As new immigrants it's not about getting a job that you like, it's about survival, covering bills and trying to settle in. Many if us do jobs that we have never done back home. Once things pick up, you can become more selective about what you want and don't want to do. I believe that if a couple (where 1 is a student) are migrating, it is the duty of the non-student spouse to carry the bulk of the weight in terms of bringing in the funds. It is a temporary sacrifice that will benefit the family in the long run. There is no way a student who can only work 20 hours can cover the living expenses plus study and do assignments and exams, and it is unreasonable to expect them to do that. Some spouses work 2-3 jobs while the other studies and does their 20 hour job. Once the student spouse has completed studies and things improve then the one who was doing everything can drop all those jobs and just go to a part time job or find 1 job in their industry of choice. It's about teamwork.
When I relocated here, it was good, although the job aspect wasn’t that great from the beginning. I’m glad I was able to grab a couple and later filter out the stressful ones, and then I finally got something more convenient and less stressful. I thank God for the journey so far. I’m really grateful for my husband because he’s just been my backbone and a great support system. We are so in sink with our future goals and plans and so far, we’ve been doing things well. It all boils down to understanding and proper planning. Dear Kosi, I wish you and your hubby the very best, as you push through the stages. May you find all that you desire. Amen 🙏 cheers 🥂 sharing in your goodnews soon.
I hardly comment on people vlog but this is very interesting, I saw all these loop holes but who am I to advise, I hope others will listen to this vlog… peace n Love Koasi
Last year, I was working full time, budgeting groceries, unable to afford date nights, and missing time with my kids. Now I learned how to make money online. Now am a SAHM, homeschooling, and making profits every week.
Am looking for something to venture into on a short term basis, I really need to create an alternate source of income, what do you think I should be buying?
My own opinion if you won't see it offensive is that Kosy you, didn't take advantage of the fact that as a Dependent you should have gone all out to support your guy with really working hard . Have seen a lot of Nigerians who are in the UK and made it as two, before the arrival of your baby.
I can see you guys are trying to keep pushing. I'm from a British overseas country called anguilla 🇦🇮 and also a British citizen, but I can tell it's difficult to get work in the UK 🇬🇧 especially with the difference accent and language barrier. Sometimes, it makes things harder .
kosy I personally do not think you need to work. I feel you are too comfortable. whenever I want to watch your video. I can't find any new one. You have all it takes to make money as a content creator. All you have to do. Is to transfer your videos. To Facebook and make double money from one video. I have seen couples. making lots of money and buying houses from just Facebook videos alone So, please leave your comfort zone and be consistent.
I expected kosy as a dependent to go all out for job and possibly get a sponsorship while continue with her blogging because at the end what matters is getting a STAY BACK not how much you are making at the moment but thought they had plans 🤷♀️it’s well.
I’m sure u’ve learnt a lot from those mistakes.. it’ll only get better from here. The ending part cracked me up .. lil kosy said Alright! I’ve had enough 😂😂❤
I always tell everyone asking me to take their clothes cos what the hell. Even at the moment I still shop from Nigeria cos our clothes are properly lined and thick for all weathers. once you pair it with a winter jacket.
Nah, that should only be a last resort. Language barrier should never be underestimated. The husband should apply for a 2 year post study visa which removes pressure for them. They will be fine. It is always tough in the beginning. However, it gets better with time.
Kosy is looking so pretty Love hw transparent u guys were….it would all be fine jaree Jst keep hoping for the best lyk u said ❤️ Bby wanted to feature 😅
And other things I work in care in Canada it's not for everyone. Trust me, if you do have empathy and compassion, you will lose your mind if you're strong 😊
Best wishes guys. I remember watching you guys clothes shopping unboxing upon unboxing, I was like the Johnson’s are not playing . It is well with you. The lord will perfect it.
With your husby in Tech, Canada is a great place to look into and you can even come in as a permanent resident which is the best thing really. I don’t mind guiding you for free, if you don’t mind. With regards to the content creators, I kept screaming to people not to listen to these people and even made a video but those who have more followers easily misled the populace
Doing care/support was almost the only jobs that could earn you a sponsorship and that was why we gree die.. I remember us screaming that time that you should keep working and stop complaining because it wasn’t easy for us that came with family…racism and hate is the order of the day here so we close our eyes to them because bills full ground….we paid 12k school fees with care jobs and cleared our debts back home… we will keep doing it until we get something better… a week without a job in the Uk for a family is dangerous.
Well done kosy may God grant all your heart desires. I believe your hubby should have applied for PGWP which will help extend the visa and in that process he can be scouting for sponsorship roles.. since he is into tech, tech is such a big deal now ooo that's where the money is😂😂
Kosy, you can be a very good interviewer. I wish you guys God's Grace, Peace, Providence and much Love. May you prosper without limitations. Your baby gal decided to be heard by fire by force..🤣🤣🥰👶🥰. God Bless..🙏🙏🌻💐
Great man, He's so determine even when ask if he would advice others doing well in their home country to come abroad. SIA is good and not too stressful Job. With post study, you can be able to gather some amounts from there then keep applying for your professional job before the 2years elapse. With God all things arw possible 🙏
I really wish I had brought my clothes, wigs, and bags with me. During my time in Ghana, I owned high and expensive branded, bags, shoes, and clothing. I have given everything I have to my friends and family, and now that I'm here, I cannot afford some of them. I only purchase affordable clothes from places like Primark, Temu, and SHEIN. All this happened because I was listening to all this RUclips bloggers. I only came with food.
I came with Food and only very few clothes. I can say it was the best decision ever. Never regretted it. If you are not fashion savvy, then bring food.
@@TaiwoOladayo-nz7uz JJC Arrived in the UK 2023 complain freaks, Nigerians don’t have a pot to piss in that’s what you should be complaining about. You don’t have a common pipeline in your animal Kingdom you Naira is a butt for a start, talk about it or pack and leave
Finally someone shares the same opinion as me. You see this bringing food and leaving clothes behind? That is that one that pains me till this very moment…. #15,000 Jean will cost you over £50 in this country 😭😭😭
But the non student spouse should have gotten a care job to supplement your income and then a care sponsorship visa as your husband’s student visa was expiring so that you don’t have to worry about your visa expiring now and it would be easier for him to get a job. I don’t think care work is as stressful as factory work or cashier work. But then some people feel that care work is beneath them.
Thanks for sharing your experiences here in UK.. I really enjoyed your baby's input as well, she communicated in the language we all understand... I wish you all the best, you will be favoured by God and men in all you set your mind(heart) to achieve.... 🙏
Hmmm...which Canada? Pls, look before you look, Canada tech now is already filled up.,.try to express entry into Canada based on your experience in tech, if you both accrue points, it may end up fetching up guys a PR... good luck.
I understand u too. But if you guys had guidance too yall will still complain. All the newbies coming in always complain. Well love yall wish u guys all the best
I don’t understand why Kosy is not working or rather did not work before she got pregnant. How do you survive with just a student’s pay in this country with all these bills?
Maybe they are rich or come from a rich family. If they are not wealthy then that wasn't a good decision from her. I mean why won't a dependant work and support her husband? Well, to each his own.
I didn't listen to anybody advice. I packed all my clothes especially JEANS it was excess luggage that made me drop some of them cos I didn't have money to pay for it 😂😂😂😂
You guys will definitely get jobs. Ignore the unfortunately, readjust your cv and reapply. Get your post study and hope some organisations sponsor. Have you tried technation visa or business?
Your husband is really trying, yes your husband is right if you stay day time to work. When your baby is older get work done so you guys can move big. Will be praying for you
Kissy you didn't play your card well regardless of everything your hubby feels it. You should have joined the care path which was to give you a cos, RUclips took your time. But there's nothing God cannot do pls help him as a dependant sacrifice the 5 years till you get your ILR pls then you will have all the time for social media it's an opportunity people back home are looking for it's hard but there's light at the end of every tunnel. And when you came was easy to get cos in care companies. It is well
As new immigrants it's not about getting a job that you like, it's about survival, covering bills and trying to settle in. Many if us do jobs that we have never done back home. Once things pick up, you can become more selective about what you want and don't want to do.
I believe that if a couple (where 1 is a student) are migrating, it is the duty of the non-student spouse to carry the bulk of the weight in terms of bringing in the funds. It is a temporary sacrifice that will benefit the family in the long run. There is no way a student who can only work 20 hours can cover the living expenses plus study and do assignments and exams, and it is unreasonable to expect them to do that.
Some spouses work 2-3 jobs while the other studies and does their 20 hour job. Once the student spouse has completed studies and things improve then the one who was doing everything can drop all those jobs and just go to a part time job or find 1 job in their industry of choice. It's about teamwork.
Kosy!! God is in control. Your family will receive a good news soon very soon.
Beautiful couple.
Thank you so much!
With how much I know school fees to be in the UK and you not being able work, girl your husband did a great job keeping it down. It's not easy.
When I relocated here, it was good, although the job aspect wasn’t that great from the beginning. I’m glad I was able to grab a couple and later filter out the stressful ones, and then I finally got something more convenient and less stressful. I thank God for the journey so far. I’m really grateful for my husband because he’s just been my backbone and a great support system. We are so in sink with our future goals and plans and so far, we’ve been doing things well.
It all boils down to understanding and proper planning.
Dear Kosi, I wish you and your hubby the very best, as you push through the stages. May you find all that you desire. Amen 🙏 cheers 🥂 sharing in your goodnews soon.
Amen 🙏🏽. Thank you so much Irene😍
I enjoyed this chat especially Baby's responses😅😅. Your hubby spoke well and nice questions from you Kosy. Welldone.
I truly love this sit down discussion… you are very very honest that why I love you kosy you don’t fake anything…love you darling ❤❤
I hardly comment on people vlog but this is very interesting, I saw all these loop holes but who am I to advise, I hope others will listen to this vlog… peace n Love Koasi
Persevere, work hard, live a minimalist life for now, stay united
Last year, I was working full time, budgeting groceries, unable to afford date nights, and missing time with my kids. Now I learned how to make money online. Now am a SAHM, homeschooling, and making profits every week.
Wow that's awesome 👌
Am looking for something to venture into on a short term basis, I really need to create an alternate source of income, what do you think I should be buying?
Cryptocurrency investment, but you will need a professional guide on that.
FB..
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My own opinion if you won't see it offensive is that Kosy you, didn't take advantage of the fact that as a Dependent you should have gone all out to support your guy with really working hard . Have seen a lot of Nigerians who are in the UK and made it as two, before the arrival of your baby.
Its exactly what she said herself, so she knows and learned from that.
Not every one can work while pregnant please
Thanks for sharing. The future is definitely bright for you both. Wishing you guys all the best!
I can see you guys are trying to keep pushing. I'm from a British overseas country called anguilla 🇦🇮 and also a British citizen, but I can tell it's difficult to get work in the UK 🇬🇧 especially with the difference accent and language barrier. Sometimes, it makes things harder .
I love your transparency ❤️
Everything will work out in your favor. Stay positive ❤
See our New mama look sharp as usual💯👍🏻🤝
Nice one Kosy... So educative and inspiring I love what you do
Your baby just said wrap it up guys u've said enough it's me time now ☺. Welldone guys
It a nice blog, your husband is in a good field redo ur cv and try NHS, a alot of opportunity there
Kosy I hardly comment on people's pages but am so clued to you.... you're so unique and simple dear 1:16
kosy I personally do not think you need to work. I feel you are too comfortable. whenever I want to watch your video. I can't find any new one. You have all it takes to make money as a content creator. All you have to do. Is to transfer your videos. To Facebook and make double money from one video. I have seen couples. making lots of money and buying houses from just Facebook videos alone
So, please leave your comfort zone and be consistent.
The conversation was insightful
Thank you for being so vulnerable.
Thanks for sharing. Love you guys ❤❤❤.
We love you kosy thanks for sharing ❤
You're the best!
This video is deep! Weldone! All the best.
I love you guys, keep pushing, it pays to work hard. God be with you
I expected kosy as a dependent to go all out for job and possibly get a sponsorship while continue with her blogging because at the end what matters is getting a STAY BACK not how much you are making at the moment but thought they had plans 🤷♀️it’s well.
I’m sure u’ve learnt a lot from those mistakes.. it’ll only get better from here. The ending part cracked me up .. lil kosy said Alright! I’ve had enough 😂😂❤
I hope to be in England soon, Spent 1 year in Doha already😊
I support what most people say in the comment, dear Kosi, if you can get a remote job, please do, talk to people, it will help with the bills
I wished I didn’t listen to some RUclipsrs on leaving your clothes in your country . I thought of this few days ago. Now I understand better
I always tell everyone asking me to take their clothes cos what the hell. Even at the moment I still shop from Nigeria cos our clothes are properly lined and thick for all weathers. once you pair it with a winter jacket.
Seeing lovely couples like you, creating content like this makes me wow,am sending hugs from Sonia very lovely video
You guys could try germany and their bluecard, since your husband is into IT. It might be easier getting a job there.
Nah, that should only be a last resort. Language barrier should never be underestimated. The husband should apply for a 2 year post study visa which removes pressure for them. They will be fine. It is always tough in the beginning. However, it gets better with time.
I remembered where he was going security you went to check up on him. Kosy may so happy for you guys see growth and patience
Kosy that was a good question at 7.12😂😂
Winter period comes with this untold mood swing. I realised this after experiencing summer❤
Kosy is looking so pretty
Love hw transparent u guys were….it would all be fine jaree Jst keep hoping for the best lyk u said ❤️
Bby wanted to feature 😅
I love the honesty and willing to let others learn from your process. Amazing. Always a big Fan from the beginning of your journey to the UK. 😊
And other things I work in care in Canada it's not for everyone. Trust me, if you do have empathy and compassion, you will lose your mind if you're strong 😊
Best wishes guys. I remember watching you guys clothes shopping unboxing upon unboxing, I was like the Johnson’s are not playing . It is well with you. The lord will perfect it.
Kosy you're so really ❤ all the best
With your husby in Tech, Canada is a great place to look into and you can even come in as a permanent resident which is the best thing really. I don’t mind guiding you for free, if you don’t mind.
With regards to the content creators, I kept screaming to people not to listen to these people and even made a video but those who have more followers easily misled the populace
Our baby K is also ready to talk fast already. Honestly i also just enjoyed Baby K talking too😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.
Kosy!! they are learning processes. Continue there is light at the end of the turnel . UK is one of best countries in the world. We love you Kosy🎉
I love you too🥰.
You want to start. Uk one best country? How? Ahaha
@@MOOBEAUTYyes it is
Doing care/support was almost the only jobs that could earn you a sponsorship and that was why we gree die.. I remember us screaming that time that you should keep working and stop complaining because it wasn’t easy for us that came with family…racism and hate is the order of the day here so we close our eyes to them because bills full ground….we paid 12k school fees with care jobs and cleared our debts back home… we will keep doing it until we get something better… a week without a job in the Uk for a family is dangerous.
Well done kosy may God grant all your heart desires.
I believe your hubby should have applied for PGWP which will help extend the visa and in that process he can be scouting for sponsorship roles.. since he is into tech, tech is such a big deal now ooo that's where the money is😂😂
Kosy and hubby looking very good, weldone baby youvare doing well. ❤❤❤
Kosy, you can be a very good interviewer. I wish you guys God's Grace, Peace, Providence and much Love. May you prosper without limitations. Your baby gal decided to be heard by fire by force..🤣🤣🥰👶🥰. God Bless..🙏🙏🌻💐
Great man, He's so determine even when ask if he would advice others doing well in their home country to come abroad. SIA is good and not too stressful Job. With post study, you can be able to gather some amounts from there then keep applying for your professional job before the 2years elapse. With God all things arw possible 🙏
God take control of everything from this point kosy❤
I really wish I had brought my clothes, wigs, and bags with me. During my time in Ghana, I owned high and expensive branded, bags, shoes, and clothing. I have given everything I have to my friends and family, and now that I'm here, I cannot afford some of them. I only purchase affordable clothes from places like Primark, Temu, and SHEIN. All this happened because I was listening to all this RUclips bloggers. I only came with food.
I came with Food and only very few clothes. I can say it was the best decision ever. Never regretted it. If you are not fashion savvy, then bring food.
@@TaiwoOladayo-nz7uz JJC Arrived in the UK 2023 complain freaks, Nigerians don’t have a pot to piss in that’s what you should be complaining about. You don’t have a common pipeline in your animal Kingdom you Naira is a butt for a start, talk about it or pack and leave
When did you leave ghana
Baby girl was standing on business with that last scream 😅😅😅😅
Baby girl is talking up a storm😅😅
I love this couple ❤
God bless your home 🙏
Finally someone shares the same opinion as me. You see this bringing food and leaving clothes behind? That is that one that pains me till this very moment…. #15,000 Jean will cost you over £50 in this country 😭😭😭
You have a blogger in the house 😅😅baby is so grown making lots of noise , screams 😅😅😅😅😅
Kosy, you guys should apply for a post study visa, which will give you people 2 years more to stay .
It's a lot of money
But the non student spouse should have gotten a care job to supplement your income and then a care sponsorship visa as your husband’s student visa was expiring so that you don’t have to worry about your visa expiring now and it would be easier for him to get a job.
I don’t think care work is as stressful as factory work or cashier work. But then some people feel that care work is beneath them.
Thanks for sharing your experiences here in UK..
I really enjoyed your baby's input as well, she communicated in the language we all understand... I wish you all the best, you will be favoured by God and men in all you set your mind(heart) to achieve.... 🙏
1st here 🎉
May the Lord bless your family 🙏
Hello kosy u guys should try another country like Canada ur husband can apply for job there apply for permanent visa for u guys. Luv u ❤❤❤
Yh, Canada is looking for tech experts
Hmmm...which Canada? Pls, look before you look, Canada tech now is already filled up.,.try to express entry into Canada based on your experience in tech, if you both accrue points, it may end up fetching up guys a PR... good luck.
I understand u too. But if you guys had guidance too yall will still complain. All the newbies coming in always complain. Well love yall wish u guys all the best
Better design for clothes self
Wooow u both are cute paaaaooo
I feel the same too, clothes in Namibia are better quality then here. Expecially for men.
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Where una leave baby😂😂😂 kosy oo
I don’t understand why Kosy is not working or rather did not work before she got pregnant. How do you survive with just a student’s pay in this country with all these bills?
Gen Z wife na, lucky she has someone who took most of the responsibility despite been the student
Maybe they are rich or come from a rich family. If they are not wealthy then that wasn't a good decision from her. I mean why won't a dependant work and support her husband? Well, to each his own.
I want to say so much but I feel like it's non of my business. And truly it's not. Just wish them well like, share and comment. Because 😂.
Baby wants to talk so bad. haha Proud of you guys ❤
Bombo
I didn't listen to anybody advice. I packed all my clothes especially JEANS it was excess luggage that made me drop some of them cos I didn't have money to pay for it 😂😂😂😂
Your mistakes or regrets are learning curves
True👌🏽
You guys will definitely get jobs.
Ignore the unfortunately, readjust your cv and reapply. Get your post study and hope some organisations sponsor. Have you tried technation visa or business?
Comment out of nowhere, hubby looks like AndreOnana, I have left
Your husband is really trying, yes your husband is right if you stay day time to work.
When your baby is older get work done so you guys can move big. Will be praying for you
You just spoke my mind
More drive
More push
❤❤❤
l carried my clothes 4 suitcases me and my baby and Zero food
Kissy you didn't play your card well regardless of everything your hubby feels it. You should have joined the care path which was to give you a cos, RUclips took your time. But there's nothing God cannot do pls help him as a dependant sacrifice the 5 years till you get your ILR pls then you will have all the time for social media it's an opportunity people back home are looking for it's hard but there's light at the end of every tunnel. And when you came was easy to get cos in care companies. It is well
You look so beautiful and hubby. Trust baby is doing well
Yes she is 😍. Thank you
Beautiful couple
Did I hear care job is easy to get? Mbakwa
My girl🤍🤍
Lemfi doesn't have Canada and America account na
LemFi is available in America and Canada.
Don't you think writing ielts exams will help you to get job
I don’t think
@@ijayokey it will help them massively or at least do an english and maths exam.
Thank you for being so vulnerable.
Thanks for sharing. Love you guys ❤❤❤.
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