Why LOOKING POOR Is Important

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  • Опубликовано: 17 окт 2024

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  • @VincentChan
    @VincentChan  3 месяца назад +42

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    • @jpd5430
      @jpd5430 3 месяца назад +2

      Where did you get your glasses with clip on?

    • @AMPProf
      @AMPProf 2 месяца назад

      NO CHILD go gooche or go home.. Lolz naw grab slipper and broom and bucket

    • @christ.4977
      @christ.4977 2 месяца назад

      Another pro by not appearing wealthy is that you're a lessor target for theft or robbery.

    • @SafeEffective-ls2pl
      @SafeEffective-ls2pl 2 месяца назад

      Zuckerberg owns a private jet and almost an entire island in Hawaii
      Bezos owns a private jet and has a yacht so big they had to take a bridge down to get it out of the harbor. He just bought a $68M estate in Miami

    • @VincentChan
      @VincentChan  2 месяца назад

      @@jpd5430 jins!

  • @jasongreenwood3260
    @jasongreenwood3260 3 месяца назад +2704

    Oh, I don't just look poor....

    • @VincentChan
      @VincentChan  3 месяца назад +99

      😅 what did you think of the video?

    • @jasongreenwood3260
      @jasongreenwood3260 3 месяца назад +138

      @@VincentChan I liked it and I agree. My ex-wife had a bad case of "keeping up with the Joneses" which has caused me to be hyper-sensitive to this phenomenon. Your videos in general help me keep things in perspective as my A.D.D. nature tends to make me lose focus on what is important. I'm too old now to expect financial freedom, but I hope to be able to instill good money practices in my (now grown up) children and maybe NOT leave them with any form of my own debt and maybe leave them with some kind of legacy. That's my motivation. Thank you Vincent!

    • @foxtrotwolf6081
      @foxtrotwolf6081 3 месяца назад +14

      I do just look poor unless I compare myself to my neighbors. I wish I had an ex-wife, but then I won't just look poor. My wife always tells me not to go outside because I look too poor.

    • @fredp3088
      @fredp3088 3 месяца назад +25

      You're an over achiever 😅😂😂😂

    • @WillThrill13
      @WillThrill13 3 месяца назад +1

      😭😭

  • @PetraHanner
    @PetraHanner 3 месяца назад +995

    My neighbours started being very generous recently, giving me lemons from their tree and free eggs. I asked why, my neighbour said they thought I was struggling financially because I'm driving a 10 year old Toyota Highlander. I didn't realise my car made me look poor 😂

    • @ridita5221
      @ridita5221 2 месяца назад +154

      They are nice people.

    • @Radoslav-gk7wu
      @Radoslav-gk7wu 2 месяца назад +63

      Yes, cars are first parameter that neighboors value your wealth...

    • @mukhademonyo6449
      @mukhademonyo6449 2 месяца назад +65

      I mean.....they're nice neighbirs though with good intentions XD

    • @SafeEffective-ls2pl
      @SafeEffective-ls2pl 2 месяца назад +51

      I have a 2008 Highlander with 335K miles. Can I have some free eggs?

    • @mukhademonyo6449
      @mukhademonyo6449 2 месяца назад +13

      @@SafeEffective-ls2pl i mean. if you were my neighbor you would. Because my family has a chicken coop.

  • @Courtney-Alice-Gargani
    @Courtney-Alice-Gargani 3 месяца назад +915

    My dad gave me similar advice. I should look poor. Never brag about your wealth. Never tell your siblings, cousins, and aunt's and uncles, you're rich because they want a cut of your wealth. The minute a person wins the lotto everyone wants a cut of that money. I still own my Honda Civic for like almost ten years now. I plan on driving that car until it completely breaks down.

    • @lewismcelroy6946
      @lewismcelroy6946 3 месяца назад +20

      I don't even go to gym instead home gym

    • @earlbee3196
      @earlbee3196 2 месяца назад +9

      @@lewismcelroy6946
      You need to get out more .

    • @Radoslav-gk7wu
      @Radoslav-gk7wu 2 месяца назад

      ​@@earlbee3196 gym is indoor my darling ❤😂🎉

    • @margasessentials986
      @margasessentials986 2 месяца назад +4

      I still drive my 2005 Toyota Altis (although I have a newer, more expensive car) and I don't have any plans of letting it go in the near future. 😊

    • @MADMOGtheFrugal
      @MADMOGtheFrugal 2 месяца назад +5

      ​@lewismcelroy6946 the gym is a worthwhile expense if you actually go

  • @LexPrima2131
    @LexPrima2131 2 месяца назад +454

    Looking poor - yes!
    I was enamored to buy my first ever luxury branded bag - I saved up for it, because I thought I deseve something "nice" to elevate my look. The time I entered the shop, sales ladies barely entertained me, I inquired but I felt they were very disinterested. Came an older lady, and their mood suddenly changed. The way they entertained that woman compared to me was disgusting- I had to leave.
    I had enough money to buy the bag in cash, I honestly felt really bad for myself. So bad, I abandoned the plan and hated the luxury brand industry. I just bought more stocks with the savings and treated my mom for a weekend trip.
    Thank God they ignored me - indeed a blessing in disguise! Never looked back to luxury brands. Ever!

    • @dforrest4503
      @dforrest4503 2 месяца назад +31

      That’s a great lesson, both for you and the salespeople.

    • @content_watcher_only
      @content_watcher_only 2 месяца назад +17

      1 calamity will destroy all your material things, you did a great job.

    • @hblee88
      @hblee88 2 месяца назад +7

      Great story! And the Wisdom to appreciate this lesson of life. Kudos to you.

    • @cataboss8288
      @cataboss8288 2 месяца назад +1

      👏👏👏

    • @CUBETechie
      @CUBETechie 2 месяца назад +18

      I don't care about luxury brands. Clothes should be comfortable, practical and suited for the tasks

  • @Jimwood-tt2je
    @Jimwood-tt2je 3 месяца назад +455

    My wife and I live in the same middle class home we purchased in 1987. We paid off the house in 1992 and have had zero debt for the last 32 years. We drive cars that are 8 and 14 years old. Since we are retired, we have no need to buy new clothes and we have every thing we need.
    I have no doubt our neighbors and friends just think we are two older retirees just struggling to get by like most retirees today. I have absolutely no problem with these individuals thinking we are just getting by day to day.
    The reality is my wife and I have a net worth of more than $5 million dollars but we want for nothing and we don’t need a new car or a bigger and newer house. We are extremely comfortable living the way we do and have no need to impress others with our wealth.

    • @ThanhTran-i1i4v
      @ThanhTran-i1i4v 3 месяца назад +2

      Before retiring did you think you'd have that much in retirement? And as of right now how much do you think one would need saved up to live the life you live(also no debt and house paid off)?

    • @7oeseven793
      @7oeseven793 3 месяца назад +39

      Yeah that’s not as simple in 2024. You had the advantage of being alive before all that house inflation.

    • @Jimwood-tt2je
      @Jimwood-tt2je 2 месяца назад

      @@7oeseven793
      While I agree home prices make it harder today. Our daughter and son-in-law are both in their mid-30’s He works for a large Fortune 500 company and my daughter is an assistant principal at a high school.
      They have two children and they have never asked us for any money. In fact my daughter has no idea how rich we really are and she won’t know until we are pushing up daises.
      We always felt that she should be responsible for making it on her own without relying on our money. They live in a home that is now valued at $1.3 million and my son in law told me the house would be paid off in a little over 3 years,
      They live on 70% of their income and invest the remaining money each month. My son in law asked me when they were engaged how I was able to retire as young as I did. I told him to always live well below your means and to stay out of debt.
      The only debt they have at this time is their house payment. Since they use the same financial advisor we do, I know they have at least $500,000 in investments because that is the minimum amount needed to invest with that particular
      advisor.
      So while it might not be as simple today as it was when I was younger to grow your money. It is still very possible if you have the skill set needed in the job market and you are willing to be frugal with your money instead of trying to impress others by living beyond your means.

    • @jp_jas
      @jp_jas 2 месяца назад +18

      On the other hand - it’s sometimes counterproductive to think only about saving and not enjoy the fruits of your work. You can’t bring that money to your grave.

    • @Steffi455
      @Steffi455 2 месяца назад +5

      Stealth Wealth i Like it. Congratulations Enjoy you're retirement

  • @Javy_Valen_Tain
    @Javy_Valen_Tain 3 месяца назад +732

    The less you want, the happier you will be 😊

  • @qxrt3294
    @qxrt3294 3 месяца назад +150

    The wealthy people aren't actively trying to look poor, they're just favoring pragmatism instead of buying into the overpriced luxury goods market. Calling this mindset "trying to look poor" doesn't really capture the same intent.

    • @tedpark6814
      @tedpark6814 2 месяца назад +4

      Maybe the fancy clothes and cars don't really contribute that much to their personal living experience.

    • @splashmoby
      @splashmoby Месяц назад +11

      Honestly they don't even look poor or trying to, they are simply not too bothered with style and fashion, that's all.

    • @nunyabisniz8047
      @nunyabisniz8047 Месяц назад

      No they are not. Bezos has multiple private planes. It's all a PR stunt.

    • @JackTheStrippa
      @JackTheStrippa Месяц назад +4

      yeah it's a stupid conclusion, but people wil watch this video and take on advice from a stranger who has no real qualification in anything they're talking about. The internet and podcast has created a lot of fake experts

    • @user-ml8dm9fz6l
      @user-ml8dm9fz6l Месяц назад

      they don't have to prove anything because the public already knows their high value celebrity title

  • @camels9654
    @camels9654 2 месяца назад +126

    As a 7 figure guy rapidly building his wealth, perhaps I can share some context to this video. While you are building your wealth you need to live below your means, or look poor, whatever you want to call it. This is because you typically are trading your time for money. Once you have sufficient investments such that you are no longer trading your time for money, that is to say your investments pay for your lifestyle, you can then start to enjoy yourself. Also realize the more stuff you have, the more repairs, insurance, etc you need. If you view your life as a balance sheet, and you should, repairs, insurance, depreciation, storage, etc, those are straight up financial losses, and all these items need your time and they restrict your freedom. To me, freedom is the ability to move wherever I want, when I want, and never have to worry about running out of money. Hope someone finds value in my comment.

    • @audience2
      @audience2 Месяц назад +3

      Settle down and have kids.

    • @user-ml8dm9fz6l
      @user-ml8dm9fz6l Месяц назад +2

      not really, some people live lifestyles beyond their means even if they have money. not everyone, but lotta people do it.. living with debt is the new american dream. nobody buys their home outright, people pay monthly.. like their car. it maybe a lambo, ferrari, bmw, mercedes.. people in general pay for big ticket items over time

    • @thomashenao
      @thomashenao Месяц назад +2

      @@audience2 yuck

    • @altseason_musik
      @altseason_musik 29 дней назад +3

      @@audience2 who do you think you are to give orders to others who you dont even know?

    • @urdessstardancer9598
      @urdessstardancer9598 26 дней назад +1

      @@altseason_musik I think he is saying that all of camels comments become harder when you are not single with no kids. Less responsibilities, easier to do as you wish when you wish.

  • @Azel247
    @Azel247 3 месяца назад +232

    I'm noticing something strange in the financial space on RUclips. Many RUclipsrs are creating carbon-copies of videos within a short window. I saw the video on Middle Class Habits keeping you poor pop up on 3-4 channels a few weeks ago. Then I saw the same videos about net worth going up after 100k, then videos titled why 100k is not enough. About a week ago, I saw 2 content creators make videos titled "why looking poor is important" so I thought to myself "hmm, I wonder if this exact video will show up a few more time." Sure enough, here they all are. It's almost like there's a coordinated effort to flood the space with specific videos...

    • @Ngerdg
      @Ngerdg 3 месяца назад +41

      I noticed it as well.. perhaps they just ran out of ideas, clearly they're not as creative as we thought. They've run out of imagination, they're just incompetent copycats. If they look at other influencers content and if the content is generating a lot of views, then they make the same video to get as much views as possible.

    • @try_2_b_kind
      @try_2_b_kind 3 месяца назад +19

      Yes. Nischa also uploaded a video 2 weeks ago with same title.

    • @colinrussell2017
      @colinrussell2017 2 месяца назад +67

      All of the self-help, finance, fitness, psychology etc. content on youtube has been studied, written about and shared for generations in good old fashioned books.
      None of the content is truly original, just repackaged for a new audience/generation.
      And I think it's great that it's getting out there for people to learn, whatever the medium!👍

    • @s.v.discussion8665
      @s.v.discussion8665 2 месяца назад

      LOL....that's it.

    • @Think20244
      @Think20244 2 месяца назад +11

      They all take the same course to teach or make a video of whatever topic. Within a month everybody does the same thing

  • @PK-db9qj
    @PK-db9qj 3 месяца назад +202

    I look poor.
    Because I am poor lol

    • @orangefruit12
      @orangefruit12 2 месяца назад +2

      😭🤣

    • @ManojKChat
      @ManojKChat Месяц назад +1

      You have access to the Internet, so no excuses for being poor 😊 you must be joking. right?

    • @audience2
      @audience2 Месяц назад

      Bonus points unlocked 🎉

    • @minngael
      @minngael Месяц назад +2

      @@ManojKChat Almost everyone has a smart phone these days, if you don't, libraries still exist (in spite of all attempts to close them) yes some people don't make an effort but not everyone can get out of poverty.

    • @edheldude
      @edheldude Месяц назад

      You're dedicated to the role!

  • @surgeonvicryl4872
    @surgeonvicryl4872 2 месяца назад +31

    My mom also gave me the same advice..to look poor and that materialistic things are not worth it but making the superficial things turn to something useful is much more fulfilling.

  • @JohnSmith-qe6fb
    @JohnSmith-qe6fb 3 месяца назад +201

    My wife needs to watch this video so she will leave me alone about my wardrobe 🤣

    • @VincentChan
      @VincentChan  3 месяца назад +18

      LOL

    • @GregLeBon
      @GregLeBon 2 месяца назад +2

      Me too!

    • @regalchic
      @regalchic 2 месяца назад +2

      😂😂

    • @Steffi455
      @Steffi455 2 месяца назад +1

      Then show it to her

    • @KeiAngelus
      @KeiAngelus 2 месяца назад +14

      I think there's a difference between spending a bit of money to look well put together vs. having your wardrobe look like you completely let yourself go.

  • @RyanStevet
    @RyanStevet Месяц назад +219

    There's a book called Hidden Time Wealth, and it talks about how using some secret techniques, you can overcome procrastination and accomplish anything in life. It's not just a bunch of empty promises; it's the real deal.

    • @ahsan7
      @ahsan7 Месяц назад

      interesting, who's the author?

  • @ThomasSmith-z5q
    @ThomasSmith-z5q 17 дней назад +2223

    Anyone else here obsessed with 25 Money Secrets From Donald Trump? It’s like discovering a secret treasure map for wealth!

    • @beanzbeanz
      @beanzbeanz 12 дней назад +1

      LOL wat

    • @KernelFault
      @KernelFault 6 дней назад

      Just buy his shoes, bible, watch, and NFTs. Then he will be wealthy. How is this a secret?

  • @Jack_Clemans
    @Jack_Clemans 3 месяца назад +61

    Thank goodness! I am REALLY good at looking poor.

    • @benton-benton
      @benton-benton 3 месяца назад +5

      Haha, me too. I try to look invisible as much as possible.

  • @Tamietwist
    @Tamietwist 3 месяца назад +48

    I think its more about using what you have and buying high quality stuff that can last you for a while. It is less about who is rich and who is poor. I will never be the top 1% and I am oké with that. Do I sometimes want a new nice looking shirt or replace my old shoes? Ofcorse! Take care of yourself and focus on your own life 😊.

    • @ljnsaagaming
      @ljnsaagaming Месяц назад +3

      100 % agree and also looking after the highly quality items and repairing if possible

  • @Hunty49
    @Hunty49 2 месяца назад +10

    Growing up poor always made me understand that it can always be worse than what I have now. Being poor made me confidant that I can cope without and am able to prioritise needs and wants.

  • @annjones9635
    @annjones9635 2 месяца назад +20

    This video is so true, I drive a modest car, use the cast iron skillets my grandmother gave me, have a small paid off house and when I do spend, I shop for bargains. Now in retirement I'm happy, comfortable and have more than enough to get by. This beats the heck out of keeping up with the joneses.

  • @insidethebnb
    @insidethebnb 3 месяца назад +26

    I'm so good at looking poor, I've signed up for food stamps, medi-cal, WIC, take the bus, and currently waiting in line at the food pantry. Also emptied out my bank account 14 years ago, shop at Goodwill,

    • @minngael
      @minngael Месяц назад +4

      lol yeah all these "classy if you're rich, trashy if you're poor" tips on RUclips & tiktok. Eyeroll. They'll act like they invented frugality.

  • @ryan-patel
    @ryan-patel 2 месяца назад +1092

    Most important thing “knowledge” do not hesitate to invest in some good money books like “The Hidden Truths Of Wealth” that book helped me to start my first business, I have never read anything like money secrets which are in that book

    • @lextergarrielumanito4649
      @lextergarrielumanito4649 2 месяца назад +1

      Bro you're taking it out of context, "Reasons Why Looking Poor Is Important "

    • @alturki928
      @alturki928 2 месяца назад +19

      IMPORTANT this guy is most likely a fake account trying to make it look like this book is helpful. Do not buy this book as this is most likely a scam. Just dislike the comment

    • @ryan-patel
      @ryan-patel 2 месяца назад

      bro stop talking shit if you haven't read the book

  • @dan203
    @dan203 3 месяца назад +163

    Bezos has a $35M car collection and a $500M yacht. He doesn’t drive a 1997 Honda Accord or attempt to look poor.

    • @VincentChan
      @VincentChan  3 месяца назад +40

      he was still driving a 1997 Honda Accord years after becoming a billionaire (this was as of 2013)

    • @80sidd
      @80sidd 3 месяца назад +40

      But it’s 2024 now

    • @VincentChan
      @VincentChan  3 месяца назад +60

      @@80sidd yes, it's an example of a person who became a billionaire and was still frugal years afterwards

    • @theboringchannel2027
      @theboringchannel2027 3 месяца назад +45

      @@VincentChan it was marketing for selling stock to investors. Frugal man = frugal comany with little waste.

    • @kamilug-2393
      @kamilug-2393 3 месяца назад +24

      @@VincentChan
      It’s about having your research right for the video.
      Like ur video was great but if the facts will keep on being simply wrong then I’m not gonna watch them anymore.
      Especially since you are giving advice about finance, if the facts are wrong, the conclusion might be wrong, which can fuck up peoples finances.

  • @underwatch1738
    @underwatch1738 3 месяца назад +159

    That grey tshirt on zuck cost 500$

    • @Th3Visitor
      @Th3Visitor 3 месяца назад +40

      True idk why he ignored that fact because its commonly known that they all waste their money on those shirts (unless they are secretly bulletproof or smth😂) and that jeff bezos has many 'rich people' cars not just that honda elon musk pretended to live in a small house but he also owns a big mansion

    • @m.g.a3481
      @m.g.a3481 3 месяца назад

      They want to wear brands but with no branding on it, its like u walking around like a Ad... ​@@Th3Visitor

    • @alvaronos
      @alvaronos 3 месяца назад +35

      Have you seen the title? It says LOOKING POOR, not being poor...

    • @appollo1826
      @appollo1826 3 месяца назад +4

      @@alvaronos Who are they looking poor too. Anybody that they are around is rich.

    • @Simplydivino
      @Simplydivino 3 месяца назад +19

      @@appollo1826 is giving the illusion that they're everyday people eventhough theyre the 1%.
      Basic psychology plays

  • @jennyfromtheblock9484
    @jennyfromtheblock9484 3 месяца назад +45

    the poor want to look rich
    and the rich want to look poor

    • @motivationalchad..
      @motivationalchad.. 2 месяца назад +1

      whyy

    • @Aston_martin69
      @Aston_martin69 2 месяца назад

      ​@@motivationalchad..boring more you get more you bore

    • @Aaron-bh5cp
      @Aaron-bh5cp 2 месяца назад

      The rich tend to look rich too... Even Bezos, who he talks about in the video, has a car collection worth 8 digits and a yacht worth 9 digits.

  • @IMPULSOESTATICO
    @IMPULSOESTATICO 3 месяца назад +73

    Miami bro that makes $50k/year - drives a Maserati (salvaged of course). Seattle dude that makes $300k/year drives a Prius.

    • @VincentChan
      @VincentChan  3 месяца назад +10

      which one are you?

    • @IMPULSOESTATICO
      @IMPULSOESTATICO 3 месяца назад +9

      The one in the middle 😀

    • @goldenturdZeniru
      @goldenturdZeniru 2 месяца назад +3

      Try driving a Renault Twingo then. Parks better than a Prius and much cheaper 😂. Just don't buy Renault stocks, though 😂

    • @kaizokud42
      @kaizokud42 2 месяца назад +1

      I work from home. So neither

    • @splashmoby
      @splashmoby Месяц назад

      I have a bicycle

  • @ChristopherJohnsons
    @ChristopherJohnsons 2 месяца назад +4

    As an owner of a small carpenters business my father one day went to a construction site to meet with the architect. The architect asked him why he is driving such a small (and cheap) Volkswagen Polo.
    So he asked the architect:
    "Do you know the difference between Volkswagen and Porsche?"
    "No", the architect replied.
    "So there are people who can afford a Porsche but drive a Volkswagen and there are people who can afford a Volkswagen and drive a Porsche."

  • @MONI-bj1ms
    @MONI-bj1ms 3 месяца назад +40

    I dropped by a high end salon that accepted walk-ins wearing jeans and a t-shirt and they refused me service

    • @VincentChan
      @VincentChan  3 месяца назад +10

      what! thats outrageous

    • @MONI-bj1ms
      @MONI-bj1ms 3 месяца назад +2

      @@VincentChan thank you
      I thought so too

    • @sshreddderr9409
      @sshreddderr9409 3 месяца назад +1

      most likely not because of clothing, but because of your physicality, face and mannerisms making you look poor.

    • @Agent77X
      @Agent77X 3 месяца назад +1

      The salon has standards to keep the riffraff out so rich people will have a good time not having to deal with the poor people!😊

    • @Josh-py9rq
      @Josh-py9rq 3 месяца назад +8

      @@Agent77Xyou clearly added too much paint chips into your cereal bowls the person wearing casual clothing had more than enough money the salon misjudged the customer and lost

  • @saurabhprabhakar3096
    @saurabhprabhakar3096 2 месяца назад +7

    That’s just what they want to show to their employees. They do have expensive cars too.
    Looking poor will not help anyone get success.
    If you want to do good you should feel good too, and for that you should wear and think good too.
    It totally depends on any individual basis.
    No one formula can work for all. It’s always us who need to assess ourselves and find the best way we perform and grow.
    They also wear same clothes because they wants to stay less distracted and focus on what matters to them, but in my opinion we can do it either ways, all that we need is an urgent need to get successful, and fast pacing steps to reach our goal.

  • @stachowi
    @stachowi 2 месяца назад +10

    I can personal attest to this video being 100% accurate... the richest people i know A POOR PERSON would never know they are. And the poorest "rich" people i know trick every poor person into thinking they're rich.
    ALL HAT AND NO CATTLE.

  • @fireflythinking1290
    @fireflythinking1290 Месяц назад +4

    It's not about looking poor (which can sometimes equal to "looking trashy") it's about looking sober and simple, pragmatic and reasonable, which makes you look trust-worthy.

  • @bryanramos9783
    @bryanramos9783 2 месяца назад +5

    This is actually really informative, but I would like to add that the importance of looking poor is not just about achivecing financially fredom by also feeling a sense of contentment in oneself.
    A good video keep it up!!!

  • @yvan2563
    @yvan2563 2 месяца назад +4

    Modern life has flushing toilets, electric lights, cooling and heating, food from all over the world, modern medicine, cellphones, videogames and the internet. Your standards of living are much higher than the most powerful people who lived only two centuries ago. Keep that in mind and forget the superfluous things that would only barely impress your family, friends and neighbours for a few days.

  • @hq1082
    @hq1082 3 месяца назад +13

    Frugality and minimalism has always been my go to philosophy on consumerism. Save your money spend it wisely and quietly. Live a simple life, that rat race of luxury and unaffordable goods is just inherently unsustainable and a waste time and effort.

    • @babibrain
      @babibrain 2 месяца назад +1

      Yes. The ultimate goal is to have nothing = happiness. Likewise more things, more desire, more shits = more problems

    • @SilVia-hs2kb
      @SilVia-hs2kb 19 дней назад

      @@babibrain who's ultimate goal is that? Ask people who have nothing how happy they are,LOL

  • @sshreddderr9409
    @sshreddderr9409 3 месяца назад +10

    looking poor is without value. the real value is recognizing that the reason behind your and other peoples desire for expensive, expressive items is really a desire to broadcast certain emotions to strangers, or a way to compensate for the lack of more fundamental human needs, and then to have the emotional self control to deny yourself those urges, because they are symptoms of unresolved, negative emotions, and often identity disorders and other forms of mental illnesses which are very common in modern times.
    you get the most value for money by buying high quality basics with the most premium material and ideally a custom fit and predominantly neutral, colors. you should have different things for each occasion, but only the minimum amount for each occasion, and items that can fit as many occasions as possible.
    the less stylistic an item is, the higher its actual value, because those are the ones you will wear the most because ultimately, they are the most appropriate for the most amount of occasions and combinations, and because of that, you will always come back to them, and you will want to get the exactly same thing when its worn out, in contrast to highly stylized items, which you will wear infrequently,and which you will get bored or tired of because they are intrinsically impractical and go with almost no occasion or other items because of their highly stylized nature.

  • @Liam-iv7wk
    @Liam-iv7wk 3 месяца назад +33

    Honestly I think it's time we all start dressing a bit better (because I'm tired of living in a world where everyone dresses like a low level gangster everywhere or to the lowest common debominator) but I know the video comes down the concept of saving face and psychological aspect of not becoming the victim of an angry mob. Although the decline in the average person's fashion could ve interpreted as a sign that quality of life has declined long term.

    • @worldsdumbesttrumpturd....3143
      @worldsdumbesttrumpturd....3143 3 месяца назад

      I like how people dressed in the 50's. Classy

    • @targetegrat
      @targetegrat 3 месяца назад +11

      Exactly back in the days people would dress up to go to concert, sporting event, date, etc. You did not want to be seen in casual clothes unless you were fixing something.

    • @transitengineer
      @transitengineer 3 месяца назад +1

      @@targetegrat I still dress-up this way guess it is, just a generational difference. Prefer to wear a business/church suit and tie and to have my female date, to wear a knee length dress with nylons and heels (smile ... smile).

    • @transitengineer
      @transitengineer 3 месяца назад +1

      I agree with your comment 100 percent. Over the past several years, I have ordered from Jos A Banks retail stores three (3) new custom made business suits (smile ... smile).

    • @splashmoby
      @splashmoby Месяц назад +2

      I only wear uniqlo I hope I don't look like a low level gangster

  • @MrHaydnSir
    @MrHaydnSir 2 месяца назад +7

    this is why i don't understand branded clothing, paying more to look rich ..i think it makes you look poor

    • @HUEHUEUHEPony
      @HUEHUEUHEPony Месяц назад +2

      poor people buying advertisements LMAO

    • @nabilaa9749
      @nabilaa9749 21 день назад

      It does , but it definitely makes the brand owners rich😂😂

  • @CharismarInc
    @CharismarInc 18 дней назад

    This is absolutely one of the biggest lessons that could ever be taught. Humanity as a whole could be tackling bigger problems than trying to look rich.

  • @Lokey21
    @Lokey21 2 месяца назад +18

    This is great advice 👍 I remember telling a friend that I was going to purchase a new car. Later that day she called and asked me what I got, I said “I got an Altima”…. Her response- “Oh, I thought you were getting a REAL car.” 😳 I said - “It is a REAL car, it has an engine, a steering wheel, 4 tires…” She says- “Oh you know what I mean.”
    🤦🏽‍♀️ No I don’t, but maybe that’s why I was able to purchase my home, pay my bills on time and have a savings. People please DO NOT TRY TO KEEP UP WITH THE JONES…. Half of the time The Jones will end up with nothing to show for all of the money they spent on unnecessary things just to look and feel rich. I promise you it’s not worth it trying to impress others

    • @shyonemami7388
      @shyonemami7388 Месяц назад

      Nissan Altima's are known to have terrible transmissions. Many of them break at 20K miles.

  • @SneakAhtakk
    @SneakAhtakk 3 месяца назад +48

    if i saw my neighbor with a tesla cybertruck....i wouldn't buy a porsche....i would just laugh at them

  • @whitenoisejosh-sleepfocusc2917
    @whitenoisejosh-sleepfocusc2917 2 месяца назад +8

    I felt trapped in my life at 34. Just keeping up with the bills and never able to do anything.
    So I sold my house and everything I owned in it. I had two cars and sold one and paid off the other (a 2014 Impala). I did this to re-start life. I invested all of the money from everything I sold and two years later I was able to double it!
    I lived on my mom’s couch for two years. I was able to retire at 36 yo and live off the interest of my money.
    I can’t tell you how freeing it is to not have a car payment!!!!
    I am now able to help my mom pay off her house for helping me out.
    I refuse to “look rich.”

  • @beltingtokra
    @beltingtokra 3 месяца назад +5

    Got a small 2 bedroom house, small car that's all paid off. My neighbours are all retired and have big cars. If i had an emergency, i have a fund in place to help myself solve the problem, without going into debt. My lifestyle is very frugal, i have a small online business alongside my day job and i literally never buy new clothes. I make big purchases with planning and comparing to prepare and make sure i need the product and that it's the cheapest way to get it. Dressing casually makes a big difference, i know if someone is interested in knowing me, it's me and not my perceived lifestyle they are into. 😊

  • @yarn-rdgz
    @yarn-rdgz 3 месяца назад +17

    Love your videos but have to disagree in here. I think not everyone is built the same way. Some people don't try to look wealthy when they dress nice, they just like to dress nice! Some people truly enjoy having a Porshe 911, or a nice house. Money is a tool, to ultimately get you happiness. My goal is to maximize the amount of happiness money can get me today, without putting my future me in risk (actually putting future me in a really good position). I think you can achieve all your financial goals without extreme frugality (looking poor), you just need to learn how be intentional with your money

    • @babibrain
      @babibrain 2 месяца назад +2

      Yes. The more you look poor, the poorer you will become.

    • @maschenyy
      @maschenyy 16 дней назад +1

      Agree. Balance is the key

  • @zazminrios7951
    @zazminrios7951 5 дней назад

    @VicentChan Greetings. Congratulations on your videos. I discovered them recently and have been gaining insight into the world finance. I was wondering if you have thoughts for older adults though your concepts ,if applied and used correctly, can be used across all age spectrums. Thanks and continued success.

  • @Marchant2
    @Marchant2 Месяц назад +3

    I didn't realize I was doing all of this while I was doing it. But it's paid off, and yes, I look poor, too. I drive a Hyundai and am perfect happy with it.

  • @Miaisabelle-yk6rd
    @Miaisabelle-yk6rd 2 месяца назад +4

    I wasn't financial free until my 40’s and I’m still in my 40’s, bought my third house already, earn on a monthly through passive income, and got 4 out of 5 goals, just hope it encourages someone's that it doesn’t matter if you don’t have any of them right now, you can start TODAY regardless your age INVEST and change your future! Investing in the financial market is a grand choice I made.

  • @miriamrobarts
    @miriamrobarts Месяц назад +4

    I wouldn't think of it as "trying to look poor", but not getting caught up with comparisons and appearances is good advice. Paying extra for popular name brands doesn't make sense to me. But it's good to consider buying things that are moderately priced and good quality. If you know you'll use it longer, it could be a better choice than something cheap that will wear out quickly.

    • @3UM6A6BE
      @3UM6A6BE Месяц назад +3

      Exactly! He made up a false dichotomy of looking rich vs looking poor, both of which require effort. Instead, you should just look like a sane middle-class person

  • @mariya5378
    @mariya5378 3 месяца назад +2

    This is how I want my parents and siblings to live. To live content with what they have and not just casually buy anything online that can cost much more. I personally live thrifty. My shoes are usually worth a dollar, clothes range from 10 cents to 2 dollars (converted from PHP to USD). I walk to where I'm going, and I wouldn't say I like buying online if I can buy it in my local area. My favorite game is when people ask me "How much?" and "Where did you buy it?" cuz they're always shocked about it (I know how to style and choose high-quality clothing at thrift stores). We grew up in poverty so I somehow understand why my family likes to spend lavishly on things we really can't afford before. Because they want to feel rich. On the other hand, I am contented with what I have and sell things that I don't need anymore. I don't really care how much I am wearing as long as I can save as much money for the future and afford to dine at any restaurant.

  • @applemauzel
    @applemauzel Месяц назад +5

    3:38 until you realize by inflation, you are likely paying all that 200k for just one porsche anyways in 10 years.

  • @user-ib7it2li8f
    @user-ib7it2li8f 2 месяца назад +1

    After I got ill I got a good therapist from hospital. Finally someone that I can really talk to and don’t feel judged ❤❤😊 she’s so swet

  • @RocketVet
    @RocketVet Месяц назад +3

    I don't want to LOOK really wealthy, and I don't want to BECOME really wealthy... I don't want my life's focus to revolve around trying to make as much money as possible. I don't wanna be that kind of person.

  • @rebeccaholloway7296
    @rebeccaholloway7296 Месяц назад +1

    The Box Strategy is golden!! I've never heard this before but will be implementing that asap!! Thanks :)

  • @lwandle_rorisang
    @lwandle_rorisang 3 месяца назад +3

    I’m so glad I found this channel!

    • @VincentChan
      @VincentChan  3 месяца назад +1

      that means a lot, thank you!

  • @Alderose
    @Alderose Месяц назад

    Just stumbled upon your videos, really got me thinking about finance & I'm amazed at your 10K concept. Your advice is actually really valuable & I think I just learned how my lifestyle is about to change.

  • @Sacheess
    @Sacheess 3 месяца назад +13

    I think that point no. 3 is the one that makes the most sense here. 1st is common sense, 2nd is not true (you can look rich without spending much, this is why the old money style got so popular, same with other things), 4th is just common sense as well, 5th is right but it's just a repetition of what's in every video.
    Hence, I think it would be worth to make a video on how not to lose sanity when chasing your financial goals.

  • @duediligencedaily
    @duediligencedaily 16 дней назад

    I appreciate you man ppl need to hear this! 😇

  • @foodlover8151
    @foodlover8151 3 месяца назад +3

    Great video. Some comments are so daft. I wonder if it's on purpose.
    I agree with your assessment mostly because that's my life. The really wealthy neighbors are extremely quiet; meanwhile, the rich spend on McLarens and luxury fashion. The wealthy are living in paid off homes. It's an affluent community, too.

    • @babibrain
      @babibrain 2 месяца назад +1

      Yes. The extreme rich be better be secretly rich to avoid unnecessary problems

  • @wuza8405
    @wuza8405 Месяц назад

    Thanks for this educational video, people with severe narcissistic problems would gain so much from it. I'm happy that there are people out there teaching stuff like this.

  • @frenchfruga4851
    @frenchfruga4851 3 месяца назад +4

    Good evening , i am a french frugalist , definatly agree with you at 100% , this is the best way to be not see as a sad man 😊 , people don't like this , it protects yourself of home and car jacking 😊

    • @VincentChan
      @VincentChan  3 месяца назад +1

      love it! are you based in france?

    • @frenchfruga4851
      @frenchfruga4851 3 месяца назад

      @@VincentChan yes ! south of France exactly , enter this town " Valence , south of France "

    • @frenchfruga4851
      @frenchfruga4851 3 месяца назад +1

      @@VincentChan yes ! Enter " Valence " south of France , this is where i live

  • @RedLine_Renesis
    @RedLine_Renesis Месяц назад +2

    I would laugh at the neighbor with the cyber-rust

  • @AB-tb5yh
    @AB-tb5yh Месяц назад +5

    Taking Better help as a sponsor is morally wrong. I'm not gonna continue watching this video and any in the future

  • @dannyroy
    @dannyroy 27 дней назад

    I was in a hospital ward, and I could never get a moment of peace because every few minutes other patients would be walking into my room asking to use this or that (When you're sick, you kinda want to rest and recover, ya know? haha)
    When I moved a different ward, I'd learned my lesson and purposely wore my worse clothes, kept my valuables out of sight (headphones, switch) and if someone asked if I had something "No sorry, I don't have it". They quickly left me in peace and in fact started to treat me as one of them (which was wonderful! ❤)
    I learned from them: Most people in a desperate situation won't steal from someone in a similar situation to them, they'll steal from the person they think can afford a replacement. (Also remember, they're in a desperate situation, so be compassionate 💝)

  • @daedae7798
    @daedae7798 3 месяца назад +4

    For the rich, dressing poor is driven by comfort/ego - the savvy ones will park their $$$ in clothes/accessories that will hold/appreciate over time… i.e Patek/Chrome Hearts.

  • @mrgreenfull3897
    @mrgreenfull3897 9 дней назад +1

    My friends cousin is a tax inspector. She said that when someone comes to her office to complain about high tax, she looks at persons clothes, shoes, watch, anything that will say "this person can pay or cannot". So she said if you go to a tax inspector, look poor !!! 😂

  • @rrezartagashi7605
    @rrezartagashi7605 3 месяца назад +32

    Why is every video of yours a copy paste from Nischa???

    • @cl9803
      @cl9803 2 месяца назад +8

      great minds think alike
      sorry i mean great minds like to copy

    • @mo-akif
      @mo-akif 2 месяца назад +1

      Ok dude I thought it was just me. He's def copying her. LITERALLY THE SAME TITLE of the vid she posted 2 weeks before him.

    • @splashmoby
      @splashmoby Месяц назад

      Well I better go sub to her instead

  • @Vysair
    @Vysair Месяц назад

    Do note the link mentioned in the video needs your email for the result. I can see that it's trying to send you newsletter.

  • @GeoFry3
    @GeoFry3 3 месяца назад +3

    Looking poor. It's a talent that comes to me naturally.
    Seriously, it is easy to live below your means once you let things go.
    I retired at 45 from a blue-collar job. Cars paid off. The newest car in the driveway is a 2011 Toyota. House well on its way to being paid off. No student loans. Credit cards paid off. Investments growing. Now I am self-employed and work when I want to work. I charge anywhere from $25-300hr depending on the job, and if I feel like doing it.
    Had two $2000 days in a row this week. (Automotive repairs.) I have a ceiling job and roof repair job lined up on Monday for another $500 ($100/hr).
    The money robots (investments) do their thing when I'm feeling lazy.

  • @tyreelittlejohn4026
    @tyreelittlejohn4026 2 месяца назад +2

    I never comment on videos but you’re a great speaker. Very well at articulating information. Almost like I’m listening to information therapy. Lol.

  • @richardsonguerrier840
    @richardsonguerrier840 Месяц назад +3

    Look poor is crazy work of advice tbh people will judge you regardless of your status js better advice could of been you saying don’t go broke tryna look rich that makes more sense

  • @process-stories
    @process-stories 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing so sincerely!

  • @edwardsanchez3708
    @edwardsanchez3708 3 месяца назад +5

    I walk around looking like so much of a hobo that the hobos give me food and cash

  • @skiingislife3786
    @skiingislife3786 Месяц назад

    You're right - I just started my financial journey. That being getting out of the massive hole from the last five years. It's gonna be a long journey...

  • @Jensoncorpuz
    @Jensoncorpuz 3 месяца назад +13

    Where are you finding a Toyota Camry for so cheap or even a cyber truck for so cheap lol

    • @jamestrent-nw9zb
      @jamestrent-nw9zb 2 месяца назад

      Walmart (Between the broccoli and the mushrooms)

    • @admiralrng6506
      @admiralrng6506 2 месяца назад

      ​@@jamestrent-nw9zbtheir cybertruck expired so I got a Tundra instead

    • @genachattin
      @genachattin 2 месяца назад

      Beat me to it. Can’t even find a used Camry for that right now

  • @sprezzatura8755
    @sprezzatura8755 2 месяца назад +1

    Good shoes are a good investment. Especially those that can be resolved. Almost all my other clothing I buy at Costco, Target, or the occasional thrift store. I buy things that fit for have them altered inexpensively. I also drive an old Honda Accord. A great car that cannot seem to find a gas station. 😊 Also insurance is about $45 a month.

  • @jocosus3
    @jocosus3 3 месяца назад +4

    2:05 The icon for the Tesla cybertruck should have been a lemon - #LOL

  • @eunbyeolgo2341
    @eunbyeolgo2341 2 месяца назад +1

    hi! does anyone know a good video on how to get out of the debt spiral?

  • @yodoleheehoo90
    @yodoleheehoo90 3 месяца назад +6

    I AM poor 😂😭 but I don't like to show off anyway due to my shy and paranoid nature😳 sure, nice things are nice, but I could never waste money on "brand names" just for bragging rights!

    • @Duke_of_Prunes
      @Duke_of_Prunes 3 месяца назад

      Same with me. I don't enjoy drawing attention from strangers, especially not in New Orleans -- being flashy is dangerous in many neighborhoods.

  • @MareFarah
    @MareFarah Месяц назад

    The concept of Hidden Time Wealth blew my mind. It’s like finding a cheat code for productivity and defeating procrastination.

  • @shaduck06
    @shaduck06 3 месяца назад +5

    I agree basically with this, until I've gotten police bullying

    • @VincentChan
      @VincentChan  3 месяца назад +1

      omg what do you mean police bullying?

    • @johnnyt9022
      @johnnyt9022 Месяц назад

      You got bullied because you look poor 😢?

  • @bqueezy9
    @bqueezy9 Месяц назад

    Genuine question, does the extra 5% calculation take into account the extra 8 years of retirement that you won't be saving anymore? For example if you had $1M dollars and retired at 57 vs 65. You have to stretch that $1M an extra 8 years, assuming you plan on living the same amount of time in both scenarios. For simplicity's sake, let's say you plan to live until 80. If you retire at 65 with $1M that is $67k/year spread across 15 years. That same $1M would be $43k/year spread across 23 years if you retired at 57.

  • @alexagerein
    @alexagerein Месяц назад +4

    STOP PROMOTING BETTER HELP!!!!!!!!!!! its a scam

  • @TopFindsReviews
    @TopFindsReviews 28 дней назад +1

    Yessir! money is a tool.. I use it to build my wealth!

  • @TaeyangOh
    @TaeyangOh 3 месяца назад +3

    Insightful video, with an interesting title. While what you said about Jeff Bezos and billionaires is true, I suspect they have have different reason for "looking poor".

  • @sundrghealth780
    @sundrghealth780 24 дня назад

    Thanks for the valuable information provided.

  • @vamsikrishna8027
    @vamsikrishna8027 3 месяца назад +3

    So finally I am better at something without having to try hard!! Lol

  • @TechStache
    @TechStache 2 месяца назад

    Thankfully the financial struggle of my parents encouraged me to learn and manage my income successfully. The years of struggle were extremely useful and worth it

  • @ruthdenham8211
    @ruthdenham8211 2 месяца назад +4

    Great video! I really have a question. For someone with less than $5,000 to invest, how would you recommend we enter the crypto market? I am looking at studying some traders and copying their strategy rather than investing myself and losing money emotionally. What's your take on this approach?

    • @gregsmith1584
      @gregsmith1584 2 месяца назад

      Trading without a professional guide.... Hud i laugh you, because you will remain where you are or even make huge losses that will stop you from trading, this has been one of the biggest problem to new traders

  • @anastasiaszymala8497
    @anastasiaszymala8497 20 дней назад

    Thank you!

  • @mamzellilooo
    @mamzellilooo 3 месяца назад +5

    Great video.
    I was a process control engineer (just retired 2/21/24) I would always stress test my projects just to make sure it would work under all conditions.
    Also depending on the government.
    But I found away of earning more income despite my Retirement. $57k weekly returns has been life changing, after so much struggles.

    • @babytruca02
      @babytruca02 3 месяца назад +1

      wow this awesome 👏 I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how do I make such weekly??

    • @mamzellilooo
      @mamzellilooo 3 месяца назад

      @@babytruca02Maria Angelina Alexander I really appreciate her efforts and transparency.

    • @mamzellilooo
      @mamzellilooo 3 месяца назад

      I remember giving her my first savings $20000 and she opened a brokerage account for me it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me.

    • @mamzellilooo
      @mamzellilooo 3 месяца назад

      My outlook on money changed when I realized someone making $200K can retire broke & someone making $80K can retire a millionaire. With the current market movement.

    • @KuramaUchiha-id1ow
      @KuramaUchiha-id1ow 3 месяца назад

      You're correct!! I make a lot of money without relying on the government.
      Investing in stocks and digital currencies is beneficial at this moment.

  • @IOSALive
    @IOSALive Месяц назад

    Vincent Chan, Awesome video!

  • @JaneBernicee
    @JaneBernicee Месяц назад

    The way Hidden Time Wealth dives into the concept of productivity is mind-blowing. Hidden Time Wealth tips are pure gold, and I wish more people knew about them.

  • @Havazi
    @Havazi 18 часов назад

    Where can i get the "when can i retire" calculator that you have

  • @orangefruit12
    @orangefruit12 2 месяца назад +1

    A lot of middle class people that i know in my city are almost always on trend and buy a lot of things that are trending. While the rich people that i know who have big family business barely keep up with microtrends and instead go to slightly expensive restaurants on a regular basis. Most people are really loud on social media when they have new stuff. But i made a friend who's family business have been running for 3 generations and her iphone is not even iphone 13 or 14. People have been going into trips outside the country this year too, and buying higher end designers to appeal to social media. At the end of the day, most people who appear to be on trend are the ones who are keeping up with their expenses while still buying so many stuff for the sake of "retail therapy" While still paying check by check.
    Lesson learned, don't often buy stuff if you can't afford them twice their price. Consumerism can only get you so far because trends are becoming really short and you might as well get bored with your stuff when its no longer trendy. "Investment" pieces are no longer worth it these days. It has become to whether or not your stuff is practical, has actual purpose and serve its value.
    Looking rich wont solve your real problems and insecurities in the long run.

  • @justgoto8
    @justgoto8 Месяц назад +1

    Agree with most of advice here! Can be irritating though when old people grill you on a nice car you bought because they think you cant retire at forty, as if retirement is the only thing that matters. A car is probably the most important tool you need to have as an American. Your phone is second. Do you need the newest phone or car? No. But they do need to be able to keep up with the times, and it’s okay to keep these important tools reasonably up to date. I hated being grilled on whether I could “afford” my car, god forbid I bought a car that wasn’t 15 years old…

  • @transitengineer
    @transitengineer 3 месяца назад +1

    Vincent, I was thinking about how to reply to this video and something came to me. Not sure if, you have done a video on only this topic: In my 20's and 30's, my problem was not trying to have the same or better automobile as my co-worker, church member, or neighbor but, would try to buy the best automobile that, I could afford as opposed to the cheapest quality car for my basic needs. This was also true when it came to my choice of a single family 4-bedroom home (for just my wife and myself). Lucky for me this changed when, I turned age 40. Now in my early 60's, I retired last year. Live in "sunny" Southern California and now, I have a Net Worth of $1.4 million (half in the value of my home and, half in liquid assets) ... and Life is good (smile ...smile).

  • @Zee06
    @Zee06 Месяц назад

    I bought a used (2012) Porsche Cayenne for $25,000, paid cash, so best of both worlds. Plus it as the VW VR6 engine, so super reliable as well.

  • @content_watcher_only
    @content_watcher_only 2 месяца назад

    I really need this, thank you for tour content. I'm 100k in debt now, I hope I can survive.

  • @TheBrightFuture30Channel
    @TheBrightFuture30Channel Месяц назад +2

    We do not like to look poor. We want to be presentable by wearing clean clothes and from brands that does not exclaim luxury.

    • @JishinimaTidehoshi
      @JishinimaTidehoshi Месяц назад

      I just want well sewn clothes made of natural fibres. Not even so called luxury brands sell these anymore

  • @jnslml14
    @jnslml14 2 месяца назад +1

    My Dad always tells us - look poor and humble so that you’ll not feel ashamed to take up small jobs or get dirty.

  • @audreymagline6344
    @audreymagline6344 Месяц назад

    tq sm for these vids. u rlly r helping ppl out there like me who never rlly know how to manage money.

  • @melblack
    @melblack Месяц назад

    great video and totally agree! Designer clothes etc will just set you back when you can have the same for much less money (and probably even better quality). I used to work in a jewellery store and realised many designer brands actually don't use good material, you just pay for the name. So if you absolutely want something, then go for quality over brand name.