A nurse once held my hand through a procedure where a long needle was inserted in my very pregnant belly. That was 42 years ago and Ive never forgotten her kindness.😊
I am so glad you mentioned feeling things changing in the world because I feel it too. Sadly, I feel like there is more evil in the world and less loving, kind souls like yourself. Thank you for putting your message out there. If it gets through to even one person and they become more loving it’s so worth it. I find myself avoiding the public. It used to be the majority were good. Now I feel like the good are a minority. I hope we can turn this around because the alternative will be a disaster. God bless you and your sweet soul. 🙏🥰💕
My two brothers and I practically kept vigil by our Mom's bed during the last two weeks of her life, in her care facility where she had lived for five years. On one of these days, my brothers and my husband and I were all together in her room, sometimes just chatting among ourselves, but always someone going over to her bedside and just sit and be near her. One of my brothers went over to sit in by the bed and we all usually did hold her hand, often both of her hands. So my brother was holding her hand on this one afternoon, and after several minutes, he went to sort of release his hand from hers, and kind of chuckled at first, remarking on what incredible strength she had in her hand. But each time he made any attempt to move or release his hand from hers, her grip only became tighter. She knew her children were there. She could hear us chatting away, sometimes a bit of laughter would fill the room, and although she was weak and sleeping more and more, she was not in a deep sleep at this time, though part of the time she had her eyes closed. She just did not want to let go of my brother's hand. She was exerting all of the strength she had in her weakened state to hold on to her son's hand. So many emotions came over me as I witnessed that (and still do). And my own experience earlier that day was somehow equally if not more heart-wrenching for me, as I bent my head down near her face and began just gently stroking her hair as I kept repeating to her "Oh Mom! You are SO beautiful! I love you! I love you so much!" I felt like I couldn't say it enough. And then, I felt her two hands come up and beging to gently stroke MY hair and I just sort of buried my face in her neck for a few moments. As I write this, I feel like I could burst into tears once again. Even though grief becomes more and more manageable over time, it does not ever leave us completely. The deeper our love, the deeper our grief. Thank you for your videos. I have been appreciating them so much. May God bless you!
I nursed in a convent with the Nuns. Nobody was alone dying. When I went to a private facility my number 1 rule was to sit vigil at the bedside of the dying and pray for them. I later went on to be a paramedic and countless deaths and resuscitations but I prayed that God would take their souls when they passed. Lovely video today many thanks. I rarely comment on videos. ❤
God bless you for praying for your patients. You are a giving soul. I hope that you are richly blessed with the same kindness and grace. Your patients definitely benefitted from your presence. Bless you. 🙏🙇♀️✝️👑🕊
@patriciasmith7074 Yes. You did the right thing. Your prayers saved his soul and the daughters as well. When we believe in the Lord, we are supposed to disciple to others. It is through the power of the Holy Spirit that you are given the ability to pray, and through that, God works in them. Never stop doing this. A person's eternity is on the line. God bless you, Patricia. 🙏🙇♀️✝️🙌🙌
August 24,2023 It was my 78 birthday (I am a widower wife died 2-20-2022) early morning I had to go for a blood transfusion A new office I had never been to. A nurse there had seen on my chart it was my birthday and she gave me 4 large cupcakes. I had my blood transfusion, then drove to my oncologist office for chemo treatment, finished treatment and drove to another office for radiation treatment (1 of 30). I finished and got to go home for the rest of the day. I dont know the nurse that gave me the cupcakes but I will never forget her kindness and compassion. My God bless her. I am currently cancer free.
We can't be afraid to speak our minds! It is SO important for our freedom. I'm 76 years old, and I've seen a lot in my time, but I never thought I would see our country in such bad shape. Now, I feel it's a time for Americans that truly LOVE our country to come together. We MUST end this terrible divide to survive. You brought tears to my eyes when you said your patient asked you to hold his hand.....😢. God bless you for being there at his end.
This is my prayer also. Our country is falling apart, and my belief is that an evil presence is upon the Earth. We are truly fighting a spiritual battle right now. Being a Christian, i get a sense that the world is being controlled by the devil. Until we, as a world, come to the Lord, this evil will continue to take over souls. This may sound crazy to others here. But, i am really in tune with what's around me, and i get a spiritual feeling inside that tells me something is from God or from the Devil. So, i truly wish that more people would come to God and spread some kindness to those who need their hand held or a hug. Technology and a selfish attitude have permeated everybody. We need to come together in love and faith in God to stop hating each other. Show empathy and compassion for people experiencing loneliness, fear, survival, and not having anyone to ask for relief. We all have been there one time or another in our life. We reap what we sow. Let's sow good seeds of love, kindness, grace, compassion, forgiveness, and patience with others. I'm not just posting this for others, but also to remind me that pride and judgment are not what we are called to do. Forgiveness is key! Thank you for saying what you did. God bless America. 🙏🙇♀️✝️🤲👑🇺🇸
God bless you and your precious 76 years young self. 🙏I agree with everything you said. I’m sending you a virtual hug through the internet. You are very wise and a caring soul. 🥰🤗💕
@@tanastoiberg7981and God bless you. 🙏I’m feeling the same way and it’s scary. That recent Olympic ceremony mocking the Last Supper broke my heart. I’ve always been into sports and it stinks I don’t feel right about watching the Olympics now because I feel like I’d be supporting a Satanic movement. I feel there is more evil than not out in the world right now. Reading your comment and many other comments here give me a glimmer of hope. I’m so thankful to know there are still precious souls like yourself still spreading goodness. I send you my love and prayers. 🙏🥰🤗💕
@@hurricaneholly338 Thank you for your prayers. God bless you, Holly. I know exactly how you feel. It is scary out there. Sometimes i become overwhelmed by the evil all around me. Without other Christians to spread hope and my love for Jesus, i would not make it through these End Days. It really depresses me to see so much craziness and perversion. I don't recognize this world anymore. Lord, give us the strength and faith to go the distance. Hang in there sister. We will get to be in heaven with our Savior Jesus Christ when He comes back. What a joyful eternity this will be! Hallelujah! 🤲🤲🙌🙇♀️✝️ In Jesus's Name, I pray. Amen. 🙏⛪️👑📖🙇♀️🤲💗
As a woman who spent 52 years in the nursing profession and was around for more changes in the world of medicine than I can even recall, now, at the age of 81… I must say, you are a breath of fresh air. I applaud your enthusiasm, your beliefs, your “take” on all that you’ve seen & experienced and mostly the message you are doing a fine job of getting out to all who watch you…💝. Do not waste even a minute second-guessing yourself…👌😉 I look forward to each video you do.
The world needs more people like your Dr. O'Connor. You have certainly have found your calling. Thank You for your service and for all you do for your patients, audience, and humanity.
Dying alone inspite of having a blood relative or family is the worst thing, makes one feel all alone in this world - usually this happens in America and the west- in Asia a blood family member is always beside the patient.
My brother in law, the last living blood relative of my husband died alone. Because of Covid my husband was not allowed to be there. This wasn’t during the lockdown but after and neither of them had Covid. The VA forced my BIL to be evaluated there for 5 days. He had issues with his lungs and had already been prescribed supplemental oxygen. All they had to do was tell him to walk across the room and they would see his lips turn blue. They refused to allow my husband to see his brother even after he contracted hospital pneumonia. My husband was not allowed to see him when they intubated and they didn’t allow him when it was obvious he would not recover. He died alone away from those who loved him. That is inhumane in so many levels. And when my husband went to pick up his brother’s things, the wallet was missing. I’ll never forget my husband’s pain when he buried his brother without being able to even hold his hand.
You are wonderful! I, too, speak my mind. I Love our country, too! Yes, I have felt all the changes you are referring to. My dreams sure reflect all the changes and turmoil happening everywhere. What gives me hope, no matter what is happening here - and I pray - I will return home to God and Jesus. I enjoy listening to you! Don't be concerned with what other people think. I repeat this to myself and anyone else who I believe needs to hear this: "It is none of my business what anyone thinks of me". For me, that is such a strong message. It gives me more confidence every time I say it. AND, I think the last thing I would ask for before transitioning is - a touch, hold my hand, get a hug, and I would do the same for someone transitioning. God bless you and keep on giving your messages; they are greatly appreciated! 😘💜
Yes! It feels like something is coming and it's not going to be good. We can't keep trashing our planet and not expect consequences. Btw, I started crying when you said he asked to hold your hand. I hope someone holds my hand one more time before I die.
When I was a patient sitter there was one patient I sat for who was dying of lung cancer and he had never been a smoker. This older gentleman was a sweet person. Because he was in the infectious disease ward I was asked if I would be willing to sit with him wearing a mask and surgical gloves. I was fine with doing that and sat with him that day. At one point he asked me if he could hold my hand and I totally understood because his situation was a scary one. My patient asked me why he got lung cancer when he wasn't a smoker. All I could say is that sometimes people get sick for no apparent reason, life has no guarantees and that it was important to enjoy the time we are given on this earth. Later on, his daughter in law visited and she also held his hand. I teased my patient saying that most guys didn't have TWO women fussing over them at the same time which got a smile from him.
Our hospice and our hospital has a program called NODA: NO ONE DIES ALONE. I've been called to sit with someone in their last hours when they didn't have anyone or when family was far away and couldn't get there in time. It was good for me, for the family that was traveling, and I believe it was good for the patient.
The only thing you take with you when you die is your love. Love for God, for all the people in your life and love for yourself. On the other side, a king is no longer a king and a billionaire is no longer a billionaire. We are all children of God and He loves us. Holding the hand of someone who is dying probably requires a lot of effort for many people, but it is an act of pure love for another human being! Yes God loves, if you don't believe in Him, don't worry, He believes in you! Love from the Netherlands ❤❤❤❤🙏🏻
@@Denise-kc8np Don't expect to go to hell! God loves you and he wants everyone back with Him. You really must screw up big time to deserve to go to hell! 🍀🙏🏻
When my mum was in the ambulance , I asked my self what would I want at the end of my life, I would want someone to hold my hand. So I took hold of my mums hand without her asking. She died a few days later. Me my dad and brothers were in the hospital when she was dying. She was unconscious, my dad was sitting with her and all of a sudden I had a strong urge to sit with her. She passed away soon after. To this day I believe she wanted me to be there while she passed.
It goes both ways. I'm currently at a SNF (nursing home) because my legs gave out. CNAs, nurses, PAs, therapists, and other staff are trained not to show their emotions, especially if they're having a bad day. It's called professionalism. But seeing someone day after day when they're caring for you, you can't help seeing the person behind the caregiver. If I see a staff member having a bad day, I offer my super cuddly hugs, a pat on the back, share snacks, or whatever I can do to help keep them going. Their job isn't easy and there are people who get grumpy when they get sick or get old, or if they're just having a bad day and they take it out on the staff. As patients, we should do our best to give what we get for love, respect, courtesy, and all those other strong core values.
My sister was in hospice about 10 years ago. I say with her for several hours but had to leave because I can't drive in the dark. I was leaving the room crying & the nurse came up to me & gave me a hug. I said she's not going to die tonight is she. Nurse said she couldn't say but she would sit with my sister. My sister did die the next morning but I felt some comfort knowing the nurse was watching out for her
I think your read on how you come across to those of us listening couldn’t be further from reality. When I click on your videos, and you start talking, it’s like a friend came into the room and began to share her thoughts. Not just any friend, but a friend who fascinates me with new, and thought provoking ideas, and experiences. I can’t wait to listen, and learn every time she stops by to visit. That’s who you are to me. I am sure I am not alone in this. Keep up the great work.
Back in 2001, I lost my oldest sister. She passed at my parents home as she was living there with her children during her cancer. We were all with her when she passed. She wanted her hand held. She kept saying, “Daddy, please get here.” She saw others as she was passing. After she passed, the sun came out from behind the clouds and shined so brightly. It was a beautiful experience. As sad and as heartbreaking as it was. I think you’re great and very interesting. I appreciate your perspective of your vlogs. I feel that when we are confident with who we are, then things fall into place.
The last thing I would ask for is FORGIVENESS. I believe that when you hold a dying person's hand, you are telling them that the person is loved. May God bless you doctor , you are VERY caring and compassionate!
I will share that as a hospice volunteer I have come across groups known as Threshold Choir singers who have a repertoire of about 500 songs sung a cappella quietly and beautifully at the bedside of those who are at the threshold of life an death and are lucky enough to have them sing them off to eternal sleep.
This past week I was talking a retired office manager at one of our churches food pantries here in Houston. She was glad to see me since she had been retired for a number of years. We talked about what has been going on in our lives since she retired. She made the comment that her husband passed away back in May of this year. It was a sudden illness. He had been in the hospital, nursing home and back in the hospital finally went to home hospice care. He loved going to church and loved the lord. He said he missed going to church. She told me they attend a small church here. One person said let’s get a group and go to his house and have a mini church service there. The group was in the living room singing songs and praying. One lady said she had a feeling right then and there to tell everyone let’s go into his room and continue our praise and worship. They gathered around him praying and singing songs. Two of his grand daughters looked up and said “There goes Paw-Paw”, at the instant his soul left his body. His grand daughters actually witnessed her grandfather’ spirit pass from this life. She said she could see his spirit as it left his body and ascended upward. Everyone in the room felt at peace in knowing he is in the presence of Jesus.
Nurse here… frequently I tell people I never wanted my patients or anyone to be alone when they passed away. I’d check on them more frequently and linger near them longer.
❤Thank YOU for all you've done and thank YOU for...you. I've been talking about your channel to a lot of people. My Daddy was a Fire Captain and he got the ambulance division going in Chattanooga way back in the day. I learned so much from him. Someone that knew my Dad and became a in back of the ambulance EMT for 20 years went on into the construction business. He was talking to my husband about some stories and some made me concerned. I said, "What if I had to go to the hospital in an ambulance for the first time and was scared? I asked if you would hold my hand. Would you?" He laughed and said, "Of course." I then asked, "What if I didn't look like me?" He paused, then said, "Yea." I'm not saying this for you at all. But... I truly pray those helping us at our worst don't care how we look. I know at my end, I will want my hand held.❤
Andrea: I had to have surgery after an automobile accident to repair my post-mastectomy breast implants. I was nervous, had been through a lot, and was in the surgery room. My plastic surgeon, whom I had a relationship with in that he had done the original work, came over as the anesthesiologist was talking to me about what he was going to do, and my surgeon smiled so warmly and took my hand in his. He squeezed it and said, "it's okay, Linda. I'm here and everything is going to be fine. Just relax. I've got this." I have to tell you that this meant the absolutely world to me. So thank you for taking your patient's hand. I'm sure it meant the world to her, and she did feel less afraid and alone. I love your channel. Thank you.
amen, I agree completely. love the compassion for all.....we all need love and care, tall, short, skinny, fat no matter what color etc. or age... and I really like the comment below ! thank you for sharing
I'm the old guy at work and ,sometimes have to meteforicay hold someone's hand. It really seems to matter and help them to understand new things and how to transition into their new role. I guess what I'm trying to say is that they don't feel alone. Thanks for this video.
You have every right to say you love our Country! We are in a pretty dark place right now. And the future seems increasingly uncertain. There is so much hate and division out there. I just want you to know that I really enjoy your stories. I listen to ALL of them. Love to you from Washington State.
I agree, the air has been getting pretty thin lately (the past 2yrs for me personally) Healers need healing themselves from time-to-time in order to continue healing. Keep in mind that the more time that you give of yourself, the more time you need to allocate towards healing thyself
I so remember being a ward aide in unit after ICU and everything happening there and so odten being the one that vould pat a shoulder or hold a hand or make the humaity that was missing...whil others were entrenched in the medical stuff....so touched by these words...still so true...even more needed than 30 years ago..but that need never changes..thank you.
Good evening Dr. O'Connor. I love my country too USA! I must say that I feel that our country is in real trouble. This makes me sad and very concerned. But, if we get the right person in office this could change and I'll feel better. Anyway, I agree with you one hundred percent. I don't believe anyone wants to be alone when dying. Holding that person's hand or sitting with them and letting them know you're there will make a difference for them. I love to listen and watch your videos. I feel excited knowing I'll be watching your video in the evening. God Bless you always. Till next time.
My Dr talks at me not too me. Your patients are so blessed to have you as their Dr. I’m so happy for you that are telling these things. It shows that you are human, most Dr today have a god complex’s. This world is not the world I grew up in. It’s so sad
I thank you, Dr. O'Connor, for being a medical professional who's willing to bridge the typically cold-and-impersonal gap between patient and doctor. Holding someone's hand at the end of their life, IMO, is one of the most loving gestures that one person could do for another. For what it's worth, if I lived closer to you, I'd choose you as my doctor in a heartbeat. 😁 PS: Yes, this world has grown noticeably darker in just a few shorts years' time; we shouldn't shirk from the truth, no matter how much certain entities attempt to censor us.
Watching from South Africa. Enjoy your videos a lot. I know you do a great job and mean a lot to your patients because you care. Agree: God bless America
And another thing - often, that dying person just wants someone next to them - even without holding a hand. They just want someone with them. And the person doesn’t have to try and come up with the right words. Often a smile, or “I’m here for you “ is enough. I’ve only experienced this a few times but have learned this to be true.
I used to work in our rural "faith-based" nursing home/clinic/hospital as part of the housekeeper team. During those days cleaning rooms, I saw many residents/patients who were alone in their rooms. I took the time to chat, pray, hold hands, or encourage many of them. The nurses were okay with this until a resident complained. This broke my heart as she was bitter about being abandoned by her family and didn't want to believe in God as a result. I was written up basically for caring and loving on people. I left that "faith-based" healthcare facility shortly after that because of the CEO's focus on the almighty dollar rather than the Almighty God plus added restrictions on what you can say regarding faith. I enjoy your hearing about your experiences. You are real about your life and it makes me feel like I'm listening to an old friend. Love you ❤
Thank you! I'm encouraged to love, touch, say more to others who are having a tough day (even forgive?). That's all my Mom-in-Law wanted when she was about to die and couldn't communicate because of the mask they put on her. I started to hold her hand and she did not want to let go. We've always had a real connection. I even had an out-of-body experience shortly after she died, which I think was related to her being in Heaven. I know where she is today, thank you God!
You are doing something that is really needed. Be proud of who you are and what you are bringing to this world and to RUclips. Thank you Dr. So many people are dying. We need to tall about this strange time we are in. It really is different. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
We moved from San Diego to Florida. It’s much easier to have common sense and speak what I feel. May God Bless you. May God Bless America. So, I’m on same thinking wavelength 100%
OK initially off-topic. I don’t know how old you are, but you have the most beautiful radiant skin.Your hair is adorable and your eyes are striking. It’s the first thing I notice when I watch your videos. I’m gonna go back to finish the video now. I’m about halfway through. I just wanted to say already this resonates with me so much with a little bit that I’ve heard. You see my mom passed of dementia. I took care of her at home in 2023. My dad passed away in ‘13. four months and 28 days later my only my sister passed. In 2017. I lost my best friend to a car accident. 2020 My biological father passed and mother passed in 2023. I have no children. I have no children and I’m terrified. I’m going to end up somewhere like a nursing home with no family to check on me. What you do is life-changing for these people. You really are an angel. And what an honor to see someone through their death. I’m sure it gets routine, but I just think it’s such a noble and honorable thing to be present when someone is passing. I think I’m gonna have to do it alone. your stories are so interesting. I love them please don’t stop. Hospice sounds so much less frightening then any alternative. I have decided I will pass as an old woman in my sleep.😊😊😊😊
Love your channel❤. Great presentation, such a heartfelt message. I agree with you it is time for us to love one another more along with compassion & respect.
Thank you Doctor for being there for your patients before they meet their Maker. We have to live like it's our last day here on earth because we came without a lease and we're gonna stand before God one day and give an account Thanks Dr you're such a blessing!
You keep speaking your truth , sister - I am right there with you, feeling everything. Don't ever need to apologize for anything, you are a beautiful person, inside and out! I think you are amazing for all you do!!
I've been watching movies from 1930' to the 1950's to be reminded of love for humanity. Evil is glamorized these days. Society is desensitized. Your show is important emphasizing
The words you spoke today is the right perspective each of us need to have. In fact, it is a Godly perspective. To love and be loved is the best we can do in this life. The vibes that even in our country that you are feeling is the lack of love. We all need the one who loved us the most and that is Jesus.
I feel the difference. It's really been different for a few years now. A few of my friends feel it, too. Love from South Africa. PS: Your RUclips is so important to us, so don't give up, please.
I enjoy your youtubes since discovering them ! I am the sole survivor of my family,held down a career then caregave each one till their passing.After rushing around,tending to things it is quiet,empty and lonely.Many former coworkers are gone as is friends.I have gotten into the gym,doing bodybuilding,but I find that people are different now-seems like everyone wants something out of you. [Drams,stupidity & false friends].I tend to stick around home when not having to go out.Oh-and BTW= have had many things happen before & after each passing-I know there's an afterlife.
I love your videos Dr O'Connor. I read some comments too. My mom, sista, and myself, all worked in health care. My sista still does, although it's killing her. She's the best nurse I know. I wanted to tell you, my Spidey senses are up and it's warning us something is up. I'm not sure what but I'm glad I'm not the only one. I mentioned this to my mom just 2 weeks ago. The world is changing. So, I'm glad for what you do. I love the stories. Watching from Indiana. 😊
My dad went into a sleep for about 4-5 days before he passed. He was 88 when he passed I was 48. I did go and hold his hand while he passed. I talked to him and told him I loved him. Said I was sorry for things I did as a teenager! 🤦♀️😂 my mom and brother had died when I was 7 and 9 respectively. (I’m 63) . I told him to tell my mom and brother and grandparents how much I loved and missed them. I asked him to look for me when my time came! I knew the absolute second he died. Had a step sister in there at the time and I told her he was gone..and she was a nurse. Btw my dad was a Doctor. He was a DO. She said oh Brooks no he isn’t...yes he was.. even though he didn’t get the chance to ask me to hold his hand I KNEW he would have wanted that. I was there for him. I’ve even got a crazier story that happened to me before the day he died...it was God letting me know my mom was waiting for him.
You made me cry… as l walk this evening… remembering my dear father who passed away 14 months ago… l want to block all those 40 days at the hospital… he was in pain but l know he is with Jesus now. I want to heal and pray that l do… knowing one day l will see him again
Hi Andrea from the UK. Love hearing your stories. A friend of mine whom i met 20years ago through dog walking recently passed away. When she got sick i would sit at her side and she would get hold of my hand. She passed with me holding her hand annd her grandson kissing her face. She was 96 and had an amazing life. Keep your stories coming.
Keep up the stories and always speak up. There is a "shift" if you will - a 'vibe'. One thing that will never change is Love (especially the POWER of love).
I so enjoy your videos. We are a like age, and my Mom just passed last August, and things you've said have been comforting. She was only in hospice less than a day when she passed, no one knew it'd be that sudden. I'm so thankful I was there. And yes, God Bless America, and I've felt the winds blowing too, like the start of a storm. Prayer, all I can say is I believe in God and prayer.
I appreciate your videos. I know what you mean by not wanting to put yourself out here on youtube. Thank you for taking the leap and sharing your soul with us. The world/our country needs authentic people (preferably with life experience and wisdom) who are not afraid to stand up and speak their minds.
Thank you for sharing your stories, which I find very illuminating. I have researched a lot over the years with regards to spirituality and one lesson I have learnt that it does not matter what we believe in here on Earth, or what colour we are, or what background we come from. We will all go to the other side one day, where there is only LOVE. There are no wars, famine, tornados, rich or poor people. There are no feelings of hatred, jealousy, envy to name but a few. There is only peace and learning. We come here many times and learn many lessons before we go back to our real home. The truth is out there and proved beyond doubt that we are spiritual beings living a human existence.
Holding someone's hand is like giving an IV of love. ❤❤❤
love that!!!
Beautifully stated
Amen. 🙏🙇♀️✝️🤲🇺🇸
@@JaneDough-i2c Beautiful!
That’s beautiful ❤
A nurse once held my hand through a procedure where a long needle was inserted in my very pregnant belly. That was 42 years ago and Ive never forgotten her kindness.😊
I’m a needle phobe and I can’t even imagine!
It's obvious that you are a very compassionate person.
Amen, and the Problem of the today's "world" is, that there Are less+less such souls on this God's small planet.
I held the hand of my Mother, my Mother in law and my Wife when they died..I have no doubt about where they are now..
wonderful :)
"No one here gets out alive." The late, great Jim Morrison...
so true
I am so glad you mentioned feeling things changing in the world because I feel it too. Sadly, I feel like there is more evil in the world and less loving, kind souls like yourself. Thank you for putting your message out there. If it gets through to even one person and they become more loving it’s so worth it. I find myself avoiding the public. It used to be the majority were good. Now I feel like the good are a minority. I hope we can turn this around because the alternative will be a disaster. God bless you and your sweet soul. 🙏🥰💕
My two brothers and I practically kept vigil by our Mom's bed during the last two weeks of her life, in her care facility where she had lived for five years. On one of these days, my brothers and my husband and I were all together in her room, sometimes just chatting among ourselves, but always someone going over to her bedside and just sit and be near her. One of my brothers went over to sit in by the bed and we all usually did hold her hand, often both of her hands. So my brother was holding her hand on this one afternoon, and after several minutes, he went to sort of release his hand from hers, and kind of chuckled at first, remarking on what incredible strength she had in her hand. But each time he made any attempt to move or release his hand from hers, her grip only became tighter. She knew her children were there. She could hear us chatting away, sometimes a bit of laughter would fill the room, and although she was weak and sleeping more and more, she was not in a deep sleep at this time, though part of the time she had her eyes closed. She just did not want to let go of my brother's hand. She was exerting all of the strength she had in her weakened state to hold on to her son's hand. So many emotions came over me as I witnessed that (and still do). And my own experience earlier that day was somehow equally if not more heart-wrenching for me, as I bent my head down near her face and began just gently stroking her hair as I kept repeating to her "Oh Mom! You are SO beautiful! I love you! I love you so much!" I felt like I couldn't say it enough. And then, I felt her two hands come up and beging to gently stroke MY hair and I just sort of buried my face in her neck for a few moments. As I write this, I feel like I could burst into tears once again. Even though grief becomes more and more manageable over time, it does not ever leave us completely. The deeper our love, the deeper our grief. Thank you for your videos. I have been appreciating them so much. May God bless you!
Such a reassuring experience!
I nursed in a convent with the Nuns. Nobody was alone dying. When I went to a private facility my number 1 rule was to sit vigil at the bedside of the dying and pray for them. I later went on to be a paramedic and countless deaths and resuscitations but I prayed that God would take their souls when they passed. Lovely video today many thanks. I rarely comment on videos. ❤
@@patriciasmith7074 that young woman will never forget what you done for her 🙏🏻
God bless you for praying for your patients. You are a giving soul. I hope that you are richly blessed with the same kindness and grace. Your patients definitely benefitted from your presence. Bless you. 🙏🙇♀️✝️👑🕊
@patriciasmith7074 Yes. You did the right thing. Your prayers saved his soul and the daughters as well. When we believe in the Lord, we are supposed to disciple to others. It is through the power of the Holy Spirit that you are given the ability to pray, and through that, God works in them. Never stop doing this. A person's eternity is on the line.
God bless you, Patricia. 🙏🙇♀️✝️🙌🙌
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God bless you for your compassion and kindness.
August 24,2023 It was my 78 birthday (I am a widower wife died 2-20-2022) early morning I had to go for a blood transfusion A new office I had never been to. A nurse there had seen on my chart it was my birthday and she gave me 4 large cupcakes. I had my blood transfusion, then drove to my oncologist office for chemo treatment, finished treatment and drove to another office for radiation treatment (1 of 30). I finished and got to go home for the rest of the day. I dont know the nurse that gave me the cupcakes but I will never forget her kindness and compassion. My God bless her. I am currently cancer free.
GOD bless you Tom on your journey to be cancer free. I hope you are doing well and the Lord continues to bless you every day! 🙏❤️
We can't be afraid to speak our minds! It is SO important for our freedom. I'm 76 years old, and I've seen a lot in my time, but I never thought I would see our country in such bad shape. Now, I feel it's a time for Americans that truly LOVE our country to come together. We MUST end this terrible divide to survive. You brought tears to my eyes when you said your patient asked you to hold his hand.....😢. God bless you for being there at his end.
Karen, I too am 76 years old. I agree with everything you said regarding our country. It just breaks my heart.
This is my prayer also. Our country is falling apart, and my belief is that an evil presence is upon the Earth. We are truly fighting a spiritual battle right now. Being a Christian, i get a sense that the world is being controlled by the devil. Until we, as a world, come to the Lord, this evil will continue to take over souls. This may sound crazy to others here. But, i am really in tune with what's around me, and i get a spiritual feeling inside that tells me something is from God or from the Devil. So, i truly wish that more people would come to God and spread some kindness to those who need their hand held or a hug. Technology and a selfish attitude have permeated everybody. We need to come together in love and faith in God to stop hating each other. Show empathy and compassion for people experiencing loneliness, fear, survival, and not having anyone to ask for relief. We all have been there one time or another in our life. We reap what we sow. Let's sow good seeds of love, kindness, grace, compassion, forgiveness, and patience with others. I'm not just posting this for others, but also to remind me that pride and judgment are not what we are called to do. Forgiveness is key!
Thank you for saying what you did. God bless America. 🙏🙇♀️✝️🤲👑🇺🇸
God bless you and your precious 76 years young self. 🙏I agree with everything you said. I’m sending you a virtual hug through the internet. You are very wise and a caring soul. 🥰🤗💕
@@tanastoiberg7981and God bless you. 🙏I’m feeling the same way and it’s scary. That recent Olympic ceremony mocking the Last Supper broke my heart. I’ve always been into sports and it stinks I don’t feel right about watching the Olympics now because I feel like I’d be supporting a Satanic movement. I feel there is more evil than not out in the world right now. Reading your comment and many other comments here give me a glimmer of hope. I’m so thankful to know there are still precious souls like yourself still spreading goodness. I send you my love and prayers. 🙏🥰🤗💕
@@hurricaneholly338 Thank you for your prayers. God bless you, Holly. I know exactly how you feel. It is scary out there. Sometimes i become overwhelmed by the evil all around me. Without other Christians to spread hope and my love for Jesus, i would not make it through these End Days. It really depresses me to see so much craziness and perversion. I don't recognize this world anymore. Lord, give us the strength and faith to go the distance. Hang in there sister. We will get to be in heaven with our Savior Jesus Christ when He comes back. What a joyful eternity this will be! Hallelujah! 🤲🤲🙌🙇♀️✝️
In Jesus's Name, I pray. Amen. 🙏⛪️👑📖🙇♀️🤲💗
Small acts of kindness can have a huge impact.
You are absolutely beautiful..
As a woman who spent 52 years in the nursing profession and was around for more changes in the world of medicine than I can even recall, now, at the age of 81… I must say, you are a breath of fresh air. I applaud your enthusiasm, your beliefs, your “take” on all that you’ve seen & experienced and mostly the message you are doing a fine job of getting out to all who watch you…💝. Do not waste even a minute second-guessing yourself…👌😉 I look forward to each video you do.
The world needs more people like your Dr. O'Connor. You have certainly have found your calling. Thank You for your service and for all you do for your patients, audience, and humanity.
Dying alone inspite of having a blood relative or family is the worst thing, makes one feel all alone in this world - usually this happens in America and the west- in Asia a blood family member is always beside the patient.
My brother in law, the last living blood relative of my husband died alone. Because of Covid my husband was not allowed to be there. This wasn’t during the lockdown but after and neither of them had Covid. The VA forced my BIL to be evaluated there for 5 days. He had issues with his lungs and had already been prescribed supplemental oxygen. All they had to do was tell him to walk across the room and they would see his lips turn blue. They refused to allow my husband to see his brother even after he contracted hospital pneumonia.
My husband was not allowed to see him when they intubated and they didn’t allow him when it was obvious he would not recover. He died alone away from those who loved him.
That is inhumane in so many levels. And when my husband went to pick up his brother’s things, the wallet was missing.
I’ll never forget my husband’s pain when he buried his brother without being able to even hold his hand.
Being kind cost us nothing!
Love one another as Christ loves us.
It actually gives you energy
You are wonderful! I, too, speak my mind. I Love our country, too! Yes, I have felt all the changes you are referring to. My dreams sure reflect all the changes and turmoil happening everywhere. What gives me hope, no matter what is happening here - and I pray - I will return home to God and Jesus. I enjoy listening to you! Don't be concerned with what other people think. I repeat this to myself and anyone else who I believe needs to hear this: "It is none of my business what anyone thinks of me". For me, that is such a strong message. It gives me more confidence every time I say it. AND, I think the last thing I would ask for before transitioning is - a touch, hold my hand, get a hug, and I would do the same for someone transitioning. God bless you and keep on giving your messages; they are greatly appreciated! 😘💜
Yes! It feels like something is coming and it's not going to be good. We can't keep trashing our planet and not expect consequences.
Btw, I started crying when you said he asked to hold your hand. I hope someone holds my hand one more time before I die.
When I was a patient sitter there was one patient I sat for who was dying of lung cancer and he had never been a smoker. This older gentleman was a sweet person. Because he was in the infectious disease ward I was asked if I would be willing to sit with him wearing a mask and surgical gloves. I was fine with doing that and sat with him that day. At one point he asked me if he could hold my hand and I totally understood because his situation was a scary one. My patient asked me why he got lung cancer when he wasn't a smoker. All I could say is that sometimes people get sick for no apparent reason, life has no guarantees and that it was important to enjoy the time we are given on this earth. Later on, his daughter in law visited and she also held his hand. I teased my patient saying that most guys didn't have TWO women fussing over them at the same time which got a smile from him.
I think people become very afraid when they don't know what to expect. None of us really know. It's a lonely journey.
Our hospice and our hospital has a program called NODA: NO ONE DIES ALONE. I've been called to sit with someone in their last hours when they didn't have anyone or when family was far away and couldn't get there in time. It was good for me, for the family that was traveling, and I believe it was good for the patient.
I LOVE that!
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Youre 100% correct ! The vibe out there is changing ! Things are feeling kind of scary and out of balance .
Yes
yes, yes and yes!!
The only thing you take with you when you die is your love. Love for God, for all the people in your life and love for yourself. On the other side, a king is no longer a king and a billionaire is no longer a billionaire. We are all children of God and He loves us. Holding the hand of someone who is dying probably requires a lot of effort for many people, but it is an act of pure love for another human being! Yes God loves, if you don't believe in Him, don't worry, He believes in you!
Love from the Netherlands ❤❤❤❤🙏🏻
wow! well said :)
But ye must believe, it is an insurance policy against hell!
@@Denise-kc8np Don't expect to go to hell! God loves you and he wants everyone back with Him. You really must screw up big time to deserve to go to hell! 🍀🙏🏻
@@Denise-kc8np If you don't believe, God loves you anyway! 🍀🙏🏻
I did elderly care for 45 years before retirement. Memories enough to fill a book
When my mum was in the ambulance , I asked my self what would I want at the end of my life, I would want someone to hold my hand. So I took hold of my mums hand without her asking. She died a few days later. Me my dad and brothers were in the hospital when she was dying. She was unconscious, my dad was sitting with her and all of a sudden I had a strong urge to sit with her. She passed away soon after. To this day I believe she wanted me to be there while she passed.
Beautiful:)
i work in aged care and have experienced the same thing. We never die we just move on. God bless you Andrea
We are at the end of one thing and the beginning of another.
yep
Earth angels are everywhere... Most importantly when you need them our higher power sees to that.
Thank you for sharing.
It goes both ways. I'm currently at a SNF (nursing home) because my legs gave out. CNAs, nurses, PAs, therapists, and other staff are trained not to show their emotions, especially if they're having a bad day. It's called professionalism. But seeing someone day after day when they're caring for you, you can't help seeing the person behind the caregiver. If I see a staff member having a bad day, I offer my super cuddly hugs, a pat on the back, share snacks, or whatever I can do to help keep them going. Their job isn't easy and there are people who get grumpy when they get sick or get old, or if they're just having a bad day and they take it out on the staff. As patients, we should do our best to give what we get for love, respect, courtesy, and all those other strong core values.
Giving an encouraging word, too, is almost as good as a touch.
My sister was in hospice about 10 years ago. I say with her for several hours but had to leave because I can't drive in the dark. I was leaving the room crying & the nurse came up to me & gave me a hug. I said she's not going to die tonight is she. Nurse said she couldn't say but she would sit with my sister. My sister did die the next morning but I felt some comfort knowing the nurse was watching out for her
I think your read on how you come across to those of us listening couldn’t be further from reality. When I click on your videos, and you start talking, it’s like a friend came into the room and began to share her thoughts. Not just any friend, but a friend who fascinates me with new, and thought provoking ideas, and experiences. I can’t wait to listen, and learn every time she stops by to visit. That’s who you are to me. I am sure I am not alone in this. Keep up the great work.
I feel the same!
If you were my Doctor, I'd be very happy for you to hold my hand if I was alone. You show a lot of love and compassion, that's also very healing. ❤
Back in 2001, I lost my oldest sister. She passed at my parents home as she was living there with her children during her cancer. We were all with her when she passed. She wanted her hand held. She kept saying, “Daddy, please get here.” She saw others as she was passing. After she passed, the sun came out from behind the clouds and shined so brightly. It was a beautiful experience. As sad and as heartbreaking as it was.
I think you’re great and very interesting. I appreciate your perspective of your vlogs.
I feel that when we are confident with who we are, then things fall into place.
The last thing I would ask for is FORGIVENESS. I believe that when you hold a dying person's hand, you are telling them that the person is loved. May God bless you doctor , you are VERY caring and compassionate!
I will share that as a hospice volunteer I have come across groups known as Threshold Choir singers who have a repertoire of about 500 songs sung a cappella quietly and beautifully at the bedside of those who are at the threshold of life an death and are lucky enough to have them sing them off to eternal sleep.
This past week I was talking a retired office manager at one of our churches food pantries here in Houston. She was glad to see me since she had been retired for a number of years.
We talked about what has been going on in our lives since she retired.
She made the comment that her husband passed away back in May of this year. It was a sudden illness. He had been in the hospital, nursing home and back in the hospital finally went to home hospice care.
He loved going to church and loved the lord. He said he missed going to church.
She told me they attend a small church here. One person said let’s get a group and go to his house and have a mini church service there.
The group was in the living room singing songs and praying. One lady said she had a feeling right then and there to tell everyone let’s go into his room and continue our praise and worship.
They gathered around him praying and singing songs. Two of his grand daughters looked up and said “There goes Paw-Paw”, at the instant his soul left his body.
His grand daughters actually witnessed her grandfather’ spirit pass from this life. She said she could see his spirit as it left his body and ascended upward.
Everyone in the room felt at peace in knowing he is in the presence of Jesus.
I work for a dentist. You’re not alone in hating to go to the dentist. Patients always tell us they love us but hate being there.
:). but I do love my dentist and all his staff are amazing, so thank you for working in that field :)
Incredible time to be alive. Yes, things are changing.
Andrea, my motto is spread kindness around like confetti...simple acts of kindness do go a long way
oh, that's a great motto! :)
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Nurse here… frequently I tell people I never wanted my patients or anyone to be alone when they passed away. I’d check on them more frequently and linger near them longer.
thank you for your service! :)
❤Thank YOU for all you've done and thank YOU for...you. I've been talking about your channel to a lot of people. My Daddy was a Fire Captain and he got the ambulance division going in Chattanooga way back in the day. I learned so much from him.
Someone that knew my Dad and became a in back of the ambulance EMT for 20 years went on into the construction business.
He was talking to my husband about some stories and some made me concerned. I said, "What if I had to go to the hospital in an ambulance for the first time and was scared? I asked if you would hold my hand. Would you?" He laughed and said, "Of course." I then asked, "What if I didn't look like me?" He paused, then said, "Yea."
I'm not saying this for you at all.
But...
I truly pray those helping us at our worst don't care how we look. I know at my end, I will want my hand held.❤
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thank you for all your stories, I love them. God bless you and thank you for being a Nurse, I'm so glad I found you here, what a gift! Goodnight.
Thank you for this. I agree the energy is lifting and it's wonderful to be a part of it.
Andrea: I had to have surgery after an automobile accident to repair my post-mastectomy breast implants. I was nervous, had been through a lot, and was in the surgery room. My plastic surgeon, whom I had a relationship with in that he had done the original work, came over as the anesthesiologist was talking to me about what he was going to do, and my surgeon smiled so warmly and took my hand in his. He squeezed it and said, "it's okay, Linda. I'm here and everything is going to be fine. Just relax. I've got this." I have to tell you that this meant the absolutely world to me. So thank you for taking your patient's hand. I'm sure it meant the world to her, and she did feel less afraid and alone. I love your channel. Thank you.
great story, thank you
Hand in hand is heart to heart. Pulse proves it. That is EXACTLY what I would have asked for.....
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amen, I agree completely. love the compassion for all.....we all need love and care, tall, short, skinny, fat no matter what color etc. or age... and I really like the comment below ! thank you for sharing
I'm the old guy at work and ,sometimes have to meteforicay hold someone's hand. It really seems to matter and help them to understand new things and how to transition into their new role. I guess what I'm trying to say is that they don't feel alone. Thanks for this video.
thanks to you as well!
As a AXS columnist for Near Death Experiences, I love your message, Dr. Andrea O'Connor!!!!
You have every right to say you love our Country! We are in a pretty dark place right now. And the future seems increasingly uncertain. There is so much hate and division out there. I just want you to know that I really enjoy your stories. I listen to ALL of them. Love to you from Washington State.
Amen...Love you from LaMarque, Texas!!!💖
I agree, the air has been getting pretty thin lately (the past 2yrs for me personally)
Healers need healing themselves from time-to-time in order to continue healing.
Keep in mind that the more time that you give of yourself, the more time you need to allocate towards healing thyself
You are such a beautiful soul. As a female veteran, I can relate.🇺🇸
I so remember being a ward aide in unit after ICU and everything happening there and so odten being the one that vould pat a shoulder or hold a hand or make the humaity that was missing...whil others were entrenched in the medical stuff....so touched by these words...still so true...even more needed than 30 years ago..but that need never changes..thank you.
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Good evening Dr. O'Connor. I love my country too USA! I must say that I feel that our country is in real trouble. This makes me sad and very concerned. But, if we get the right person in office this could change and I'll feel better. Anyway, I agree with you one hundred percent. I don't believe anyone wants to be alone when dying. Holding that person's hand or sitting with them and letting them know you're there will make a difference for them. I love to listen and watch your videos. I feel excited knowing I'll be watching your video in the evening. God Bless you always. Till next time.
My Dr talks at me not too me. Your patients are so blessed to have you as their Dr. I’m so happy for you that are telling these things. It shows that you are human, most Dr today have a god complex’s. This world is not the world I grew up in. It’s so sad
I thank you, Dr. O'Connor, for being a medical professional who's willing to bridge the typically cold-and-impersonal gap between patient and doctor. Holding someone's hand at the end of their life, IMO, is one of the most loving gestures that one person could do for another. For what it's worth, if I lived closer to you, I'd choose you as my doctor in a heartbeat. 😁
PS: Yes, this world has grown noticeably darker in just a few shorts years' time; we shouldn't shirk from the truth, no matter how much certain entities attempt to censor us.
Watching from South Africa. Enjoy your videos a lot. I know you do a great job and mean a lot to your patients because you care.
Agree: God bless America
Please keep making videos. I love them. These things are so important to talk about
And another thing - often, that dying person just wants someone next to them - even without holding a hand. They just want someone with them. And the person doesn’t have to try and come up with the right words. Often a smile, or “I’m here for you “ is enough. I’ve only experienced this a few times but have learned this to be true.
I just found your channel and I already love it. You look sweet, kind and your patients were in good hands with you.
God bless you DR. God bless AMERICA.!❤💯
I used to work in our rural "faith-based" nursing home/clinic/hospital as part of the housekeeper team. During those days cleaning rooms, I saw many residents/patients who were alone in their rooms. I took the time to chat, pray, hold hands, or encourage many of them. The nurses were okay with this until a resident complained. This broke my heart as she was bitter about being abandoned by her family and didn't want to believe in God as a result. I was written up basically for caring and loving on people. I left that "faith-based" healthcare facility shortly after that because of the CEO's focus on the almighty dollar rather than the Almighty God plus added restrictions on what you can say regarding faith.
I enjoy your hearing about your experiences. You are real about your life and it makes me feel like I'm listening to an old friend. Love you ❤
Thank you! I'm encouraged to love, touch, say more to others who are having a tough day (even forgive?). That's all my Mom-in-Law wanted when she was about to die and couldn't communicate because of the mask they put on her. I started to hold her hand and she did not want to let go. We've always had a real connection. I even had an out-of-body experience shortly after she died, which I think was related to her being in Heaven. I know where she is today, thank you God!
Yes!! To love and compassion ❤
You are doing something that is really needed. Be proud of who you are and what you are bringing to this world and to RUclips. Thank you Dr. So many people are dying. We need to tall about this strange time we are in. It really is different.
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We moved from San Diego to Florida. It’s much easier to have common sense and speak what I feel. May God Bless you. May God Bless America.
So, I’m on same thinking wavelength 100%
Love is the only thing you can “take with you”❤ Nothing else matters 🤷🏻♀️
OK initially off-topic. I don’t know how old you are, but you have the most beautiful radiant skin.Your hair is adorable and your eyes are striking. It’s the first thing I notice when I watch your videos. I’m gonna go back to finish the video now. I’m about halfway through. I just wanted to say already this resonates with me so much with a little bit that I’ve heard. You see my mom passed of dementia. I took care of her at home in 2023. My dad passed away in ‘13. four months and 28 days later my only my sister passed. In 2017. I lost my best friend to a car accident. 2020 My biological father passed and mother passed in 2023. I have no children. I have no children and I’m terrified. I’m going to end up somewhere like a nursing home with no family to check on me. What you do is life-changing for these people. You really are an angel. And what an honor to see someone through their death. I’m sure it gets routine, but I just think it’s such a noble and honorable thing to be present when someone is passing.
I think I’m gonna have to do it alone. your stories are so interesting. I love them please don’t stop. Hospice sounds so much less frightening then any alternative. I have decided I will pass as an old woman in my sleep.😊😊😊😊
Love your channel❤. Great presentation, such a heartfelt message. I agree with you it is time for us to love one another more along with compassion & respect.
Thank you Doctor for being there for your patients before they meet their Maker.
We have to live like it's our last day here on earth because we came without a lease and we're gonna stand before God one day and give an account
Thanks Dr you're such a blessing!
You keep speaking your truth , sister - I am right there with you, feeling everything. Don't ever need to apologize for anything, you are a beautiful person, inside and out! I think you are amazing for all you do!!
I've been watching movies from 1930' to the 1950's to be reminded of love for humanity. Evil is glamorized these days. Society is desensitized. Your show is important emphasizing
Please never stop doing our videos. I truly love hearing what you have to say…even though you almost always make me cry.
The words you spoke today is the right perspective each of us need to have. In fact, it is a Godly perspective. To love and be loved is the best we can do in this life. The vibes that even in our country that you are feeling is the lack of love. We all need the one who loved us the most and that is Jesus.
Your a blessing 🕊God bless you and yours and God bless America 💖
Love you , your stories, and mostly your compassion, empathy & knowledge! ❤
Being kind doesn't cost a thing, thanks so very much. You have a wonderful POSITIVE attitude.💯👍🇺🇲🙏
I feel the difference. It's really been different for a few years now. A few of my friends feel it, too. Love from South Africa.
PS: Your RUclips is so important to us, so don't give up, please.
I hope that I have someone like you when I'm at the end, if I end up in the hospital. I think that's beautiful.
I enjoy your youtubes since discovering them ! I am the sole survivor of my family,held down a career then caregave each one till their passing.After rushing around,tending to things it is quiet,empty and lonely.Many former coworkers are gone as is friends.I have gotten into the gym,doing bodybuilding,but I find that people are different now-seems like everyone wants something out of you. [Drams,stupidity & false friends].I tend to stick around home when not having to go out.Oh-and BTW= have had many things happen before & after each passing-I know there's an afterlife.
I am not sure how old you are, I am in my fifties, and getting older is not for the weak. So many things change. Good on you though for working out!
I understand what you were saying about going to the dentist. The young dental hygienist patted me on the shoulder and it made me feel so much better!
Being a in home care giver and just lost my husband to pancreatic cancer I do thank you for sharing your experiences ❤
You have a very meaningful life. It’s the little things that often count the most. 🤗❤
I love your videos Dr O'Connor. I read some comments too. My mom, sista, and myself, all worked in health care. My sista still does, although it's killing her. She's the best nurse I know. I wanted to tell you, my Spidey senses are up and it's warning us something is up. I'm not sure what but I'm glad I'm not the only one. I mentioned this to my mom just 2 weeks ago. The world is changing. So, I'm glad for what you do. I love the stories. Watching from Indiana. 😊
My dad went into a sleep for about 4-5 days before he passed. He was 88 when he passed I was 48. I did go and hold his hand while he passed. I talked to him and told him I loved him. Said I was sorry for things I did as a teenager! 🤦♀️😂 my mom and brother had died when I was 7 and 9 respectively. (I’m 63) . I told him to tell my mom and brother and grandparents how much I loved and missed them. I asked him to look for me when my time came! I knew the absolute second he died. Had a step sister in there at the time and I told her he was gone..and she was a nurse. Btw my dad was a Doctor. He was a DO. She said oh Brooks no he isn’t...yes he was.. even though he didn’t get the chance to ask me to hold his hand I KNEW he would have wanted that. I was there for him. I’ve even got a crazier story that happened to me before the day he died...it was God letting me know my mom was waiting for him.
beautiful
It is changing. I feel it in a palpable way
You made me cry… as l walk this evening… remembering my dear father who passed away 14 months ago… l want to block all those 40 days at the hospital… he was in pain but l know he is with Jesus now. I want to heal and pray that l do… knowing one day l will see him again
I really enjoy listening to your stories, every time I get on u tube I look to see if you have any new stories
Peace & Love 🕊 Yes something is going on. A great change is developing.
We DO need to unite and show each other love, not hatred, to keep our country strong and free! Love is the key❤ Wishing you many blessings!!
Hi Andrea from the UK. Love hearing your stories. A friend of mine whom i met 20years ago through dog walking recently passed away. When she got sick i would sit at her side and she would get hold of my hand. She passed with me holding her hand annd her grandson kissing her face. She was 96 and had an amazing life. Keep your stories coming.
Keep up the stories and always speak up. There is a "shift" if you will - a 'vibe'. One thing that will never change is Love (especially the POWER of love).
I so enjoy your videos. We are a like age, and my Mom just passed last August, and things you've said have been comforting. She was only in hospice less than a day when she passed, no one knew it'd be that sudden. I'm so thankful I was there. And yes, God Bless America, and I've felt the winds blowing too, like the start of a storm. Prayer, all I can say is I believe in God and prayer.
Thank you for your videos.
I held my son's hand. 😢
We all need love and to bee SEEN and HEARD. Thank you, very important to remind people of kindness, and, we shall all die
I appreciate your videos. I know what you mean by not wanting to put yourself out here on youtube. Thank you for taking the leap and sharing your soul with us. The world/our country needs authentic people (preferably with life experience and wisdom) who are not afraid to stand up and speak their minds.
you are so priceless its no wonder GOD gave you your calling --I can not get enough of your videos 🥰😍
Thank you for sharing your stories, which I find very illuminating. I have researched a lot over the years with regards to spirituality and one lesson I have learnt that it does not matter what we believe in here on Earth, or what colour we are, or what background we come from. We will all go to the other side one day, where there is only LOVE. There are no wars, famine, tornados, rich or poor people. There are no feelings of hatred, jealousy, envy to name but a few. There is only peace and learning. We come here many times and learn many lessons before we go back to our real home. The truth is out there and proved beyond doubt that we are spiritual beings living a human existence.
Well said :)
My mom was an RN. I miss her everyday. I’m glad i found your page.
It's true Dr. O'Connor you are awesome and so sweet and kind!!