Dr. Phil Apologizes To Guest For ‘Having To Hear The Words That You Wanted Your Son Dead’

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  • Опубликовано: 12 июн 2017
  • Dr. Phil offers words of comfort to Pamela who is mourning the death of her son, Peter Jr., by suicide after hearing her ex-husband say that he believed she may have wanted him dead.
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Комментарии • 133

  • @KitschyTravels
    @KitschyTravels 7 лет назад +354

    Her ex husband is a horrible person, I am glad Dr. Phil told him he has a black heart

  • @swimfast724
    @swimfast724 3 года назад +257

    This was the saddest story ever featured on dr phil, and that boy's father is the most evil person that's been on that stage.
    Dr phil has a way with words and he couldn't have said it better. I hope that woman heals

    • @katestevens86
      @katestevens86 2 года назад +2

      I thought too, that the father was evil. Scott Peck, a Christian psychiatrist (who does an amazing job of blending science and faith), wrote a book called "People of the Lie" that discusses the presence of evil in people around us. One of his case studies in the book was about a family whose eldest son had completed suicide with his rifle. They implicitly communicated to the younger son that the older boy was their favoured son, and that if one of their children had to die, they wished it was the younger boy. The next Christmas, for a gift, they gave their surviving son the rifle that his older brother had used to kill himself. Now that is just evil; there's no psychopathy in existence that would account for that type of behaviour. Luckily, Peck also wrote a book that is so uplifting that changed my life profoundly when I read it early in my twenties called "the Road Less Traveled". If you can find it, the book is amazing and moving and all that good stuff.

    • @angelinaanderson481
      @angelinaanderson481 2 года назад +1

      Absolutely!!

    • @angelinaanderson481
      @angelinaanderson481 2 года назад +1

      @@katestevens86 thank u 🙏 so much for commenting. I’m gonna get that book. It’s great to read an intelligent resourceful opinion. It helps my own. 🙏

    • @melaniekathleen4098
      @melaniekathleen4098 2 года назад +3

      Omg yes. Dr Phil's story of the little boy in Heaven made me bawl. The compliments he gave her, and just this whole clip were simply everything this poor woman needed to hear. Bless this woman, her remaining son, and Dr Phil and his family as well....

  • @Abla910
    @Abla910 3 года назад +131

    if there's a higher power i really hope they send this woman some serious blessings. i can't even imagine everything she's been through... she's strong to even still be here today, and i wish her nothing but the absolute best for the future. she deserves to recover from the trauma of her son's passing, and she deserves to feel appreciated instead of put down.

    • @bellerain381
      @bellerain381 3 года назад +12

      Same goes for her son! Looks like Pamela and Joseph both need blessings! They are both in so much hurt!

    • @angelinaanderson481
      @angelinaanderson481 2 года назад +5

      Couldn’t have said it better! So glad to know there are positive people in the world like yourself!! God bless this family!!

    • @lorischellenberg3219
      @lorischellenberg3219 2 года назад

      I think Dr Phil’s Higher Power gives him the right words of healing, so many times🙏🏼

    • @francenepiazza3464
      @francenepiazza3464 2 года назад +4

      There is a higher power called Jesus, God. I hope He wraps her in His arms and give her some peace.

    • @Ellenslife851
      @Ellenslife851 2 года назад

      I agree 100% she deserves to be treated better that has been blames her for everything but how was she didn’t know that her son would go in the wall and grab the gun that was in the wall behind a piece of furniture where most people wouldn’t think that someone could find it that didn’t know about it before hand so obviously he had an idea of it being there because he probably saw someone putting it there so therefore he was intending to end his own life and they can’t just blame it on her. Situation is like this are always messy though because yes the person intends to take their life but I don’t think they realize how selfish they can be in that moment and how they hurt others around them she is proof grieving all these years because of it. The husband also needs to work his issues out as well and so does the brother I think because it seems like the brother has quite a bit of trauma from this as well but if the husband could also work out his trauma over this than his life would probably be better too instead of just blaming her for everything because she happened to be home that day

  • @jessicabutterfield9351
    @jessicabutterfield9351 3 года назад +160

    My heart hurts for this mother. No parent should have to bury their child. I can’t believe someone would tell her she wanted her son dead. That person needs a serious wake up call. I’m putting it kindly by saying it this way. I wish I could give this grieving mother a hug.

    • @bettybennett1828
      @bettybennett1828 2 года назад +3

      @ Jessica Butterfield I agree with u. I wish I could hug the mom and brother. I feel like a simple warm hug done with love and compassion could help them both

    • @hihoremy3940
      @hihoremy3940 3 месяца назад

      @@bettybennett1828 I hope they mom and son both get the help they need. And both parents should have kept the kids out of it all. I'm sure the mother was spewing venom 24/7 for the last 4 years at the boys about it all. She has let this consume her. And the cheating couple probably aren't still together.

    • @swimfast724
      @swimfast724 23 дня назад

      I can't believe anyone would say that she wanted her son dead, but it was his father that said that and I've never seen a more vile evil disgusting person on this show than her ex husband. I'm like, in absolute shock right now. I really really hope the mom and the brother heal from this I really hope they have ❤🙏

  • @CourierSixMojaveExpress
    @CourierSixMojaveExpress 3 года назад +83

    Honestly that child angel story made me happy and sad.

  • @launabanauna496
    @launabanauna496 3 года назад +8

    This is how cruel, mean and evil malignant narcissists (her ex husband) can be. Her ex husband, should be ashamed of himself. Malignant narcissists are a scourge in the earth!

  • @paigehipes5685
    @paigehipes5685 3 года назад +35

    Dr.Phil is able to have such a kind heart. He sees when people are struggling. Her ex-husband is a horrible person.

  • @angelal1923
    @angelal1923 2 года назад +9

    I cannot even fathom the vileness in this mans soul to not only deny that he inflicted so much pain on his departed son and the rest of the family, but to continue with telling her she was the cause of the boys death....Disgusting. I am so glad Dr. Phil will help them and that the words he spoke help them on their path of healing.

  • @BarbaraMishkov
    @BarbaraMishkov 3 года назад +25

    Joseph was so strong to come out and confront his father. He cried so much when Dr. Phil spoke of Peter looking down from heaven and only seeing pain. I hope they remember all the good and look forward to being with him again . That's what I do since I lost by brother in 2017. Jesus Christ words of life help me every day to stay sane knowing we are energy and aren't actually gone. We convert into something else and will meet again.

    • @bellerain381
      @bellerain381 2 года назад +1

      Your comment had me tear up but in a good way. I have a little brother whom I love so much and I can not imagine the pain I would feel if I lost him. I'm so sorry for your lost and I wish I could tell Joseph the same! :(

  • @DodgaOfficial
    @DodgaOfficial 3 года назад +10

    Man dr phil, I dont care what anyone says, he's a great person that actually cares about his guest. The whole point of his tv show is to help people.

  • @myzigable
    @myzigable 2 года назад +6

    When Joseph looks at his father his hatred and loathing for that man is palpable.......not surprising and not unwarranted, what a vile, vindictive man he is. Joseph please don't let that poor excuse for a man rent space in your head or your heart, he's not worthy of even an ounce of your energy. I hope peace will find you and your mother one day.

  • @jacobrohr9658
    @jacobrohr9658 2 года назад +7

    People say what they want about Dr Phil but this man is a legend. A smart caring human being that can basically fix anyone and anything to make feel better and help them. It’s all he’s ever wanted to do was help.

  • @kyle8027
    @kyle8027 2 года назад +9

    The way he talked to her and what he said was damn near perfect

    • @hotsnatchfever
      @hotsnatchfever 2 года назад

      Chiiiile I started grieving people I lost in a more positive way from just hearing this. I swear

  • @hannahbugey6019
    @hannahbugey6019 2 года назад +6

    How in the world could the ex say something so horrible to the mom?

  • @Roggie400
    @Roggie400 2 года назад +10

    My heart goes out to the mother and son! I wish them both all the best! 👍❤

  • @thunderbolt513
    @thunderbolt513 3 года назад +10

    👏👏👏for Dr. Phill
    The humanity of this gentleman is overwhelming.

  • @katymcginn4644
    @katymcginn4644 3 года назад +19

    💜 GOD BLESS PAMELA & HER SON JOSEPH 🙏 I PRAY THAT THEY'RE HEALING & DOING MUCH BETTER. ALSO BLESS DR PHIL FOR HELPING THEM IN THEIR TIME OF NEED. SO GRATEFUL FOR HIS KINDNESS TOWARDS THEM 😊🙏💜💜💜

  • @NSyashwanth
    @NSyashwanth 3 года назад +7

    Wise choice of words at the end, dr. Phil. I am glad people like you exist.

  • @kelseymae1366
    @kelseymae1366 3 года назад +10

    Reminds me of my ex. Cold, cruel and narcissistic.

  • @tracymcardle7395
    @tracymcardle7395 2 года назад +4

    God bless you Pamela and your son💜💜💜💜

  • @randomrachael420
    @randomrachael420 3 года назад +9

    I wish I could hug them and try to make them feel better

  • @cynthiaforequity
    @cynthiaforequity 2 года назад +2

    What needs to be said, thanks Dr Phil.

  • @sheenar4928
    @sheenar4928 4 дня назад

    As a survivor of suicide in my immediate family I am so so sorry these 2 are living with this. I am sorry that the father can't be kind and understanding instead of lashing out those he should protect.

  • @phyllismagunde5844
    @phyllismagunde5844 2 года назад +2

    God bless you Doctor Phil, for those encouraging words to the grieving mother and son.

  • @garcia1368
    @garcia1368 3 года назад +5

    I'm proud to say and believe that Dr. Phil Is everyone's Guardian Angel 😇 . Rock on and bless you Man! 😎🤘

  • @Kategerszewski
    @Kategerszewski 3 года назад +5

    You worded this so well Doc!

  • @lynndesgro2722
    @lynndesgro2722 2 года назад +2

    Bless her heart. I can feel her pain. My prayers go up to heaven for the family.

  • @CJLOVE23
    @CJLOVE23 2 года назад +2

    This was one if not thee saddest stories ever on Dr. Phil

  • @lucasdg6904
    @lucasdg6904 2 года назад +3

    The father and that homewrecker are complete gremlins

  • @shippingdepartment4448
    @shippingdepartment4448 3 года назад +1

    I always wondered what comments would be like on Dr phil videos while they were disabled.... the compassion in 99% of the comments is a amazing thing to read! There is hope after all!!

  • @Fuzzowl
    @Fuzzowl 3 года назад +13

    Umm, did this lady just say she heard worse then being told her kids should be dead? Dr. Phil do your job...

  • @plummy221
    @plummy221 2 года назад +3

    It's sad that there are people making rude, disrespectful & uncalled for comments on this episode. People need to remember that everyone grieve differently. Just because the mother is NOT emotional & crying on stage does not mean she's not grieving or don't love Peter Jr.

  • @bettybennett1828
    @bettybennett1828 2 года назад

    .17...that was the sweetest thing anyone could have said to her.

  • @annamarielewis7078
    @annamarielewis7078 2 года назад +3

    I love the candles in heaven story.

  • @rossmurray16
    @rossmurray16 2 года назад +6

    Her ex husband does have a black heart. I hate to believe that of anybody, much less a former priest and mentor of people's faith journeys, but he has made it very apparent. His new wife doesn't seem to know the meaning of the word "empathy" either. Shame on both of them for saying what they said.

  • @HolyDeathVoodooQueenDarkOne
    @HolyDeathVoodooQueenDarkOne 2 года назад

    my heart goes out to her and the family

  • @indiana146
    @indiana146 2 года назад

    So sad people can be so cruel

  • @scrubs858
    @scrubs858 2 года назад +1

    God, bless this family🙏🙏

  • @MissAmy5
    @MissAmy5 2 года назад

    The story about the child really touched my heart. 💗💔

  • @TheAyurvedic
    @TheAyurvedic 16 дней назад

    I have a mother who would make this man look like a saint.

  • @mlovespring7892
    @mlovespring7892 Год назад

    Why would a divorce has such a negative impact in children?
    I went through this with my children, and told them every day that it is for the best so that we are all can be happy. I pray for everyone to find peace and be kind to one another always regardless. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Hupomone
    @Hupomone 2 года назад +1

    Well, here I am crying at work.

  • @victoria180
    @victoria180 Год назад

    Well done dr phil

  • @adriandennis3283
    @adriandennis3283 3 года назад

    God loves u and bless you, God loves both Ur sons

  • @noemisimeon9842
    @noemisimeon9842 3 года назад

    I like what you said at the last part dr Phil.

  • @blueturtle3623
    @blueturtle3623 2 года назад

    I'll say that it speaks to her character that she said that shes vindictive before Dr. Phil even finished his sentence.

  • @tofumar
    @tofumar День назад

    This young man has murder in his heart, and who could blame him

  • @tonysangster7383
    @tonysangster7383 Год назад +1

    Pamela, your husband threw away a diamond & picked up a rock. You're an exemplary wife, person & mother . xx

  • @nohorasims656
    @nohorasims656 2 года назад

    so sad

  • @user-pw4ch4cl4e
    @user-pw4ch4cl4e 3 года назад +3

    "Sumbitch" hahaha

  • @erpmo3326
    @erpmo3326 2 года назад

    That hypocrite is a narc!

  • @melissamahoney6090
    @melissamahoney6090 Год назад

    Gaslighting gaslighting gaslighting

  • @Labrli
    @Labrli 3 года назад

    I’m not crying, you’re crying.

  • @KiteShoot
    @KiteShoot 2 года назад +1

    The father is literally evil

  • @robertelliott8970
    @robertelliott8970 2 года назад +2

    God love her

  • @annelee5633
    @annelee5633 3 года назад +1

    Pamela is a great lady, she didn't deserve this not one little bit. Pete senior is absolutely disgusting... He makes me sick how he has rationalized his affairs and disrespected his family... In other words what a piece of sh*t

  • @liamlabianca0316
    @liamlabianca0316 3 года назад +2

    Dude joe would really like this

  • @giamitchell6189
    @giamitchell6189 Год назад

    Anyone have an update

  • @mirandavinci4146
    @mirandavinci4146 2 года назад

    What happened? How did the boy die?

  • @michie43able
    @michie43able 2 года назад

    IMO that man lies and is a narcissist. To say he is evil is an understatement. Feel so sorry for Joseph and Pamela. He is the lier not her, IMO

  • @whatsthelatest193
    @whatsthelatest193 2 года назад +1

    Why would a teenager end his life??? I'm very confused

    • @irenestar9256
      @irenestar9256 2 года назад +1

      He must've been so depressed that sadly he must've seen death as the only way to escape what he was feeling.

  • @coinhuntingwithemily3463
    @coinhuntingwithemily3463 3 года назад +2

    Her x-husband is the worst person I've heard of I think. Besides Trump and Hitler.

  • @kenyanv
    @kenyanv 2 года назад

    🌬💔🌬

  • @SteveWillisIII
    @SteveWillisIII 4 месяца назад

    slander lawsuit

  • @coyotebones1131
    @coyotebones1131 2 года назад

    The show comes off as trashy exploitation, and what tv doesn’t? Anyway Dr Phil does seem like a good dude, and his emotional IQ is off the chart or he’s really well prepped because he finds a way to say the right things, and see the bigger picture often

  • @bolajiogunlaja6351
    @bolajiogunlaja6351 2 года назад

    I sympathize and I really hope god forgives the boy that killed himself, because suicide is not a free ticket to heaven.

  • @SVIIVII
    @SVIIVII 3 года назад

    She cries but no tears come out. She has everyone fooled.

    • @canasta59
      @canasta59 3 года назад +1

      You're not fooling anyone either.

    • @athenalovesdance
      @athenalovesdance 3 года назад +4

      Dehydration or Sjogrens disease causes lack of tears

    • @jaineyalex4374
      @jaineyalex4374 2 года назад +5

      Maybe she's cried so much she has no tears left

    • @tracymcardle1236
      @tracymcardle1236 2 года назад +4

      How hard hearted are you she is all out of tears 💕💕🙏🙏

  • @GrannyJB
    @GrannyJB 2 года назад

    The son is crying. The mom is dry as all get out but pretending to cry….

    • @irenestar9256
      @irenestar9256 2 года назад

      Maybe she ran out of tears, for crying so much. I can say it happened to me when someone in my family passed away, I can't imagine having to bury their own child, its a grief I hope to never know.

  • @garynoell7919
    @garynoell7919 2 года назад

    He's not looking down from heaven, he's in the grave waiting for Jesus to come back.

  • @1927su
    @1927su 3 года назад

    Both these parents are totally screwed up , the remaining son needs to get away from both of them in order to start a new life

  • @thuhanguyen2367
    @thuhanguyen2367 Год назад

    “If you know Joseph, you know Pete” 🥲

  • @krnatsu
    @krnatsu 7 лет назад +289

    I think that we need to really thank Dr Phil, because he's always able to see that some guests are in a lot of pain, and that he's always there to help people when they need him the most

    • @erpmo3326
      @erpmo3326 2 года назад

      Duh? If he can't. Then he psycho

  • @margaritadikanti9062
    @margaritadikanti9062 7 лет назад +83

    This truly is so sad....heartbreaking!!!!!

    • @missmew3499
      @missmew3499 3 года назад +3

      Omg yes. I NEVER cry with Dr Phil episodes. But the story about the little boy in Heaven and the candle broke my heart 💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭

  • @ariixox7738
    @ariixox7738 7 лет назад +77

    She's a wonderful person

  • @callanightshade8079
    @callanightshade8079 7 лет назад +133

    Dr Phil is a good man and he does a wonderful job with helping grieving parents, but that ex husband is a horrible man who all he wanted to do was throw all of the blame for HIS wrongs on his ex-wife who you can tell was trying to do what was best for her sons

  • @marissahammer2229
    @marissahammer2229 7 лет назад +73

    Poor woman!!❤️

  • @katevanderbilt4127
    @katevanderbilt4127 7 лет назад +31

    amazing, Dr Phil truly is such an amazing man... a gentleman. what a lovely human being. that poor woman for going through having to lose a child and such a spiteful husband. I truly hope she finds some kind of relief and comfort just around the corner. God bless her heart.

  • @gracegrab1599
    @gracegrab1599 7 лет назад +54

    this is so sad😭

  • @monapizzalover7140
    @monapizzalover7140 7 лет назад +23

    Poor woman🙁😢

  • @accuwau
    @accuwau 7 лет назад +4

    #DrPhil he's amazing and he actually cares about stuff

  • @creaturebeechx
    @creaturebeechx 7 лет назад +16

    Wait, why aren't the comments disabled for this video?

    • @accuwau
      @accuwau 7 лет назад

      Hannah Smith yeah

    • @Bahatixx
      @Bahatixx 7 лет назад

      was thinking the same lol

    • @nastybigJim
      @nastybigJim 3 года назад

      @@antwto8784 this comment is from 3 years ago

  • @cindyuong2952
    @cindyuong2952 7 лет назад +11

    ok what i'm so slow, dr. phil enabled comments?

  • @JMLOG1331
    @JMLOG1331 7 лет назад +7

    😓

  • @gboii6621
    @gboii6621 7 лет назад +2

    Why aren't the comments disabled this time?

  • @mewtwogg120
    @mewtwogg120 7 лет назад

    I miss danielle

  • @keyboardprincess4481
    @keyboardprincess4481 7 лет назад +3

    shit went down

  • @juliett5789
    @juliett5789 7 лет назад +3

    that boy has the same headshape as clay from 13rw :-:

  • @pinkrainclouds2190
    @pinkrainclouds2190 7 лет назад +4

    Dr. Phil did this for them and not the audience and that is commendable to me. HOWEVER, I'm getting manipulative vibes from her but that doesn't mean she isn't hurting.

    • @ashleyodom4360
      @ashleyodom4360 3 года назад

      I think it’s just the anger you may be seeing come out. Which is understandable. I really do think that everything she shows, is what it is and real. I mean I don’t think she is manipulating but instead she’s just very emotional and showing all of it. I don’t know 🤷‍♀️ maybe

  • @joukha1539
    @joukha1539 7 лет назад

    10

  • @arihanasanders864
    @arihanasanders864 7 лет назад

    00

  • @alexabrooks391
    @alexabrooks391 7 лет назад

    1st view comment

  • @michaelpolitoski6084
    @michaelpolitoski6084 7 лет назад

    first comment

  • @mrpanda8476
    @mrpanda8476 7 лет назад

    dab on the grave

  • @itsangelinamatemsp8770
    @itsangelinamatemsp8770 7 лет назад +1

    first I think

  • @raqueldelagarza3292
    @raqueldelagarza3292 7 лет назад +1

    first