Oxford or Cambridge: A story that convinces me the Philippines is the BEST place to live today

In my latest video, I’m sharing the story of a Japanese woman who recently visited the UK for two weeks. Her trip was meant to help her decide between Cambridge, Oxford, and London, where she has already been accepted to complete her PhD. But instead of feeling inspired by the prestigious universities, her visit left her quite distressed.
From the moment she arrived, it wasn’t the academic institutions that stood out-it was the attitude and behavior of the people she encountered. Whether it was the local porter at her college accommodation, hotel staff, or even the baristas in coffee shops, the overall sense of rudeness and indifference was something she hadn’t expected.
Coming from a culture where hospitality and respect are deeply ingrained in everyday interactions, this came as a bit of a shock to her. The UK, once known for its politeness, left her feeling unwelcome. The dismissive and curt responses she received, the lack of attention to basic courtesy, and the overall atmosphere of indifference all weighed heavily on her experience.
It’s a real shame, and sadly, I can’t say her story surprised me. Over the years, I’ve noticed how manners in the UK have taken a bit of a backward step. Simple acts of politeness, respect for others, and that old sense of British hospitality seem to be fading. People are often too preoccupied or stressed to show common courtesies that were once second nature.
As the woman’s trip came to an end, she was more relieved than excited to be leaving the UK. Her doubts about whether she truly wanted to study here had grown, and while the academic opportunities were as strong as ever, her impression of daily life had been soured.
It’s sad to think that such a prestigious country in terms of education might be losing its appeal due to something as simple yet fundamental as manners. How we treat each other matters, and this woman’s story serves as a reminder that while our universities might be world-class, it’s the human interactions that can make or break a person’s experience.
So, I hope this sparks a bit of reflection in all of us. Politeness and respect aren’t old-fashioned-they’re timeless. And they’re as important in a coffee shop as they are in a lecture hall.

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This is an honest life experienced encounter at the prestigious university in UK. Quality of life that matters! Thanks for sharing, Simon

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On a trip back to the UK a few years ago we stayed at a hotel in Torquay , it really was a Faulty Towers . Clearly the 1930's was its best time from the old carpet and furniture . The most interesting part was talking to all the staff who were from all parts of Europe and listening to their stories . The management was just totally rude .