Habits To Become A Beast In Your 30’s - Alex Hormozi

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Комментарии • 228

  • @ChrisWillx
    @ChrisWillx  23 дня назад +10

    Hello you savages. Watch the full episode with Alex here - ruclips.net/video/WO5m-roVzjg/видео.html Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period from Shopify at shopify.com/modernwisdom

    • @bluesky45299
      @bluesky45299 22 дня назад

      Quran says:”Allah:there is no deity worthy of worship except he”:The Neccessary life/consciousness,sustainer of life/consciousness.” Wire like neuronal structures that conduct electricity via ions/neurotransmitters in the CNS/PNS possess no attribute of thinking/life and yet that has “randomly” led to life. Consciousness/thinking is an innate idea(“Fitra”)that is distinct from carbon skeleton and yet the materialist scientist believes that chemistry turned into biology(abiogenesis) via “god of randomness”/”Emergent property”/”law of nature”. Limited/Imperfect Consciousness can only stem from Necessary Consciousness (Allah-one/indivisible/loving/self-sufficient Infinite perfection)..

    • @qwertyasdfg1261
      @qwertyasdfg1261 18 дней назад +1

      A "beast" should have a family in his 30s.....not crocs, nose strips and a big bank account haha

  • @bumpupsapp
    @bumpupsapp 23 дня назад +45

    Hey Everyone 🤠
    Find the parts that interest you:
    0:00 - No perfect way to live your 20s
    1:09 - Hard work vs. living it up
    2:15 - Reflecting on my university days
    4:37 - Importance of periodizing your work
    5:52 - Work-life balance over longer time frames
    6:55 - Good and bad times are temporary
    8:15 - Focus on few important goals
    9:25 - Anxiety from too many options
    10:36 - Specific ambition reduces anxiety
    12:30 - Clarity helps overcome sadness
    Recap by Bumpups ✏️

  • @SpunkeyMonkeyJess
    @SpunkeyMonkeyJess 23 дня назад +62

    "A perceived lack of options creates depression, an abundance of options with no priority, creates anxiety"

  • @Erik-leChef
    @Erik-leChef 23 дня назад +135

    Can't agree that "knowing what you need to do to work and move ahead is fairly straightforward" in your 20s. I didn't live up my 20s nor work it up. There's not always a ton of clarity for people at that time

    • @Nite_coder
      @Nite_coder 23 дня назад +4

      Make money, save it and invest it, find ways to invest it to make more money, figure out ways to grow your skills and income, those were obvious to me in my 20s, but I can’t speak for everyone

    • @CallSaul489
      @CallSaul489 22 дня назад +5

      You may not have been seeking clarity then. Some folks do.

    • @mactireliath2356
      @mactireliath2356 22 дня назад +2

      I lived it up, on the edge of life every day in my 20’s. No parental guidance, no mentors. A failing education system. A community full of drugs and poverty. I was lucky to survive, to learn and grow. It never stops until you do. And when you stop? That’s death.

    • @tenmillionbyforty324
      @tenmillionbyforty324 16 дней назад

      Couldn't disagree more, I've know exactly what to do since I was 21. Also, have a strong group of mentors behind me since 19. But, tbh it all start with KNOWING WHAT NOT TO DO.

    • @Erik-leChef
      @Erik-leChef 15 дней назад

      @@tenmillionbyforty324 That is fantastic, but that is not the norm for most people

  • @apple1231230
    @apple1231230 22 дня назад +7

    "sadness is a perceived lack of options... anxiety is many options but no priorities"
    alex be dropping sage level nuggets on a whim

  • @emate8422
    @emate8422 3 дня назад +1

    I have been working out since I was 21 years old, naturally, slow progress, but consistently. Around 30 years old, i started to be really big. Now im 33 and i enjoying the effects of my years of commitment. So i sacrifice my 20 to be better in 30

  • @TheRoyalflush666
    @TheRoyalflush666 21 день назад +12

    And being sad AND anxious is LITERAL HELL..... it's being stuck in this void of inaction where you know what you want and what you got to do but simultaneously feeling like "what's the point?"

    • @sheryaradil842
      @sheryaradil842 17 дней назад +3

      The feeling of what's the point is a weird one to have and I totally understand it, BUT the point being made here is that sometimes you just have to say screw this feeling or asking what's the point. Let's just do the work and see what we come up with after we've done something.

  • @dakotagower86
    @dakotagower86 21 день назад +9

    I hyper-focused on business for 3 years, moved away from everyone to Mexico to be completely isolated and just work. That was necessary so I can have financial freedom to live a balanced life today, but I am unsure if I could have done it with the same balance I have today and actually been happier the whole time. It’s hard to say, but don’t discount that sometimes the dues must be paid.

    • @jkuper221
      @jkuper221 15 дней назад +1

      100% : "don't discount the dues that need to be paid"

  • @big0514
    @big0514 23 дня назад +6

    He is right. Your going to spend a lot more time past your 20s than in your 20s… so if you live it up in your 20s, and regret the rest really sucks. Kind of like uncle Rico minus high school.

  • @robpalwrites
    @robpalwrites 18 дней назад +1

    This longer chunk is much better than the bite size version I saw on IG, because it has more discussion about finding a balance between the two extremes.
    I'm still not fully on board with everything they said, but that's because we all have a unique perspective that needs to be factored into whatever is optimal for us, and there was still a little bit of projection of dichotomies in what this balance should look like.

  • @nikopawlowic6557
    @nikopawlowic6557 23 дня назад +6

    I'm only 36 but I've always tried to live my life by having a mantra of when someone says it is impossible, I always respond with "Not with that attitude!". Sadly I'm cursed with two bulging discs, a dislocated pelvis, knees and a hip that love to pop out of socket. Guess what? I still keep on goin as much as I can.

  • @SBavailablehandle
    @SBavailablehandle 22 дня назад +5

    Join the military and live it up while working hard. Few people live faster and harder than the military and then you can think about what you want to be when you grow up and graduate to being a civilian again when you get out or retire.

  • @hose9853
    @hose9853 21 день назад +1

    I feel like a lot of this stuff is just a balancing act that people figure out themselves based on their specific circumstances. Good luck to all on their quest for self-improvement!

  • @christianeslick3434
    @christianeslick3434 23 дня назад +6

    The first 5 minutes of this video could be simply boiled down to the following steps. #1 find something you like, #2 get good at it, #3 build a business around it, #4 work 70 hours a week and do whatever else u want with the left over time

  • @jonathangarlinghouse
    @jonathangarlinghouse 23 дня назад +18

    I love this and will share it. I’m 38 and am learning these things still. If you can use your 20s to min max life for your future self, you won’t regret it.
    This is what I keep in my head:
    “Make decisions your younger self would be proud of and your future self will be thankful for.” You can start doing that at any age, but it’s wise to get after things in your youth.

  • @clydenolet736
    @clydenolet736 23 дня назад

    As a underlined 37 year old - it feels really cool to have the ability to do what I want and to have wisdom behind it

  • @Malix_Labs
    @Malix_Labs 23 дня назад +7

    Nothing ever matters, so you might as well enjoy the ride;
    If one day, life is going to flash before your eyes, make it worth watching.

    • @d.s.ramirez6178
      @d.s.ramirez6178 23 дня назад +2

      66 with flashing life. You are correct.

  • @stephenthomas7298
    @stephenthomas7298 14 дней назад +1

    My whole 20’s was spent in school / military.
    I worked my butt off, and the rest of my life looks bright: stock portfolios are booming, planning my 2nd & 3rd rental property purchases, blooming career in nuclear energy, great girlfriends
    Sometimes I wish I had more fun, but 30s for a guy is way better than 20s

  • @DonaldDeCicco
    @DonaldDeCicco 23 дня назад +12

    The things in your life that happen to you, will define you more than the things you plan.

  • @jamesbazakos2570
    @jamesbazakos2570 15 дней назад

    The one thing becoming figuring the way out of sadness reminds me of Viktor Frankel’s “Man’s Search for Meaning”. The meaning is in whatever the thing is right in front of you. Eckhart Tolle discusses this as well.

  • @MrStreetninja007
    @MrStreetninja007 23 дня назад +94

    At this point seeing him with a nose strip on 24/7 tells me he needs to get his deviated septum fixed

    • @GKH77725
      @GKH77725 23 дня назад +4

      He said somewhere, cant remember where, that he's had several surgeries (i think he said 2) but his breathing still isn't good.

    • @DarrkMane
      @DarrkMane 23 дня назад +5

      It's his bone structure. That's why he has a long beard as well. Guarantee you he has a mouth breathing jaw.

    • @afetherland
      @afetherland 23 дня назад +6

      @@DarrkManeit’s not hard to find examples of him with no beard, he does not

    • @skaBABBLZ
      @skaBABBLZ 22 дня назад +4

      Foreal. Can’t take the dude seriously.

    • @Muhluri
      @Muhluri 22 дня назад

      There's old pics of him out there. He's jawline isn't that bad​@@DarrkMane

  • @anthonypearl6698
    @anthonypearl6698 23 дня назад

    Now is not forever. That’s so strong

  • @Seantorky3
    @Seantorky3 19 дней назад

    This is what I needed to hear.

  • @zekebohannon6058
    @zekebohannon6058 22 дня назад

    Weirdly comforting to hear Hormozi talk about having sad periods

  • @sigma9326
    @sigma9326 23 дня назад +1

    20’s: Lived em up. Other than starting retirement investing sooner and more aggressively wouldn’t change a thing.

  • @KeithRobTV
    @KeithRobTV 8 дней назад

    Alex, you blew my mind! Smart man

  • @Chriss9445
    @Chriss9445 19 дней назад

    I lived and up and became skilled Chris

  • @holycanolly
    @holycanolly 21 день назад +2

    AH is jacked AF -- he should be thumbnail -- just sayin -- subbed + love both you bros -- 100 Million thx to you both -- ✌

  • @christianeslick3434
    @christianeslick3434 23 дня назад

    Working it up is living it up if you do the right work (4:15)

  • @MonaMarMag
    @MonaMarMag 23 дня назад +11

    The true priority and purpose in life comes always from our heart .
    Let your heart to be your guide .

  • @UnevenScales
    @UnevenScales 23 дня назад

    I spend my early twenties at war and my mid twenties perfecting the skills I learned in war. The only traveling I’ve done was to the battlefield, and the only drinking I’ve done, was because I thought it might be my last

  • @sergiochartouny3332
    @sergiochartouny3332 18 дней назад

    This is great advice!

  • @Sport_Sante
    @Sport_Sante 23 дня назад +2

    Thx for the advices 🙏

  • @johncarleton2324
    @johncarleton2324 23 дня назад

    awesome advice on specific ambition thank you so much

  • @Jujubel879
    @Jujubel879 21 день назад +1

    Balance is key

  • @prico3358
    @prico3358 18 дней назад

    Dont get a girlfriend before or during college. I got dumped the summer before freshman year. Lets just say, i didnt experience college as intended. Im 33 and this is the best advice i give to highschoolers. The one i give to my kids.

  • @Tom-kt8lu
    @Tom-kt8lu 23 дня назад +130

    Watch at 1.5x speed.

    • @buddysweeny4193
      @buddysweeny4193 23 дня назад +16

      Mediocre, I watch most everything at 2x.

    • @antwha5526
      @antwha5526 23 дня назад +2

      1.75

    • @StephenJames2027
      @StephenJames2027 23 дня назад +3

      Always

    • @bluesky45299
      @bluesky45299 22 дня назад

      Quran says:”Allah:there is no deity worthy of worship except he”:The Neccessary life/consciousness,sustainer of life/consciousness.” Wire like neuronal structures that conduct electricity via ions/neurotransmitters in the CNS/PNS possess no attribute of thinking/life and yet that has “randomly” led to life. Consciousness/thinking is an innate idea(“Fitra”)that is distinct from carbon skeleton and yet the materialist scientist believes that chemistry turned into biology(abiogenesis) via “god of randomness”/”Emergent property”/”law of nature”. Limited/Imperfect Consciousness can only stem from Necessary Consciousness (Allah-one/indivisible/loving/self-sufficient Infinite perfection)…..

    • @leonzchannelz
      @leonzchannelz 22 дня назад +12

      Rotted attention span

  • @virgnthermostat5928
    @virgnthermostat5928 22 дня назад

    Bro, speaking the truth

  • @abk1424
    @abk1424 20 дней назад +2

    Don’t forget TRT!

  • @czarli123
    @czarli123 21 день назад +23

    The answers I did not get in this video - what are the habits to become a beast in my 30's?

    • @ManModeMindsets
      @ManModeMindsets 18 дней назад +1

      I'll post a video about it soon! Reply to me, so I'll let you know when it's done!

    • @dustsettles6099
      @dustsettles6099 17 дней назад +2

      Quit porn, getting drunk, and scrolling social media. Use that time to read on your subject matter(s), or plan and attend courses or retraining through further education.

  • @jamescoholan
    @jamescoholan 23 дня назад +6

    This looks really good
    Great job on the cinematogroahy

  • @christianeslick3434
    @christianeslick3434 23 дня назад

    If you do it right you live and accumulate skills simultaneously (3:40)

  • @ZappyOh
    @ZappyOh 23 дня назад +63

    My advice:
    Don't wear nose-thingmajigs

    • @sirsaltysixty
      @sirsaltysixty 23 дня назад +1

      He needs those to breathe properly.

    • @ZappyOh
      @ZappyOh 22 дня назад +2

      @@sirsaltysixty I'm pretty sure he doesn't.
      If he actually struggled to breathe, rutine surgery would fix that in 30 minutes.
      He just like the way it looks, and the attention it garners. It's a way to stand out, and an icebreaker for him. Plus it obscures his nose, which makes me think he doesn't like his nose.

  • @JulesLife
    @JulesLife 8 дней назад

    People’s MOMS were pushing the “live it up” life? Wow. Different worlds.

  • @jacobstephens6073
    @jacobstephens6073 23 дня назад +15

    "What if your work wAs your life?"
    -insights of a man who got start owning a fun business (gyms) meaningless dribble for people whose career is (e.g. landscaping, HVAC, mechanical engineering, accounting)
    It's basically like hearing "you should smile every time you go into work" from a guy who owns a trampoline park lmao

    • @Thisisausername556
      @Thisisausername556 23 дня назад +3

      You can choose to feel better about your work on the inside, even if on the outside your work sucks. Not completely, obviously, but you can make decisions to improve how you see the work you do and it can really help in a lot of different ways. It can be a place to find purpose, or it can be the means to an end where the end is your hobbies, family, and purpose in other domains. It’s like being paid to do something you’re not passionate about, but is enough to allow you to pursue things you DO want outside of work.
      Alex has defined his life around his work, and he and his wife are 100% on board with that. If that’s not who you are, then you can apply much of what Alex talks about in other areas of your life. Like going to the gym, hobbies (that could even have potential to turn into business if you’re so inclined), learning new skills, or approaching friendships and relationships. A lot of what he says is through his lens of work > everything else because that’s what worked for him. But a lot of the advice he gives that isn’t strictly business related can be applied to most people. It just has to be applied through your own lens, and in ways that will benefit you in your position.

    • @NinjaRunningWild
      @NinjaRunningWild 22 дня назад

      You won't get ahead with that attitude.

    • @jacobstephens6073
      @jacobstephens6073 22 дня назад +4

      @NinjaRunningWild First of all, "get ahead" of what? Ahead of who? Get ahead of my peers? Ahead of my bills? Ahead of my old high school buddies?
      "Getting ahead" doesn't mean anything because as soon as you're "ahead" of your peers, you aren't really "ahead", you're just in a different group of new peers
      Don't mistake me for some nilistic doomer. I say the above as someone who has "gotten ahead" several times over. I guess I just don't like the phrase for it's under-developed perspective (i.e. "get ahead" of what? "Move forward" to where?)
      The aren't rhetorical questions, they are sincere. But the "get ahead" crowd (and unfortunately a lot of Alex's content - not all, but a lot) just has that single-focus of "ahead"/"forward" without articulating what that desirable outcome looks like for them.
      I prefer to operate in terms of "no solutions, just tradeoffs" or choosing which problems I would rather have.
      A few examples:
      - I could live paycheck to paycheck and use a credit card each year to hold me over to my tax return, OR I can have a business or rental property and I use a credit card to make updates (leveraged debt) to increase the cashflow. Still have the problem of managing a credit card (or other debt vehicles) but I prefer the latter problem.
      - Socially I could have the problem of not knowing a large enough group of people to give me as much of a social life as I'd like, OR I can have the problem of feeling slightly awkward when I attend an event alone, introduce myself to strangers, get rejected by some, make friends with some, and now I have a bigger social circle. Both are problems, I prefer thr latter.
      - I'm trying to think of a romantic example - something about the problem of never finding a perfect-match vs rolling the dice on an impetfect match - but you get my point
      To me it's unrealistic to expect a large portion of people will be able to fall in love with their work. Depends on skillset, natural talent, even local market (e.g. if you share custody of your kid who legally resides in a small town of 20k people, you're never going to get wealthy scaling up a gym or spa because there just isnt the market for it - unless you leave your kid, which, ya know... we're no longer talking about being "fulfilled" by your work, we're talking about being "partfilled" aka choosing which problems you want to have.
      Obviously that's an extremely specific example, don't get hung up on it as a "rare specific" instead see it as a randomly chosen example that is pretty representative of the level of complexity (between ones work and ones life) that makes it unrealistic to expect a blend of the two.
      So this method of "balance your work/life by merging them" isn't a realistic way to "get ahead" for most people.
      * * * Counter point to the legitimacy of Alex's philosophy
      With any method (Alex, Tony Robbins, Carnegie, Mystery, Codie Sanchez, any diet, every commision-based sales job) there's going to be a small number of "top performers" for whom the approach really works.
      That's the top 5% who see incredible results in whatever area they want to "get ahead" or "choose different problems" and those top performers will encourage the 30% of others who are approx breaking even. The remaining majority won't benefit at all from any given method.
      What I'm saying (to Alex's credit) for that 5% of people who specifically hate their job, and can't focus on anything but what they enjoy, and are in a position to access a market that aligns with what they enjoy - yes, his method of blending your work/life is going to be the only way to "get ahead"
      But for those of us who CAN focus productively on something outside our own interests
      We can "get ahead" using whatevet method we like in choosing our preferred problems.
      For those who don't "hate the 9to5" there's just not going to be enough energy in them to compete against others who are deperate to escape and "get ahead" without worrying about targeting any particular outcome (e.g. mindlessly running will always be faster than someone who is calculating and plotting a course). So people who don't have a strong aversion to the 9to5 would be better off finding careers of comfortable stability, and let their spare money work for them (growing for them over decades) in something that doesnt require them hands-on (think real estate or something with comparable returns)
      And for those people who don't have any interests that align with any market they can access, for them Alex's philosophy is a mirage in the desert. Sure, with enough determination and drive, walking in that direction, eventually they'll find water... but it isnt as close as the mirage makes it seem.
      * * * Conclusion
      So yes, you're partially right. For the minority of people who:
      - Hate their "boring job"
      AND
      - Can't focus productively on anything outside their own interests
      AND
      - Can access a market that aligns with their interests
      Yeah for them ^ you're probably right that they will struggle to ever (could say "almost never") get ahead without blending their work/life.
      For everyone else though, a different guru's message will be more effective.
      Also to Alex's credit as a marketer - he's very right and very competent to design his message in a way that appeals (highly if not exclusively) to the subset of people for whom that message will work. As a guru, there's a lot to be said for screening-out those people who would not thrive with your philosophy, simply by it being unappealing to them.

    • @Thisisausername556
      @Thisisausername556 22 дня назад

      @@jacobstephens6073 “Ahead” can also mean getting ahead of where you would be otherwise if you didn’t works as hard or as smart as you could. Just figured I’d point that out in case it helps in some way.

    • @mrknarf4438
      @mrknarf4438 22 дня назад +2

      You think owning a gym, or a trampoline park, is fun? It's all maintenance, taxes, salaries, rent... Same as with most other brick and mortar places. He was not a PT there, he owned the place.
      Also Mechanical Engineering can be tons of fun. Sure, lots of the work is repetitive and boring, but that goes for any position. You find the fun and enthusiasm in the projects themselves every now and then, you remember that spark that first brought you into the field.

  • @Joe-nx7nj
    @Joe-nx7nj 23 дня назад +172

    It doesn't matter. Live your life

    • @chrisdagher5445
      @chrisdagher5445 23 дня назад +38

      Everything you do matters.

    • @Joe-nx7nj
      @Joe-nx7nj 23 дня назад +9

      @@chrisdagher5445 exactly

    • @Saavys
      @Saavys 23 дня назад +5

      @@chrisdagher5445 until it doesn’t.

    • @colinb8332
      @colinb8332 23 дня назад +5

      Yes, find the things that you value, and immerse yourself in them. Respect others, clean up after yourself, chase your goals, regret nothing.

    • @selfgrowth4619
      @selfgrowth4619 23 дня назад +32

      You’re spending your life watching two guys gloat over their achievements and telling you to be like them while they make money off of you. Life is outside of the internet, life is more than watching two guys telling you how to live your life. Be present in your moment in the one single life that you have. Tomorrow isn’t promised, hell not even the next minute is promised. You KNOW what kind of life you want to live, or at least the kind you don’t want to live. Take charge, take action and live it to the fullest. It’s your responsibility how your life turns out, no one else’s. These two couldn’t give two shits

  • @chrissmith4025
    @chrissmith4025 20 дней назад +8

    1 Timothy 4:8 - For bodily exercise profiteth little: but godliness is profitable unto all things, having promise of the life that now is, and of that which is to come.

  • @NineInchTyrone
    @NineInchTyrone 23 дня назад

    Bismarck taught that young men needed to work their ass off and earn a place professionally either in a trade or white collar position by 28 or so

  • @biasedknowledge
    @biasedknowledge 22 дня назад

    This video hit home! Your discussion on living your 20s, either ‘working it up’ or ‘living it up,’ really made me reflect on the sunk cost fallacy and how people can feel trapped by their past choices. I’ve seen a friend stuck in regret because she focused on fun and travel in her 20s, but now feels like she missed out on career growth. The realization that you can’t go back is powerful, but accepting those trade-offs without falling into the trap of overvaluing what you’ve already invested in makes such a difference

  • @drwayne_carter9115
    @drwayne_carter9115 17 дней назад

    The way to become a beast in your 30s is the same way you become a beast in your 20s, 40s, and 50s

  • @Run.Ran.Run1
    @Run.Ran.Run1 23 дня назад +1

    After your 30s, the "LIVE IT UP" memories blur into one thought, much like a memory fart. Don't waste too much time on repetitive hedonistic experiences. The clock is ticking from day one onward. And stop saying anyways, it's anyway.

  • @803mastiff9
    @803mastiff9 21 день назад +1

    That thing on his nose reminds me of the nerd with the white tape holding his nerd glasses together.

  • @WhatIsBacon
    @WhatIsBacon 23 дня назад +2

    "You get to your 30s and you realise you didn't have either. You had your mum and two friends." Fuck man, I feel attacked :D. The only thing I'd add is that we live a hell of a lot longer today. We can somewhat afford to burn a little time as long as you still come out of your 20s more mature and with a few qualifications/experiences under your belt.

  • @zvoltejinylogin
    @zvoltejinylogin 8 дней назад

    I worked my ass off since I was 20year old I had no money, poor family and now 37, divorced live with my mom and burned myself out ended up in hospital, took me 8months to recover but still not back, found muay thai oooweeee

  • @IAmBrandonH
    @IAmBrandonH 23 дня назад +1

    I'm one of the people that didnt live it up or work it up in my 20's. I'm not 33, and worry about my finances, fitness, friends, family, and education all the time. I'm panicked that I'll possibly have nothing and Noone by the time I'm retirement age if I don't scramble to do everything right now, but if I scramble to do everything right now then I risk losing access to the people and things I care about the most.

  • @Teonproductions
    @Teonproductions 17 дней назад +1

    The rubber band on my nose prevents bad mental health 😅

  • @darkarchon2841
    @darkarchon2841 23 дня назад +1

    When are you going to be old, you won’t think about all the work you’ve done. Only family and relationships remain. This “work-work-work” American mentality is what driving you crazy.

    • @ailidh-Bcn
      @ailidh-Bcn 21 день назад +1

      Very true, the biggest regret people that are near death have is not having worked less and enjoy their life and their family more, when we get old and people we know start dying all we are left with is the memories, and for your sake they better be mostly good.

  • @christianeslick3434
    @christianeslick3434 23 дня назад

    Process and purpose are parallels in definition if you define them correctly (1:27)

  • @joshuastclairmusic
    @joshuastclairmusic 23 дня назад

    This video has some great points, and a learned so much about these ideas in ‘Finding your Inner Williamson Christmas-son for maximum gains’ by William Christon.

  • @bugballsy8569
    @bugballsy8569 12 дней назад

    idk man I was a pretty productive 20s and was in my career. Wasn’t over worked. Enjoyed my mid 20s by late 20s I was established with 2 bachelors making over 100k a year. Idk nose strip.

  • @daveSoupy
    @daveSoupy 22 дня назад

    I don’t feel like either one. My late 20’s got stolen from me thanks to covid.

  • @dpleye
    @dpleye 21 день назад

    6:15 Chris you shoulder looks like it got AI rendering, but in a good way

  • @joncollard3188
    @joncollard3188 23 дня назад +1

    Sound advice for any age. It's not too late. Great interview!

  • @christianeslick3434
    @christianeslick3434 23 дня назад

    Hard work is also a fallacy it should be called quality effective work

  • @BeefLoverMan
    @BeefLoverMan 12 дней назад

    I'd so love to hear some concrete advice from people like Alex, but I guess they have none to offer.
    Its all vague mindset stuff that only applies in their situations, mostly limited to teaching people how to market a business that teaches people how to market a business. All well and good, but at some point the ponzi will end.
    I'd love to see someone go "ok, here are the kinds of business YOU can start that bring real value and don't just keep the ponzi rolling"

  • @_vofy
    @_vofy 22 дня назад +1

    F*** my mental health? Long story short, I've been notoriously under-performing BECAUSE of my mental health. Trauma blocking the brain pathways which I need to get my actual paid work done. Maybe this particular bit will work for some but for serious issues go get them fixed. Where and how? I don't know.

  • @kenconner1599
    @kenconner1599 23 дня назад +64

    Yea I'm sure I'll be laying on my death bed looking back over my life wishing I'd worked more

    • @kayfeelzwhatitiz
      @kayfeelzwhatitiz 22 дня назад

      Hmmm very interesting

    • @mactireliath2356
      @mactireliath2356 22 дня назад +9

      …or look back over your life and wonder how many hours of it you lost to a sh!t job you were never able to escape. “At least you had the weekends”, you think in your last moments…

    • @ailidh-Bcn
      @ailidh-Bcn 21 день назад

      exactly, funny thing is that in thousands of interviews of people that are near death the first regret most of them have is of working a lot and not enjoying their family or just creating good memories, since that is all you are left with on your last years on earth.

    • @eddavies5701
      @eddavies5701 19 дней назад

      One of the 5 biggest regrets of the dying is they wish they hadn’t worked so hard

  • @ferramirez4570
    @ferramirez4570 17 дней назад

    Can I put some muscle in my 30s not being fully jacked but at least to look like I work out?

  • @JosephMenaMindset
    @JosephMenaMindset 23 дня назад

    My guy Pham Flex iykyk 💪🏽

  • @connorscortex
    @connorscortex 23 дня назад

    This lighting is ducking perfect

  • @joebrose1779
    @joebrose1779 19 дней назад

    Chris, please ask Alex, either whom I am a massive fan and disciple, to cut his hair and go short beard, short brushed hair when he hits a billion, and only wear some unique power suit. He is fooling everyone and is future president

  • @harrybennett-cowell2644
    @harrybennett-cowell2644 23 дня назад

    Wow this really hit home

  • @druncle1977
    @druncle1977 23 дня назад +20

    Live it up, and get skilled at the same time. It's not really that hard to do. You don't have to pick either of them, then when you're 30, realize that the skillset you've picked up while living it up is fucking garbage and start anew. Why do one thing the rest of your life? Why be a simpleton? Do all the things. Learn programing, learn construction, become an engineer.. Why not do it all? Are you scared? Be brave! Are you trapped? Free yourself!

    • @laservolcanogaming6943
      @laservolcanogaming6943 23 дня назад +5

      Because you don’t have real mastery that way

    • @kwyatt261
      @kwyatt261 23 дня назад +3

      There's a saying that comes to mind: jack of all trades, master of none.

    • @UnequivocallyBored
      @UnequivocallyBored 23 дня назад +6

      But still better than a master of one

    • @kwyatt261
      @kwyatt261 23 дня назад +2

      @@UnequivocallyBored Nah

    • @enbonj5842
      @enbonj5842 23 дня назад

      It's the actual saying look it up ​@@kwyatt261

  • @warrenstrife4818
    @warrenstrife4818 17 дней назад +1

    I measure my calories in decades.

  • @flash3403
    @flash3403 23 дня назад +13

    Day 20 of asking Mr. Chris Williamson about his turgid, tediously pompous or bombastic, and aspiring trophy husband forearms routine.

  • @gemin1546
    @gemin1546 23 дня назад

    Alex has a way of words that send vibrations from my brain throughout my body. Actually feels like leveling up.

  • @zenceLde
    @zenceLde 23 дня назад +3

    I’ve watched them all on RUclips and Alex is still one of the best for me.
    Raw, rough and far more open than many
    Maybe too extreme for some, but still a blessing.

  • @christianeslick3434
    @christianeslick3434 23 дня назад

    Work life balance is a fallacy life is work weather u do anything or not

  • @vincentkretzschmar4988
    @vincentkretzschmar4988 13 дней назад

    Create a life that you love

  • @michaelxortega
    @michaelxortega 22 дня назад

    Life isn’t as binary as Alex presents it. You can bend the rules. You can live it up and build skills. This is a belief statement. You can have your cake and eat it too, just make more cake.

  • @midicine2114
    @midicine2114 19 дней назад

    1:56 Bro is projecting because he pissed off his father by opening a gym.

  • @gm9460
    @gm9460 23 дня назад

    I sort of did neither. Kind of did half of both and that doesn’t leave you that well set up for 30s. But that is done now

  • @cappedvillain2522
    @cappedvillain2522 20 дней назад

    Beast in your 30s? Get some of that special medicine

  • @prico3358
    @prico3358 17 дней назад

    Im not informed. What he wears on the nose is aesthetic or for health reasons?

  • @Barbara-oh3ti
    @Barbara-oh3ti 23 дня назад

    Can i wear a cool nose thing if i become a beast

  • @Ricky-de1np
    @Ricky-de1np 22 дня назад

    Bro, what’s the intro song on the podcast episodes???? (apple podcasts)

  • @nKarje
    @nKarje 22 дня назад

    So what were the habits? Nice clickbait title.

  • @daleperkins234
    @daleperkins234 19 дней назад

    No comments about that weird thing on his nose?

  • @headlesschicken99
    @headlesschicken99 15 дней назад

    Please, people, 30s. 30s, not 30's

    • @gvkvishal4359
      @gvkvishal4359 8 дней назад

      Why not 30's?

    • @headlesschicken99
      @headlesschicken99 8 дней назад

      @@gvkvishal4359
      You shorten the decade from 1930s to just '30.
      If you talk about the age 30-39 years old, it's 30s. Just a plural form, nothing contracted to be replaced by an apostrophe. Just like saying you're in your teens.
      Something that annoys me. Similarly to Dos and Don'ts when people wrongly type do's instead.

  • @marcevan1141
    @marcevan1141 23 дня назад +3

    Does no one else find these manly man self-improvement sessions tiresome and inauthentic?

    • @albert_jo
      @albert_jo 23 дня назад

      yea i get weird vibes for some reason. i try to give him the benefit of the doubt tho cause guys i like (including chris, MPMD, etc) seem to like him

  • @texastrill2fit94
    @texastrill2fit94 23 дня назад

    I’m 29 right now and I’m still partying like I was a teen. I think I’m gonna cut that out when I hit 30 hopefully

  • @aebk8439
    @aebk8439 23 дня назад

    Got really focused around 26, seems to have worked 🤣. Still didn’t start making “real money” until late 30s.

  • @witness445
    @witness445 20 дней назад

    This dude must sell those dayam nose things... I dont think you need to wear it 24 hours a day, during a podcast

  • @LOREHAMMER40000
    @LOREHAMMER40000 17 дней назад

    Why does he have a little Band-Aid on his nose

  • @TheBlackManMythLegend
    @TheBlackManMythLegend 18 дней назад

    All of that is just marketing. Just do your marketing sell your things it's just the only thing that matter. All of that youtube stuff dont provide real value. the real value is you find a problem market it sell it. That's it . Close that video.

  • @ismaelhall3990
    @ismaelhall3990 19 дней назад

    tradeoffs

  • @boom1425
    @boom1425 23 дня назад +2

    everything is a compromise also u can still live and work in your 30s lol.... its not like u hit 30 and you locked into anything lol.... kids is the only clock u on really........

  • @christianeslick3434
    @christianeslick3434 23 дня назад

    Again if you enjoy your process you will have a purpose so why are you calling it work it up

  • @ChristianReyes-fu8px
    @ChristianReyes-fu8px 14 дней назад

    Weird

  • @Mendoza_777
    @Mendoza_777 23 дня назад +21

    Jesus is the only way ! He loves you more than your parents and all of your relatives, and He’s just waiting for you to give Him your heart 🙏🏽❤️
    Y’all enjoy the video tough !

    • @Vegan_Waterr
      @Vegan_Waterr 23 дня назад +7

      Why does he need a transplant?

    • @Muhluri
      @Muhluri 22 дня назад +1

      If he loves me so much, why does he never respond to my prayers? At least my parents respond if I call their name

    • @Mendoza_777
      @Mendoza_777 22 дня назад

      @@Muhluri I don't know you, nor do I know what you say to God when you speak to Him. But if I do know one thing, it's that God ALWAYS answers those who come to Him with a sincere and unselfish heart.
      It's true Muhluri, sometimes God hasn't answered me in the way I expected, but in hindsight, His answer, whatever it may be, is always better than what we want. God speaks and acts in HIS time, at the time He deems best to answer us, but what is certain is that His presence is well and truly palpable, and if you have the impression that He doesn't hear you, that He doesn't listen to you or worse, that He doesn't love you, I ask you in Christ's love: go to your room when you can, close the door, and talk to God from the bottom of your heart, as if you were talking to your best friend, your big brother or your confidant, because that's what he is too, beyond being our Creator. Tell Him what you're feeling, that you'd like to hear His voice, that you'd like to have an answer from Him, and that you open the doors of your heart to Him, so that He enters you, and fills you with a peace, a joy, just indescribable.
      I wouldn't have taken this time to answer you if I hadn't experienced this, so please my friend, do it, open the door to God, so you can begin a true relationship with Him, not a religion, not going to church every Sunday or leading a perfect, sinless life. On the contrary, God came for sinners, and He will never wait for us to be perfect before coming to Him, so come to Him as you are, for He loves you just as you are, and has plans for your life that surpass anything you can imagine!
      Don't hesitate to contact us if you have any further questions or if you'd like to know more, we'd love to hear from you. Bless you, my friend ❤️

    • @ailidh-Bcn
      @ailidh-Bcn 21 день назад

      no dude not giving my heart to an invisible deity that does nothing, so it's existence or lack off it, is irrelevant, my parents on the other hand, have been there every time I needed them.

    • @Mendoza_777
      @Mendoza_777 18 дней назад

      @@ailidh-Bcn Maybe He's not doing anything in your life because you haven't given Him the opportunity yet. God made us with free will, and He never forces anyone to believe in Him. He knocks on our door, we open it or slam the door in his face. Then He leaves, and comes back to knock another moment. Unfortunately, lots of people died before God came knocking on their door, and from that point on, there was no turning back. So maybe this is your case: Answer God's call for YOUR life, let Him change your life as He changed mine and that of millions of others! God loves you, He is not your enemy, He is not the cruel and tyrannical God sitting on his throne judging men and throwing them into hell as some believe. No ! The God we trust is the One who lifts our heads when we are broken, who guides us and holds our hand when we are lost, who shows compassion, patience and love towards us every day despite our innumerable faults, and who gives us life, true life, that which can only be found in Christ. May the grace and love of God be on your life my friend ❤️