My mums friend was killed and dumped in the beach by a Swiss guy, who had told her not to get pregnant but she actually got pregnant! He kept telling her he will one day kill her, my mum says on a Wednesday she called mum and said please help me with 200$ nitoke huku juu, Huyu mwanaume ananipiga sana, “ my mum said Woi! I get paid on Friday can you wait? She says is okey, Friday morning mum called her, she’s not picking! Kumbe the lady was killed like on that Wednesday and body dumped by the beach! Mum aliona kwa mr seed website kuna a kenyan lady body found in beach! And what made mum know it’s her it’s because of her pregnancy!! In Switzerland!! Upto date mum is ever guilty she wish angekopa pesa to save this lady’s life!! So hawa wanaume ukiona a red frag! Pls run!!🏃
Narcissism is extreme wickedness and evil, and Akothee is a victim and a survivor. I'm so shocked about her predicament. If you ever gone through a narcissistic relationship you can go crazy. I really feel for Akothee I'm sorry for her. Definitely she was that guy's prey but she took courage.. The Ferrari part is the GRANDIOSE manifestation. People need to be educated about narcissists, the kind of false excess love, the anger rage, grandiosity/need for admiration, manipulation, control, jealousy, cruelty, self centered and lack of empathy are great signs. I hope Akothee you has healed, I've been a victim but after the knowledge i started to heal slowly. I get your predicament Akothee, i get it
@@mamushiem229K You finally will, just take out your emotions and don't react to his actions.. also find these RUclips channels that talk about narcissists you will learn more
I believe Akothee 💯. A friend of mine married a good looking man a few years ago. He stopped taking his psychotic medications when they started living together. It was hell
Akothe pole Sana ,I have been asking myself how can you know a man is lying to you when he is hiding all his dirty tricks I have been there and I perfectly understand what you went through.continue healing my sister
Akothee my darling. What a Lady? For ever I shall remember you. You are power. I really get you, your love, strength and boldness. May God Almighty bless you. Always
All of these people huku from hata less than 20yrs are under those medications and they hide it from us when they want to get married to us so my sister don't worry about that keep moving my best sister i love and like your honest openness GOD keep you safe gal
How does one go ahead to hype a relationship with someone they barely know? This story by Akothee has made me realize that even The Lion has a weakness.
Pole Madam Akothe... it's All begins by admitting there's a problem; it takes courage for one to Walk away from unhealthy courtship... may Jehovah shalom give you peace
Well that is a lesson learnt,you cant marry a well oiled lady to start misusing her just immediately, that can never happen,will never happen Akothe l support you a billion times
Akothee needed to have hired an investigator to find out about him. Love and romance is not enough. As Ladies after a heartbreak we tend to be drawn to any man who shows love and care to fill the space left. Its better to be alone longer but do the right thing. We cannot judge her bcoz everyone have their own weaknesses
Akothee I've been your. Follower but my advice to you is having everything in this world should humble you and try your best to listen to at least your friends and family who automatically would love to always see you happy. Don't Keep rushing for relationships. Your children are enough. This business of hoping here and there will ruin your future. You're already blessed and shouldn't take God for granted. Otherwise, I love your courage.
I think we should take time to learn our partners at least 2 yrs you could notice red flags. 2nd you can't change narcissistic person better the way you left earlier.
Akothe is always a vibe. She does not take foolishness and is not easily fooled. She has a mind of her own and is very intelligent. Love from Philadephia Pennsylvania.
I really feel for this woman Madam Akothee. She is really going through alot. The good part is she is learning it the hard way. What i can advise Akothee is, you need to humble some times MWANAMKE JASIRI' listens, is ready to change, bring out the best partner ever and all in all dhe is ready to walk in these hard relationships and bring out the best family in the world. At her age it might be tricky to settle down permanently with another man.
I am proud of Akothee.She is very strong 💯 most people don't get to pull out of such esp Narcissism.And I am proud atleast a public figure is opening up about this things that are not mostly spoken or understood as such.
Akothee is so real and honest she means what she says she only needs someone who will love her and take care of her emotionally first then hizo zingine financially
Akothee you're a true definition of a powerful, resilient woman. I like that you don't let such things bring you down despite being a celebrity. Lovely mama!!🧡
This is why you should date someone for some good time before marriage so that you are sure who you are marrying, better a broken relationship than a broken marriage as my mum always tells me
It is not about date time........ she is lucky she knew during honeymoon is due to her exposure. Otherwise Most people know they are with a Narc (he or she) in the 15 yrs of marriage.
I can relate to this, did you know the demons are transmitted through sex, so check yourself out.I think Akothee is bipolar too, what happened between you with Nelly before and now you are back.
Mamma God will give you .. your really man.. please don't worry I just love you so much...I believe your story I feel so bad why did omosh do that to you .. infact he made you do a wedding.. sorry mamma you have gone through alot.aki maisha si rahisi ..it pains alot😭😭😭 sorry
Hmmm l don't know why people go for wazugus there is nothing in them, if l may explain......they have a lot of issues,.in there life's...some you will not know until you live with them, pole my dear, it shall be well......❤
@@christinecherop6266 Hmmm ignorant opinion, really, l have lived among them for more than 30 yrs l know them like the back of my hand,.... Fool...you are the ignorant one .....Never Judge a Bk by its cover....grow up...do ur research well... l know what am talking about .....😅
The Ferrari part is the GRANDIOSE manifestation. People need to be EDUCATED about narcissists, The kind of false excess love/love bombing, the anger rage, grandiosity/need for admiration, manipulation, control, jealousy, cruelty, selfish entered and lack of empathy are great signs. I hope Akothee you have healed, I've been a victim but I started to heal. I get it
Maybe he had both. Narcissism is extreme wickedness and evil, and Akothee is a victim and a survivor. I'm so shocked about her predicament. If you ever gone through a narcissistic relationship you can go crazy. I really feel for Akothee I'm sorry for her
Akothee i really love your mastery of Kiswahili! Don't worry mamaa, we all make mistakes and wrong decisions at some point. That's what makes us human, we arent perfect. I'm glad ypu chose your mental health and left before things got worse!🎉🎉❤
Akothee. I am so proud of you. Always follow your heart. God will see you through everything. God will give you the love of your life. You are very strong. May He give you a wonderful life with your beautiful children. We are praying for you. You will do better than before! You are so honest. Very good job!
Merry Christmas 🎄🎁 my sweet sister okothee divorce happen is no one fault you tried your best things happen for a reason don’t blame yourself we are all human try not to dwell in the past cause you have a bright future ahead of you don’t worry hakuna matata 🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎁💕✨have happy holiday bye
That was an exceptional naration of he part of the stroy. For your information I trust not any of her story untill Omosh speaks too then we can be certain of anything.
No one is perfect, you can even coz accident and loss your foot or feet , I don't think that is the reason why you should keep off with your man , keep off about her health issues but if is another issue ok
The guy was married,why didn't he present his papers wafanye wedding ya swizz? It was more than bipolar, again i remember when she (Akothee) was washing her cloths in a laundry room aaah nilisema tu Akothee poteaaaaa.
Problem with Akothes funs never tell her the truth. If Omosh has been that way before why did she marry him? If all these signs were there before honeymoon.
Akothee is an honest lady, i trust her story and i feel so bad as woman the kind of life she went through in the name of love😢😢
I feel bad for her too,as a lady like her I feel for her
Love is not for everyone😢
My mums friend was killed and dumped in the beach by a Swiss guy, who had told her not to get pregnant but she actually got pregnant! He kept telling her he will one day kill her, my mum says on a Wednesday she called mum and said please help me with 200$ nitoke huku juu, Huyu mwanaume ananipiga sana, “ my mum said Woi! I get paid on Friday can you wait? She says is okey, Friday morning mum called her, she’s not picking!
Kumbe the lady was killed like on that Wednesday and body dumped by the beach!
Mum aliona kwa mr seed website kuna a kenyan lady body found in beach! And what made mum know it’s her it’s because of her pregnancy!! In Switzerland!!
Upto date mum is ever guilty she wish angekopa pesa to save this lady’s life!!
So hawa wanaume ukiona a red frag! Pls run!!🏃
Ooh my God
whaaat 😥 so painful
Gooooosh
Uuuiiiii uuuiiii.....
My gosh! Just horrible
Narcissism is extreme wickedness and evil, and Akothee is a victim and a survivor. I'm so shocked about her predicament. If you ever gone through a narcissistic relationship you can go crazy. I really feel for Akothee I'm sorry for her. Definitely she was that guy's prey but she took courage.. The Ferrari part is the GRANDIOSE manifestation. People need to be educated about narcissists, the kind of false excess love, the anger rage, grandiosity/need for admiration, manipulation, control, jealousy, cruelty, self centered and lack of empathy are great signs. I hope Akothee you has healed, I've been a victim but after the knowledge i started to heal slowly. I get your predicament Akothee, i get it
You are so kind..
@@neveragetv Kindness is the best language we all need to master 💕😇
Gfq
Still finding my way out😢
@@mamushiem229K You finally will, just take out your emotions and don't react to his actions.. also find these RUclips channels that talk about narcissists you will learn more
Ukitest single life u can ever accommodate truushhhhh.akothe God will stand with u
Oh my, so sorry for what you went through. May you heal completely and find a genuine person to love. You deserve a good man Akothee.
Akothee you deserve all the best baby gal, you speak what is in your heart & pole sana God knows why all this happened. Live you life gal🎉.
I love you akotheee karibu bongo umenigusa sana
I believe Akothee 💯. A friend of mine married a good looking man a few years ago. He stopped taking his psychotic medications when they started living together. It was hell
Akonthee you are a great Lady.
I really admire your honesty and your energy.
Your decision was the best ever.May God grant you peace. love you
She is a strong lady i always know tht in as much as she is human she is the strongest i have known, keep going mama 🥰🥰🥰
Omg...may God heal her emotions
I just love my namesake Esther for her honesty n th way she lives her live bila kijali....mob love Akothee
Akothe pole Sana ,I have been asking myself how can you know a man is lying to you when he is hiding all his dirty tricks I have been there and I perfectly understand what you went through.continue healing my sister
OMG! I always loved this girl Akothee. She is a reflection of a resilient, beautiful and intelligent woman... God bless her
You are such a strong woman ,we down here facing the same problems but your story today has made me wake up n make a right move.no more manupulation.
Here too my love
Akothee my darling. What a Lady? For ever I shall remember you. You are power. I really get you, your love, strength and boldness. May God Almighty bless you. Always
Boldness is key...
This is so honest. You have no idea how many women can relate this. Thanks for sharing
No wonder he was dancing like a popcorn,I love you Akoth marwa❤
Akothee congratulations 🎊 ulijua mapema angekurundisha kwa depression aki, I love you darling
I feel it for her....haki mapenzi...God protected you..He restored you and refined you.
Akothee take heart.....am hau r healed. You made the best decision
Being bipolar is not a curse or bad thing.Problem is he didn't say earlier
Yeeees
Hiyo ndiyo nini
It's a mental disorder @@beatricewangechi6447
All of these people huku from hata less than 20yrs are under those medications and they hide it from us when they want to get married to us so my sister don't worry about that keep moving my best sister i love and like your honest openness GOD keep you safe gal
Uuuiiii
How does one go ahead to hype a relationship with someone they barely know? This story by Akothee has made me realize that even The Lion has a weakness.
we thank God for opening your eyes on time
strong woman
Pole Madam Akothe... it's All begins by admitting there's a problem; it takes courage for one to Walk away from unhealthy courtship... may Jehovah shalom give you peace
He will....
The story has helped me to heal well done madam boss
You did good to wake up and smell the coffee fast enough..
Your smart you'll manage. Hugs Dottie...
Marriage is for better or worse..at this stage in life ulitakiwa uchunguze yeye😊
I don’t know why but i believe her, Ive dated someone who would make look like im crazy, they always act a victim.
Well that is a lesson learnt,you cant marry a well oiled lady to start misusing her just immediately, that can never happen,will never happen Akothe l support you a billion times
Well said
U did well, Mama,leaving omosh,now we'll be talking another story
Something is wrong. When she walk up to touch the chandelier then back to sit . Counseling is needed
It's a pre-recorded audio😊 the video is mute
Akothee needed to have hired an investigator to find out about him. Love and romance is not enough. As Ladies after a heartbreak we tend to be drawn to any man who shows love and care to fill the space left. Its better to be alone longer but do the right thing.
We cannot judge her bcoz everyone have their own weaknesses
True all rich & famous women have to hire a privet investigator.
I too thought it was too good to be true.
You are finally healed.i love you madam boss
Lesson: always choose you. Akothee deserves the best. Hugs
Remember all Esther are princesses. I honor you woman ❤.
Akothee I've been your. Follower but my advice to you is having everything in this world should humble you and try your best to listen to at least your friends and family who automatically would love to always see you happy. Don't Keep rushing for relationships. Your children are enough. This business of hoping here and there will ruin your future. You're already blessed and shouldn't take God for granted. Otherwise, I love your courage.
Huh!
@@rachealkibaiya7593😂😂😂😂
Hw is she taking God for granted, thanks for saying nothing,life is try n error
@@blackybronze Everything with Africans is about God.....Smthn!
Are you for real!😮
I think we should take time to learn our partners at least 2 yrs you could notice red flags. 2nd you can't change narcissistic person better the way you left earlier.
Akothee was rushing in marriage bcoz her sister Cebby married in a lavish way.She wanted it bigger.i told her at the time hakuniskia
Akothe is always a vibe. She does not take foolishness and is not easily fooled. She has a mind of her own and is very intelligent. Love from Philadephia Pennsylvania.
True. Even if one has made a mistake it's better to leave than put up
Positive
Perfect example of when your intuition is screaming @you... Listen!!🎉
I just love you for loving yourself.......you are an Iron lady for real it's about you and not the world kudos for your decision.
Akothe is super Beautiful!
Thank you for your engagement.
Wooooow...... I love Akothee so much ..she is real
Pole madam akothee jamani ,mambo yanawakuta watu ,ulikuwa hujui but unejua na mungu amekusaidi ,katoe bahasha ya shukrani kwa mungu
Watching from Charlotte NC.Pole sana Akothee😊
There is something strange about this woman. She needs God no 1.
EXACTLY. Kwanza deliverance from soul ties 😢.
Wah Akothe Akothe umepitia pole mami your strong woman ❤hizo ni Mingi
I met a narcissistic myself and whatever she is saying is true.....but good thing he met me emotionally stable.....
What's the meaning of narcissist 😊
@@brendanicole2245 Make Google your friend 😊
I really feel for this woman Madam Akothee. She is really going through alot. The good part is she is learning it the hard way. What i can advise Akothee is, you need to humble some times MWANAMKE JASIRI' listens, is ready to change, bring out the best partner ever and all in all dhe is ready to walk in these hard relationships and bring out the best family in the world. At her age it might be tricky to settle down permanently with another man.
I am proud of Akothee.She is very strong 💯 most people don't get to pull out of such esp Narcissism.And I am proud atleast a public figure is opening up about this things that are not mostly spoken or understood as such.
Akothee is hardworking woman ..i think she has also some big issues 😂.kenyans try to warned her instead she abused them
I remember her saying "it"has taken her to Santorino wewe ime kupeleka wapi??weehh...pole lakini
@@trizahmacharia2939wakenya hamsahau😂😂😂😂😂
@@trizahmacharia2939 at least alifika huko for the 1st time
Strong Strong woman! I just love u for free Madam
Akothee is so real and honest she means what she says she only needs someone who will love her and take care of her emotionally first then hizo zingine financially
I love this woman aki she is very strong
Thank you for your engagement.
You desserve better mammi, with all your hardwork.
Sorry for everything Esther Akoth. You made the right decision, better late than never❤❤. All the best.
I see agreat inspireror, my the lord use u to encourage many. Amen
That's the way to go.......you notice take off very fast.... You deserve the best in this life...
Thank you for your engagement.
Omosh alikuwa anakaa tu chizii😂😂😂.... It's well madam boss
Akothee is always real a lesson to young ladies... just look for a Kenyan guy
Not necessarily Kenyan men bcoz bad people are in Kenya as well. All she needed to do was investigate him well and take time before getting serious
Yaani just been honest is not easy but I appreciate this ❤😊
Akothee mwenyewe needs help yeye kwanza ndio ako na bipolar ile serious
And he can even take your life, such dangerous people need to be avoided
Pole sana my dear friend
Akothee you're a true definition of a powerful, resilient woman. I like that you don't let such things bring you down despite being a celebrity. Lovely mama!!🧡
This is why you should date someone for some good time before marriage so that you are sure who you are marrying, better a broken relationship than a broken marriage as my mum always tells me
It is not about date time........ she is lucky she knew during honeymoon is due to her exposure. Otherwise Most people know they are with a Narc (he or she) in the 15 yrs of marriage.
Omosh was married,why the marriage Documents has a Problem, why?? These European countries you cannot have two wives ,but one unless He is divorced
Let your kids sign prenups when they get married.
I can relate to this, did you know the demons are transmitted through sex, so check yourself out.I think Akothee is bipolar too, what happened between you with Nelly before and now you are back.
You are right bro
I agree with you 💯
Mamma God will give you .. your really man.. please don't worry I just love you so much...I believe your story I feel so bad why did omosh do that to you .. infact he made you do a wedding.. sorry mamma you have gone through alot.aki maisha si rahisi ..it pains alot😭😭😭 sorry
Congratulations Easter i love your courage
Congratulations Akothee...we needed you alive....#sibuormadhako
Best advice 👌
Hmmm l don't know why people go for wazugus there is nothing in them, if l may explain......they have a lot of issues,.in there life's...some you will not know until you live with them, pole my dear, it shall be well......❤
So men in your own race don't have a lot of issues?
What do you mean? Ama you've dated the whole universe? All races have their own issues.
That's your ignorant opinion on white people....
@@christinecherop6266 Hmmm ignorant opinion, really, l have lived among them for more than 30 yrs l know them like the back of my hand,.... Fool...you are the ignorant one .....Never Judge a Bk by its cover....grow up...do ur research well... l know what am talking about .....😅
@@ayarobertson919 you dating wazugus are the wholes..... You think they are better,... Confused generation.... I pity you'all....
I LIKE THIS GIRL NI MPAMBANAJI DONT FELL BAD YOU DID GOOD THIS BE BLESS
6 months ni kidogo kujuwa MTU and bipolar tuchunguze Sana...hii story siielewi
Dating is important. You shouldn't hv married b4 dating. Nevertheless its good u jumped early enough
The Ferrari part is the GRANDIOSE manifestation. People need to be EDUCATED about narcissists, The kind of false excess love/love bombing, the anger rage, grandiosity/need for admiration, manipulation, control, jealousy, cruelty, selfish entered and lack of empathy are great signs. I hope Akothee you have healed, I've been a victim but I started to heal. I get it
Now we know...omg
Me too ..ooh My God!!!😢
I thought it was for better for worse. 😢
Narcissism can't be compared to Bipolar..Narcissism is a character disorder and bipolar is a mental disorder.
Maybe he had both. Narcissism is extreme wickedness and evil, and Akothee is a victim and a survivor. I'm so shocked about her predicament. If you ever gone through a narcissistic relationship you can go crazy. I really feel for Akothee I'm sorry for her
It's not a character disorder it's called personality disorder in mental health and psychiatric education
Note the difference
Both these terms are destructive energy to those around.
I was married to a man who was bipolar & a narcissist. A terrible combination that nearly killed me.
Yes online in-law were questions about that man, and at the end they have proved right.
But again when you fall in love ❤❤❤ you close all the ears 👂👂
Akothee i really love your mastery of Kiswahili! Don't worry mamaa, we all make mistakes and wrong decisions at some point. That's what makes us human, we arent perfect. I'm glad ypu chose your mental health and left before things got worse!🎉🎉❤
But you should have done your due diligence before bringing him to your life x
Akothee. I am so proud of you. Always follow your heart. God will see you through everything. God will give you the love of your life. You are very strong. May He give you a wonderful life with your beautiful children. We are praying for you. You will do better than before! You are so honest. Very good job!
I saw this coming from a mile away because wazungu wengine weh
😅😅😅😅
Akothe I just wanna say thank you for choosing you #yourself
Merry Christmas 🎄🎁 my sweet sister okothee divorce happen is no one fault you tried your best things happen for a reason don’t blame yourself we are all human try not to dwell in the past cause you have a bright future ahead of you don’t worry hakuna matata 🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎁💕✨have happy holiday bye
Thank you for sharing!
Hugs Akothe,tough times never last but tough people do
Thank you for your engagement.
Akothee is blessed and beautiful 🙏👌
@Akothee, I wish you well as you look for Mr. Right.
That was an exceptional naration of he part of the stroy. For your information I trust not any of her story untill Omosh speaks too then we can be certain of anything.
Who are you addressing ati for your information, madness
@@petronillahmueni7577 😂😂😂😂😂😂delulu is the solulu
There are so many gaps in this story. How do you rebound from a marriage to divorce to a relationship without healing? Anyways, to each their own.
This is exactly me.. am glad I walked out
Am so happy to hear ukweli wako and niko very proud of you❤❤❤❤❤ .Nothing to be ashamed of.
Pole sana Akothee. It will be well
Congrats for doing what many wont dare doing. With that kind of wedding mi ningekufia ndani. Congrats for choosing you
😂😂😂
No one is perfect, you can even coz accident and loss your foot or feet , I don't think that is the reason why you should keep off with your man , keep off about her health issues but if is another issue ok
@Akothee it's never that serious your sanity and peace of mind comes first in this life
Yeeeess
The guy was married,why didn't he present his papers wafanye wedding ya swizz? It was more than bipolar, again i remember when she (Akothee) was washing her cloths in a laundry room aaah nilisema tu Akothee poteaaaaa.
Eish Mai tt veku Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 chaivo.Such a big wedding
Problem with Akothes funs never tell her the truth. If Omosh has been that way before why did she marry him? If all these signs were there before honeymoon.
😢
Ata akiambiwa,haezi ambilika
It's very hard to know a narcissistic until you blive with them
Often times when sex is involved it's hard to make rational logical decisions since emotions are involved
❤❤