My ex wife came back later after the divorce, hat in hand, after “finding herself” and wanted some weird hybrid relationship with me. I told her to hire a damn handyman/auto mechanic and to lose my number. Passport and mojitos.
they always do.... dont for a second think she has now realized show loves you etc. she has only realized the World is hard and she wants you to work to support her like a servant
Good for you. I used to be a simp, until I woke up. I had to find out how deceitful women can be to get work done for free, and there is no age limit on that.
And what is with “ finding yourself” and “ becoming free”???? I can go on a “ journey”with my husband. Ican go on an “ adventure” with my husband. I can travel the world-with my husband. What the heck is up with women now yalla gonna be “ old, and alone”.
@VelveteenRabbit77 Thank you! We keep wondering about these journeys that can only be done after a divorce and its very confusing. Is there a secret feminist class somewhere misguiding these women?
She was never attracted to her husband. She's 54. She was married for 18 years. That means she was 36 years old when she got married. She was desperate to not die alone. She found a simp that she didn't really like and built up resentment for him until she wanted to get something better before it was too late.
Perfect analysis. Most likely wat happened, however one caveat: in some of these cases or marriages they actually are attracted or head over heels desire for the guy but what some don't seem to know or understand about women in relationships even the best ones, women need more stimulus in a relationship than men do(excitement). Also another way of saying they need more things to go right. You see in a relationship passion naturally fades over time. The difference between men and women when it comes to passion inside a relationship is men can look at passion logically at times, where passion for women will always be a feelings thing(butterflies, dopamine hits). Men mainly will always stay long term in a relationship where there's good days and bad days, even if there's complacency or many dull moments. Women cannot. The most exciting time in a relationship is always the honeymoon phase where your learning about the person your seeing and the mystery of them. The feeling of I'm excited I want to learn more. Guys only need a few needs met in a relationship even long term, whereas women need all kinds of thing but most importantly they need that excitement and entertainment feelings wise above all else. Most of these relationships the better a guy treats a woman or the more stable the more likely a woman gets bored abd loses passion quicker because everything is predictable and no mystery. There a reason they like soap operas and 50 shades of Grey. They need drama and chaos from time to time which can be other forms of passion. Men value peace and consistency and stability. It doesn't affect us negatively. Why do you think women in marriages give out sex less and withhold? Because the butterflies died out, tge pure passion is low or nonexistent and the full desire and mystery of wanting yo know what happens next is not there because both people are completely familiar with each other and there's nothing more to learn
@@chrislong8559 stimulus in marriage. Sounds like a western woman problem. Most women from 3rd world countries were not raised with princess treatment, and they understand that marriage is about duty to the family above personal gratification. Grab you passport guys.
@@chrislong8559you're not wrong but how do you solve this? Taking her out on dates and buying her flowers will get you put into the boring zone. Send to me the issue is society allowing their fickleness to run amok
@user-tx4wj7qk4t I agree with that last statement of yours completely. When societies reigned in women and controlled what they were allowed to do they run better and ran better along with when there was shame.
whats more shocking is the men who keep endorsing and antagonising her delusion by giving her the slightest bit of attention. simping needs to be cancelled.
@@thvtsydneylyf3th077I agree simping needs to stop but I dont think she's dealing with simps - I think she's finding out the hard way that men dont want relationships with women her age. They just wanted sex and she rejected them except for the stranger who she stayed with for 4 days. That guy was a Chad in her eyes and the others weren't so only he was allowed to pump and dump. But none of them are giving her a relationship or simping.
@@thvtsydneylyf3th077 Whoa, whoa... nobody is endorsing her. She's become practice, and that means telling her what you have to in order to part them legs. Them young or out of practice fellows need training aids like her, leave them be.
3:25 I have lots of friends who have been divorced, not one of them was upset at losing the women. They were all upset over the destruction the separation created.
Perpetual teenagers. Ive said it for years, women do not mature past the point of age 16. Who she is then, is who shell always be. I worked with a woman in her late 80's, and she still used the logic and behaved the same way as a teenager. Their brains dont develop past that point. They may get more experience, but the capacity for logic doesnt change.
Dude. Were you a beta male simp during the marriage? Be honest. Were you? And I mean with HER, not in other areas of your life, just specific to with HER.
This is how Karen's are created. 1.Married and they file for divorce 2. Blame the man for everything. 3. Reach out to women for support 4.They see the ex-doing well and they get bitter 5.They have a nervous breakdown because they end up alone 6.They get angry with life and soon they start hassling everyone in the community by threatening to call the local police.
Perfectly describes every single 50-60 year old woman in the neighborhood. I guess it is a universal truth at this point. They also double down on hating men.
She was married at 36, she probably spent her 20's riding the carousel, gets married in her mid 30's and left her husband in her 50's. She still has the 304 mentality from her 20's.
You know what's sad? Her poor husband was probably blind-sided by all this. She's leaving out alot of details. What does she mean by "the bare minimum?" Agreed, super depressing. She's all over the place.
Not sad at all, she did the old man a favor. She cut him lose, gave him an atta boy and a passing grade on his report card. And he’s still young enough to catch around with younger babes.
I absolutely love how 54 year old women figure things out and will no longer settle. What do they think that they have to offer that they deserve so much? Finding companionship is the best that they can hope for. The dream guy was left back in their 20s.
Most women are their own problems. They either think they're too good for the guy that's their match or they have a man that is willing to deal with them but still end up self sabotaging the relationship.
My mother did that to my stepfather after 18years for No reason, he had been left by his first wife with his first children too. The beta-orbiter who took his place had also been left by his first wife with his first children. My real father had 4 children with 4 women too. How anyone can trust women including their own mother is beyond me.
This is a mid life crisis divorce. People start feeling like their life is over, like they are trapped and just waiting for death. They have the fear of missing out. Death terrifies them. They want to recapture their youth and so on. The mistake is thinking that you can fix your problems by changing the scenery. You can't, you just bring your problems with you. You have to fix yourself instead of getting someone else to fix it for you. Men have dealt with this for generations. Today, women act like they are the first ones to stare down death. They use other people to get their kicks for them. Thats why she needs a new man. She expects him to fix her.
She says that women dont need charity when going thru a divorce. Aint that they truth. The court will forcibly take everything her husband has and everything he ever will have. She has a slave now, her ex. No "charity" needed. Notice how happy and relaxed she is when packing boxes to leave her 18 year marriage. Women are often giddy with excitement to get back on the CC.
no one ever gas about the husband, it's like they are these faceless npc's and it's so disrespectful... ... and she will also have large numbers of other women 'supporting' her and next to no support for her husband because it seems that men no longer deserve any consideration., it's horrific... I have everything my husband ever had, because he was taken from me after 22 years by Covid. I would give everything away this very second for 5 more mins in his arms... and when it comes to support from other women, it's non existent. They are only interested in supporting the fem!n!st agenda, but at the same time, I have never wanted or needed their support, being in a secure happy trad marriage for half my life has resulted in me being a secure emotionally strong person. True strength lies with 'You and Me (We) NOT with 'Me and Me (Me)
I’m a woman and sadly I have to say about other women, that they loose interest in sex. I hear it all the time from my nurse colleagues. All the talk about being equal. No we are not the same. Let a man be a man and a woman be feminine. I love when my husband does “ man” things. It’s a turn on for me. I know I can do it too, but I won’t. We keep the roles classic. And our relationship is great. Loving. Funny. Hot. It doesn’t degrade me if I’m feminine. I’m a woman. And which man wants a woman that acts and looks like a man?
It makes “no” sense to divorce, in general, and certainly not for women in their 50’s, and beyond. It’s like they have no awareness, no adult mentality. A 54 year old woman on TikTok is embarrassing, and note her age when she got married. She was “36”. How invested can you be if you wait that long to be a wife?
great point. I think we see that feminist tropes have infected all generations of women at this point. And the depth to which these ladies have sank in the cool aid is astounding.. look at her, in her 50's thinking she can sttill swing it and win the lottery.
@@thvtsydneylyf3th077There are hordes of unemployed hot dudes, in their 30’s, lining up to use such women for sex, and relieve them of their divorce settlements.
@@staycurious51 Good point. If that is the case, she is now a multiple divorcee. At what point do we start calling out people for not honoring their commitment? There are legitimate grounds for divorce, but nebulous excuses like “I wasn’t feeling it”, “We drifted apart”, and “He wasn’t seeing me” are not legitimate. Infidelity, severe neglect, and actual abuse are among the few justified grounds to dissolve a marriage. What has happened in the last four decades to lead so many people to quit, to walk away from their vows, and fracture their families?
@PatI-zg9gm I don't know. I feel like I am living in Bizarro World watching it go down, and so fast! So very sad and unfortunate. I think returning to "at fault" divorce would actually help both sexes, but that will never happen.
What do they think they missed out on that everyone else got to do but them??? Like what is it? lol I’m 35 and I feel so much more settled down than a lot of these 50-60 year olds
I'm about to be 54 in three months, I have been divorced 12 years and I have no intention of getting married again. I was more miserable and lonely with her than I was happy with her. I have more peace without her and I can come and go as I please. Priceless.
With the internet we have the history of the world at our fingertips, but instead of all the fascinating learning they live on tik tok. That's how I know it's over for humanity
yep, and she's not even trying, not had her t!ts or face done, nothing, that is the strength of their delulu... "I don't even need to have a bit of a glow up, I'll stay the same as I always was, which was 'too good' for my ex" I mean, wtf?
@@iggs67 I was thinking it was dinner for two hours, then some wine at her place where he hit it for an hour. I was guessing it was pretty good, (maybe she did a lot of "work" because she liked him) but it was not good enough for the two hours of pillow talk that followed.
Hmmm. A 54 year old woman who sounds as if she's a fickle 16 year old teenager? Well, he's "free," and you're a wannabe "hot chick". He's "delivered" from the frustration and pain of being with you. You're "delusional". He's sleeping and living peacefully and soundly. You're wandering about your living room whinnying into your phone, seeking unwarranted validation for deliberately destroying your marriage/family. Result: Many years from now, a Bio-Hazmat Team will retrieve her decomposing body after her neighbors complain about the foul odor emanating from the residence of the woman who has been living alone for many years. Her ex: Still enjoying his life.
54, married 18 years. That means she married him at 36. Means he was never the main choice. He was the “let’s not die alone” marriage pact option. The guy that she knew would never make her miserable, but also knew that she’d never truly be happy with him. He was good enough to marry for status and baby rabies. Don’t be that guy.
I'm so sick of this "manifesting" stuff. Work for something or don't, build something or don't. I pray and only pray for things that will help me reach salvation. Things don't appear out of thin air because you want them, what a silly thing to believe in.
This is the new "feel good" God that these progressive church cults are brainwashing with. The world is the salvation these heretics are looking for... Gimme Gimme Gimme...
Its happened to me. I dated some chick who seemed nice. Exploratory dating. As soon as i realized she was a raging alcoholic, I said, sorry this is not going to work, and I walked right out. She was shocked that I would be so JUDGEMENTAL, but I viewed it, as preventative security measures, cause you don't want to bind yourself to someone who has that kind of destructive habit running their life. over.
This is my worst fear...to ask for a divorce while in a mental health crisis, old and scared and alone. This is why you're supposed to communicate with your spouse and grow together ❤️. She chose to throw away 18 years of marriage 😮... that's so selfish and unnecessary!
@@staycurious51you missed the point, she faked the freaky part in order to get him so not be alone, and then friend zoned him blaming him for her internal emotions. She is an unhappy person.
Sound advice, except I'd suggest dropping the age limit to 24. Past that they are nearly all ran through, chock full of emotional baggage, etc. and just looking to lock down a sucker before their SMV collapses.
Yep as soon as The Secret comes out you know it’s over. “Really cute guy….” 54 and still talking like a teenager. They never mature past 17 guys. Move accordingly.
This is interesting because I recently decided to give some 30 somethings a chance. This is what they’re likely going to end up as. It really is remarkable that they don’t realize that they don’t really have options.
I divorced, my ONLY regret is that I waited so long to do it. Unlike most, I, the male, initiated the divorce. No violence, no “affairs”, equitable division of property (so we both left as millionaires). BUT nothing in this world will convince me to enter into another relationship. The best friend I ever had was a dog, he was put down with cancer 2 years ago, I miss that dog, don’t miss the wife. I won’t get another dog either, the loss of him hurts too much.
@anthonyburke5656, I could never have a pet even though I do like dogs. Too much responsibility. You however sound like a very decent human being. You deserve to have another dog. Your heart is big enough to love again. Anyways, that's my take on it. Congrats on leaving the ex behind, by the way.
This lady is basing her life now on what she read in a book. If you haven't discovered yourself by the time you are 50 plus forget it! I can manifest a freight list when loading a truck, but that's about it.
I'm 54 and have been married for 30 years. I don't understand this level of delusion. If I was single tomorrow, there is no way in hell I'd think I could jump into dating. Or even think I could date. At my age why would I want to start over with another guy.
This video was better than a Nathan Fielder comedy episode. I was in tears laughing so hard. 🎉😊😅 "The Wall" for this chick is going to arrive in the form of the grim reaper.
They monkey branch in advance usually. And their rebound can last for 1-3 years. But the fun part comes later, when this relationship breaks, her "look how finally happy i am" posts do not mean a thing anymore.
Somebody recommended The Secret to me 1 page in I was like this is witchcraft, no thank you lol I threw it out. I won't even give that to salvation army. Hot garbage
Attention is a helluva drug. They still crave for validation not just from women online but also simps. No shame whatsoever sharing their own personal stuff online. Who the heck want that kind of woman who can't keep her private life stuff off social media and anywhere else for that matter. Jeesh.
At 54? She thinks that she will find an ideal partner at 54 just a few days after her divorce... The level of delusion is outstanding.
Many younger and older than her in the same dump as well. It's pathetic.
She thought she is still in her 20s
But she knows now how to manifest, LOL 😄😄
Outstanding 😂😂😂
😂
When women say the term "emotional support" , best believe she means "i need other women to validate my bullshit"
Hey besties I need some confirmation bias
My ex wife came back later after the divorce, hat in hand, after “finding herself” and wanted some weird hybrid relationship with me. I told her to hire a damn handyman/auto mechanic and to lose my number.
Passport and mojitos.
they always do.... dont for a second think she has now realized show loves you etc. she has only realized the World is hard and she wants you to work to support her like a servant
Good for you. I used to be a simp, until I woke up. I had to find out how deceitful women can be to get work done for free, and there is no age limit on that.
This is it brother. 🥹🥹🥹 THIS IS THE ONE!!! 😩👌
What is she worried about? Women these days are strong and independent so they can fix their own house and car. 😆
interesting, more details please about weird hybrid relationship she wanted
What is it with women and needing a journey? You were on one and you abandoned it, why would this new one be magical?
Journey=Lots of sausage
And what is with “ finding yourself” and “ becoming free”???? I can go on a “ journey”with my husband. Ican go on an “ adventure” with my husband. I can travel the world-with my husband. What the heck is up with women now yalla gonna be “ old, and alone”.
@VelveteenRabbit77 Thank you! We keep wondering about these journeys that can only be done after a divorce and its very confusing.
Is there a secret feminist class somewhere misguiding these women?
Don’t forget she’s ’manifesting’ too. Whatever the hell that means. These women are delusional.
Because this one gives her tingles! TINGLES I tell you!
She was never attracted to her husband. She's 54. She was married for 18 years. That means she was 36 years old when she got married. She was desperate to not die alone. She found a simp that she didn't really like and built up resentment for him until she wanted to get something better before it was too late.
Perfect analysis. Most likely wat happened, however one caveat: in some of these cases or marriages they actually are attracted or head over heels desire for the guy but what some don't seem to know or understand about women in relationships even the best ones, women need more stimulus in a relationship than men do(excitement). Also another way of saying they need more things to go right. You see in a relationship passion naturally fades over time. The difference between men and women when it comes to passion inside a relationship is men can look at passion logically at times, where passion for women will always be a feelings thing(butterflies, dopamine hits). Men mainly will always stay long term in a relationship where there's good days and bad days, even if there's complacency or many dull moments. Women cannot. The most exciting time in a relationship is always the honeymoon phase where your learning about the person your seeing and the mystery of them. The feeling of I'm excited I want to learn more. Guys only need a few needs met in a relationship even long term, whereas women need all kinds of thing but most importantly they need that excitement and entertainment feelings wise above all else. Most of these relationships the better a guy treats a woman or the more stable the more likely a woman gets bored abd loses passion quicker because everything is predictable and no mystery. There a reason they like soap operas and 50 shades of Grey. They need drama and chaos from time to time which can be other forms of passion. Men value peace and consistency and stability. It doesn't affect us negatively. Why do you think women in marriages give out sex less and withhold? Because the butterflies died out, tge pure passion is low or nonexistent and the full desire and mystery of wanting yo know what happens next is not there because both people are completely familiar with each other and there's nothing more to learn
@@chrislong8559 stimulus in marriage. Sounds like a western woman problem. Most women from 3rd world countries were not raised with princess treatment, and they understand that marriage is about duty to the family above personal gratification. Grab you passport guys.
@@chrislong8559you're not wrong but how do you solve this? Taking her out on dates and buying her flowers will get you put into the boring zone. Send to me the issue is society allowing their fickleness to run amok
Wow… what a prize she is 1.5/10 on a good day 😂
@user-tx4wj7qk4t I agree with that last statement of yours completely. When societies reigned in women and controlled what they were allowed to do they run better and ran better along with when there was shame.
She’s literally nuts…the husband can now lead a good life
@oneeleven9832
WRONG! Go look up her story before you insult people you don't know.👎👎
@@shirleypena4133 So what is her real story?
Another "women grow old , but not grow up "
She’s using social media to cope with the divorce. The separation and her value in the dating market are hitting like a ton of bricks.
whats more shocking is the men who keep endorsing and antagonising her delusion by giving her the slightest bit of attention. simping needs to be cancelled.
I think it's more a case of social media influenced the divorce
@@thvtsydneylyf3th077I agree simping needs to stop but I dont think she's dealing with simps - I think she's finding out the hard way that men dont want relationships with women her age. They just wanted sex and she rejected them except for the stranger who she stayed with for 4 days. That guy was a Chad in her eyes and the others weren't so only he was allowed to pump and dump. But none of them are giving her a relationship or simping.
@@thvtsydneylyf3th077 Whoa, whoa... nobody is endorsing her. She's become practice, and that means telling her what you have to in order to part them legs. Them young or out of practice fellows need training aids like her, leave them be.
Wtf simping for those grannies
Too bad she couldn't manifest a healthy marriage
She probably actually has one in reality
😂 gold
She certainly manifested a divorce and also manifested a cat, so there’s that
3:25 I have lots of friends who have been divorced, not one of them was upset at losing the women. They were all upset over the destruction the separation created.
"He's a good man. We were best friends."
And she is divorcing him? For no reason? That is just stupid. She will die alone.
15, 20, 30, 60 years, it doesn't matter, they have the minds of children, always.
🤣 true
My mom and dad have been unhappily married since 1962. He says that she has the mind of a 12 year old.
You are never Safe
Perpetual teenagers. Ive said it for years, women do not mature past the point of age 16. Who she is then, is who shell always be. I worked with a woman in her late 80's, and she still used the logic and behaved the same way as a teenager. Their brains dont develop past that point. They may get more experience, but the capacity for logic doesnt change.
“Deserve” is a word that has caused the downfall of more marriages…
She meant 4 men "came" and THEN went!! 😂
18 years? Nothing. I had 32 married, 35 total. Mine walked with millions and tells lies about me.
They all lie to make it seem like they're the victim
All woman and girls are actresses
God bless you, man, I'm so sorry to hear.
Dude. Were you a beta male simp during the marriage? Be honest. Were you? And I mean with HER, not in other areas of your life, just specific to with HER.
@@EriPages yup
This is absolutely some of the best unintentional humor.
This is how Karen's are created.
1.Married and they file for divorce
2. Blame the man for everything.
3. Reach out to women for support
4.They see the ex-doing well and they get bitter
5.They have a nervous breakdown because they end up alone
6.They get angry with life and soon they start hassling everyone in the community by threatening to call the local police.
Perfectly describes every single 50-60 year old woman in the neighborhood. I guess it is a universal truth at this point. They also double down on hating men.
😂 facts. They also support whatever "current thing" and make it about themselves too
@@chadmiesterDonovan
Well said
@@JohnLocke1776
Reality is stranger than fiction
lol
"MaNiFeStInG" and talking about "being blessed".
The man should have ran 18 years ago.
I hope he ‘manifested’ a car to get the hell out of there. 😂🤣
She was married at 36, she probably spent her 20's riding the carousel, gets married in her mid 30's and left her husband in her 50's. She still has the 304 mentality from her 20's.
Got the 18 year pay day
You know what's sad? Her poor husband was probably blind-sided by all this. She's leaving out alot of details. What does she mean by "the bare minimum?" Agreed, super depressing. She's all over the place.
The difference is he will most likely be ok in 5-10 years....She certainly won't.
Not sad at all, she did the old man a favor. She cut him lose, gave him an atta boy and a passing grade on his report card. And he’s still young enough to catch around with younger babes.
Divorce isn’t always a fresh start-sometimes it’s just the beginning of a downfall.
I absolutely love how 54 year old women figure things out and will no longer settle. What do they think that they have to offer that they deserve so much? Finding companionship is the best that they can hope for. The dream guy was left back in their 20s.
FOMO and she probably had “friends” talking her into divorce.
They cheer it on
Let ‘em have it
They want all of it
Facts I speak from experience
This needs to be talked about more
Too many women give advice out of spite and stupidity
Women can't stand other women being happy
I've never met an unhappy woman that didn't hate a happy woman.
The biggest threat to any man’s marriage is her divorced friends
She doesnt care about her ex's feeling by sharing her dating online.......
So she was dating before the divorce was final she tried to monkey branch but failed 😂😂😂😂😂
Yup same thing happened to me
Most women are their own problems. They either think they're too good for the guy that's their match or they have a man that is willing to deal with them but still end up self sabotaging the relationship.
He did nothing wrong basically and she still left SMFH
My mother did that to my stepfather after 18years for No reason, he had been left by his first wife with his first children too. The beta-orbiter who took his place had also been left by his first wife with his first children. My real father had 4 children with 4 women too.
How anyone can trust women including their own mother is beyond me.
I can hear her husband screaming “FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEDOM”
😂😂
Full Braveheart
He drives off on a Kawasaki Ninja in a black leather jacket a la Maverick.
This is a mid life crisis divorce. People start feeling like their life is over, like they are trapped and just waiting for death. They have the fear of missing out. Death terrifies them. They want to recapture their youth and so on.
The mistake is thinking that you can fix your problems by changing the scenery. You can't, you just bring your problems with you. You have to fix yourself instead of getting someone else to fix it for you.
Men have dealt with this for generations. Today, women act like they are the first ones to stare down death. They use other people to get their kicks for them. Thats why she needs a new man. She expects him to fix her.
Agree - she needed to get some new hobbies or interests, not dump her husband.
you rekon she can still a successful man to marry her and give her an easier life?
@thvtsydneylyf3th077 No. She will always be unhappy with herself
Well said!
@@johnchristopher3032 true. the only positive is her ex is now free from her fkry
She says that women dont need charity when going thru a divorce. Aint that they truth. The court will forcibly take everything her husband has and everything he ever will have. She has a slave now, her ex. No "charity" needed. Notice how happy and relaxed she is when packing boxes to leave her 18 year marriage. Women are often giddy with excitement to get back on the CC.
no one ever gas about the husband, it's like they are these faceless npc's and it's so disrespectful... ... and she will also have large numbers of other women 'supporting' her and next to no support for her husband because it seems that men no longer deserve any consideration., it's horrific...
I have everything my husband ever had, because he was taken from me after 22 years by Covid. I would give everything away this very second for 5 more mins in his arms... and when it comes to support from other women, it's non existent. They are only interested in supporting the fem!n!st agenda, but at the same time, I have never wanted or needed their support, being in a secure happy trad marriage for half my life has resulted in me being a secure emotionally strong person. True strength lies with 'You and Me (We) NOT with 'Me and Me (Me)
@@beebromleyWell, you are obviously in a minority nowadays, but glad that women like you are still occurring in this world!
I’m a woman and sadly I have to say about other women, that they loose interest in sex. I hear it all the time from my nurse colleagues. All the talk about being equal. No we are not the same. Let a man be a man and a woman be feminine. I love when my husband does “ man” things. It’s a turn on for me.
I know I can do it too, but I won’t. We keep the roles classic. And our relationship is great. Loving. Funny. Hot.
It doesn’t degrade me if I’m feminine. I’m a woman. And which man wants a woman that acts and looks like a man?
It makes “no” sense to divorce, in general, and certainly not for women in their 50’s, and beyond. It’s like they have no awareness, no adult mentality. A 54 year old woman on TikTok is embarrassing, and note her age when she got married. She was “36”. How invested can you be if you wait that long to be a wife?
great point. I think we see that feminist tropes have infected all generations of women at this point. And the depth to which these ladies have sank in the cool aid is astounding.. look at her, in her 50's thinking she can sttill swing it and win the lottery.
@@thvtsydneylyf3th077There are hordes of unemployed hot dudes, in their 30’s, lining up to use such women for sex, and relieve them of their divorce settlements.
She might have been married before that
@@staycurious51 Good point. If that is the case, she is now a multiple divorcee. At what point do we start calling out people for not honoring their commitment? There are legitimate grounds for divorce, but nebulous excuses like “I wasn’t feeling it”, “We drifted apart”, and “He wasn’t seeing me” are not legitimate. Infidelity, severe neglect, and actual abuse are among the few justified grounds to dissolve a marriage. What has happened in the last four decades to lead so many people to quit, to walk away from their vows, and fracture their families?
@PatI-zg9gm I don't know. I feel like I am living in Bizarro World watching it go down, and so fast! So very sad and unfortunate. I think returning to "at fault" divorce would actually help both sexes, but that will never happen.
Not only did she read the book. She likely joined an online group that encouraged her to leave her husband.
54 and she's going on a "journey"? Lady you're almost a senior citizen 🤦
What do they think they missed out on that everyone else got to do but them??? Like what is it? lol
I’m 35 and I feel so much more settled down than a lot of these 50-60 year olds
I'm about to be 54 in three months, I have been divorced 12 years and I have no intention of getting married again. I was more miserable and lonely with her than I was happy with her. I have more peace without her and I can come and go as I please. Priceless.
Holy shit. I'm 50, no kids and was thinking about dating again. Never mind. I'm good.
What. You're 50. You date 30 year olds, not her lol
Hahahaha dude you crossed the bridge over the rough waters of testosterone valley, why the hell return? Enjoy life without a leech
There are many loving deserving animals out there.
With the internet we have the history of the world at our fingertips, but instead of all the fascinating learning they live on tik tok. That's how I know it's over for humanity
Thanks, I'm glad someone else sees that. Sometimes society feels like standing in a shitstorm all alone.
Me, me, me, and I. Wow, at 54 years old she thinks she will "manifest" Prince Charming. Lol, but try sad, and lol some more.
yep, and she's not even trying, not had her t!ts or face done, nothing, that is the strength of their delulu... "I don't even need to have a bit of a glow up, I'll stay the same as I always was, which was 'too good' for my ex" I mean, wtf?
Copium is a hell of a drug!
She's not even out the house yet but already trying to date
Unlimited Delusional behaviour.
I'm guessing after 5 hours of talking, she said what she did (past relationship talk) and he wisely "lost" her number
Probably hit it, wasn't that good + tons of baggage.
@@iggs67 I was thinking it was dinner for two hours, then some wine at her place where he hit it for an hour.
I was guessing it was pretty good, (maybe she did a lot of "work" because she liked him) but it was not good enough for the two hours of pillow talk that followed.
The five hours were spent cleaning his house and fixing him dinner.
Hmmm. A 54 year old woman who sounds as if she's a fickle 16 year old teenager?
Well, he's "free," and you're a wannabe "hot chick".
He's "delivered" from the frustration and pain of being with you.
You're "delusional".
He's sleeping and living peacefully and soundly.
You're wandering about your living room whinnying into your phone, seeking unwarranted validation for deliberately destroying your marriage/family.
Result:
Many years from now, a Bio-Hazmat Team will retrieve her decomposing body after her neighbors complain about the foul odor emanating from the residence of the woman who has been living alone for many years.
Her ex: Still enjoying his life.
He was being nice
who the f told these old women they'd still have chances the dating world in their 50s?
TikTok
I dont feel bad for granny.
A 54 year old woman, making a complete fool out of herself, online.
Granny did it to her self.
She's not even that old but holy moly looks like she's 70
54, married 18 years. That means she married him at 36. Means he was never the main choice. He was the “let’s not die alone” marriage pact option. The guy that she knew would never make her miserable, but also knew that she’d never truly be happy with him. He was good enough to marry for status and baby rabies. Don’t be that guy.
I'm so sick of this "manifesting" stuff. Work for something or don't, build something or don't. I pray and only pray for things that will help me reach salvation. Things don't appear out of thin air because you want them, what a silly thing to believe in.
This is the new "feel good" God that these progressive church cults are brainwashing with. The world is the salvation these heretics are looking for... Gimme Gimme Gimme...
Its happened to me. I dated some chick who seemed nice. Exploratory dating. As soon as i realized she was a raging alcoholic, I said, sorry this is not going to work, and I walked right out. She was shocked that I would be so JUDGEMENTAL, but I viewed it, as preventative security measures, cause you don't want to bind yourself to someone who has that kind of destructive habit running their life. over.
I knew such a woman. She was a functional alcoholic. She carried tremendous anger, and she hated men. It was not pretty.
She reminds me of Sarah Goldfarb from the movie Requiem for a Dream, you start to feel sad for how they are lost in their delusion
Excellent movie
Feel sad about their delusion lol 😂
Juice by you, bro.
I don’t feel sorry for them… at all.
This is my worst fear...to ask for a divorce while in a mental health crisis, old and scared and alone. This is why you're supposed to communicate with your spouse and grow together ❤️. She chose to throw away 18 years of marriage 😮... that's so selfish and unnecessary!
It‘s more like she got what she truly deserves in those 18 years. Karma rescued that man from this womens claws
jesus christ... old lady still thinks like a little teen girl. That is crazy
54, not settling, deserve. Good luck.
What exactly can she offer at her age and amount of baggage? 😂
Financial drain and misery?
She's done with her backshot bender and now seeks a serious relationship. It's Ovah!
So many women fall for the grass is greener. I’m the guy on the other side of the fence smashing and dashing. 😂
shes having a manic breakdown, the songs, the book, shes gonna wake up and its gonna HIT HIT her
"We're really, really good friends" is worse than being told "you're such an asshole."
Why??? You do realize that as you age, the freaky part is going to slow down and you need depth of relationship to sustain your marriage.
@@staycurious51you missed the point, she faked the freaky part in order to get him so not be alone, and then friend zoned him blaming him for her internal emotions. She is an unhappy person.
@allangilfoil1648 I guess so. I thought he was making a general statement so took it more in a general manner.
“I want to help other women” 😂
The menopause, the short hair, the journey… these grandmas are hilarious
As a woman I find these women unbearable.
As a person, I also find them unbearable. Even the bears would find them unbearable.
Best analogy I can think of to describe this level of delusion is like if I read a Batman comic and then thought to myself “I can do that”.
That's pretty good analogy.....
Why didn't she 'manifest' a fixed marriage?
Her witchcraft is for sleeping around
The manifestation demons don’t help with goodness, only evil.
She did. But it did not work 😂. Rather, it did not manifest.😂😂.
I‘m glad her Angels reunited her with the missing earring, guiding her midlife destiny into a 4-Night stand with a stranger.
That's golden XD
This woman is off the deep end.. Ive only heard 30 somethings talk like this. Magical thinking
The streets must be full 😂
Theres plenty of room
I feel second hand embarrassment. 🤦🏽♀️
NEVER EVER take a Woman seriously that is over 30 and/or been divorced and/or a Single mom NEVER EVER GET MARRIED to aby of thesr women EVER
Sound advice, except I'd suggest dropping the age limit to 24. Past that they are nearly all ran through, chock full of emotional baggage, etc. and just looking to lock down a sucker before their SMV collapses.
Oh dear god. I googled "The Secret" and now know if something even worse than "Eat, Pray, Love".
Fudging unhinged.
Omg... She's the earing whisperer 🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣 can't fake this shhhhhht
idk how u can watch this. its like watching a passenger train derail
I've watched trains derail, so... 🤷♂
Yep as soon as The Secret comes out you know it’s over.
“Really cute guy….” 54 and still talking like a teenager. They never mature past 17 guys. Move accordingly.
MY GOD THE ENTIRE TIK TOK JOURNEY...from divorce to "I won't settle for less than I deserve"
All the single mothers I have met (divorced one) read and believed in this book. I find t very uncanny
She looks like my lesiban uncle
She probably catfished dudes with old photos 😅
And filters. Don't forget the filters.
This is beyond sad.
Married at 36, probably for the second time after destroying the first marriage also.
At this point, the lady is having a self inflected mental issue.
She needs help.
"Send you the right man at the wrong time"-----God doesn't make mistakes.
Ace- you are most likely right. She found social media and started listening to 22 year old influencers.
This is interesting because I recently decided to give some 30 somethings a chance. This is what they’re likely going to end up as. It really is remarkable that they don’t realize that they don’t really have options.
I divorced, my ONLY regret is that I waited so long to do it. Unlike most, I, the male, initiated the divorce. No violence, no “affairs”, equitable division of property (so we both left as millionaires). BUT nothing in this world will convince me to enter into another relationship. The best friend I ever had was a dog, he was put down with cancer 2 years ago, I miss that dog, don’t miss the wife. I won’t get another dog either, the loss of him hurts too much.
@anthonyburke5656, I could never have a pet even though I do like dogs. Too much responsibility. You however sound like a very decent human being. You deserve to have another dog. Your heart is big enough to love again. Anyways, that's my take on it.
Congrats on leaving the ex behind, by the way.
Stay strong, brother! I feel ya.
They’re NEVER satisfied!
Her guardian angel said that a weekend of "hide the weiner" with a stranger has divine approval?
This lady is basing her life now on what she read in a book. If you haven't discovered yourself by the time you are 50 plus forget it! I can manifest a freight list when loading a truck, but that's about it.
I mean, if TikTok can destroy most relationships, how strong were they? If it's basically just shame keeping it together.
Oh noooo not The Secret... That manifestation BS is off the charts 😂😂
She thought that the next guy would give her what she wanted and found out that she lost more than anything else
15:25 she should call it “My first anniversary as a cat lady”
I'm 54 and have been married for 30 years. I don't understand this level of delusion. If I was single tomorrow, there is no way in hell I'd think I could jump into dating. Or even think I could date. At my age why would I want to start over with another guy.
This video was better than a Nathan Fielder comedy episode. I was in tears laughing so hard. 🎉😊😅
"The Wall" for this chick is going to arrive in the form of the grim reaper.
I will never understand someone being blessed enough to be married to their best friend and letting that go. 😢
Guys remember to start investing in the wine and cat food stocks lol
They monkey branch in advance usually. And their rebound can last for 1-3 years. But the fun part comes later, when this relationship breaks, her "look how finally happy i am" posts do not mean a thing anymore.
Somebody recommended The Secret to me 1 page in I was like this is witchcraft, no thank you lol I threw it out. I won't even give that to salvation army. Hot garbage
when she said “three people came in” that made me spit out my coffee laughing lol
“You’re done, you’re cooked 🤦♂️” 🤣🤣
Of course “UNSTOPPABLE” playing on blast and on repeat while she manifests on TikTok everyday about living in a shed.
If your marriage is dependent of emotional reasoning, you don't have a marriage.
LOL... JUST LOL....
They never think they are the problem lol
Meanwhile her ex-husband is the most relaxed and happy he has been in decades, and doing what HE wants on the weekends.
Thanks Feminism. 😂
Attention is a helluva drug. They still crave for validation not just from women online but also simps. No shame whatsoever sharing their own personal stuff online. Who the heck want that kind of woman who can't keep her private life stuff off social media and anywhere else for that matter. Jeesh.