Even a Loser Can Change His Life

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    0:00 - Hollywood Goals Make Me Feel Like a Loser
    2:36 - The Impediment to Action Advances Action
    7:08 - Really Decide If Something Is Possible
    10:28 - Coach Yourself
    11:52 - Take It Day By Day

Комментарии • 324

  • @CaptainSinbad
    @CaptainSinbad  2 года назад +43

    If you're interested in growing your own RUclips channel faster, I would love to help you. Apply for Coaching Here: www.captainsinbad.com/coaching

    • @Randoms275
      @Randoms275 2 года назад

      do you still believe in semen retention?

    • @himanshu3887
      @himanshu3887 2 года назад

      Even a winner can change his life and become a loser🤣🤣. Then he will watch your video and change his life again.

    • @parag9907
      @parag9907 2 года назад

      CT Sinbad, thanks for being honest. This let's us believe that success is a journey not a destination and we hv to learn to enjoy this journey and not wait till the moment success achieved.

    • @edenzero8064
      @edenzero8064 2 года назад

      Whens the next podcast bro?

    • @noahbayless6134
      @noahbayless6134 2 года назад

      I had a dream that I photobombed you at Disney land just a few minutes ago Pandey 😊

  • @Hamza97
    @Hamza97 2 года назад +621

    dude really making some great vids on important topics

  • @JonJosephKuhn
    @JonJosephKuhn 2 года назад +430

    I was a fat out of shape, loser dad, with an arrest record who couldn’t get even get a job with Uber. To a ultra marathon running, happily engaged, running a successful business with enough money to finally expunge my record. I swear to you the one thing that changed everything was the first run I tried to take around my block. You can change, and you owe it to yourself and anyone who needs your support. Start small and stick to it. ❤️❤️

    • @CaptainSinbad
      @CaptainSinbad  2 года назад +76

      that's badass man -- congrats

    • @JonJosephKuhn
      @JonJosephKuhn 2 года назад +38

      @@CaptainSinbad thanks and same to you brother! Too many people live inside of cages where the door isn't even locked.

    • @ajithsidhu7183
      @ajithsidhu7183 2 года назад

      @@CaptainSinbad please do on sikhi and how to be a man

    • @mrknarf4438
      @mrknarf4438 2 года назад

      ​@@JonJosephKuhn So true, that's a great quote!

    • @kenanKTV
      @kenanKTV 2 года назад +1

      ERAAAAAAAA!!!!!

  • @MichaelDrift_
    @MichaelDrift_ 2 года назад +175

    Little returns are pretty much a guarantee whenever you’re going for goals that are worthy of achieving. Remember, compound interest will add up eventually and all those years of work will make everything explode.

  • @avidhossanmansur9830
    @avidhossanmansur9830 2 года назад +96

    "You could leave life right now, let that determine how you think and act"- Marcus Areleus
    "Life is short and anxious for those who forget the past neglect the present and fear the future"-Seneca
    "We don't rise to the level of our goals we fall to the level of our systems "-James Clear
    These 3 quotes completely changed how I looked at life and thought of work. Afterall only three things matter in life
    Who we are-our identity
    What we do- our careers
    Who we associate with-our friends, family and significant others.
    Because only these things are in our control and everything else is up to another universe!

  • @donnielemmons8136
    @donnielemmons8136 2 года назад +6

    7:08 "Start by doing what's necessary; then do what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible." ~Saint Francis of Assisi

  • @TheKhanSays01
    @TheKhanSays01 2 года назад +7

    I'm a loser atm documenting stuff lile Neck Transformation with 25 subs, but I will stop being a loser soon, God Willing. Thanks for videos like this keeping us inspired, Captain.

  • @TheDoomerGoGetter
    @TheDoomerGoGetter 2 года назад +74

    12:00 is exactly what I needed right now, I'm 24 years old living with my grandma and trying to become a successful RUclipsr one day, sometimes I feel discouraged when I see other channels as big as mine or even bigger than me making the same type of content but they're 16 years old, I beat myself up saying I should've got into self improvement younger, why did I spend my late teens and early 20s falling into drugs and depression.
    But I gotta take it day by day and know with hard work and consistency I can achieve my goals no matter what my age is

    • @mrknarf4438
      @mrknarf4438 2 года назад +11

      You're still so young, so young, so young man! In 15 years you'll be glad to have started now. Yes, others have started before, but they may leave sooner, and it takes each of us the time it takes to find our path, it's never wasted. School makes us think we're all living on the same timeline - we aren't, each of us has their own journey.

    • @TheDoomerGoGetter
      @TheDoomerGoGetter 2 года назад +3

      @@mrknarf4438 thank you brother, I really appreciate this

    • @trustyenriquez
      @trustyenriquez 2 года назад +2

      I feel the exact same way brother. But we just gotta keep taking that next step. Consistency and intention is what's really gonna make a difference I think. And its something I am always struggling with. But like you said, one day it will pay off.

    •  2 года назад +4

      You have more life experience than those 16 yearolds cannot possibly have. Play that to your own advantage!

    • @veyzolik5416
      @veyzolik5416 2 года назад +2

      @@TheDoomerGoGetter hope you make it man

  • @vishal0812
    @vishal0812 2 года назад +9

    Nikhil, I am 34 and just finding your channel, I struggle with the "I should have had this figured out by now" mindset. Thank you for this message, it starts now.

  • @knusperkeks87
    @knusperkeks87 2 года назад +6

    "The best way to stay detached is to know that you're doing what you're supposed to be doing." - great line

  • @swaggerdagger8976
    @swaggerdagger8976 2 года назад +5

    I dont have a comment to make i just hope anybody who’s at a low point in their life currently bounces back to happiness soon :)

  • @mcmaschio
    @mcmaschio 2 года назад +4

    The way this video started gave me Casey Vibes 😍💯

  • @OliverObz
    @OliverObz 2 года назад +2

    I'm such a WINNER I never change... EVER!

  • @fernendo4
    @fernendo4 2 года назад +4

    That feeling of being stuck in life can only be overcome with courage to say f this. No one can help you.

  • @hooshangmaster
    @hooshangmaster 2 года назад +7

    there isn't much of a difference between a loser and a winner. a winner is just a loser that doesn't give up.

  • @ruskibeaner5983
    @ruskibeaner5983 2 года назад +15

    I think doing it day by day is one of THE most important pieces of advice nowadays. We all expect progress soon, we all dream about the big juicy goal, and then we all get dissapointed that we haven't made leaps in progress in the first few weeks/days/months (or we become burnt out from too great of a work load). I notice that the "Russian" school is big on this. My piano teacher always said that when practicing, you should never overexert yourself: to ration your energy to allow for day by day progression. It's only on performance day should everything be let out of the tank. Same is with russian weightlifters. Klokov I remember said once that he never understood some people's mentality of seeing each gym day as a battle that they have to overcome. In his mind, it's best to think of it as just another training day, a small addition to the aggregate. Everything is day by day in other words.

  • @king4life219
    @king4life219 2 года назад +3

    As a 25 year old aspiring actor myself who still lives at home I can definitely relate to that feeling of being a loser. I worked full time in finance but it wasn’t my passion. I felt like a fraud. But after some hard work of creating my own demo reels and own projects, I now have an NYC agent and have been accepted to a highly regarded acting grad school program in California. 18 year old me thought I’d be a movie star by now. Everyone’s journey is different.

  • @VotedYouDown
    @VotedYouDown 2 года назад +3

    Love the direction you're taking the channel. Nikhil/Hamza/1stman the holy trinity

  • @AndrewWYT
    @AndrewWYT 2 года назад +6

    Living in the present really helps me not get overwhelmed about why I’m not successful yet or where I want to be

  • @Bob-pi3dd
    @Bob-pi3dd 2 года назад +3

    BURN THE BRIDGES, brothers. I finished a prestigious business degree, and most of my friends took big banking/consulting jobs. My desire is to build a business and a YT channel. I literally burned my resumes. Now I have no way to retreat. The only way forwards is forwards. I've uploaded my first 2 vids! Fortuna Fortis Iuvat.

  • @mkjav596
    @mkjav596 2 года назад

    Needed this today. Thanks captain

  • @jackworthington5205
    @jackworthington5205 2 года назад

    Thank you, needed this today

  • @totorishop
    @totorishop 2 года назад

    Love ya Cap

  • @jenusanbaskaran7472
    @jenusanbaskaran7472 2 года назад

    Great Vid!

  • @Marc-Alain
    @Marc-Alain Год назад

    Thanks for your honesty.

  • @xiozhanbunny5982
    @xiozhanbunny5982 2 года назад +1

    I just loved this video...needed this❤

  • @olivertaveras9896
    @olivertaveras9896 2 года назад

    Love that book. Awesome video thank you

  • @waleedirfan5045
    @waleedirfan5045 2 года назад +2

    Great guy

  • @hibaid1424
    @hibaid1424 2 года назад

    Never stop making videos, they are life changing!!

  • @agr108
    @agr108 2 года назад +1

    Your time is right around the corner man. Dope work. Stay up.

  • @naderrahhal8433
    @naderrahhal8433 2 года назад

    Love it man

  • @peterkovic2241
    @peterkovic2241 2 года назад +3

    This was a great video, bro. Keep on grinding. You’re killin it!

  • @JackedStacked21
    @JackedStacked21 2 года назад +5

    Love the positivity keep it coming 💪🏾

  • @phillipyounghoo1244
    @phillipyounghoo1244 2 года назад

    Yo, don't stop these vids man.

  • @nazifdanesi9623
    @nazifdanesi9623 2 года назад +2

    I'm 21, and to most people I have my life figured out because I look like I know what I'm doing and I have goals I'm currently working towards, but lately I've been feeling like too much of a loser because at this point I have no money, I've been rejected on every job application I sent, I lost a gig that could have made me lots of money. And I think people don't see how much I make more losses than I make wins which makes me feel like a fraud.
    I guess I'm trying to say thanks for this video, it came at a time when I needed it. I'll probably read the obstacle is the way again.

  • @bradleycooper1698
    @bradleycooper1698 2 года назад +1

    Captain Winbad always taking Ws doe

  • @tejasgkulkarni2116
    @tejasgkulkarni2116 2 года назад +1

    Honestly,you are my inspiration.🙌

  • @athlete1011
    @athlete1011 2 года назад +1

    I’ve been watching your content for quite sometime and I have to say the quality and idea for your videos as of late have been phenomenal… I’m not even entirely sure why or how they’re evolving but I really appreciate the detail put into them and how they truly capture your attention. Keep it up brother, greatness awaits!

  • @anishkavsingh
    @anishkavsingh 2 года назад

    Makes me so happy that your last 2 videos did so well! ♥️

  • @nerdtrying4788
    @nerdtrying4788 2 года назад +1

    Love your content brother.

  • @chadcbianco
    @chadcbianco 2 года назад +1

    We will. 👊 Champions rise.

  • @atanasfit
    @atanasfit 2 года назад

    Great video, Sinbad! Thank you for the remarkable tips and the inspiration!

  • @deepthinker851
    @deepthinker851 2 года назад

    What a beautiful video man.

  • @Flipstar117
    @Flipstar117 2 года назад

    Nothing like watching some quality Sinbad on Monday morning before starting the daily grind of closing tickets :D - Keep it up my man! You inspire us all!

  • @jorgereyes6828
    @jorgereyes6828 2 года назад

    Thanks for this video ✌️

  • @minimalinmn2159
    @minimalinmn2159 2 года назад

    Whoa. Serious lightbulb moment. Thanks, man.

  • @mr.swagily2659
    @mr.swagily2659 2 года назад

    The amount of value + humility is crazy. Headed for greatness 😎

  • @sales_coach_ai
    @sales_coach_ai 2 года назад +1

    When I feel like starting a YT channel I see this and accept I’d never put in the time to produce something like this. Great job bud.

  • @damianrahman9935
    @damianrahman9935 2 года назад +2

    Honestly I needed this having a hard time with college and finding a path in this world thank you

  • @hamzahbokhari
    @hamzahbokhari 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for the vulnerability man, really appreciate it

  • @FuryEngel
    @FuryEngel 2 года назад +9

    Love the direction your channel is going. What stuck wth me is sepperating my identity with my wants and goals.
    Until now I kinda glamorized and idolized my wants and it ended up feeling unattainable. But as you said (or quoted) you can change your actions but not your wants. So I'm doing myself a disservice not striving for the goals and setting a small step each day for the long run. Thanks for the video!

  • @givanniredpill
    @givanniredpill Год назад

    Straight facts

  • @shazam1334
    @shazam1334 2 года назад

    Some way or another i relate to u alot...thnx buddy for the vids

  • @mindiwilhelm4322
    @mindiwilhelm4322 2 года назад

    Wow! Congratulations on your running speed.

  • @nemekSI
    @nemekSI 2 года назад +4

    *The work ethic you got tells me that you will def one day be on the big screen, In the mean time you have made a great impact on the community!*

  • @Jose_T131
    @Jose_T131 2 года назад

    Great video, "Go up two steps if you fall one"

  • @jenniferharper2119
    @jenniferharper2119 2 года назад +2

    As usual, great timing for this message 💕 the grind is one day at a time but the ROI is much faster.

  • @prajwalnayak435
    @prajwalnayak435 2 года назад

    Great video captain. 💪

  • @MultiLelde
    @MultiLelde 2 года назад +4

    Man this is why I’ve enjoyed your channel since I found it not too long ago. Like I know what I have to do to reach my goals it’s a matter of doing it. The hard part is having the discipline to get it done. I started dedicating 3 hours to studying code and I’ve been in the gym 4 days a week thanks to the different perspectives you gave.

  • @NaveedHusain
    @NaveedHusain 2 года назад +1

    I'm loving the format of these recent videos.

  • @rahulio1990
    @rahulio1990 2 года назад +1

    Love this channel as a 22yr old male, keep up the work and can’t wait for the next episode of the podcast

  • @Manoj-ram-Somasundaram
    @Manoj-ram-Somasundaram 2 года назад

    I love the juxtaposition of you talking about small goals that are attainable as well as big goals that seem like a 3/10 that are less attainable but you should still keep on your mind.
    There are definitely 2 camps of that in the self-development space, so that definitely made me think.

  • @javierlombardo6213
    @javierlombardo6213 2 года назад +3

    you became so vulnerable and real its that it feel powerfull = congrats captain , you are the only youtuber i see 100% of the video time

  • @jasonlee8172
    @jasonlee8172 2 года назад +7

    I know this because I have lived it. I would not have made it so far in my life if it weren't for your guidance. So glad I found you 2 years ago!

  • @levveliki8888
    @levveliki8888 Год назад

    Keep growing man 💪💪💪 if you can't join them just beat them.

  • @AkachukwuMadueke
    @AkachukwuMadueke 2 года назад +1

    This video is so beautiful!
    It's so concised, narrative, relatable and inspiring.

  • @legendarygamer8455
    @legendarygamer8455 2 года назад

    I really really really fucking needed this. I felt like this just after giving my IB exams, a loser. I was on the verge of tears through out the video. Hey man thank you for this, hopefully I'll turn it all around ❤️

  • @pedromussi
    @pedromussi 2 года назад

    i resonate with u. the thing is sometimes losing IS what puts you on the path. I got so tired of waiting and questioning why i wasnt achieving any goals i just got the fuck up and went after it. 6 months ago i didnt even understand nothing about technology, and now i got my first front end development internship.

  • @NoleNoleNoleJole
    @NoleNoleNoleJole 2 года назад +1

    Really good video!

  • @kazi1
    @kazi1 2 года назад

    Thanks for the video

  • @TheKyle1223
    @TheKyle1223 2 года назад +1

    Love it! Also, I really hope you guys start doing the podcast soon. The conversations on there were incredibly relatable. Feels like a big loss to not have it every week.

  • @Souvik1100
    @Souvik1100 2 года назад

    You have no idea how helpful your channel has been for my self improvement journey the past year or so, especially coming as a Desi person

  • @zeeshanmakesbangers1512
    @zeeshanmakesbangers1512 2 года назад +4

    I use to think your channel is dying but your content is really top tier and also I love your podcast.

  • @proatbilliards
    @proatbilliards 2 года назад

    as long as you have a vision and you consistently work towards that vision that's all that matters and rises above all of what society shames you for not being. keep moving forward.

  • @kazi1
    @kazi1 2 года назад +3

    Agreed, taking it slow to achieve your goals to have less stress on your journey can be a good thing.

  • @itsMakeMusic
    @itsMakeMusic 2 года назад

    Brooo. You look better than ever. Keep improving.

  • @vaibhavkumar8136
    @vaibhavkumar8136 2 года назад

    Amazing content as usual!

  • @parthvyas9242
    @parthvyas9242 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for making this video, it really helped me 🔥👍

  • @ivaldisako
    @ivaldisako 2 года назад

    Your videos and more precisely your message appeals to me more and more, and you give really useful insights thank you.

  • @LennefalkStudios
    @LennefalkStudios 2 года назад

    Love the part about being transparent about your age and figuring it out later than what others expect. Hugely freeing and less distraction from others' opinion. Greetings from a Swede in Beijing 🌆☀️

  • @sheming106
    @sheming106 2 года назад

    Great video! Really valuable to me. Would love to see podcasts in this context

  • @danarnold4210
    @danarnold4210 2 года назад

    You're really becoming a Captain.

  • @Android-17
    @Android-17 2 года назад +1

    Wow you're squating 280lbs.
    That's my current goal.
    Your progress is pretty consistent, very well done!

  • @KamreiTaylor
    @KamreiTaylor 2 года назад +1

    Growth Mindset + Goal Setting
    Believe you can, and set goals to measure the progress.

  • @ParijatRao
    @ParijatRao 2 года назад

    This video was awesome and very useful 👍 thank you 🙏

  • @masudkazi1597
    @masudkazi1597 2 года назад +4

    The quality of your last three videos have been insane, I've really been enjoying watching them. Keep it up Nikhil!

  • @vinhsanity
    @vinhsanity 2 года назад

    I love seeing MPLS people on YT!! Keep it up man, love the content!!

  • @FinancialFreedomMadeSimple
    @FinancialFreedomMadeSimple 2 года назад

    Love that book!

  • @unknowndiamond8660
    @unknowndiamond8660 2 года назад

    Thank you

  • @RazrSharpProductions
    @RazrSharpProductions 2 года назад

    One of your most important videos

  • @thnxm8
    @thnxm8 2 года назад

    Look at that amazing editing bro!

  • @soumitrachakraborty9983
    @soumitrachakraborty9983 2 года назад

    Thanks

  • @hansrony5684
    @hansrony5684 2 года назад

    Do your duty and you will find what you need. Great video bro and waiting for the Damaged Men Podcast

  • @humanity_restored8761
    @humanity_restored8761 2 года назад

    Not gonna lie, I mostly watch your videos to catch glimpses of my home state of Minnesota. Keep up the good work!

  • @anantadevdatta5985
    @anantadevdatta5985 2 года назад

    Bros haircut is smooth, and man this video was actually helpful bro. You will make it man, we'll make it.

  • @Jefferyzang
    @Jefferyzang 2 года назад

    What you say about the obstacles inspiring creativity is so so true. I have been making content for two years but when I started I was just shooting lower quality videos on my phone and posting on Tiktok every day. On the other hand I have photographer/videographer friends who have really impressive equipment, and always talk about "I'll start to post- I'll make a channel" but haven't really taken action. It's really encouraging to see where you're coming from, and what it's like to take things day by day. Good luck on your journey!

  • @JPJosefPictures
    @JPJosefPictures 2 года назад

    Great small documentary!

  • @synthiadas612
    @synthiadas612 2 года назад +12

    Definitely want to read the book now. "Coach yourself" is the most relatable. I realized I give the best advice when it comes to other people and I was wondering for quite some time how to take advice from myself. That's really helpful.

  • @BasedBrothers
    @BasedBrothers 2 года назад +2

    The journey is the goal this is key to remember. I was a fool when I was younger to think once X goal was achieved, my life would finally begin. Life is happening now and it can end at any moment. The character and life experience you develope while pursuing your true goals is rewarding in itself. Pursuing your true aspirations in life no matter what, even if the desired outcome is not achieved, is rewarding because you are living a life that is true to you.
    Stay Based

  • @sahilverma8263
    @sahilverma8263 2 года назад

    You are looking very vibrant in recent 2-3 videos. Good to see you so energetic bro.