I feel so bad for my 7th grade chinese teacher. She was truly kind and such a pure soul, she got angry sometimes, but at reasonable things. She had a photo of her during her college years and I and some of my ex-friends were complimenting her gorgeousness. She was flattered but then she said, “I used to be pretty, but things changed now,” and laughed it off. My other (ex)friends laughed it off with her, but I said “Your beauty doesn’t go when you get old, it stays with you,” and tears. She cried and hugged me. I truly miss her so much and I hope her little family is doing well. She wasn’t that old either only 33.
@averybridson5886 no, it was done by the mothers, as feets where considered like a private part that men should not see (except for the husband). It was usually a ceremony with the aunts, grandmas and sisters, done in the second floor of the houses, that was the womens floor. After being bended, the girls had to walk in the room, what was extremely painful. They would keep walking every day until their finger's bones would break. 1 girl out of 10 died during the bounding, usually from infections. The process usually started when girls where 8yo.
@@InkedAliceit wasn’t just the beauty standards but also men and women of society try to cripple younger generation women for any type of physical work so they need man even in desperate times and just sit and be a trophy..
they also shit on themselves, drool on themselves, drop food all over themselves, giggle about random things, can't wipe their own backsides....are incapable of doing most things without supervision or help
Aegyosal is a korean word meaning 'cute fat'. Aegyo can be a noun or a verb which means acting cute and very innocent to garner the attention of others. This trend is also popular in china and japan.
It's not really a trend, it's more of a preference. The aegyosal trend has been created by SK. But this preference of pure looking beauties existed when China still had emperors
Damm my poor sister has the same type of ears and people make fun of her ears calling it elephant ears. Meanwhile Chinese people call it elf ears and its considered a beauty trend.
@@Lily-is-boredI'm Chinese and I just thought it's because children look youthful and so looking young like a child makes you seem like you got years ahead for you or sum lmfao but ye it's weird
@@katthestranger they could say youthful instead of childlike Mostly cause its man wanting to have a control on women they can't do it if the women looks strong and adult
初恋 describes one's first love / puppy love. Chinese beauty standards are geared towards the fresh, cute, innocent / pure, youthful girl-next-door / boy-next-door look reminiscient of one's first love / crush typically during their teenage years and is NOT about being child like. Besides, this beauty standard is also common in South Korea and Japan. "Aegyosal" (under eye fat) as mentioned in the video is a South Korean term.
@@lornam1142 Many asians look way younger than their actual age. I'm 27 but still get mistaken for being 18. Just because some people have a certain aesthetic standard doesn't automatically make them a pedophile 🙄
@@dreamxx I look very young for my age too. My point is more about the society as a whole and not an individual. In China, women who aren’t married by 25 are considered leftovers. The age of consent is 14. The fetishization of girls has real world consequences and affects how women of all ages are treated.
@@lornam1142 I do agree that fetishization is a big problem and can encourage sexual predation on young girls. That said, it's not fair to generalize and assume the worst of people that have certain aesthetic preferences (and I say that as a woman myself). Isn't the real issue the fact that people have a tendency to oversexualize everything which makes it impossible to have any kind of discussion about beauty / aesthetic standards without it eventually leading to this particular topic?
@@dreamxx These kinds of beauty standards are linked to that. So many beauty standards are meant to make women look super young and submissive. They want women to look like teenagers because teenagers are more malleable . There’s a reason this standard doesn’t exist for men. Having a preference for doll-like or youthful faces is similar but not creepy like preferring a child-like face.
Dont use your western experience to think about others, there are no psychos in other places as in the west. We dont have that history, we dont have that psychic mindset. Flies thought all others love shit as you guys？
Well, I think secretly majority of males prefer younger females, but it's just western media had more strict rules and laws on this topic when filming and photographing to push this concept away, so some people grew up in western countries were not aware of this. Lots of infamous males just divorce their wives when their wives reach 35, such as Tom Cruise, Elon Musk and Donald Trump.
exactly man. like shouldn't grown adults be attracted to grown adults AND NOT CHILDREN?? I'm convinced that a "childlike face" is a trend because people like children but know it's weird to like children.
Maybe childlike here refers to youthful features like having a baby face etc. those features are also attractive. Although, there's some cases that certain people are having weird fantasies about it.
Maybe it’s because they want to look Eurocentric. I went to East Asia and they said white women look more youthful because we have big eyes, slim nose and “small face”. They also always say we thend to have oval face more than them that is why they shave their jaw bone, apparently East Asian women have wider waves and jaw bone than use
@@XanaxMilf lmao no, ain't no way u said that european women are more childlike than east easians. European women have sharper features, east Asians have more childlike features. They have smaller faces, smaller lips, smaller noses etc. Eurocentric features are sharp not youthful. East Asians by the time they are 40 still look like they are over 25 while white women show signs of ages in their late 20s. Idk what u think east Asians look like but they have more oval and smaller faces. People who don't look like the masses tend to blend in by shaving their jaws etc.
@@bruhno1545 they didn’t say “child like” they said youthful. Know the different. Mainly in relation to us having bigger eyes, slim nose and “small face” which was a culture shock because to me my face don’t look small or I never thought about things like that. We european have sharpe features but we also have the combined with soft features if you’re a woman. That is because studies show we look more sexually dimorphic than East Asians that is why East Asian men and women look like the same gender they tend to be androgynous looking and usually their hair is what makes you tell. That is why it is easy for Asian men to a transowman but European men who look masculine. While European men and women have extreme masucline and feminine features setting us apart. Also japanese don’t have smaller faces, that is why they always say us European have small faces and also the reasons why they have surgery that shaves their bones while us European dont have it because our faces are smaller to theirs according to them. I didn’t see it until they mentioned and it is true. The average East Asian doesn’t look youthful you are watching too much Kpop who have surgery. If you go in the streets in Korea or Japan they have big faces and small eyes and that is the average face. Another lie people say is that they are mostly pale and it is not true: they have very yellow understones without whiter foundation. They have wider noses from the front view while we have slimmer smaller noses from the front view and their nose is flatter on the side view while we have taller noses on the side with projecting sharper tip that upturns(which is cool moon in us Scandinavian women). We also have a smaller nose tip that is defined while they’re is more bulbous and round. Their noses are not smaller it is just flatter and wider in the front. They also don’t have smaller lips, we have smaller lips. East Asians have fuller lips than us on average that is why lip Filler is more common in the west and Europe than in east Asia and Africans and they don’t have smaller face that is why they shave their face bone structure to look oval and small while we barely do that in the west because people here have smaller face
What do you mean 'someone tells you" 😅 most of these people think about it themselves and go for it.....themselves. let's not try to throw blame elsewhere
Fr. They could have called it “fresh faced” like we do in the states. Though tbf, it’s not really related to child-like youthfulness, but adult youthfulness.
@@btanna5591you're very pedantic for someone who needs to just wriiiiing those semantics for all they're worth. Having a degree in English lit doesn't mean you can't say something silly. You are wrong.
Guys, youthful and innocent does NOT equate to looking like a child. What is aimed for is an attractiveness that focuses on a lively and youthful beauty rather than on "sexy." The whole point is not to look like a child. The point is to look like you don't have the wrinkles and darkness that come with age and hard labor, and to come off as someone who is cheerful, optimistic, and not too sexually open. Most Chinese people don't find an appearance that gives off sexual openness to be attractive. Western aesthetics tend to come off as way too sexual.
Not only is it called "childlike face" but in your own explanation you described a child. Someone without wrinkles and darkness that come with age and hard labour, is quite literally a child
@@farewellsssit’s not “literally” childlike face, that’s her translation of it, “youthful face” or “young face” would have been accurate for the same term
Women don't understand that if a guy doesn't like you in your natural state, they ain't going to stay with you if you change yourself to fit what you think they want. Find someone who loves you as you are and not the you that you become with surgery and tons of make-up. Also if he does try and change you, it's time to have respect for yourself and walk away from that toxic man, same thing is to be said to men. Change if you want to, not because your partner wants you to.
what is this comment for? i don't agree with this beauty standard but not everything is about men and men aren't the reason why women want to look pretty lmao stfu
@@snehaprabhu8790 I just don't understand men's obsession with painting themselves as the victim and acting as if they are perfect good little human beings and no one with a p3nis can ever do anything wrong (ironic 💀). OP didn't blame men, she said if A DUDE doesn't want u how u are there's no point in changing urself.
Yep, just like the western ideal of a young, hairless, petite and obedient woman. The sexualization of childlike innocense is something I can not understand, not that I even want to. Idk how or why these things have become standard, but it makes me sick the more I think about it.
Yes, but considering that there are women who look super young for their age it can be confusing. I would hate for bfs and husbands with young looking wives be miscategorize as such because their gfs and wives have amazing "baby" face genes and good routine. It is a mixed baggage for me, since through my own personal experience many men avoid "baby" face women because of that. Not my fault I have the vampire genes, especially when I sleep well and use a peel off mask daily. Why should I be punished over my ancestors deciding to have babies with a chinese and mexican to have "baby" face genes. 💀🤷I definitely didn;t get my dads' genes on the youthful skin and appearance. ... and because of it I get punished with being mistaked as "too young" for a job because I look 20 years younger. It is that obsession with being afraid of being seen as a ped* for hiring someone who looks so young. Again, not my fault. Our society is so f-ed up.
@@LadyCoyKoi There is no way the baby faced girls in this video are genetically and naturally like that in China. It’s all the work of plastic surgeons. Their chins and jaws are literally chopped off to achieve that child like jaw to please the fetishes of men who set these ridiculous standards of beauty. Unless the men they procreate with are of another ethnicity, the babies will come out big headed with strong jaws like their mother’s forgotten original face.
The first time I notice man showing interest in me was when I was 13 years old, I was in my school uniform walking home and some man smiled at me with a creepy stare
@@iija5238 In the olden says youth was highly sought after in a woman because it meant she could have many children, and take care of the house and her husband much longer than an older woman could, and although times have changed, the desire for young people has not gone away, and youth is even sexualized across many cultures. Pedos have always existed, but the fact people who aren’t pedophiles are putting so much value on women’s youth is highly concerning, especially for the guys who go after women who just turned legal. We all know they’d go younger if they could.
Everyone's insecurity is considered to be a beauty somewhere or the other. I hate my dimples yet some people really want them 😅 I suppose we all want what we don't have-
I just found out that Hollywood actors- men AND women- do this to their scalp with a specific kind of tape! It supposedly makes face wrinkles smooth out for the camera without plastic surgery!😅
People are hating China but when we think about it it’s the same everywhere(I get it not EVERYWHERE). There’s these crazy beauty standards all around the world so instead of just throwing hate to one country we should try to stop beauty standards overall. For the billionth time, the beauty standard is to look YOUTHFUL NOT like a child
I think the reason why this one is especially bad is because the beauty standard there is to look like a child basically, it’s just gross and disgusting. Infantilising adults is just no
The beauty standard is basically to look like a child, I’ve never seen this outside Asia, if I saw one of these women in real life I would be creeped the f out, they don’t even look real
Chinese beauty standards are very strictly enforced in China, and promote literally looking as close to a child as possible and being borderline underweight so I’d say that’s a bit worse in some ways. I don’t agree with meaninglessly hating on china especially when other East Asian countries have a similar standard, but China is still especially bad with both the standards they have and how pressured women are to achieve them.
It's not the same. The beauty standard is 1. Very colorist, more so than in the U.S, 2. Very thinness-oriented, to the point that being underweight is considered "peak attractiveness". Natural curves - the beauty standard of the U.S, are healthy. Also, people who don't fit the beauty standard are judged more harshly in EA countries than they are in the U.S
As a Chinese, I’m telling you that is not Chinese beauty standard that I grew up with. Don’t generalize Chinese beauty standard by some sick online beauty trends. Chinese doesn’t just have one beauty standard. Why don’t you look at the more mainstream beauty standard of Chinese women? Mature, graceful, confident and independent.
Actually chinese just like the rest of Asia prefer woman with oval face. This childlike baby face only happened around 2 decades ago Meanwhile in west, they prefer woman with muscular feature such as square jaw
@@arx117 that is the current trends in popular online culture. But look at the actors and actresses in older dramas and movies, and all the TV hosts. Those faces are the main stream beauty standard.
i have a chinese friend shes beautiful and slim, she never plastic surgery, but she used a face cream and a gentle soap to make her face baby, and she likes aerobics exercise ,dancing zumba to make her fit and slim
Ok as a Chinese I need to say that the "childlike face" doesn't actually mean they want to look like a 13 year old but more of 18 or 17, just kinda youthful, not a baby face bruh
I think you are right. It’s an attraction to innocence instead of the throw lady parts in your face we see here in the US. Our culture cannot comprehend an innocent attraction over an extremely sexual one. It makes me sad for people to impose that filter on your culture. I’m so sorry.
As an Asian, I consider Asian beauty standards as far too strict and ridiculous. There's no variation in how someone should look Growing up as a mixed race Asian in an Asian household was difficult. I meet none of the standards so I have felt extremely unattractive However, since American beauty standards are a little more varied,I fall into the "exotic" category. I've had people tell me I'm beautiful, cute etc. But I will never feel like it with all the pressure I faced as a child and teenager. I was pushed to meet the standards of Korean society while growing up in American society and while not looking Korean. Please be kind to yourself.. If you wanna lose weight, look better, feel better etc, do it. It'll take work and a change in diet and stuff but it's way better than having plastic surgery to meet impossible standards. You can get plastic surgery if you want but don't get it to please anyone else. Don't do it just to get someone's attention. You have to do it for you
I will also say if the beauty standards you’re trying to meet are actually impossible don’t bother trying to lose weight to meet those either… work out and diet to better your physical strength and health, otherwise you might end up with very unhealthy eating or workout patterns which can get dangerous quick, especially with the very thin body that Koreans expect.
I feel this so much. I’m mixed Asian too and don’t fit into the beauty standards of South Korea and Japan (what I’m made up of) I’m looked at as exotic in the U.S. as well. I’m mixed with white as well and I feel like I don’t even fit into any of the standards anywhere- lol The pressure is real and the standards are unrealistic I absolutely agree with you. I look like a good mix of both but I don’t fit into the standards in Asia or America? I do more so in the U.S. but definitely not in places like Korea. And plastic surgery sounds a bit scary so-
I'm mixed, but mostly white and have the most Asian features of my generation in my family, but also the whitest coloring. Growing up I struggled with never meeting the American beauty standards of looking elegant, sexy, and beautiful. Later I realized all of my previous insecurities that cause me to look very different than women on TV were because they are Asian features! American society has this idea that if you're naturally blonde you're super white and have to fit this box, but when I discovered my smile, chin, eyes, under eye bags, face shape, ect was all just Japanese and were sought after there, it was really relieving and freeing for me. Now ive learned to embrace looking cute and childlike versus the general beauty standard (though its still a bit hard). Crazy how that happens, huh? It's nice to see someone else went through the same thing, though I'm sorry you did as well! Glad we aren't alone! 😁 Being from different races can be so confusing sometimes...
It’s truly concerning how many people go under the knife to achieve a type of beauty that will be short lived. It’s one thing if you want to get your old face back or something after going through a traumatizing event, like a fire or acid burn, but doing it simply to fit the mold that will be discarded for the next “best” thing is heartbreaking.
Aint that the truth. In my youth, blonde hair, tanned skin was popular. Me being pale skinned brunette, I was confident in who I was/am. I did not care what was in style. Confidence is the key to beauty. But you wait awhile, your looks may be back in style one day, at least for short time.
@@carolinehannah5188 that too is also true, beauty & fashion trends become recycled & rebranded as something new or better when it’s already been done before, which further proves you will never be “pretty” to those trends’ standards.
Instead of referring to it as a childlike face, it refers to more of a cute and youthful look. I think Chinese people just prefer a cute and non-intimidating look. That is why they like the short/round face shape, big eyes and delicate features.
right...cuz this vid spreads so much misinfo with its wording. it got all these white people concerned about pedophilia when it's the western world that struggles more with pedophilia
So true, I'm Chinese and I don't believe the vampire ghost face skin is all that attractive as East Asian beauty standards make it to be. Tan is beautiful
Not even 12, more like 8😭 Ive legit never seen that head and ear shape (which is different than large or protruding eats some adults have) on someone passed puberty.
I feel you. 😂 mixed race Korean. No one thinks I'm Korean even though I am very culturally Korean. My coloring, shape and hair texture is all wrong. All I hear them say one they find out I'm Korean is " she's Korean... How is she Korean?!" Not knowing that I speak Korean😂 It's sad.
Nah I’m sure you’re cute, l think this youthful type of beauty standard is more popular with the older gens as I’ve been seeing more and more younger people having the same style as you
it is not really THAT big of a deal in China now, there are a lot of different styles, and a lot of people like ur style as well (like me) this child-like trend is just 1 type of trend. And not everyone like these childlike trend (some people actually hate it because a lot of people does this "filter" to idk how to say it in English but like "seduce" the viewers and to get money online.) but overall I still think that this childlike trend has to stop, or at least to not be that big of a deal anymore.
@@violetvictoria7248I mean I’m not saying it’s my ideal look just a lot more appealing than the caked on wannabe Kardashian look where one is over bronzed
Can we please stop sexualising cute things. Cute is cute. It's supposed to be adorable and lovely. Not sexy or hot. It shouldn't make you feel things in the lower region.
@artoras6098 It didn't, but in most Asian countries, looking "young and cute" is considered attractive. Then they have creeps everywhere. If they stopped sexualising cuteness, there would be less creeps.
East Asian beauty standards are insane😨 i will never understand their obsession with white skin child like appearance and being insanely having to be insanely skinny and surgery i heard some parents offering their child plastic surgery for doing well in exam as gifts 😰😖
the last one is korea. and as for the pale skin, in ancient times people who worked in the farms were tanned and darker, meaning they were poor. while rich people lived inside and didn’t have to work at all aka had clear and fair skin. it’s a very toxic form of colorism that is still rampant in asia.
Keep in mind that asians tend to look younger than other races, so their concept of a youthful woman looks like a grown woman to them. But to westerners, it looks like children
@@vl1180they are definitely the youngest looking race and not just because of aging (but Asians do age well just like black ppl) but because of the physical traits within their race ie. round face, flat head, flat small noses etc.
It's essentially the same as the girl next door kind of beauty. It's kind of explained badly in this video. But anyways, it won't last long, Chinese beauty trends are always switching back and forth between the cute girl next door to the unreachable mature beauty. Actually, right now, "mommies" and yujie are super popular.
Okay, as someone with a young looking baby face, I don't feel pretty by American standards. I always go out with a ton of makeup and still look like a child, even though I'm 21. If you saw me, you'd think I was a lot younger. I mean, the whole "childlike' thing is weird but nothing wrong with a more innocent and pretty look, not everyone has to have the "hot baddie" look.
I think there may be something lost in translation because it's not 'childlike', it's youthful face. Basically, if you are of a petite figure. Small face and big eyes. In a cute sense, not a 'looking like a child' sense XD
@@tomatorama still disturbing how they're getting all these invasive treatments and surgeries to look younger. Especially the surgery around the eyes is scary.
It is period. Why I constantly question how anime keeps getting weird and becoming pedo material. The characters never seem to look like adults in this generation. Gross.
@@tomatorama what you described is literally a child and the beauty standards point to childlike feature and behavior that they find cute. stop acting like it's not. it's pedophilia
@@tomatoramayouthful = a words used to describe usually a young teenager or child. Youthful face = literally someone who has the face of a young teenager or child. You're sick for defending this.
same bruh, I look like the Chinese beauty standards, except I'm not that skinny, and I don't have a very v-shaped jawline, I can't believe people want to look like me. I hate my appearance, I guess maybe I need to get the right hairstyle to complete the look, but I hate it.
Girl, I can relate too I am not very skinny, but I have a V-shaped jawline and girl try cutting curtain bangs if your parents don't allow u to then try French braids or bubble braids hope this helped💖
It's such an unintelligent conversation......people need to get over themselves as trust me we all going the same way. Time stands still for no one. Unless the age process can be reversed but not in our lifetime ✌️😎🙏
It's about wanting to look youthful because it's about aspiring to be healthy, not necessarily childlike. Being too childlike is actually not revered in China because it means you're immature.
I am Chinese American and I am almost 30 and I like people who look “ child like “ face too! Its not as weird as people think ! Doesnt mean you are a pedophile or a groomer . I like “ child like “ face because when I was young I love anime . And what does an anime character loon like ? Big eyes . Small lips . Small nose and round shape head ., and also less structures and more “ flat “and for anime boys , well shaven . You dont see boys in anime having facial hair And those features usually consider “ child like “ and youthful. When I see some adults with “ child like “ faces they dont remind of children or teenagers . They reminded me of anime characters. And since I grew up watching anime I consider people resemble those looks beautiful . Yes i know anime characters are not real and real people dont look like that but i do find people who have slightly resembles that look attractive
Wow since when did plastic surgery become more popular in China. I still don't know anyone who's had it from China. I know it's more common in Korea for sure. Also, it's about wanting to look youthful because it's about aspiring to be healthy, not necessarily childlike. Being too childlike is actually not revered in China because it means you're immature.
I thought it was kind of common in east asia countries for people who can afford it and give a f on how they look. China i thought would be the same as korea in that regard.
Actually these people are way generous then those who undergo various treatments just to look beautiful. These people don't waste their time on nonsense like "fitting in beauty standards". Loving yourself the way you are is the biggest blessing that one can get because no one can make you insecure about how you look or what your external features are. These people just promote inner beauty.
It’s american trend mentality to be «good enough» the way you are, they were raised on this culture brainwash to do minimal effort and to be ok to live in poverty in us
In elementary school my nickname was "troll ears" for a while lol, was surprised to see them on a list like this. But honestly, everything either already has been or will eventually become a trend, I think it's beautiful
Now i am quite proud of the beauty standards at my motherland. Let me list it: -Golden skin colour -Doe eyes -Healthy figure( not obese, not skinny) -Moon personality( calm, bright etc) -Red lips - Long, Black, Straight hair - Small Asian nose -soothing voice ( people actually practice to speak softly) Tbh, this has been the standards for more than 1000 years, it was inspired from a princess who was believed to be the most beautiful at her time. If you have any 2 of the mentioned above, you will get compliments even from strangers..😅 I feel like the standards are more healthy. Easy to achieve ❤
I've actually heard that Chinese tend to like more womanly looking women than Korea and Japan. This is the first time I've heard of child like faces being a thing. I think she means youthful, not literally looking like a child. But I think this may be some online trends rather than what everyone wants in China.
omg I used to be insecure about how my ears are sticking out. now knowing that they literally taped their ears to achieve what I have is such a self confidence booster.
I have elf ears. This video made me realized the reason for having s small face. My mom used to hide my ears by covering it with hairs but still stick out. I used to feel shy about it but as i grew older i learnt to ignore it and just accepted that its part of who i am 😂
And my mom intentionally made my ear like that when I am not even chineese I am Indian but my mom liked a footballer ear (saurab ganguli-wrong spelling maybe) and when I grew up a little I asked my mom "look mom mine and the rats ear look same" only after I said that she realised that she made a mistake
A beautiful woman is confident, kind and compassionate. Sadly, modification of a young woman's physical appearance has nothing to do with one's character. Chinese woman, as is, are amazingly attractive and good hearted. I've met many fine people from China.
I have those features and I do get attention but if I went to China, I would not be considered attractive simply because I'm African American. It's sad when you want to have something like a simple life with someone but you must become a beauty standard first before even achieving it. The world we live in is so vain. Vanity, it's all vanity.
CHINESE women are naturally “pao laeng” beautiful. They don’t need any plastic surgery… like my wife who is a Sino-Khmer (Chinese Cambodian): adorable, voluptuous, smart, and kind. Love l❤her everyday.
And me here in the middle of nowhere I just ruined my baby face to look like adult matured youth and I later realized that I need to be just the way I am but it was already late gosh
I think having natural looks is better having plastic surgery can have bad side effects Edit:beauty standards are mostly impossible to reach and toxic so having natural looks is better
I couldn't agree less. As I know, Chinese men likes all types of women. That's over-generalizing. Also, I think that is more like what women thinks men likes.
I feel so bad for my 7th grade chinese teacher. She was truly kind and such a pure soul, she got angry sometimes, but at reasonable things. She had a photo of her during her college years and I and some of my ex-friends were complimenting her gorgeousness. She was flattered but then she said, “I used to be pretty, but things changed now,” and laughed it off. My other (ex)friends laughed it off with her, but I said “Your beauty doesn’t go when you get old, it stays with you,” and tears. She cried and hugged me. I truly miss her so much and I hope her little family is doing well. She wasn’t that old either only 33.
you have a kind soul♡
@@alwayswithpalestine thank u, i truly believe everybody is pretty in their own ways
33 year aged teachers are pretty much considered young here 😅
mine is 25-
Awwww :)
From bound feet to taped ears.
You good the way you are.
@@hdajq892ey7I mean yeah but it was still a result of the beauty standards at the time
@@hdajq892ey7idk bout you but my school said it was the mothers so the could get men
@averybridson5886 no, it was done by the mothers, as feets where considered like a private part that men should not see (except for the husband). It was usually a ceremony with the aunts, grandmas and sisters, done in the second floor of the houses, that was the womens floor. After being bended, the girls had to walk in the room, what was extremely painful. They would keep walking every day until their finger's bones would break. 1 girl out of 10 died during the bounding, usually from infections. The process usually started when girls where 8yo.
@@hdajq892ey7 not by the fathers but the mothers.
@@InkedAliceit wasn’t just the beauty standards but also men and women of society try to cripple younger generation women for any type of physical work so they need man even in desperate times and just sit and be a trophy..
“you have a beautiful daughter”
- that’s my wife
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Underrated
Children in china : 😉😎😼
什麼是真實的
basic 我的年齡是 8 但基礎
Pure, youthful and innocent, that’s literally what a child is
they also shit on themselves, drool on themselves, drop food all over themselves, giggle about random things, can't wipe their own backsides....are incapable of doing most things without supervision or help
@@juleswifey6003 i was talking about a child in general not a toddler, but yeah
@juleswifey6003 did you do all that when you were 12? I feel sorry for your parents
innocent..yeah.
@@Jkjoannaki I'm still doing it now. I'm 20 😆
China be doing this while Americans tryna look like Kim kardashian
Frr 💀
i can’t tell which one is worse 😭
And kim trying to look like a black woman
Both are bad
😂😂😂
Aegyosal is a korean word meaning 'cute fat'. Aegyo can be a noun or a verb which means acting cute and very innocent to garner the attention of others. This trend is also popular in china and japan.
Sounds like a “child” tryna attract pedos🧍🏻♀️💀
pretty much everything in korea came from china
It's not really a trend, it's more of a preference. The aegyosal trend has been created by SK. But this preference of pure looking beauties existed when China still had emperors
@@yangliu7486 let call it by what it is
Pedophilia
Damm my poor sister has the same type of ears and people make fun of her ears calling it elephant ears. Meanwhile Chinese people call it elf ears and its considered a beauty trend.
It's kinda sad how we can't live without judging and having beauty standards... You're all beautiful (◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*。
And the aegyo sal, my sister has it but she dislikes it.
My friend also has that type of ears and everyone calls her a monkey
@@myheartwillgowonandon5467aww ur reply is so wholesome 😭
I have those ears too! I hate mine personally, but its nice to be aware that i'm not the only one who has them.
You know there’s a problem when the beauty standard is a “child like” face.
@@Lily-is-boredI'm Chinese and I just thought it's because children look youthful and so looking young like a child makes you seem like you got years ahead for you or sum lmfao but ye it's weird
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@@katthestrangeryea! it can pass decently for "beauty" but add sexual attraction into the equation and things get creepy fast
@@katthestranger they could say youthful instead of childlike
Mostly cause its man wanting to have a control on women they can't do it if the women looks strong and adult
@@Lily-is-boredit’s because that’s what the men are more drawn to yk, at least in China ;-; edit: I’m sure it’s other countries too
初恋 describes one's first love / puppy love. Chinese beauty standards are geared towards the fresh, cute, innocent / pure, youthful girl-next-door / boy-next-door look reminiscient of one's first love / crush typically during their teenage years and is NOT about being child like. Besides, this beauty standard is also common in South Korea and Japan. "Aegyosal" (under eye fat) as mentioned in the video is a South Korean term.
Still pandering to people who like underage girls.
@@lornam1142 Many asians look way younger than their actual age. I'm 27 but still get mistaken for being 18. Just because some people have a certain aesthetic standard doesn't automatically make them a pedophile 🙄
@@dreamxx I look very young for my age too. My point is more about the society as a whole and not an individual. In China, women who aren’t married by 25 are considered leftovers. The age of consent is 14. The fetishization of girls has real world consequences and affects how women of all ages are treated.
@@lornam1142 I do agree that fetishization is a big problem and can encourage sexual predation on young girls. That said, it's not fair to generalize and assume the worst of people that have certain aesthetic preferences (and I say that as a woman myself). Isn't the real issue the fact that people have a tendency to oversexualize everything which makes it impossible to have any kind of discussion about beauty / aesthetic standards without it eventually leading to this particular topic?
@@dreamxx These kinds of beauty standards are linked to that. So many beauty standards are meant to make women look super young and submissive. They want women to look like teenagers because teenagers are more malleable . There’s a reason this standard doesn’t exist for men. Having a preference for doll-like or youthful faces is similar but not creepy like preferring a child-like face.
if chinese beauty standards means looking like a child, then this just got a lot darker 💀💀
Right?!?!
Both western and Chinese beauty standards are just absolutely terrible.
Dont use your western experience to think about others, there are no psychos in other places as in the west.
We dont have that history, we dont have that psychic mindset.
Flies thought all others love shit as you guys？
Well, I think secretly majority of males prefer younger females, but it's just western media had more strict rules and laws on this topic when filming and photographing to push this concept away, so some people grew up in western countries were not aware of this. Lots of infamous males just divorce their wives when their wives reach 35, such as Tom Cruise, Elon Musk and Donald Trump.
What are you on about. Universally, people like very youthful females :skull:
“Child like” is insane bro
exactly man. like shouldn't grown adults be attracted to grown adults AND NOT CHILDREN?? I'm convinced that a "childlike face" is a trend because people like children but know it's weird to like children.
Maybe childlike here refers to youthful features like having a baby face etc. those features are also attractive. Although, there's some cases that certain people are having weird fantasies about it.
She could've used youthful instead lol
Childlike is so weird and uncomfortable
Crazy bro
@@lokinot123 people having a preference for women to look like children
Literally anyone who has morals and a brain:Jail rn
Imagine being a grown ass woman and someone tells you: "YoU NEeD a ChiLdLikE FaCe"😶💀
Fr like wtf your not 9 years old no more 💀
Maybe it’s because they want to look Eurocentric. I went to East Asia and they said white women look more youthful because we have big eyes, slim nose and “small face”. They also always say we thend to have oval face more than them that is why they shave their jaw bone, apparently East Asian women have wider waves and jaw bone than use
@@XanaxMilf lmao no, ain't no way u said that european women are more childlike than east easians. European women have sharper features, east Asians have more childlike features. They have smaller faces, smaller lips, smaller noses etc. Eurocentric features are sharp not youthful. East Asians by the time they are 40 still look like they are over 25 while white women show signs of ages in their late 20s. Idk what u think east Asians look like but they have more oval and smaller faces. People who don't look like the masses tend to blend in by shaving their jaws etc.
@@bruhno1545 they didn’t say “child like” they said youthful. Know the different. Mainly in relation to us having bigger eyes, slim nose and “small face” which was a culture shock because to me my face don’t look small or I never thought about things like that. We european have sharpe features but we also have the combined with soft features if you’re a woman. That is because studies show we look more sexually dimorphic than East Asians that is why East Asian men and women look like the same gender they tend to be androgynous looking and usually their hair is what makes you tell. That is why it is easy for Asian men to a transowman but
European men who look masculine. While European men and women have extreme masucline and feminine features setting us apart. Also japanese don’t have smaller faces, that is why they always say us European have small faces and also the reasons why they have surgery that shaves their bones while us European dont have it because our faces are smaller to theirs according to them. I didn’t see it until they mentioned and it is true. The average East Asian doesn’t look youthful you are watching too much Kpop who have surgery. If you go in the streets in Korea or Japan they have big faces and small eyes and that is the average face. Another lie people say is that they are mostly pale and it is not true: they have very yellow understones without whiter foundation. They have wider noses from the front view while we have slimmer smaller noses from the front view and their nose is flatter on the side view while we have taller noses on the side with projecting sharper tip that upturns(which is cool moon in us Scandinavian women). We also have a smaller nose tip that is defined while they’re is more bulbous and round. Their noses are not smaller it is just flatter and wider in the front. They also don’t have smaller lips, we have smaller lips. East Asians have fuller lips than us on average that is why lip
Filler is more common in the west and Europe than in east Asia and Africans and they don’t have smaller face that is why they shave their face bone structure to look oval and small while we barely do that in the west because people here have smaller face
What do you mean 'someone tells you" 😅 most of these people think about it themselves and go for it.....themselves. let's not try to throw blame elsewhere
They could literally use anything else to describe it like youthful face or something but no, "child-like" 💀
Fr. They could have called it “fresh faced” like we do in the states. Though tbf, it’s not really related to child-like youthfulness, but adult youthfulness.
Because a child's face is perfect, no blemishes, their hormones are not activated yet, that's why they have smooth skin.
@@btanna5591 Child-like: (of an adult) having good qualities associated with a child.
Did you even check a dictionary?
@@btanna5591you're very pedantic for someone who needs to just wriiiiing those semantics for all they're worth. Having a degree in English lit doesn't mean you can't say something silly. You are wrong.
"child-like" isn't necessarily a positive word in Chinese. It's rare to see people use this word as compliment although it exists.
Guys, youthful and innocent does NOT equate to looking like a child. What is aimed for is an attractiveness that focuses on a lively and youthful beauty rather than on "sexy." The whole point is not to look like a child. The point is to look like you don't have the wrinkles and darkness that come with age and hard labor, and to come off as someone who is cheerful, optimistic, and not too sexually open. Most Chinese people don't find an appearance that gives off sexual openness to be attractive. Western aesthetics tend to come off as way too sexual.
@@moonishly. Yeah, the denial and cope is strong with @catinabox3048 😂
They like women who act like kids and look like kids, undereveloped.
Not only is it called "childlike face" but in your own explanation you described a child. Someone without wrinkles and darkness that come with age and hard labour, is quite literally a child
@@farewellsssit’s not “literally” childlike face, that’s her translation of it, “youthful face” or “young face” would have been accurate for the same term
@@farewellsssthe name is not actually "chuldlike face" its a mistranslation, its just "youthful fave"
“Childlike face” is literally so concerning wtf
I think the translation is a little off 😭 the meaning leans towards youthful more than actually childlike
They meant "Baby-faced"
So many women have it naturally (I do too) so I don't see why that's a negative thing
@@sarah37452 I do too and I often get mistaken for being underaged. If men liked me for that I would be seriously concerned.
@@caringcherry idgaf y’all about the semantics, that’s still the same meaning 💀
@@caringcherryyeah but it's to do with a child-like face being seen as sexually attractive that's the issue in the first place
Women don't understand that if a guy doesn't like you in your natural state, they ain't going to stay with you if you change yourself to fit what you think they want. Find someone who loves you as you are and not the you that you become with surgery and tons of make-up. Also if he does try and change you, it's time to have respect for yourself and walk away from that toxic man, same thing is to be said to men. Change if you want to, not because your partner wants you to.
Why are men coming in the middle of this?
what is this comment for? i don't agree with this beauty standard but not everything is about men and men aren't the reason why women want to look pretty lmao stfu
@loba_18 thats not a reason to blame a man
@@snehaprabhu8790 I just don't understand men's obsession with painting themselves as the victim and acting as if they are perfect good little human beings and no one with a p3nis can ever do anything wrong (ironic 💀). OP didn't blame men, she said if A DUDE doesn't want u how u are there's no point in changing urself.
(Some more some less. I watch enough Catfish and have seen the exact opposite of what you're saying lol. )
Zhao lusi is so beautiful
It’s creepy how features of young people and babies are the beauty standards
Frfr
bro says americans whos beauty standards is freaking kim kardashian.
@@user-rx9lq1hp5xKim Kardashian is a grown woman
Children are not.
Big difference
@@user-rx9lq1hp5x be serious, she is NOT the beauty standard lmao.
@@user-rx9lq1hp5xI prefer the beauty standard resembling an adult like Kim K than a 5 year old child.
"childish face"
"Innocence"
"Baby eyes"
This seems a little pedophilic, dont yall think???
Yep, just like the western ideal of a young, hairless, petite and obedient woman. The sexualization of childlike innocense is something I can not understand, not that I even want to. Idk how or why these things have become standard, but it makes me sick the more I think about it.
Yes, but considering that there are women who look super young for their age it can be confusing. I would hate for bfs and husbands with young looking wives be miscategorize as such because their gfs and wives have amazing "baby" face genes and good routine. It is a mixed baggage for me, since through my own personal experience many men avoid "baby" face women because of that. Not my fault I have the vampire genes, especially when I sleep well and use a peel off mask daily.
Why should I be punished over my ancestors deciding to have babies with a chinese and mexican to have "baby" face genes. 💀🤷I definitely didn;t get my dads' genes on the youthful skin and appearance. ... and because of it I get punished with being mistaked as "too young" for a job because I look 20 years younger. It is that obsession with being afraid of being seen as a ped* for hiring someone who looks so young. Again, not my fault. Our society is so f-ed up.
@@LadyCoyKoi There is no way the baby faced girls in this video are genetically and naturally like that in China. It’s all the work of plastic surgeons. Their chins and jaws are literally chopped off to achieve that child like jaw to please the fetishes of men who set these ridiculous standards of beauty. Unless the men they procreate with are of another ethnicity, the babies will come out big headed with strong jaws like their mother’s forgotten original face.
The first time I notice man showing interest in me was when I was 13 years old, I was in my school uniform walking home and some man smiled at me with a creepy stare
@@iija5238 In the olden says youth was highly sought after in a woman because it meant she could have many children, and take care of the house and her husband much longer than an older woman could, and although times have changed, the desire for young people has not gone away, and youth is even sexualized across many cultures. Pedos have always existed, but the fact people who aren’t pedophiles are putting so much value on women’s youth is highly concerning, especially for the guys who go after women who just turned legal. We all know they’d go younger if they could.
Chinese girls are so pretty 🤩
Can't believe my insecurity about my ears sticking out is a beauty standard in another part of the world lol
Everyone's insecurity is considered to be a beauty somewhere or the other. I hate my dimples yet some people really want them 😅 I suppose we all want what we don't have-
But the ear thing have to also complement your face too
lol ikr! my ears are fused together to form elf ears
@@pinkcattonot big noses of big chins
I think elf ears are really cute
You know it's messed up when they even feel the need to "beautify" their freaking SCALP
I just found out that Hollywood actors- men AND women- do this to their scalp with a specific kind of tape! It supposedly makes face wrinkles smooth out for the camera without plastic surgery!😅
Er.... Have toy seen what women do to their bodies in the west? Remember, it's just for themselves, nothing remotely relate to men 🙄
That's why you don't know how to cook, you don't even know how to dish your hair, you just poop on the street
They're stunning.
People are hating China but when we think about it it’s the same everywhere(I get it not EVERYWHERE). There’s these crazy beauty standards all around the world so instead of just throwing hate to one country we should try to stop beauty standards overall.
For the billionth time, the beauty standard is to look YOUTHFUL NOT like a child
I think the reason why this one is especially bad is because the beauty standard there is to look like a child basically, it’s just gross and disgusting. Infantilising adults is just no
The beauty standard is basically to look like a child, I’ve never seen this outside Asia, if I saw one of these women in real life I would be creeped the f out, they don’t even look real
Chinese beauty standards are very strictly enforced in China, and promote literally looking as close to a child as possible and being borderline underweight so I’d say that’s a bit worse in some ways. I don’t agree with meaninglessly hating on china especially when other East Asian countries have a similar standard, but China is still especially bad with both the standards they have and how pressured women are to achieve them.
@@pannajohns5255exactly
It's not the same. The beauty standard is 1. Very colorist, more so than in the U.S, 2. Very thinness-oriented, to the point that being underweight is considered "peak attractiveness". Natural curves - the beauty standard of the U.S, are healthy. Also, people who don't fit the beauty standard are judged more harshly in EA countries than they are in the U.S
As a Chinese, I’m telling you that is not Chinese beauty standard that I grew up with. Don’t generalize Chinese beauty standard by some sick online beauty trends. Chinese doesn’t just have one beauty standard. Why don’t you look at the more mainstream beauty standard of Chinese women? Mature, graceful, confident and independent.
Actually chinese just like the rest of Asia prefer woman with oval face. This childlike baby face only happened around 2 decades ago
Meanwhile in west, they prefer woman with muscular feature such as square jaw
@@arx117 that is the current trends in popular online culture. But look at the actors and actresses in older dramas and movies, and all the TV hosts. Those faces are the main stream beauty standard.
你可真听话😂别人说你审美标准不对，你立刻跪下了？😂他们说你恋童癖，你就真恋童了？中国人对孩子纯洁安全的保护要比欧美强太多了。中国文化里就没有“恋童”这个概念！而欧美文化里到处可见。
I'm still hanging on my dear life till my face becomes the trend😅😂
I swear 😂😂😂
😂😂😭😭
Haha loved this response
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
More than half of these clips were filters. Their trend is just being fake af.
All the women in this video are very pretty
Too much filter and modification.
@@tiffany_568😂
They all had plastic surgery and are using heavy filter and makeup. They don't actually look like that when they wake up. Don't be so stupid.
@@FriedToiletDuckRice I’m an heterosexual sexual woman who is ok with makeup , beauty filters, etc.
@@tiffany_568Zhao Lusy is natural
I’m so happy I wasn’t born in china
Same
Or Korea
i’m glad i was not born in uganda 👍
Fr
I was born in Nigeria
Theres beauty in everyone don't think you have to change your natural Apperance to fit someones standard your all gorgeous ❤
Thank you! You’re beautiful too ❤❤
not in Georger Bush Jrs face😅
i have a chinese friend shes beautiful and slim, she never plastic surgery, but she used a face cream and a gentle soap to make her face baby, and she likes aerobics exercise ,dancing zumba to make her fit and slim
Ok as a Chinese I need to say that the "childlike face" doesn't actually mean they want to look like a 13 year old but more of 18 or 17, just kinda youthful, not a baby face bruh
The pictures and behaviours say something different...
@@auraluna7679East Asian 17-18 yo naturally looks like that
I think you are right. It’s an attraction to innocence instead of the throw lady parts in your face we see here in the US. Our culture cannot comprehend an innocent attraction over an extremely sexual one. It makes me sad for people to impose that filter on your culture. I’m so sorry.
The beauty standard everywhere should be to age gracefully...
@@wendyduncan9084Bro stop acting like the Chinese are pure here they’re as dirty as the Americans
As an Asian, I consider Asian beauty standards as far too strict and ridiculous. There's no variation in how someone should look
Growing up as a mixed race Asian in an Asian household was difficult. I meet none of the standards so I have felt extremely unattractive
However, since American beauty standards are a little more varied,I fall into the "exotic" category. I've had people tell me I'm beautiful, cute etc. But I will never feel like it with all the pressure I faced as a child and teenager. I was pushed to meet the standards of Korean society while growing up in American society and while not looking Korean.
Please be kind to yourself.. If you wanna lose weight, look better, feel better etc, do it. It'll take work and a change in diet and stuff but it's way better than having plastic surgery to meet impossible standards.
You can get plastic surgery if you want but don't get it to please anyone else. Don't do it just to get someone's attention. You have to do it for you
You are from east asia right cause' south asia is chill if being honest and the only standard is I to have fair skin nothing else lmfao
I will also say if the beauty standards you’re trying to meet are actually impossible don’t bother trying to lose weight to meet those either… work out and diet to better your physical strength and health, otherwise you might end up with very unhealthy eating or workout patterns which can get dangerous quick, especially with the very thin body that Koreans expect.
tendency to create hierarchies based on differences causes suffering.
I feel this so much. I’m mixed Asian too and don’t fit into the beauty standards of South Korea and Japan (what I’m made up of)
I’m looked at as exotic in the U.S. as well. I’m mixed with white as well and I feel like I don’t even fit into any of the standards anywhere- lol
The pressure is real and the standards are unrealistic I absolutely agree with you. I look like a good mix of both but I don’t fit into the standards in Asia or America? I do more so in the U.S. but definitely not in places like Korea. And plastic surgery sounds a bit scary so-
I'm mixed, but mostly white and have the most Asian features of my generation in my family, but also the whitest coloring. Growing up I struggled with never meeting the American beauty standards of looking elegant, sexy, and beautiful. Later I realized all of my previous insecurities that cause me to look very different than women on TV were because they are Asian features! American society has this idea that if you're naturally blonde you're super white and have to fit this box, but when I discovered my smile, chin, eyes, under eye bags, face shape, ect was all just Japanese and were sought after there, it was really relieving and freeing for me. Now ive learned to embrace looking cute and childlike versus the general beauty standard (though its still a bit hard). Crazy how that happens, huh? It's nice to see someone else went through the same thing, though I'm sorry you did as well! Glad we aren't alone! 😁 Being from different races can be so confusing sometimes...
Beauty is beauty, no matter which kind of beautiful it may be. It is your thoughts that are too dirty and stain beauty.
It’s truly concerning how many people go under the knife to achieve a type of beauty that will be short lived. It’s one thing if you want to get your old face back or something after going through a traumatizing event, like a fire or acid burn, but doing it simply to fit the mold that will be discarded for the next “best” thing is heartbreaking.
Aint that the truth. In my youth, blonde hair, tanned skin was popular. Me being pale skinned brunette, I was confident in who I was/am. I did not care what was in style. Confidence is the key to beauty. But you wait awhile, your looks may be back in style one day, at least for short time.
@@carolinehannah5188 that too is also true, beauty & fashion trends become recycled & rebranded as something new or better when it’s already been done before, which further proves you will never be “pretty” to those trends’ standards.
Whats considered pretty actually: A kind heart ❤️ and helping nature 😃
Spread positivity 😊
That's because you're an ideal human not poisoned and brainwashed by societal influences and vices.
@@SephirothWaifuye
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Video: What considered pretty in China ?
Me and my Indian homies: Who cares??💀
Instead of referring to it as a childlike face, it refers to more of a cute and youthful look. I think Chinese people just prefer a cute and non-intimidating look. That is why they like the short/round face shape, big eyes and delicate features.
right...cuz this vid spreads so much misinfo with its wording. it got all these white people concerned about pedophilia when it's the western world that struggles more with pedophilia
no, there's no excuse around this
@@poppyblue1512 im not saying this is necessarily healthy or good. But its just the beauty style/trend in China at the moment.
@@poppyblue1512they're grown adults mate, they're allowed to want a youthful look
I think their consent age is 14, so their likes are for a reason, the adult women try to emulate that beauty
Y’all need to search tan Chinese woman they are so beautiful
So true, I'm Chinese and I don't believe the vampire ghost face skin is all that attractive as East Asian beauty standards make it to be. Tan is beautiful
Pale is better though
@@yolandastargaze4565 ngl Tanned people from anywhere in the world are more beautiful than White people or Black people
@@Krishu-ec8vy girl what
@@yolandastargaze4565 I already wrote what i mean
I didn't know that! But I do absolutely love seeing the historical hanfu from China. Its so pretty 🥰🥰🥰
You mean hanbok? That is Korean, stop stealing Korean culture and pretending it is Chinese. Typical insecure behavior from CCP.
so many of these women look like creepy ai filters!! It's so extreme!! they are trying to look like 12 year old girls, which is very unsettling
Same with Korea, Japan, USA and other countries
It's super gross regardless aging should be portrayed as beautiful and normal instead of it being something to be ashamed of
Or how about we don’t morally grandstand beauty standards, they’re all bad
Not even 12, more like 8😭 Ive legit never seen that head and ear shape (which is different than large or protruding eats some adults have) on someone passed puberty.
They look pretty. Not gargoyle like of westerner with tons of plastic surgeries. Sausage lips and such
am chinese..i have an y2k style i have piercings, snake bites n everything ay damn i really thought i was cute in china but nvm 🤷🏽♀️
I feel you. 😂 mixed race Korean. No one thinks I'm Korean even though I am very culturally Korean. My coloring, shape and hair texture is all wrong. All I hear them say one they find out I'm Korean is " she's Korean... How is she Korean?!" Not knowing that I speak Korean😂
It's sad.
Girl that sounds like you are attractive 😤✋
Nah I’m sure you’re cute, l think this youthful type of beauty standard is more popular with the older gens as I’ve been seeing more and more younger people having the same style as you
it is not really THAT big of a deal in China now, there are a lot of different styles, and a lot of people like ur style as well (like me) this child-like trend is just 1 type of trend. And not everyone like these childlike trend (some people actually hate it because a lot of people does this "filter" to idk how to say it in English but like "seduce" the viewers and to get money online.) but overall I still think that this childlike trend has to stop, or at least to not be that big of a deal anymore.
@@cserialen agreed! You mean it’s like 擦边 right?
Tbh this is much better than whatever is going on in America
No it’s not. Being attracted to a person that looks like a child is not better. It’s way far worse. Ur creepy af
yall we found a proud weirdo in the comment.
@@violetvictoria7248I mean I’m not saying it’s my ideal look just a lot more appealing than the caked on wannabe Kardashian look where one is over bronzed
Can we please stop sexualising cute things. Cute is cute. It's supposed to be adorable and lovely. Not sexy or hot. It shouldn't make you feel things in the lower region.
So what if I, an adult woman, would be considered cute rather than sexy by most people? Is my husband not allowed to find me sexually attractive? Lol
@@biancathomas2258 He can think you're cute without being attracted sexually to your cuteness. He can be attracted to your sexual appeal.
This video never said otherwise...
@artoras6098 It didn't, but in most Asian countries, looking "young and cute" is considered attractive. Then they have creeps everywhere. If they stopped sexualising cuteness, there would be less creeps.
@@ritasushiroif they'd stop actively attracting the creeps and reproducing with them, the creeps would eventually cease to exist altogether 💯👀
East Asian beauty standards are insane😨 i will never understand their obsession with white skin child like appearance and being insanely having to be insanely skinny and surgery i heard some parents offering their child plastic surgery for doing well in exam as gifts 😰😖
the last one is korea. and as for the pale skin, in ancient times people who worked in the farms were tanned and darker, meaning they were poor. while rich people lived inside and didn’t have to work at all aka had clear and fair skin. it’s a very toxic form of colorism that is still rampant in asia.
It’s no different than Americans damaging their skin by tanning and trying to get large lip fillers or butt fillers in a weird attempt to look older
Keep in mind that asians tend to look younger than other races, so their concept of a youthful woman looks like a grown woman to them. But to westerners, it looks like children
What other races? There are only 3 and they def don’t look younger than the black race
@@vl1180they are definitely the youngest looking race and not just because of aging (but Asians do age well just like black ppl) but because of the physical traits within their race ie. round face, flat head, flat small noses etc.
@@vl1180and their ain’t only 3 races no clue who made that bs up
@@vl1180Asians definitely look younger than black. What drugs are you on?
Chinese beauty standards fear me more than South Korean Beauty Standards💀😭
*scare me more
fear me more makes no sense.
All Asians have the same problem just as colorism and India no different. It's bizarre.
@@SephirothWaifu nah man Asians do in general desire some of those features but most don't go extremly for it like China, Korea, and Japan
@@mhost8147they are generally natural beautiful soft femmine don't hate Chinese for being better than western
So you find kids attractive.
Don't beat around the bush.
It's essentially the same as the girl next door kind of beauty. It's kind of explained badly in this video. But anyways, it won't last long, Chinese beauty trends are always switching back and forth between the cute girl next door to the unreachable mature beauty. Actually, right now, "mommies" and yujie are super popular.
Okay, as someone with a young looking baby face, I don't feel pretty by American standards. I always go out with a ton of makeup and still look like a child, even though I'm 21. If you saw me, you'd think I was a lot younger. I mean, the whole "childlike' thing is weird but nothing wrong with a more innocent and pretty look, not everyone has to have the "hot baddie" look.
It kind of weird that lookig like a child is the beauty standard😮
I think there may be something lost in translation because it's not 'childlike', it's youthful face. Basically, if you are of a petite figure. Small face and big eyes. In a cute sense, not a 'looking like a child' sense XD
@@tomatorama still disturbing how they're getting all these invasive treatments and surgeries to look younger. Especially the surgery around the eyes is scary.
It is period. Why I constantly question how anime keeps getting weird and becoming pedo material. The characters never seem to look like adults in this generation. Gross.
@@tomatorama what you described is literally a child and the beauty standards point to childlike feature and behavior that they find cute. stop acting like it's not. it's pedophilia
@@tomatoramayouthful = a words used to describe usually a young teenager or child.
Youthful face = literally someone who has the face of a young teenager or child.
You're sick for defending this.
me hating how i look and discovers people get plastic surgery to get my face type be like
Same I also Discovered the same😢😂
same bruh, I look like the Chinese beauty standards, except I'm not that skinny, and I don't have a very v-shaped jawline, I can't believe people want to look like me. I hate my appearance, I guess maybe I need to get the right hairstyle to complete the look, but I hate it.
Girl, I can relate too I am not very skinny, but I have a V-shaped jawline and girl try cutting curtain bangs if your parents don't allow u to then try French braids or bubble braids hope this helped💖
Same
samee and how i complain about my cheeks being chubby
❤ incredible China 🇨🇳 ❤
You know what's considered pretty in China? my ultimate fav actress Zhao Lusi❤
I love that she isn't super skinny
OMG! Most of asian girls are already naturally beautiful with child like faces. No need to go extreme.
World please...can we please start moving away from all these crazy beauty standards?!
It's such an unintelligent conversation......people need to get over themselves as trust me we all going the same way. Time stands still for no one. Unless the age process can be reversed but not in our lifetime ✌️😎🙏
just use AI video filter
Everyone is saying that they wished it wasn’t like that in china but the same people go and get lip fillers, Botox and plastic surgery in America
It's about wanting to look youthful because it's about aspiring to be healthy, not necessarily childlike. Being too childlike is actually not revered in China because it means you're immature.
I think everyone is beautiful and they don't need plastic surgery ❤😊
I am Chinese American and I am almost 30 and I like people who look “ child like “ face too! Its not as weird as people think ! Doesnt mean you are a pedophile or a groomer .
I like “ child like “ face because when I was young I love anime . And what does an anime character loon like ? Big eyes . Small lips . Small nose and round shape head ., and also less structures and more “ flat “and for anime boys , well shaven . You dont see boys in anime having facial hair
And those features usually consider “ child like “ and youthful. When I see some adults with “ child like “ faces they dont remind of children or teenagers . They reminded me of anime characters. And since I grew up watching anime I consider people resemble those looks beautiful . Yes i know anime characters are not real and real people dont look like that but i do find people who have slightly resembles that look attractive
please don't try to excuse yourself around this, you're a creep, never have kids, end of story
Wow since when did plastic surgery become more popular in China. I still don't know anyone who's had it from China. I know it's more common in Korea for sure.
Also, it's about wanting to look youthful because it's about aspiring to be healthy, not necessarily childlike. Being too childlike is actually not revered in China because it means you're immature.
I thought it was kind of common in east asia countries for people who can afford it and give a f on how they look. China i thought would be the same as korea in that regard.
people saying you're good the way you are don't understand why beauty standards even exist
Actually these people are way generous then those who undergo various treatments just to look beautiful. These people don't waste their time on nonsense like "fitting in beauty standards". Loving yourself the way you are is the biggest blessing that one can get because no one can make you insecure about how you look or what your external features are. These people just promote inner beauty.
@@pnts1306 okay fair point
If people who don't understand, love themselves more the way they are, then maybe more people shouldn't understand beauty standards.
It’s american trend mentality to be «good enough» the way you are, they were raised on this culture brainwash to do minimal effort and to be ok to live in poverty in us
Bc why should we care? Yolo 🤦🏾♀️
There was a time when we were all trying to conceal our eyebags and dark circles.
aegyo sal aren't eyebags. it's thin bags of fat underneath your eyes that are highlighted when you smile
The sad part is that western beauty standards are equally creepy. Hairless, short, babyface. Not much of a difference
Imagine having all these traits but you live in a different country very far from China 😂
It's not a fun experience but we can't help our genetics!
You forgot to mention video filters is a must use in 99% of the looks online nowadays in China too 😂😂😂
Aegyo sal is Korean. Please use the term silk worm for Chinese
ELF EARS ARE A BEAUTY STANDARD?
Someone called me dumbo the friendly elf 😭
In elementary school my nickname was "troll ears" for a while lol, was surprised to see them on a list like this. But honestly, everything either already has been or will eventually become a trend, I think it's beautiful
Isn’t it kinda weird that what is “attractive” is to look like a literal child. That doesn’t sit right idk
I think the most beautiful is natural. Being happy and natural
It's better to look your age
Aging is absolutely beautiful and you are beautiful the way you are
Aging is not beautiful, we are getting closer to death
Asians tend to look younger/age slower than westerners, so expecting that they are 20-23, they do, in fact, look their age.
Us girls are beautiful the way we are
Now i am quite proud of the beauty standards at my motherland.
Let me list it:
-Golden skin colour
-Doe eyes
-Healthy figure( not obese, not skinny)
-Moon personality( calm, bright etc)
-Red lips
- Long, Black, Straight hair
- Small Asian nose
-soothing voice ( people actually
practice to speak softly)
Tbh, this has been the standards for more than 1000 years, it was inspired from a princess who was believed to be the most beautiful at her time.
If you have any 2 of the mentioned above, you will get compliments even from strangers..😅
I feel like the standards are more healthy. Easy to achieve ❤
Damn, I love your motherland beauty standards ❤
So basically in China they want a child but legal
I've actually heard that Chinese tend to like more womanly looking women than Korea and Japan. This is the first time I've heard of child like faces being a thing. I think she means youthful, not literally looking like a child. But I think this may be some online trends rather than what everyone wants in China.
@@Ldancingcat I just wrote it for fun
I dont know bout yall but if the beauty standard is 'child like' i think theres a big issue 😭⁉️
When we make women look like young people, we will treat young people like older ones. This can surely be problematic for the innocent young ones.
I like all natural Chinese face. Like the ones I grew up with my fellow Fujian Chinese here in the Philippines.
omg I used to be insecure about how my ears are sticking out. now knowing that they literally taped their ears to achieve what I have is such a self confidence booster.
do you mean.... _elf_ confidence booster
I have elf ears. This video made me realized the reason for having s small face. My mom used to hide my ears by covering it with hairs but still stick out. I used to feel shy about it but as i grew older i learnt to ignore it and just accepted that its part of who i am 😂
And my mom intentionally made my ear like that when I am not even chineese I am Indian but my mom liked a footballer ear (saurab ganguli-wrong spelling maybe) and when I grew up a little I asked my mom "look mom mine and the rats ear look same" only after I said that she realised that she made a mistake
A beautiful woman is confident, kind and compassionate. Sadly, modification of a young woman's physical appearance has nothing to do with one's character. Chinese woman, as is, are amazingly attractive and good hearted. I've met many fine people from China.
So basically look like a child…I don’t think I even have to say how creepy that is😶
Zhao Lusi✨❤️
Hah i did need expensive surgery to achieve "baby eye fat". Just have terrible sleeping habits! 😂
Zhao lusi❤
This beauty standard is outrageous
So like japan, korea, thailand
I have those features and I do get attention but if I went to China, I would not be considered attractive simply because I'm African American. It's sad when you want to have something like a simple life with someone but you must become a beauty standard first before even achieving it. The world we live in is so vain. Vanity, it's all vanity.
Go to my country and you will be loved and appreciated
@@annelyncerbas4543What is your country?
In China, you will be loved more as an African American than if you were just African.
No matter how you change your appearance physically, you can't change your appearance genetically.
I HAVE ALL THESE QUALITIES 😂
That’s because you’re 12.
@@emilybarclay8831 HOW DID U KNOW MY AGE
In the uk if your ears stick out you get bullied
CHINESE women are naturally “pao laeng” beautiful. They don’t need any plastic surgery… like my wife who is a Sino-Khmer (Chinese Cambodian): adorable, voluptuous, smart, and kind. Love l❤her everyday.
Woman’s in china so cute and beautiful and pretty
And me here in the middle of nowhere I just ruined my baby face to look like adult matured youth and I later realized that I need to be just the way I am but it was already late gosh
ok but this made me less insecure abt my ears bcuz they stick out ❤️
I think having natural looks is better having plastic surgery can have bad side effects
Edit:beauty standards are mostly impossible to reach and toxic so having natural looks is better
"Aegyo sal" is Korean, not chinese.
I have hated my elf ears since i was a child and knowing that it is one of the beauty standards if China doesn't make me feel better to be honest.
People do all this.. but doesnt understand true beauty is of the soul and not the body
Their traditional style ❤❤❤
'if men find out we can shapeshift'
I couldn't agree less. As I know, Chinese men likes all types of women. That's over-generalizing. Also, I think that is more like what women thinks men likes.
Make them look as child like as possible…yea that’s TOTALLY not ringing off any bells.
I love East Asia's dedication to beauty ❤❤