"12 Steps of AA" with Father Martin.

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  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024

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  • @grocho53
    @grocho53 3 года назад +58

    I met Father Martin in 1988 and visited his Treatment center several times later, carrying the message he taught me...Thank You Father Martin...this May will be 33 years, god willing ODAAT

  • @johngarcia8827
    @johngarcia8827 2 года назад +76

    I used to listen to him last year on lost nights when I couldn't make it back from my relapse. He kept my hope alive and now with almost 2 months back continues to do so. I love this man's talks and thank you Lord for Father Martin

  • @goalaspect
    @goalaspect 3 года назад +115

    saw him live in 1998 - he was amazing - big audience - is amazing guy. I sobered up Aug 12, 1995 - still sober - 25 years and counting - aa - miracles happen here

    • @jeffolson6139
      @jeffolson6139 2 года назад +6

      My father seen him speak in 1984 witch now has 44year I got sober August 18/ 2011

    • @dannypowell594
      @dannypowell594 2 года назад

      You don't have to lie to kick it bro

    • @bobrapson4915
      @bobrapson4915 2 года назад

      And who did that

    • @bobrapson4915
      @bobrapson4915 2 года назад

      25 and counting. Is that a step?

    • @stephaniehall9190
      @stephaniehall9190 2 года назад

      Keep coming tu

  • @sallyfrederick-johnson8865
    @sallyfrederick-johnson8865 3 года назад +33

    By God's grace and a loving Father, I have been sober now since 1987, and several of my family members have many years of sobriety too. Celebrating 35 years of contented sobriety. Ever grateful for all of the old-timers that came before me, and carried the message to me for free.

    • @Trigathus
      @Trigathus 2 года назад +1

      God bless you 🙏🏼

  • @toddsteuart1144
    @toddsteuart1144 7 месяцев назад +3

    I was a grateful guest of Father Martin Ashley! What a phenomenal man. Listening to him tonight was just the injection I needed!

  • @jefft8933
    @jefft8933 4 года назад +32

    Thank God for Fr Martin kept me Sober 30 yrs one day at a time

  • @christreadwell5899
    @christreadwell5899 2 года назад +10

    Absolutely brilliant! Nearly 10 years sober and what a fellowship to be part of 🙏🏼

  • @germanarenas985
    @germanarenas985 4 года назад +24

    I’m grateful to have been exposed to this man. He is very logical and wise in his approach. Blessed be God for illuminating him to help us

  • @maureenmurray8987
    @maureenmurray8987 2 года назад +4

    Thank you so much. I was very fortunate to hear father martin speak in pennsylvania in the 1990's. It changed my life for some time. Again. Much appreciated.

  • @grumpyoldmanxo
    @grumpyoldmanxo 3 года назад +15

    I saw Father Martin's "Chalk Talks" way back in the late '70s at the VA Hospital. I later had the pleasure of meeting him at an early AA Convention also back in the late 70s. Happy to say, I'm sober today due to these early sober drunks and priests. Sober since 4-20-1984. One day at a time.

  • @aprilberney4472
    @aprilberney4472 Год назад +3

    I still listen to his same video teachings 10 years into my recovery. So grateful!

  • @Allyourbase1990
    @Allyourbase1990 Год назад +7

    The only speaker we watched in the rehabs I went to were really old and on VHS . Father Martin was the only one I stayed awake watching . He’s so good !

  • @toddphillips3430
    @toddphillips3430 3 года назад +16

    Wisdom from the ages here, a transformational learning experience, wow I am about to watch this again.

  • @kevinbarnes8064
    @kevinbarnes8064 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank God for father Martin and his talks I started listening to him in my 30yr I am now 35 yrs sober the content is helping me get thru some difficult things

  • @jesusmusicfreak5379
    @jesusmusicfreak5379 6 лет назад +31

    1st man that indrduced me to the steps in the greatest way!
    He was awesome! Thank You Father Martin💖🆙

  • @barbaragraver
    @barbaragraver 3 года назад +18

    What a wonderful, inspiring talk! Thank you for sharing. Also, can't help wondering who else cried during the Irish blessing 😊

    • @kevinmead156
      @kevinmead156 2 года назад +2

      I did.I'm Irish,alcoholic and Sober thank God!!

  • @the5150channel
    @the5150channel 2 года назад +3

    Father Martin is a powerful speaker truly speaking from his soul everytime I listen to one of his talks I can feel his spiritual message.
    Such a blessing, makes me feel good too :)

  • @jesspoet
    @jesspoet 2 года назад +6

    This is the utmost best way I have ever heard the 12 steps simplified into a workable real life application.! ❤️ absolutely brilliant. ❤️

  • @kennethledeoux1342
    @kennethledeoux1342 11 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you GOD for AA ❤

  • @darlenechilders4645
    @darlenechilders4645 3 года назад +9

    I love to listen to these steps from father martin . Your the best

  • @arozakis
    @arozakis 3 года назад +5

    I love you Father Martin, your message of AA truly lives on. Amen

  • @sebascronos5779
    @sebascronos5779 3 года назад +3

    thank for your help Father Martin and bless GOd

  • @tarronspencer5483
    @tarronspencer5483 4 года назад +9

    Always sorts me out and sets me on the Righteous Path

  • @briansharp5157
    @briansharp5157 5 лет назад +15

    When he says the prayer of a drunk is a prayer of the soul in pain I balled my eyes out. I'm struggling so bad with alcohol. I just don't wanna quit. I had 2 years sober and I'm so ashamed of myself.

    • @stevecatone1148
      @stevecatone1148 5 лет назад +4

      You know the doors are always open

    • @dollyk52
      @dollyk52 5 лет назад +7

      Please keep going. Reach out! It's ego ...I know the embarrassment..and feeling judged. After 2 and half years I too wandered off into old patterns running the show. There's no way you can get sober while drinking and the dependence on booze is an nightmare. An every ending cycle of blotting out looking for that fleeting feeling of ease. Doesn't really work at all. You know this is a progressive illness. Booze will let you down. Bless you. Your not a loser your sick!

    • @zsasa5764
      @zsasa5764 5 лет назад +5

      Keep going back

    • @jz8299
      @jz8299 5 лет назад +4

      On your feet Brian!
      Isaiah 40.31 but those who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength, they shall mount up with wings like the Eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint.

    • @leighmiller78
      @leighmiller78 5 лет назад +4

      Brian, please go to a meeting. Find an old timer and ask for help. They understand. I had an elderly man sober for 30 years take me by the hand and take me through the steps. It was a beginning. He then put my hand in the hand of a woman who took me through them again. She put me in the CENTER of a circle of sober alcoholics who kept me busy as hell!! 2 years passed by quickly and then I met another lady who took me through the steps a third time. By then my mind had cleared, my heart & mind were open and I was willing to acknowledge the exact nature of my wrongs. I've kept sober since September 28,2009. Seems like yesterday & a lifetime ago at the same time. Go back if you haven't already....

  • @pumpkinspice2597
    @pumpkinspice2597 5 лет назад +22

    ”It's impossible to stay sober without gratitude.” facts

  • @5224janweb
    @5224janweb 4 года назад +14

    This takes me clearly back to the beginning of my sobriety w
    hen i first met and listened to Father Martin. I love him and I love AA.

    • @corning1
      @corning1 4 года назад

      Jan Webster you let him? Wow that’s awesome. I love father Martin deeply.

  • @KidLeo8869
    @KidLeo8869 2 года назад +6

    It doesn't take brains, it takes desire!

  • @danielhollier7586
    @danielhollier7586 2 года назад +2

    then end of this made me cry but I'm so grateful I found this and actually listened properly

  • @Firekeeper61
    @Firekeeper61 3 года назад +2

    Wonderful Man who has worked with many of us. Still sober. It works if we work it. Plug in Jug 24 years by Gods Grace..

  • @nickortega314
    @nickortega314 2 года назад +1

    Father Martin still carries the AA message and steps all 12 God bless this Father who was sent to teach us if we want it Chicago IL

  • @dcvice6198
    @dcvice6198 5 лет назад +15

    Extraordinary speaker, much respect for this man!

  • @cliffbrown4217
    @cliffbrown4217 Год назад +4

    Father Martin was a Saint.

    • @J-ur2ei
      @J-ur2ei 2 месяца назад +1

      People don’t become saints until AFTER they die. So, no, he wasn’t, but he is now.

    • @cliffbrown4217
      @cliffbrown4217 2 месяца назад

      @@J-ur2ei I stand corrected lol.

  • @babbaruff1045
    @babbaruff1045 5 лет назад +23

    Just wonderful, I love him and I love the 12 steps, sobriety & finding God is the best thing on earth 🌈💖🙏

  • @bartongross9471
    @bartongross9471 2 года назад +1

    Miracles love my life in recovery willingness, courage to change faith to move mountains thanks, Father Martin.

  • @marydonovan6681
    @marydonovan6681 3 года назад +2

    In the early 70’s Fr. Martin came to Boston and spoke at an AA anniversary which I attended. I am a non-alcoholic, in the Al-Anon program. This man has explained the 12 Steps to alcoholics and to non-alcoholics in a most loving and merciful way. One thing I distinctly remember was him saying, “When approaching a sleeping alcoholic, he will wake up, sit up and throw up.” My sanity was saved by my A-Anon program although my marriage was destroyed. I live the 12 Steps as best I can, but don’t expect to work it perfectly.

  • @carlosvicente7811
    @carlosvicente7811 2 года назад +5

    Father martin and the recovered alcoholics are forever in my heart

  • @HectorRodriguez-tm8np
    @HectorRodriguez-tm8np 2 года назад +1

    Omg this was so beautiful. It brought me to tears. AA has saved my life thru it's efforts in inspiring NA by laying the blue print about what works.

    • @dannypowell594
      @dannypowell594 2 года назад

      You seriously cried watching this? I mean it's really interesting don't get me wrong and I'm a recovering addict that has been involved in Alcoholics Anonymous for some years but goddamn, it made you cry? I feel like you're lying.
      10th step that shit bro ffs

  • @PatcoxKennedy
    @PatcoxKennedy 3 года назад +2

    Thanks be to God for this marvelous man. God thank you for AA and Al-Anon

  • @ryanbedoya-o9c
    @ryanbedoya-o9c 5 месяцев назад

    I enjoy listening to this talk and I also enjoy Chuck c

  • @robertdoran9243
    @robertdoran9243 Год назад

    If I only had this good man as my sponsor, I'd probably be helping other suffering alcoholic by now,

  • @rigofernandez830
    @rigofernandez830 3 года назад +1

    Truully amazing 👌👌👌👌!
    Awesome man...this is the way to teach!!..simple..clear..POWERFULL !

  • @vanjohnson9837
    @vanjohnson9837 2 года назад +4

    This is the complete bases of how A/A CAN help the alcoholic that still suffers.aug2022.

  • @ajpollock1991
    @ajpollock1991 3 года назад +1

    So thankful for these videos I use them daily to continue to educate my self.

  • @alicesadler5441
    @alicesadler5441 6 месяцев назад

    Love this and how he explains it. Its so true

  • @BobBurdens-ds9pc
    @BobBurdens-ds9pc Год назад

    Absolutely fabulousness hope. Must continue. Work steps. Love you all. And present. When many r. Not

  • @atiger4716
    @atiger4716 5 лет назад +3

    I want to thank you very much for bringing this video. I really appreciate

  • @suzannevaeth8310
    @suzannevaeth8310 3 года назад +1

    I was blessed to see Father Martin in person.

  • @angelaingle9190
    @angelaingle9190 3 года назад +1

    i so love his wisdom thank you father martin

  • @treyebroyhill4011
    @treyebroyhill4011 Год назад

    he is a awesome man. learned so much from him....

  • @margymurphy702
    @margymurphy702 9 месяцев назад

    Loved his Tape i will be 36years Sober on 15th January God bless AA Always 🙏🙏🇬🇧

  • @nathanwilliams9695
    @nathanwilliams9695 2 года назад +2

    I love that Martin talks not of the alcoholic but of himself which is the alcoholic

  • @sum2automation
    @sum2automation 5 лет назад +6

    Yup, truly a life of miracles with-in them 12 step program's. From 1976 - today has been a wild ride. If your drinking your self to death and want to stop, please make the call for help. Good sponsors are hard to find at times, but don't you give up! The recovery miracle is still happening each and every day all around the world in A.A.. Today maybe your recovery miracle day. I'm reminded, that ones own recovery is only 12 steps away.
    Forever grateful for them drunks that came before us and showing the way, to a new life!
    Do as they did and we get what they got, one alcoholic helping another one day at a time.
    Great speaker that truly loved A.A.
    Thanks for sharing!

    • @ms.bubblestheclown1681
      @ms.bubblestheclown1681 4 года назад

      AEI Automation Group that’s billshit talk 12 steps are not treatments for substance abuse . This is 2020 . Science base programs . Are here and medicine . This is an old ideology religious cult . No one is powerless .

  • @liztupling6271
    @liztupling6271 Год назад

    Love you Father Marin... (Eternally) Rest in Peace. Met you several times In Washington DC ( Georgetown area) back in 1983-1984

  • @JoseDeLeon1110
    @JoseDeLeon1110  7 лет назад +21

    Reading some comments that may not agree with you is alright. It is showing others that the message of hope may need to be presented in a slightly different way. Who or what Father Martin may have been is not his message to the world. So, wasting thought on attempting to figure that all out is proof to you that you continue to miss the point of what this is all about. His message is what is the point.

    • @jameswright5547
      @jameswright5547 4 года назад +2

      The addict likes to 'Split Hairs' in order to manipulate and get his/her way.

    • @doublequin
      @doublequin Год назад

      @@jameswright5547 that's interesting. What constitutes splitting hairs for you? Is it splitting hairs that I believe the speaker made several circular reasoning errors and thoroughly misinterpreted the use of a couple steps (a clue, #5 in particular)

  • @petehorton5591
    @petehorton5591 2 года назад +1

    THANK YOU FATHER MARTIN.

  • @zon7374
    @zon7374 3 года назад +2

    Well said Sr god bless

  • @Eric31477
    @Eric31477 8 лет назад +15

    Father Martin and Joe & Charlie !!!!!!!!

  • @citytrees1752
    @citytrees1752 3 года назад +2

    Great talk. Thanks for sharing. (Sorry to see that it also brought out some cray-crays).

  • @MindBodySoulOk
    @MindBodySoulOk 2 года назад +2

    I believe I met him in treatment at Warwick Manor in Maryland in 1983. That whole year was a blur but pretty sure he visited regularly.

  • @fredvanwinkle5298
    @fredvanwinkle5298 8 месяцев назад

    He is an excellent teacher

  • @nathanwilliams9695
    @nathanwilliams9695 4 месяца назад +1

    When I don’t hear voices but all I hear is me. Then hearing voices is no longer my problem.

  • @martingrissom3997
    @martingrissom3997 Год назад

    Thank U that is good stuff.👍

  • @kentparsons7772
    @kentparsons7772 4 месяца назад

    Inspirational ❤

  • @nathanwilliams9695
    @nathanwilliams9695 4 месяца назад +1

    Love in universal eternal existence is more advanced.

  • @davidsmith4721
    @davidsmith4721 Год назад

    Im a fan. Ive talked to those who met him and they speak well of him

  • @grahamherbert3612
    @grahamherbert3612 Год назад

    22 years clean and sober, both in, and out of AA, the most important thing I've learned, Is that alcoholism is not a disease, it is an addiction like any other. The 'disease model' has been in part responsible for hundreds of thousands of deaths "Keep coming back" (until you can't), and the direct financing of a multi billion dollar 'recovery' industry. They just want to see you again, and again, and again.

  • @alicesadler5441
    @alicesadler5441 Год назад

    Love this

  • @JRC_86
    @JRC_86 4 года назад +4

    Call AA whatever you want. IT WORKS.

    • @jameswright5547
      @jameswright5547 4 года назад

      A really good friend of mine put it in simple words why an addict/alcoholic uses "It Works". So, what you have stated, is a perfect example of why a person should use AA. Because it works. If the alcohol works use AA because it works. I love it!

    • @robertparaday9122
      @robertparaday9122 4 года назад +2

      @TrollingAndBowling I've been to hundreds of groups and I never heard any of them say AA is the only way...howd u get clean tho?

  • @user-ng4lj8us2x
    @user-ng4lj8us2x 3 года назад +3

    RIP FATHER MARTIN
    🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🙌🙌🙌

  • @mrearlygold
    @mrearlygold 7 лет назад +2

    Thank you Framingham Freddie in LW Fla. Thank you

  • @ranniecromer2989
    @ranniecromer2989 6 лет назад +5

    Good,very good....

  • @johnirvine2106
    @johnirvine2106 5 лет назад +1

    Sadly missed father Martin 🙏🙏🙏

  • @tonybutts3874
    @tonybutts3874 5 лет назад +3

    I try an be humble with a attitude of gradatude, understanding that I dont understand all things ,its ok, so much good stuff in AA

  • @frederikjanssen1573
    @frederikjanssen1573 3 года назад +1

    This man is a genius

  • @dickturpin435
    @dickturpin435 2 года назад +1

    'Wisdom is heard, not spoken.' Anon.

  • @Mark_Ocain
    @Mark_Ocain 4 года назад +1

    Even people that drink say a few pints of beer in the evening can have an effect on your motivation it's not just the blackout drunk that affects his life through booze. AA I think recognises it and helps people that are what some might consider functional. My take is if you drink enough for you to blow say, 08, it's enough to affect more than your driving in the short and long term.

  • @IvonaFlakus
    @IvonaFlakus 5 месяцев назад

    The power of *we* #humble

  • @charlesrosebushes7748
    @charlesrosebushes7748 Год назад +1

    According to Bill Wilson the Insanity is when an alcoholic is sober and decides to pick up the first drink knowing full well everything bad that will happen

  • @BobBurdens-ds9pc
    @BobBurdens-ds9pc Год назад

    My. Goodness es. I love this guy's message. Open heart ♥ ♥ surgery. Insert. Note to selfie

  • @nathanwilliams9695
    @nathanwilliams9695 4 месяца назад +1

    This is about Nathan and Alex

  • @nathanwilliams9695
    @nathanwilliams9695 4 месяца назад +1

    You can never tell the writer of Myfanwy in Heaven that he can’t requite Myfanwy. IF HE TRULY WANTS TO.

  • @Mark_Ocain
    @Mark_Ocain 4 года назад +2

    This Priest would see alcoholism every day ..some Priests and Brothers develop an astonishing thirst for liquor. I guess it's a hard life so I shouldn't be surprised

  • @jasonvogue4487
    @jasonvogue4487 4 года назад +1

    Still struggling and I live in the same state that father Martin lived in It is extremely likely say

  • @Adam444Tv
    @Adam444Tv Год назад +1

    Gods not mad he’s patient

  • @nathanwilliams9695
    @nathanwilliams9695 4 месяца назад +1

    God continued to take inventory and when god was wrong god promptly admitted it.

  • @charlesrosebushes7748
    @charlesrosebushes7748 Год назад

    "The disease is not immoral, the actions as a result is immoral"

  • @shamsuddinkhizer
    @shamsuddinkhizer 3 года назад

    I only find few talks of pastor martin can anyone give me his whole talks recording s

  • @lydiarushing9305
    @lydiarushing9305 3 года назад +1

    One day at time 🤗😇😃

  • @kelvinloeb812
    @kelvinloeb812 3 года назад

    Taking the steps of AA seriously is why I am an atheist. AA worked for me as I assume any self help group works for anyone. 22 plus years of sobriety without a belief in any god. I could never be arrogant enough to believe that the universe was created with me in mind and that there was a god on my side while that same god ignored the holocaust or the 20000 children under the age of 5 that die every day of the year through no fault of their own.

  • @kevingreaux7133
    @kevingreaux7133 Год назад +2

    Jesus Christ is the way, the truth and the life, no one comes to the Father except through Him. John 14:6/ For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16

  • @stevenlupanko2983
    @stevenlupanko2983 4 года назад +1

    Amazing that a non alcoholic understands the programme better then most alcoholics. Wish some g.p's would understand the addicts situation and struggles. Addicts need treatment and medical assessment by other addicts there is no other way. I wouldn't be able to tell a pregnant woman what its like to be pregnant. I read a book the other day called the devil in the white city, it made it evident there was more help for alcoholics in Victorian Times ( as in treatment centres) but unfortunately they didn't have the 12steps so failed time and time and time and time again. I pray for you all to get well it's the hardest thing you will ever do but get through it and continuously work the steps the rest of life will be far easier.

    • @JRC_86
      @JRC_86 4 года назад +2

      Father Martin was a recovered alcoholic.
      en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_Martin_(speaker)

    • @frankcoughlan2162
      @frankcoughlan2162 3 года назад

      Sir, you have been misinformed. As someone who has studied Criminal Sociology, Health Sociology, Criminology, and Criminal Justice, I can tell you that there was NO help for alcoholics in Victorian times. Alcoholics, also called 'Dipsomaniacs', were locked away in the most appalling conditions in state run insane asylums, and prisons, until they died. They were subjected to the most inhumane treatment, for example, ECT, floggings, sleep deprivation, starvation, along with many other disgusting methods of trying to change their 'Moral weaknesses'. It was really only when AA came into being, that alcoholism started being treated as a
      'Health' issue. Even now, in 2021, there are people in the world (including doctors, psychiatrists, and psychologists), who still think that alcoholism is an indication of a 'lack of moral fibre'.
      By the way, Fr. Martin was a recovering alcoholic of many years standing.., which is why he knows so much about it.

  • @NavigatingOurFaith
    @NavigatingOurFaith 8 месяцев назад

    Deo Gratias 🙏

  • @patricklynch9574
    @patricklynch9574 Год назад +2

    You can have a drink as long as you control your drinking but if you're drinking controls you then you need help.
    I woke up drunk once and wanted my pain and misery to end and decided to drink myself back to sleep. Unfortunately my brother happened by my place he threw my liter and a half of wine out. With no other option I got the .22 placed it to my head cocked it and got a phone call from my dad about all the wonderful the gifts I had bought everybody which was a lie it was another thrift store Christmas. And then the police kicked in the door and dragged me off to the psych ward. I'm still here 10 years later. AA was not for me in the long run but it did help.

  • @markf3521
    @markf3521 Месяц назад

    I thought that when he said "now I would like to do something even more impossible" 42:50 that he was going to put on the ring of power and disappear like Bilbo did at his 111th birthday

  • @arboristo4407
    @arboristo4407 5 лет назад +2

    Wow❤️❤️❤️

  • @doctor4God
    @doctor4God 4 года назад +1

    Amen!!

  • @kc-qs8qg
    @kc-qs8qg 3 года назад +1

    many organisations use the serenity prayer, aa simply appropriates it - bill w was tripping his brains out on delerium tremons and hallucinogenic drugs when he was converted to frank buchmans oxford group in 1934 - the group had an official policy of never, ever dispensing charity to others, recruiting more members was the only way to 'help others selflessly' - in 1938 bill w rewrote the buchmanite practices of the ox group adding enough words like 'principles' to stretch the 6 absolutes of the oxford manifesto into the 12 steps - he wrote that the only cure for alcoholism is religious fanaticism/mania - in 1936 buchman, in an interview with the new york telegram stated 'i thank God for a man like adolf hitler...thru such a man god could control the world and solve every last bewildering problem...'' - the 3% success rate is correct - please see my other posts - aa is a cult - guru/bill w/big book is always right, u r always wrong, no exit, no graduation, deceptive practices, cult speak, group think, group is the only way, attack critics, members are special, fear inducement & mind control, thought stopping slogans, belief equals truth, don't trust ur mind or feelings, u owe the group, we have the panacea, progressive indoctrination, work for free, bombastic claims, denial of truth, unexplained miracles, mentoring, conformity, money grabbing, differing levels of truth, denigration of outsiders, instant intimacy/love bombing etc etc - believe in higher-power door knob, make conscious contact with god, people offering advice with no medical training - programme has nothing to do with alcohol - pure religious cult QUACKERY...

  • @charlesrosebushes7748
    @charlesrosebushes7748 Год назад

    At 4:45 to 6:00 minutes, he explains what step 1 really is.

  • @NFZ138
    @NFZ138 11 месяцев назад +1

    Good Better Best Never let it Rest! Until Your Good is Better and Your Better is Best!

  • @rgcv
    @rgcv 3 года назад +2

    35:24 made me cry