ATTACHMENT STYLES | Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Psychology | Advice

Find out more about attachment styles, anxious attachment style and avoidant attachment style specifically, and how they affect your relationships.
0:00 Intro
0:43 what are attachment styles and how they form
4:57 anxious- avoidant trap
13:22 important reminder
14:42 why we self attack
15:45 the cure
16:40 book recommendation
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My Ex was an avoidant. Each and every time we had conflicts, she withdrew and stonewalled. As days progressed she basically changed a lot, was rude, mean and ended up gaslighting a lot. When we started dating I was secure but then became extremely anxious because of how I was treated in the relationship. In the end, she broke up like the relationship meant nothing. Avoidants lack empathy and this girl didn't care about my feelings at all. Ended up mentally destroyed. I learned about attachment styles later on and understood why she behaved the way she did. Started working on myself. But the kind of trauma I went through dating this person made me look at people, women very differently. Now I don't get easily attached to anyone.