Leej Twg Yog Nyab Thiaj Paub. 3/15/2024
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Zaj no Yog muaj tseeb nawb. Thov kom peb nkag siab ib yam cov ua nyab ua niam Pog txiv Yawg tsis nrog Nyob Thov txhob thuam thiab cem cov nyab ua muaj niam Pog txiv Yawg. Yog peb leej twg muaj ces yeej muaj tseeb li no nawb. Thov peb hais lus txhawb thiab hwm tus nyab ntawv nawb mog.
If my in law ever spread rumors that I don’t love them. I would hand them over to whoever think they can do better.
Taking care of my late mother during her last days was not easy. I understand this woman grief.
I agree 100%. Going through this myself right now. We can only do what we can as long as we know we are doing good deeds. For the people who are judging, they need to go re-evaluate themselves because they can not handle what you are going through. Continue to be a strong woman you are!
Me too. So stressful and exhausting.
Every thing you said I believe 100% is true!
👏👏👏Good for you for standing up and giving your sister-in-law what she needs to hear! How dare her and shame on her!👏👏👏
So understandable. Do what you can sis. Only God n lub ntuj see
On the part where you grab all your motherinlaw stuff to her daughter-- You go girl!!
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I like that part too
Yes it is true. Whoever doesn't have one doesn't know how stressful it is
So true...... this is exactly how I feel about my surroundings in-laws. I almost wanted says, if you don't have anything nice to say to me. Don't open your mouth. Just come visit your mom and leave!!!!!!! Because I'm exhausted and tired of hearing negative comments about me not loving your mom. I live the same life as you sis. I'm so stressed and aged fast here. Crying out for help. 😢
Tus me nyab peb sawvdaws yeej muaj niam muaj txiv tiamsi kuv yeej paub. Hais tia kev tu cov laus zoo lisca yeej muaj ib cov tub nyab yeej hlubhlub lawv niam pog txiv yawg tiag tiag nawb tiamsis yeej muaj ib cov tub nyab lawv yeej tsi hlub tiagtiag thiab nawb kuv yeej pom kiag ntawm kuv qhov muag ntag nawb tiamsi yeej muajib cov niam pog txiv yawg yeej phem kaukas kawg thiab tiag peb tsuas ua lis peb ua tau qhov zoo rau nws nawb thiaj tsi npam yus thiab os.
Leej twg Muaj cov laus thiab tau tu tus laus leej twg thiaj paub os😢😢
Your mil acts like your husband is her husband lol. But it’s your choice eating gaining weight. Your mil can make good tasty food but you don’t have to eat it or over eat it.
He is her txiv yau
tu tus laus ces yeej nyuaj mas kuv yeej agree 100% tabsis yog yus niam yus txiv yug yus lawm es thiaj yuav tsum ua siab ntev ntev tu kom dhau txog hnub lawv dua toj xwb ces yus thiaj zoo siab tu xwb es kom thaum txog yus thib los seb yus cov me nyuam puas yuav pom yus txoj kev yus tu tej laus es yus cov ho puas yuav tu yus thiab peb ces yeej tsis dim txoj kev laus li nawv cov me muam cov kwv tij sawv daws yus ua zoo rau yus niam yus txiv ces yus yuav tos seb yus cov puas ua zoo rau yus no xwb yog lwm hnub yus cov tsis hlub yus ces ntshe yus yuav tutu siab thiab os
Zaj no mas zoo ua kev kawm rau cov niam thiab nyab tshaj plaws li os moog cia ua kev kawm❤❤❤
Raug leej twg leej twg thiaj paub os viv ncaus aw....
This is exactly what I am going through right now. I was so stressed out ended up in the ER
yeah but think about what your sister in law going thru the same thing with your mom and dad you would want your brother and sister in law do the same for your parent too
Kuv lub neej ces kuv raug kiag li zaj neej neeg no kiag os tu siab tshaj plaws li os leek twg tsi tau ntsib ces leek twg tsi pain txog yu's lub neej lwj siab li os kuv ces twb txog qhov mov qaig qab nqos tsi tau mov twb yuav kiag tuag on peb zaug
Ib tug niam pog phem tsis hlub tej nyab ces tsis tsim nyog tej nyab hlub thiab. Tus niam pog phem ces cia mus nyob tsev laus cia rau mekas tu xwb thiaj zoo. Yog niam pog hlub tej nyab ces tej nyab yeej hlub yeej tu niam pog.
niam hlaug aw kuv ces yog kauj li koj hais li og tu siab los hais tsi tau rau leej twg li og 😢😢
Tam si no ce kuv niam pog ce zoo li ko lm o hai g tau li lawm
It's sad how we all will walk this path one day...old, sick, stinky, and no longer wanted or loved. And the nursing home is the only place we will all go.
everyone will go thru it no one can get away unless we go during our sleep
Koj hais yog lawm os viv ncaus aw❤🙏❤️
Ua nyab Hmong ces tsis yeej li os yus yeej Yog tu phem xwb li os
My grandma is so nice to everyone, but I can see the frustration she gave my dad. Knowing he's her caretaker.
Koj hai yog 100% 1000% lawm, peb cov ua muaj cov lau peb thiaj paub txog txoj kev no os Hmoob…😂😅😢
Tib neeg thiaj teb muaj tus zoo,tus phem. Tus nyab zoo li no mas yeej zoo zoo lawm. Tiam sis tej tug nyab uas tu niam pog ma cia da quav da zis tiag tiag li, hoob pw mas tsw zis iab khoob, tsev viv mas lo quav li, dej haus los tsis muaj rau niam haus, nug niam tias puas tau noj mov,los niam twb tsis paub tias xyov puas tau noj, tiam sis yus yeej pom tias nws phaj mov ces qaib twb los raub tag, vim peb niam mob mob xiam hlwb tag lawm os, vim tib los lus hais tias cov niag muam, txob tuaj cuam cuam tshuam no xwb, tseem nuaj xiv hais tias kom coj mus tu, es tub nyab twb tau niam tej av tej vaj tse tag lawm ne,es tseem yuav muaj peev xwm ntiab kom muam hlub no coj mus yug, ces neb kuj khiav hauv niam thaj av mus,ces muam los hlub los tu tau kawg, vim nej ko khij khij oom na, ntiab kov muam coj mus tu,tiam sis tus tau niam tej av ces neb khaws seem. Ntuj nyob qes qes lawm xwb,sawv daws yeej taug ib txoj kev mog, neb tej me nyuam saib ntsoov neb os mog, tej neb ua dai ncu ntawm neb hauv pliaj. Kuv chim chim siab rau peb zaj neej xwb os sister May. Es thiaj li comment ntau ntau xwb, kuv tsis yog hais rau tus nyab hauv koj zaj neej neeg no,vim kuv yeej pom tau tias kus nyab no nws yeej ua tau zoo tshaj lawm, kheev lam peb tus lam zoo li no mas peb twb tsis chim chim, vim peb mus pom peb niam thaum twg los haub pw mas tsw zis laus iab khoob tas li, tiam sis ua li kuv hais ntawv ma, ntuj pom teb pom,zej zog pom.
💯 agree to this story! Like I always tell my brothers and sisters in law if you see me don’t love mom take her! 😂
This was my grandma. God rest her soul!
Yog kawg os mog vim lawv laus ces lawv tsis paub xav dab tsi li lawm os niam no yus thiaj xav tias lwm hnub txog yus thib laus ces yus yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias yus tsis txhob coj li ntawd lawm no os mog ❤️😭
You did a great job sis! 👏 stand strong for yourself ❤
Nyob zoo o niam laus me
Nyob Zoo os
Koj hais Yog kawg lawm os I feel u. 👏🏻👏🏻
I totally get this daughter-in-law. Taking care of sick people is not an easy job. I understand why sick people can be bitter. I am disabled and my spouse and kids have to look after me; I constantly needs to remind myself to be nice to the people that are taking care of me. Talking to a therapist helps me gets through my anxiety and stress. I am so grateful for my family 's love and support. Kudos to this sister.
Niamlauskoj zaj dab neegno ma tu tu siabraug kiag kuv kuvtu niam pog ma txub2 kuv haiskuv phem rau nw cov txhais xb ma kuv cov muamtxub2kuv heev 😢😢😢😢
Ib Co muam li hiam ma lam tau lam ces tej nyab xwb. Yog nws ma twb yog nws niam yug nws kiag Los nws twb tsis kam ntxhuav nws niam quav li. Txhob tu siab mog. Thov kom koj thiab tsev neeg tau koob hmoov o mog.
Yog kawg. Thov has qha rua cov laug taag nrho
Lub neej no ce cia yus mob xwb es sub thiaj zoo cov niam pog phem 2 thiab nkhau 2 lub siab os nawb,thov kom yav yus lau ce yu tsi txhob coj li lawv coj rau yus tej me nyuam os nawb.
My mother in law said the same thing that to me too, leej twg tsis tau ua nyab tsis paub tab tsis tau ua sev ces tsis pom kev..... ua nyab tag mam pom kev mam paub tab tiag2 li os!!
Lub neej mus ua nyab ntxov2 yuav tau tub ntxawg thiajj li paub tsog niam pog lub siab 😢
Nyob zoo os ❤❤
Yuav tsum ua li kos tus muam thiaj paub tias nyuaj npaum li cas. Leejtwg tsis txaus siab ces Leejtwg tu tus laus xwb.
I'm at that point with my mom. She 87 yr old. She Asked her many times to come live with anyone of us but she refuses... at that age, she's still worried about her housing assistance.. IDK why.... but we're all busy. We do what we can but 1 time we don't do what she asks and it's all he'll break loose.... it no win situation.. I only pray that I'm not like that at that age....v
Muaj ib txhiab nyab sab nrauv mas nyiam hais tias tus nyab hauv tsev tsis zoo tsis hlub no na
Tau tej tug niam pog zoo li ko ces kawg nyuaj siab xwb!
Totally agree with the daughter-in-law…! Do what we can with the old people…young people have life, too!
Lawv aw, tsis raug leej twg ces leej twg yeej tsis paub txoj kev muaj 1 tug laus es rau tib neeg hais phem ces yeej tsis paub txog u txoj kev txom nyem li os😢😢😢
Yog tshaj li o zaj no raug siab kawg
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Very good story
People with stroke are very cranky like that! Everyone of them!
Pojdag, koj hais cuag li koj hlub hlub niam pog txiv yawg. Yig koj tsis tau nyiaj tu xws koj yeej tsis ua txuj hlub. Twb tsis yog nyiaj tu xwb, siv niam civ nyiaj pab nqi tsev noj haus tib si.
Ho yo, kuv nim yuav tu os. Qhias neeg tuag es. Them nyiah kuv twb tsis tu na…
Tsis tu os tau nyiaj los tsis tu thiab...tu cov laus tsis easy li...
U talk too much, but have u taken care of old people b4??
Wow you missed the whole damn point of this story! She gave up a $28/hr job to take care of her MIL for $15/hr. Geessh!
This must be the sister 😂 and she doesn't want to take care her mom so all she can do it bad mouth on her. But be careful don't let your sil know it's you or she'll bring your mom to your front door. 😂
😢😢😢pab koj niam pog tu siab heev rau qhov koj yog tus nyab keej dhau tos kom koj pab niag mi nyuam loj tso tsis npam los thiaj paub hos npam los thiaj paub cov nyab ntse ntse li koj nas luag noj yog luag tug koj siab phem phem koj thiaj muab los piav tab koj siab phem heev hos
Tsi hlub yug ceg yug txhob yug xb og
ib txhia neeg laus ces nkhaus tshaj li os yus yog nyab ces ua ntsej lag muag dig xwb thiaj zoo nawb
Zoo heev os ❤
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Twb paub niam pog tu hneev taw nkau li ca lawm nco qab ntsoob txhob tsuj niam pog tu hneev taw xwb ma
Me nyab aw kuv xav kom koj yog kuv tys nyab los ua mov ua zaub rau kuv noj kom kuv yuag kom kuv cov ntshav qab zib nqi thiab mas yom , mag cem thoab foom npaum no ces cia nws nyob nws tsev laus es ua ib siab ris tej lus phem no los mas,
Our kids will put us in tsev laus 100%.
only some
One thing I don’t like about OG is when you do something they won’t APPROVE! But yet when you do what they like they will APPROVE!
What kind of rice, yog rice tsis qab. Kuv xav poob pound thiab.
Currently in this situation with my mil. She tells the world we don’t love her but everyone knows how she is. She is lucky I take care of her and not complain about it.
Yes true, sad for all the sisters that are stuck taking care of in-laws😢 takes a lot of patience.
kuv ntseeg koj lawm vim kuv yog tus raug tau 13 yxoos mam dhau lawm
Cas yuav hais raug kuv siab ua luaj o lawv, kuv ces nyob lub neej zoo li zaj no tiag...
Wow go girl!!
Leej twg hais tias nyab tsis hlub no ces seb tus twg hlub2 no kom nws tuaj coj mus nrog nws nyob xwb ma, nyob ib tus ces nws yeej paub xwb2 li os.
Lady you are a liar for blaming your mother in law in eating too much. Noj qab and noj ntau is not the same. Your mother in law may have 1000 dishes on the table, she didn't force you to eat them all and too much. When going to buffets, not everyone eat every dish and a lot.
true we dont live in laos and eat 3times a day here we work hard everyday dont even have time to eat as for me im not lazy but i dont even pack lunch lmfao
You cannot call her a liar when you did not walk in her shoes. Thankfully, my mil is not as bad as this mil because she is still capable, but she will force you to eat by forcibly scooping it onto a plate and then shoving it in your face. She has forced some family members--always the same ones who cannot say no to her-- to eat her food before and these type of mil despise the people who threaten their matriarch. It happens
Taking care of 1 adult is 10× harder than taking care of 10 kids
amen. I agreed with.
I’m totally in this stage rn but I think mine is worst cuz my fil leaves poop everywhere even tho we give him diaper, plus he makes mess everywhere and leaves holes in the wall & punch the bedroom door and make messes in the kitchen and unlocks the front door every night leaving the door open. Like I told all my sils I can only do so much 😢 no one can do this much and be more patient than this. It’s totally hard talking care of elders and stressful. I went through so much to the point where my house all most burn down in the middle of the night.
Ne ne tej laus twb haistias tseem tsis tau paub tab kom tsis txhob maj2 mus ua luag nyab ces thiaj li mag niam pog yias dej kub hlab tiag los poj ? cov niam pog zoo li koj tus no ces muab nws roj rov kib nws nqaij xwb ces siav zoo tshaj plaws, tsis txog koj ua nyab hais hlo li los ma !
I know how you feel. My MIL lives with me and my husband. She is exactly like your MIL. She has no respect for me and my husband. She does whatever she wants. For the people who don’t have their in laws live with them have no right to come and tell us that we don’t love our in laws. They don’t know and don’t see what we have to go through. I’m just afraid my MIL is going to give me a minor stroke one day.
Taking care of elderly parents is stressful. I applaud the daughter-in-laws who are patient enough to care for their ill and frail in-laws/parents. I don’t wish to live too long, especially if I’m in poor health, that my children will have to be burdened with taking care of me.
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Sister, I can related and very proud of you. We all are nyab and muam as well as niam pog or will be a niam pog one day. If one has not had a monster-in-law, one would never know.
Tus niam tsev aw kj hais yog tshaj plaws li lawm nawb , luag tej laus hais tias noj tsis tau yuav tuag hais tsis tau ces yuav swb no ces kj hais yog lawm os
koj niam aw.koj hmoov phem kawg tau tu ib niag pom li kom tav twg mam tuag os.kuv twb nrog koj nyuaj siab koj haig yog kawg niag kug ki npaum kom leej twg tu tau coj mug xwb.
For the dils that actually does the work and take care of mils properly than they deserve all the credit but there are plenty of caretakers that judt want the money and don't do the work.
ถูกต้องค่ะ
This is me right now.
That's why the sons need to choose their spouse carefully if they are expected to care for their parents in old age. You don't have to agree with it, but you also can't escape it. I think the expectations of sons and daughter in-laws caring for their parents will slowly diminish with each younger generation, but if this is still true for your situation, it's best to be prepared.
Cov muam uas pheej xav tias yus tsis hlub no. Kuv xav tias nws tau tu so nws niam quav tsawg zaus lawm.??
I’m caring for my mom and another person. They both driving crazy every single day. I cannot rest at all. They’re take turns to do/say crazy things to me. My own mom. All my brothers think that I should manage better.
Yog kawg os tus vivncaus…leejtwg tau tus cov laus ces tus ntawd yog tus tshuav lawv nqi thiab khaum lawm, kuv yeej ntseeg tej koj hais
Tog tau los vim ruag2 tsis xav kom lub koob tsis zoo es ua siab tawv2 ntev uw xwb os!! Ua ntsej laag muag dig xwb!! Sab hauv yesj tu2 siab los puavchawj os!!
Muaj ib co laus yeej phem thiab nkhaus tiag2 li nawb, nej tu nej thiaj paub
Well said!!
Tus neeg rog phwj yaws muaj obesity thiab diabetes yam loj li loj thiaj muaj raum tuag thiab qhov muag tsis pom kev los nws tseem liam qees tias yog tim dab qhua ua rau nws xwb. Dab qhua tsis txawj lim hiam rau leej twg, tab sis zaub mov noj thiab huab cua thiaj txawj ua rau tib neeg mob tuag vim yog roj ntshav.
You do everything because you love your husband. Take care and love yourself too. Some mil will never appreciate you to their grave.
No, nej tsis tau pom cov niam pog uas phem. They know your weaknesses and will use it against you. If you eat, they get mad. If you don't eat, oh everyone will know it before you know it and your life and marriage will be hell. If you are a threat to her matriarch, then your marriage will have a lot of setbacks. Count your blessings that you've yet to meet one. Some do not become victims of their environment whereas, some do. It happens.
Women..you getting big is no one’s fault except yours 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂 I agree 100%
How is that her own fault?
Sometimes it’s the food that the family eat. True you need to learn to control your in eating but that’s after you learn that ties eating wrong like the family… to eat differently you will need to separate yourself from the families eating table.
Unless it’s you, you won’t know. Just saying.
They are lucky to have you cause your in law sounds very selfish and mean. I hope they all learned their lesson. Karma will get whoever curse when they are in the wrong so don’t worry about what people think. You do what you can since the headache is on you.
I understand you very well. I have my mother-in-law live with me. She has stroke and very difficult in everything.
I told my girls to leave me at any senior home if I become crazy like this.
Tus neeg uas tsis nrog tus neeg mob nyob yeej tsis paub. Lawv tsuas paub hais tias yus yog tus tsis zoo xwb, lawv twb tsis Pom tias tus neej muaj mob (txawm yog psychological (mental), chronic or acute illness) los tus neeg yeej phem phem ua yus muaj kev txhob siab nyuaj siab ntau tsav ntau yam.
The care taker has every right to defend themselves. If whoever complains then they can bring their beloved parent into their home. If they can't then just stfu.
Cov no mam phim cov muam nphoo
Thov muab zaj neej neeg no fij rau tag nrho cov nej tsa ruam ruam es pheej cem cem tej me tu me nyuam ncig zej cig zos na saib nej tus neeg zoo zoo ua ntej tso nawb zoo li tus no tiag 😢😢😢😢
tsis yog rau lawv xwb rau koj tus kheej kiag thiab ntag hos tseem yuav txog koj thib laus tom ntej yuav laus yuav tsis thooj yav hluas ov thaum koj laus tuaj koj tsiv nkaus lawm hos daisiaxiong
Not trying to be mean but I think I would’ve done same. Pack her things and let them take it with them. We are a daughter, a nyab, a mother ourself. Know our roles. Stop believing everything yo mama told you. Honestly, if knowing my mil don’t like me. I will not even dear to cook or touch her. But, you did. I applaud you!
Even professional Counselors had mental and emotional break down and needed Prozac because of taking care of evil mother in laws.
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Sad 😂😂😂😂