This song reminds of my my friend from the Xbox 360 days. Knew him for years, and he said he’d be back in a few days since he was going on vacation. Never been back online. I’ll never forget you, David. Maybe we’ll meet again.
My 11 yr old is obsessed with AJR. She showed me this about a year ago. We fled her daddy from an abusive situation. I'm sitting here feeling sorry for myself, but my girl knows the right song for the moment. We've got this.
I can't express how much that just resonated with me. Honestly brought a tear to my eye. My little girl and I get through the bad times with AJR, too. You made me feel less alone and more capable of making a change. I love you for that, thank you! ❤
I love how in the first chorus when he sees the "inner child" in some dude's sunglasses, he isn't even embarrassed (or at least doesn't show it) when he realizes he was just awkwardly staring deeply into another stranger's eyes. He's just so amazed to see his inner child reflection. So many little things in this song that I love! This song is so relatable too. At first he realizes he's still a kid at heart, and his first reaction - as an adult - is to try and get rid of it by moving reflection to reflection really fast. When he does lose his inner child, he feels lost and looks everywhere trying to get it back. Definitely one of AJR's best music videos on top of one of their best songs imo
I’ll never forget when I discovered AJR. It was RIGHT when this song came out. I was driving to my first training conference to be an Assistant Director at Huntington Learning Center. I heard this song and it reminded me of my best friends back home a few states away. I got this sinking feeling right there that I was going down the wrong path, the “professional” path I never wanted to. I buried my feelings and finished the training and I was Assistant Director for a while miserable year. I kept this song close to my heart until I was finally ready to put in my 2 weeks and pursue my real love of writing. Growing up really did make me numb, and AJR helped me sober up.
Ja Boi dang it’s my boi!! Right now I’m actually not writing, making videos instead to market and expand my audience. It’s kinda killing me inside though ya know? I can’t wait until I’m done so I can get back to writing my own stuff. Right now I’m working on a writing course to teach others who want to write their own novel.
@@Muncheiy that's awesome! you're literally the best person i've seen in the comment section of a song. sure, the jokes are funny, but man, you're so cool! you'll go far
While I love the reference, describing someone as your favorite color when referencing frequencies is fairly scientifically sound. The perception of color has to do with the frequency of the light waves and how those light waves bounce off of an object and to our eyes.
awhhh i feel ya man. it sucks... but after all the memories with them are still vivid isn't it. Let's cherish all moments and memories we have with them. Separating paths are sucks but that's what life is....
This song makes me want to live life to the fullest without any worries. Growing up brings pressure and responsibility, but life is also short and we don’t have time to stress or worry about anything. These guys are so carefree and so relatable. Their music makes me smile.. thank you, AJR!
I shed so many tears to this song and now that I got to hear it again, I too wonder where has it all gone... I'm working a job I don't like, living with people (family) who don't make me happy (after the only dear person from the bunch had passed away), having friends who don't reciprocate anything or who just do the bare minimum, I've never felt love with a woman, or similar belonging... The song says "all the big kids, they are drunk", but I feel that's the only way to cope :/ Oh and I'm writing this after a great vacation with a couple of real friends. So basically while I'm feeling "better than usual". Ah. What a tedious journey, this 'life'.
@@sc3961 hey, dude, i think you should seek therapy, i went through something that is fairly similar, and therapy helped me deal all that stuff. Please, you don't have to feel nothingness anymore
@@sc3961Keep your head up man, continue the grind and i hope you find what you’re looking for. Don’t be afraid to search for it. Have a marvelous, awesome, outstanding, terrific, wonderfully amazing life! I wish you all the best!
The line “my favorite color is you” brings back a very distinct memory for me. I used to have such interesting and meaningful conversations with a friend. She hated small talk and so we would often try to have more meaningful conversations. One day we were talking about liking AJR, and we mentioned this song and somehow we both sang this line at the same time. It was just so nice to share that moment and to be friends. We have drifted apart which is why I see this line as such a sad one personally. It reminds me of those conversations and how I wish I could relive some of those moments.
Every song from AJR always has a meaning and its confusing unless you look and see whats happening for example he is trying not to loose the feeling of being a kid in this song and its just a nice feeling
This song reminds me of my friend Kendra. She was an excellent artist. Really liked cats, especially mine. I've never met anyone who believed in me as much as she did. She moved, but we still talked online. Eventually we lost touch from even that. She didn't show up online for a long time. Turns out she died eight months ago in a car accident. She was 15. The last thing she ever texted me was how she wanted to meet up soon.
This is the one band that I actually feel like the members are just normal, down to earth, relatable dudes. Just 3 great guys that make great music, no fake shit no selling out like every other artist does
They’re not famous😏😅 yet. But Ry (What jack calls Ryan) and jack are students while Adam just got his PhD and they’re just cool guys. Making music out of random things.
I'm probably gonna be crying to this song in my 30's knowing that it's one of my favorite songs now, and the meaning will be perfect for my mid-life crisis.
Y'all are inspiring. I was an alcoholic and this song just hit so many realization points for me. Then I got pregnant with my son and gave up alcohol, this song helped me literally sober up. It's beautiful.
It took me forever and a music video to realize that he was talking about his childhood innocence instead of a girl when he says, "Last time that I saw your face was recess in second grade."
Growing up definitely made me numb. At age thirteen I lost my best friend. Life was full of comparing life before and after. She’s still gone, that hasn’t changed, but I’m learning to cope. I wasn’t a child anymore. I grew up really fast. And it was terrible. Enjoy your childhood, your youth. Please.
This is the most relatable thing I’ve ever heard. Being the youngest in my family, and moving around a lot when I was younger, this really hits hard. Most of the time when I’m around family I’ve run out of emotions to their antics or I’m just the stupid younger brother. Then I try and find friends who can help me feel alive and my age again, but then they end up being more of a burden than I intended. One day I hope to finally be able to feel like I was when I was younger and had my major emotions.
This reminds me of my friend. We were friends in first grade, until he moved to Conneticut. We said we’d keep in touch, but I never heard from him. Turns out he was killed in Sandy Hook. Not a day goes by I don’t miss him. Rest In Peace, Chase 💚
@@amanda_marie1643 1 day i dream of just holding every1s pain and misery so they can feel happiness but sadly thats not possible I only want whats best for every1 even if im.feeling like shit or just out of it ppl deserve to feel true happiness
@@amanda_marie1643 I hope you do but a couple hours ago my friend tried committing suicide and if I could hold his pain and suffering he would never have done that and all I want is for him To see happiness but all he's seen is darkness and pain and suffering no1 deserves it and I wouldn't mind to hold the weight of every1s pain but I believe 1 day everything will be better but for now it hurts me and makes me cry to know that ppl I Care abt and just other random ppl idek it also hurts me seeing that they have to suffer my freind got serious head trauma and amnesia thank God he remembered me he struggled for my name but he still knows me there's so much I want to do for ppl that I cant do but if I had the power to I would most definitely do
@Lex ? Honestly, everyone complaining about it should be appreciative that their "favorite hit song" is gaining the attention that it deserves. lmao they really upset that the song is becoming more well known and becoming even more of a hit.
i used to listen to this song all the time. i had a friend i was really close with but she moved and we lost contact because i was in 4th grade. i always used to listen to this when i missed her. i commented about this when i was younger but i can’t find the comment anymore. i loved you guys when i was 9. i’m a sophomore in highschool now, entering tenth grade. i made contact with that friend again. i just got back from your concert. this song gave me chills. it brought back so many memories, i teared up. thank you for making music, your show was incredible and im so lucky to have discovered your music when i did because it made such an impact on my life.
I like how AJR’s songs aren’t about love and romance like other songs, they’re songs are about common problems, and I love that. They’re trying to say YOUR NOT ALONE!
@@user-qu4fd3tu5s its his past self when he was in second grade, back when he had no wories and his feelings where not num. He reverts back to that part of himself at the end of the song which is why he appears a child.
As someone who’s turning 18 very soon, and feeling like my childhood is growing increasingly out of reach, this song helps me realize that I’m not the only one who’s gone through this. AJR truly is the most human band out there!
Damn. I think others have already spoken but this song really relates to teens. None of the angst or anything but they fear of losing your childhood. Feeling as if you are abandoning everything you know for the scary and unknown world of adulthood. But its ok to grow up, just don't lose touch with your inner child, we all have friends that need it. So do you.
Fun fact: if you didn’t already know this..AJR is actually made of 3 brothers. Also the meaning of this song, the song represents the numbness of growing up and the struggles along with wanting to know what it feels like to be young again.
This is also why the video for "3'oclock things" features them wearing "TB3" shirts. It was what they went by while busking in the Washington Square Park area way back in the day.
when i was like 8 i didnt know what it meant, i looked up what sober meant and i thought it literally meant sober im listening to this again and i just realized
@@hiiilolol It's pretty haunting. They have a knack for deep, meaningful songs that sound a lot like bubblegum pop. This song in particular is something I and many people I know can really relate to.
My boyfriend sent me this song saying it reminds him of me. Im crying after searching the meaning. My assumption to the meaning was pretty close, but essentially its about asking for help to sober up from the weight of becoming an adult. We are both carefree and happy with each other. He essentially told me that I take away the pressure associated with being an adult. That I make life easier. Which I feel the same way to him about. This song oficially makes me cry when I hear it, and I can hear him so vividly singing it to me on our call last night
I cannot express to you how much this song has done for me. You helped me to feel again when I thought all my emotions were buried too far down for anything to reach them. I can still remember the feeling of release when I would cry to this song in my room. I’m in a much better headspace now than I was before, but this song is still easily my favorite of all time and I thank you for helping me through that time in my life.
Same but I could not tolerate that happening because AJR is my favourite band.Also how could you almost forget I mean you're a real AJR fan I think I'm just a man listening to music If that makes sense
Same.. The sh** we went through growing up made us the badasses we are today, I tell myself that everyday. And no matter how many times we may fall we will continue to pick ourselves back up again, stronger than we were before. We got this 💪
I came here because I decided to listen to the rest of the click, because I barely listened to it, because I was listening to other albums, and when I found this song I was like holy crap this is that one song I loved on the radio when I was so young that I never looked it up but I’m glad I found this
I celebrated 4 years sober recently, and AJR's music was a huge part in seeing how beautiful the world can be without self abuse. Please, keep up the good work.
@@AJSantiesteban That's awesome man, I'm in the middle of my own struggle quitting my bad habits at the moment and it's comforting to hear that someone has overcome it and holds similar comfort in AJRs music as I do, you've given me hope to push on, thank you sir. Hope you're still well, best wishes homeboy.
@@theiconic3994 That made my entire afternoon... Keep up the good fight. Even 5 years later, I still struggle with the occasional trigger. But for me, it's how I handle that situation that makes the difference.
I like the idea that at some point in the universe of this music video someone saw this and assumed he was a vampire, and that he only has a few minutes before a terrified mob descends on him.
On roblox I had this really nice friend, I miss her a lot. She was pretty much my online best friend. I ended up losing my old account, and her account changed a lot. I think she might’ve given it to someone else. But.. if you see this.. hey. It’s me. Awsomekittenslove.
I had made an online friend a while ago. She stopped making videos and completely cleaned out her channel. She stopped using Discord and other platforms, not responding to any messages or comments. I doubt she’ll see this, but hey. You were my first online friend.
I listened to this song as a young teenager, coming right out of my preteens. Didn't know what life had in store for me, and listening to this song on the radio was great, but I didn't understand every bit of it. Six years later, and as a guy pretty close to his early twenties, I can echo the sentiments of this song: I don't know where I'm supposed to be, and I'm trying to search for the older parts of myself in order to feel young
Jack (I think that’s his name) is so symbiotic why he is chasing his younger reflection. It is really deep because as you grow up you only wanna get younger but you can’t. Your youth will always be running from you. Once you embrace that then you might finally find your true youth.
Yeah I started chasing my youth at 29. When I realized I lost it lol. We all wish we could have are youth back with the knowledge we have now. What would the world be like if so? Youths with major knowledge like a 50 year old.lol that would be crazy
"All the big kids they got drunk" this line hit me very hard. I'm in middle school and I noticed how much everyone has changed. In elementary everyone was all about recess, drawing, making friends, but now everyone is vaping, dating, and cussing. Sometimes I just wish things were like old times
Lots of people change in middle school. It's hard to adapt. I found my middle school family in band Keep and open mind and remember everyone is trying to find who they are and it'll be okay
When i first was in middle school i hated a lot of things. It seemed like all of the people i called “friends” switched up on me. Its gonna be like this for the rest of your life as the world around us changes. Just know that you have to do whats best for yourself first, then others
im in 7th grade, and i felt like no one was the same. we're all changing. theres nothing we can do to stop that. but we can keep pushing through it, and keep moving on. hope youre doing good, and just know that there are still others going through exactly what youre going through. at least, when it comes to middle school/junior high
Rivers where ya at?? I love that people are saying AJR sings about silly yet relatable things and here they have a major rockstar (Rivers is the lead singer of Weezer for those that don’t know) and he doesn’t even want to be in the video. My guess? SOCIAL ANXIETY. He’s notorious for being extremely shy and doesn’t like the spotlight. Perfect for AJR and all of us who can relate! ❤
*More visible disappointment over y’all being disappointed over a friend knowing the song off a platform that does, indeed, suck 90% of the time, yet gave many of us new songs and artist to listen to*
Im 50...AJR is , or who ever writes their songs are telling my life story....Id really like to meet who that is. Telling me my life story with orchestra...The vibration and lyrics...I guess their are few of us. Personally I think they are genious.
Every once in a while, we just need to hear something that let's us know that we're "ok". I've been struggling to remember this lately - this song helps me remember🙂.
Wow! These kind of songs rarely appear, but when they do we're in for a treat. It's original, catchy, and even uses instruments not normally associated with alternative! Bravo AJR!
French Fan alternative is mostly instrumental. It's alternative because it's incremental. That's just my 2 cents. Otherwise, yes rarely seen on the mass radio media.
Well, I mean, theres no reason to smile outside of times when it is required. Empathy is what creates unsuccessful people. Friendships are valuable but they wont post you up in a multimillion dollar house in LA. Like, imagine thinking friendships are more valuable then a mansion and a Lamborghini when a human body is only valued at around 450,000 lmao
does the most repeated part of the video being in the beggining of it and staying through the entire song means all the people that came back again and again to listen to it? cute.
I'm 19 and since about 16 I'm feeling so stressed out and depressed because of growing up and leaving my beautiful childhood years behind and this song makes me feel like I'm not alone who feels just the same UPD: I am now 20 and the war started in my country and now it's worse... But now I'm more worried about surviving these times and not about missing my childhood...
This is litterally almost everyone dont be deppressed about new opportunities, sure, you now just left something behind but that's kinda more reason not to look back, right? I dont know I'm just a goddamn 13 year old.
im 13 and i dont want to leave my childhood either i wish i could stay a child forever. i dont like the feeling of growing up. people say youre more free once youre an adult but i doubt it. i feel like i would be less loved and etc i cant explain.
I'm 16, felt the same since... well I've hated that I can't turn back time since forever, but really I started realizing that over the last year or so I'm going to be an adult soon I'm already struggling with high school What the hell
All this time, I've been hearing this band on radio channels and enjoying their songs without paying attention to who was doing them. Until today, when I started in a playlist, I didn't realize I like almost everything they do. Now going to have to go get the CD. Good band.
Kind of a sad comment that i'm writing to get off my chest. Listening to this song the first time, i didn't think too much about it... only really thought about the lyrics literally. But... the more i listen to it, the more i relate on a figurative level... When i was younger, like... elementary school, i was a very talkative and emotional kid. But over time, the world started to judge what i did. I was always "too talkative" to the teachers, and too emotional to everyone. Slowly, people's reactions to how i acted changed how i viewed myself, and over time i became more and more isolated, going from open to talking, to being in a friend group, to mainly only talking to one or two friends ever, and well... Now i'm 18, and i don't really have any friends in real life anymore. There's people i know, but i can't really meet them. Not only that, but everything wearing at me... well, has me repress basically everything i think and feel to the back of my head, and it's taken a toll on me. I can barely get myself to talk to people i don't know well, and as for emotions... i don't even feel them properly anymore. I don't know how it used to feel, but it's... different now. I feel like i'm reacting to how my body changes to know how i feel now. And it hurts because, well, the body doesn't react to too much, except for crying, which is the easiest thing to do with unresolved emotions. It makes life just feel... so much harder, because even when i do something i think i should be happy about, i just end up not really feeling anything... And worrying about the future. I hope that i grow out of this, and... "sober up" so to speak, so that i can really feel again.
edit over a year later: I was just cleaning out my email inbox and saw a bunch of emails from RUclips because people responded to this. Didn't realize this reached so many people! It really warms my heart to see people of all ages relating to this sentiment
holy shit thank you . i am lucky i found this comment , i am 17 and preparing for college entrance exam tests and keep reminiscing about 5 years back when school was so easy . this made me snap back
"Growing up has made me numb and I want to feel something again."
Oh how true that is.
brandon heat i felt that too
Dalton Zucco I felt that too much
690th like lol
I legit hated the time of my teens when I could feel myself getting less emotional about stuff
True
AJR is the definition of "oh hey, I've heard this before" but not knowing they're all from the same band
omg yesss
For real
Facts
I thought i was the only one!!!
I only stared listening to AJR when I heard burn the house down on the radio and when I looked into them I was like"wait a second, I have heard these"
from “posted two weeks ago” to posted “6 years ago” crazy how time truly does fly
literally 😢
Your comment says two weeks ago, and soon… 6 years before we know it 😕
Yes
Ok magyve stop 😊
A guy in the train was singing this while using his guitar and man was it so good to hear it in the train it felt like a checkpoint rest of life
I JUST REALIZED THAT HE'S TALKING TO HIMSELF WHEN HE SAYS, "Last time I saw your face was recess in second grade, and it made me feel young..."
i think the entire song is him talking to his younger self
Yeah, I realized that just now when I read your comment...lol
damn you're slow
@@lordfall2266 stfu🔪😎
I only just figured this out 😂
This song reminds of my my friend from the Xbox 360 days. Knew him for years, and he said he’d be back in a few days since he was going on vacation. Never been back online. I’ll never forget you, David. Maybe we’ll meet again.
Itama Z hey bro i hope you see him havent talked to my friend in years i feel you cheers to us mate
Juggernaut 638392 cheers man
I’m really sorry about that I know how you feel
Vøødøø _ thanks, and I’m sorry for you too, since you can relate.
Two months from now marks the 6th year.
My 11 yr old is obsessed with AJR. She showed me this about a year ago. We fled her daddy from an abusive situation. I'm sitting here feeling sorry for myself, but my girl knows the right song for the moment. We've got this.
I love AJR too! I hope you guys make it through ❤
Hold, I need to meet her, as a fellow 11 year old obsessed with ajr
Ily
Keep fighting. I’m sorry about your situation
I can't express how much that just resonated with me. Honestly brought a tear to my eye. My little girl and I get through the bad times with AJR, too. You made me feel less alone and more capable of making a change. I love you for that, thank you! ❤
I love how in the first chorus when he sees the "inner child" in some dude's sunglasses, he isn't even embarrassed (or at least doesn't show it) when he realizes he was just awkwardly staring deeply into another stranger's eyes. He's just so amazed to see his inner child reflection. So many little things in this song that I love!
This song is so relatable too. At first he realizes he's still a kid at heart, and his first reaction - as an adult - is to try and get rid of it by moving reflection to reflection really fast. When he does lose his inner child, he feels lost and looks everywhere trying to get it back.
Definitely one of AJR's best music videos on top of one of their best songs imo
I’ll never forget when I discovered AJR. It was RIGHT when this song came out. I was driving to my first training conference to be an Assistant Director at Huntington Learning Center. I heard this song and it reminded me of my best friends back home a few states away. I got this sinking feeling right there that I was going down the wrong path, the “professional” path I never wanted to. I buried my feelings and finished the training and I was Assistant Director for a while miserable year. I kept this song close to my heart until I was finally ready to put in my 2 weeks and pursue my real love of writing. Growing up really did make me numb, and AJR helped me sober up.
Thank you
Beautiful
How is your writing going?
Ja Boi dang it’s my boi!! Right now I’m actually not writing, making videos instead to market and expand my audience. It’s kinda killing me inside though ya know? I can’t wait until I’m done so I can get back to writing my own stuff. Right now I’m working on a writing course to teach others who want to write their own novel.
@@Muncheiy that's awesome! you're literally the best person i've seen in the comment section of a song. sure, the jokes are funny, but man, you're so cool! you'll go far
"My favorite color is you."
"I'm not as think as you drunk I am."
[Insert Roblox Death Sound Here] my taste in music is your face
We love a panic! Reference XD
My favourite you is colour
MURPLE
While I love the reference, describing someone as your favorite color when referencing frequencies is fairly scientifically sound. The perception of color has to do with the frequency of the light waves and how those light waves bounce off of an object and to our eyes.
This reminds me of all the friends I lost as our paths went different ways and we never spoke again, I’m crying
awhhh i feel ya man. it sucks... but after all the memories with them are still vivid isn't it. Let's cherish all moments and memories we have with them. Separating paths are sucks but that's what life is....
Same bro 😞 this is life
me to
@@roz5415 loved that comment.
Stilllll crying though 😭
im going to cryyyyy NOOOOOOOOO
This song makes me want to live life to the fullest without any worries. Growing up brings pressure and responsibility, but life is also short and we don’t have time to stress or worry about anything. These guys are so carefree and so relatable. Their music makes me smile.. thank you, AJR!
Ugh yeah. All their songs really make me feel something in a way no other band has really ever done for me.
same here! i love these guys haha@@themoistfeltlipsofsatanasamupp
I shed so many tears to this song and now that I got to hear it again, I too wonder where has it all gone... I'm working a job I don't like, living with people (family) who don't make me happy (after the only dear person from the bunch had passed away), having friends who don't reciprocate anything or who just do the bare minimum, I've never felt love with a woman, or similar belonging...
The song says "all the big kids, they are drunk", but I feel that's the only way to cope :/
Oh and I'm writing this after a great vacation with a couple of real friends. So basically while I'm feeling "better than usual". Ah. What a tedious journey, this 'life'.
@@sc3961 hey, dude, i think you should seek therapy, i went through something that is fairly similar, and therapy helped me deal all that stuff. Please, you don't have to feel nothingness anymore
@@sc3961Keep your head up man, continue the grind and i hope you find what you’re looking for. Don’t be afraid to search for it. Have a marvelous, awesome, outstanding, terrific, wonderfully amazing life! I wish you all the best!
This is the song equivalent to:
Hey i gotta sleep for school see you tomorrow
* last online 5 years ago*
Oh fuck... That one hurts
FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK
This hurts
*Tries not to cry. Cries alot.*
Damn this hurts
The line “my favorite color is you” brings back a very distinct memory for me. I used to have such interesting and meaningful conversations with a friend. She hated small talk and so we would often try to have more meaningful conversations. One day we were talking about liking AJR, and we mentioned this song and somehow we both sang this line at the same time. It was just so nice to share that moment and to be friends. We have drifted apart which is why I see this line as such a sad one personally. It reminds me of those conversations and how I wish I could relive some of those moments.
@3am Checkers yeah 😔✌ luckily nothing bad happened between us or anything, so there's still hope that we can be closer again in the future :)
Poetic. Thanks for sharing
Hope things go well in the future
Same I really have nostolga for ajrs songs but I never knew it was them until now
This is so surreal reading this. It’s like I’ve just poked my head into part of someone else’s life. Hope u find ur friend mate :)
Every song from AJR always has a meaning and its confusing unless you look and see whats happening for example he is trying not to loose the feeling of being a kid in this song and its just a nice feeling
I wish I could give this 1m likes
Yodale
@@RandomYTT39Yodalee Yodalee yoda yee hoo! Yodalee Yodalee Yodalee yoda yee hoo!
Nice?? Bro I’m crying
@@RelicQuadrangleTHIRSTY THIRSTY THURSDAY
Every time I listen to this song I get goosebumps it's just good
chills BatChest
sometimes, you don't need good words
This song reminds me of my friend Kendra. She was an excellent artist. Really liked cats, especially mine. I've never met anyone who believed in me as much as she did.
She moved, but we still talked online. Eventually we lost touch from even that. She didn't show up online for a long time.
Turns out she died eight months ago in a car accident. She was 15. The last thing she ever texted me was how she wanted to meet up soon.
That's horrible, I'm sorry about that.
❤️
R.I.P Kendra ❤
I'm so sorry to hear that. that must have been hard
I feel you I lost my good friend when I went to a different school 😥❤
This is the one band that I actually feel like the members are just normal, down to earth, relatable dudes. Just 3 great guys that make great music, no fake shit no selling out like every other artist does
And twenty one pilots
They’re not famous😏😅 yet. But Ry (What jack calls Ryan) and jack are students while Adam just got his PhD and they’re just cool guys. Making music out of random things.
Also they’re brothers too. Imagine making a band with your siblings
@@sherbet_dylan they’re pretty famous
@@charlesbing6753 the Jonas Brothers walked so these guys could run
10 years sober this year 💪
Oh, that is great! Happy for you, most people can’t do things like that
That's awesome! Congrats on 10 years, doing awesome dude!
Wonderful!!
"Will always revisit this masterpiece here and there"
-Coldy
That “hello hello” hits me everytime
When I hear i just know
l like the"my favorite color is you
I didn’t know verbal commendation can do physical contact with you as a being
Goodbye goodbye
How's it go again
i met these guys a few years back when they played at my college
definitely some of the nicest, most down to earth dudes
i love that
Yeah, they really are! They're some some of the most laid-back people you'll meet!
Ngl I'm jealous
I’m pretty jealous right now, you’re so lucky.
*VISIBLE JEALOUSY*
I'm probably gonna be crying to this song in my 30's knowing that it's one of my favorite songs now, and the meaning will be perfect for my mid-life crisis.
Take it from me, you will be 😢
The reason i keep coming back to this song is the Cello. Man, it just hits different in this song.
"My favorite color is you" is giving me major vibes of "my taste in music is your face"
Brenda Cabrera OMG YES
@@Rileysartworld Right??
Light
*Tyler & josh have entered the chat*
Same
1:54 "my favorite color is you" the AJR equivalent to "my taste in music is your face"
Lol
tear in my heart
Que
we got the same taste in tunes!
@@JITLmeHARD all three of us
Y'all are inspiring. I was an alcoholic and this song just hit so many realization points for me. Then I got pregnant with my son and gave up alcohol, this song helped me literally sober up. It's beautiful.
That is very inspiring
I agree Lisa, Ash is very inspiring
this song is helping me in recovery rn
When im sitting down in my chair this make me want to Start jumping for how hyped up it is, I respect AJR for making bangers like these to listen to.
Taxi Driver: Where to?
Jack: Just follow that kid in the Mirror
LMAO THIS DESERVES MORE LIKES
Hah it really does deserve more likes lol
*to
His name is jack?
DougtheDonkeyTV yep he's the lead singer
It took me forever and a music video to realize that he was talking about his childhood innocence instead of a girl when he says, "Last time that I saw your face was recess in second grade."
it took me this comment to realize it
@@edoardoguglielmo671 Yep same for me and I've listened to this song at least 100 times
HOLY CRAP YOU JUST- YOU JUST CHANGED THE ENTIRE MEANING OF THIS FOR ME
I’M SO DUMB
THANK YOU BUT ALSO HOW DARE YOU
@@edoardoguglielmo671 dude... I feel better I'm not the only one it took a comment to notice something..
Well technically he’s talking to a crush he had in second grade so yes, but actually no
Imma leave this comment here so every time someone likes or comments I get reminded to listen to this masterpiece again :)
Reminder from your doctor: Listen to this song
listen now
You know what it's been 11 days you definitely need to hear it again
Growing up definitely made me numb. At age thirteen I lost my best friend. Life was full of comparing life before and after. She’s still gone, that hasn’t changed, but I’m learning to cope.
I wasn’t a child anymore. I grew up really fast. And it was terrible.
Enjoy your childhood, your youth. Please.
So how many mirrors do u want?
AJR: Yes
No it’s
So how many mirrors did ya want?
AJR: *yes*
@@igiveup8811 he said that ya nub
All of them even the glass windows
Telemarketer: so we have mirrors
Ajr: I wIlL tAkE yOuR eNtIrE sToCk
"My favorite color is you" is the cutest song lyric I have ever heard.
I know right
My favorite line in the song
They didn't come up with that line surprisingly. Rivers Cuomo from the band Weezer wrote that line.
Oh yeah, Rivers Cuomo is featured in this song
What does it mean
Just realized him panicking around looking for his reflection is a metaphor for him struggling to find himself
This is the most relatable thing I’ve ever heard. Being the youngest in my family, and moving around a lot when I was younger, this really hits hard. Most of the time when I’m around family I’ve run out of emotions to their antics or I’m just the stupid younger brother. Then I try and find friends who can help me feel alive and my age again, but then they end up being more of a burden than I intended. One day I hope to finally be able to feel like I was when I was younger and had my major emotions.
This reminds me of my friend.
We were friends in first grade, until he moved to Conneticut. We said we’d keep in touch, but I never heard from him.
Turns out he was killed in Sandy Hook.
Not a day goes by I don’t miss him.
Rest In Peace, Chase 💚
I feel so bad for you😮I can't imagine what I would feel like if my best friend died like that.
@@ariana_jm trust me, you don’t want to. Sending love 💗💗
@@amanda_marie1643 1 day i dream of just holding every1s pain and misery so they can feel happiness but sadly thats not possible I only want whats best for every1 even if im.feeling like shit or just out of it ppl deserve to feel true happiness
@@ericluna2968 🥺🥺💗💗 you deserve true happiness too tho! Don’t worry, I’m getting there
@@amanda_marie1643 I hope you do but a couple hours ago my friend tried committing suicide and if I could hold his pain and suffering he would never have done that and all I want is for him To see happiness but all he's seen is darkness and pain and suffering no1 deserves it and I wouldn't mind to hold the weight of every1s pain but I believe 1 day everything will be better but for now it hurts me and makes me cry to know that ppl I Care abt and just other random ppl idek it also hurts me seeing that they have to suffer my freind got serious head trauma and amnesia thank God he remembered me he struggled for my name but he still knows me there's so much I want to do for ppl that I cant do but if I had the power to I would most definitely do
Song: exists
Tiktok: *It's free real estate.*
Choc0late Beez please tell me people are actually enjoying the song and the people who made it
Ikr
True
I saw one Tik Tok clip with this song, and well I died inside a little. Songs still great though
@Lex ? Honestly, everyone complaining about it should be appreciative that their "favorite hit song" is gaining the attention that it deserves. lmao they really upset that the song is becoming more well known and becoming even more of a hit.
This song is the real definition of 'enjoy being yung'
i used to listen to this song all the time. i had a friend i was really close with but she moved and we lost contact because i was in 4th grade. i always used to listen to this when i missed her. i commented about this when i was younger but i can’t find the comment anymore. i loved you guys when i was 9.
i’m a sophomore in highschool now, entering tenth grade. i made contact with that friend again. i just got back from your concert. this song gave me chills. it brought back so many memories, i teared up. thank you for making music, your show was incredible and im so lucky to have discovered your music when i did because it made such an impact on my life.
I like how AJR’s songs aren’t about love and romance like other songs, they’re songs are about common problems, and I love that. They’re trying to say YOUR NOT ALONE!
i think every song is about problems.
@@saudiphilippines I know but not the break up kind of problems
@@saudiphilippines listen to any love song...
agreed
I lve them so much, they really help you to trully feel better
The story of a man stalked by a demon child from the mirror world.
He fell to its power.
It now walks free.
thats a conspiracy and a half
I'm so glad to see that someone noticed that...
I thought I'm the one that is so paranoid about that omg 😅😅😅
@@user-qu4fd3tu5s its his past self when he was in second grade, back when he had no wories and his feelings where not num. He reverts back to that part of himself at the end of the song which is why he appears a child.
Jeezz dude...
@@joshuacreegan125 r/woooosh
As someone who’s turning 18 very soon, and feeling like my childhood is growing increasingly out of reach, this song helps me realize that I’m not the only one who’s gone through this. AJR truly is the most human band out there!
Damn. I think others have already spoken but this song really relates to teens. None of the angst or anything but they fear of losing your childhood. Feeling as if you are abandoning everything you know for the scary and unknown world of adulthood. But its ok to grow up, just don't lose touch with your inner child, we all have friends that need it. So do you.
Fun fact: if you didn’t already know this..AJR is actually made of 3 brothers. Also the meaning of this song, the song represents the numbness of growing up and the struggles along with wanting to know what it feels like to be young again.
How does it go again??
This is also why the video for "3'oclock things" features them wearing "TB3" shirts. It was what they went by while busking in the Washington Square Park area way back in the day.
when i was like 8 i didnt know what it meant, i looked up what sober meant and i thought it literally meant sober im listening to this again and i just realized
OH SHOOT THIS WAS LIKE 3 YEARS AGO I WASNT 8 NEVERMIND I FEEL MORE STUPID
@@hiiilolol It's pretty haunting. They have a knack for deep, meaningful songs that sound a lot like bubblegum pop. This song in particular is something I and many people I know can really relate to.
TikTok: *steals this song*
This song: “hello hello, I’m not where I’m supposed to be”
101
Yup
Im here because of a stranger thing tiktok with this in it!
Oh, and i get your joke just now😅
I was on that part when I was reading it... they were really not where there supposed to be.
"growing up, it made me numb" that line hits hard
I think this is supposed to be about getting in touch with your inner child, but I'm pretty darn sure this man just got kidnapped by the fae
First day of freshmen year:
Me: *walks into class and sees its not the right class*
Me: 0:06
Me literally everyday of school
I get lost easy okay
Hehe
Im ded 😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀
That happened to a freshman in my class today
😁 lol 😂
My boyfriend sent me this song saying it reminds him of me. Im crying after searching the meaning. My assumption to the meaning was pretty close, but essentially its about asking for help to sober up from the weight of becoming an adult. We are both carefree and happy with each other. He essentially told me that I take away the pressure associated with being an adult. That I make life easier. Which I feel the same way to him about. This song oficially makes me cry when I hear it, and I can hear him so vividly singing it to me on our call last night
thats so sweet
Awww thats so sweet! ❤
that was wholesome.
Not you making me tear up 😩 This is so wholesome
I wish I had a BF who is so good to me, most guys I meet are absolute jerks or emotionally abusive or both. Your a lucky girl. He’s a keeper.
Heard them on the radio and followed them ever since!
I cannot express to you how much this song has done for me. You helped me to feel again when I thought all my emotions were buried too far down for anything to reach them. I can still remember the feeling of release when I would cry to this song in my room. I’m in a much better headspace now than I was before, but this song is still easily my favorite of all time and I thank you for helping me through that time in my life.
This comment deserves more
I almost forgot to listen to this today
i can't even tell you how much i can relate to this
Same but I could not tolerate that happening because AJR is my favourite band.Also how could you almost forget I mean you're a real AJR fan I think I'm just a man listening to music
If that makes sense
Go cubs
*gasp* how dareth you
Listen to this song again
I spend two days looking for this. Right as I give up this ends up in "recommended for you" and my two day search is now completed.
TA B SAMEEEE
TA B
🎶
How's it going again! 🎶
Well, at least you found it!
I know people who search for a song for YEARS lol!
It took me a minute to find it to
TA B SAAAAAAAME
I was about to give up, but i just typed the lyrics!
this song helped me sober up
This song makes me feel happy and sad at the same time
Bittersweet🩷
As someone who’s coping mechanism in an abusive household was emotional numbness, this really hit me hard
I feel you
I have a dad with dementia and this and there new song my play are just really hitting me hard
Same, this song really hit a cord for me and sitting down to listen to it made me truly cry for the first time in years and now I play it constantly
Same.. The sh** we went through growing up made us the badasses we are today, I tell myself that everyday. And no matter how many times we may fall we will continue to pick ourselves back up again, stronger than we were before. We got this 💪
Wow
me, an uncomfortable introvert at a party: *hElLo, HelLo, I'M NoT WhErE I'M SuPpOsEd tO Be*
Hahaha I can relate
Me at lost in chucks (Chuck E. oops) cheese’s play area:
i can relate.
When my friends push me close to my crush:
@Momo Yaoyorozu “chucks cheese’s” nice.
Crazy that this song was uploaded in 2018 and it's now 6 years old and it still bangs
I came here because I decided to listen to the rest of the click, because I barely listened to it, because I was listening to other albums, and when I found this song I was like holy crap this is that one song I loved on the radio when I was so young that I never looked it up but I’m glad I found this
The legit same thing happened to me
Not here from tiktok. Here from Costco because this is literally the song demo for every speaker.
Lol
Lol
i am not disappointed in costco. Praises
I don't hear this in my local Costco. I live almost around the corner for one.
I’m here from the ratio..finally found this song after almost two years🥺✊
I celebrated 4 years sober recently, and AJR's music was a huge part in seeing how beautiful the world can be without self abuse. Please, keep up the good work.
4 years! Cool!
I got sixteen!
...because I'm sixteen...
But still
@@MsMacintosh Keep up the clean living lol.
@Mazerine 5 years and counting! I'm not proud of having gone down that path, but I'm happy to be able to share with others the dangers.
@@AJSantiesteban That's awesome man, I'm in the middle of my own struggle quitting my bad habits at the moment and it's comforting to hear that someone has overcome it and holds similar comfort in AJRs music as I do, you've given me hope to push on, thank you sir. Hope you're still well, best wishes homeboy.
@@theiconic3994 That made my entire afternoon... Keep up the good fight. Even 5 years later, I still struggle with the occasional trigger. But for me, it's how I handle that situation that makes the difference.
I remember listening to ajr with my dad in the car. My dad sadly got arrested recently and every time I listen to this song it makes me wanna cry
I like the idea that at some point in the universe of this music video someone saw this and assumed he was a vampire, and that he only has a few minutes before a terrified mob descends on him.
Does anyone else get chills at the last chorus?
Ok, just me
same :)
Rivers and Ryan both singing "my favorite color is you" gives me chills, it sounds beautiful.
Nah, I always get chills at the last chorus
Same
It's not hand of god (outro) level of grand finale but it's up there
0:57 "later"
"see you tomorrow"
*Last Online 11 years ago*
I feel u I'm still looking for my best friend Pablo and if he sees this hey man its me Resentpine817
Me looking back at my 3ds's friends list
On roblox I had this really nice friend, I miss her a lot. She was pretty much my online best friend. I ended up losing my old account, and her account changed a lot. I think she might’ve given it to someone else. But.. if you see this.. hey. It’s me. Awsomekittenslove.
I had made an online friend a while ago. She stopped making videos and completely cleaned out her channel. She stopped using Discord and other platforms, not responding to any messages or comments.
I doubt she’ll see this, but hey. You were my first online friend.
I had an online friend now he does not play anymore and we lost contact with each other
Most underrated band ever!!! Absolutely genuine hall of fame band!
I NEVER hear anyone talking about them and Its so crazy, they're one of my fav bands and they're absolutely amazing and unique...
I’m leaving a comment here so In a month or year when someone likes it, I’ll get reminded of the song❤
"We smile at party time, but do we forget to smile at anything else?" That line hit really hard man, great song.
it wasn’t a question he was saying “but soon”
@@lonecalzone6901 yea lmao but still reminds me of my friends
E
when you watch the music videos, you really understand what the song is really about. ❤
I listened to this song as a young teenager, coming right out of my preteens. Didn't know what life had in store for me, and listening to this song on the radio was great, but I didn't understand every bit of it. Six years later, and as a guy pretty close to his early twenties, I can echo the sentiments of this song: I don't know where I'm supposed to be, and I'm trying to search for the older parts of myself in order to feel young
Jack (I think that’s his name) is so symbiotic why he is chasing his younger reflection. It is really deep because as you grow up you only wanna get younger but you can’t. Your youth will always be running from you. Once you embrace that then you might finally find your true youth.
You made me cry, you earned my like
Wow so beautiful
*symbolic
Yeah I started chasing my youth at 29. When I realized I lost it lol. We all wish we could have are youth back with the knowledge we have now. What would the world be like if so? Youths with major knowledge like a 50 year old.lol that would be crazy
Haha, yeah that’s his name
"All the big kids they got drunk" this line hit me very hard. I'm in middle school and I noticed how much everyone has changed. In elementary everyone was all about recess, drawing, making friends, but now everyone is vaping, dating, and cussing. Sometimes I just wish things were like old times
Lots of people change in middle school. It's hard to adapt. I found my middle school family in band
Keep and open mind and remember everyone is trying to find who they are and it'll be okay
Katelin Vandehey Thank you🥺
When i first was in middle school i hated a lot of things. It seemed like all of the people i called “friends” switched up on me. Its gonna be like this for the rest of your life as the world around us changes. Just know that you have to do whats best for yourself first, then others
Galaxy People try out every personality in middle school, including being jerks. By high school most people figure out how to be decent humans.
im in 7th grade, and i felt like no one was the same. we're all changing. theres nothing we can do to stop that. but we can keep pushing through it, and keep moving on. hope youre doing good, and just know that there are still others going through exactly what youre going through. at least, when it comes to middle school/junior high
Rivers where ya at?? I love that people are saying AJR sings about silly yet relatable things and here they have a major rockstar (Rivers is the lead singer of Weezer for those that don’t know) and he doesn’t even want to be in the video. My guess? SOCIAL ANXIETY. He’s notorious for being extremely shy and doesn’t like the spotlight. Perfect for AJR and all of us who can relate! ❤
It's nice to have musicians following you when you're on the street and you decide to sing a song.
me: *shows this song to my friend*
her: hey I know that beginning part from tik Tok!
me: *visible disappointment*
mood
How true
When that happens
Step 1: Throw said friend down into the void of nothingness and watch them perish
@Bonnie bunny Mkay exactly, that's how it goes, survival of the fittest
*More visible disappointment over y’all being disappointed over a friend knowing the song off a platform that does, indeed, suck 90% of the time, yet gave many of us new songs and artist to listen to*
I am 2 years sober, and this makes me cry every time. I love my wife, who cared enough to help me feel something again.
God bless man, god bless
I don’t believe in God but honestly yeah
God bless
*I wAnT aLl ThE mIrRoRs AnD wInDoWs In ThE wOrLd*
take another drink
@@freglee255 sobriety is feat and an accomplishment. Please don't disregard it.
Im 50...AJR is , or who ever writes their songs are telling my life story....Id really like to meet who that is. Telling me my life story with orchestra...The vibration and lyrics...I guess their are few of us. Personally I think they are genious.
Every once in a while, we just need to hear something that let's us know that we're "ok". I've been struggling to remember this lately - this song helps me remember🙂.
Wow! These kind of songs rarely appear, but when they do we're in for a treat. It's original, catchy, and even uses instruments not normally associated with alternative! Bravo AJR!
French Fan so true!!
Ikr it’s o good and catchy
French Fan alternative is mostly instrumental. It's alternative because it's incremental. That's just my 2 cents. Otherwise, yes rarely seen on the mass radio media.
French Fan use uke like twenty one pilots
The feel good song of the year!!
“We smile at party time..but soon we forget to smile at anything else..”
It’s hurts how much I relate to that....
i always hear begin, not forget
Well, I mean, theres no reason to smile outside of times when it is required. Empathy is what creates unsuccessful people. Friendships are valuable but they wont post you up in a multimillion dollar house in LA. Like, imagine thinking friendships are more valuable then a mansion and a Lamborghini when a human body is only valued at around 450,000 lmao
@@wildmoose3979 fuck you're dull.
@@sawkuh8959 material possessions are all that matters. It doesnt matter if your hollow if your hollow in a 200 million dollar mansion
@@ianraffel6535 mathematically it makes perfect sense
does the most repeated part of the video being in the beggining of it and staying through the entire song means all the people that came back again and again to listen to it? cute.
Ironically, my 1 year old brother loves this song, and so do I. Thank you, AJR, for passing the love of music to another
Why does AJR have only 970,000 subscribers when I hear them on the radio more than my mom yells at me
I never here them
Then I think that means you're mom is very chill, I never hear them on the radio
@@Snuffu i have heard weak on the radio, but that's all
Rebecca Suzanne lmao
Did you rlly hear their song on the radio?
Who’s here *NOT* from TikTok?
Yo wus up i recently got adicted to AJR about 3 hours ago 🤣
I am
From TikTok
No, Tiktok is gayyyu
I just like AJR
I get the weirdest thoughts listening to ajr.
my sister used to play this a bunch, never knew it was by you
Students going back to school after quarantine:
"last time I saw your face, was recess in second grade and it made me feel young" xD
3rd graders talking to their crushes after quarantine: *last time I saw your face, was recess in 2nd grade, and it made me feel young*
@@wildmoose3979 lmao😂
funny haha
@@scientistdoggo ikr, it doesn't seem like it though
*0:06** When you walk into a different class*
Lol
👏🏻
Fuck, take my goddamn like. Fuck you, and have a great day.
Electric toothbrushes in a teenage girls room at 3 am. Iykyk
Lol
Dude, 5 years later and this song is still a total vibe. Ajr are the most real people ever
Almost all of AJRs songs have brought so close to crying man these people are so good
Everyone: these lyrics are so relatable
Me: vibing to the violin in the background
@@jajasal9600 I mean I was pretty sure it was cello as well but I wrote violin for the joke, tbf though that probably wasn’t obvious
idc if i sound like a creep but i just like looking at Adam. lol
i love this but its a cello not a violin
strings speak to my soul. I can't get enough of em
cello
I'm 19 and since about 16 I'm feeling so stressed out and depressed because of growing up and leaving my beautiful childhood years behind and this song makes me feel like I'm not alone who feels just the same
UPD: I am now 20 and the war started in my country and now it's worse...
But now I'm more worried about surviving these times and not about missing my childhood...
I'm younger than you, but yeah.
This is litterally almost everyone dont be deppressed about new opportunities, sure, you now just left something behind but that's kinda more reason not to look back, right? I dont know I'm just a goddamn 13 year old.
im 13 and i dont want to leave my childhood either i wish i could stay a child forever. i dont like the feeling of growing up. people say youre more free once youre an adult but i doubt it. i feel like i would be less loved and etc i cant explain.
I'm 16, felt the same since... well I've hated that I can't turn back time since forever, but really I started realizing that over the last year or so
I'm going to be an adult soon
I'm already struggling with high school
What the hell
@@EC-qk2se I've been feeling the same way this week. Lord, please give us strength 🙏🏼🙏🏼
All this time, I've been hearing this band on radio channels and enjoying their songs without paying attention to who was doing them. Until today, when I started in a playlist, I didn't realize I like almost everything they do. Now going to have to go get the CD. Good band.
Kind of a sad comment that i'm writing to get off my chest.
Listening to this song the first time, i didn't think too much about it... only really thought about the lyrics literally.
But... the more i listen to it, the more i relate on a figurative level...
When i was younger, like... elementary school, i was a very talkative and emotional kid. But over time, the world started to judge what i did. I was always "too talkative" to the teachers, and too emotional to everyone. Slowly, people's reactions to how i acted changed how i viewed myself, and over time i became more and more isolated, going from open to talking, to being in a friend group, to mainly only talking to one or two friends ever, and well...
Now i'm 18, and i don't really have any friends in real life anymore. There's people i know, but i can't really meet them.
Not only that, but everything wearing at me... well, has me repress basically everything i think and feel to the back of my head, and it's taken a toll on me. I can barely get myself to talk to people i don't know well, and as for emotions... i don't even feel them properly anymore. I don't know how it used to feel, but it's... different now. I feel like i'm reacting to how my body changes to know how i feel now. And it hurts because, well, the body doesn't react to too much, except for crying, which is the easiest thing to do with unresolved emotions. It makes life just feel... so much harder, because even when i do something i think i should be happy about, i just end up not really feeling anything... And worrying about the future.
I hope that i grow out of this, and... "sober up" so to speak, so that i can really feel again.
oh bro ik this is just scratching the surface of how you feel, but keep goin, you’ll make it. I believe in you
edit over a year later: I was just cleaning out my email inbox and saw a bunch of emails from RUclips because people responded to this. Didn't realize this reached so many people! It really warms my heart to see people of all ages relating to this sentiment
holy shit thank you . i am lucky i found this comment , i am 17 and preparing for college entrance exam tests and keep reminiscing about 5 years back when school was so easy . this made me snap back
This comment made me realize a lot of things, thank you
just enjoy life, let it pass, be chill about it things will happen, and pass thats how life is.
beautifully written
Freshman going to sophomore in high school. I’ve listened to this song a lot lately, and I’m gonna take my chance while I still have it
Director: how much do you want to look like an insane person
AJR: *YES*
This song was my introduction to the band. I just saw them in concert 2 days ago and I’m still high off excitement. They put on such a unique show!!
It's like the guys working Staurbucks got random instruments for Christmas and went, yeah well make those work
Love this. Randomly found this band because of this song
The Vegetarian Baker You have to listen to every single song of them if you haven't yet!
Ay are you a vegetarian? I am
Listen to weak. I love that song
Same, I saw them sing it on GMM while Rhett and Link wore shock collars. I didn't even care what was happening, I was just enthralled with the song.
canyoutriplikeido same. Saw it on gmm