Infatuation is an emotion that comes and go. It will fade. Love is a choice that grows stronger with time and effort. Most people confuse infatuation with love which explains the question in the title.
I feel like I am the odd man out here! We had the perfect marriage, until it wasn't! And I have no one to turn too, no one to talk to, no one that understands. Because my husband decided a little more than a year ago, to become a woman... I at my age, do not EVER see myself with any other man, yet I am appalled by the thought of being married to a woman... Its never ending, I dont want to live without the man I married, but I feel more alone than I did before I met him! 😞 seems so unfair!!
He will never be a woman. I’m not expert, but if he wants to get surgery, I don’t see a future. Someone I know of, a guy married, decided he wanted to get surgery, his wife stayed with him until he left her. Figure out what he feels like he needs and consider how long you can handle that. And make decisions what you can accept as things change.
I feel the same way to since a year now , but we have to get busy with something else in life to not over think the person who we lost , if u want someone to talk to am here
My husband told me he doesn’t love me anymore and after watching these videos I might have pushed and he didn’t feel accepted as he was. Where do you start the conversation? I never wanted him to feel that way.
I wish my wife would watch this with me. Almost 14 years together and she's done. She fell out of love years ago and doesn't want to try anymore. She always had a reason she wasn't happy and I worked on fixing that for her, but she never seemed happy. Now that she's done I figured out where all I had failed her. Now I'm working to fix myself. To be the best version of me I can be. But it's to late. She doesn't want to be in love with me anymore.
Nathan, here’s what you do (if you’re a Christian). Pray, and stop trying too hard. At some point she has to respect you as a man, and want to serve your needs as well. It can’t be too one sided, and I’m saying this based on what you’ve written. You shouldn’t try to win her, you’re the man of the household. Remember that. You provide, you protect, and you deserve respect. If the fact that you’re trying makes things worse, just stop. Never make an individual the source of your happiness, put God first, and everything to do with Him first. She’s not above you. Don’t let her control you, just love her…
woa, my 3rd video of you guys and i am blown away by the dense/rich content here. I recommend pausing and contemplating.. PIES nice way to help one remember it. This is opening new windows into relationship. I must applaud for the great wisdom you folks are throwing at us.
Definately seems that there are some aspects of this, that I went through. It can be quite challenging. Would like to have her back, after almost fifteen years.
I believe this still, despite being single at a much older age than I ever imagined I would be. A match is a miracle from God, pray, and hope God grants you that miraculous gift.
I always hear in the sermons that there is no perfect person for you - whoever you may will be a sinner and will disappoint you, and you him/ her. So make your choice wisely and seriously. But God knows all your ways and all your choices in advance.
God gave us all free will to choose whom we do or don't marry. And we continue to have that free will, as do our spouses, as to whether we remain in and faithful to said marriage. Growing up, I heard a lot of Purity Culture type messages say things like "save yourself for the one God has for you". But there is no chapter and verse in the Bible saying anything about there being one person in particular who has been preordained to be your spouse. Prayer, wisdom, good counsel, discernment, Etc obviously need to be applied, and I believe God can bring people into or remove people from our lives. But ultimately, we have the free will to choose what we do or do not do.
Infatuation is an emotion that comes and go. It will fade.
Love is a choice that grows stronger with time and effort.
Most people confuse infatuation with love which explains the question in the title.
After watching this video it absolutely amazes me that any relationship can last.
I feel like I am the odd man out here! We had the perfect marriage, until it wasn't! And I have no one to turn too, no one to talk to, no one that understands. Because my husband decided a little more than a year ago, to become a woman... I at my age, do not EVER see myself with any other man, yet I am appalled by the thought of being married to a woman... Its never ending, I dont want to live without the man I married, but I feel more alone than I did before I met him! 😞 seems so unfair!!
He will never be a woman. I’m not expert, but if he wants to get surgery, I don’t see a future.
Someone I know of, a guy married, decided he wanted to get surgery, his wife stayed with him until he left her.
Figure out what he feels like he needs and consider how long you can handle that. And make decisions what you can accept as things change.
I feel the same way to since a year now , but we have to get busy with something else in life to not over think the person who we lost , if u want someone to talk to am here
My husband told me he doesn’t love me anymore and after watching these videos I might have pushed and he didn’t feel accepted as he was. Where do you start the conversation? I never wanted him to feel that way.
I wish my wife would watch this with me. Almost 14 years together and she's done. She fell out of love years ago and doesn't want to try anymore. She always had a reason she wasn't happy and I worked on fixing that for her, but she never seemed happy. Now that she's done I figured out where all I had failed her. Now I'm working to fix myself. To be the best version of me I can be. But it's to late. She doesn't want to be in love with me anymore.
Nathan, here’s what you do (if you’re a Christian). Pray, and stop trying too hard. At some point she has to respect you as a man, and want to serve your needs as well. It can’t be too one sided, and I’m saying this based on what you’ve written. You shouldn’t try to win her, you’re the man of the household. Remember that. You provide, you protect, and you deserve respect. If the fact that you’re trying makes things worse, just stop. Never make an individual the source of your happiness, put God first, and everything to do with Him first. She’s not above you. Don’t let her control you, just love her…
woa, my 3rd video of you guys and i am blown away by the dense/rich content here. I recommend pausing and contemplating.. PIES nice way to help one remember it.
This is opening new windows into relationship. I must applaud for the great wisdom you folks are throwing at us.
Definately seems that there are some aspects of this, that I went through. It can be quite challenging. Would like to have her back, after almost fifteen years.
Great content!! Thanks for providing this information!!
How do we address issues with our spouse without them feel unaccepted.
Can I hazard a guess that the International star is Pierce Brosnan and because thats marriage goals right there!
Good one. I was thinking Hugh Jackman.
Very well explained. Thank you.
Thanks for this Kim/Joe.🙏
Every time I hear any random person in any random RUclips video saying the word "subscribe", I always hear Kimberly pronouncing it "subshcribe".
Thanks for the content.
Thank you! So true! ❤
This is so true!!
Love is to will the good of the other!
Ok so how do we build these back 🤔
Very interesting
very good info.
I always thought God has someone for each of us. It’s what I’ve heard in many teachings and sermons.
I believe this still, despite being single at a much older age than I ever imagined I would be.
A match is a miracle from God, pray, and hope God grants you that miraculous gift.
I always hear in the sermons that there is no perfect person for you - whoever you may will be a sinner and will disappoint you, and you him/ her. So make your choice wisely and seriously. But God knows all your ways and all your choices in advance.
@@halinkap5217 the perfect person for you isn’t perfect, because you aren’t perfect. A perfect person would drive you crazy or you them.
God gave us all free will to choose whom we do or don't marry. And we continue to have that free will, as do our spouses, as to whether we remain in and faithful to said marriage. Growing up, I heard a lot of Purity Culture type messages say things like "save yourself for the one God has for you". But there is no chapter and verse in the Bible saying anything about there being one person in particular who has been preordained to be your spouse. Prayer, wisdom, good counsel, discernment, Etc obviously need to be applied, and I believe God can bring people into or remove people from our lives. But ultimately, we have the free will to choose what we do or do not do.
Love is not a feeling!!
Pierce Brosnan
Wolverine
Women and cars, when they start acting up on you, trade em in on newer paint!!!