True story. Sometimes they don’t take the plunge because THEY are committed, but because they need YOU to be committed. They want you off the market. This shit is why it’s so hard to know when you’re dealing with a good man or not. The shitty ones will go to extreme lengths to appear to be good ones.
I agree, but I think what could make the difference is the length of time between these things and how rushed you might feel. So if he's doing all this in the first month, it's probably love bombing. But if it's steady and consistent over a few months it's probably genuine.
If it’s early on, it’s a problem. If you think I’m the one, be patient, take your time. If we’re meant to be together, we will be. Why rush? Why try to convince me? Relax and lets enjoy. But love bombers cannot do that. They try to force things cause they super insecure and have a deep belief you won’t stay cause they know they’re fucked up
It’s on the woman to pace the relationship. Most (not all) love bombers hate you slowing things down because they want the fastest result for the lowest effort. Also, you setting boundaries is stressful to men so men that do not care about you will run away from that. For the rest of them they almost always tell on themselves so you have to pay attention to everything they do and say. If something sounds off then you have to process it to figure out the “why”. Don’t confront him with it. That’s your job. And if you determine deception then leave immediately.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Noooooo....Love bombing is when he tells you that you're the one for him and he loves you on the 2nd date!!!!! Believe you me, there are men that pour out SO much attention on you every single day that you almost feel smothered. This gentleman is talking about a guy who decides after some months or a year that he wants to marry you. Men know pretty quickly if you're the One!!!😊❤
You have no business tryinna make a man to commit to you as a woman, if that man wanted to he would have, ladies wake up and smell the roses the sooner you pour into yourself the sooner you realize your worth which then will enable you to have the strength to wait for a man strong and ready enough for you. Stop being too available for these youngins!!!
I'm a woman here cause this sucked me up too. If you are watching this trying to figure him out. There's nothing to figure out. You can force him into make believe maybe. Who cares?! Stop looking for him. Live! They will be under your window in a crowd!
What if it's fantastic no sex obviously, just not needed. It's so sad when age gap stops a perfect union without physical bonding. I dunno, I'm just happy, so is he we will be friends even when I meet someone. And when he finds the woman he really wants. 😂❤❤
Even after commiting with engagement and marriage they can change yheir minds
They often do
EXACTLY. Stop falling for the Disney fairytale bullshit. Your men are cheating as we speak. Multiple lives he’s living on his phone
Facts!
True story. Sometimes they don’t take the plunge because THEY are committed, but because they need YOU to be committed. They want you off the market. This shit is why it’s so hard to know when you’re dealing with a good man or not. The shitty ones will go to extreme lengths to appear to be good ones.
This can also sound like love bombing. I have trust issues now.
Same because they can do all of this and still be full of crap
I agree, but I think what could make the difference is the length of time between these things and how rushed you might feel. So if he's doing all this in the first month, it's probably love bombing. But if it's steady and consistent over a few months it's probably genuine.
If it’s early on, it’s a problem. If you think I’m the one, be patient, take your time. If we’re meant to be together, we will be. Why rush? Why try to convince me? Relax and lets enjoy. But love bombers cannot do that. They try to force things cause they super insecure and have a deep belief you won’t stay cause they know they’re fucked up
It’s on the woman to pace the relationship. Most (not all) love bombers hate you slowing things down because they want the fastest result for the lowest effort. Also, you setting boundaries is stressful to men so men that do not care about you will run away from that. For the rest of them they almost always tell on themselves so you have to pay attention to everything they do and say. If something sounds off then you have to process it to figure out the “why”. Don’t confront him with it. That’s your job. And if you determine deception then leave immediately.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Noooooo....Love bombing is when he tells you that you're the one for him and he loves you on the 2nd date!!!!! Believe you me, there are men that pour out SO much attention on you every single day that you almost feel smothered. This gentleman is talking about a guy who decides after some months or a year that he wants to marry you. Men know pretty quickly if you're the One!!!😊❤
You have no business tryinna make a man to commit to you as a woman, if that man wanted to he would have, ladies wake up and smell the roses the sooner you pour into yourself the sooner you realize your worth which then will enable you to have the strength to wait for a man strong and ready enough for you. Stop being too available for these youngins!!!
I'm a woman here cause this sucked me up too. If you are watching this trying to figure him out. There's nothing to figure out. You can force him into make believe maybe. Who cares?! Stop looking for him. Live! They will be under your window in a crowd!
This is the funniest thing I've seen in a while 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Wow Singliscious..😅that's funny in 2024
he introduces you to family and friends,he brings you to his house,you are with him on the weekends
1:40 the second one
Who cares anymore 🤷♀️
Fr 😂
That part! 👏🏾
4:00 the fourth one
🎉
6:50 the 7th one
2:10 the third one
5:00 number 6
Soooo… I think my husband, has finally found me!😅
:35 the 1st one
This is stupid, this answer is it's obvious, simple. You won't have to question it- there I gave the answer.
Social proof is the truth
What if it's fantastic no sex obviously, just not needed. It's so sad when age gap stops a perfect union without physical bonding. I dunno, I'm just happy, so is he we will be friends even when I meet someone. And when he finds the woman he really wants. 😂❤❤