The song Chill is about two people who have fallen out of love with each other and are hurting each other by trying to stay together even tho they know it’s time to let each other go. Which is a completely normal thing in a relationship. Sometimes you just fall out of love and that’s that. Yes you might say things to hurt each other but that’s what happens when you get angry. The lyrics of Chill are also based on the present while Ex is about the past and current events will always seem bigger and more serious than pasts ones. But if you think about how each situation will affect someone long term then knowing that your partner was looking at other people while being in a relationship with you will hurt way more than your partner telling you that it’s best to erase your memories together. Like yeah both are bad but person A is gonna leave you thinking you weren’t good enough for that person while person B will just leave you thinking they’re an insensitive jerk who said hurtful thing in the heat of the moment. So my conclusion is that A is worse than B.
Absolutely, I think A is worse in regards to the situation, I never disagreed with that. My argument was that A wasn’t necessarily a “bad person” that’s all. They were saying he is such a bad person for liking someone else, but I don’t think those actions make him bad. He realised he had feelings for someone else and ended the relationship. Just because his emotions did something that aren’t in alignment with a healthy relationship, doesn’t mean he is “bad”.
@@melaniereacts the lyrics for a say the person has feelings for someone else, their partner asked if something was wrong, they replied no dont worry about it. that to me is worse than b where they ( to me) just seem mad kinda shoving blame. a is like leading ur partner on, not communicating and lying about ur feelings, b is imo more so just anger about the other person moving on and/or the breakup
It's not his angry face lol. It's not his fault he has a face that looks tough (but gorgeous) and maybe a bit intimidating. Either way what he is and has always been is a sweetheart.
hyunjin always gets so immersed in hypothetical situations and i definitely relate to that, but he'll be the type of person who dreams about it or brings it up again five days later 😂😂 also i know that lee know has been on a variety show where he drank before, but i think that's the only skz drinking content that's been out there
As Changbin said Lee Know very considerate of his members and as Chan has said as well Lee Know sometimes feels like a big brother to him and we can all see why. He really takes good care of Chan and I love it. It's why Minchan have such a special place in my heart.
Not sure if this is why others think A is worse, but for me it was also because of the part that says “when you asked me if something was wrong, I said no no”, which I think implies that A lied about someone else having caught their eye when asked about it at first. I’d rather have the person be upfront about it and as you said, feelings are not something you can control ^^,
I agree with them and definitely think A (Ex) is the WORST 😬 while I do think you can't control having feelings for someone else while you're in a relationship, the way A handles it is to just let it develop - hyunjin says 'if he feels that bad about it, then he must be thinking of that person a lot' which is what's the core issue there I think. A says nothing is wrong, but slowly just gets colder and more cruel because he's doubting his feelings and his relationship but won't SAY anything so the person he's with is just left in a horrible limbo. B is more in-your-face angry, and yes he says forget everything we've had, but if you follow the lyrics it tells the similar story of a love gone cold so now there's just arguing and not much else. i interpreted it as him saying, you know what, let's just end this cleanly and chill on our feelings. like lino says, I feel like he's saying let's clearly define that our relationship is done and get everything we want to say out so we have no regrets. That's much better than A who seems to run hot and cold and then just says he's indecisive and regrets everything forever and can't choose between this person he loves and whoever he had feelings for lol
I agree A is worse! There is no argument there for sure. My argument in the reaction was that, A isn’t necessarily a “bad person” like they were saying he was. Yes he had feelings for someone else in which he ended the relationship when he realised the feelings were more than they should be. But does that make him a “bad person”. I honestly don’t think so
I think during the debate, because Hyunjin is the type of person to love fully, like he would be obsessive, and he's said before in like skz code (one of the office ones I think) that he only wants them to focus on him, not even thinking about anyone else. so I don't think he would be the type to understand catching slight feelings for someone else because he would love very strongly, if that makes sense? so for that reason he would think that A is worse because he doesn't understand how people could not be wholly devoted. idk, this is obviously me guessing but ya know
Totally get it! But it also makes me think maybe he hasn’t been in a deep relationship with anyone yet. Because loving someone that strongly is a rarity. It’s hard to find a person where there is that deep of a connection forever. I mean if you find it, never let go of it. But in many relationships that spark fizzles out and thoughts of other people are a natural process. I’m not saying it’s right and I’m not saying it happens with everyone, but it’s life.
I'll be honest I was happy to see Chan actually sleeping, that baby needs all the rest he can get. Also not Lee Know being up but waiting to be woken up lol cutie.
I mean, I do as well! It shows how much of a loyal person he is for sure. And I don’t disagree that A is worse, I just don’t think he is necessarily a bad person. Especially if he decided to end it because he realised he had feelings for someone else.
this was SO dramatic of a conversation 😄 difficult balance between wanting to be good in all you do, whilst also realizing the reality of life and attraction 😄
i always find it so funny that not one reactor actually noticed them stopping in front of the alcohol section at that store 😂😂🙈 but so glad they finally get to be open about that 🥰🤗
@@melaniereacts haha yeah i kinda noticed bc they were walking slower in front of it and looked like they stopped there and then it suddenly cut 🤣 so i just kneeeew hahaha
Maybe they didn't have any alcohol on camera until now because even in a sober state they've already got such drunk personalities that any further level of inebriation would snap the last flimsy little thread that's still keeping them somewhat tethered to socially acceptable and sane behaviour 😄 Maybe that's why they just cut straight to the hungover aftermath after they toasted 🤔
From what I know drinking is incredibly common (and even encouraged) in Korea, so I doubt that specifically would be an issue as long as all members were above the legal drinking age I do suspect that part of waiting to show them actively drinking on screen could be related to all members being above the legal drinking age in EVERY country. But it could also be related to having all the members feel comfortable drinking on camera. Very few of us would like to have our first drinking experience recorded and posted to the internet.
Images will be released on Wednesday and a new teaser on Friday Mel! Next week there's teasers on Monday, Thursday and Friday + images on Wednesday. After that there's something almost every day.
Here's my opinion on the Ex or Chill debate. I think it's has some cultural/traditional sense to this, they are taking it that you are with them so then they're your partner (assuming you've been together for months or years) and you chose them cause you love/accept them for who they are, having feelings for others could mean that you saw something better, got to know this new person and fell in love, many people don't say they "have eyes"/fell for another person in a short amount of time unless they're not serious about the relationship, attraction/crush is different from romanic love. Whether or not it was acted upon... Idk, I don't remember but I remember some lyrics saying that they were neglecting/lying so it wasn't a great relationship anyway and part of the song is "Swear at me until hatred turns to anger and anger turns to love" In Chill they both fell out of love and relationships now dull and stale, they're both going to different directions so they had to break up, it's mutual though they do have a point when they said the person is telling their partner what to do(erase memories, move on etc...) Honestly both scenarios they presented are unfortunate but normal, nobody can 100% control they're feelings and situations they end up in
So, basically A and B did the same thing: having feelings for another person while being in a relationship but they reacted towards their partner differently. A was silent while B was loud about it. A kept saying they are fine until boom they break up with the person while B just woke up to a lot of questioning they couldn't handle and decided to snap. In my opinion, both cases are equally awful but neither of them are essentially bad people. Just people who weren't honest enough to break up with the significant other the moment they realized they had feelings for someone else and only decided to act upon it when the vase was full and they couldn't take it anymore. I do agree with you tho that Celebrity crush can't be considered as cheating because you don't have access to cheating physically with them, but I also think it's because sometimes we just really appreciate our celebrity crushes and tbh we may not take the chance to cheat with them even if we wanted to because the feelings we have for them aren't exactly romantic. But B is worse because B is literally getting mad at their partner because they can't assume what they feel about someone else.
Idk if you will see this, but i wanted to say since a lot of people are always confused when idols talk about rabbits in reference to the moon, I wanted to tell you why. In a lot of asian countries and not just Korea, the rabbit symbolizes the moon. And there are myths about it and how a rabbit lives there. You can even find an image of the full moon looking like a rabbit, like they said, on google if you type in "full moon rabbit" where you can see the rabbit on the moon. I won't go to detail about it, but i would recommend to look it up, because it's quite interesting. I personally came to know about this all through anime. Lol. So yeah, it wasn't them just saying something random.
@@melaniereacts You may be caught by surprise in the beginning but I don't think it is strong enough to make you want to drop everything right there and then? Isn't "letting" it go on or "cultivating" those feelings already a conscious choice? Though I'm not saying that it isn't human or it makes someone totally the worst human ever. It's just isn't not cheating. Or maybe we just have different definitions of cheating. Borrowing A's line, Let's just say we ain't compatible. Lol.
@@crazee013 yeah you’re right! In saying that, when it got to that point the person in situation “A” then decided to end it because he realised it wasn’t ok. So therefore Is doesn’t exactly make him a bad person? Right? 😂
@@melaniereacts yes he isn't the worst since he admitted his sin and if he ended the relationship right away or maybe fought for it a little. We will never know.
I was literally screaming that B is worse B is basically telling someone else to forget their love, memories, and emotions that they had felt with them while in a relationship. Like why? I think its cruel to tell someone to forget a part of their life where they were in love and happy. The lyrics especially made it seem as if forgetting a loved one is easy. If my man told me to forget about them and erase any memories and love that I had for him, i would feel shut down.
It’s not like they’ll forget it cause they said it, it’s more like in the moment they got heated up, just some words that were said just to say them While A was thinking about other ppl (no one person tho) while being in a relationship which is unfair and more painful when they know that
It's tmi but I think Hyunjin drinks like me just by that lost voice in the morning🤣I don't drink often but in company I can drink a lot and usually next morning I have no voice till lunch🤣
Tbh those lyrics just don't give us enough information about the situation at hand, they're too vague. So the conclusion one would come to is more so based on their personal interpretation of the lyrics and the kind of situation they're imagining and could likely change if given more insight. Like what does feelings even really mean? And what was the relationship with the other person that they've had feelings for like? Emotional cheating is a thing, but then again, wether that would be considered infidelity differs from person to person as well. There are just way too many things to consider xD
the thing with "A" is a bad person inst just because of catching feelings for someone else. I think is the fact that when confronted about it they dismissed it and still kept acting up in the relationship and after breaking up is when they started reflecting on all they did and what they lost and regretting it. ( is difficult to relate to someone who would do something like that even when it really happens, you will always empathize with the cheated not the cheater, if that makes sense)
늘 그렇지만 스키즈 자컨은 너무 귀여워요.ㅠㅠ 이번에 처음으로 술 먹는 장면이 나오고 술버릇이 나와서 놀랬어요 ㅋㅋ 그런데 예상했던거과 크게 다른게 없어서 더 귀여웠구욬ㅋㅋㅋ 그리고 ...ㅠ전 B가 더 나쁜거같아요.... 최소한 A는 그냥 살짝 다른 사람에게 눈길은 갔지만 결국 바람피우지않았고 그걸 상대에게 말하지않아서 서로 성격이 맞지않아서. 라고 결론짓고 다른 상처를 주지 않았다고 생각해요 그렇지만 B 는 ㅠㅠ "너도 지울거잖아" 라는 말은 상대방에게 책임을 떠넘기는 느낌도 들고... 그리고 그 다음에 "왜 아닌척 눈시울 붉혀" 라는건...용서할수없어요 ㅠㅠ 상대방은 지금 이렇게 헤어지는게 맞냐고 우는중인데 그 감정을 다 거짓으로 치부해버리는거잖아요 ㅠ 어차피 너도 지울거면서 왜 울어? 이런거니까 ㅠ 헤어질때는 단호한것이 좋긴하지만 그렇다고 상대에게 상처되는 말을 해도 된다는건 아니니까...얼마든지 좋게 단호하게 헤어질수도 있는데ㅜㅡ
21:34 i think its the fact that he himself admits to it, it just kinda shows how much he has thought about that person that in retrospect is horrible. You can't control it but if you think about another person to the point where you are breaking up with your partner, it says enough
I don’t thin it’s horrible. He has thought about it enough to the point he realises he isn’t completely invested in his current relationship anymore and he ends it. I think A’s situation is worse that B’s for sure, but I don’t think A is a “bad person”. It’s life….. it happens. Just because people do things that aren’t perfect Eg. Unintentional fall for someone else - doesn’t mean they are bad people.
@@melaniereacts I see where ur coming from but in my eyes it’s like I don’t blame the person for thinking of someone else, they can’t control it But them thinking of that person to a degree where they end relationship by basically saying that there’s someone out there better and that the original person just wasn’t a good match seems so heartless in a way
I think they are thinking of A as being the person that they were dating....because you would not be able to think reasonably about it if you were the person involved....you would think the person was so evil....I think its something like that
I’ve been in a relationship where I was cheated on. Not just “emotionally cheating” but physically cheating. So I understand the situation first hand. However the person didn’t act on their thoughts. They realised they were doing something they shouldn’t and they ended the relationship. That’s not evil.
i think the reason A is the worse person is that he, at first, told his partner that they had nothing to worry about in terms of his loyalty. "im the one who said not to worry..." but then he comes to terms with the fact that he did end up loving that other person. to me, this was almost a lie...? whether intentional or not. on the other hand, B is just trying to make it easier for the breakup to occur by telling the other that it's best to forget their relationship, as it isn't going to work out, and being reminiscent of the relationship will make it harder to move on. quite honestly, both aren't bad guys. its just a matter of personal values and opinions, but that's just my two cents :)
Totally agree! My argument wasn’t necessarily that A is better than B, it was that just because of what A did, that doesn’t necessarily make them a “bad person”. They were going on about how A is horrible and the worst ever lol, but in reality, I don’t think what A did makes him a bad person.
i totally agree with you about A not being a bad person. i think the animosity towards the lyrics is because it was a very popular "bad boy" verse that they often joke about so they might be prejudiced against it. i feel bad for the A slander hahahahahaha 😆
18:57 it may be true, but don't say it? 😅 Also, for that debate in particular I think there is a fine line between thinking about someone else and thinking only about someone else. that's when you need to break up before hurting your current partner more. Anyway that's too deep. Also, I'm single. Let me cheat with SKZ ! The alcohol thing must be something with SKZ management because they could have been seen drinking for a while before that but i don't really mind. I think it's so funny that stays asked I.N. the brand of his shampoo (we all want to be sniffed by Han ??) And he answered with at least 3 differents one. He's smart😂 I can't wait for the next one !!
For me , my boyfriend know how much I love them and he don't care where I appreciate so much. But for Ex lyrics, I don't like how that person said " let's just said we weren't compatible"😌 I can't never agree if that person said that while break up , bc we know he said that but in fact he have feelings to other person 💔
Hyunjin called as dramatic Llama for reasons. Once in Han ep of SKZ code, if Hyunjin makes one law for a new country, he will make the law to have death penalties for betraying others. (I was surprised at his words but Han seems doesn't bother and reacted very casually so l got surprised once again at that time) So yeah, he sometimes really becomes sensitive and dramatic for trust and betrayal issues. Perhaps sincerity is very important value for him So understandable after all it's Hyunjin being Hyunjin. And I think they say it's a betrayal to drop them and to fall for another idol but having a real boyfriend is not betrayal. Well, everybody's opinion is different and for me if my lover likes or loves an idol, it's okay, but if that person really date that idol in real life will be cheating (which won't happen for 99.99999%) Or, that person who remembers all important days for that idol completely forgets my or our special days several times, then I might become serious or feel some betrayals The problem of A is maybe this. His or her love are fading away and not like their good time. His or her attentions start heading for somebody cool or attractive other than the current official lover. His or her lover notices or feels their relationships on the edge and tries to recover, but s/he just says that they are just different and seems they are not for each other and push out the lover's efforts. As if s/he doesn't want to be the bad lover who says breakup first or admits just his or her love is no longer strong enough to try hard and best to hold their relationships tightly. But there are still a bit of love left for the lover, so s/he regrets or feels bad. Actually there are many relationships that end badly like that(usually considered a bad person), and perhaps they say about this kind(well, I am not them so just my imagination), but not about your case. I think Han is cute. He said in his limousine service that he saw some scenes in drama or animations where lovers fight heatedly and thought they should have time and calm down first and then talk each other in stead of fighting right away in heated feelings. He went for song writing that day and thought that cooling down theme would be good but somehow it was developed in the direction to end up a breakup song. No wonder Han was surprised to watch these new opinions and aspects of his members about his song 😊 And there is Chan tried very hard to protect that guy in his song and still failed. At least this time he didn't deny it's his lyrics 😂
I don’t know about you but I would much prefer someone to break up with me by saying we just weren’t working than to say they like someone else. I would feel like shit and so insecure. Sometimes lies are better for the heart you know 😅😅😅 I’ve been in some really bad relationships so I’m definitely speaking from experience. I’ve been cheated on and hurt in so many different ways. One relationship I was in was so manipulative and just so bad. When we ended it i thought it was just because you know…. We weren’t compatible…. But right at the end he had to throw in the line of “oh by the way I’ve slept with so many people since being with you”. And honestly……… I could have done without that information that’s for sure. The amount of self esteem I lost was extremely hard to build back on. And it was all because I didn’t think I was good enough due to that one line of “I slept with others”. So….. I’m probably just speaking from experience but saying “let’s just say we weren’t compatible” feels nicer than telling the other person they have feelings for someone else 😅
@@melaniereacts I totally agree with you. Don't need to let the other know about one's betrayal. No need to hurt the other. It's too cruel. If someone can't stop cheating, just end the relationship and at least let the other go first. I just say not giving efforts enough to hold relationship and easily turning eyes to others and saying oh, we are not for each other doesn't look good. Because usually strong passions for each other do not stay very long between two. And easily moving on doesn't look good to me. But well, if someone cannot hold himself or herself to stay loyal to the other, then ya, just letting the other go even using covering up and some white lies whatever is better than keeping betraying and hurting the other. Hmmmm, l might have thought the guy in A is an irresponsible type guy and light person. So covering up didn't look good to me, but after reading your kind explanations I realize covering up could be a white lie and at least better than giving hurting confessions. Thanks for your insights. Have a great night, Mel. And always stay healthy and happy 😊
Hello Mel! This episode was so fun to watch 😊 The voice of Hyunjin, Felix and Seungmin when they just woke up… OMG I almost faint 🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠😅😅 I don’t know but is so appealing to me 😳😍 I can’t wait for the next episode reenacting their baby photos.
i kinda admit that developing feelings for another person is smth that i dont know that happens to a lot of ppl for it to be “normal”. ive always thought its a non monogamous thing or an attachment issues of some sort. anyways, while it would be considered “normal” i guess, scientifically and whatnot, i guess ethically its considered wrong. i believe that youre in full control of your feelings regarding other people especially when ure alr romantically involve with someone. theres tons of things u can do to prevent it. ure responsible for ur own desires, no? theres a difference bw liking someone romantically and finding someone attractive and good natured. also id like to answer the argument with the “being in a relationship and liking skz” (or any celebrity for that matter) bc psychologically wise, theyre unattainable. i cant rlly explain it but its not the same thing as liking someone u ACTUALLY know. the closest example id say is ur same argument. im in a relationship with someone irl- i LOVEEE channie and i obsess over him lol. and i admire ALL of them cause theyre all attractive af and vv talented as u said; but im a lesbian. ig psychologicay wise, we all know theyre unattainable and thats whats stopping us (maybe subconsciously) on developing actual romantic feelings for them (esp while in a romantic relationship)
HAHAHA NO WAY? Is it actually? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 honestly I feel like my natural laugh has always been kind of similar to his but maybe it’s becoming even more similar hahaha
Okay the situation with A actually happened to me in real life . And A is my ex. Definitely A hurts the most. Basically A lied to their lover about being committed to them only but still had feelings for other n possibly cheated . But when their lover had a doubt and asked about it A straight forward lied .A hid the fact that he had feelings for others n did not come clean . But it's so satisfying to see my favourite idols roasting my ex 😂😂😂😂. I choose to stan all the green flag people .
IF anyone is interested in what the boys are drinking: We have Chris: Tsingtao beer, Leeknow and Seungmin: Asahi Super Dry, Changbin and Hyunjin: Stella Artois Lager, Han: Tiger Radler Lemon, Felix: Jeju Wit Ale And I.N with Guinness Draught Black . Now we definitely need a drinking Skz code Game 🍺🥂🍸🥃🍾🍷🍹35:50 Felix moveee it's our turn to be smacked in the face by changbins shoulder 💪 💀
In general situation, yes i agree that catching feelings for someone else is can't be helped or out of the person's control. However, in the song, A was the one who initiate to broke up and they've broken up. but now A is begging to get back together even after, im assuming, lost feelings for this person and had catch feelings for someone else but now regretting. in the chorus, "you can curse at me as much as you want if that's what makes you feel better and we can be together again" (this is my interpretation). THE AUDACITY THIS MF HAS ISTG
I loved this one - I think it may be hitting the 5 yr mark on their contract on being able to drink on camera… JYP really lays things out within them for them it seems. Next drop is 12amKST the 17th and 19th 🎉😊
Also someone pointed to the 4th anniversary vlive around the hour 8 min mark - they told a story if Hyunjin’s exploits - running away and wanting to hike imaginary paths… Lee Know caught him and covered him in sand to get him to stay put…. LK professional Jinnie wrangler…
So initially I thought A was the worst, but listening to the debate I thought actually maybe he wasn't so bad. Because like you said, he admits he caught feelings and breaks up. Where as B is lashing out because he's angry and basically mid argument being like 'fine, let's just say we're over, forget everything about me and chuck out all my stuff, don't pretend you won't, stop crying like you care'. However, looking back at the lyrics, A does say 'let's just say we didn't work, honestly yeah I did have feelings for someone else and I lied and said there was no issue when there was'. I feel like the catching feelings isn't wrong in itself, to some extent you can't control that, but this implies they were arguing, he was like 'let's just say we don't work' and then it's almost a bitter stab to be like 'yeah you know what, I did lie when you we worried something was up, I had caught feelings for someone' which is a bit of a nasty move in that kind of phrasing. So on balance, B is emotionally lashing out and being mean, A is kind of lashing out but in a way that would potentially hurt more because he's like, you know what you were right, I did fancy someone else I pretended not to. Either way, if A and B date, I recommend couple's therapy to learn how to communicate and handle conflict because neither of them know how to bring up difficult relationship subjects constructively 🧐. I really loved this episode. I like that they've figured out we enjoy seeing SKZ just hang out and be themselves, messy haired and morning voice and all. I hope it helps the boys be more confident that they don't have to look and appear perfect all the time we just love them for them.
I think in the grand scheme of things A is worse. However I also don’t think either are “bad people”. That’s where I don’t agree with their argument. I’ve been in some horrible relationships yet there is no way I would ever call those guys bad people (well…. Apart from one of them lol). I have been cheated on before and I still wouldn’t say that person is bad. There are so many factors that go into someone’s behaviour and so many things that people are going through mentally that make them act the way they do. Yeah they were a shitty person and no one deserves to be cheated on, but if there is anything I’ve learnt in my past, it’s that just because people do bad things doesn’t make them a bad person. I just think you have to have the ability to be in someone else’s shoes and be open to understanding why they did certain actions. No you shouldn’t be in a relationship with them however, they aren’t necessarily “bad”.
I laughed so hard for some reason in this episode. I dont know if it was funny, but i was laughing so hard! 😂 One question Mel, what color are your eyes? They seem really pretty to me!
I was initially with everyone saying A was way worse but now I really can't decide. For me, I imagine myself in situation B, being told that we should just erase each other and that I probably won't care that much about them in the future, and I think I'd be super mad. Like "f*ck that guy for telling me how to feel and what I should do" even if it's for the best. As for A, if I had been dating someone and I asked if they had feelings for someone else and they said no but then admitted it later i'd feel more betrayed. More sad than angry, but all of my FRIENDS would be saying "f*ck that guy" on my behalf. idk lol they both suck
I think both situations aren’t fun. Obviously lol. But regardless I don’t think either of them are a bad person. A maybe is a little worse because of the liking someone else situation, but it doesn’t make them bad. That’s my only argument 😂
@@melaniereacts oh yeah I don't necessarily think that either of them are bad people, just that being on the receiving end would be pretty awful hahaha
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“How come other fandom catch my eye when they don’t even look at me!” Hahah Changbin. Sad but I’m laughing so hard😂😂
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The song Chill is about two people who have fallen out of love with each other and are hurting each other by trying to stay together even tho they know it’s time to let each other go. Which is a completely normal thing in a relationship. Sometimes you just fall out of love and that’s that. Yes you might say things to hurt each other but that’s what happens when you get angry.
The lyrics of Chill are also based on the present while Ex is about the past and current events will always seem bigger and more serious than pasts ones.
But if you think about how each situation will affect someone long term then knowing that your partner was looking at other people while being in a relationship with you will hurt way more than your partner telling you that it’s best to erase your memories together. Like yeah both are bad but person A is gonna leave you thinking you weren’t good enough for that person while person B will just leave you thinking they’re an insensitive jerk who said hurtful thing in the heat of the moment.
So my conclusion is that A is worse than B.
Absolutely, I think A is worse in regards to the situation, I never disagreed with that. My argument was that A wasn’t necessarily a “bad person” that’s all. They were saying he is such a bad person for liking someone else, but I don’t think those actions make him bad. He realised he had feelings for someone else and ended the relationship. Just because his emotions did something that aren’t in alignment with a healthy relationship, doesn’t mean he is “bad”.
@@melaniereacts the lyrics for a say the person has feelings for someone else, their partner asked if something was wrong, they replied no dont worry about it. that to me is worse than b where they ( to me) just seem mad kinda shoving blame. a is like leading ur partner on, not communicating and lying about ur feelings, b is imo more so just anger about the other person moving on and/or the breakup
Lee Know is such a tsundere hahaha. He plays hard and wear that "angry face" but he is so sweet. I love that man HAHA
He really is 🥹
It's not his angry face lol. It's not his fault he has a face that looks tough (but gorgeous) and maybe a bit intimidating. Either way what he is and has always been is a sweetheart.
hyunjin always gets so immersed in hypothetical situations and i definitely relate to that, but he'll be the type of person who dreams about it or brings it up again five days later 😂😂 also i know that lee know has been on a variety show where he drank before, but i think that's the only skz drinking content that's been out there
As Changbin said Lee Know very considerate of his members and as Chan has said as well Lee Know sometimes feels like a big brother to him and we can all see why. He really takes good care of Chan and I love it. It's why Minchan have such a special place in my heart.
Not sure if this is why others think A is worse, but for me it was also because of the part that says “when you asked me if something was wrong, I said no no”, which I think implies that A lied about someone else having caught their eye when asked about it at first. I’d rather have the person be upfront about it and as you said, feelings are not something you can control ^^,
Yeah that’s totally fair!
I agree with them and definitely think A (Ex) is the WORST 😬 while I do think you can't control having feelings for someone else while you're in a relationship, the way A handles it is to just let it develop - hyunjin says 'if he feels that bad about it, then he must be thinking of that person a lot' which is what's the core issue there I think. A says nothing is wrong, but slowly just gets colder and more cruel because he's doubting his feelings and his relationship but won't SAY anything so the person he's with is just left in a horrible limbo. B is more in-your-face angry, and yes he says forget everything we've had, but if you follow the lyrics it tells the similar story of a love gone cold so now there's just arguing and not much else. i interpreted it as him saying, you know what, let's just end this cleanly and chill on our feelings. like lino says, I feel like he's saying let's clearly define that our relationship is done and get everything we want to say out so we have no regrets. That's much better than A who seems to run hot and cold and then just says he's indecisive and regrets everything forever and can't choose between this person he loves and whoever he had feelings for lol
I agree A is worse! There is no argument there for sure. My argument in the reaction was that, A isn’t necessarily a “bad person” like they were saying he was. Yes he had feelings for someone else in which he ended the relationship when he realised the feelings were more than they should be. But does that make him a “bad person”. I honestly don’t think so
I think during the debate, because Hyunjin is the type of person to love fully, like he would be obsessive, and he's said before in like skz code (one of the office ones I think) that he only wants them to focus on him, not even thinking about anyone else. so I don't think he would be the type to understand catching slight feelings for someone else because he would love very strongly, if that makes sense? so for that reason he would think that A is worse because he doesn't understand how people could not be wholly devoted. idk, this is obviously me guessing but ya know
Totally get it! But it also makes me think maybe he hasn’t been in a deep relationship with anyone yet. Because loving someone that strongly is a rarity. It’s hard to find a person where there is that deep of a connection forever. I mean if you find it, never let go of it. But in many relationships that spark fizzles out and thoughts of other people are a natural process. I’m not saying it’s right and I’m not saying it happens with everyone, but it’s life.
@@melaniereacts i totally agree! he’s probably just a hopeless romantic 💞😅
I'll be honest I was happy to see Chan actually sleeping, that baby needs all the rest he can get. Also not Lee Know being up but waiting to be woken up lol cutie.
i really respect hyunjin's point of view
I mean, I do as well! It shows how much of a loyal person he is for sure. And I don’t disagree that A is worse, I just don’t think he is necessarily a bad person. Especially if he decided to end it because he realised he had feelings for someone else.
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Minbin just basically recreating a memory from their childhood cute
I get what you are saying about the debate. I agree
31:19 Sssssiiiirrrrr Lee Know where is your outer shirt Sir please no my heart.
this was SO dramatic of a conversation 😄 difficult balance between wanting to be good in all you do, whilst also realizing the reality of life and attraction 😄
Exactly!!! Life isn’t rainbows and smileys 😂
27:35, if you listen to jin and rm singing the chorus part of that song in run bts ep. 28, you will redefine your definition of "not bad"
HAHAHAHA no I remember that episode very clearly 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
i always find it so funny that not one reactor actually noticed them stopping in front of the alcohol section at that store 😂😂🙈 but so glad they finally get to be open about that 🥰🤗
HAHAHA what? They did? 🤣🤣🤣 I don’t think I was paying attention to the surroundings, I’m either looking at them or looking at the captions
@@melaniereacts haha yeah i kinda noticed bc they were walking slower in front of it and looked like they stopped there and then it suddenly cut 🤣 so i just kneeeew hahaha
33:16 Yep! I also think they might be preparing skz to appear on one of those shows.
OMG!!!!!!!!!! I would be so happy 😍
@@melaniereacts Meee too. They never participate in fun shows( they didn't do interview with Jessi I'm still upset😅
Maybe they didn't have any alcohol on camera until now because even in a sober state they've already got such drunk personalities that any further level of inebriation would snap the last flimsy little thread that's still keeping them somewhat tethered to socially acceptable and sane behaviour 😄 Maybe that's why they just cut straight to the hungover aftermath after they toasted 🤔
Hahahahahahahaha 100% that’s why 🤣🤣
From what I know drinking is incredibly common (and even encouraged) in Korea, so I doubt that specifically would be an issue as long as all members were above the legal drinking age I do suspect that part of waiting to show them actively drinking on screen could be related to all members being above the legal drinking age in EVERY country. But it could also be related to having all the members feel comfortable drinking on camera. Very few of us would like to have our first drinking experience recorded and posted to the internet.
Images will be released on Wednesday and a new teaser on Friday Mel! Next week there's teasers on Monday, Thursday and Friday + images on Wednesday. After that there's something almost every day.
Wooooooow! Things are getting exciting 🙈
I'm just sitting here starring at Lee Know like damn this man is so gorgeous it's insane.
It was so sweet of leeknow to help chanie ❤️❤️ we all know he is a kind person 😊😊 i was waiting for this video and i really enjoyed it thank u!!
It was 🥹❤️
Here's my opinion on the Ex or Chill debate. I think it's has some cultural/traditional sense to this, they are taking it that you are with them so then they're your partner (assuming you've been together for months or years) and you chose them cause you love/accept them for who they are, having feelings for others could mean that you saw something better, got to know this new person and fell in love, many people don't say they "have eyes"/fell for another person in a short amount of time unless they're not serious about the relationship, attraction/crush is different from romanic love. Whether or not it was acted upon... Idk, I don't remember but I remember some lyrics saying that they were neglecting/lying so it wasn't a great relationship anyway and part of the song is "Swear at me until hatred turns to anger and anger turns to love"
In Chill they both fell out of love and relationships now dull and stale, they're both going to different directions so they had to break up, it's mutual though they do have a point when they said the person is telling their partner what to do(erase memories, move on etc...)
Honestly both scenarios they presented are unfortunate but normal, nobody can 100% control they're feelings and situations they end up in
People do think having feelings about someone else is cheating because the one they love is thinking about another person instead of them
So, basically A and B did the same thing: having feelings for another person while being in a relationship but they reacted towards their partner differently. A was silent while B was loud about it. A kept saying they are fine until boom they break up with the person while B just woke up to a lot of questioning they couldn't handle and decided to snap. In my opinion, both cases are equally awful but neither of them are essentially bad people. Just people who weren't honest enough to break up with the significant other the moment they realized they had feelings for someone else and only decided to act upon it when the vase was full and they couldn't take it anymore. I do agree with you tho that Celebrity crush can't be considered as cheating because you don't have access to cheating physically with them, but I also think it's because sometimes we just really appreciate our celebrity crushes and tbh we may not take the chance to cheat with them even if we wanted to because the feelings we have for them aren't exactly romantic. But B is worse because B is literally getting mad at their partner because they can't assume what they feel about someone else.
31:23 vaccination outfit 😂😂😂
Idk if you will see this, but i wanted to say since a lot of people are always confused when idols talk about rabbits in reference to the moon, I wanted to tell you why.
In a lot of asian countries and not just Korea, the rabbit symbolizes the moon. And there are myths about it and how a rabbit lives there. You can even find an image of the full moon looking like a rabbit, like they said, on google if you type in "full moon rabbit" where you can see the rabbit on the moon. I won't go to detail about it, but i would recommend to look it up, because it's quite interesting.
I personally came to know about this all through anime. Lol. So yeah, it wasn't them just saying something random.
I think having someone catch your eye is not cheating. But letting that someone "in" and letting yourself to be continuously shaken is.
But how do you stop that from happening? It’s not always a choice, sometimes feeling can catch you by surprise you know? 🙈
@@melaniereacts You may be caught by surprise in the beginning but I don't think it is strong enough to make you want to drop everything right there and then? Isn't "letting" it go on or "cultivating" those feelings already a conscious choice? Though I'm not saying that it isn't human or it makes someone totally the worst human ever. It's just isn't not cheating. Or maybe we just have different definitions of cheating. Borrowing A's line, Let's just say we ain't compatible. Lol.
@@crazee013 yeah you’re right! In saying that, when it got to that point the person in situation “A” then decided to end it because he realised it wasn’t ok. So therefore Is doesn’t exactly make him a bad person? Right? 😂
@@melaniereacts yes he isn't the worst since he admitted his sin and if he ended the relationship right away or maybe fought for it a little. We will never know.
its a bit like how 물= water and 고기 = meat, And then theres 물고기 = another word for fish -but also - is like water meat.
Omg YES! How did I forget this one? Hahahahahahahaahhaha
I was literally screaming that B is worse
B is basically telling someone else to forget their love, memories, and emotions that they had felt with them while in a relationship. Like why? I think its cruel to tell someone to forget a part of their life where they were in love and happy. The lyrics especially made it seem as if forgetting a loved one is easy. If my man told me to forget about them and erase any memories and love that I had for him, i would feel shut down.
Absolutely!!! That would be so heartbreaking!
It’s not like they’ll forget it cause they said it, it’s more like in the moment they got heated up, just some words that were said just to say them
While A was thinking about other ppl (no one person tho) while being in a relationship which is unfair and more painful when they know that
It's tmi but I think Hyunjin drinks like me just by that lost voice in the morning🤣I don't drink often but in company I can drink a lot and usually next morning I have no voice till lunch🤣
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Your take on the A vs B thing really convinced me that A might not be that bad
Right???? Like he didn’t actually cheat so 🤷🏼♀️ it’s not exactly his fault if he develops feelings 🙈
Tbh those lyrics just don't give us enough information about the situation at hand, they're too vague. So the conclusion one would come to is more so based on their personal interpretation of the lyrics and the kind of situation they're imagining and could likely change if given more insight.
Like what does feelings even really mean? And what was the relationship with the other person that they've had feelings for like? Emotional cheating is a thing, but then again, wether that would be considered infidelity differs from person to person as well. There are just way too many things to consider xD
the thing with "A" is a bad person inst just because of catching feelings for someone else. I think is the fact that when confronted about it they dismissed it and still kept acting up in the relationship and after breaking up is when they started reflecting on all they did and what they lost and regretting it. ( is difficult to relate to someone who would do something like that even when it really happens, you will always empathize with the cheated not the cheater, if that makes sense)
늘 그렇지만 스키즈 자컨은 너무 귀여워요.ㅠㅠ
이번에 처음으로 술 먹는 장면이 나오고 술버릇이 나와서 놀랬어요 ㅋㅋ
그런데 예상했던거과 크게 다른게 없어서 더 귀여웠구욬ㅋㅋㅋ
그리고 ...ㅠ전 B가 더 나쁜거같아요....
최소한 A는 그냥 살짝 다른 사람에게 눈길은 갔지만 결국 바람피우지않았고 그걸 상대에게 말하지않아서 서로 성격이 맞지않아서. 라고 결론짓고 다른 상처를 주지 않았다고 생각해요
그렇지만 B 는 ㅠㅠ "너도 지울거잖아" 라는 말은 상대방에게 책임을 떠넘기는 느낌도 들고...
그리고 그 다음에 "왜 아닌척 눈시울 붉혀" 라는건...용서할수없어요 ㅠㅠ
상대방은 지금 이렇게 헤어지는게 맞냐고 우는중인데 그 감정을 다 거짓으로 치부해버리는거잖아요 ㅠ 어차피 너도 지울거면서 왜 울어? 이런거니까 ㅠ
헤어질때는 단호한것이 좋긴하지만 그렇다고 상대에게 상처되는 말을 해도 된다는건 아니니까...얼마든지 좋게 단호하게 헤어질수도 있는데ㅜㅡ
Heeeelllooooo again,it's been a really hard day and you just put a smile on my face ,lots of love from Mexico 🇲🇽❤️
Hope tomorrow is a better day for you 🥺❤️
21:34 i think its the fact that he himself admits to it, it just kinda shows how much he has thought about that person that in retrospect is horrible. You can't control it but if you think about another person to the point where you are breaking up with your partner, it says enough
I don’t thin it’s horrible. He has thought about it enough to the point he realises he isn’t completely invested in his current relationship anymore and he ends it.
I think A’s situation is worse that B’s for sure, but I don’t think A is a “bad person”. It’s life….. it happens. Just because people do things that aren’t perfect Eg. Unintentional fall for someone else - doesn’t mean they are bad people.
@@melaniereacts I see where ur coming from but in my eyes it’s like
I don’t blame the person for thinking of someone else, they can’t control it
But them thinking of that person to a degree where they end relationship by basically saying that there’s someone out there better and that the original person just wasn’t a good match seems so heartless in a way
I think they are thinking of A as being the person that they were dating....because you would not be able to think reasonably about it if you were the person involved....you would think the person was so evil....I think its something like that
I’ve been in a relationship where I was cheated on. Not just “emotionally cheating” but physically cheating. So I understand the situation first hand. However the person didn’t act on their thoughts. They realised they were doing something they shouldn’t and they ended the relationship. That’s not evil.
i think the reason A is the worse person is that he, at first, told his partner that they had nothing to worry about in terms of his loyalty. "im the one who said not to worry..." but then he comes to terms with the fact that he did end up loving that other person. to me, this was almost a lie...? whether intentional or not. on the other hand, B is just trying to make it easier for the breakup to occur by telling the other that it's best to forget their relationship, as it isn't going to work out, and being reminiscent of the relationship will make it harder to move on. quite honestly, both aren't bad guys. its just a matter of personal values and opinions, but that's just my two cents :)
Totally agree! My argument wasn’t necessarily that A is better than B, it was that just because of what A did, that doesn’t necessarily make them a “bad person”. They were going on about how A is horrible and the worst ever lol, but in reality, I don’t think what A did makes him a bad person.
i totally agree with you about A not being a bad person. i think the animosity towards the lyrics is because it was a very popular "bad boy" verse that they often joke about so they might be prejudiced against it. i feel bad for the A slander hahahahahaha 😆
I was waiting for your reaction lol
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18:57 it may be true, but don't say it? 😅
Also, for that debate in particular I think there is a fine line between thinking about someone else and thinking only about someone else. that's when you need to break up before hurting your current partner more. Anyway that's too deep. Also, I'm single. Let me cheat with SKZ !
The alcohol thing must be something with SKZ management because they could have been seen drinking for a while before that but i don't really mind.
I think it's so funny that stays asked I.N. the brand of his shampoo (we all want to be sniffed by Han ??) And he answered with at least 3 differents one. He's smart😂
I can't wait for the next one !!
Hahahahaha giggling at everything 😂
For me , my boyfriend know how much I love them and he don't care where I appreciate so much. But for Ex lyrics, I don't like how that person said " let's just said we weren't compatible"😌 I can't never agree if that person said that while break up , bc we know he said that but in fact he have feelings to other person 💔
Hyunjin called as dramatic Llama for reasons.
Once in Han ep of SKZ code, if Hyunjin makes one law for a new country, he will make the law to have death penalties for betraying others. (I was surprised at his words but Han seems doesn't bother and reacted very casually so l got surprised once again at that time)
So yeah, he sometimes really becomes sensitive and dramatic for trust and betrayal issues.
Perhaps sincerity is very important value for him
So understandable after all it's Hyunjin being Hyunjin.
And I think they say it's a betrayal to drop them and to fall for another idol but having a real boyfriend is not betrayal.
Well, everybody's opinion is different and for me if my lover likes or loves an idol, it's okay, but if that person really date that idol in real life will be cheating (which won't happen for 99.99999%)
Or, that person who remembers all important days for that idol completely forgets my or our special days several times, then I might become serious or feel some betrayals
The problem of A is maybe this. His or her love are fading away and not like their good time. His or her attentions start heading for somebody cool or attractive other than the current official lover. His or her lover notices or feels their relationships on the edge and tries to recover, but s/he just says that they are just different and seems they are not for each other and push out the lover's efforts. As if s/he doesn't want to be the bad lover who says breakup first or admits just his or her love is no longer strong enough to try hard and best to hold their relationships tightly. But there are still a bit of love left for the lover, so s/he regrets or feels bad.
Actually there are many relationships that end badly like that(usually considered a bad person), and perhaps they say about this kind(well, I am not them so just my imagination), but not about your case.
I think Han is cute.
He said in his limousine service that he saw some scenes in drama or animations where lovers fight heatedly and thought they should have time and calm down first and then talk each other in stead of fighting right away in heated feelings. He went for song writing that day and thought that cooling down theme would be good but somehow it was developed in the direction to end up a breakup song.
No wonder Han was surprised to watch these new opinions and aspects of his members about his song 😊
And there is Chan tried very hard to protect that guy in his song and still failed. At least this time he didn't deny it's his lyrics 😂
I don’t know about you but I would much prefer someone to break up with me by saying we just weren’t working than to say they like someone else. I would feel like shit and so insecure. Sometimes lies are better for the heart you know 😅😅😅
I’ve been in some really bad relationships so I’m definitely speaking from experience. I’ve been cheated on and hurt in so many different ways. One relationship I was in was so manipulative and just so bad. When we ended it i thought it was just because you know…. We weren’t compatible…. But right at the end he had to throw in the line of “oh by the way I’ve slept with so many people since being with you”. And honestly……… I could have done without that information that’s for sure. The amount of self esteem I lost was extremely hard to build back on. And it was all because I didn’t think I was good enough due to that one line of “I slept with others”.
So….. I’m probably just speaking from experience but saying “let’s just say we weren’t compatible” feels nicer than telling the other person they have feelings for someone else 😅
@@melaniereacts I totally agree with you. Don't need to let the other know about one's betrayal. No need to hurt the other. It's too cruel. If someone can't stop cheating, just end the relationship and at least let the other go first.
I just say not giving efforts enough to hold relationship and easily turning eyes to others and saying oh, we are not for each other doesn't look good. Because usually strong passions for each other do not stay very long between two. And easily moving on doesn't look good to me. But well, if someone cannot hold himself or herself to stay loyal to the other, then ya, just letting the other go even using covering up and some white lies whatever is better than keeping betraying and hurting the other.
Hmmmm, l might have thought the guy in A is an irresponsible type guy and light person. So covering up didn't look good to me, but after reading your kind explanations I realize covering up could be a white lie and at least better than giving hurting confessions. Thanks for your insights.
Have a great night, Mel.
And always stay healthy and happy 😊
Hello Mel! This episode was so fun to watch 😊 The voice of Hyunjin, Felix and Seungmin when they just woke up… OMG I almost faint 🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠😅😅 I don’t know but is so appealing to me 😳😍 I can’t wait for the next episode reenacting their baby photos.
i kinda admit that developing feelings for another person is smth that i dont know that happens to a lot of ppl for it to be “normal”. ive always thought its a non monogamous thing or an attachment issues of some sort.
anyways, while it would be considered “normal” i guess, scientifically and whatnot, i guess ethically its considered wrong. i believe that youre in full control of your feelings regarding other people especially when ure alr romantically involve with someone. theres tons of things u can do to prevent it. ure responsible for ur own desires, no? theres a difference bw liking someone romantically and finding someone attractive and good natured.
also id like to answer the argument with the “being in a relationship and liking skz” (or any celebrity for that matter) bc psychologically wise, theyre unattainable. i cant rlly explain it but its not the same thing as liking someone u ACTUALLY know.
the closest example id say is ur same argument. im in a relationship with someone irl- i LOVEEE channie and i obsess over him lol. and i admire ALL of them cause theyre all attractive af and vv talented as u said; but im a lesbian. ig psychologicay wise, we all know theyre unattainable and thats whats stopping us (maybe subconsciously) on developing actual romantic feelings for them (esp while in a romantic relationship)
Not LK choosing his own baby pic lol ngl I wanted Chan to choose Lee Know.
Lee Know drank soju and makgoli on the TV show before
Ahhh he has too!
Yyyyyyaaasssss to Lee Know's vocals he had me swaying from side to side yyyyyyyyyaaaaasssss Sir
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is it just me or your laugh becomes more and more like changbin's laugh changbin's effect fr HAHAHAHAH
HAHAHA NO WAY? Is it actually? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 honestly I feel like my natural laugh has always been kind of similar to his but maybe it’s becoming even more similar hahaha
Okay the situation with A actually happened to me in real life . And A is my ex.
Definitely A hurts the most. Basically A lied to their lover about being committed to them only but still had feelings for other n possibly cheated . But when their lover had a doubt and asked about it A straight forward lied .A hid the fact that he had feelings for others n did not come clean .
But it's so satisfying to see my favourite idols roasting my ex 😂😂😂😂. I choose to stan all the green flag people .
IF anyone is interested in what the boys are drinking: We have Chris: Tsingtao beer, Leeknow and Seungmin: Asahi Super Dry, Changbin and Hyunjin: Stella Artois Lager, Han: Tiger Radler Lemon, Felix: Jeju Wit Ale And I.N with Guinness Draught Black . Now we definitely need a drinking Skz code Game 🍺🥂🍸🥃🍾🍷🍹35:50 Felix moveee it's our turn to be smacked in the face by changbins shoulder 💪 💀
In general situation, yes i agree that catching feelings for someone else is can't be helped or out of the person's control. However, in the song, A was the one who initiate to broke up and they've broken up. but now A is begging to get back together even after, im assuming, lost feelings for this person and had catch feelings for someone else but now regretting. in the chorus, "you can curse at me as much as you want if that's what makes you feel better and we can be together again" (this is my interpretation). THE AUDACITY THIS MF HAS ISTG
Okay but why does it sound like he said “we don’t care” at 7:28 😭
HAHAHA he heard me telling y’all irrelevant information and had to put me in my place LOL! It really did sound like we don’t care though hahaha
I loved this one - I think it may be hitting the 5 yr mark on their contract on being able to drink on camera… JYP really lays things out within them for them it seems.
Next drop is 12amKST the 17th and 19th 🎉😊
Also someone pointed to the 4th anniversary vlive around the hour 8 min mark - they told a story if Hyunjin’s exploits - running away and wanting to hike imaginary paths… Lee Know caught him and covered him in sand to get him to stay put…. LK professional Jinnie wrangler…
So initially I thought A was the worst, but listening to the debate I thought actually maybe he wasn't so bad. Because like you said, he admits he caught feelings and breaks up. Where as B is lashing out because he's angry and basically mid argument being like 'fine, let's just say we're over, forget everything about me and chuck out all my stuff, don't pretend you won't, stop crying like you care'. However, looking back at the lyrics, A does say 'let's just say we didn't work, honestly yeah I did have feelings for someone else and I lied and said there was no issue when there was'. I feel like the catching feelings isn't wrong in itself, to some extent you can't control that, but this implies they were arguing, he was like 'let's just say we don't work' and then it's almost a bitter stab to be like 'yeah you know what, I did lie when you we worried something was up, I had caught feelings for someone' which is a bit of a nasty move in that kind of phrasing. So on balance, B is emotionally lashing out and being mean, A is kind of lashing out but in a way that would potentially hurt more because he's like, you know what you were right, I did fancy someone else I pretended not to.
Either way, if A and B date, I recommend couple's therapy to learn how to communicate and handle conflict because neither of them know how to bring up difficult relationship subjects constructively 🧐.
I really loved this episode. I like that they've figured out we enjoy seeing SKZ just hang out and be themselves, messy haired and morning voice and all. I hope it helps the boys be more confident that they don't have to look and appear perfect all the time we just love them for them.
I think in the grand scheme of things A is worse. However I also don’t think either are “bad people”. That’s where I don’t agree with their argument. I’ve been in some horrible relationships yet there is no way I would ever call those guys bad people (well…. Apart from one of them lol). I have been cheated on before and I still wouldn’t say that person is bad. There are so many factors that go into someone’s behaviour and so many things that people are going through mentally that make them act the way they do. Yeah they were a shitty person and no one deserves to be cheated on, but if there is anything I’ve learnt in my past, it’s that just because people do bad things doesn’t make them a bad person. I just think you have to have the ability to be in someone else’s shoes and be open to understanding why they did certain actions. No you shouldn’t be in a relationship with them however, they aren’t necessarily “bad”.
But it seems at tho A broke up after a lot of lying and saying "I'm okay" and leaving the partner suffering. B was harsher tho but A was slow pain.
I laughed so hard for some reason in this episode. I dont know if it was funny, but i was laughing so hard! 😂 One question Mel, what color are your eyes? They seem really pretty to me!
It was a great episode hahaha!!! My eyes are blue on the outside and green on the inside! I also have a couple of orange parts lol
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I was initially with everyone saying A was way worse but now I really can't decide. For me, I imagine myself in situation B, being told that we should just erase each other and that I probably won't care that much about them in the future, and I think I'd be super mad. Like "f*ck that guy for telling me how to feel and what I should do" even if it's for the best.
As for A, if I had been dating someone and I asked if they had feelings for someone else and they said no but then admitted it later i'd feel more betrayed. More sad than angry, but all of my FRIENDS would be saying "f*ck that guy" on my behalf.
idk lol they both suck
I think both situations aren’t fun. Obviously lol. But regardless I don’t think either of them are a bad person.
A maybe is a little worse because of the liking someone else situation, but it doesn’t make them bad. That’s my only argument 😂
@@melaniereacts oh yeah I don't necessarily think that either of them are bad people, just that being on the receiving end would be pretty awful hahaha
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