where I've been the last 9 months | what happened to me (and where I'm going)
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- where I've been the last 9 months | what happened to me (and where I'm going)
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Thank you for being patient with me after all these months! Hope you enjoyed this update. Let me know below, what are your current challenges and questions?
Glad that your husband is doing better and that you were able to be there for him and your children. Thank you for sharing your vulnerabilities, helps me to not feel so alone. Post COVID has been tough for us all. I can relate to putting myself behind others. It’s a back and forth process for taking care of self. Thank you for this message.
Happy to see you back Linda. I encourage you to stay strong and positive throughout the life challenges that you've been experiencing! God is great! Nothing impossible in his eyes! Please trust God and pour all of your challenges before God, He will make path for you and Your family! Once again, Happy to see you. I was surprised to see your e mail after long time! God is good!
I have dealt with this all my life ia m 60 + ,then I have no opinion because iam a gen X. Thanks for this video and iam sharing rdthis with my son since he's struggling with something. Thanks for being your authentic self ❤. Iam greatful for your input on life. I loo forward to seeing your next video on helping us people ti get our better life with a better job to be really happy🎉 to contribute to this world !
Thank you so much to share with us, i send you a huge hug, blessing and love for You and your family🤗❤️❤️❤️
"There is no time to waste being INAUTHENTIC TO WHO WE ARE. " PREACH!🙌🏽🎯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🫶🏾
Only seeing this now. I am so sorry Linda and thank God that he made your husband better...he was able to give you strength to support him. May he continue to see him and your family through.
You changed my life in 2018, when i discovered your channel. I got to be confident about my approcah when it comes to interview and that was all because of you. Thank you so much and i pray for better for you.
Thank you for sharing Linda, these are powerful messages!
Wow! God is good!!! I'm so happy you're husband is better and well. God bless you and your family for pulling through such a test! 🎉🙏🏾🥰💯 Thank you for sharing your testimony. Thank you so very much for all of your helpful videos on interviews. I've no doubt gotten my current job 4 years ago with your lessons. I have another interview today for an internal position within the company and came right to your page for a brush up. May you and your family continue to be blessed and remain steadfast. I appreciate you. ❤🙏🏾🥰💯💪🏽💪🏽🔥🔥⚘️⚘️⚘️⚘️
May God continue to bless you and your husband. 🙏🏾
Hi Linda. I’m so sorry hear about your husband’s diagnosis 😢. I work as a clinical research coordinator for cancer and see patients on study trials and see how difficult it can be for them to go through a lot that can change their lives. I hope all the best for you and your family!
You are truly one of a kind. Thank you for sharing your story. Praying for your husband’s complete healing. I couldn’t agree with you more when you discuss personal satisfaction comes from doing the work to be truly authentic. You have always done a great job at coaching and offering your expertise but your story of resilience is even more inspiring.
Thank you for sharing your story and learnings. I'm so sorry to hear about your husband's diagnosis, but glad to hear he is doing well, and how well you've progressed with healing. ❤
Very sorry to hear this. I will pray for you 2.🙏
So excited to see you back! I'm a highly sensitive person too, and understand so much! Wonderful to know that your husband has recovered, and that you've been on this challenging but amazing healing journey. Really happy to see you back :)
All the best to you and your family Linda. As a new mom myself, I admire your bravery and strength ❤
Thanks for sharing, Linda, your videos were very instrumental in getting me through a very difficult phase in my career (executive level) a few years ago. The work you did really impacted a family of five and to this day, I am very grateful for the work you have done and continue to do. I hope you continue to take time for yourself and sharpen the saw as in the words from Dave Covey and continue to thrive...
Oh Linda - thank you so much for sharing this openly with us all. I can only imagine how difficult this time was for you and your husband. There's so much that goes on behind the scenes of creator life, and I have no doubt how grateful he was to have you by his side during this time. Sending you so much love!
Dear Linda, Keeping you and your husband in my prayers. I'm going through some rather difficulty challenges and I love the pearls of wisdom you have shared. Please continue to share whatever you are being guided to share with the world; for I do feel as though you are being Divinely guided to do so. I salute you for staying true to your true authentic self. May God continue to bless and keep you and yours in the palms of his hands.....
You're so brave and thank you for sharing sage advice. Bless you, and your family! Love your videos and have missed you!
Pray for you and your family. I am a working mom luckily with only one 1-year old. It took a lot of time for me to regain the balance of my life. My healing came from the reading + staying away from phone. I read whenever I have time and it really cured me and eased my tension.
Thanks for sharing Linda. Best of luck to you and your family!
Thanks for sharing. Wishing your family the best!
Hi Linda 🧡At this moment of my life I truly feel that I have to be authentic, especially for myself. Thank you for sharing
I am so happy to have you back !!
I'm sorry about all your husband, you and your family have been going through. Sending you prayers for continued healing and happiness.
I'm still looking for a job Linda 9 months now. I'm glad you're back!
I learned so much from you. I hope everything goes well!
Hi Linda! Miss you so much!! Thx for helping me landing a job3 yrs ago n again last yr😊
Hi Linda,
How are you doing?
Linda I wish you massive amounts of health and love while you are going through this hard part of your life. I want to share with you that one of your videos helped me when I was in a depression during 2020. I lost all parts of my identity during that period and had to find my self worth in a ver hard way. You made a video that helped me see my value. Your videos help so many people I am sure of it. Thankyou for sharing those life lessons. You are such an amazing person.
Wow, I rewatch one video as I have an upcoming interview and came across this video. I’ve been in the spiritually path since felt like forever and this video really resonates with me. To make a long story short, I was so spiritually I didn’t have a structured job and now I’m on bringing my spirituality authentic self along. Thank you for your openness and healing video!
Sending lots of love to you and your husband ❤
Linda, it's nice to see you again and learn from you. I acknowledge you and your husband for being willing to dig deeper into the emotional aspects of his diagnosis. So many layers of healing available within our life challenges. Prayers for you and your family. 🙏🙏 I left corporate and stepped into my authentic vision of my business. It is a daily process to do the inner work to be aligned, authentic, and live from my Soul purpose. So easy to get distracted. Love & blessings to you. ❤
Linda, what a life test you have to take recently. I am sorry for you, but I see you come out with wise, strength, and resilience. You are a warrior, and a survivor! Take care, and keep on going…love you and your family. ❤❤❤❤
Count me in! Approaching retirement but still have so much stress from working as a social worker! So much brokenness in our world. Your take on staying hopeful-I’m a person of faith❤
Hi Julie, do you work with clients online?
I agree with you. I’m learning to stay present, doing my best to care for my loved ones and being intentional with self care. Connecting and being vulnerable is the only way I can journey on. I wish you the best.
I started following you when I was looking for advice on interviewing/negotiating.
I appreciate the authenticity within this video.
I'd also like to believe that hardships come to us because there is some sort of life lesson or perspective we are meant to experience.
Currently struggling with coming to terms with the loss of my sister, it's been a little over a year but I can't seem to really accept it. I've tried to take her life ending as a reason to take my own to the fullest, "waking up", kind of re-realizing how short and precious life really is. Working on getting my own self together.
Don't worry about how "all over the place" this video is, that's how life goes and I'm glad to see someone who is trying to help others with her own experience. I also try to do the same.
As a HSP as well, I agree so much with how much things can affect us whether it is big or small situations. Still trying to figure out what things I let affect me and what things I brush off. This is just one of the challenges I had encounter as I am trying to grow to a better and more authentic person. I honestly love your message about being true to ourselves and everyone often struggles with this.
You emphasis on asking ourselves if we are really comfortable in our own skin especially in situations like work, family, or social gatherings where it can be easy to lose our authentic selves. I have a few questions on this topic:
a) How do you generally define what "comfort" means for an individual?
b) What if my comfort is causing discomfort for others?
c) How do I strike a balance between my comfort and not making others uncomfortable?
Thank you for providing an open platform for questions. I'm eager to hear your insights on this. ❤
Hi Linda, I was going through the same experience when my dad was diagnosed with cancer two years ago. I believe in energetic and emotional healing. Shortly after my dad’s passing, I discovered Gabor Mate’s book When the Body Says No. I wished I discovered his work early so that I can help my dad with his healing. I support you in being your authentic self. Take good care of yourself and wish you all the best 🍀
Thank you for this video Linda and I'm very glad to see you're back on RUclips! I've been working very hard for the past 3.5 years to obtain the qualifications needed for my dream job. Now that I've achieved those qualifications, i find myself in self doubt and scared of actually applying for my dream job. I'm scared that my dream job would reject me. I'm also fearful of the fallout, reactions and judgment from other people when i quit my current terrible job to switch careers to my dream job.
Hello Linda, Your insights actually got me my first job. It is glad to see you back. Trust you are great though. Love you back to back. I am sorry about your husband's medical condition, i hope he feels best soon.
Great video! I am currently struggling with the idea of not being true to myself! Sometimes I feel I am not working enough to fill my cup physically emotionally etc. so I am scared that any life challenge will throw me off.
Hi Linda I followed you not too long ago when I was searching for a new accounting job. I followed your channel immediately because the way you communicate just resonate with me. And I think that your spiritual side is the reason you have the unique way of communication and we were connected through this flow of energy while I was job searching. I am sorry to hear about the life challenges you have been dealing with but I'm more happy that you are able to grow and complete yourself from the challenges. You talked about the need to become our authentic selves and that actually has been going in my mind for a quite a well. While I like my profession (accounting), I dont feel my soul can be truly enriched from doing my job. The thing that could make my soul feel enriched and being my true self is to do painting, discuss subjects around philosophy/literature/humanity,etc. Sometimes I wonder I could have chosen a field that better align with my true passion. I am thinking about exploring more related subjects that to find out my true passion in my free time but my work is busy. On the one hand I do want keep progressing in my accounting career on the other hand I want to discover my true passion (but my true passion may not bring income and I dont even know what I can so with it yet). However my work is busy and I can hardly find time to discover my true passion. This is also why I switched job but turns out the new job also pretty busy. Do you have any advices?
Welcome back, my Englísh Teacher!
Hi Linda,
So sad to hearing this about your husband and hope he will be blessed but great to hearing that you are back. All the best to you all!!!
Hello Linda I was just wondering what you had become you were a great inspiration to me for several years. When I didn't see you, I said to myself that you had given birth as you looked pregnant.
I didn't know that you had been through such a difficult time. I listened to your podcast twice and it really touched me. You are a brave woman I wish you the best! If you need something don't hesitate to get in touch whether it's through a podcast or simply by communicating directly with me. I don't know what I could offer you but in any case I am with you spiritually
So glad to see you come back to RUclips. Happy for your inner change and glad that your husband is doing good now.
I am on my healing journey too and I agree with everything you said about energy, healing, and doing inner work.
It is the second time this week that I see this message/ idea about being my authentic self. I know the universe is telling me it's the next thing I need to work on. I realized the things that are currently bothering me most are partially because I have not been authentic to myself and put myself first. I will keep what you said in mind.
Also, so glad that you are changing your channel into the direction of deeper inner work.
To contribute to maybe some future topics, I would like to share with you my current situation. I did a lot of deep healing but after being enlightened, at the moment for quite a while, I don't really know what I want to do or even what I am. I have some areas that I am certain that I want but I know it's not all of me.
Your video helped me to get my first real Canadian job. And now you are also gearing towards helping people on a deeper level. I really appreciate that. Thank you so much for everything.
Hi Linda, I so respect and am inspired by your story and your newly ongoing outlook that reflects your truest self. And to communicate in your patented warm, sincere, and very presentable style. Though I haven't quite experienced the ongoing threat that you have, I come close, with my 90 year old parents transitioning to assisted living, selling their house, and being a caregiver to help them out after my workday, plus being on call for so many phone calls, doctor's appointments, all grocery shopping and drug store, really endless tasks, and this was all following and near death sepsis infection of my mom and her healing at home for months, I haven't had a break in 3-4 years. I totally get it. You have to lose yourself almost, there's resentment at life, and just shear daily exhaustion. I'm still trying to cope and slowing reclaim my life, but also with a renewed focus on what really matters to me. So I've gotten a better appreciation of life, more perspective, and that's been my lesson. I'm still so "in it", so I'm sure more will come clear over time, and I still have huge unimaginable challenges ahead with my parents mortality. So thank you for sharing your story and perspective, as it helps me a lot. I look forward to future videos by you 😊🙏
I'm also a highly sensitive people. And I'm struggling with my relationship with other people, whether its family, work or friend because I'm always overthinking that I always want an ideal flow of things but I remember someone told me that I also should understand that life is not always ideal, life will not always give you just good things even if you did your best, so yeah, that's the part of my life that I'm struggling. And now I just realized from hearing on this video that maybe when things go rough it's just a challenge for you to learn. And it's up to you if you will learn or another challenge will come, for you to learn again. BTW, thank you so much for bravely sharing all these things to us. You are the reason why I got most of my job and I'm very thankful to you and your videos. May God restore the health of your husband. God bless you and your family.
I lovw your content about career journey
Perfect timing for this for me.. Gods timing...
Take care Linda ❤
Welcome back ❤
Thanks for sharing and more power to you.. Yes similar to what you mentioned I go through this self doubts if I am worthy/capable enough for that promotion, do I have the skills , Can I do more etc.. sometime the darkness hits and make the situation worse.
Thanks Linda for your courage to open yourself to us! For me it was a very meaningful act ❤ I hope you and your family are in a better place now.
I wanna share what I’m struggling with right now. Recently I got divorced, It took me more than a year to execute this decision, for multiple reasons, One of them was not feeling capable of living alone (emotionally and financially), After a month I asked for it, and I got laid off from the company where I worked.
I’ve been looking for a replacement for 5 months now, it is the longest time I’ve been unemployed in my life and it has been a tough time for me. Sometimes I feel losing faith and too tired of looking for a job. I know I have something to learn with this situation, and I’m facing it this way and trying to clarify what I should learn with this challenge.
This video helped me to reflect on the lessons I can take from this situation.
God bless you and your husband!
My current struggle is ,feeling use less myself,I have no value ,not good enough.
In den letzten Jahren habe ich sehr viele gute Empfehlungen von dir gesehen und gehört. Ich habe auch die persönlichen Videos gesehen, wo du im Kreis deiner Familie sehr glücklich warst. Jetzt hast du den Punkt erreicht, an dem du dich wieder an die Öffentlichkeit begibst. Das ist sehr wichtig für dich, denn dein Leben geht weiter. Ich wünsche Dir, dass du die Kraft hast, mit der früheren Energie weiterzumachen. Ich wünsche Dir alles Gute aus Deutschland, ich freue mich auch zukünftig auf deine Veröffentlichungen.
In recent years I have seen and heard very many good recommendations from you. I have also seen the personal videos where you were very happy in the circle of your family. Now you have reached the point where you are going public again. This is very important for you because your life goes on. I wish you that you have the strength to continue with the former energy. I wish you all the best from Germany, I look forward to your publications in the future.
Take care Linda
Very good your history of life
Great experience 👏💯💯👏👏🙏🏾
HSP here. Courage to try the things I truly want and facing fear of judgment.
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True, from self judgement . Best wishes to u and ur husband. 👍
Linda, you need a therapist, a daycare provider, and a masseur…you need to make time to take care of yourself, too. ❤
Im gl6bto share with us your predicament, i hope to hearing good medical results from your husband side.
Where had you been i miss your career strategy ❤
What the enemy means for harm & evil against us, God turns it out for our good.
Hi Mrs.Linda I'm sorry to hear about your husband but so glad he's better .You always engourage and guide our work life.But now we always support you and appreciate your vulnerabilities.🤍🤍🤍
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I am kicking myself because I left a good (but extremely stressful) paying job for one that I don’t enjoy at all. It’s like everything about it says you don’t belong here but I am having trouble determining where I do belong. I left my last job with the intent to start my own business but then that didn’t happen the way I hoped and now I’m just basically working to pay bills. I feel so lost and defeated.
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Linda! OMG! We love you so much. I'm so sorry to hear about your husband. Thanks for sharing your experience. As a mom of 4 children, I know how hard it is to be a full-time mom and run a business, let alone a cancer diagnosis. My father had cancer years ago and it's such a scary road. Your family comes first and nothing else matters. Just know that we in the community love you so much and we know you have the strength to move forward with your family and life. ❤
Sending love and blessings to you and your family.
Thank you for speakimh from your heart Linda, I appreciate your authenticity.
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In life there are circumstances that comes to give us a different perspective of life and how we live it. But the most important thing is how one comes out of it. There's a saying that " life gives us a test which teaches a lesson but education gives us a lesson that we'll be tested on."
I'm happy to hear how, your family's situation has built a courageous woman like you even though it wasn't easy..
I like what you said about energy, which is why people need to know whether they're Christians or non-Christians that things start in the Spiritual realm before it manifests in the Physical realm for example "Job's story explains it best in the Bible."
Another thing it's about"Self-esteem,self- doubt & thinking about what others will say, that's what made "King Saul in the Bible" lose his thorn because of it... which is important to always remember what "King Solomon in the Bible (Proverbs 18:2) said that whether you do good or bad people will always be opinionated about your life decisions.
Sorry to hear about your husband illness. God bless you and your husband. Life will always throw the challenges whenever there is an evil. Evil is nothing but absence of God. When we forget God the evil things take place. Please remember God has made all these five elements in our body, so he has right to take anything. But we can always get courage by chanting / remembering God through gratitude and appreciation. My challenges in life that I did not find my dream job due to lack of confidence and self-doubts leading to procrastinate my execution of efforts. This happens when a person over think and think too much about family, life partner and growing children. So I am trying remove all these blockages created by myself only. Though it is taking time to heal but I am always positive and to remain positive one's energy should not be down. And please remember - Love Heals Everyone.
In the last 9 months my dad was also diagnosed with Liver Cancer and he unfortunately passed away. Due to his illness I have learnt a lot about Cancer please reach out to me if you think I can help.
My mom was by my dad 24*7 in the hospital for 6 months until he passed away so I am so touched listening to this
I struggle with OCD (was diagnosed at 8 years old) and basically I'm haunted by these thoughts that I know nothing and that I might as well remain silent for the rest of my life because I have nothing valuable to add, no opinions, no nothing. I feel like I'm not enough in many aspects as well. It drives me crazy and sucks my energy and will to even live.
Such a powerful story and message. I’ve been a stay at home dad for the last year and half and it has been a struggle emotionally. I know I should see a therapist to unpack a lot of issues from my childhood up to now. I appreciate your perspective on how we need to look inward and not expect the outside world to give us the gratification in order to feel better about ourselves. Thank you for your authenticity.
Wow! That blows me out when hearing that there is always us judging selves not outsiders. I feel so relieved after this. Thanks for sharing your story Linda and I would like to appreciate you more about the insight of that part. Hope all the best to you and your family.
Welcome back Linda. Thanks for sharing your life experiences and happy to know all is better now. Still support and waiting to see your next video ❤
Good to see you love. I was wondering about you. Love your videos. Pray your family is well!!🫶🏾🤎🩷🤎
Hi Linda, strangely enough, I was wondering just 2 days ago, it's been a while I have not received any emails from you, and there it goes, I just got your email today!😊
I have been struggling time to time on fear of judgement , am I performing to the expectations from my new boss and did I say or do somethings that my new colleagues might think otherwise...these feelings come and go like roller coaster ride ever since I left my previous job of 17 years, moving on to new job late last year..your past videos on work/interviews have always been encouraging and inspirational. It was one of the factors I have managed to move out of my comfort zone last year.
And that's why I thought of seeing you and your videos again when I was feeling down just 2 days ago .
*Hugs* to you and your family on this healing journey! ❤️ from far far away in SE Asia..Looking forward to your next video update! Take care
So sorry to hear about your husband Linda. Well done on finding all of the strength to go through this difficult time, I can't even imagine. I lost my Mam to cancer when I was 22, and it's been 8 years, it's been challenging on many different levels. Thanks for sharing your story, it's very inspiring. I relate to being a highly senstive person. I take on a lot and can get overwhelmed, and I thought it was just me! Good to be able to relate to someone else. Looking forward to more videos
I think we need to learn we are worthy. Worthy of being loved, worthy of being chosen for the job. Worthy of good things. Giving us permission to be authentic and not worry about it. Also, praying for you and your husband’s complete healing.
Wishing you and your family the best. You should be proud of what you have done; your a great wife. Your husband and kids are very lucky and blessed to have you in their life. Not everyone is as blessed as they are.
Thanks for sharing ❤ welcome back and we missed you ❤ happy to hear you and your family are doing well ❤
Thank you for sharing your real life experience. May God give his perfect healing for your husband
I’m not typically one to make comments but I can relate to your story. I started following you about a year ago because I had recently went through a separation and was suddenly trying to support my 2 teenagers with a low paying job. Then in the end of Feb 2023 I was diagnosed with cancer so I had to put my job search on hold. I just completed my last chemo and have found that there’s nothing more important than living life in the present. I connect to your message and also decided that I do not have time to waste time living an unauthentic life❤. Best wishes to your husband and your family and thank you for your open and honest conversation.
Thank you for sharing and glad to hear that your husband is doing well. Wishing you and your family all the best. Prayers to your family and healing 🙏🏼
Hi Linda, happy to hear that things are better now and I can understand how challenging it must have been for you and your family! I deeply appreciate how you emphasis on being authentic in the present time! Welcome back 👏
Linda, thank you for helping me land a job last year. You deserve the support! What doesn't kill you will make you stronger.
i found u bc I want change job as Cpa. It is super right on. Now I lost my job. And I can feel I don’t have more room for self doubt and how ppl view me. Super related too! Hope ur husband heal
I’ve been struggling to lose weight even when i workout everyday, so i have stretch marks on my pelvic area. Maybe i have to work on nutrition. Do you have other gigs or side hustles to make a living for you and your family?
Thanks for sharing all of this, Linda. Wishing you and your family peace and best of health--emotional, spiritual, physical.
Thanks for sharing Linda. We missed you and I hope your husband fully recovers.
Hi Linda,
We pray for your husband and families.
I must say that your familly is very lucky to have you because you are such a true and great person.
We wish you all the best and send you all the love from God.
Hello Linda, Thanks for sharing the news with us.. Thank God that your husband is completely recovering.. great job both of you by being positive! My prayers for you & your family.
Hi Linda....thank you for sharing your story and sending you energy of love. I do struggle with fear of judgement and this has stopped me from taking action in my online business.
Thank you so much for all you do and say… your so inspiring.. I pray for your continued success in becoming all that God has created you to be on this earth… as he continues to open up all the greatness hidden inside you.. Blessings and Healing to you and Family…