That's why women aren't thrown to the gallows for sexual assault like men are... because too many men think like JR, that a 17 yo is "lucky" to get laid in that instance. JR set men back, by perpetuating the double-standard that #metoo perps are only men.
Double standards are not only justifiable but inevitable when it comes to the sexual roles, sexual capacities and sexual drives. A 16yo boy having sex with a hot 30yo woman IS NOT THE SAME as a 16yo girl having sex with a handsome 30yo man. That's just a fact. Get over it.
Bekah. Since I don't know what you mean exactly by "normal", I will address it broadly. "normality" isn't an objective moral standard. Some things are normal but wrong, and some things are abnormal but good (or at least not wrong). Statistically speaking... Yeah is totally normal all over the world. Maybe you don't like it but is the reality. Morally speaking... There is room for debate. But when someone says that a 17yo guy is "a child", that seems so patently false that is a nonstarter. She didn't abused him. He's okay. BTW. Do you know that when people start using some words arbitrarily, they start to lose meaning? It already happened with "racist", "homophobe" and "transphobe"... Don't do that too with "pedophile". Nor Joe nor anyone else in the video is a "pedo". Get your definitions right.
@@AlanGarciaC.1093 y'all keep saying "hot", tho, as if the looks are important. i've seen the pictures, she wasn't hot. does that change things? what if she was his fat nanny who weighed 300 lbs. and helped raise him? does it matter then? (don't forget when you answer, she's fat AND ugly)
I also don't buy the no damage thing, I mean as a guy you don't get the same physical trauma but this sort of sexual manipulation can mess you up for good.
If it was a 17 year old boy hooking up with a hot 35 year old stranger at a house party that's one thing......This though was years of grooming and manipulation that led to the sex. It's a very different situation.
Yes. It is very disturbing the shit going on out in Hollywood. The rumors start all the way back to the Golden age of Hollywood in the early and mid 1900's. They are all fucking weirdos and sexual Deviats out there.
This mentality of trying to excuse females who sexual abuse minors has got to stop. The kid knew her since he was seven, she was a mother figure to him. It's sick and depraved. Stop with the idiotic double standards.
It is a clear cut case of grooming. She had worked on him for years, an adult versus a minor. She has lost all credibility. Not for sleeping with a 17-year old, but for lying, being a hypocrite - and for the grooming.
Agreed. I will say this though. He didnt always seem like a great boyfriend though, either. I love Anthony Bourdain, hes a hero of mine, but I think he had a dark side as well.
@@chocolatetownforever7537 well, i realy don't know anything about Bourdain aside from a few clips i've seen here and there, but "committing" to an open relationship just tells me that you're blinded by emotions for this partner who maybe coerced you into it, or you want extra juice yourself aka blinded by lust.. either way you're inviting trouble and darkness into your life.
Absolutely. I think the red herring in all of this is that people are scrambling trying to figure out if one or the other was raped. It appears that neither of them were raped. HOWEVER, California law says that Asia has broken the law. For that she should be punished.
@material pattern dude I get your point but you sound like an uncle bashing women like the last idk millenia of female oppression did nothing to contribute to those numbers. In a true egalitarian society everyone regardless of race, gender, sex orientation, or religion should be treated equally. Unfortunately we do not live in an egalitarian world so the consequences of that are privileges and disadvantages you mentioned.
H Y D R O 偉イム 塩 AGEED!!!! we can’t have a different set of rules for females. BLUF= women want equality right? Punish them the same way they punish men.
Nick Mansouri - LOL - what world do you live in where a 17 year old is a man? You know many 17 year olds that live on their own, paying their own rent? Nice try pal, a 17 year old these days is basically a defenseless child still breast feeding LOL.
She was never his mother figure. They live in different parts of the world and that part of the story is totally fabricated. Joe never really does his research on things unless he has a major interest in the topic. He is also wrong on age of consent. If he would bother to continue to read the full wiki page he would see that in most states the consent age of 16 is with restrictions. He just doesn't bother to read the entire article and just puts his "spin" on things. It is what he wants to be true and often peppered with his own bias.
cynt macz Those restrictions you mention vary by state, but the current law in NJ has provisions for anyone who is in a "supervisory or disciplinarian" position over the 16 or even 17 year old. Those provisions are to protect naive kids from predatory teachers or police officers who could threaten to put the kid in jail or not allow them to graduate with their friends if they deny the advances of the person with some type of control over them. That's the extenuating circumstances of the NJ law today. I can't speak on the 1980s.
Most states in the northeast have a rule that if you are 16 you can consent to someone within 4 years of your age. I don't know specific states and I know they vary. NY is like 17 for everything supposedly but Joe often does not care to consider accuracy or detail. He often goes with his own narrative. I like the show and generally I like him but it is annoying at times and he does not read these comments. NJ also has a rule about 16 and 17 year olds who have sex with a manager at their job making it a criminal offense. On the surface it sounds good but you have to think about kids working in fast food who are all a few years of each other. There are vindictive parents out there who will use these rules to punish someone- usually a male who they don't want around their kid. The kids might have already been friends or dating in school before one got promoted and they may be very close in age. This happens a lot in min wage jobs and maybe it is rare that anyone bothers to prosecute but there is the possibility of this law being abused. Much of this is a double edged sword.
Rose Ugh McGowan just released a Twatter statement 🙄, that supposedly the public was waiting for with bated breath, saying that this kid had been sending her naked pics since he was 12.
cynt macz you talk of bias when it's obvious you are bias. Legal or not if you look at the situation and don't think it's creepy then you are a disgusting pervert.
+Lisa R No, my friend. I live in a white country. But if we take the US, the majority is white also, so why anyone should be triggered by absent of statistical deviation?
@sweetie lune. You are not getting it. We men know for a fact that the absolute vast majority of 17 [or even 16] years old boys would've loved to have the chance to fuck a hot 35yo woman. That's not "my opinion". That's a fact. Deal with it and don't try to deny it because you will lose your time.
If he was groomed at 7, but she didn't do anything till he was 'old enough' (and I'm using that term in a practical sense). Then it would be creepy. Maybe even creepy af. But "abuse"...?? Nah. It amuse me how english speakers use the word "children"... A 17yo (or even 16)... Is... Not... A... Fucking... Child. Spanish speakers know how to differentiate "niños" from "adolescentes". Should adults act in a responsible way? Well of course. I'm not saying that any adult isn't responsible for the decision of having sex with a 16-17yo. The question is: Does any +19 person deserve to get thrown into jail for the simple act of having sex with a 16-17yo. Regardless of circumstances. And even if it's consensual. And even if there isn't any good reason to believe that the consent was coerced in any way????
ThaRedPitbull-Mix It's not surprising. He went HARD to make sure everyone knew Carlos Mencia was a joke thief. Then he defended that hack Amy Schumer when she was stealing from everybody
Its not the same for all girls. Or all boys. Shut the fuck up. Quit injecting your self into all people. Im pretty sure joe doesnt inject himself into adolescent boys anyway.
That is precisely my point. Joe seems to think that with girls it's either damaging, or under the right circumstances, fine. He then says that for boys "it's not the same". My point is that it IS the same, because it can be both damaging to boys and girls, and under the right circumstances, fine.
As a Psychologist I have to bring some helpful insight into this topic: molestation at any age, regardless of gender, is traumatizing in different ways to the victim. Yes, he was 17. But how he was impacted by this sexual encounter will forever impact how he sees women, goes about getting sex in the future, and how his perception/behavior is of/toward himself. We don't know him personally, but I've counseled lots of victims of sexual abuse and a victim's behavior becomes extreme on opposite ends of the spectrum: either self loathing and self harming because of being abused and not getting help/sympathy, or cocky and aggressive because he believes he can sleep with anyone now and will try extreme means to get sex in the future. Every molestation case is different, but it ALWAYS impacts the victims in negative ways regardless of age and gender.
Whats it like being a psychologist. Im thinking of doing a psychology degree but im still on the fence. Anything i need to know. Do you honestly think it is a good career choice?
WOuld a year make a difference.....18.....what about 19......sorry 17 isnt a big deal to me. I say age of consent should 16.....at that age you know what youre doing, you should be able drive, join the army and vote. ANd buy cigarettes
@@squarerootof2 actually, it is a crime, except in very specific circumstances or locations. And either way its morally abhorrant for a 37 year old woman to sexually groom a teenager shes known since he was 7, while at the same time decrying men like Weinstein for the exact same thing.
If anything I think most men that fuck much older women do it because pussy's pussy. The girls that fuck older men usually have active preference for older men.
The point is it shouldn't be a crime for either. And it's not in many US states. You saying she sexually groomed him since age 7 is nothing more than an assumption to make it seem even more weird. If a 17 year old can strap themselves in a car and drive around at 75mph right next to a minivan full of nuns and orphans, surely they can determine rather or not they want to be fucked. I was 16 when I lost my virginity to a 14 year old girl. Had my first and only one of two experiences of fucking a girl in the ass with that same girl when she was 15. When I was 15 I tried to make a move on my cousins 22 year old GF at the time. She shut me down because I was too young but to this day I wish she hadn't. The point is, horny teens know what they're doing.
I think a lot of it is just the hypocrisy factor. You put yourself on the moral pedestal people will want to knock you off it, so you might as well not in the first place.
+Round Earth Shill "You saying she sexually groomed him since age 7 is nothing more than an assumption to make it seem even more weird." And she's claiming Weinstein sexually assaulted her without any proof whatsoever, weird huh?
age IS the issue, she groomed him since he was at least 12{when she dooped him into giving her naked photos of himself and kept them for materbatory fodder}. Grooming and power dynamic over the years is also the issue, but so is age
Definitely. If she just fucked him without the whole motherly relationship then it's all cool but come on. You're like a mother to him and fuck him? That's messed up.
She knew him since he was 9. The boy confessed that he worshiped her & treated her like a "mama" since he was 9. Go on, she had with a kid who called her mama. That's grooming 101.
Definitely sum fucked up Freudian psychological momma thing going on thats for sure. If he's that fucked up by her don't be surprised if he turns into a deviant predator one day either....its often the case those experience harm inflict similar harm down the line.
"It's different for boys because they want it and like it." - So what if a 17-year-old girl wants it and likes it? Should it be legal? Just because boys have a reputation for being more sexually stimulated, doesn't mean they're not being taken advantage of. A line needs to be drawn somewhere, and if we are going to perceive men and women as equals (especially under the law) then this makes sense. Love Joe's podcast but fuck is he wrong on this.
It’s real sad tbh. Look, when I was 17 I would’ve absolutely loved for an older woman to take me to bed, but I fully understand how creepy it is for a grown person (man or woman) to be creeping around with younger people like that. And Men aren’t a monolith, me and some of my friends may have wanted that but it doesn’t mean that EVERY 17 year old boy does. Joe can be really dense sometimes
He was 17, but HE says it was traumatizing. Joe's blanket statements on him being fine is ignorance. She groomed him from the age of 7.... she had sex with him at 17 (under the legal age), he said he was traumatized by the encounter.... Nothing about this is "fine" either for her and not for the guy either. You can't tell me grooming someone for sexual exploitation and carrying it out doesn't have some psychological ramifications.
It means to be attracted to prebuescent children. then there is hebophilia{attaction to pubescent children/tweens} and ephebophilia{attraction to mid-late teens/pre legal age}, they're all morallyt wrong and illegal- to different degrees of course, but still. She groomed him from at least age 12{pubescent child} when she dooped him into giving her naked photos of himself{there is proof of this btw} then could'nt even wait one more year till he was legal and had to give in at age 17; either way she was in her 30's at both times}, this is just evil and sick and wrong, if you can't understand this than you are either stupid, morally lazy, or a sociopath. "Joe, for such a smart guy you're also pretty dumb. No offense. I'm a big fan. But you clearly are giving Argento a pussy pass. I mean, she not only manipulated a 17 year old boy into fucking her, but more importantly they had a relationshiop going back years. Like you said she played his son in amovie when he was 7, but it has come to light that he sent her{or she solicited him for} photos of him naked when he was 12 and she was in her early 30's, and she KEPT those photos, did not tell him to stop, did not report what happenned. Clearly she kept them for masturbatory fodder. She displays the classic signs of a pedophile{or to be more accurate, I doubt she is afull blown pedophile, but Hebephilia or probably more accurately Ephebophilia , at least somewhat so}- clearly she was grooming him from at least age 12. Then she could'nt even wait until he was fully legal, satutory raped him when he was 17 and she was 37, she could'nt even wait one more year. That is very telling. Ask yourself Joe, if the gender roles were reversed here, and she was a 30-something adult male, and he a female/girl whom played his daughter at 7 and then he groomed her from age 12{keeping naked photos of her at age 12 for fodder} and grooming her from that age till age 17, not yet legally adult, and gave in ad fucked her whe she was 17, would you be dooing the same mental, moral backflips and making light of it? I doubt it. And the gedner roles were reversed here the man after being accused and exposed with so much evidence would IMMEDIATELY go to trial and be put in jail for years and NO ONE would be dooing backflips to lighten the seriousness of the crime, and he would be in the news media on a 24 hour news cycle talking about it for weeks, probably months or longer...allmost nonstop{rightly so}. You make these excuses that "it's not the same", or "it's different" for boys and women then girls and men, but this is utter nonsense. You have this myth in your head that all teenage boys are just hormone driven sex machines that want to fuck anything with breasts and that if a adult women takes sexual advantage of them that basically 'they're lucky" and not gonna be traumatized{some might not be, but others clearly are- Jimmy is one example of that; and there are teen girls who would also give their left arm to fuck an adult man who they find attractive and not be traumatized by it- others wold be though; trauma or no- that's not the point}. It's the exact same, it may even be slightly worse. Remember that females mature phyiscally and psuychollogically about 2 years faster than males afterall. But yeah, it IS the same, it's NOT different. Either adults groominng children from such a young age and then manipulating them into sex in their mid-late teens is morally indefensible and evil or it is not. You don't get to make arbitrary double standards depending on gender. Enough with this mindset of the west under marxist feminist indoctrination for decades now that women and girls should not be held to the same standards of accountability and responsibility as men and boys are. This is a logical and moral fallacy. Equality means EQUALITY, not just the good stuff- but also the bad stuff and especially of responsibility/accountability, and male victims{especially minors} are just as important as female ones{especially minors}. You can't have it both ways. Either you have gender equality or you don't. Wake up and smell the coffee brother"
I think it's very sexist to say that boys aren't affected. Some really are and they are emasculated for it. It's the whole stereotype the men who show emotion are weak.
boys are taught to be OK with it, doesn't mean it doesn't damage us. I hope he's fine, I hope it's not affecting him. Justice needs to be blind, don't give her a pass when she broke the law
you think you are fine, you don't know you are fine. there's a difference. and just because you might be OK, doesn't mean every other 15 year old will, thats not how people work, would you have been fine if you'd had to pay child support for the next 18 years after that 15 year old "fun" you can't just apply your own experiences to everyone, it doesn't work like that.
That's what I said, obviously some people won't be affected. That's what I'm hoping for in this case. That doesn't mean she gets to skip the justice system. Assault is still assault even if you don't cause permanent damage.
You are aware I made it pretty clear it was my own experience. The only broad stroke I made was talking about how man and woman are different and equality is a myth.
i want you to go to a bar and tell all the men there that having sex with an older woman traumatized you. there's a limit to how sensitive a guy can be before he's seen as a bitch.
Companies settle out of court just to not be dragged through the legal system. Sometimes people think it's just easier. Doesn't always mean they feel they've done anything wrong.
Narukami because he’s not old enough to consent he wanted to donk her and he sucked in the bedroom he doesn’t want anybody to know that it’s black mail
Yes because who doesn't look back fondly on being molested. You think because she is a woman she should get a pass because molesting a child was a favor to that child. Here is a news flash if a woman is not capable of sexually molesting a boy then guess what. The inverse is also true and men can not sexually molest girls. People like you disgust me Tria. You're little perma boner comment shows just how little you know. During the ages of surprise surprise 13-15 the average boy is hitting puberty and his body goes out of whack you don't have perma boner because your constantly horny. You have it because your body has 0 idea what is happening to it. But yes do keep advocating for child molesters
@@bclr6843 Just as long as you're okay with having different laws for men then you have for women. That opens up a whole lot of doors if the law is allowed to be gender discriminatory however. I mean if boys are able to consent earlier that girls, what else can boys do that girls can't?
Easy to laugh it off when you haven’t experienced the shame and the feeling of being constantly dirty. They obviously have no clue what it’s like to be abused
A lot of other people have pointed out the grooming angle of this case and how that makes it very sick. Another thing to think about is that around this time is also when he sued his parents for stealing from his trust fund. So while he is dealing with a massive betrayal from his biological parents, a surrogate parental figure has sex with and then seemingly drops him like a bad habit. All of that together would have to be a fairly traumatic experience and mess with your ability to trust anyone.
since when do women need to "groom" men. There's plenty of young men that if given the option would sleep with older woman. You're tying to overcomplicate it. She's still a horrible person for using weinstein and bourdain
@@dragorn3212 She literally groomed his as *child, do you know how much psychological damage & trauma this type of stuff will do to a child?! I guess you don’t…& why in hell is this even a gender-based issue? Pedophilia is pedophilia. Period. Comments like this are literally the very reason there’s a stigma around men coming forward with sexual assault & grooming. Statistics are skewed because of this, the gap between both male & female victims is minuscule. Once again, it’s our sick sexualized society influenced by Hollywood that caused this type of culture to be swept under the rug for so long.
@@bastian9693 Possibly but its not always the case that a woman needs to groom a guy, males have naturally high s3x drive so lets not give her too much credit. She is a terrible person because of what she did to Bourdain especially
He is a fake, hypocrite often. Like his views on Illegal immigration..as he moves his own azz out of California because he is rich, and complains how bad it is to live there now. Like his views on his own freedom of speech talking to hundreds of conspiracy "theories" on his channel for years, and then literally threw his own "Friend" AlexJones under the liberal bus. Like him as a comedian, throwing Roseanne under the bus, even if he has been targeted by liberal mobs often, like when he called someone a monkey, and himself a monkey as a joke.
the very fact that a person he had had a mother son relationships with jumped him, sent the other adults he was with away and gave him alchohol, surely that kind of rapid relationship swap would be traumatising initself
1st time I've been annoyed with something Joe Rogan has said, never thought it would happen. Asia groomed that boy by manipulating their faux maternal bond and slept with him under the age of consent, there is no difference, legally or morally
The hypocrisy of her actions with her at the head of this me too bullshit is the problem that kid is just as bad as her looking for a payout they're all scumbags
1 year under the age of consent...hardly an issue. He could have been 17 and 8 months. Like he was a grown up basically. He was able to make a conscious decision on his own whether he was gonna sleep with her or not
Cairo XI I don't think you understand the dynamics of this. Her being a figure of authority in his young life is a big deal. In that situation, that person telling you that you should do something, like have sex with them, carries a different weight than if some random 37 year old tried to have sex with him. We sacrifice some of our moral reasoning when it's someone we have trust in
"I recommend watching the documentary, "Author: The JT LeRoy Story" and you will another side of Asia Argento that uses her sexuality to win the film rights to a book featured in the documentary. Ms. Argento denied this accusation in a September, 2016 NY Times article regarding the film. However, when her #MeToo story broke in 2017, the first thing that popped in my mind was this documentary and her participation in it. It clearly doesn't portray her in a good light. The Asia Argento you see in the film does not come across as a victim of the dark side of Hollywood but instead someone who wants to win at all costs and will use sex as one of the tools of her trade. For her to have sex with a 17 year old actor who played her son in a film 9 years earlier is wrong, statutory rape and quite frankly downright creepy. "
She is a sociopath and doesn't care Bourdain killed himself, she wasn't bothered at all about him killing himself and took no accountability. Pure piece of shit manipulator
Joe come on. First of all you dont know the type of grooming that took place for this to have happened. She worked with this kid. She was most likely someone he looked up to and his parents likely trusted her as well to be a responsible adult. I'm sorry but a 17 year old is a kid. Boy or girl it doesn't matter. She took advantage of him. And I'm sure he's messed up a little bit from this.
Eco Bear joe is just half smart and sometimes makes good points. But it’s not a genuine energy to me. It’s just him knowing what to say to get a positive reaction. He really showed his true contradicting nature in this one.
emotional damage is also apart of sex between mature adults. I think the reason for age laws is more so to protect fragile and inexperienced minds, not necessarily 'kids'.
@@lucascoval828 Well, what do you expect? It was two years ago! Everything's happening way too fast to keep up, but we must learn from our past mistakes. Anyway, thanks for bringing it to my attention. I will delete it right now.
Yes women and men are different. Doesn’t mean we can’t treat each other the same. And even if he wanted it he’s still under age. Supposedly She gave him alcohol at 17. That’s a NO NO across all 50 state.
17 year olds girls should never be with men in their 30's 40' etc. Just say you re a p3d0ph, not "men and women are different" Plus men commit these crimes most of the times, get over it, p3d0
Dont we all have the potential to be perverts at any age? Its natural sure. But when we act inappropriately there are consequences. If youre ashamed thats natural. You should be. Shame is supposed to teach us right from wrong, i think.
How are they different you f weirdo? You re a ped0ph 17 year old should never ever date with men in their 30's 40's etc. Plus this happens rare (when women are predators) men like you chase the underaged girls all the time. Digusting, if you would have a daughter you wont think like that but who the hell procreates with a p3d0
Any sort of sexual relationship between teacher and student is completely inappropriate and disgusting! Well-adjusted adults do NOT look to teens as romantic companions - PERIOD.
I am so sorry for Anthony Bourdain. He paid a heavy price for being such a gentleman and in love with such a ruthless hypocrite. He killed himself because of what she made him do to cover up for her. 😭😭😭😭
He was a grown man, she didn’t “make” him pay off a sexual assault victim. They are both horrible people, there’s no amount of love or affection you could give a normal person to “make” them do that.
the timeline for the beginning of her relationship with Anthony Bourdain, the legal accusations against her, Bourdain paying off the kid, then Bourdain committing suicide is... interesting.
Sex with a 17 year old guy ain't such a huge deal, generally speaking there's little damage to be done. Still though, the fact that she was hanging around the guy since he was a kid calling him "son" makes it seem like there was some weird grooming aspect involved. I think in this case the relationship prior to sex is where the potential for damage resides rather than the sex itself being the cause of the damage.
Ixaglet ain't nothing wrong with that. Girls mature faster than boys so technically speaking a 17 year old girl would be the maturity level of a 20 year old boy. But anyways like the original commenter said, the problem isn't th fact they had sex, the problem is the fact that she knew him since he was 7 and had a mother/son type relationship with him prior to having sex with him. That's the messed up part here.
I disagree I'm afraid. Imagine your 17 year old son being given alcohol and then fucked by his 34 year old co-worker? Also, don't assume "any 17 year old kid would wanna fuck any woman!". It might be true in some cases, but not for all of them. That's you projecting your sexuality onto a kid.
In this case though, this guy wanted to fuck her so that point is moot. Main point is though, as Joe said, that sex with underage boys vs girls is different because a) women are physically weaker and b) they can get pregnant. Thats not to say this particular case was right, it wasnt, but if the genders were reveresed, it would be worse - for the aforementioned reasons. Unless youre one of those crazies who claim that there is no difference betweeen men and women, i dont see how you can make the claim that the situations are the same.
We dont know how much of it is true - if all is then of course its unequivocally fucked up. Perhaps she did take advantage of him. Or perhaps he did beacuse he was horny. Or because he wanted money. Who knows. > Is it okay if a girl who's just turned 17 wants to fuck a 34 year old man? Or should we assume that she's a naive teenager? Naive teenager? Likely. But considering the age of consent in most of the western world is lower than 17, apparently its not that big of deal. Its certainly suspect on the part of the older person. But not necessarily bad. While i have no sympathy for Asia Argento, she seems to be a crazy, Iying bitch, i could see her one claim being true - that is, when she texted someone about not knowing he was underage because she didnt know aoc in California was 18 rather than 15 or something in Italy. It might seem odd to some but to a average european, a 17 year old is way past ready to fuck, legally. Thats why i think the problematic thing would be the apparent grooming and the quasi-incestuousness of the whole thing rather than the age. > Girls being weaker is a non argument, because we're talking about statutory rape, not violent forceful rape. Fair enough. > Yes they can get pregnant. Abortions exist. So does adoption, or keeping the baby. Yeah well, nevertheless its a bit of a complication, to put it very lightly. > Not to mention that the older woman can get pregnant too. And then they sue their rape victim for child support, as in the case of Nick Olivas. Well, that is beyond fucked up but i would assume thats a crazy unusual case, hopefully.
Though peoples feelings play a big role of course, it isnt purely personal disaproval. I think its pretty well documented that sexual relations at a young age, especially with an adult who can easily exploit the younger person, often lead to mental issues later in life. Thats why i think it is reasonable to have some limit although 18 might be a bit too high. 16 is more common anyway. So technically, a 30 year old wouldnt get punished by law in most places for being with a 16 year old. Punished by society, thats another matter. It is certainly suspect but i wouldnt start screaming "pedo" instantly either. I could give a person like that the benefit of the doubt. But though i dont have any statistical data, from experience, most older guys that ive come across who date young girls (legally) are creepy fucks so im kinda torn about whats the best solution.
So, Please, from this moment on, state that ALL Women in the same situation are "going to be OK". Unless of course, you have prejudice, bias & bigotry towards men? If my car is stolen - is that a different crime to whether a woman's car is stolen? You need to think though your anti male hate there Joe.... Shame on you.
Joe Rogan is some how turning into the worst type of SJW. It's weird watching all of these online sources of information I pretty much primarily watch for information all at the same time start turning into the exact same thing they were against.
I'm not antiSJW hence why I stated my disagreement was him being the "worst" type. I'm pro right, anti wrong. I'm all for a system of equality ... EQUALITY... The end. Either it's equal down the middle or there is no such thing and these double standards if anything makes Joe a sexist who holds both sexes to a different standard. I'm okay with that too... I grew up in the age "Women are the fairer gender" fine... stop talking about equality then. Either they're equal or they aren't ... either husbands start getting custody and half the womans wealth too or there is no such thing as equality. These media pushed double standards are tired and ridiculous.
You mean all the SJW's who pushed the SJW narrative every day of their existence until they defended a 37 year old fucking a 17 year old boy opposite of what they'd say if it was a man banging a 17 year old girl?
@@fsmfsm9941 it's not about being an sjw if your think having sex with an older woman at 17 leads to trauma. It's about countering all the hypocrites that don't apply the same type of punishment to Asia that Harvey is getting. So yes, we will keep pushing for THAT type of equality while they push for wage gap equality, but continue inequality in every way that favors them.
Wow... This comment section is pure madness... I thought that Joe's audience was more realistic. I'm very disappointed. Joe is 100% right on everything he says in this clip. A 16yo boy having sex with a hot 30yo woman IS NOT THE SAME as a 16yo girl having sex with a handsome 30yo man. That's just a fact. Get over it.
Yeah, if he was raised in the Wild West and had to fight bears like in the Revenant, he's a man at 17. If he's a coddled millenial child star, he's not. /thread.
@@mannymo1847 Assuming if he JUST turned 17. If he's only a week away from being 18 ... like, literally people are saying it's not okay to bed a "kid" who's 17 and 3/4 years old, but do nothing to change the laws allowing that same "kid" to go off and die in war the moment he hits 18.
Like I previously said, Asia Argento is crazy and plays people for her own amusement, has double standards and most likely because of her hypocrisies with that 17 yo kid, it might have been the cause of Bourdain's pain.
A poor friend of mine went to jail for a few years and now has a permanent record as a Child Kidnapper simply because he was 20 and had taken a 16 year old girl with other people in his car to a music festival in another State. His parents reported her missing and he was arrested. I guess he just had a really bad lawyer or maybe they might have proved he didnt know she was running away from home. But still it's kinda scary how easy it can be to cross the moral line and pay for it the rest of your life.
But she just said that Bourdain made the payment, is that already proven to be a fact? I think she is throwing him under the bus because he is not around to defend himself.
The reason why the age of consent isn’t just “have they hit puberty?” Is because they’re still very vulnerable and susceptible. Especially mentally at the early teenage years. I personally think there should be a law where it’s 18 years old IF the other person is 21 or older.
Even if I were to agree that "it isn't that bad" when it's a dude being taken advantage of, I would still say jail her. Why? Because laws have to be neutral and consistent across the board. Laws cannot be as hypocritical as Asia Argento is. As a society we owe it to ourselves to hold ourselves to the same standards in the spirit of fairness, otherwise you get currents of people full of resentment because we hate differentiated treatment from the state.
good point by joe about women being more vulnerable than men, of course that isn't true for everyone but generally speaking it is, i've been hit on by gay men as a straight guy and never felt threatened by physical violence because you'd better pack a lunch if you think you're making a move on me, women can be overpowered so it's much different. generally speaking.
Who are we to judge how a victim feels? Maybe it is ok for a lot of 17 year old boys to have sex with a much older person but that isn't the case for all. Laws are laws and everybody should be treated equal.
She was grooming him that’s messed up. If they were strangers I’d agree but she’s got power over him. 17 me would be fine with it but you never know how you feel about it later in life.
The age of consent in the UK is 16 too, yet an adult sleeping with someone that age is illegal. The law is only the law when it suits people and we expect a black and white concept of good and bad to cover the countless complexities of human behaviour
My problem with Joe's stance on this is that he is advocating for a position where the law is different for men and women. He is OK with men/women being treated differently in this case but I'm sure that he would be against men/women being treated differently in another case, i.e. if an employer said that he wouldn't hire women because they're weaker than men (in general). Or what about courts giving custody to women over men (I don't know the % but I know it's high). If you don't advocate for everyone being treated equally under the law that means you are OK with you being discriminated against as long as there is evidence that you're category (male/female/black/white/etc) is generally different from another category, even if you yourself aren't (after all not all men are stronger than the average woman).
Joe got more hung up on the physical advantage guys have over most women and didn't think enough about how much power an older woman can have over a much younger man, a man who is not even 18 yet. Some would call him a kid. She knew and had a close bond with him when he was only 7 and, as they stated on the podcast here, went on to remain in contact over the next 10 years. He probably did fall in love with her, but her having sex with him definitely made that feeling more intense. It's possible she was the first female he had sex with. Her being honest in that text message that mentioned him jumping on her like that just shows that he was crazy about her. The kid probably got heartbroken, then got paid a bunch of money to keep quiet which could have been Anthony's way of trying to handle a delicate situation, and now the young man must be embarrassed as all hell that this went public, anyway.
When I was a kid .. my brothers wife’s aunt would always compliment me with sexual innuendos and hints then would say “come see me when you’re 18” At 18 one night hanging out with her son and nephews.. when they were busy playing video games ...she asked me if I wanted a drink ... I said sure .. She pursued me from there on.. and I DID NOT refuse .. she was very attractive and I would sometimes as a kid sorta imagine “what if” but never too seriously. The question is .. does it open a door for more of that type of sexual interactions? Yes... I believe because of that situation I am now more willing than I was before to sleep with a woman older than me. I find myself looking at “hot cougars” once in a blue.
Poundz978 To answer your question, I would say Yes as well. When I was a teenager and I would get hit on from older men, I knew the deal already and I was bullet proof baby! I wasn't going to fall for that crap and never did. Thankfully my mother installed it into my sister and I that men of all ages will come to talk, befriend and wanna hangout but never be alone or think cause a guy is much older it's something cool cause we were teenagers. Now as a 34 year old woman, I'm so thankful for my mother and her guidance. She saved us from all the lurking creeps..
Wasn't the plot of Disclosure more about her blackmailing him for sleeping with her as his subordinate? I'm pretty sure one of the taglines for the movie was "Sex is power", meaning she purposefully slept with him to blackmail him, which is sexual assault to some degree. Coercion is a real thing and so is male ego, just because in his mind he knows it's wrong, doesn't mean she can't talk the dude into it and equally him thinking he can't back down from the proposal because she might decide to tell everyone you fucked anyway, or worse accuse him of rape and just obliterate his credibility. I agree on a physicality level it's not the same, and being physically overpowered is a real concern for women no doubt, but haven't plenty of dudes been unwillingly talked into doing the dirty despite having a significant other? And vice versa, coercion is a two way street and both men and women have crossed it in the past. TL;DR - Men and women both have their weapons to use in this sexual power struggle, and one isn't to be as easily dismissed as the other when both are equally as dangerous as the other when competently wielded by a person with full intent to exploit it.
Disclosure was 100 times more realistic than the episode of Blossom where Joey quit his job because his hot boss TIFFANI AMBER THIESSEN was sexually harassing him.
Keep it Gulley why would she do that? She looks like a fool for telling the public to go easy on her and it completely discredits the entire “movement”.
Equal rights. Even when it comes to sexual assault.
Gay rights please
@Rippingthosecheeks Hey Women and men are different. Period
Yeah. It’s just just about the pussy, it’s about the way predators like her mess with people’s minds.
People are different actually
Piotruś Scw it’s the same exact shit.
Lol double standards are a helluva drug
That's why women aren't thrown to the gallows for sexual assault like men are... because too many men think like JR, that a 17 yo is "lucky" to get laid in that instance. JR set men back, by perpetuating the double-standard that #metoo perps are only men.
Double standards are not only justifiable but inevitable when it comes to the sexual roles, sexual capacities and sexual drives.
A 16yo boy having sex with a hot 30yo woman IS NOT THE SAME as a 16yo girl having sex with a handsome 30yo man. That's just a fact. Get over it.
Bekah. Since I don't know what you mean exactly by "normal", I will address it broadly.
"normality" isn't an objective moral standard. Some things are normal but wrong, and some things are abnormal but good (or at least not wrong).
Statistically speaking... Yeah is totally normal all over the world. Maybe you don't like it but is the reality.
Morally speaking... There is room for debate. But when someone says that a 17yo guy is "a child", that seems so patently false that is a nonstarter.
She didn't abused him. He's okay.
BTW. Do you know that when people start using some words arbitrarily, they start to lose meaning?
It already happened with "racist", "homophobe" and "transphobe"... Don't do that too with "pedophile".
Nor Joe nor anyone else in the video is a "pedo". Get your definitions right.
@@pussykisser344 WTF
@@AlanGarciaC.1093 y'all keep saying "hot", tho, as if the looks are important. i've seen the pictures, she wasn't hot. does that change things? what if she was his fat nanny who weighed 300 lbs. and helped raise him? does it matter then? (don't forget when you answer, she's fat AND ugly)
She kept in contact with him from 7 to 17. It's called grooming, and it's a little twisted when they had a mother- son dynamic.
not really considering it's hollywood.
@@rydz656 this is America
I also don't buy the no damage thing, I mean as a guy you don't get the same physical trauma but this sort of sexual manipulation can mess you up for good.
Yeah, but he got some pussy, so who cares?
Acting is not a mother son dynamic. That is stupid. 🙄
If it was a 17 year old boy hooking up with a hot 35 year old stranger at a house party that's one thing......This though was years of grooming and manipulation that led to the sex. It's a very different situation.
Yeah but this was a 35 year old female with a 17 year old female "dove rain"...is it still weird?
nathan hensn Thats still morally abhorrent. Unless you are close in age, you are doing something wrong.
@@cominus Did you read my comment? Idc if they're Lesbians, it's not the sex it's the grooming and manipulation.
Yes. It is very disturbing the shit going on out in Hollywood. The rumors start all the way back to the Golden age of Hollywood in the early and mid 1900's. They are all fucking weirdos and sexual Deviats out there.
nathan hensn emphasis on HOT... there’s no hot, in this story
This mentality of trying to excuse females who sexual abuse minors has got to stop. The kid knew her since he was seven, she was a mother figure to him. It's sick and depraved. Stop with the idiotic double standards.
He's in the respec waman capitol of the world.
It is a clear cut case of grooming. She had worked on him for years, an adult versus a minor. She has lost all credibility. Not for sleeping with a 17-year old, but for lying, being a hypocrite - and for the grooming.
To know a kid when he was that young and have sex with him at only 17 is disgusting on a few different levels
@@henrikschmidt3964 yup.
mom porn is a top 5 category
She is definitely a hypocrite!
F.O.A.D.!!!
Bourdain got played by Argento....had his heart broken one-too-many-times and it was the last straw.
yes he did,,,, bet this is what led to his murder
Agreed. I will say this though. He didnt always seem like a great boyfriend though, either. I love Anthony Bourdain, hes a hero of mine, but I think he had a dark side as well.
Well put.
@@chocolatetownforever7537 well, i realy don't know anything about Bourdain aside from a few clips i've seen here and there, but "committing" to an open relationship just tells me that you're blinded by emotions for this partner who maybe coerced you into it, or you want extra juice yourself aka blinded by lust.. either way you're inviting trouble and darkness into your life.
I don't agree with Joe on this one. Females should be held just as accountable as males in these situations.
Absolutely. I think the red herring in all of this is that people are scrambling trying to figure out if one or the other was raped. It appears that neither of them were raped. HOWEVER, California law says that Asia has broken the law. For that she should be punished.
Idk maybe because as a man you have much more power than a woman
@material pattern actually wrong teen girls commit suicide more boys but grown men commit suicide more than grown women
@material pattern dude I get your point but you sound like an uncle bashing women like the last idk millenia of female oppression did nothing to contribute to those numbers. In a true egalitarian society everyone regardless of race, gender, sex orientation, or religion should be treated equally. Unfortunately we do not live in an egalitarian world so the consequences of that are privileges and disadvantages you mentioned.
H Y D R O 偉イム 塩 AGEED!!!! we can’t have a different set of rules for females. BLUF= women want equality right? Punish them the same way they punish men.
Funny how Joe always says "Your brain isn't even developed till you're 25!" But then says a 17 year old is a man. Come on dude.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 right, omg.
Yeeessssss
Nick Mansouri - LOL - what world do you live in where a 17 year old is a man? You know many 17 year olds that live on their own, paying their own rent? Nice try pal, a 17 year old these days is basically a defenseless child still breast feeding LOL.
I am a 17 year old and I can confirm that I am indeed not a grown man
Nick Mansouri wtf 17 year olds are not men
Joe “I wonder how many times I can contradict myself today” Rogan
He's all about self-improvement. At least as much as last podcast.
Get lost you hating ass losers. Nothing better to do huh nerds
Compelling argument.
Why do watch his show?
Joe gets high and explores and experiments with ideas. You should do it sometime
What about grooming the kid for 10 years, that had to have damaged him
She was never his mother figure. They live in different parts of the world and that part of the story is totally fabricated. Joe never really does his research on things unless he has a major interest in the topic. He is also wrong on age of consent. If he would bother to continue to read the full wiki page he would see that in most states the consent age of 16 is with restrictions. He just doesn't bother to read the entire article and just puts his "spin" on things. It is what he wants to be true and often peppered with his own bias.
cynt macz Those restrictions you mention vary by state, but the current law in NJ has provisions for anyone who is in a "supervisory or disciplinarian" position over the 16 or even 17 year old. Those provisions are to protect naive kids from predatory teachers or police officers who could threaten to put the kid in jail or not allow them to graduate with their friends if they deny the advances of the person with some type of control over them. That's the extenuating circumstances of the NJ law today. I can't speak on the 1980s.
Most states in the northeast have a rule that if you are 16 you can consent to someone within 4 years of your age. I don't know specific states and I know they vary. NY is like 17 for everything supposedly but Joe often does not care to consider accuracy or detail. He often goes with his own narrative. I like the show and generally I like him but it is annoying at times and he does not read these comments. NJ also has a rule about 16 and 17 year olds who have sex with a manager at their job making it a criminal offense. On the surface it sounds good but you have to think about kids working in fast food who are all a few years of each other. There are vindictive parents out there who will use these rules to punish someone- usually a male who they don't want around their kid. The kids might have already been friends or dating in school before one got promoted and they may be very close in age. This happens a lot in min wage jobs and maybe it is rare that anyone bothers to prosecute but there is the possibility of this law being abused. Much of this is a double edged sword.
Rose Ugh McGowan just released a Twatter statement 🙄, that supposedly the public was waiting for with bated breath, saying that this kid had been sending her naked pics since he was 12.
cynt macz you talk of bias when it's obvious you are bias. Legal or not if you look at the situation and don't think it's creepy then you are a disgusting pervert.
Joe falls into the typical blunder so many men make about this sort of thing. “I would have wanted it at 17, so it wasn’t abuse.”
Btw Joe people like you are the reason that men have such a hard time speaking out about sexual abuse, and why women think they can get away with it.
@@ahenathon it didn't alarm you that most of them are white?
+Lisa R No, my friend. I live in a white country. But if we take the US, the majority is white also, so why anyone should be triggered by absent of statistical deviation?
@sweetie lune. You are not getting it.
We men know for a fact that the absolute vast majority of 17 [or even 16] years old boys would've loved to have the chance to fuck a hot 35yo woman. That's not "my opinion". That's a fact. Deal with it and don't try to deny it because you will lose your time.
If he was groomed at 7, but she didn't do anything till he was 'old enough' (and I'm using that term in a practical sense). Then it would be creepy. Maybe even creepy af. But "abuse"...?? Nah.
It amuse me how english speakers use the word "children"...
A 17yo (or even 16)... Is... Not... A... Fucking... Child.
Spanish speakers know how to differentiate "niños" from "adolescentes".
Should adults act in a responsible way?
Well of course. I'm not saying that any adult isn't responsible for the decision of having sex with a 16-17yo. The question is:
Does any +19 person deserve to get thrown into jail for the simple act of having sex with a 16-17yo. Regardless of circumstances. And even if it's consensual. And even if there isn't any good reason to believe that the consent was coerced in any way????
It's crazy how Joe can say stuff that makes so much sense and then completely flip on a topic like this. Oh Joe.
ThaRedPitbull-Mix
It's not surprising. He went HARD to make sure everyone knew Carlos Mencia was a joke thief. Then he defended that hack Amy Schumer when she was stealing from everybody
He's been on a downslope for months. He's changed.
Does nuance bother you?
only when he doesn't agree with it
#whenyouaskforalighterin2017
Joe, it IS THE SAME for boys and girls. Stop projecting your sexuality onto adolescent boys
Its not the same for all girls. Or all boys. Shut the fuck up. Quit injecting your self into all people. Im pretty sure joe doesnt inject himself into adolescent boys anyway.
Dove Rain is a female...
That is precisely my point. Joe seems to think that with girls it's either damaging, or under the right circumstances, fine. He then says that for boys "it's not the same". My point is that it IS the same, because it can be both damaging to boys and girls, and under the right circumstances, fine.
@@Ixaglet ok. Well i think we mean the same thing then.
Ok :D
I love it when hypocrites get exposed, especially when they’re this self righteous.
As a Psychologist I have to bring some helpful insight into this topic: molestation at any age, regardless of gender, is traumatizing in different ways to the victim. Yes, he was 17. But how he was impacted by this sexual encounter will forever impact how he sees women, goes about getting sex in the future, and how his perception/behavior is of/toward himself. We don't know him personally, but I've counseled lots of victims of sexual abuse and a victim's behavior becomes extreme on opposite ends of the spectrum: either self loathing and self harming because of being abused and not getting help/sympathy, or cocky and aggressive because he believes he can sleep with anyone now and will try extreme means to get sex in the future. Every molestation case is different, but it ALWAYS impacts the victims in negative ways regardless of age and gender.
you are not a psychologist you are a youtube fantasist.
Whats it like being a psychologist. Im thinking of doing a psychology degree but im still on the fence. Anything i need to know. Do you honestly think it is a good career choice?
What he? Dove Rain is a female.
He wasn't molested. He was sending her nudes and chose to have sex with her. He then blackmailed her, using the statutory rape law, for money.
WOuld a year make a difference.....18.....what about 19......sorry 17 isnt a big deal to me. I say age of consent should 16.....at that age you know what youre doing, you should be able drive, join the army and vote. ANd buy cigarettes
I disagree with Joe on this. If it's a crime for a 17 year old girl, it's a crime for a 17 year old boy, and equally wrong.
@@squarerootof2 actually, it is a crime, except in very specific circumstances or locations. And either way its morally abhorrant for a 37 year old woman to sexually groom a teenager shes known since he was 7, while at the same time decrying men like Weinstein for the exact same thing.
If anything I think most men that fuck much older women do it because pussy's pussy. The girls that fuck older men usually have active preference for older men.
The point is it shouldn't be a crime for either. And it's not in many US states. You saying she sexually groomed him since age 7 is nothing more than an assumption to make it seem even more weird. If a 17 year old can strap themselves in a car and drive around at 75mph right next to a minivan full of nuns and orphans, surely they can determine rather or not they want to be fucked. I was 16 when I lost my virginity to a 14 year old girl. Had my first and only one of two experiences of fucking a girl in the ass with that same girl when she was 15. When I was 15 I tried to make a move on my cousins 22 year old GF at the time. She shut me down because I was too young but to this day I wish she hadn't. The point is, horny teens know what they're doing.
I think a lot of it is just the hypocrisy factor. You put yourself on the moral pedestal people will want to knock you off it, so you might as well not in the first place.
+Round Earth Shill
"You saying she sexually groomed him since age 7 is nothing more than an assumption to make it seem even more weird."
And she's claiming Weinstein sexually assaulted her without any proof whatsoever, weird huh?
"She's a fu*king monster." The only true thing Joe said here.
She drove Anthony Bourdain to suicide.
@@raydavison4288 Funny how few people discuss this. After all he went through and survived, I suspect this incident drove him to suicide also.
@@AdamOMcMurphy maybe they will now with the new CNN Anthony Bourdain documentary money grab....lol
"Is it a crime?" Yes Joe, yes it is. That's how crimes work buddy.
Crimes?
What is that?
Jaime, pull that up.
So, then you are, of course, logically consistent and consider abortion a crime? I can be assured that you could never be a hypocrite?
@Hue The same goes for you.
Its called a hypothetcal question, look it up
He works for Disney so you have to expect it.
Age is *not* the issue here. The grooming & power-dynamic over the years *is*
This is why AOC laws need some uniformity in the States. Look at Europe.
age IS the issue, she groomed him since he was at least 12{when she dooped him into giving her naked photos of himself and kept them for materbatory fodder}.
Grooming and power dynamic over the years is also the issue, but so is age
Uniformity like Europe???
Age of consent in Europe ranges from 14 to 17 depending on which country it is. There's no uniformity here.
Consent requires that both parties can say yes and no.
Part of Joe's workout routine it straddling the fence ALL DAY LONG.
😂😂😂
Is what makes his leg strikes more powerful.
Its called not taking a hard stance to promote discourse
Yes! Thank you. Man, I thought that I was the only one who noticed that......
Keeps him in great shape though
Even if 17 were consensual it doesn't explain the grooming and her position of power over him.
What position of power?
I think she may have mentally messed him up calling him her son and stuff and then sleeping with him. Who knows though
No doubt are you kiding me
Definitely. If she just fucked him without the whole motherly relationship then it's all cool but come on. You're like a mother to him and fuck him? That's messed up.
She knew him since he was 9.
The boy confessed that he worshiped her & treated her like a "mama" since he was 9.
Go on, she had with a kid who called her mama. That's grooming 101.
Definitely sum fucked up Freudian psychological momma thing going on thats for sure.
If he's that fucked up by her don't be surprised if he turns into a deviant predator one day either....its often the case those experience harm inflict similar harm down the line.
@@MRLONG758 Yeah it's twisted for sure.
"It's different for boys because they want it and like it." - So what if a 17-year-old girl wants it and likes it? Should it be legal? Just because boys have a reputation for being more sexually stimulated, doesn't mean they're not being taken advantage of. A line needs to be drawn somewhere, and if we are going to perceive men and women as equals (especially under the law) then this makes sense. Love Joe's podcast but fuck is he wrong on this.
I guess that’s why many of us watch Joe. He just has the perfect mix of kind yet planet wtf answers.
yeah sounds messed up, I feel like they're treating this like a joke. It's messed up.
It’s real sad tbh. Look, when I was 17 I would’ve absolutely loved for an older woman to take me to bed, but I fully understand how creepy it is for a grown person (man or woman) to be creeping around with younger people like that. And Men aren’t a monolith, me and some of my friends may have wanted that but it doesn’t mean that EVERY 17 year old boy does. Joe can be really dense sometimes
He was 17, but HE says it was traumatizing. Joe's blanket statements on him being fine is ignorance. She groomed him from the age of 7.... she had sex with him at 17 (under the legal age), he said he was traumatized by the encounter.... Nothing about this is "fine" either for her and not for the guy either. You can't tell me grooming someone for sexual exploitation and carrying it out doesn't have some psychological ramifications.
17 is under the legal age?
BUT MEN ARE NOT WOMEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT MEN, people like you will not be happy until we are all some sort of andogynous half sex.
No, I'm just against pedophilia and sex grooming... you must be the person who is in favor of such things.
In California, yes.
It means to be attracted to prebuescent children. then there is hebophilia{attaction to pubescent children/tweens} and ephebophilia{attraction to mid-late teens/pre legal age}, they're all morallyt wrong and illegal- to different degrees of course, but still.
She groomed him from at least age 12{pubescent child} when she dooped him into giving her naked photos of himself{there is proof of this btw} then could'nt even wait one more year till he was legal and had to give in at age 17; either way she was in her 30's at both times}, this is just evil and sick and wrong, if you can't understand this than you are either stupid, morally lazy, or a sociopath.
"Joe, for such a smart guy you're also pretty dumb. No offense. I'm a big fan. But you clearly are giving Argento a pussy pass. I mean, she not only manipulated a 17 year old boy into fucking her, but more importantly they had a relationshiop going back years. Like you said she played his son in amovie when he was 7, but it has come to light that he sent her{or she solicited him for} photos of him naked when he was 12 and she was in her early 30's, and she KEPT those photos, did not tell him to stop, did not report what happenned. Clearly she kept them for masturbatory fodder. She displays the classic signs of a pedophile{or to be more accurate, I doubt she is afull blown pedophile, but Hebephilia or probably more accurately Ephebophilia , at least somewhat so}- clearly she was grooming him from at least age 12. Then she could'nt even wait until he was fully legal, satutory raped him when he was 17 and she was 37, she could'nt even wait one more year. That is very telling.
Ask yourself Joe, if the gender roles were reversed here, and she was a 30-something adult male, and he a female/girl whom played his daughter at 7 and then he groomed her from age 12{keeping naked photos of her at age 12 for fodder} and grooming her from that age till age 17, not yet legally adult, and gave in ad fucked her whe she was 17, would you be dooing the same mental, moral backflips and making light of it? I doubt it. And the gedner roles were reversed here the man after being accused and exposed with so much evidence would IMMEDIATELY go to trial and be put in jail for years and NO ONE would be dooing backflips to lighten the seriousness of the crime, and he would be in the news media on a 24 hour news cycle talking about it for weeks, probably months or longer...allmost nonstop{rightly so}.
You make these excuses that "it's not the same", or "it's different" for boys and women then girls and men, but this is utter nonsense. You have this myth in your head that all teenage boys are just hormone driven sex machines that want to fuck anything with breasts and that if a adult women takes sexual advantage of them that basically 'they're lucky" and not gonna be traumatized{some might not be, but others clearly are- Jimmy is one example of that; and there are teen girls who would also give their left arm to fuck an adult man who they find attractive and not be traumatized by it- others wold be though; trauma or no- that's not the point}.
It's the exact same, it may even be slightly worse. Remember that females mature phyiscally and psuychollogically about 2 years faster than males afterall.
But yeah, it IS the same, it's NOT different. Either adults groominng children from such a young age and then manipulating them into sex in their mid-late teens is morally indefensible and evil or it is not. You don't get to make arbitrary double standards depending on gender. Enough with this mindset of the west under marxist feminist indoctrination for decades now that women and girls should not be held to the same standards of accountability and responsibility as men and boys are. This is a logical and moral fallacy. Equality means EQUALITY, not just the good stuff- but also the bad stuff and especially of responsibility/accountability, and male victims{especially minors} are just as important as female ones{especially minors}. You can't have it both ways. Either you have gender equality or you don't.
Wake up and smell the coffee brother"
Not all boys could handle it at 17.
i couldn, i was an emotional wreck. I probably wouldve wanted to marry the first girl i slept with
I thought I was going to, but she turned into a two timer so I opted out.
I think it's very sexist to say that boys aren't affected. Some really are and they are emasculated for it. It's the whole stereotype the men who show emotion are weak.
@@angiev1840 spoken like a true woman. What did you base that on seriously?
boys are taught to be OK with it, doesn't mean it doesn't damage us. I hope he's fine, I hope it's not affecting him. Justice needs to be blind, don't give her a pass when she broke the law
you think you are fine, you don't know you are fine. there's a difference.
and just because you might be OK, doesn't mean every other 15 year old will, thats not how people work, would you have been fine if you'd had to pay child support for the next 18 years after that 15 year old "fun"
you can't just apply your own experiences to everyone, it doesn't work like that.
That's what I said, obviously some people won't be affected. That's what I'm hoping for in this case.
That doesn't mean she gets to skip the justice system. Assault is still assault even if you don't cause permanent damage.
You are aware I made it pretty clear it was my own experience. The only broad stroke I made was talking about how man and woman are different and equality is a myth.
The guy she messed with was traumatized and that's why he was paid off
i want you to go to a bar and tell all the men there that having sex with an older woman traumatized you. there's a limit to how sensitive a guy can be before he's seen as a bitch.
If she didn't do anything wrong , why did the kid get money to keep his mouth shut .
Companies settle out of court just to not be dragged through the legal system. Sometimes people think it's just easier. Doesn't always mean they feel they've done anything wrong.
Bc the law is questionable
Narukami because he’s not old enough to consent he wanted to donk her and he sucked in the bedroom he doesn’t want anybody to know that it’s black mail
she is a freak though. Fucking bitch was asking him to call her mom.
Many reasons. Think first.
So men and women shouldn't be equal under the law then Joe?
Yes because who doesn't look back fondly on being molested. You think because she is a woman she should get a pass because molesting a child was a favor to that child. Here is a news flash if a woman is not capable of sexually molesting a boy then guess what. The inverse is also true and men can not sexually molest girls. People like you disgust me Tria. You're little perma boner comment shows just how little you know. During the ages of surprise surprise 13-15 the average boy is hitting puberty and his body goes out of whack you don't have perma boner because your constantly horny. You have it because your body has 0 idea what is happening to it. But yes do keep advocating for child molesters
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Just as long as you're okay with having different laws for men then you have for women.
That opens up a whole lot of doors if the law is allowed to be gender discriminatory however.
I mean if boys are able to consent earlier that girls, what else can boys do that girls can't?
@@darkmantlestudios boys are able to consent earlier, even tho they mature slower... makes sense.
@@SlyNine oh it's completely divorced from reality, it's purely a feelings thing
@lucaboden dumb. Forced sex is forced sex.
Easy to laugh it off when you haven’t experienced the shame and the feeling of being constantly dirty. They obviously have no clue what it’s like to be abused
A lot of other people have pointed out the grooming angle of this case and how that makes it very sick. Another thing to think about is that around this time is also when he sued his parents for stealing from his trust fund. So while he is dealing with a massive betrayal from his biological parents, a surrogate parental figure has sex with and then seemingly drops him like a bad habit. All of that together would have to be a fairly traumatic experience and mess with your ability to trust anyone.
There's a fine line between considering men and women different (which they are) and saying they should be treated differently under the law.
Asia took advantage of him because she was grooming him.
Joe: I was working out at this gay gym 🙄.11:37 Guys would be looking at you, hitting on you and they made you feel uncomfortable. You sure, Joe? 😂🤣😂🤣
since when do women need to "groom" men. There's plenty of young men that if given the option would sleep with older woman. You're tying to overcomplicate it. She's still a horrible person for using weinstein and bourdain
@@dragorn3212 She literally groomed his as *child, do you know how much psychological damage & trauma this type of stuff will do to a child?! I guess you don’t…& why in hell is this even a gender-based issue? Pedophilia is pedophilia. Period.
Comments like this are literally the very reason there’s a stigma around men coming forward with sexual assault & grooming. Statistics are skewed because of this, the gap between both male & female victims is minuscule. Once again, it’s our sick sexualized society influenced by Hollywood that caused this type of culture to be swept under the rug for so long.
@@bastian9693 Possibly but its not always the case that a woman needs to groom a guy, males have naturally high s3x drive so lets not give her too much credit. She is a terrible person because of what she did to Bourdain especially
Joe Rogan is being a real hypocrite here.
He is a fake, hypocrite often. Like his views on Illegal immigration..as he moves his own azz out of California because he is rich, and complains how bad it is to live there now.
Like his views on his own freedom of speech talking to hundreds of conspiracy "theories" on his channel for years, and then literally threw his own "Friend" AlexJones under the liberal bus.
Like him as a comedian, throwing Roseanne under the bus, even if he has been targeted by liberal mobs often, like when he called someone a monkey, and himself a monkey as a joke.
@@JesusPerez-iw3ey awwwwe butthurt little latino?
@Spinal Compression really? are you on Rogan's payroll or on his d!ck? if Jesus Perez is wrong then refute him with an actual argument.
hahaha you like limp bizkit ....how embarrassing
@@archangelo536 i fucking love limp bizkit u stupid piece of shit.
Sleeping with someone who raised you and played your mother and promised you work
Good point , when I searched for Argento I had no idea that this topic will come up
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She RAISED him? I don't disagree with anything. I'm just wondering about that part.
Angelica Darlin she was a mother figure
you mean 'acted' as his mother in a film? he's got his own mom, she's not his mother...
his own mother would probably be offended by saying another woman 'raised' her son. There's a difference between fiction and real life.
Asia Argento is Dario Argento's Scariest creation.
She didn't have to be.
17 is not a man lol
I heard she was screwing him since he was 12. Is that not true?
These days a 30 year old is note men.
Id kick your dumb ass tho.
Correct, but Dove Rain is a female, so not sure how this applies.
13 is for jews
Joe really does look like a thumb
Jason Rose lol...or a big toe
Jason Rose 😂😂😂 he used to be so handsome what happened joe
I was gonna say the same thing but Owen said it.. and if you are holding your phone beside the screen.. yea u get the point
Thumb Rogan meme when?
It’s due to long term steroid use
the very fact that a person he had had a mother son relationships with jumped him, sent the other adults he was with away and gave him alchohol, surely that kind of rapid relationship swap would be traumatising initself
1st time I've been annoyed with something Joe Rogan has said, never thought it would happen. Asia groomed that boy by manipulating their faux maternal bond and slept with him under the age of consent, there is no difference, legally or morally
The hypocrisy of her actions with her at the head of this me too bullshit is the problem that kid is just as bad as her looking for a payout they're all scumbags
1 year under the age of consent...hardly an issue. He could have been 17 and 8 months. Like he was a grown up basically. He was able to make a conscious decision on his own whether he was gonna sleep with her or not
Badge Man I’m confused at your point
Cairo XI I don't think you understand the dynamics of this. Her being a figure of authority in his young life is a big deal. In that situation, that person telling you that you should do something, like have sex with them, carries a different weight than if some random 37 year old tried to have sex with him. We sacrifice some of our moral reasoning when it's someone we have trust in
Jsh Shh it was consensual sex either way. He wasn’t coerced into having sex with her. He did that on his own accord
“I think the worst part about a rapist is the hypocrisy”
I got it norm!
Isn't the worst part the raping?
Thx Norm McDonald.
Just ask Joe what if it was your daughter?
The guy was 37 and your daughter is 17. No big deal right joe. It's legal
Correct. 17 is too young to bring up kids, without the parents of the father and mother.
"I recommend watching the documentary, "Author: The JT LeRoy Story" and you will another side of Asia Argento that uses her sexuality to win the film rights to a book featured in the documentary. Ms. Argento denied this accusation in a September, 2016 NY Times article regarding the film. However, when her #MeToo story broke in 2017, the first thing that popped in my mind was this documentary and her participation in it. It clearly doesn't portray her in a good light. The Asia Argento you see in the film does not come across as a victim of the dark side of Hollywood but instead someone who wants to win at all costs and will use sex as one of the tools of her trade. For her to have sex with a 17 year old actor who played her son in a film 9 years earlier is wrong, statutory rape and quite frankly downright creepy. "
anis Anis she is the dark side of Hollywood.
She is a sociopath and doesn't care Bourdain killed himself, she wasn't bothered at all about him killing himself and took no accountability. Pure piece of shit manipulator
Woody Allen doesn't get enough shit for what he's done
He is just gross.
Pyro-Nexus
Make shitty films???
Fucking and marrying his chinese adopted daughter. And he already did get enough shit from it, sorry if you're late to the party
Not enough in today's context. He's a diddly freak.
Kanye West Kardashian I haven't really seen them
“Should she have done it? Definitely probably not”
Joe come on. First of all you dont know the type of grooming that took place for this to have happened. She worked with this kid. She was most likely someone he looked up to and his parents likely trusted her as well to be a responsible adult. I'm sorry but a 17 year old is a kid. Boy or girl it doesn't matter. She took advantage of him. And I'm sure he's messed up a little bit from this.
Jamie got an A in physics and even he saw Joe’s hypocrisy with this issue.
Double standard of the highest order.
6:55 "It's just emotions"
Isn't that apart of sexual assult victims? Damage physically and mentally?
Eco Bear joe is just half smart and sometimes makes good points. But it’s not a genuine energy to me. It’s just him knowing what to say to get a positive reaction. He really showed his true contradicting nature in this one.
@@juggernauttheskydiver5177 for a moment i did think he was trying to be someone in the middle but he's clearly just talking to the masses
He's not talking to Incels. Wrong channel lads.
emotional damage is also apart of sex between mature adults. I think the reason for age laws is more so to protect fragile and inexperienced minds, not necessarily 'kids'.
Joe, double standards , rogan
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This comment didn't age well.
@@lucascoval828 Well, what do you expect? It was two years ago! Everything's happening way too fast to keep up, but we must learn from our past mistakes. Anyway, thanks for bringing it to my attention. I will delete it right now.
You were right about double-faced Rogan. My apologies for that comment from two years ago, Danny.
Argento is, to quote David Crosby, "a purely poisonous predator."
Joe loved you for years your about 90% correct on everything.... your 100% wrong here
"your"
Fantastic rebuttal you must have been no.1 In debate class
Rebuttal to what? You gave no argument.
It seems someone got offended and deleted my comment. lmfao. These fucking Incels!
@2:40 "She's a fuckin' monster."
How apt for the daughter of D'ario Argento, one of horror's greatest masters.
when i was 17 this would of been a gift from god
Yes women and men are different. Doesn’t mean we can’t treat each other the same. And even if he wanted it he’s still under age. Supposedly She gave him alcohol at 17. That’s a NO NO across all 50 state.
17 year olds girls should never be with men in their 30's 40' etc. Just say you re a p3d0ph, not "men and women are different"
Plus men commit these crimes most of the times, get over it, p3d0
@@selrox879 you’re in the wrong comment section bot.
This lady basically groomed this kid. Even if boys at 17 are different than girls at 17, it's still disgusting what she did.
She met him at the age of 12 too. So this started much earlier
@Big Street Reppin The boy was 12 and she was 27 when they started their relationship
Dont we all have the potential to be perverts at any age? Its natural sure. But when we act inappropriately there are consequences. If youre ashamed thats natural. You should be. Shame is supposed to teach us right from wrong, i think.
How are they different you f weirdo? You re a ped0ph
17 year old should never ever date with men in their 30's 40's etc. Plus this happens rare (when women are predators) men like you chase the underaged girls all the time. Digusting, if you would have a daughter you wont think like that but who the hell procreates with a p3d0
I don't care if it's wildly inaccurate, I'm still blaming her for Bourdain.
Any sort of sexual relationship between teacher and student is completely inappropriate and disgusting! Well-adjusted adults do NOT look to teens as romantic companions - PERIOD.
Unless it's a female superior versus a male subordinate, then, it's perfectly OK. 👌 Signed, Feminists.
praetorx ian www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-act-violence/201208/female-teachers-sexual-predators%3Famp
Yup
The fact that she knew him when he was 7 is just creepy!
I am so sorry for Anthony Bourdain. He paid a heavy price for being such a gentleman and in love with such a ruthless hypocrite. He killed himself because of what she made him do to cover up for her. 😭😭😭😭
He was a grown man, she didn’t “make” him pay off a sexual assault victim. They are both horrible people, there’s no amount of love or affection you could give a normal person to “make” them do that.
Nobody can make a grown man do anything. He had a mind of his own and did what he wanted to.
the timeline for the beginning of her relationship with Anthony Bourdain, the legal accusations against her, Bourdain paying off the kid, then Bourdain committing suicide is... interesting.
Sex with a 17 year old guy ain't such a huge deal, generally speaking there's little damage to be done. Still though, the fact that she was hanging around the guy since he was a kid calling him "son" makes it seem like there was some weird grooming aspect involved. I think in this case the relationship prior to sex is where the potential for damage resides rather than the sex itself being the cause of the damage.
Good point
Ixaglet ain't nothing wrong with that. Girls mature faster than boys so technically speaking a 17 year old girl would be the maturity level of a 20 year old boy. But anyways like the original commenter said, the problem isn't th fact they had sex, the problem is the fact that she knew him since he was 7 and had a mother/son type relationship with him prior to having sex with him. That's the messed up part here.
I disagree I'm afraid. Imagine your 17 year old son being given alcohol and then fucked by his 34 year old co-worker? Also, don't assume "any 17 year old kid would wanna fuck any woman!". It might be true in some cases, but not for all of them. That's you projecting your sexuality onto a kid.
In this case though, this guy wanted to fuck her so that point is moot.
Main point is though, as Joe said, that sex with underage boys vs girls is different because a) women are physically weaker and b) they can get pregnant.
Thats not to say this particular case was right, it wasnt, but if the genders were reveresed, it would be worse - for the aforementioned reasons.
Unless youre one of those crazies who claim that there is no difference betweeen men and women, i dont see how you can make the claim that the situations are the same.
We dont know how much of it is true - if all is then of course its unequivocally fucked up. Perhaps she did take advantage of him. Or perhaps he did beacuse he was horny. Or because he wanted money. Who knows.
> Is it okay if a girl who's just turned 17 wants to fuck a 34 year old man? Or should we assume that she's a naive teenager?
Naive teenager? Likely. But considering the age of consent in most of the western world is lower than 17, apparently its not that big of deal. Its certainly suspect on the part of the older person. But not necessarily bad.
While i have no sympathy for Asia Argento, she seems to be a crazy, Iying bitch, i could see her one claim being true - that is, when she texted someone about not knowing he was underage because she didnt know aoc in California was 18 rather than 15 or something in Italy. It might seem odd to some but to a average european, a 17 year old is way past ready to fuck, legally.
Thats why i think the problematic thing would be the apparent grooming and the quasi-incestuousness of the whole thing rather than the age.
> Girls being weaker is a non argument, because we're talking about statutory rape, not violent forceful rape.
Fair enough.
> Yes they can get pregnant. Abortions exist. So does adoption, or keeping the baby.
Yeah well, nevertheless its a bit of a complication, to put it very lightly.
> Not to mention that the older woman can get pregnant too. And then they sue their rape victim for child support, as in the case of Nick Olivas.
Well, that is beyond fucked up but i would assume thats a crazy unusual case, hopefully.
It’s the overall hypocrisy of the MeToo movement. A man doing the same thing is predatory vs oh the guy will be ok. Double standards
Joe "is it a crime" Rogan
Good song btw (sade)
No, not even close.
It is statutory rape, according to state law.
But its definitely not rape, unless he was unconscious or fucked against his will.
Though peoples feelings play a big role of course, it isnt purely personal disaproval. I think its pretty well documented that sexual relations at a young age, especially with an adult who can easily exploit the younger person, often lead to mental issues later in life.
Thats why i think it is reasonable to have some limit although 18 might be a bit too high. 16 is more common anyway.
So technically, a 30 year old wouldnt get punished by law in most places for being with a 16 year old. Punished by society, thats another matter. It is certainly suspect but i wouldnt start screaming "pedo" instantly either. I could give a person like that the benefit of the doubt. But though i dont have any statistical data, from experience, most older guys that ive come across who date young girls (legally) are creepy fucks so im kinda torn about whats the best solution.
Fuck your feelings, Incel.
I think she broke Anthony Bourdain’s heart. She cheated on him with Hugo Clement.
I think she killed him or had him killed to make it LOOK like a suicide because his concience was bothering him and he wanted tor report her.
So, Please, from this moment on, state that ALL Women in the same situation are "going to be OK".
Unless of course, you have prejudice, bias & bigotry towards men?
If my car is stolen - is that a different crime to whether a woman's car is stolen?
You need to think though your anti male hate there Joe....
Shame on you.
Joe Rogan is some how turning into the worst type of SJW. It's weird watching all of these online sources of information I pretty much primarily watch for information all at the same time start turning into the exact same thing they were against.
Youre not alone.
Colezy_k thank you, not nearly enough people recognize this.
I'm not antiSJW hence why I stated my disagreement was him being the "worst" type. I'm pro right, anti wrong. I'm all for a system of equality ... EQUALITY... The end. Either it's equal down the middle or there is no such thing and these double standards if anything makes Joe a sexist who holds both sexes to a different standard. I'm okay with that too... I grew up in the age "Women are the fairer gender" fine... stop talking about equality then. Either they're equal or they aren't ... either husbands start getting custody and half the womans wealth too or there is no such thing as equality. These media pushed double standards are tired and ridiculous.
You mean all the SJW's who pushed the SJW narrative every day of their existence until they defended a 37 year old fucking a 17 year old boy opposite of what they'd say if it was a man banging a 17 year old girl?
@@fsmfsm9941 it's not about being an sjw if your think having sex with an older woman at 17 leads to trauma.
It's about countering all the hypocrites that don't apply the same type of punishment to Asia that Harvey is getting. So yes, we will keep pushing for THAT type of equality while they push for wage gap equality, but continue inequality in every way that favors them.
Joe "It's just not the same!" Rogan
Wow... This comment section is pure madness... I thought that Joe's audience was more realistic. I'm very disappointed.
Joe is 100% right on everything he says in this clip. A 16yo boy having sex with a hot 30yo woman IS NOT THE SAME as a 16yo girl having sex with a handsome 30yo man. That's just a fact. Get over it.
Joe "but not as bad as Woody Allen" Rogan.
Lol 17 is not a man
Depends how he was raised.
Yeah, if he was raised in the Wild West and had to fight bears like in the Revenant, he's a man at 17. If he's a coddled millenial child star, he's not.
/thread.
One year off from being able to serve your country...
@@mannymo1847 Assuming if he JUST turned 17. If he's only a week away from being 18 ... like, literally people are saying it's not okay to bed a "kid" who's 17 and 3/4 years old, but do nothing to change the laws allowing that same "kid" to go off and die in war the moment he hits 18.
Still a kid
I think this was a case of the boy wanting to lose his virginity.
Like I previously said, Asia Argento is crazy and plays people for her own amusement, has double standards and most likely because of her hypocrisies with that 17 yo kid, it might have been the cause of Bourdain's pain.
Joe "is it really pedophilia" Rogan everybody
How did Joe know right off of the top of his head the the age of consent was 16 in New Jersey?
A poor friend of mine went to jail for a few years and now has a permanent record as a Child Kidnapper simply because he was 20 and had taken a 16 year old girl with other people in his car to a music festival in another State. His parents reported her missing and he was arrested. I guess he just had a really bad lawyer or maybe they might have proved he didnt know she was running away from home. But still it's kinda scary how easy it can be to cross the moral line and pay for it the rest of your life.
I agree it's quite sad. Doesn't sound like he did much wrong.
But she just said that Bourdain made the payment, is that already proven to be a fact? I think she is throwing him under the bus because he is not around to defend himself.
The reason why the age of consent isn’t just “have they hit puberty?” Is because they’re still very vulnerable and susceptible. Especially mentally at the early teenage years. I personally think there should be a law where it’s 18 years old IF the other person is 21 or older.
Even if I were to agree that "it isn't that bad" when it's a dude being taken advantage of, I would still say jail her. Why? Because laws have to be neutral and consistent across the board. Laws cannot be as hypocritical as Asia Argento is. As a society we owe it to ourselves to hold ourselves to the same standards in the spirit of fairness, otherwise you get currents of people full of resentment because we hate differentiated treatment from the state.
No one knows what happened between Asia and that dude. It sounds like a shakedown to me, but who knows.
Best line 3:35. Shes being a hypocrite. Right after he said rape of a 17 year old is ok if its a boy.
good point by joe about women being more vulnerable than men, of course that isn't true for everyone but generally speaking it is, i've been hit on by gay men as a straight guy and never felt threatened by physical violence because you'd better pack a lunch if you think you're making a move on me, women can be overpowered so it's much different. generally speaking.
Who are we to judge how a victim feels? Maybe it is ok for a lot of 17 year old boys to have sex with a much older person but that isn't the case for all.
Laws are laws and everybody should be treated equal.
Legal age is one thing, but there are laws that disallows sexual relationships between teachers and students while the students are at the school
Joe "crimes that are crimes aren't crimes" Rogan
She was grooming him that’s messed up. If they were strangers I’d agree but she’s got power over him. 17 me would be fine with it but you never know how you feel about it later in life.
Check out President Macron of France and his wife. He was 15 she was maybe 41, teacher! That's ok right?
You're being sexist against man Joe, but you have a fantastic argument. Men and women are different physically.
Never heard of her
Joe had his White Knight helmet on today
Age of consent in NJ is 16 plus 4 years. He would still have a case in nj
The age of consent in the UK is 16 too, yet an adult sleeping with someone that age is illegal. The law is only the law when it suits people and we expect a black and white concept of good and bad to cover the countless complexities of human behaviour
Great....more material for owen benjamins podcast..😒#brokenrecordbear
Brandonian3030 you don’t gotta listen fuck face
Kevin O'Comedy you're right.
My problem with Joe's stance on this is that he is advocating for a position where the law is different for men and women. He is OK with men/women being treated differently in this case but I'm sure that he would be against men/women being treated differently in another case, i.e. if an employer said that he wouldn't hire women because they're weaker than men (in general). Or what about courts giving custody to women over men (I don't know the % but I know it's high).
If you don't advocate for everyone being treated equally under the law that means you are OK with you being discriminated against as long as there is evidence that you're category (male/female/black/white/etc) is generally different from another category, even if you yourself aren't (after all not all men are stronger than the average woman).
Genitalia should not change how we feel about humans actions. Regardless how holy or how evil.
Joe got more hung up on the physical advantage guys have over most women and didn't think enough about how much power an older woman can have over a much younger man, a man who is not even 18 yet. Some would call him a kid. She knew and had a close bond with him when he was only 7 and, as they stated on the podcast here, went on to remain in contact over the next 10 years. He probably did fall in love with her, but her having sex with him definitely made that feeling more intense. It's possible she was the first female he had sex with. Her being honest in that text message that mentioned him jumping on her like that just shows that he was crazy about her. The kid probably got heartbroken, then got paid a bunch of money to keep quiet which could have been Anthony's way of trying to handle a delicate situation, and now the young man must be embarrassed as all hell that this went public, anyway.
When I was a kid .. my brothers wife’s aunt would always compliment me with sexual innuendos and hints then would say “come see me when you’re 18”
At 18 one night hanging out with her son and nephews.. when they were busy playing video games ...she asked me if I wanted a drink ... I said sure ..
She pursued me from there on.. and I DID NOT refuse .. she was very attractive and I would sometimes as a kid sorta imagine “what if” but never too seriously.
The question is .. does it open a door for more of that type of sexual interactions? Yes... I believe because of that situation I am now more willing than I was before to sleep with a woman older than me.
I find myself looking at “hot cougars” once in a blue.
Poundz978 To answer your question, I would say Yes as well. When I was a teenager and I would get hit on from older men, I knew the deal already and I was bullet proof baby! I wasn't going to fall for that crap and never did. Thankfully my mother installed it into my sister and I that men of all ages will come to talk, befriend and wanna hangout but never be alone or think cause a guy is much older it's something cool cause we were teenagers. Now as a 34 year old woman, I'm so thankful for my mother and her guidance. She saved us from all the lurking creeps..
Disclosure with Michael Douglas & Demi Moore, good shit! 👏🏼😂
Wasn't the plot of Disclosure more about her blackmailing him for sleeping with her as his subordinate? I'm pretty sure one of the taglines for the movie was "Sex is power", meaning she purposefully slept with him to blackmail him, which is sexual assault to some degree. Coercion is a real thing and so is male ego, just because in his mind he knows it's wrong, doesn't mean she can't talk the dude into it and equally him thinking he can't back down from the proposal because she might decide to tell everyone you fucked anyway, or worse accuse him of rape and just obliterate his credibility.
I agree on a physicality level it's not the same, and being physically overpowered is a real concern for women no doubt, but haven't plenty of dudes been unwillingly talked into doing the dirty despite having a significant other? And vice versa, coercion is a two way street and both men and women have crossed it in the past.
TL;DR - Men and women both have their weapons to use in this sexual power struggle, and one isn't to be as easily dismissed as the other when both are equally as dangerous as the other when competently wielded by a person with full intent to exploit it.
Disclosure was 100 times more realistic than the episode of Blossom where Joey quit his job because his hot boss TIFFANI AMBER THIESSEN was sexually harassing him.
The problem is trying to apply a standard law to something nuanced. It depends on the situation and the individuals.
i think it was Rose McGowens partner leaked the pictures and the story
Keep it Gulley why would she do that? She looks like a fool for telling the public to go easy on her and it completely discredits the entire “movement”.