The Rise Of ‘Female Loneliness’ (& How To Fix It) | Shoe0nHead Reaction
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
- This video made me both laugh and feel outrage. Ah, the sweet balance of life. I also got called out, hooray!
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Just wanted to add something as I don't think I made it clear during the video itself:
DO NOT GET A PET just to get a date / partner , that's a shitty thing to do to an animal
Thanks for watching o/
true, and pets usually attract more girls than boys.
I agree, but it does work.
But again, pet comes first. Do not do it just for a partner.
if you are man get the most expensive tiny dog possible if you are a woman get no pets.
@@cornballmcgoo7174 please dont give people advice on how to set their wallet on fire... IN THIS ECONOMY...
I met a guy once who had a kid just so he could get more dates. Don't get anything to get you more dates. At least nothing alive.
43:49 Honestly as a 6ft+ dude with a resting bitchface (or "T-1000 face" as a friend put it) it does feel really nice when people say they feel safe around me. I know I've intimidated a good few people before I got to know them properly, and it feels pretty shitty to know that I look like a threat when I'm not actively smiling and making myself look smaller.
The reason I said it is because it implies feeling unsafe around others, which is sad imo. And as you pointed it out, it feels shitty to know you make others feel unsafe just for existing. 💀
I can understand the compliment making someone feel good, despite it feeling more like a backhanded compliment to me personally.
I've had similar problems. I used to not be able to make friends easily and one guy I would occasionally give a nod to on my way to my dorm, told me I was the scariest looking guy he'd seen at college. Lol. But we became friends after that. People don't approach me, I have to always break the ice or start up a conversation.
@pawsvtuber I think you misunderstood. The "Feel safe around you" comment is supposed to mean: "I feel that you could protect me from threats" not "I don't think you would hurt me."
Same. I always feel like I gotta appear less menacing and soften my voice, feels like I'm in the middle seat of an airplane. My only friend now told me he would've never talked to me in college if our mutual friend hadn't bridged the gap. And for some reason, I've only ever gotten compliments from other dudes.
@@40KBoss as a short guy with resting bitch face, most people give me strange looks in public, some basically assume I'm some kinda sociopath looking for victims (i once got that answer exactly, don't know how we went there in a convo but i remember being the one who asked so...)
Basically short and rbf makes you look like a serial killer apparently
Bro I just wanna talk about random stupid things(like how can ferrets fit in places to hunt really small mice being such long boys) and eat fried chicken
Female loneliness - you have infinite choices, but all the choices are bad.
Male loneliness - you have no choices, you are bad.
Don't talk to anyone - 2024 dating advice 😭
@@pawsvtuberI know I have Asperger Syndrome, but the way I get out of it is literally by forcing myself to actually communicate with people.
@@Kaltsit- Well, you're far braver than I am. I have the same condition _and_ was abused as a teen on top of it. So, I'm a misanthrope. _All_ my relationships are strictly professional.
@@NewTypeDilemma01 I feel sorry for you. I like having close relationships. They’re very special to me. It’s just hard for me to achieve it and keep it up cuz I just can’t fully understand everything a person is, and that makes me anxious and that makes the interaction harder.
@@Kaltsit- You're doing great man, with every try you get better! My antisocial ass is actually good at talking to people, I just hate it, that's why I've given up at this point...
I have(had) a female friend who I have known for the majority of my life. Grew up together, knew each other's families, all that. Close friends. I asked her on a date and she *instantly* cut all contact. Zero response, no reply, instant ghosting. Crap like that, in addition to many other things, is why I have mostly given up on dating at this point.
More context is needed.
From her point of view you could be the dude who does not get a hint and who decided to confess his live when she is 2 dates in with another guy...
(Ohh now that i have someone he tries this shit?)
Or it could be as you said and she is damaged.
My point is.
Dont be discouraged.
You never know.
You will be sitting a coffe shop or doing a hobby and you will see a cute girl doing something you like.
When you see her remember this conversation and how you said you "gave up"
Yup...been there. She came back to rekindle our friendship after having a child 8 years later. Thanks no, I'm good.
@@aziouss2863Folks like you that automatically blame the guy is the reason why men aren't bothering to deal with women.
... The question I have is, "if she'd said 'no', would you be able to be her friend, or would you resent her answer?"
I've asked some friends out, and some have said 'yes", but I recognize that it's difficult to not feel a bit resentful over it when they inevitably get into a relationship with someone else later.
I also think the culture of “hit and dip” was and still is stupid.
Imagine being addicted to it that much that you literally socialize with a person to just do that. Frick you. You’re making it worse and making everyone else scared of dating.
Don't tell them to come over 😂
45:02 Oh! Shots fired. 😁
The call-out in the beginning was pretty funny "you anime freaks" xD
I mean nowadays if you see a crying woman and ask what is wrong there is a good chance she is going to bite your head off T-T
Literally too. I had a girl bite my shoulder once because our arms hit each other while passing on a crowded walkway. I was bamboozled to say the least😂
The first one is actually not a new thing, if my parents taught me anything lol
Second comment sounds like assault, brother
Yeh, crying women or children are like the most stereotypical bait for getting kidnapped or mugged 😅
As they say in anything future space "a distress signal, either it's dead ship full of treasure, or a trap"
Women&children in trouble are the same today
@@ЕвгенийПершин-е1ь that's a good one
27:20 Imma push back on that point. Guys standards are 'be cute' 'be kind' 'be grateful' literally everything else is optional, but appreciated.
I'm baffled seeing girls having trouble with getting guys, we're so simple.
They get all this bs mindgame advice from other women too which doesn't help. 😂
Just ask a guy you're close to who you trust to tell you the truth, a father/brother/close friend etc, and they'll tell you to stop overthinking it.
None of this shit is necessary. 😂
@Prince15549 Indeed
Yeah a lot of times we do talk a lot about physical assets and how great they are, but a lot of times guys will settle for something ok just so long as they get to play with those assets. It's a lot like talking about super cars, yeah we love our ferraris and lambourginis and how great they are, doesn't mean we're only aiming for those.
The biggest common turn off to relationships I notice when interacting with others is that people just are really trashy about relationships and/or social interaction. There's no sense of responsibility for your own actions or mutual understanding that a relationship (love, friends, you name it) works both ways, not one. But nowadays, expecting loyalty and honesty is apparently wrong.
That's something I noticed too, it's no longer implied you're exclusive when dating nowadays. :/
Yeah, sadly it is true. I wish it wasn't but nowadays it is like it is a crime to be faithful and decent to someone.@@pawsvtuber
There have been studies recently performed on entitlement and narcissistic behavior. They're showing a significant increase across younger generations with a greater increase among women vs men. Not surprising with how feminism and liberal politics regularly prop women up on a pedestal just for being women while simultaneously acting like men don't matter or are the source of all problems. Women start to think they're perfect and men start to ask "Why should I care when no one cares about me?"
Holy shit, the two replies to this are the most internet brained slop I've seen today lmao
@@R3IsL How so?
“Simply pretend he doesn’t exist”
Well, really making yourself stand out to us now are you?
Women approaching men is very tricky because most men will think it is a prank or a set up to mug them or steal their organs.
Some of the old advice is actually pretty good but there are some "advices" there that sound like tricks to cull out the ones dumb enough to fall for the clear trap.
43:57 but that one actually works most of the times, of course, it can't be a hollow compliment. Feeling safe next to someone is what we all want to feel and hearing someone say it to you also feels nice. And safe can mean many things.
“You can’t die of loneliness if you die in your thirties, DUH”
Oh my god that killed me 😂
Lmao, just read this RIGHT when she said it.
Actually given the time period posting a ad on a billboard was 1960s version of dating website
I’ve been given a compliment twice from girls who weren’t in my family.
Yes, I remember them because compliments matter a lot to us.
I remember the one complement I got from some one I found attractive said, you have beautiful eyes like honey, that shit ended my depression for like 3 months
I am 39 and I have only ever been complimented because of my work ethic, and I can count them on one hand.
If I really like someone their compliments resonate with me, but most of the time I just brush them off. I compliment people when there is a right opportunity, a discussion topic for example. Publically compliments are rare nowdays at least
I think my receptor for compliments broke in highschool, I remember being told compliments, about my hair (which I keep long to this day), about being cute (didn't know how to react to this), but I couldn't tell you 'how many' compliments I got during my life.
As a side note, I do get told how I make others safe when I'm around, but I take it as a 'insecurity these days is bad & being in groups is safer' (to add to this I'm from South America)
@@graljoffrewithoutanarmy860 yeah makes sense, you got used to it and got desensitized to compliments. I recommend giving a psychologists a try. They helped me sort things out.
I've known some people that had legitimate success with dating apps/websites but they acknowledge that it is a rarity to find someone on those platforms. They told me if you ever use the apps/platforms, be seriously/brutally honest on your profile otherwise you are just wasting your time.
I know of two situations where it worked, but similar response to yours - be brutally honest and expect nothing short of that either. It's wild how honesty is now rare and loyalty is not expected
i have a coworker, who switched to my place after he lost his former relationship, used a datingapp and found a partner - at our current workingplace. seeing this i can say using these app may be a success, but a love relation formed out of a friends or working relation seems the best. at least it was always the best for me (a gaming nerd) and all my surrounding reallife relationships. termally online people on the contrary seem to be more often be too confused and with too high standards. as if they expect a lovemovie romance
If I ever did get married, I'mma make it a BIRTHDAY THEMED wedding. 🤣
bonus points on if the wedding day lands on eithers birthday...
Hell yeah, im gonna attend that one. But only if you get one of those inflatable bouncy castles! 🎉🥳
Devilish, I'm totally stealing that idea
Hell yeah brother
I tried to help a woman in her car with a flat in the rain. I grabbed my tools to get the flat off. I looked in the window... She pulled a gun and racked the slide ready to fire... F this sh_t I grabbed my tools and ran back to my car and left. Men are not doing sh_t for y'all anymore. We are listening ladies. You are strong and independent and can do it yourself. OK bye!! 👋👋👋
Be more like Asians, no chivalry. You're a woman with a problem? Be an ADULT and solve your problem.
Or call a bear, they can help.
girl bossed a little to close to the sun was the best line
I literally overheard a conversation between some of the girls in my college class and my professor about how they all wanted to date the “bad guy” to “fix him and make him better.”
Then my professor, an older lady, said “Man, I wonder why that will never work. Don’t date a person to fix them. Let them work on themselves. Find a person who actually understands themselves and others and will treat you right. Stop trying to ‘Fix Them’”
Young girls : Nah i want Him
I'm ok with being fixed, but that's ONLY me.
@@BarachielGaming You being willing to be helped or change makes you a good person. Bad people typically become hostile or toxic if someone tries to help them or even disagrees with them.
Then everybody clapped. The professor’s name? Albertine Einstein.
Sadly I can believe that story. It just lacked the part where the young girls laughed the teacher out the room, hopped onto the bad guy, then gotten heart broken after.
I have seen elders try to talk sense to the young thots. Doesn’t work ever.
"If you're popular you can get away with anything" true like look at all the dumb shit popular streamers do, or some of the bad things they do and they are still probably doing fine. Pretty privilege and popularity privilege is like the most annoying shit ever. I think that has gotten worse as the years have gone on with the evolution of media spaces.
I'm just a guy out here listening to the whole rhetoric about men building the world so we deal with blah blah. I can't even build a bookshelf from IKEA. How am I supposed to make a whole society? There would be way too many extra pieces.
The "I feel safe around you" compliment isn't, "I feel safe FROM you," but instead "I feel safe from OTHER things while I'm with you." Men have an instinctual need to protect. Complimenting him by telling him he did a good job at that is like scratching that special part behind a dog's ear: immediate dopamine hit.
Also, I guarantee that if you've ever dated a man, he's had a daydream about fighting off terrorists or muggers or something to protect you.
If a person feels PROTECTED, then it means protected from something. Which means there's an active threat out there. It's sad in my opinion that we, as a society, mostly living in towns and cities, have to feel threatened on a daily basis. It's not the compliment that is my issue, it's the fact that it's a double edged statement. It says more about the person saying that compliment since they don't feel protected in their own city etc. I get why it works, but it makes me sad that it's a thing. I'm aware most people don't overthink it. I hope I explained my point a bit better 😅
@@pawsvtuber Yeah, that makes perfect sense, and I agree. I must have just misunderstood your point in the video. 👍
I mean, look at NY...women are getting literally r*ped in front of other people that just leave when they see it happening...and that's the ones that don't take their phones out and start filming it for later consumption...
Cities are pretty unsafe, it is one pf the things that women are not neurotic for thinking it's dangerous.
@@pawsvtuber Usually that comment isn't about physical safety. If a girl feels safe around a guy they usually mean they dont think the guy will take advantage of them. Women are constantly told that guys are out to abuse them. Almost always by some woman who was abused in some way by a guy with 10 billion red flags. It does say something bad about the woman to have the baseline expectation be that the guy is going to try and do something bad, but it's pretty tough to fight the social conditioning.
I'm gonna be honest, America is unironically one of the only countries I know where you can openly compliment a woman, potentially flirt or let her know you're interested and ask for a number.
I'm English (Britain) and I wouldn't do that here because 1. I don't like the women here, it's like 1 in 20,000 so far that I'm physically and mentally intrigued by... 2. You get such DIRTY looks for trying or giving compliments here.
It's seen as harassment, you're pretty much expected to keep to yourself in England and expand through work or "friend of a friend" type stuff.
I had my Tinder set to England looking for a potential FWB, I legit got no matches in months, or likes.
Set myself to America, boom women are interested, extremely nice, and down for variety.
In England even when I set to "long term" I will get likes but these women expect some Disney romance bond where you're in love before first DM, and if your first message doesn't make their heart flutter, bye.
Western Europeans I've spoken to have also said as much about dating and flirtation, that they exclusively use online now, since they feel approaching or being approached to be invasive... LIKE HUH?
America however, when I went everyone spoke to me first, was nice.
And I would witness every now and then guys shooting their shot, and it was funny or respectful.
I myself am 25 this month and just see myself giving up on long term dating entirely because the women I can date are: overentitled, taking less care of themselves, and overall just not worth the hassle.
There's videos up now of how Gen Z are uglier than each generation before us, there's multiple factors, but I BEG YOU set a Tinder profile to England and the average 22 year old looks 35-40...
Personality wise, I've been called an "axe murderer" for simply saying I love anime and then when the girl said "isn't that for kids" I explained shows like "Another" exist (pretty much final destination), or Corpse Party (still not as bad as SAW)... Oh yeah, the average British girl HATES anime, not dislikes, HATES. It's all trash tv, football and formula 1 here...
Then for expectations it's so common to see: "Guys under 6ft are only good for friendship, if you're making less than 50k a year then don't bother, you better be funny and interesting".
I'ma sound like a dick here, I'm like 5'9 or 5'10, my income is beyond fine, I afford what I want when I want despite not earning 50k. I'm pretty fucking intelligent as far as things go, and show genuine interest in everything anyone talks about, I try to actively care about what they wanna talk about and engage with them, I'm a great listener and memory wise scare people sometimes by remembering shit they told me years ago (seriously). Every girlfriend I've had or woman I've approached I've made giggly and they've told me I'm great company.
The above being said, I lack any effort to try for modern day women, because they're just too demanding and picky.
"Be funny" isn't a thing, different people laugh at different things! "Be interesting" - again, I listen attentively when women talk about makeup, but I don't like make up and to be frank, I couldn't give two shits about it either. Yet I listen out of care and curiosity for what she has to say, and yet the same won't be reciprocated.
Shoe goes into it a lil in this vid, but she does it even more in her "are women okay" video, GIRLS NOW ARE ENTITLED.
I have no way to move to the US, I can't effectively learn other languages so my main options are just: England, South Africa, America, Canada and Australia. Of which only America, Australia and England are for me. So I've accepted I'll likely just live alone until death in England lol
Loved the reaction btw, sorry for rant, but to me dating is dying.
Saying someone who likes anime has the personality of an axe murderer is genuinely one of the most insane thighs I've ever heard. Like, my god...
All I see when I look at Americans is that fake smile. It's just a mouth smile, their eyes aren't smiling at all.
In terms of women in the US being very friendly... I kinda wonder what kind of accent your English has.
Because you cannot underestimate the effect of a posh, proper London accent... Or an understandable Scottish or Irish accent, for that matter.
My personal theory is that that kind of accent hints at a guy being "exotic", without the woman needing to learn a second language... No idea if Cockney rhyming slang will work, though. 😂
@TheBreadbear the funny thing is, technically, she didn't even say "personality" on the profile. It was just "no more axe murderers please" lol
But yeah, I'm always accepting that it's anecdotal and a niche that likely won't happen again, but when I find our American counterparts to be more friendly, attractive, and enjoyable to talk to for personalities and interests it's a damper.
@geoffreyentwistle8176 I'm closer to London, but southeast in general.
I have an accent for sure, but it's also toned down by choosing not to talk with Brits often and most of my social circle being American or European (mainland).
I won't deny it helps, but I've always perceived British women as just being kinda snobby.
I think Tinder is an AMAZING example.
If I put myself in central London, I get a max of 3 likes per week.
If I put myself in Dallas (Texas) I get 10...
I don't write in my bio that I'm British, and somehow these women that are far more beautiful, have more common interests, and more interesting profiles in America like me a ton, but the local women who can't compare don't care for me? Idk, it's bizarre...
it is not unique for america, even in russia situation is same. itis high standarts or nudes x0
"I eat my steak well done. Not even well done, I eat that shit congratulations."
It took me a second but once I got it, that joke hit me like a freight train. That joke is so brilliantly stupid.
Thank you for pointing this out - I've watched this reaction 4 times, and only understood the joke when I read this comment. 😂😂
Guaranteed if the list was allowed to go on it would have gotten to "get a gun; TAKE HIM!"
😂 "Lock one in your basement"
@TheFatalcrest some guys might be interested in that.
Women should get the same talk guys get about how they need to lower their standards.
24:47 I'd caution any man whom thinks of dating a nurse or stewardess, while I only know the reputation stewardesses have for promiscuity I've worked in the medical field a long time and have first hand knowledge of the promiscuity in that field but especially by nurses.
Nurses are also mean girls most of the time. aka the type of woman with tons of red flags.
2:34 digital pickpockets. You know how some credit cards can use proximity payment? Well someone with a device similar to a cash register can place it close to your pocket and if it picks up your credit cards magnetic signature to steal money.
Interesting in concept, although I wonder how much one steals with it to remain under the radar. 😅 Might have to look into videos on the topic
As a single guy who wants a wife and children more than anything, id be more willing to approach women if they weren't so fucking rude when i do it.
The "i feel very protected with you" works, i'm telling you 😂😅
Every man wants to hear that. Shocking this shocks women. This is why it's said women have 0 rizz: they don't need to understand mena nd what they like to pull them, lol
Oh, I can imagine it does, I just see it as a double edge compliment and it's why I have an issue with it personally. But I understand why it works also. 😅
@@pawsvtuber I'm curious as to why you think it's a double edged compliment? Thanks for a great video btw, it was really entertaining! 👏🏻
@@emolloak6547 Glad you enjoyed the reaction!
As for your question, my brain automatically asks the question "so you don't feel protected without me?" 😅
I feel safe and protected in general (which I am very lucky and thankful for), so for me as a person to tell someone else those words, it would mean something bad happened that changed my perception of how the world is. It's just my way of thinking.
Ultimately, the whole point of those words is about purpose and/or telling someone they matter to you and you want them there, but ya, I can't look at the words and not wonder what happened to the person.
@@pawsvtuber That's very interesting to me because that way of thinking didn't even cross my mind. I only thought about it as a great compliment because I know that a lot of men find purpose in being the protector (myself included) and as shoe0nhead once said in one of her videos "a man will crawl through broken glass for a purpose". I'm sure women have their own struggles with purpose but that's not something I can give my two cents on since I'm not one, or perhaps I'm just not educated enough on how women think 😅
Thank you for your comments! Your thoughts were really interesting and made me think, so thanks for that.
God bless you, I wish you the best 👍🏻✨
Women happen to be better at coping with loneliness because physical touch is part of the hierarchy of needs and women have no problem fawning over and hugging other women. If that social trust ever dries up, there will be a sharp uptick in concern over the loneliness matter.
That, and women are less committal to committing suicide.
Im six feet good looking and nice im literally what you list off but not on dating markets also yes its very unrealistic standards because most people can only fit one of those standards.
If only those two were the criteria. Sadly on top of that, you have at least 5 more extra boxes to fit 😭
@@pawsvtuber good thing I haven't dated anyone in the past 15 years would hate to see the results now that men are generally treated like a wallet instead of a actual human being.
@@darkshadowsaver It is baffling for me to hear the americans talk about men needing to be 6 feet or over. I'm 190cm and most common complaint I have heard from women about me or others is that the guys for them are too tall. I'm only bit over the average height myself.
Being average height would be nice for just health reasons too. I've had to call ambulance twice in a year because back pains ave become almost paralyzing.
19:30 yes, there's people like that. They treat their pets as children, post pictures on social media roleplaying as the dog. They even take their doggies out on a baby stroller. Poor pups...
And then they get obese and live in constant agony while their owner makes "honking chonker" twitter posts.
I mean... The people I know who put their dogs in strollers do so because they have an old dog or a disabled dog. (Not trying to be rude, really, but I feel like not enough people talk about this when getting upset about dog strollers)
Japan is the most severe right now with both problems.
Poor people sticking to their beds from laying down for so long :(
Their work culture is thanks to 40s-60s Corporate America.
Nah, Korea is worse.
anita sarkeesian cosplaying something she will never be is hillarious to me...
on the separation anxiety bit I saw a guy basically being inseparable from each other and the dog legit was having a panic attack just not being in the same room, it was so sad
Thing is, what we have in the US is a corporatist welfare state. Lots of government regulations where "experts" (usually from the big corporations) have a great deal of influence on what those regulations say which hurts start-ups trying to compete with established corporations. During 2020, the big corporate stores like Wal-Mart, McDonald's, and so on were allowed to remain open but small businesses were forced to shut down as "not essential". A lot of farm subsidies from the government go to big corporate farms and not smaller family farms. And so on.
Yup and working class people have become so busy holding multiple jobs just to make ends meet because said corporations tell everyone who would listen that they couldn't possibly make their billions in profit if they paid a living wage to their employees. People are inevitably too busy to meet and get to know each other properly. Now its hookup culture or rush into a potentially doomed relationship because you don't get know the person well enough before getting married. Its a roulette bet on whether you will find stuff about them that you can't deal with leading to divorce.
alas! Americans began to become proletarians!!!!
It's also because people don't really know or care until it affects them,remember people won't work together if there's nothing in it for them.
@@A_reasonable_individual42 Which is why I think Ayn Rand had it more or less right: maximum personal freedom and responsibility and minimal interference from outside. Problem is that Objectivism requires rational and reasoned thought which few people ever really develop.
@@weiserwolf580 The really "funny" bit about that is this: this corporate welfare has its origins in the New Deal. The subsidies for the corpo farms began there and all the price controls and so on could easily be eaten by the corpos but the mom and pop businesses couldn't afford it.
to the point on 16:11, i can give every woman perfect advice to approaching a man. walk up to us and say hi and try to strike up a conversation all you gotta do maybe throw in a compliment. if you're even a little cute you'll have most of us blushing and confused at what tf is going on and i might add even the most stoic man is gonna like this approach since guys don't get approached, we're expected to do all the work and put in all the effort. trust me, they'll thank you for making it as obvious as humanly possible you're interested, and no i don't mean giving the fuck me eyes that shit is just confusing.
A friend of mine sent a love letter to a girl last year, she called the police on him, he literally went to jail for like 1 month for a love letter. I always told him to not chase girls, if it happens it will happen naturally, he never listens, now he learnt the hard way LMAO
129 ways to get a husband. because 5 wasn't enough to get one, be loyal, respect each others boundaries, be there to support each other, learn to communicate with each other and never think/ make them feel you are above your partner and should be beside them.
I think it's more getting out and *finding* that guy for this material, it's all how to draw women and men together or give a woman a little way to take a step forward rather than drift ariund hoping a guy steps up.
Your 5 is good as well but those help more when you *have* that guy
My brother recently went to prom with his gf and he saw that she brought her wallet with her in her hands.
He instantly asked if she wanted to use his pockets to keep it so she didn’t have to carry it the entire prom, because she has no pockets.
She said “No, definitely not”
Just the way she answered felt untrusting of him or some type of prejudice. It just felt off.
Why is she even with him then?
She clearly doesn't trust him with her stuff for whatever reason.
I'm not a girl but if I was I'd never date someone I don't even trust to carry my wallet. 😂
@@iCrowLink exactly my concern.
I hope you said for him to drop her like a hot potato. That's just rude.
Are we going to pretend like that doesn't sound sus AF? I don't care who tf you are, if you're not the police I'm not handing over my entire wallet to anyone for any reason. If you have my wallet in your pocket there's literally nothing stopping you from just running off with it. It's just common sense.
@@lilporky8565 she doesn’t have a pocket and my brother wanted to be courteous with her because he loves her. How is that wrong? They have been dating for more than 6 months and see each other every single day.
Your reasoning is why men today have stopped trying to be gentlemen. We try constantly to be kind and we get hit in the face for it.
"Her female demographic is way more than mine"
Guys love a good female anime character 👀
Most women havent the capacity to understand.
I always laugh at the advice women write for women about how to approach men. How would a woman know what a man wants, you don't see men writing about period cramps.
The WORST thing you can do to get the attention of a man is playing the weird mind tricks women like to use, DON'T do that, instead be honest and direct. It's all men ever wanted.
Oh yes! The disease of the information age: addiction to being always online. Well, Serial Experiments Lain was truly well ahead of its time. all these "epidemics of loneliness" are a symptom, disassociation of personalities (online/offline), addiction to attention, and narcissism, polarization and others
Whenever women talk to me at this point I just assume there's an agenda random interest feels cool and all but hardly ever worth the drama. Maybe I'm jaded and am attracting crazy frankly idk anymore.
A hat box is a large box to place a top hot in so the hat doesn't get damaged during transit or storage btw.
i was there during stream! it was very fun, also great video!
If we’re going boating and my girl says “Okay then, wear this dress and heels”
I’d see that as a challenge and would do it. Maybe that’s just because us males do that.
Yeah, this is one of those: how comfy am I with the person? things
What really aggravates "modern American women" is that the dude they are willing to settle for - i.e., the guy who is not 6', a Calvin Klein model, makes a 7-figure income, is ruggedly independent, loves fury little animals and is a flaming Liberal/Progressive - are starting to figure out that the key to happiness is a reasonable job, a decent place to live, a car, a plane ticket, $5,000 and two-weeks vacation time, and they can almost always end up engaged.
...And the "modern American women" is NOT happy about it.
What exactly is the "the modern American woman"? I know those types of women exist, but I believe there were always women like that, but thanks to the internet, they seem bigger than they appear.
@@A_reasonable_individual42 It's just _women._ They're all essentially the same. The only difference is the boundaries that they're subject to. Or, put another way, the degree of freedom they're permitted to enjoy. In the West, there are practically no limits (nor consequences) to their behaviour, and so they act out.
3:25 Ain't no way I'm putting my credit cards in my phone. That is just asking to get it hacked.
I learned a few things in this video; 1) Paws is Eastern European which automatically makes her more attractive than every American or Western European woman. 2) She's goth, another automatic positive as it shows she has good taste in fashion and music. 3) Also she's a genuinely nice person with an excellent sense of humor.
I havent dated or even spoke to a woman outside my family in years and not because i want to be so painfully lonely it hurts. My friends just moved away and now i have nowhere to go and nothing to do to meet new people. I have hobbies but theyre not social really, Ive never been complimented by a girl in my life, even my gf i was with for 7 years didnt do it. Idk wtf is going on, ive been so lonely for so long nothing makes sense anymore..
Young People used to have sex in the car. It was the only place you could get privacy. That fell out of fashion in the late 90's
The problem is that women can NEVER be pleased. It's impossible!
Ten years ago, at least 90% of the 1950's advice would have worked (on me at least). Now? Woman crying in a corner, thank god I didn't cause it and run the other direction.
Haha, I did think you would find this amusing. It was something that came up on my feed for some reason when I was researching for collective community and individualism. 😅
Thanks for recommending it, was a fun watch
i think collectivly people need to stop using entertainment media for educational content. there is a reason the two are sepperate catagories. the common trend amoungst all the advice from all era's of human history is the price tag attached to it. if they sell you the perfect advice they can only sell it to you once. if they drip feed you the advice they can charge for every drop. honestly humans are actually pretty good at flirting naturaly. which has been dumbed down to be yourself. but it would be better to say you are naturally attractive to good parteners and you will both be able to feel in love not tell you're in love.
Maybe people were good at flirting, but not anymore.
@@Mr.scooter-le8yo not nessecarily, the birth rate continues to stay above the death rate and its less that dating has gotten harder as much as it has changed along with both societies and individuals, there is still hope to meet people but when there are 8,116,698,258e you are going to find that alot of people find just as many bad matches as good matches.
my best advice is find what brings you joy when you do it on your own, then find someone who also finds joy in that activity, then see if there is a way the both of you can do that activity together then you can build friendships or relationships from that. if it doesnt work the first time, analyse what you did and what they did. see what parts of the relationship you liked and didnt and incorparate that into your next attempt. you keep trying and you find someone eventually. there is just no garantee that it wont be a long process that may even change you as a person. nor any specific need for you to try and atain this goal for happiness as to be happy you must have somthing you need not what you want.
Thankfully I'm one step forward from fully bring out of the single life. Met a nice Woman who's excuse this. F27 while I'm M18. So, quite a bit of an age difference. But we've been speaking since last month. And it started out professional before turning into speaking to each other more. Then we made plans when to meet. And I'm taking her to a Ball. The only thing I've been bugged about is how LONG it's taking for when the time for the Ball comes. It's basically at the end of April. So, a long way. But we are both excited for the day
Good luck
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She means "I feel protected by you" not "You don't make me scared"
lol
I feel like many people missed my point entirely. If a person feels PROTECTED, then it means protected from something. Which means there's an active threat out there. It's sad in my opinion that we, as a society, mostly living in towns and cities, have to feel threatened on a daily basis. It's not the compliment that is my issue, it's the fact that it's a double edged statement that says more about society and how fucked up someone's life is/was to make that statement😭. That's at least my interpretation of the entire thing. I also understand why it works and that if you don't really overthink (like me 😅), it's a nice thing to hear
@@pawsvtuber I don't know about where you live, but a lot of women in the US tell each other that they are in constant threat of being murdered/robbed/kidnapped/raped whenever they're in any place other than their own home. A lot of women in the US also refuse to arm themselves despite this, so yes, they believe that they are in constant danger.
at roughly 27:00 Shoe misreads/miss understands the point, it isn't saying to date someone you find ugly, its saying to be nice to ugly people because the guy you find attractive might see you being mean to them, and most men don't like mean people
9:02 So glad I am not alone in my boycot of dating apps
The summary to all dating advice videos ever is basically them doing population control in the most roundabout way possible. They probably bought on the narrative that the planet is ovepopulated and they figured that convincing people to sabotage people's chances of having a family and healthy relationships could solve that without them being called out.
Men build the world but woman should be the ones holding it together I'd say not destroying it ...
Something to note for the context of the '50's solutions to these problems is that there were significantly less men at the time due to world wars, so for many women it might be a more viable option to get a guy who just had her wife die.
The word queen makes me want to puke, too. Especially when using that weird California valley girl or New York accent.
As someone who is 30 in Boston, yep! Women here are scary. I'll wait till the right woman (or guy) comes along. Until then, I'll give my two cats all my love.
Ayo
Same 😂 although im a bit younger then u
Ahem... _ALL_ of it?
@@lilporky8565 yes. They get all the kisses and cuddles plus chin scritches. Both of them always have access to sit on my lap or sleep under my warm quilt.
37:15 That kind of advice worked in a time before petty lawsuits and men getting hit with rape allegations for saving a woman's life, or (on the flip side, if she likes him) being dragged for child support for looking in the general direction of the kid she had with another dude.
Walked away from dating in my late teens and see no reason to go back now. It's not worth the risk, stress, or cost.
Well maybe I am needy and insecure! You're gonna worsen my state by not giving me the compliment?? RUDE.
For all my short kings out there, stay trying. I'm tall for a tall person, work out, not beautiful not ugly, have a personality and humor, and am a 21 year old virgin when friends (dudes) who are up to my pecs get laid. Height isn't everything, if you don't put yourself out there and try you won't get anyone.
Man build the world, it's true. But men didn't build it alone, and we also didn't build it for ourselves.
I dated a girl for 6 months and went to pick her up from the club on night and she was standing out front getting a guys number, when I asked why she would do that she told me “just cause we are together doesn’t mean we are exclusive ”😅 will never forget that lol
Honestly, I just really want to meet a woman who's actually nice to me for once....
14:00 I've seen a couple of gym ladies (the ones that post gym videos to call men who glance at them creepy) make videos lamenting no man talks to them, so yeah, it is the same people.
Yes, not all women wanted H.R. world, but enough did.
42:24
Holy shit, I might be able to play DOOM Eternal with how hard that projection is. The journo, I mean.
Tate got his ass arrested again
Lets Gooooo!! shoe is aware of vtubers
17:15 WAIT A SECOND POWS IS ROMANIAN?????
The only good advice in this video was to go outside. Then it was nonsense allllll the way down.
Subscribed for geographical reasons.
Great video paw
Hatbox would 100% work on me because I would be curious what's in the box, and boom, you got me trapped. Yes, I got the tism.
Allow me to translate. Female loneliness = pining for Chad.
A girl once told me I had muscular forearms and let me tell you I nearly proposed right there.
Honestly, she is spitting
i love how the tail gets all excited when she gets excited lol
Stai ce? :)) nu m-aș fi gândit ca ești din România
Surpriseeeeeeee! Nu apare des în conversaţie 😅
@@pawsvtuber foarte tare oricum. Nu ai accentul estic pe care îl au mulți dintre noi deci nu m-aș fi gândit 😆
Outstanding video Paws 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
Yeah, but in the 50s you could both afford and receive an education. That one no longer applies.
you just need 1 way: LOOK INTO YOUR FUCKING FRIENDZONE.
But we know women never do it anyway,
In the words of Naveen: eh, sad but true.
I think the reasons why it's way harder to date are due to changing cultural norms and a bit of the economic reason, at least in America . These things all influence dating. There is no singular reason, but don't worry, there are always highs and lows in history, so it won't last forever.
It is crazy how popular rando vtubers have gotten to the point that western ones are just doing political videos.
Also cute voice and accent
If you come at me with a hatbox, I fall instantly!
that girl looks like boxxy
JUSTICE for 175 non PSN countries Sony scammed with Helldivers 2 Change your reviews and tell Sony buy more servers and let them back in. Also Don't buy Ghost of Tsushima PC. Vote with your wallet divers.
JESUS CHRIST IS GOD AND SAVIOR, and animal separation anxiety is real in some animals and they get very stressed out and miserable.
40:20 thats just like a manga i have read and that story didn't aged well
Love, and maybe have kids if the love is true and you both actually want to be together. But fuck marriage, at this point it's dead, no one treats the vows seriously... like why bother spending the money if you don't actually want a marriage but actually just an overblown party... and then get divorced at the first inconvenience...