on your own time.
😮😮😮😮😮😮 awesome
The brain is this incredible organ that can accomplish so much, but at the same time it’s so fragile and susceptible… at least it can heal itself too
Well said
1000% spiritual attraction
Love you brother. For yourself and for doing this video
Thanks!
Hello
“So many men *struggle* with gay porn”??? What you really mean is some men are gay, those men watch gay porn. Straight men don’t watch gay porn and gay men that watch it should do so out of enjoyment.
I am glad to see you say these people are not “abnormal” but it’s honestly so sad (truly this was hard to watch 😢) to see instead of affirming these people, left to feel shamed and ostracized by their community and family, you espouse how to obtain “freedom” as though this is something oppressive.
I see you have a wife and family and I’m glad you are happy. You also say you also admit attraction to men. I urge you to learn about Dave Matheson (Good Morning Britain and Channel 4 have good interviews). He himself was married for 34 years before realizing the harm he had done by trying to help gay men suppress their attractions.
It’s 2024. I hope one day, hopefully before you grow old, you realize authenticity is intrinsic to true happiness… plenty share your story. ❤️
How sad that you feel sad. This is so uplifting and is open to everyone. I've never seen a straight man like gay porn because people like you quickly judge, that's where the problem is. You skipped part of the video my friend and are doing the complete opposite
This shit is wild to me.
Yall need hella therapy, got some massive homophobia buried deep.
No straight man likes gay porn, yall just gay.
Notice that this isn't about suppressing attraction, this is about dealing with addiction. Lust and love are not the same thing, and many people want to enjoy pure love without wanting to do things to people. As a gay man, I can tell you that getting erections and masturbating to attractive men is not a good life focus.
Its disgusting the homophobia being put out on this channel. I dont even know how tf I ran into this.
You are all gay. Gtfo over it. Stop trying to compartmentalize
@@kenton6804so that’s SSA ? The initial sexual arousal/erection seen another man? That’s it ? Or is it the magnetic pull feeling towards man in a sexual way ?
Thank you.
You're welcome!