When You Can't Find Love, Watch This | Regan Hillyer

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Комментарии • 674

  • @EpicadventuresbyMay
    @EpicadventuresbyMay 3 года назад +467

    May everybody be blessed with a soulmate that will understand your flaws and push you to be better everyday❤️

    • @jliwei6611
      @jliwei6611 3 года назад +2

      So it’s true, when all is said and done, grief is the price we pay for love.

    • @richardsmith7696
      @richardsmith7696 2 года назад +2

      Hi Serah, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??

    • @Haxan-gw6kn
      @Haxan-gw6kn 2 года назад +1

      NO, I DON'T NEED

    • @BGKO1992
      @BGKO1992 2 года назад +1

      i pray everyday for it maybe my prayers are not reaching i dont know pls pray for me 💔

    • @Josh-H3-5-Percent
      @Josh-H3-5-Percent Год назад

      I think I just met her. Hi it's nice to finally meet you.
      I'm just kidding but think you, I really needed the positive affirmation.
      And trust me I know the joke is cringe

  • @ramonowens8957
    @ramonowens8957 4 года назад +754

    Finding some who love me at all would be a miracle

    • @maed2584
      @maed2584 4 года назад +5

      Why?

    • @ramonowens8957
      @ramonowens8957 4 года назад +67

      Mae D spent roughly 19 years alone and only time I ever had someone was once for less than a month and that was more than one or two years ago. So yea It would be a miracle if I found someone who actually loved me for me and thought about me. Never really happened yet and I don’t believe it ever will

    • @maed2584
      @maed2584 4 года назад +7

      @@ramonowens8957 I dont think you're totally alone. You have your family and friends. So pls cheer up

    • @egawe
      @egawe 4 года назад +67

      Well man, you will either write these sad posts on youtube or: You will sit on your arse and think. What can I do to improve myself. What can I do be the best version of myself. What can I do to meet more new people. If you re settled with the current lifestyle, nothing will change. Make a change. Get a little angry, get that fire from within you. Push yourself a bit. Maybe join evening language classes. Drama classes. Dancing classes. Check with a friend how well are you dressed. A bit of exercise? Why not. New sport? Maybe. Its easy to be sad, its hard to actually stand up and fight for your little personal sushine on this earth. Start doing things that will require your inner will, improve yourself, feel good about yourself. Love others, not in a relationship way, just enjoy human company. And I guarantee you something will change. Just dont settle. Be kind to yourself. But keep pushing. Fail. Try again. Fail. Try again. And smile while doing it cause you re on the right path. Wish you all the luck man and trust me, I know how you feel. You will get that sunshine. Just stand up and fight.

    • @joeljackson3811
      @joeljackson3811 4 года назад +2

      I know someone who can help you

  • @thearthurmarston9897
    @thearthurmarston9897 3 года назад +323

    I found my loved one back in 2015.. we’ve been together for almost a year… I knew she was the one in every way. One day I got a call from her parents telling me she’s been hospitalized due to overdosing on pills. She passed away the same night and that memory of her stuck with me still to this day. Any other women who came after her never lasted long. And before you ask no, I never searched for someone like her or expected them to be like her because everyone is unique.. I feel like I had that chance of finding my other half and I feel like she was that chance that I no longer have. If you took the time to read this I thank you and I hope you find what you’re looking for ♥️

    • @Ldr1999
      @Ldr1999 2 года назад +1

      What could be the reason?
      I thought about suicide but I just can't take the responsibility of all the pain people will feel.
      Sorry to hear that. The way you describe her, you deserve to have all the time in the world with her.

    • @nai-lahkristasimone5161
      @nai-lahkristasimone5161 2 года назад

      @@Ldr1999 why have you?

    • @maveeeclub1440
      @maveeeclub1440 2 года назад +4

      Good god... i cried reading this. Much love to you buddy.

    • @barbaraschain9260
      @barbaraschain9260 2 года назад

      What is meant to be, is meant to be and you can't avoid it. Nothing is a coincidence either. My heart breaks for your loss. God bless🌹❤

    • @Elena-es7sc
      @Elena-es7sc Год назад +3

      This is an old comment but I hope you read this. I believe that she would have wanted for you to find the one that you were meant to be with for the rest of your life. The fact that she couldn’t find the strenght to go on doesn’t mean that you will betray her if you find the one that you’re meant to love now. I really believe that she would feel happy that you have a happy life and that you allowed yourself to love and be loved. I hope you don’t believe you could have saved her. She did the best she could. But now it’s your turn to live. I am not trying to be patronizing. I just want to say that there is so much love and happiness on your way. I hope you will have enough self love to receive it.

  • @skiller280476
    @skiller280476 2 года назад +72

    I deserve to be loved, to be listened to, to be respected, admired, kindly treated. I deserve intimacy, happiness,passion... I deserve love

  • @ianbetts4435
    @ianbetts4435 2 года назад +76

    People don't know how lucky they are to find true love. I'm 58 and twice in my life I found that person but it was in a dream. Both times I woke up and sobbed my heart out.I know what true love feels like.

    • @jodismith9296
      @jodismith9296 2 года назад +1

      Mmm true talk Lan:-) seems we are on the same page. It is appreciable thing all time to be in the reality of true love. What I know is that’Love is not about finding the right person but creating a right relationship.And the basic is trust.

    • @peace115xxx
      @peace115xxx 2 года назад +1

      I've done this before as well..

    • @flexmediaproduction-1
      @flexmediaproduction-1 Год назад

      i think i have find myself in this situation can i get to talk with you

    • @godnyx117
      @godnyx117 Год назад

      That's what happens when we are lucky in general. We don't know it. That's what been lucky means.
      Look the attractive people that refuse to believe the "attractive privilege",
      The intelligent people that refuse to believe the "intelligent privilege"
      The rich ones, etc.

    • @miguelmichael344
      @miguelmichael344 Год назад

      I wish I'm loved like others

  • @tages_matuna
    @tages_matuna 3 года назад +74

    I think when you are beautiful, young and confident it is easy to speak of loving yourself and being faithful that you will find love. But when you put some decades of waiting on your back and you spent all your life alone hoping that one day you'll meet the person that will change your life then it is a totally different perspective. It is like carrying the stone of Sisyphus on your back.
    I think this videos work well when you do not have a long perspective of life, when you are still within your 40´s. But if you were to revisit this video in your 50's and 60's after you have spent your life alone, this same kind of videos taste differently.

    • @nai-lahkristasimone5161
      @nai-lahkristasimone5161 2 года назад

      How old are you? I'm a single mom of 3 searching for friends just people to talk to because the world seems so lonely these days . I'm black age 30 let me know if you would like to be my friend

    • @Hey-jw3dm
      @Hey-jw3dm 2 года назад +7

      im worried here and I'm like 21 😂

    • @gabemfuranna6946
      @gabemfuranna6946 2 года назад +1

      Well worded

    • @SueJoyceserenity
      @SueJoyceserenity Год назад

      I know my value, never had true love

    • @itsme2434
      @itsme2434 Год назад

      Am 22 and am very attractive and smart but I can't find my one everyone is surprised

  • @samiermeyer4791
    @samiermeyer4791 3 года назад +60

    Finding someone that loves everything about me flaws and all I have so much love to give would be my world

  • @muscleinwiththechef
    @muscleinwiththechef 3 года назад +38

    One thing that has held me back all of my life is that I cant find love but I always keep telling myself that maybe that person just simply isnt out there and I am not compatible with anyone.

    • @Saranda4787
      @Saranda4787 3 года назад +2

      Same here.

    • @cleopatrasilk3384
      @cleopatrasilk3384 3 года назад +3

      There's always someone out there who can love you flaws and all. Stop feeding your mind negative impressions of yourself.

    • @itsiwhatitsi
      @itsiwhatitsi 2 года назад +1

      @@cleopatrasilk3384 you know it only when you find it

    • @muhammadhuzaifahmohamedsal2697
      @muhammadhuzaifahmohamedsal2697 2 года назад +4

      @@cleopatrasilk3384 not really. thats a lie to placate all the lonely unwanted people. its a lie that was repeated to me 10 years ago. And 10 years on there's no such person. 10 years in the future, there will not be such person either. It doesn't change. Sometimes acceptance is the best solution.

    • @horizon1132
      @horizon1132 2 года назад +2

      @@muhammadhuzaifahmohamedsal2697 Pretty much because when it's all said and done. When they've given their last "you can do it just gotta wait " or :its just your mindset " even tho if I was some other attractive person I wouldn't even be in This fucking comment section rn. You gotta live your life and if it's shitty struggle completely alone

  • @Vneks
    @Vneks 2 года назад +10

    The amount of time a hug from a loved one could have been so good. I have had a few years of depression and anxiety now. And even just a single i love you would have saved me so many times

    • @maceyr.6583
      @maceyr.6583 2 года назад

      I love youuu 🤍

    • @Niki_musical3
      @Niki_musical3 2 года назад +1

      I love you

    • @godnyx117
      @godnyx117 Год назад

      Have felt the same! How much It would help me back then when my psychology was shit! But I'm better now, I'm more in control of my feelings I guess! Good luck brother!

  • @ScrotumWizard
    @ScrotumWizard 3 года назад +29

    Wow, I clicked on this thinking I was gonna find good advice.

  • @Lotastic_Films
    @Lotastic_Films 4 года назад +99

    I really needed this. Just found out yesterday that a girl I had feelings for got together with some douchebag that most likely will cheat on her, even though she just broke up with her other friend a 2 or 3 month ago. This made me realize that it's not my fault. Thank you and greetings from Lotasticland

    • @mercyfaleye6305
      @mercyfaleye6305 4 года назад +5

      Being there mate

    • @pinkimietz3243
      @pinkimietz3243 4 года назад +4

      Non of your business. Good for her she didn't choose someone judgmental and mean like you.

    • @Lotastic_Films
      @Lotastic_Films 4 года назад +4

      @@pinkimietz3243 you mean Mercy?

    • @muscleinwiththechef
      @muscleinwiththechef 3 года назад

      @@Lotastic_Films I have been in a very similar situation I really do feel your pain it wrecks you inside one thing I had going for me was that for some time her parents were actually them selves trying to hitch me up with there own daughter but in the end she went out with some duchbag with a tat wagon for a van and no job it makes no sense to me. The thing I have had to accept is that I may be single for a very long time or just won't meet anyone at all.

    • @robertconnor9768
      @robertconnor9768 3 года назад

      Hello this is Robert Connor one of military army in USA he is single and not searching if you are you can message and convince him about you so that he can love you messaging on WhatsApp this is his phone number +19133366077 or hangout robertconnor237@gmail.com

  • @ajayrajawat100
    @ajayrajawat100 4 года назад +55

    i have been waiting for a girl for 25 years and the wait is not ending life is unfair i have seen guys 17/18 years old have lots of friends from opposite sex and have gf/bf and then i see my self god has been so unfair on this .. i

    • @era1209
      @era1209 3 года назад +3

      Watch this video to find true love and don't just wait for it: ruclips.net/video/fQOrsulA_O0/видео.html

    • @edwidge1109
      @edwidge1109 3 года назад +5

      Your username says I won’t lose!! You will find someone!!

    • @Kurumiinho
      @Kurumiinho 3 года назад +10

      I kinda feel the same way because I’m turning 18 in July and I’ve never had an actual gf (apart from some online thing I had for a couple of months) and I see everyone around my age dating, living their best life and all that good stuff, and I’m still here doing nothing and having no one. It must be even worse for you, but I wish you good luck!

    • @officialreviews7
      @officialreviews7 3 года назад +1

      Same here! I’m 18 and never dated once or have a girl like me. I am using dating apps now and the girls from foreign countries appreciate my looks and character more than girls in my country

    • @tages_matuna
      @tages_matuna 3 года назад

      Same here man. 35 years of search and still nothing. They all say to me I will find love and I always wonder how can they be sure? What if I don´t? which is what is happening.

  • @vejarazvi4041
    @vejarazvi4041 3 года назад +15

    I would give everything to find someone that love me as much I can love

    • @Mark-it6tw
      @Mark-it6tw Год назад

      Hi, am looking for a soulmate who is willing to understand me and work side by side with me

  • @chadelliottfahlman
    @chadelliottfahlman 5 лет назад +54

    Don't know which of you studs and goddesses need to hear this, though you should know that you're intelligent, drop dead gorgeous, and on a winning streak.

    • @ClareMartin007
      @ClareMartin007 5 лет назад +3

      Thank you. Searching, seeking can be a journey of self-doubt and struggle. Good to hear this.

    • @robertstevens4216
      @robertstevens4216 4 года назад

      @@ClareMartin007 hello, it's much easier when love grows natural

    • @chadelliottfahlman
      @chadelliottfahlman 4 года назад

      @Oliver Al-Beini Nothing is impossible my friend. Level up yourself as much as possible.

    • @tessajeon9160
      @tessajeon9160 3 года назад

      A year old comment and I found it. Needed it

  • @lu-cardowashinggreen1278
    @lu-cardowashinggreen1278 2 года назад +13

    Five years ago I met this girl, there was this moment we shared in a lecture hall. I looked in her eyes and she looked in mine and time just disappeared. I still get this feeling when I think about it and it's difficult to feel like that with other women.
    I chose to cut all ties cause I don't wanna lose her and you can't lose someone you don't have.

  • @chrisharris5059
    @chrisharris5059 3 года назад +18

    I'm finally ready to receive the love I deserve and I have done the work by learning to love myself and to stop the negative thinking and doubts that plagued me all my life!! Thank you for this video great reminder to continue loving myself!! ❤ 🙏🏽💪🏽💯

  • @dessysvlog243
    @dessysvlog243 2 года назад +12

    I am worthy and deserving of love ❤️

  • @davidmelendez7024
    @davidmelendez7024 3 года назад +36

    I dunno.... I’ve spent years trying to love myself, improve myself and I’ve tried various methods to find love. Girls talk to me and sometimes even agree to a date but they end up ghosting me. I’m tired of trying so hard...

  • @lightwaters
    @lightwaters 5 лет назад +19

    Over the years I have learnt the art of simply sitting still and going into a state of Bliss.......its not just imagination but an auditory experience where I have tapped in to this sound I hear at my heart and between the brows ........normally sound is perceived by the ear...but thats not true when you tap into higher frequency.....this sound is soo peaceful and blissful.......I sense it's the fabric of our universe.........I'm not in a relationship ....but in a relationship to share that joy with everyone I interact with

  • @joycelaw4191
    @joycelaw4191 2 года назад +3

    I’ve never dated anyone else in my life and now I’m 20. Tbh, I always have a feeling that I’m gonna die alone and no one is gonna love me. And I’ve never experienced being loved. I lose hope in finding the one. I remember there are some nights where I just cry alone and all I have is a teddy bear company me by my side, wondering why I’m so unlucky in love and why do I always fall for the guy who never love me back. But your video does remind me to love myself more and also start to love others. After all at the end of the day, we only have ourselves and only YOU can make yourself happy. ❤️Sending love to people who is also wanting to be loved and I wish you all the best!

    • @sthefanochavarria4474
      @sthefanochavarria4474 2 года назад +2

      Girl I feel you, I had all those sad nights hugging my pillows too, im 20, and used to tell myself the same things. Still unlucky and never dated, but you know what? Finding you here makes me happy, you reminded me that theres a lot of good people arounda the world that are yearning for a oportunitty just like me, I'm not feeling alone in this our fight. I probably wont never get to meet you, but if i did I would like to give you a big hug, it will really help for comfort. Hope our romantic future gets better, I'll pray for you to find a man who truely loves you, and who knows, maybe a someday get a chance with a girl.

    • @casualsatanist5808
      @casualsatanist5808 Год назад

      Soon turning 20.
      Im scared ill live and die alone, that ill never get to share life w "her" or "the one".
      All i can do is hope to b lucky HAHHAH.
      And ive been working on myself physically for about 6 months now. Skinny fuck no more.
      Wish ya all the best of luck. We fuckin need it...

  • @AlvaroArredondo-ir6iv
    @AlvaroArredondo-ir6iv 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for sharing, Regan! Family members keep telling me, “you need to be with someone…” “you’re too picky…” “you’ll die alone” … Then, when I am in a relationship, they find fault in that person and tell me to find someone else. “Get someone who’s not so pretty.” The worst is when they get racist (smh). What they don’t realize is that I actually do love myself. I enjoy time when I’m not with someone. I get time to work on me, or go deeper into my self if I can’t find what needs to be worked on. My happiness is not dependent on someone else. That’s too much pressure for another person anyways…

  • @allhailzamasu69
    @allhailzamasu69 2 года назад +51

    I was meant to be alone forever. I have accepted my fate.

    • @omnwaf2182
      @omnwaf2182 2 года назад +10

      I know the feeling brother

    • @jolynjenna880
      @jolynjenna880 2 года назад +7

      😰😰😰don't say that

    • @allhailzamasu69
      @allhailzamasu69 2 года назад

      @@jolynjenna880 why not. Women don't even give me a second look. They love thugs vs a nice black guy. I get no respond. It's over for me.

    • @Hey-jw3dm
      @Hey-jw3dm 2 года назад +1

      how old r you

    • @allhailzamasu69
      @allhailzamasu69 2 года назад +4

      @@Hey-jw3dm imma just say early 30s

  • @napoleonwhitehorse971
    @napoleonwhitehorse971 4 года назад +36

    Can’t find love. I wanted love when I had my first sight then it’s like rejection. It’s always end of me being alone. I wish someone would be by my side.

  • @mercyfaleye6305
    @mercyfaleye6305 4 года назад +6

    Thank you for a guy who's suffering form severe dance I have never thought I would even find love but tbh I've been questioning a lot about myself lately and your idea of finding love really stuck with me so maybe there is a chance for me after all I'm not sure but I can hope better because of this so I just wanted to say thank you

  • @wakeupandroar3488
    @wakeupandroar3488 Год назад

    Yess... I find myself in your words, Regan... I was that person with a toxic perception of myself and of love.. That is why I took these last years of being single to heal and come back to myself.. I now know that I deserve the best and that the one who is best for me is out there...

  • @cmxsprt
    @cmxsprt 10 месяцев назад +1

    Love is inside you all the time.

  • @rfkexe
    @rfkexe 4 года назад +34

    how am I suppose to live my self when girls reject me and call me ugly I have great unique personality but that doesn't help ig I'll just die alone

    • @jeangrey5911
      @jeangrey5911 4 года назад +9

      Hey buddy I got the same problem... Unfortunately there is no way around it, so try to accept it as fact. But hey there are some other things in life that can make u happy, like animals or some hobby. Let me know if u wanna talk, bc talking helps sometimes:) Good luck

    • @rfkexe
      @rfkexe 4 года назад +5

      @@jeangrey5911 thanks man and sorry i just noticed the notification anyway yeah that's what im trying to do like just accept the fact girl will never like and cut the bullshit of there is one for everyone some ppl meant to be alone

    • @merinaan4474
      @merinaan4474 3 года назад +4

      I was like you a lot of boys called me ugly and I stopped worrying about it instead I was laughing with them and doing sarcasm about it then they stopped all this bad word
      If you appreciate your inner and look it’s amazing , you can do amazing things

    • @shameika....8620
      @shameika....8620 3 года назад

      @@rfkexe your not ugly don't accept that... and I do believe everyone have someone out there.

    • @shameika....8620
      @shameika....8620 3 года назад

      @@jeangrey5911 don't let anyone told you your ugly and accept it..

  • @gamersk1ll969
    @gamersk1ll969 3 года назад +22

    Pov: you didn’t get recommended this, you searched it up.

  • @emastriker1878
    @emastriker1878 4 года назад +22

    What if I do love myself for the person that I am and the body that I have. I always put myself first always, but I still don't attract the right men? I attract emotionally unavailable men.

    • @hiltoncollins4345
      @hiltoncollins4345 4 года назад +1

      How are you doing today Ema Striker? Its really nice having you on here .. I saw your profile on here and i think we definitely are on the same page on many levels. Trust, communication, loving, honoring, understanding, patience and respecting your partner. So crucial to provide balance. This is what creates such great chemistry between two people that are committed to one another.

    • @N_.Saratonin
      @N_.Saratonin 3 года назад

      I'm the same :) I would be happy if you tell me if in course of a year anything have changed?

  • @arthurshugars1974
    @arthurshugars1974 2 года назад +2

    part of it for me is breaking out of my comfort zone. If I could just decide to take that long walk to the pier in the morning, if anything I would get some good cardio in at least and feel a bit better about myself and my overall health. Making that decision for change is the first step in that process. Once that is made, the doing should be easy, and who knows what interactions could occur given time. If we always did what we've always done, we'll always get what we've always got, so for me, change is not an easy thing to do, but I know it is necessary for helping my inner self heal from all the crap I have put it through in the past including depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, addiction, selfishness and self-centerdness. In my view, a healthy relationship shouldn't be focused on what you gain from it (because that will come naturally), but what you can contribute to it (which can be equally satisfying to both people). Like old timers would say: 2 sickies do not make a wellie, so ye, love yourself first but don't fall into the narcisstic trap of thinking that your future partner is supposed to complete you because that will never happen, at least 100% of the time. All things worth doing take time, and each of us never came with a manual of the ins and outs of how we truly tick. Progress, not perfection should be the daily aim no matter how small that progress is made, at least we can lay our heads down at the end of the day knowing we continue to add those small loving things to our inner selves to shine just a tad bit brighter in the coming day. Cheers.

  • @valemerine3676
    @valemerine3676 7 месяцев назад +1

    I am loved 😍 🥰 ❤ Thank you again !

  • @freebird4057
    @freebird4057 5 лет назад +6

    I used to meet men who are taking advantage of my empathy and selfless , they looked for their welfare regardless mine , don't know how to get rid of this circle .. Thank you for your video , it's inspiring

  • @Lhanie
    @Lhanie Год назад

    22 seconds in and I am inhaling deeply, I feel unloved and unwanted. The answer was I didn't love myself, I should focus on myself more rather than focus in finding love, the one who you should give most love is you ♥️

  • @najoy2861
    @najoy2861 Год назад

    I'll never know and feel how love is like .......people who are being loved and can love are so lucky

  • @LINAJ176
    @LINAJ176 5 месяцев назад

    Regan Hillyer I appreciate your work amazing.

  • @lorenaleal4986
    @lorenaleal4986 Год назад +1

    No matter how much self love, work with trauma work, no chasing only attracting portable, Journaling, self work trusting the universe still I feel the universe cares that being single is actually being in a relationship with yourself. I think this whole time that I was fooled and I deserve myself and that's okay if no one likes me. I got myself. I crave to find someone but I think after 15 years of trying. Maybe finding love is a mirage and I have myself. Or I'm beautifully cursed for a beautiful reasons.

  • @alliciyiageorge6546
    @alliciyiageorge6546 2 года назад +4

    Love is out there for me!

  • @inestavaresdasilva2090
    @inestavaresdasilva2090 7 месяцев назад

    I love myself. I am worthy❤

  • @GraceGee-s2c
    @GraceGee-s2c 9 месяцев назад

    I choose to deserve a wonderful loving relationship! ♥

  • @joselitodiaz199
    @joselitodiaz199 2 года назад +1

    Indeed Love is one of the Qualities of Happiness-----This is The well Spring of Happiness, Renewable and Everlasting. And it's The first step toward Happiness. We often Think that Being loved is tge best feeling in the world, but it's the second Best. The best is loving someone else.

  • @michaelpeacock1481
    @michaelpeacock1481 Год назад

    I understand now why I am alone. I have such a strong belief that I am not good enough, but I need to change this, as my inner communications and reality has been mirrored by my outside reality. Thanks for making this clear to me. I.want to start to love myself and believe I am good enough. I am going to try, because I want to be loved

  • @alexandraclark8027
    @alexandraclark8027 4 года назад +8

    Thank you! I just found you on RUclips and love and resonate with all you say! Thank you! Alexandra 🌸

  • @trentradich4739
    @trentradich4739 Месяц назад

    Blessings to you✨ thank you Reegan 🙏🏼

  • @nehitaaihes6980
    @nehitaaihes6980 2 года назад +4

    I spent all my life receiving love I couldn't give back... I hurt a few people because I didn't want love or believed I even deserved it.
    Now I'm healed and I just want to know what it feels like to really love someone and also have them love me back.

    • @thehealingguy1503
      @thehealingguy1503 2 года назад

      Generally girls realize that after a certain point of time coz they keep getting attention and all and while most boys dont.so they approach girls but keep gettimg rejected. So now u should realise how it feels when your love is not in your destiny.

    • @Max-cf4cn
      @Max-cf4cn 2 года назад

      Hello am max from USA searching for a true love let's get to know each other

  • @cyn_nono
    @cyn_nono Год назад

    I deserve to be loved, admired, honored and protected

  • @alisinger007
    @alisinger007 Год назад

    Thankyou so much for this amazing video. It's made me cry but in a relived way... Thankyou.

  • @dwanwyldes5368
    @dwanwyldes5368 3 года назад +1

    Yes I may be broken ,but I am learning to love myself everyday.. I just will not allow anybody from my past that has hurt me HURT ME AGIAN NEVER WILL I LET ANYONE TAJE WHAT I HAVE WORK SO HARD ON .. MY SELF SELF LOVE

  • @itzyourstruly3073
    @itzyourstruly3073 4 года назад +4

    I love myself the most❤

    • @Allahisadicksuckingmosquito
      @Allahisadicksuckingmosquito 4 года назад +2

      Same here... It is the greatest bliss ever. I love me..., I date myself on midnight lol this may sound crazy and funny. But that's the way of finding the one.... Is to be the one.
      Bless up 👆

  • @rosesmith-jb5ni
    @rosesmith-jb5ni 11 месяцев назад

    I am worthy and deserve to be loved

  • @nori_tutor
    @nori_tutor 3 года назад +7

    This was such a light and true video. Thank you Regan, you really helped me.

    • @nkwainnobert6536
      @nkwainnobert6536 2 года назад

      hello

    • @nori_tutor
      @nori_tutor 2 года назад

      @@nkwainnobert6536 hi :)

    • @nkwainnobert6536
      @nkwainnobert6536 2 года назад

      @@nori_tutor you look gorgeous, would love to know more about u

    • @nori_tutor
      @nori_tutor 7 месяцев назад

      @@nkwainnobert6536 . _. That was weird

  • @ahmedbassiouny8456
    @ahmedbassiouny8456 2 года назад +50

    Finding love in today's world is almost impossible especially for good men

    • @jamesdavidson4769
      @jamesdavidson4769 2 года назад +7

      And the women today unfortunately are very much different from the past when back then it was very easy finding love, just like our family members had it since they were definitely born at a much better time than many of us guys were.

    • @navjotsingh7360
      @navjotsingh7360 2 года назад +8

      Yeah man. Being an Alpha guy, j don't see a single girl that I like or my mom would like. They are all empty. There is no intrinsic value in women around me.

    • @ahmedbassiouny8456
      @ahmedbassiouny8456 2 года назад

      @@jamesdavidson4769 Totally agree

    • @ahmedbassiouny8456
      @ahmedbassiouny8456 2 года назад +2

      @@navjotsingh7360 I can relate bro

    • @maceyr.6583
      @maceyr.6583 2 года назад +2

      Trust me. We just want GOOD MEN. 😊

  • @dailywonder4773
    @dailywonder4773 4 месяца назад

    So true. Thanks for the reminder

  • @muhammadhuzaifahmohamedsal2697
    @muhammadhuzaifahmohamedsal2697 2 года назад +13

    It doesn't matter. I can't love myself. Its too late. Im just too broken. My whole life I have been rejected, bullied, physically and mentally abused and told that Im not good enough. It has become part of me. I am not good enough. Not for myself. Not for anyone. Its my fault. I shouldn't be here at all. Im even too much of a coward to take my own life. Thats how useless I am.

    • @AndazI1201
      @AndazI1201 2 года назад +3

      Jesus can heal your broken heart and restore your joy, don’t believe the lies that you are unlovable or that nobody cares about you. You being alive today shows that God has a plan for your life, plans to prosper you, so don’t give up on life💕

    • @AftermathNihil
      @AftermathNihil 2 года назад +1

      You could have ur life together and still get the bad end of the stick. Love isnt for everyone😐

    • @TipToh17
      @TipToh17 2 года назад +1

      That's how I feel😭😭😭😭😭

    • @user-qy1qn4ni2x
      @user-qy1qn4ni2x Год назад

      Hey man,you don't know me obviously but I feel u. BUT ! You're not what happened to you,you endured all that pain and you deserve to be happy,hope you're alright. God bless you 🙏🏻

    • @casualsatanist5808
      @casualsatanist5808 Год назад

      I disagree, taking ones own life is not cowardice, its strength. Hurting and killing urself is weak, why? Because u can always justify it.
      I hit myself every day as a reaction to me doing dumb shit etc. Its easy.
      Stay alive. Being dead wont make the suffering end, oh brother the suffering will last forever. Suffering is the compromise of existing.

  • @shiredai7233
    @shiredai7233 2 года назад +2

    24, living alone working full time, exactly knowing that no one’s gonna wait for me

  • @NiNGalaxU2
    @NiNGalaxU2 3 года назад +5

    Sometimes life sucks. After years of looking for someone, I have finally found a woman who loved me. It was a beautiful relationship. She told me at the start she was bisexual and I gave her a few days to think about if she truly wants a relationship with me. She did want to. 6 months in and she suddenly tells me that she is a lesbian. It was devastating. I did my best to be a formidable man. A man who cares about his woman, gives her love and truly respects her. She even told me that if it were not for my gender, she could not think of a better partner for herself. This is one of the worst feelings. When you know you are with good intent but you still get hurt. Sometimes I ask myself what I have done to the universe to deserve this kind of treatment. Now she is with a new woman and I got the short stick. Honestly, all my life I tried to be a good citizen, someone who helps people and respects them. And I truly don't understand what I have done to deserve this. Also, since this incident I can't trust a woman who is bisexual anymore. I am still living everyday in hope that one day lick will find me. And I do believe I am good enough. But this series of unfortunate events really makes me question things sometimes.

    • @oigbochiejohnson1425
      @oigbochiejohnson1425 3 года назад

      +2349155456138⏯⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up......

    • @abhinav3478
      @abhinav3478 2 года назад

      Yo i got you. I feel the same

  • @justinlawrence888
    @justinlawrence888 Год назад +1

    The thing with me is I am confident in myself and I love myself very much. I think I'm freaking gorgeous, so why am I still single? Ridiculous isn't it? Doesn't matter if you are handsome or pretty. We can't force love. The opportunity in meeting your person will not pass you by, so calm down. I've calmed myself down. Once we shift our focus to something else important in our lives like work or school. Then, our person will show up unexpectedly. It's all love and experience from there. So, be patient. (Thanks for reading. I was just mainly reflecting on myself and saying things I want to be said to me haha

  • @ckl5801
    @ckl5801 4 года назад +6

    We all deserve love and need to love ourselves first! BOOM 💥 🔥💝

  • @thezac_attack
    @thezac_attack 2 месяца назад

    Thank you love my way

  • @Juvelas3
    @Juvelas3 Год назад +1

    Personally I believe finding someone who would even give me a chance is imposible, I learned that the only thing people value now is superficial stuff

  • @pedrofernandes4767
    @pedrofernandes4767 Год назад

    Thank you for this video, amazing message.

  • @mysticearth272
    @mysticearth272 9 месяцев назад

    Yes I definitely deserve to be loved

  • @manalani3724
    @manalani3724 Год назад +1

    omg…you are so beautiful and kind inside and out.

  • @yzzh48
    @yzzh48 Год назад

    thanks for this impressive video on how to be self-confient and consciousness on your own worthy!Hope I can find my love soon…

  • @andres_dsr3405
    @andres_dsr3405 3 года назад +10

    I believe I'm good enough, but I just never get the opportunity or the chance to be with women.

    • @pinnedyfinalstand.4298
      @pinnedyfinalstand.4298 3 года назад

      Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately

    • @pinnedyfinalstand.4298
      @pinnedyfinalstand.4298 3 года назад

      massage him on WhatsApp

    • @pinnedyfinalstand.4298
      @pinnedyfinalstand.4298 3 года назад

      +1=2=0=4=8=0=8=2=2=3=4.

  • @tobiased5642
    @tobiased5642 4 месяца назад

    Thank you I needed this.

  • @dylanpower1438
    @dylanpower1438 3 года назад +12

    I’m 17 almost 18 and feel like I’ll be alone forever

    • @avilageorge3414
      @avilageorge3414 3 года назад

      Hi can we be friends?
      If yes send me an email avilageorge228@gmail.com

    • @kameswaranjayakumar7470
      @kameswaranjayakumar7470 3 года назад +4

      Dude, I'm almost 22 and I feel the same

    • @lampinenmalachy9662
      @lampinenmalachy9662 3 года назад +6

      I'm 27.
      And I'm single.
      That doesn't mean I will be lonely for ever.
      Give yourself a chance to love and it will flow

    • @aclarkson9368
      @aclarkson9368 3 года назад +3

      I'm 28. Just been on a date which was nice but I didn't feel that spark. Had 2 relationships, one which lasted 4 years. I'm worried I won't find the right girl for me but I'm not giving up. You shouldn't either 😊

    • @yaaserwaa8521
      @yaaserwaa8521 3 года назад +1

      @@lampinenmalachy9662 hi

  • @martins1122
    @martins1122 Год назад

    I deserve to be loved, I deserve to receive love

  • @coachrubenluna2729
    @coachrubenluna2729 2 года назад +3

    Great video, thank you

  • @Edd25164605
    @Edd25164605 3 года назад +1

    Love brought me nothing but pain.

  • @midnightaustin9287
    @midnightaustin9287 2 года назад +1

    What she is saying is pretty accurate for me

  • @karennyondo3008
    @karennyondo3008 2 года назад

    This is so true, self love should come first.

  • @the_aspiring_hooman
    @the_aspiring_hooman 3 года назад +1

    Love is the ultimate eudaimonia🌼

  • @salvatoredigiacomo5323
    @salvatoredigiacomo5323 3 года назад +3

    Yes! I'm looking for my true love

  • @instrumentalwest5731
    @instrumentalwest5731 Год назад

    i am 57 trying to find love
    thank so much for this

  • @jackiea7965
    @jackiea7965 4 года назад +2

    Thank you Regan I am ready to receive the love I deserve

    • @robertstevens4216
      @robertstevens4216 4 года назад

      Hey, Jackie good things doesn't come easy, I'm Robert can I get your contact

    • @robertstone4547
      @robertstone4547 3 года назад +1

      Hi, it's kind of easy finding love but the important part is staying in love. I hope you fine the man you deserve.

    • @tylerdavidson4940
      @tylerdavidson4940 2 года назад

      I hope you do Jackie

    • @JeffreyOwel-s1e
      @JeffreyOwel-s1e Год назад

      That’s sweet ❤

  • @mehenazmithila3945
    @mehenazmithila3945 3 года назад

    I have been constantly murmuring the line from a movie that we always accept the love we think we deserve...I have always underestimated myself thinking i can't afford to get more than this..So i took wrong decisions...The suffering was bigger than i thought. Now i have close my heart thinking i won't accept wtvr i get. I ll wait for the r8 one...& the next second i ask to myself: what if you already had it, what if you are not good enough truly, what if what are u looking for is just a concept, what if i never find the love i want.

  • @belenizeta
    @belenizeta Год назад

    Thank you❤ for the message

  • @heatherr1779
    @heatherr1779 2 года назад +2

    Thank you 🥰🙏🌟

  • @giftedsun
    @giftedsun 3 года назад +1

    I think I deserve the best. Have for a long time. Love for myself is great. So where is this love match???

  • @LLindsey1427
    @LLindsey1427 2 года назад

    Beliefs start in childhood, adolescence, and they are caused by the external world. For some of us our personalities, families, the people in school, ongoing abuse, it’s not what we control.

  • @IndividualistMusic
    @IndividualistMusic 2 года назад

    Thank you so much Regan, this video really helped me out when I thought there was no hope.

  • @dianaverrick2363
    @dianaverrick2363 2 года назад +1

    I just really want to say thank you. :) Can you please do me on self love and relationships?

    • @ReganHillyerCoach
      @ReganHillyerCoach  2 года назад

      Hi, beauty! I have a free webinar where I have spoken about this topic more in-depth: go.reganandjuanpa.com/loveup

  • @luraikiara5784
    @luraikiara5784 2 года назад

    Thank you❤

  • @AwkMind
    @AwkMind 2 года назад

    I have always believed that I was enough however others don't. 36 years old and going through life alone. I can only count on my parents and siblings. I am just grateful I have them. But finding a partner seems so far fetched. 💔

  • @ioannalampou4037
    @ioannalampou4037 Год назад

    Thank you ❤️🙏🙏🙏

  • @jefferyalberter9922
    @jefferyalberter9922 2 года назад +2

    As Clint Eastwood said in Unforgiven, "Deservin's got nuthin' to do with it."

  • @familyofamv7185
    @familyofamv7185 4 года назад +3

    I love myself, people just choose to reject me just for looks, though I dont see the crime in being chubby. I know I'm worthy but its just no one wants be with and I'm just confused. I'm not egotistic ether. I'm not selfish, neither am I putting myself down... I'm a nice person and enjoy giving, not sure what looks have to do with it. I love others and see who they really are been like that since I was little, better yet still get bad luck after thinking positive, I attract negative. Idk whats going on

    • @robertstevens4216
      @robertstevens4216 4 года назад +1

      You don't have to feel that way love is reciprocal so honey you are more cute than you thought I have been rejected many times too, I wish I can get to know you..

    • @agentjace5507
      @agentjace5507 2 года назад

      Hello

    • @AftermathNihil
      @AftermathNihil 2 года назад +3

      Attracting love is bullshit. Being confident doesnt matter. Ive always attracted crap even when I had my life together

  • @tmkpctlo1488
    @tmkpctlo1488 2 года назад

    I am not able to forget my first friend who was a girl. I expressed my love towards her but she said she loves someone else since then I have been alone for 10 years

  • @Lucidmoon7
    @Lucidmoon7 3 года назад +1

    What about when you know you are worthy of true love but still don't ever find it? Has someone cursed me? PLEASE REPLY

  • @AKM93
    @AKM93 2 года назад

    The music and the voice, i thought I would feel okay watching this. But as I finished, i understand that I will never feel this feeling of Love in my life ever.🙂

  • @robotsrule5051
    @robotsrule5051 3 года назад +1

    So completely fix myself and then ill have a good relationship.
    Cool story bro.
    Been working on me for decades
    Maybe ill meet the "one" when im 70. Just in time to not care.

  • @hajergriffin5013
    @hajergriffin5013 3 года назад +3

    Oooh my God 🙏 I need a miracle in this year to find a man who is going to love me unconditionally#Ameen

  • @gmanko1x
    @gmanko1x Год назад

    i come from a country, which is very difficult for me to find love
    my tip for you single people out there, is just leave the country that makes you feel bad about yourself and insecure
    you have much better option abroad - don't give up! if can't find it in your home country, just leave your comfort zone.

  • @anamariacraiggonzalez1696
    @anamariacraiggonzalez1696 18 дней назад

    Love your words

  • @rozlan7
    @rozlan7 2 года назад

    Thank you

  • @ibuprofenPill
    @ibuprofenPill 4 года назад +3

    I was born non-functional when it comes to emotional intimacy. It’s easy to see after all those years I was always meant to be alone. I never had the capacity or ability. What a fool I was.

  • @TheBrecht661
    @TheBrecht661 3 года назад

    What is self love, how can you maintain or train self love or grown self love. And how will an increase in your bio self love lead to more and better relationships opportunities? Very interesting points. Would love to here your take on this .

    • @oigbochiejohnson1425
      @oigbochiejohnson1425 3 года назад

      +2349155456138⏯⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.........

  • @EBThisThat
    @EBThisThat 4 года назад +7

    It's difficult to do when I feel I'm working overtime to survive. I can't survive this way much longer.

    • @robertstevens4216
      @robertstevens4216 4 года назад +2

      Hey, you can still survive it's just time can I get in touch with you

    • @EBThisThat
      @EBThisThat 4 года назад

      @@robertstevens4216 Yes ! elizabethberndt98@gmail.com

    • @hiltoncollins4345
      @hiltoncollins4345 4 года назад

      @@EBThisThat I sent you a text on Hangouts hiltoncollins63@gmail.com

    • @michaelstone193
      @michaelstone193 3 года назад

      You can make it work 🙄

    • @EBThisThat
      @EBThisThat 3 года назад

      @@michaelstone193 Going to try a side hustle. If I have to do this alone, so be it.

  • @hexis23
    @hexis23 2 года назад

    I love being alone🙏💙

  • @jordanzell1
    @jordanzell1 2 года назад +2

    I'm so lonely. I don't believe I'll ever find my soul mate.