ngl i cant even cry anymore i used to when my parents hit me and shit but now i dont and i was 7 back then and i have never cried ever again I CANT EVEN FCKIN CRY OR VENT TO ANYONE IM SUCH A DISGRACE
🙂he moved on with a new girl......after saying I'll never be replaced and here I'm having sleeping disorders, having panic attack every second☮️after all these still hoping he will come back
I can understand we're suffering the exact condition girl 🙂 he told me that he'll never be able to love someone again but just 1 week after our breakup I saw his instagram page he is with someone new 💔 and here I am... not able to move on and just like dumb girl I am waiting for him... that maybe someday he'll come back.
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
The only person I honestly cared about just left me and cut me off. I honestly acted like I didn’t need her. I said things about her that were wrong to not seem weak. I’m dying inside. I wish she could come back
Awe sorry to hear that she doesn’t deserve you one day there’s someone out there waiting for you to be together with them it’s just takes time and you’ll move on soon ur strong u can get thru it I have faith in u
I have the same thing just happened to me. we are still friends, but i really want him back. i’ve cried for 5 days straight and i’ve been praying for him to come back, and i know he won’t.
@@-L-I-L-Y- Honestly I did the same crying for like a month 😂 I mean I still hurt and miss her rllyyyy bad but I realized maybe it’s for the best. It’s just hard to let go all the memories we made
he gave me so much stress and anxiety over the stupidest stuff and yet i still can go back to him an instant. why you ask… he made me smile when i was going thru a breakup.
1. crying in silence is way better then breaking out with people around. 2. no one cares if we are ok or not its a cruel world. 3. no one to listen to our broken heart or mind. 4. u lose when u show your weakness keep your heads up and be strong. 5. we got more responsibilities keep up the act and move on brothers.
When my girlfriend broke up with me I was devastated but did not mention it to anyone because I did not want to bother them with my problems and be shamed
Hey guys, I’m in eight grade. I’ve had feelings for this one girl since I was in 6 grade. She is amazing. Me and her have liked eachother on and off, but yesterday I think it ended for good. She texted me that she needs space from me, and I cried in my sleep. This was my first heartbreak. I know a lot of you guys don’t care about this, but I just wanted to share with someone. Thank you.
It’s sad how people expect men to take the emotional damage of a breakup like it’s nothing, I found out my girlfriend cheated on me and she broke up with me because I “didn’t try to win her back”. Looking back on it she was super abusive and toxic. I remember after the break up I was playing video games in my room so people wouldn’t see me cry. My homies then we’re let in by my mom (bless her) and They took me out to do a bunch of fun stuff like going to a movie, getting junk food, and hanging out at a fort we built by a creek when we were 10. Their efforts to make me happy helped me cope with the break up. I’m so glad I have my friends, it’s like brotherhood between me and my friends. (:
My girlfriend broke up with me at the end of the day in a note. And I found out she might have liked her friend and they might have been dating when we were dating.
That is so reliable that when I have been broken up those 5 things happen 😢. I never tell my friends these things because I don’t wanna my friends to see me sad or anyone to see when I’m sad.😔
I am a guy, and I’d like to say. Most of this, is an anyway thing. Dudes can’t help but feel the need to be the strong, ideal man they want to be, or are “supposed” to be. My girlfriend has never seen me cry, most she has seen is see me near my breaking point. And I never want that, I’d feel like the worst boyfriend if she saw me cry, because it is a burden I wish to carry alone, and projecting it to her is a nightmare. But that’s what couples do, they help each other. Even if she hasn’t seen me cry, she fixes so much, just by being my gf. And I guess what I’m trying to say is, don’t be scared to share with your lover, they (should) support you through hell and back. That doesn’t necessarily mean vent and give all you hold, because a load to shoulder makes us human. But they should be able to know if you at least know they’re there to help. Love to you all, my girl, and the creator for making this known. Thanks for reading, have a great day or night. ❤❤
this js happened to me and all of these are right which makes me even more sad bc ppl know what someone goes through after this yet they ignore u and dont check on u.
My bf got with another girl 2 hours after breaking up with me and literally saying “it’s not you or anyone else” and then I asked one of his friends about it and he said that this new girl was the entire reason he broke up with me
Yeah my relationship lasted a year and she broke up with me and said the next day how much she’s inlove with someone, she also was cheating on me and I’m way over her now but I have no one to support me because she stole all my friends
"Hurting people easily like throwing a stone in the sea but you don't know how deep it goes" Also I lost my GF for a trivial reason she was a substitute for my friend from 2017 I lost 💔😭😭
also talking to someone else to try and get over them but it never works cause u realise that they didnt love you and that you’ll never find someone quite like them
When I found out my gf was cheating on me with my EX BEST FRIEND (ex is because he knew we were dating and still dated her) and I did all of this but I could only hold my tears for so long. I was mid sentence with my friends and I burst out crying. Luckily, they were good friends and knew what happened and tried to comfort me. That is why friends help the most with breakups. The rest of the day we talked about her being a dirty little hoe, slut, and whore. She also tried getting back with me after that and I said “bros before hoes” and walked away. Also, in misery business (a song made by paramore) it says “second chances, they don’t ever matter people never change. Once a whore your nothing more I’m sorry that’ll never change.” And that hit deep…😢
My bf broke up with me he is dating my ex best friend but they were holding hands like at school but I don’t care cuz I don’t like him anymore or love him anymore
This is so true... But is for girls and boys it was a hard time when my gf broke up with me I wouldn't stop crying and till this day I still thinking about her I still have feelings for her but I wish her the best to find a better man but I still love her😞😞😞😞😞😞😞
Awe I’m sorry you had to experience that but look on the bright side I’m sure there’s another girl who would be with you forever and love u the way u are, and I know it’s hard to move on from the girl u really loved but you just gotta let it go sometimes and move on and being with the new person one day just wait patiently and u will get thru it:D
The guy I left everyone for who ever did anything good for me broke up with me over text and said I was to mentally disabled to date him because of my disorder. He came back after an hour or two begging for my forgiveness and to get back together. I told him that being with a guy like him went against my values and he told me "Im going to jump off a bridge since you dont like me anymore". Because of that I told him i would get back with him, but he said that we should just be friends for a bit till we decide to date again. After this he 1. Ghosted me. 2. Spread rumors about me to my whole school about my disorder. 3. Tried to place a restraining order on me when I tried to talk to him to make sure he wouldnt jump off of a bridge. Now its been six months and i couldnt be happier with my new life.
that's litterally me like i didn't tell it to any friends and not even my parents and ye, cried many times but still told ppl i'm fine every time they asked
That’s so true. But it’s not just for boys. It’s for girls too. Some girls open up about things and are vulnerable, but that’s not always the case. When I had a heartbreak, I would not let anybody see or know I was crying. I didn’t tell anyone, not even my parents because I didn’t want to be a burden to them with my problems. It can go both ways.
Nobody ever said that it's for boys only. It's for both genders, but they were just pointing out the hints that boys probably give, because, in my experience, girls will show it more that they just had a breakup
These are boys. Be real men and accept it. My ex and i arent together but we still keep it civil. Were still good friends, she couldnt have kids and knew how much i wanted them. She nearly passed away giving birth to her ex husband . Had 3 life saving surgeries and has a ill father to take care of. So if yoyr hurting just reflect on her pain and feelings if you really care about her.
My gf broke up with me 6 days ago and i still cry at night thinking about her she would always say that i never had to worry about her breaking up with me too
My girlfriend, shazz we've been 2 years of relationship, I can't just over it, his attitude is just so crazy, so that she sweard to me, and said that "I am cheating on you." like I loved him for 2 years, and exchange me some attitude it happened on 2am.
My girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend and she did it with him that broke me mentally but it was hard to focus when people were talking me cause I kept thinking about her cheating and it is hard but crying won’t do anything but make you look weak this is absolutely relatable.
Exactly like mine, I heard rumours in my class he never liked me so I tried to find an excuse to “break up with him”, so I did to see his reaction and he said “I’m free!” And now he doesn’t look sad, (it’s been 4 weeks) he’s happy with his friends and I miss him so much
@@Empress1111 bro this ain’t bout opinions normally we would celebrate sometimes but if you see a about girls vid y’all say we weren’t talkin bout boys so I’m just stating the facts and i Better not get jumped by little kids for saying that
I’m a girl and my girlfriend broke up with me yesterday because someone dared her to. She was so shitty and i have some tips for anyone going through the same thing: -Cry, let it out, feel everything. -Get in the shower and just let your emotions out, put Heather by Conan Gray on and just let everything go -don’t overthink it. You don’t have to get over them just yet. -you don’t need a rebound person. Don’t focus on Making them jealous *yet*, give yourself time to process:) I love you so much, and you’re worth everything. I spent around two hours crying yesterday while she was busy hooking up with someone else. ❤❤ we do recover and it WILL get better I promise you
This is so true 😞 had a breakup yesterday with my gf that i knew for 4 years. Not once have i showed emotion to anyone about it. Its just so hard idk what to do.
We were dating for 8 months. He moved away because his parents wanted to be closer to family. He hasn’t even been in school for 2 weeks and he has a new girlfriend. Like Olivia Rodrigo says, “You didn’t cheat but you’re still a traitor”
My girlfriend broke up with me and I didn’t want to feel weak and I was so sad and I went to school like nothing happened and I didn’t want to bother anyone so I pushed it down and cried without tears
Today I broke me and my boyfriend broke up and he was walking in the hall and I saw him I thought he was crying so I asked him if he was okay and he looked at me he had tears running down his face and he said he was fine
It's true, we cry in silence because we don't want anyone to think we are weak, but guys, it's not good, even if you manage to keep these feelings down, sooner or later, you will break down, so, some advice, cry, cry until you can't cry anymore, and don't hold back in front of anyone.
1. Sit there and think of things we could have done different 2. Cry 3. Struggle with depression 4. Wonder when the right girl will come 5. Spend more time with the boys
It’s been 2 years and we’re both freshmen now but sometimes it’s still hurts to see her with another guy, after she broke up with me I told her I’d always be there for her, and after 2 years someone is spreading rumors about her and her new boyfriend and I wasn’t going to put up with that kind of disrespect so I sat with them at my football game even though I was technically supposed to be with the team. so to any women that read this comment, when a guy tells you that he will always be there for you no matter what, through thick and through thin, he means it
The hardest part is that I know he is hurting just as much as I am. And we used to be each others lifeline when we were hurting. But he ended it and I know I am totally powerless in being able to make either of us happier. And much as I want to, I will never bring him joy or comfort again
I lost my first relationship in May we were together almost 3 years, I wish him the best I do and he didn’t want to tell anyone we broke up.. But the next day his 3 best friends walked up to me and said he was in the wrong and they said he lost me and I was someone who loved him and it showed. They were mad and still are mad at him, and stopped talking to him for some time now. They said I deserved better. The next day I am in my first class and one of the professors wants to take us on a trip we do so and as we get their he says I like this girl ( let’s name her Amy) everyone is in complete shock and that night theirs a party and he says Amy do you like me? Amy says no sorry someone told me your a snake until you bite. One of his friends had told her that so he cried at the party. Now we are still friends but he acts like nothing happened and everyone is totally on my side. He blamed it on his parents saying he couldn’t be with me. And even today I still am hurt and he said if we ever do happen again we can’t tell anyone. And I said well I am gonna have to tell my best-friend, he says no. The convo didn’t really last after that we just forgot. But he left me heartbroken and in pieces and a total mess for weeks and months after. I still miss him, but I think I might have just found someone else
He never gave me a single flower., never ever taken me to a date . I'm the one planning dinner together with him but he'd never initiate, I told him him thousand times how much I love movies he promised multiple times he'd take me to movies but he never did , he himself said we'll go to 'Ooty' now that I tell him almost every day that I want to go there he doesn't show any interest., he never tried to make me happy never tried to do the things I like. See I don't want these things I have zero greed in these things but " just because I don't want them he won't do any single thing for me?, " because when we love someone we think of them all the time , what they like what they don't and we do things just to show them how much we love them and just to see how they light up with our one small gesture.When we love it's always "me before you ❤️" or with you .
I have been through a breakup and I can say that all of these are true I didn’t want to open up or show how broken I was because I was scared of getting hurt again or being judged.
My boyfriend broke up with me over text today saying “my mum said I can’t date anyone.” an hour later he’s dating his best friend’s sister……..acting like we were nether together,throwing the 2 months of our relationship down the drain….i kinda realised like now that..I already have fallen for someone else 😂
After losing friends so much over time and losing love after love, you get used to it and move on quicker, I speak from experience. It feels fine but you also feel like it shouldn’t be…
He and i did some not ok stuff to each other after the break up. He hurt me and humiliated me bad after the breakup. I remember asking a friend that was coworkers with him if he ever seemed to care about the breakup and she said he seems fine like nothing ever happened. That broke me. I think one of the things that suck most about breakups is that u spend so much time loving this person that they’re like ur best friend but then u look at their actions and wonder if it was all one sided.
I loved him. I did. But then he started to go and spend more time with her then with me. It hurts so bad. Even though we broke up like 3 month’s ago .🤕
My boyfriend is the complete opposite. He did everyone of these. I’m the one that was doing these never want to show my emotions or any of that. And I said I was fine, but I never was.
a dates this girl when for like 2 years during 5-6 grade. She broke up with me in January of 2022. I shoved down my feelings and did not care about them until 2 years later. I am now in 8th grade and she is in my middle school. She is so beautiful my feelings for her have come back. I cant stand seeing her now every day
Even though it's sad it's true and I have been through all five, no it's not healthy but guys just don't want to burden or show weakness. It's more of a burden to show our weakness, and the response we get the most is something like walk it off or be a man or even grow up. And that's the sad truth. Just never think about suicide it makes things a whole lot worse. Best of luck to all men.
Guys if anyone is going through a rough time come and reply to my chat and I’ll pray for anyone bc I’ve been suffering a lot after my ex left me and I haven’t felt the same and she left me since the first day of summer break 😭😭😔💔
“Crying doesn’t mean your weak, it means you have been strong for too long”.
This is so true
ngl i cant even cry anymore i used to when my parents hit me and shit but now i dont and i was 7 back then and i have never cried ever again I CANT EVEN FCKIN CRY OR VENT TO ANYONE IM SUCH A DISGRACE
@@Aspire_15 don’t think like that man that was in the past move on you will be okay I’m praying for you 🙏
My sensitive bitch alarm is going off
I lost my friend... And i will never forget how i got betrayed by my own friend that i was loyal to
"Pain doesn't heal us, it teach us how to live in pain"
-itachi
Bro I'm. With you
Yea. Agreed. That about sums up my life rn😅
🥲
Bro speaking facts
I still see you're shadows in my room
(start chain here)
Itachi uchiha😢
🙂he moved on with a new girl......after saying I'll never be replaced and here I'm having sleeping disorders, having panic attack every second☮️after all these still hoping he will come back
I can understand we're suffering the exact condition girl 🙂 he told me that he'll never be able to love someone again but just 1 week after our breakup I saw his instagram page he is with someone new 💔 and here I am... not able to move on and just like dumb girl I am waiting for him... that maybe someday he'll come back.
I broke up today😄...........wait thats not actually that happy........😐.......
😓
Me too, I saw him with his new gf and I started hyperventilating
just focus on ur career not others
Everyone is not same
I am still waiting for her to return ❤
"Were not friends, were not enemies, were just strangers with Memories."
❤
yeahhhh shit...I missed him
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 he loves and hates me at the same time 😔 I love him😢.....
Thanks alot u just made me tear up
thank you for making me take the hardest pill I have to swallow again.
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Akunna, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is Father Akunna, he has great powers, he can help you.
I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked Father Akunna online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤
This really tested my patience 😂
Edit: I'm famous
lol relatable
tell me about it!
This video: 🌊🌊🌊
@@excitingelle4674 omg so tru
FR
The only person I honestly cared about just left me and cut me off. I honestly acted like I didn’t need her. I said things about her that were wrong to not seem weak. I’m dying inside. I wish she could come back
Awe sorry to hear that she doesn’t deserve you one day there’s someone out there waiting for you to be together with them it’s just takes time and you’ll move on soon ur strong u can get thru it I have faith in u
I have the same thing just happened to me. we are still friends, but i really want him back. i’ve cried for 5 days straight and i’ve been praying for him to come back, and i know he won’t.
@@-L-I-L-Y- Honestly I did the same crying for like a month 😂 I mean I still hurt and miss her rllyyyy bad but I realized maybe it’s for the best. It’s just hard to let go all the memories we made
@@SparkZOfficial1 yeah, i agree. i hope you’re doing better now.
@@-L-I-L-Y- still in horrible pain but I am 😅 Wish you the best of luck cause Ik it’s hard 🫶
he gave me so much stress and anxiety over the stupidest stuff and yet i still can go back to him an instant. why you ask… he made me smile when i was going thru a breakup.
1. crying in silence is way better then breaking out with people around.
2. no one cares if we are ok or not its a cruel world.
3. no one to listen to our broken heart or mind.
4. u lose when u show your weakness keep your heads up and be strong.
5. we got more responsibilities keep up the act and move on brothers.
Respect for the reasonable answers. I'm going to be honest, I wish 5 was as easy as you said
i’ve always pretended like i’m fine. it’s become normal for me. i feel like i should be sad but im not
❤
When my girlfriend broke up with me I was devastated but did not mention it to anyone because I did not want to bother them with my problems and be shamed
aww i’m sorry. i’m always here if you need
Fr feel u
Going through it now. Bf broke up with me last night
@@laquantiscoker4302 i am so so so so so sorry. i’m always here if you need anything and i’ll be praying for you
I agree with everything you just said
They get into other relationships and act like it’s fine and then they ask you out again and say they changed
I 100 percent agree
Some boys doesn't care if they broke a girl's heart😢💔
Facts
For real
And that's when karma hits them
same with girls my friend
Right all boys are same my ex bf broke my heart so badly
Pain is a universal thing we all feel it it just hits harder sometimes. -NF.
Hey guys, I’m in eight grade. I’ve had feelings for this one girl since I was in 6 grade. She is amazing. Me and her have liked eachother on and off, but yesterday I think it ended for good. She texted me that she needs space from me, and I cried in my sleep. This was my first heartbreak. I know a lot of you guys don’t care about this, but I just wanted to share with someone. Thank you.
Bro that's so sad
It’s sad how people expect men to take the emotional damage of a breakup like it’s nothing, I found out my girlfriend cheated on me and she broke up with me because I “didn’t try to win her back”. Looking back on it she was super abusive and toxic. I remember after the break up I was playing video games in my room so people wouldn’t see me cry. My homies then we’re let in by my mom (bless her) and They took me out to do a bunch of fun stuff like going to a movie, getting junk food, and hanging out at a fort we built by a creek when we were 10. Their efforts to make me happy helped me cope with the break up. I’m so glad I have my friends, it’s like brotherhood between me and my friends. (:
Ur gf is a massive L nobody deserves her glad ur having fun with ur friends bro.
You had good friends. With some male friend groups they can literally laugh at you for being cheated on or getting dumped.
i need ur friends bro, im aboutta go through one
@@DeltaPlayzRBLX dang man, if you need to talk I’m always open, I’ll respond as soon as I see the comment
My girlfriend just broke up with me yesterday. I wish my homies were here to get me through it. All of them but one left me about a month ago
My girlfriend broke up with me at school right after first period and laid my head down and cried in silence the rest of the week
sorry about that
I'm sorry you went through that
,same
My girlfriend broke up with me at the end of the day in a note. And I found out she might have liked her friend and they might have been dating when we were dating.
Me too 😭😭😭😭💔
1.cry
2.cry
3.cry
4.act like ain’t nothing happend
5.Silence for 1-4 weeks
I’m a boy😢
That’s what I did
Same bro this is happened to me 😢😢😢 I also cried alone
That is so reliable that when I have been broken up those 5 things happen 😢. I never tell my friends these things because I don’t wanna my friends to see me sad or anyone to see when I’m sad.😔
I am a guy, and I’d like to say. Most of this, is an anyway thing. Dudes can’t help but feel the need to be the strong, ideal man they want to be, or are “supposed” to be. My girlfriend has never seen me cry, most she has seen is see me near my breaking point. And I never want that, I’d feel like the worst boyfriend if she saw me cry, because it is a burden I wish to carry alone, and projecting it to her is a nightmare. But that’s what couples do, they help each other. Even if she hasn’t seen me cry, she fixes so much, just by being my gf. And I guess what I’m trying to say is, don’t be scared to share with your lover, they (should) support you through hell and back. That doesn’t necessarily mean vent and give all you hold, because a load to shoulder makes us human. But they should be able to know if you at least know they’re there to help.
Love to you all, my girl, and the creator for making this known. Thanks for reading, have a great day or night. ❤❤
this js happened to me and all of these are right which makes me even more sad bc ppl know what someone goes through after this yet they ignore u and dont check on u.
dude i had such a good relationship
me too . cherish things while they last ..
My bf got with another girl 2 hours after breaking up with me and literally saying “it’s not you or anyone else” and then I asked one of his friends about it and he said that this new girl was the entire reason he broke up with me
That happened to me too but he broke up with me and immediately got with her
𝚖𝚎 𝚝𝚘𝚘 😢
Yeah my relationship lasted a year and she broke up with me and said the next day how much she’s inlove with someone, she also was cheating on me and I’m way over her now but I have no one to support me because she stole all my friends
Me too but I broke up w him then with in an HOUR he got with the girl he said not to worry abt
Oop
"Hurting people easily like throwing a stone in the sea but you don't know how deep it goes"
Also I lost my GF for a trivial reason she was a substitute for my friend from 2017 I lost 💔😭😭
also talking to someone else to try and get over them but it never works cause u realise that they didnt love you and that you’ll never find someone quite like them
my daughter got broken up with today and her ex acted like she was a stranger to him
dang am 13 am nice person
My ex do it today to me I am in stress but I try to nothing happened it is so hard
@@Malika-fk9sb u good
@@abe22367 my ex is a fuckin bitch even tho I try and reason with her it always ends with a fuck you 🤷♂️
When I found out my gf was cheating on me with my EX BEST FRIEND (ex is because he knew we were dating and still dated her) and I did all of this but I could only hold my tears for so long. I was mid sentence with my friends and I burst out crying. Luckily, they were good friends and knew what happened and tried to comfort me. That is why friends help the most with breakups. The rest of the day we talked about her being a dirty little hoe, slut, and whore. She also tried getting back with me after that and I said “bros before hoes” and walked away. Also, in misery business (a song made by paramore) it says “second chances, they don’t ever matter people never change. Once a whore your nothing more I’m sorry that’ll never change.” And that hit deep…😢
Listen to runaround sue by dion, that's my cheating song, that little whore cheated on me with a guy from school
No one helped me with my break up with my best friend which I knew for 5 years
@@urboy_12 im sorry and i hope you moved on🙂🙂
My bf broke up with me he is dating my ex best friend but they were holding hands like at school but I don’t care cuz I don’t like him anymore or love him anymore
This is so true... But is for girls and boys it was a hard time when my gf broke up with me I wouldn't stop crying and till this day I still thinking about her I still have feelings for her but I wish her the best to find a better man but I still love her😞😞😞😞😞😞😞
Awe I’m sorry you had to experience that but look on the bright side I’m sure there’s another girl who would be with you forever and love u the way u are, and I know it’s hard to move on from the girl u really loved but you just gotta let it go sometimes and move on and being with the new person one day just wait patiently and u will get thru it:D
The guy I left everyone for who ever did anything good for me
broke up with me over text and said I was to mentally disabled to date him because of my disorder. He came back after an hour or two begging for my forgiveness and to get back together. I told him that being with a guy like him went against my values and he told me "Im going to jump off a bridge since you dont like me anymore". Because of that I told him i would get back with him, but he said that we should just be friends for a bit till we decide to date again. After this he 1. Ghosted me. 2. Spread rumors about me to my whole school about my disorder. 3. Tried to place a restraining order on me when I tried to talk to him to make sure he wouldnt jump off of a bridge. Now its been six months and i couldnt be happier with my new life.
As a girl who just went through a break up I still love him and we are always gonna wait for eachother In the future
that's litterally me
like i didn't tell it to any friends and not even my parents
and ye, cried many times but still told ppl i'm fine every time they asked
Someone:I want my girlfriend back😢
Me:nah it's fine I can get another girl😈
That’s so true. But it’s not just for boys. It’s for girls too. Some girls open up about things and are vulnerable, but that’s not always the case. When I had a heartbreak, I would not let anybody see or know I was crying. I didn’t tell anyone, not even my parents because I didn’t want to be a burden to them with my problems. It can go both ways.
When my ex ended things with me I did those exact things 😢😢
Am girl and i cry in silence and i did same things
Nobody ever said that it's for boys only. It's for both genders, but they were just pointing out the hints that boys probably give, because, in my experience, girls will show it more that they just had a breakup
For real same I’m making up lies to make it seem like I’m fine when in reality I fricking hate it so much
being a boy is not harder or easier than being a girl
These are boys. Be real men and accept it. My ex and i arent together but we still keep it civil.
Were still good friends, she couldnt have kids and knew how much i wanted them.
She nearly passed away giving birth to her ex husband .
Had 3 life saving surgeries and has a ill father to take care of.
So if yoyr hurting just reflect on her pain and feelings if you really care about her.
My gf broke up with me 6 days ago and i still cry at night thinking about her she would always say that i never had to worry about her breaking up with me too
My girlfriend, shazz we've been 2 years of relationship, I can't just over it, his attitude is just so crazy, so that she sweard to me, and said that "I am cheating on you." like I loved him for 2 years, and exchange me some attitude it happened on 2am.
My girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend and she did it with him that broke me mentally but it was hard to focus when people were talking me cause I kept thinking about her cheating and it is hard but crying won’t do anything but make you look weak this is absolutely relatable.
How are you doing now? My girlfriend also went for my best friend which literally mentally destroyed me. I'm not in a good place now.
Now thats truely the worst way a friend can betray you
Like people say true enemies are better then fake friends
That true mine also same bro😢😢
Exactly like mine, I heard rumours in my class he never liked me so I tried to find an excuse to “break up with him”, so I did to see his reaction and he said “I’m free!” And now he doesn’t look sad, (it’s been 4 weeks) he’s happy with his friends and I miss him so much
"In your highest moment , the devil comes for you" - wise person
10 years ended yesterday…
i am so incredibly sorry. if you need anything, i’m always here ❤
just now that yall are loved
Girls can feel the same way
Tbh we weren’t talking about girls right?
@Yoaveragemonkey well your not the only one in this comment section. I think your Opinion is not the only one that matters!
@@Empress1111 bro this ain’t bout opinions normally we would celebrate sometimes but if you see a about girls vid y’all say we weren’t talkin bout boys so I’m just stating the facts and i Better not get jumped by little kids for saying that
@@Empress1111and since when did I state my opinion?
@Yoaveragemonkey when you said you weren't talking about girls
brothers, it’s not worth crying over. they come and go. don’t chase butterfly’s, build a beautiful garden to attract them.
Thanks bro, my girlfriend told me today that she doesn't love me anymore. I really needed to see this.😢
Same bro jeasus loves u bro u r the literal best
Thanks my girl said she love her ex more Behind my back i trusted her
@@JulioANAYA-ks8yh exactly what happend with me I just wasn't brave enough to say it because I was scared to be bullied about it.
As a boy who had a breakup yesterday can confirm all of these
as a broken hurt guy that brokeup with my gf i can relate to this i act like i aint crying telling people im fine and good
I’m a girl and my girlfriend broke up with me yesterday because someone dared her to. She was so shitty and i have some tips for anyone going through the same thing:
-Cry, let it out, feel everything.
-Get in the shower and just let your emotions out, put Heather by Conan Gray on and just let everything go
-don’t overthink it. You don’t have to get over them just yet.
-you don’t need a rebound person. Don’t focus on Making them jealous *yet*, give yourself time to process:)
I love you so much, and you’re worth everything. I spent around two hours crying yesterday while she was busy hooking up with someone else. ❤❤ we do recover and it WILL get better I promise you
@@CuteCat-x7jbisexual
Wow that seems like me every day... And I'm not even a boy
This is so true 😞 had a breakup yesterday with my gf that i knew for 4 years. Not once have i showed emotion to anyone about it. Its just so hard idk what to do.
I know you comment that a while ago but I’m sorry that happened to you. I hope you’re doing better
We were dating for 8 months.
He moved away because his parents wanted to be closer to family. He hasn’t even been in school for 2 weeks and he has a new girlfriend.
Like Olivia Rodrigo says, “You didn’t cheat but you’re still a traitor”
Bro is stalking me 😔
I just cried because I'm not weak, I've been strong for so so long.
My girlfriend broke up with me and I didn’t want to feel weak and I was so sad and I went to school like nothing happened and I didn’t want to bother anyone so I pushed it down and cried without tears
I did too it hurts just start talking to friends and family and then get through it I’ll pray for you
Today I broke me and my boyfriend broke up and he was walking in the hall and I saw him I thought he was crying so I asked him if he was okay and he looked at me he had tears running down his face and he said he was fine
😢he’s not
I am sorry to say but this is true😞
I just went through a break up and this is exactly what I’m feeling rn…
we aren’t friends we don’t talk,we aren’t enemies we don’t talk abt each other,we are strangers with memories that can’t be erased.
Bro men and women are in this
Together so there is no shame in it u just want to be strong and sometimes the strongest thing to do is to aseapt it
I just feel woman are
mentally stronger than men
It's true, we cry in silence because we don't want anyone to think we are weak, but guys, it's not good, even if you manage to keep these feelings down, sooner or later, you will break down, so, some advice, cry, cry until you can't cry anymore, and don't hold back in front of anyone.
The worst part of a relationship is the end but the good times hurt the most.
“Tears don’t prove you weak, it shows your pain.”
1. Sit there and think of things we could have done different
2. Cry
3. Struggle with depression
4. Wonder when the right girl will come
5. Spend more time with the boys
👍
It’s been 2 years and we’re both freshmen now but sometimes it’s still hurts to see her with another guy, after she broke up with me I told her I’d always be there for her, and after 2 years someone is spreading rumors about her and her new boyfriend and I wasn’t going to put up with that kind of disrespect so I sat with them at my football game even though I was technically supposed to be with the team. so to any women that read this comment, when a guy tells you that he will always be there for you no matter what, through thick and through thin, he means it
You’re never the same after. I know because I’ve been dealing with the sadness for 2 years. I don’t cry anymore, because I trust no one.
The past can hurt, but the way I see it you can ethier run from it, or learn from it
-lion king
Ik this is supposed to be sad but....
The "Put the phone away" got me
The hardest part is that I know he is hurting just as much as I am. And we used to be each others lifeline when we were hurting. But he ended it and I know I am totally powerless in being able to make either of us happier. And much as I want to, I will never bring him joy or comfort again
I lost my first relationship in May we were together almost 3 years, I wish him the best I do and he didn’t want to tell anyone we broke up.. But the next day his 3 best friends walked up to me and said he was in the wrong and they said he lost me and I was someone who loved him and it showed. They were mad and still are mad at him, and stopped talking to him for some time now. They said I deserved better. The next day I am in my first class and one of the professors wants to take us on a trip we do so and as we get their he says I like this girl ( let’s name her Amy) everyone is in complete shock and that night theirs a party and he says Amy do you like me? Amy says no sorry someone told me your a snake until you bite. One of his friends had told her that so he cried at the party. Now we are still friends but he acts like nothing happened and everyone is totally on my side. He blamed it on his parents saying he couldn’t be with me. And even today I still am hurt and he said if we ever do happen again we can’t tell anyone. And I said well I am gonna have to tell my best-friend, he says no. The convo didn’t really last after that we just forgot. But he left me heartbroken and in pieces and a total mess for weeks and months after. I still miss him, but I think I might have just found someone else
and yep prob got a while
That’s true, especially when it was your biggest crush you dated then you lost her it really hits you😢
They also be hittin the gym like crazy
we broke up ages ago but i still cant get her out of my mind
I start crying on such a small thing 😭😭
He never gave me a single flower., never ever taken me to a date . I'm the one planning dinner together with him but he'd never initiate, I told him him thousand times how much I love movies he promised multiple times he'd take me to movies but he never did , he himself said we'll go to 'Ooty' now that I tell him almost every day that I want to go there he doesn't show any interest., he never tried to make me happy never tried to do the things I like. See I don't want these things I have zero greed in these things but " just because I don't want them he won't do any single thing for me?, " because when we love someone we think of them all the time , what they like what they don't and we do things just to show them how much we love them and just to see how they light up with our one small gesture.When we love it's always "me before you ❤️" or with you .
He doesn’t have to give you a flower or a date 😂😂😂
I'm a girl and that.....I can understand alot idk if any other girls can but it hurts
I have been through a breakup and I can say that all of these are true
I didn’t want to open up or show how broken I was because I was scared of getting hurt again or being judged.
My boyfriend broke up with me over text today saying “my mum said I can’t date anyone.” an hour later he’s dating his best friend’s sister……..acting like we were nether together,throwing the 2 months of our relationship down the drain….i kinda realised like now that..I already have fallen for someone else 😂
Thank u so much I'm in a tough time right now so this helps alot😭
After losing friends so much over time and losing love after love, you get used to it and move on quicker, I speak from experience. It feels fine but you also feel like it shouldn’t be…
he just broke up with me and he was all for me idk what to do now and im crying watching this ....
He and i did some not ok stuff to each other after the break up. He hurt me and humiliated me bad after the breakup. I remember asking a friend that was coworkers with him if he ever seemed to care about the breakup and she said he seems fine like nothing ever happened. That broke me. I think one of the things that suck most about breakups is that u spend so much time loving this person that they’re like ur best friend but then u look at their actions and wonder if it was all one sided.
I loved him. I did. But then he started to go and spend more time with her then with me. It hurts so bad. Even though we broke up like 3 month’s ago .🤕
“Love never fails, so if it fails, it was never love”
My boyfriend is the complete opposite. He did everyone of these. I’m the one that was doing these never want to show my emotions or any of that. And I said I was fine, but I never was.
"It hurts more to loose someone you know more then your self"
Pain is the path to a full recovery when allowing it!⏰👍✔️
i feel bad for them it obviously hurts them too but they are too scared to express it or even let themselves feel it😢
I’ve been through this before and trust me everything that is said is true
a dates this girl when for like 2 years during 5-6 grade. She broke up with me in January of 2022. I shoved down my feelings and did not care about them until 2 years later. I am now in 8th grade and she is in my middle school. She is so beautiful my feelings for her have come back. I cant stand seeing her now every day
Legends after breakup :vibe with friends❤
Damn this is so real. I just listen to sad love songs and cry. Its getting better tho so its fine.
A broken heart💔 cant be fixed
Even though it's sad it's true and I have been through all five, no it's not healthy but guys just don't want to burden or show weakness. It's more of a burden to show our weakness, and the response we get the most is something like walk it off or be a man or even grow up. And that's the sad truth. Just never think about suicide it makes things a whole lot worse. Best of luck to all men.
If anyone cry’s it doesn’t mean they’re weak it means they hold on for to long
OMG! I got back with my crush❤❤ I am 😭 crying with Happiness!
It happened on Monday to Wednesday, I liked her but rejected.and this video,showed girls/women how fragile's man's heart
that exactly what I did when I lost 2 of my bffs and my bf.
It is truly true😢
We have all felt this before. This is what some women don't understand. We have feeling we just push them away to save room for theres no matter what.
how i did it:
1:cry
2:act like im ok
3:cry
4:cry
5:give up and move on
Why is this true 😔 happened to my older brother and I tried to help, knowing something happened but he kept saying he was fine (he clearly wasn't)
Happy men’s mental health awareness week(edit Ik I was a bit late srry)
Guys if anyone is going through a rough time come and reply to my chat and I’ll pray for anyone bc I’ve been suffering a lot after my ex left me and I haven’t felt the same and she left me since the first day of summer break 😭😭😔💔
Pray for me gang i broke up with my girl and its been really stressful for me
I got you brother no one should be suffering like that I got you brother