Things that women go through in silence! I'm over here crying for Countess. Can you imagine being a young superstar, being pimp out by your own family and using you for support? I feel so sorry for alot of these child stars. They are a cash cow for there own families. Brittany Spears, Macaulay Culkin, the list goes on and on.
Golden never recognized how, as much as she tries to help, her help often comes off as lacking empathy and controlling. It’s a way to tell Countess that you don’t think she needs lipo but also support her decision because it’s her decision.
Those kinds of people are the worst, bc they expect everyone to see things the way they do. They don’t respect that people have their own minds. And they always looking to save someone who they see as weaker and they see them as weaker bc maybe they don’t handle situations the way she would. We have to respect each other’s mind.
I have to agree. Trauma isn't something that is so easy to get over. Especially when it was just swept under the rug or not dealt with when you were younger. People are all learning, but it does not change overnight.
If you remember the episode on The Parkers when her boyfriend died and she tried to take the Baby in as her own although ,Monique had call the child’s birth mother who gave her up.I bet her acting out that role really hit home for her.
I just saw that episode last week. Hearing her talk about her abortion made me think of that. It must have been hard for her and triggered her because it's one of the most painful decisions some women have to make. At the end of the episode, she looked devastated when the birth mom left with the baby and said goodbye to her.
Countess is a beautiful woman. All these women are. Society and beauty standards are so messed up that they think they are unworthy or not beautiful. This is heart breaking.
@Johnny tsunami yeah. There are similarities. That's why a lot of those apart of the lgbt community are still in the closet. I'm glad that the "gay agenda" is happening because the "straight agenda" has been out for decades , which is another reason why people are still in the closet. Those who are pushing lgbt characters in cartoons are doing it mainly so that people could understand us. Sexuality is a beautiful thing, whether It's straight or not. Racism, colorism, and homophobia are all related. There's many similarities and some differences.
Countess Vaughan is a gifted singer and actress. If they ever decide to do the life story of Nell Carter (which I hope comes to fruition) she would be phenomenal in that role. I can't think of anyone else who is talented and charismatic enough to portray her. I just adore Countess Vaughan.
Nell Carter sounds good in thought, but in reality Nell had a way worse life and had tremendous issues with weight discrimination and drugs. I’m not sure if Countess can do that without rereleasing her own traumas.
They did, Back in 2009/2010 on The Mo’nique Show. The entire cast of The Parkers reunited…except Andell at the time, her schedule conflicted with The Reunion schedule
Countess, man I can't be crying on my job. the things people have to go through. God bless them for being together and I hope they are still there for each other.
I love you countess ❤ you are beautiful and strong ❤ I always looked up to you as a little girl and I’m so proud of you and your strength to still be here growing up you made me believe in myself as a black girl ❤ you deserve way more flowers than you get
that is the agenda. black on black berarting degrading and calling their own ugly fat etc loudly clearly ompolitely emphatically and forever on TV in syndication around the world
No one knows what she's going through no one knows her health issues or health problems or any of the issues that she has and is dealing with to this day all you can do is pray for her and pray for her healing. Don't talk about her don't be negative towards her just pray for her healing and for her peace of mind
It’s very heartbreaking to hear Countess share her life struggles..I hope she gets the healing that she needs..That she is at peace now..Her true fans luv Countess..Thanks, for sharing. I’m sure her story helped someone out there..
This is why it’s a always a difference with women and men acting or in media period a dude can have a baby and work a woman can’t take that hit to their career
I dont know why any woman can be unhappy with brown skin!brownskin is absolutely beautiful. I just know that i love my skintone,never had an issue with it in my life and never will😅😅
Children are innocent and pure. And very impressionable. You just cannot come at them with "You're ugly, you're fat, you're stupid, you'll never amount to anything." Those words don't slide off they are absorbed. No one, especially an adult should have never uttered such a statement. Absolutely horrific.
Let go and give it to god leave all the consequences to God we would not put on earth and it’s nowhere in the Bible where we can figure out everything on her own especially being humans that’s why God gave his only begotten son for our sins in the guide us.🙏🙏🙏
Yes we are to let it go and give it to God but please understand it’s not a one and done thing. People also have to ask God to search their heart reveal the root of the problem and still need reminder that they are loved and God has given them a purpose. People do not realize it’s not a one and done thing all the time. I found it easy to give up alcohol weed cussing but a lot of the rejection and bullying and hurt from those around me outside of home stuck then the ptsd from those within family took a toll and I prayed continuously but I finally had to not only release it but ask God to search my heart. Again cussing clubbing drinking smoking quit cold turkey but some things turn into strongholds and it sticks so you can say let go all you want but until someone addresses the root of the problem forgive those in the past and themselves, it takes time for full deliverance for some things. It’s a mindset thing
She has thyroid issues. Hence why her voice is hoarse. She lost her singing voice. She’s also a domestic violence survivor. She went through some rough times. I don’t recall her being slow. Maybe the thyroid issues are the reason she has been having trouble speaking. The speed of the video was sped down for copyright reasons.
The amount of hurt Countess was enduring during her "The Parkers" era just speaks volumes as how amazing of an actress she is!!
I know right she was one of the most talented urban female talents on television in the late 90s
The way they would talk AT countess, not to her, would trigger me.
Golden is ALWAYS acting🙄 this show helped exposed her true colors and kept her ass out of work! Don't nobody wanna be around her negative, shady ass🤨
Things that women go through in silence! I'm over here crying for Countess. Can you imagine being a young superstar, being pimp out by your own family and using you for support? I feel so sorry for alot of these child stars. They are a cash cow for there own families. Brittany Spears, Macaulay Culkin, the list goes on and on.
You think parents can work regular jobs and kids have full time jobs too? the job the makes more of where people go lol
@@satelahthomas7675 What? How ignorant do you sound??? Stop smoking weed.
Golden never recognized how, as much as she tries to help, her help often comes off as lacking empathy and controlling. It’s a way to tell Countess that you don’t think she needs lipo but also support her decision because it’s her decision.
Yessss
💯
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Those kinds of people are the worst, bc they expect everyone to see things the way they do. They don’t respect that people have their own minds. And they always looking to save someone who they see as weaker and they see them as weaker bc maybe they don’t handle situations the way she would. We have to respect each other’s mind.
And she always comes off condescending and as if she’s speaking a theatrical monologue. 💀💀💀💀
I have to agree. Trauma isn't something that is so easy to get over. Especially when it was just swept under the rug or not dealt with when you were younger. People are all learning, but it does not change overnight.
If you remember the episode on
The Parkers when her boyfriend died and she tried to take the Baby in as her own although ,Monique had call the child’s birth mother who gave her up.I bet her acting out that role really hit home for her.
Mmm .. 😳 that’s crazy forgot about that episode
I just saw that episode last week. Hearing her talk about her abortion made me think of that. It must have been hard for her and triggered her because it's one of the most painful decisions some women have to make. At the end of the episode, she looked devastated when the birth mom left with the baby and said goodbye to her.
I Remember that
I don’t think the boyfriend died on the show
@@siyancede5241he did, it was the one that had a baby girl. And monique called the mom
Countess is a beautiful woman. All these women are. Society and beauty standards are so messed up that they think they are unworthy or not beautiful. This is heart breaking.
Do you agree with homosexuality?
I do agree that she is beautiful inside and out
Facts. That's why a lot of these women are getting surgery
@Johnny tsunami yeah. There are similarities. That's why a lot of those apart of the lgbt community are still in the closet. I'm glad that the "gay agenda" is happening because the "straight agenda" has been out for decades , which is another reason why people are still in the closet. Those who are pushing lgbt characters in cartoons are doing it mainly so that people could understand us. Sexuality is a beautiful thing, whether It's straight or not. Racism, colorism, and homophobia are all related. There's many similarities and some differences.
@johnnytsunami3558 How people live their lives is their business, blessings to them.
Countess Vaughan is a gifted singer and actress. If they ever decide to do the life story of Nell Carter (which I hope comes to fruition) she would be phenomenal in that role. I can't think of anyone else who is talented and charismatic enough to portray her. I just adore Countess Vaughan.
Was a gifted singer. She cannot sing anymore.
@@angelminaj617✨She actually got her voice back. There was an update 2 months ago. She sounds just like she did on the Parker’s.
@@GoddessofMusicTv i doubt that but okay
She short
Nell Carter sounds good in thought, but in reality Nell had a way worse life and had tremendous issues with weight discrimination and drugs. I’m not sure if Countess can do that without rereleasing her own traumas.
I wish countess and Monique would reunite
They did, Back in 2009/2010 on The Mo’nique Show. The entire cast of The Parkers reunited…except Andell at the time, her schedule conflicted with The Reunion schedule
@@breybrey2dajizzay I thought Andell was dead at the time.
@@4dyamondx745 she passed away in 2011 but she had cancer and she was fighting it at the time. Which is why the schedule was conflicted.
@foxygirl849 She actually passed away in 2012.
At the time is wild asf 🫢
Countess makes a great point about the upbringing
I grew up watching all these ladies and it's just like wow you really never know how or what people go through.
Countess, man I can't be crying on my job. the things people have to go through. God bless them for being together and I hope they are still there for each other.
I love you countess ❤ you are beautiful and strong ❤ I always looked up to you as a little girl and I’m so proud of you and your strength to still be here growing up you made me believe in myself as a black girl ❤ you deserve way more flowers than you get
Countess needs to sing...ill never forget hearing her on moesha...
How hard, I’m gonna play you. You won’t even know what to do. How hard, I’m gonna play you. You don’t even know.
They were horrible to her as a whole . Disgusting.
I agree...jesus
that is the agenda. black on black berarting degrading and calling their own ugly fat etc loudly clearly ompolitely emphatically and forever on TV in syndication around the world
They definitely were and it pissed me off. They talked to her like she was a child or as if she wasn't human. They always came off cold.
@@msoddballz5763 she acted like a child.
Love Countess Vaughn since she was a little girl. This brought me to tears.
No one knows what she's going through no one knows her health issues or health problems or any of the issues that she has and is dealing with to this day all you can do is pray for her and pray for her healing. Don't talk about her don't be negative towards her just pray for her healing and for her peace of mind
It's so easy to beat yourself up & believe the BS in your head but learn to give YOU more grace, even if it is Therapy.... 💜
My heart breaks for you know this that God has forgiven you. I send out soooo much love and hugs to you and let you know that people care about you
This was a beautiful and deep conversation
It’s very heartbreaking to hear Countess share her life struggles..I hope she gets the healing that she needs..That she is at peace now..Her true fans luv Countess..Thanks, for sharing. I’m sure her story helped someone out there..
God bless her…please wrap you loving arms around her let her heal …protect her my god let her suffer no more that is enough 😩🙌🏽…protect her ….
Omg all these ladies I luv u watched an I just teared up I’m sorry Countess boo ☹️
Damn Countess. Her story just gets worser and worserer…
Prayers for Countess.
This is why it’s a always a difference with women and men acting or in media period a dude can have a baby and work a woman can’t take that hit to their career
Countess takes her time when talking, she'll say 3 words and one or two the ladies will finish her sentence for her? Frustrating
Elise Neal showed her ignorance here 😂
I dont know why any woman can be unhappy with brown skin!brownskin is absolutely beautiful. I just know that i love my skintone,never had an issue with it in my life and never will😅😅
B/c a lot of dudes don't see it that way.
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Bring the show back ASAP
Countess is so beautiful ❤I saw a recent video of her singing ❤❤❤❤ glad she got her vocals back.
*Change Playback speed to 1.25× to hear the normal audio*
Thanks I was wondering why their voices were dragging
Golden’s melodrama wouldve gotten old fast for me
Shame on this adults that stated those things abt Countess … just EVIL .. and to the think we actually thought they were loving on her… SMDH
Stay strong 💪 black women
Golden seems like the problem.
I'm positive the people who said that about countess were Jackee or Pearl.
I learned it was "Pearl."
Pearl old ass was mean to Jackée. Jackée said Pearl didn’t like her and was on some shit and I believe it was Pearl.
She was old and in the game a long time
Children are innocent and pure. And very impressionable. You just cannot come at them with "You're ugly, you're fat, you're stupid, you'll never amount to anything." Those words don't slide off they are absorbed. No one, especially an adult should have never uttered such a statement. Absolutely horrific.
@@samuelbennie7690 pearl seemed like an old, insecure envious miserable bitter heathen
I never liked her. I'm a dang good judge of character.
I needed to hear this❤❤
My heart hurts 🤕💔
Let go and give it to god leave all the consequences to God we would not put on earth and it’s nowhere in the Bible where we can figure out everything on her own especially being humans that’s why God gave his only begotten son for our sins in the guide us.🙏🙏🙏
Yes we are to let it go and give it to God but please understand it’s not a one and done thing. People also have to ask God to search their heart reveal the root of the problem and still need reminder that they are loved and God has given them a purpose. People do not realize it’s not a one and done thing all the time. I found it easy to give up alcohol weed cussing but a lot of the rejection and bullying and hurt from those around me outside of home stuck then the ptsd from those within family took a toll and I prayed continuously but I finally had to not only release it but ask God to search my heart. Again cussing clubbing drinking smoking quit cold turkey but some things turn into strongholds and it sticks so you can say let go all you want but until someone addresses the root of the problem forgive those in the past and themselves, it takes time for full deliverance for some things. It’s a mindset thing
This was a good show
Countess My love U.R -BEAU-TI-FUL PERIOD!!!
Why did you emphasize “booty”. How dreadful.
Image is so important to women it’s scary
You can tell she was still in pain
Elise Neal is not empathetic at all
yeah, blinded by privilege.
Loud & wrong 😂 I never expected that from her.
Im So proud
GOLDEN why do you feel that your mother b/c she is lighter as better?
aww countess
Love countess ❤️
Are they all on meds? They all seem so drugged-up.
It sounds slow because of copyright. Change the speed to 1.25
@@TheInsaneBEAST1 Lol! Thanks. I thought Countess was having a stroke.
Golden became one of those people I wish never did a reality show. Cuz she’s so unlikable!! And I wish I never knew that.
But golden a good friend why don't we accept each other.
Aww this makes me sad 😢
So sad
Omgggg kimmmmmmm I love you
Helen Martin was really reckless
sounds like tyra
I know Countess and the woman from Girlfriends. Who are the other women? What show is this?
Elise is from the Hughley Show
Paula from the movie “ Friday “ aka hoochie momma
Yes Elise and Paula. Thank you.
Golden go in the water
The upload does not say the name of this show.
Hollywood divas
A child's life for five years on a show idk man
Who was the adult that talked about her?
What is wrong with Countess, she seems slow?
She has thyroid issues. Hence why her voice is hoarse. She lost her singing voice. She’s also a domestic violence survivor. She went through some rough times. I don’t recall her being slow. Maybe the thyroid issues are the reason she has been having trouble speaking. The speed of the video was sped down for copyright reasons.
your issues are your own
What here mean she handled it “herself”?
She didn't go to an @borshun clinic--- she used over-the-counter meds 💊 to do it @ home herself.
She got pregnant by nick cannon
Are you being funny cus nick got 1000 kids lol or are you fr
@@rah9341 I'm just being funny 😁 but I wouldn't be surprised
What????
I mean he was on an episode of the 1st season of The Parkers 🤷🏾♀️🤣
How do you get Lipo and not lose a single pound?
Mean girl energy.
Why is she in a wheelchair?
I believe she had surgery around that time.
She had lipo around that time
Why is she talking like that?
Countess or Kim parker 😆 has thyroid disease which causes voice to be hoarsse
Too fat….. thyroids my arse
@@tonydiaz2531 nope this video was slowed down because of copyright issues
She has a thyroid disease
@@kimson305 no.. ain't no way. she's on meds I'm sure. that's not a slowed down video..
What's wrong with Countess speech? She slurs. Something is wrong big-time.
She stated that she has Thyroid Disease
No the speed in this video was slowed down because of copyright
Pain meds
Lmao it's the playback speed. Put it on 1.25 for their normal voices
I think it's the pain meds from the surgery maybe.