Accept Your Mistakes & Move On - Jordan Peterson
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- Опубликовано: 12 янв 2023
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Why would they join a conman?😂
Do you have the link for the full video?
This coming from Peterson, the walking moral error😂😂😂😂.
Isn't it AWESOME how God makes you as an unknowledgable imperfect being and then torments you for being what he created you as???
Well, some people are actually blessed with good situations at birth, while others get the shaft.
While the TRULY EVIL people get rewarded for being evil.
What JP video is this from? Can you tell me the name of the video?
“It’s almost like you have to die and be reborn”.
Exactly.
REBORN means WATER Baptism. REPENT from your sins.
@@priscilla.colburn444 k
Figuratively. Not literally, of course
@@priscilla.colburn444hat's not what he meant.
You may say that's what your religion says, but those are his words, he decides what his words mean
You missed the point
Everybody wants Heaven, but nobody wants to die for it.
We must die to self to be a follower of Jesus Christ.
@@nancygibson4380 I think that message has become obscured by all of the "prosperity gospels" flying around out there.
Great comment! Is this a paraphrased quote, or did this come out of your own philosophical mind? It doesn't really matter. This is ageless wisdom regardless of origin.
@higherresolution4490 Nah...that's paraphrased. I don't know where it came from.
I actually got this tattooed on myself when I was 18. It's in the bring me the horizon form, but it's the same. Has part of a Ouija on it giving the yes and no options also
This… he’s exactly describing how it felt for me to look back and reflect upon the memories and mistakes I made as a teenager and it genuinely felt like I was dying, shortness of breath, light headed, cramps, I felt like I was gonna shrivel up and pass out as I looked back on these deeds as an adult… I’m truly disappointed with my past self for doing the things I did and I wish I could’ve acted differently, but I know that I can’t go back… the only thing I can do now that I’m an adult is move forward…
I was a dumbass as well as a teenager. Lost friends for being selfish and arrogant. Turned away from people because they no longer benefited me. Got fired for being a creep at work to a girl, and tried to justify it. I am a different person now than I was before, but I can't deny that it still has an impact on me whenever I dwell on those memories.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the one I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence, which I had once lost; again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "Yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.
I forgive you
Yes we all make mistakes and we're imperfect the memory never goes away but God knows when we are truly sorry and repentful he's forgiven people for very Wicked Deeds including murder because he's a loving God he knows when were truly sorry he reads our heart❤
I was a horrible kid, if I could go back I probably wouldn't be here today in all honesty. Horrible in my 20's. God corrects the ones he loves. Correction is not easy, but it is doable. I'd rather be corrected than condemned. Thank you Jesus for helping me! You are my Father, and I love you.
JP is always comforting. He is like yes, go, you will suffer a lot but it will be okay.
JP is there for us, humanely helping us in all possible ways.
Thank you Lord for JP
Oh my gosh so true! Thank you for this reply!
Comforting ?? Realy, ha ha h🤣
@@brodeurgiroux you should be so educated! Haha
@@licksnkicks1166 no offence to him he is right and great, but hell he isn't comforting
@@rugved4009 because he tells it like it is. Reality?
This man is absolutely brilliant. He really understands the human physche.
To God be the Glory!
Except for his own apparently lol needed to go to Russia for some insane experimental therapy to get off drugs. Not sure if he should be giving the rest of the world advice
@@user-nj1zu2nf1x tarded take
@@user-nj1zu2nf1x By that logic, no one is qualified to give advice.
@@noex100 actually no one is..
As far as Peterson ... My advice to him is.
Imagine believing something false to the point your advice was hurting others and the human species as a whole espcially with the fame and access to an audience and your ignorance but you never had the real integrity to self examination or the intellectual courage to look at yourself with that level of scrutiny to discover you had been wrong for years. You might be the one doing that.
This is true. This is what people don't tell you. It takes much longer to heal from moral trauma.
It's also entirely on your own fault, no matter who or what you blame you know you did wrong. Easiest and also more able to claim it's not your fault but even others (and yourself) would disagree even if you were held at gunpoint you could have refused to commit the crime, most won't fault but even if it cost you your life, you could have attempted to rise up against the tyrant l, shutting down their evil reign and stopping needless suffering.
Yes. You conscience may gnaw at you for the rest of your life but that is the point. That gnawing feeling is there to remind us not to do that again.
hmmm i dont see it in others.
@@jJust_NO_ me either. My Ex husband was the most deceitful person I ever met. Left a wake of trauma behind him and skipped in into the sunset. I don’t see him changing. Or suffering. It only works if you actually have a conscience. Some people are ok with their deceitful ways. And they know how to justify it to themselves and others.
@@Elsie144k - He sounds like a sociopath. Before studying psychology I went to art school and slept around. I was unhappy and heartbroken so I decided to remedy that by emulating the ‘bad boy’ because the fact is that young women are very attracted to that and it worked - but there’s this dichotomy in women that they want a vampire or a pirate, except like the Huey Lewis song, bad is bad, and then the same women who pursued you then punish you ruthlessly for being the thing they wanted you to be in the first place. It destroyed my life. Once I discovered this messed up dynamic I moved far away and opted out of dating. I live alone now and I never approach women anymore. At least the trauma serves as a panacea against isolation, so I live happily and peacefully on my own without women’s “vampire/priest” complex (the female version of the ‘madonna/whore) in my life. I know exactly where all first dates lead now, so I’m done, and I don’t expect to ever recover any sense of liberty in terms of initiating a loving relationship. So yeah.
I agree, Redemption does not mean a free pass. Part of healing is to accept the consequences and be at peace with them.
At peace with the consequences, exactly.. The process I'm in now.. Trying to Focus and not forget why I'm in this mess ,, but at the same time say " hey I messed up " What can I do , but hope time heals the errors.. Religion is key now I think..
I did so many things wrong, lots of drugs, allowed Very bad people into my life, had sex with a married woman, hookers, used people also. I dont feel guilty or ashamed anymore but am paying the price. My brain health isnt what It was my teeth neither. I Will heal overtime.
Exactly 💯
Even King David had to face his consequences.
who dat would like to know
@@vajaziraqashvili536 David was a small man in stature but a faithful man of God. He went from the “underdog” killing Goliath with a sling and stone, to a great king as God promised. He eventually committed adultery and impregnated a married woman named Bathsheba. He went from God’s Grace to God’s judgement, his kingdom was taken and he was sent to exile. David repented earnestly and was forgiven, but never gained power like he had again.
@@itskeagan3004 that was enlightening thnx
Because he was under the old covenant, the law. And the law says someone must pay. Once you accept Jesus as your Savior, you are saved & yes, even spared consequences. How can that be? Because HE paid the price for you 🕊. The Grace of God leaves you 😶. Seek Him, you'll 👀 😉🕊
@@singingwindrider9881 the bible still says even the saved who will enter heaven will be judged at hhe white throne and you can miss out on many rewards. Plus theres plenty consequences in this lifetime that might not be attacks of the enemy but rather chastisement of the lord...
That's true. Time doesn't come back for anyone.
Oh my God, that is one of the greatest things I've found that hurts so so badly.
@@keithboyd7333 It does and it's the harsh reality :(
Time... that time will come back... in your memory..recalling that time... taking responsibility...
He’s so right. I did it and +20 years later still pain, regrets and consequences. I wish young people could feel this could fathom it. Oh how much more careful we would choose our path.
I do feel like I have sinned, I have mourned, I have begging for forgiveness, I have prayed... Faced many many many dark days and I finally have changed, have hope and a desire to be a complete different person. One day at a time. I am finally grateful for my pain and lessons and immense loss.
You are blessed ❤
Loss is something we can't control, our actions are something we can. Don't allow yourself to be in danger by seeking comfort in religion, use the strength you've gained from adversity to stay fully in control of your life.
I love this guy. He gets his point across without talking down to you. He’s not yelling or cursing. Nothing insulting. Just feel good motivation to get the shit right.
I appreciate that, too. Not patronising or condescending. Just straight up, direct. 🩷
Astounding as always! What a marvelous man! Blessed we are to even hear him👍👍👍👍👍👍
"Let's be precise." "Clean your room." "Sort yourself out." Love this man. He helps me sort myself out every day
Say what you mean, mean what you say, and do it kindly.
Yeah so true, and that is a great gift
IF you PAY ATTENTION, you CAN LEARN from other people's MISTAKES.
IT is NOT PAINFUL that way. .....When SOMETHING is BROKEN, FIX IT ASAP while IT IS still REPAIRABLE.
ThankYou
Very Wise & Adequate! Simply Stated & THIS APPROACH WORKS 💓💞🥰🙏🔐💡🔦⏳🧭🚦☀️🧿💎🌈💓💞🥰🙏
its karma
Yup, if you wait too long to fix a broken bone, the only way to fix it is to break it again and reset it. Its a whole lot more painful then just taking care of the problems as they happen.
Maintainance is so key with many avenues in life...basically everything we can see and touch needs service work to maintain its function quality to itself,....not unlike you and I. we all gotta hold up our end of the bargain.
Wow this really hits home. I’ve made so many moral errors in my life that I wish I could take back. I’m so sorry to those I’ve hurt
No matter what you did, how big or how small. You can’t change it. But, just because you can’t change the past doesn’t mean you can’t change the future. You may have so many deep deep regrets. I do, I know things I’ve done were not the best choice. But everyone deserves to redeem themselves, and become a better person from before. Choices are hard, and choosing the right path may seem impossible, but take one step at a time. And you may get there one day. Everyone deserves a second chance.
I like the fact he just spits truth and doesn’t sugar coat it. Good shrink.
He is willing to suffer persecution to speak truth
"It's almost like you have to die in order to be reborn." Biblical truth!
You missed the point
@cestlezooicimw7637 please tell me then what it is
well most of the death he's talking about it the changes in US , so much enough that has to be done takes us to literally uproot everything that someone trained us and raised us, that doesn't mean it's necessarily that is a grievous sin like stealing or lying, or murdering, to repent from, it could be that you was raised by no father and now you don't have any masculine characters now you have to learn that all over again and become a little kid just to become a man and that had nothing to do with you choosing to be a wicked person and or going astray, and now you have to repent to believe in Jesus
Yeah you believe in Jesus but now you have to be taught how to become masculine by people and help get trained that's the dying he's talking about
it's got something to do with being born again into a new understanding and experience through life teachings! and demands of you will teach you to change yourself , like now you have to learn how to be a stable man and go to work when you had no examples or role models to lead you there and it was not his choice that he was like this character and some of these people don't even know that they have these problems, so the dying he's talking about it's almost like is welcoming all new knowledge not just the Bible but all new knowledge on growth of a person and somehow get an understanding of this new knowledge is going to take him lot of time to get these new knowledges to be his new character, example he's a new man because now he learned how to keep a job or to get a job he's a new man cuz now he learned that his father left him and he has these emotional problems and now he knows how to fix those emotional problems when he gets to a therapist and then he has the humble himself to talk about his issues, that whole process will be killing him cuz he never did any of this stuff before anyway and now he's dying cuz it's old person is dying now and a new person is getting trained
He's not just talking about being saved it's talking about practical things on Earth, to live behave with other humans
That takes a whole lot of knowledge and experiences! to train a person
And it's going to cost time to get to those experiences real life experiences like losing a job losing a relationship and all of a sudden you learned something but you had to die and lose stuff first
That's what he's getting at not just being born again
“Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God,” said Jesus.
That is right. Even baptism ritual itself symbolizes that your old, sinful self is dead and you are raised with your new, holy self.
OMG 😮😮😮😮 this makes sense now
@@sr3821 i was baptism 1 month after being born again the big dive under the water following my lord it was good enuogh for him...
@@TheBeardedSandman are you born again???
100 % true. One mistake of life taken me 15 years to correct. I was a deceitful mess too, thank God I was saved.
Truth. And the death process almost killed my physical body too. Life choices are no joke. And though you are redeemable, some choices are irreversible and you have to live with that. Learn from other people’s mistakes, or learn from those trying to help you understand truth. Avoid the grief of regret
Everything he said is true. I faced all of that in my life. I wish I knew about him earlier.
Me too, man. Done some shit. Had a nervous break down in my thirties and suddenly all the shit I'd done in my life came crashing down on me, and deservedly. Took years for me to respect myself again.
@@jimpyjohn2474 same here bro. still going through it. Where was the turning point for you?
I love him! In a generation that to me, seems so lost. He is a beacon of light to those who are confused and to those who believe but feel they were the only one (me).
Your not alone, there’s just not many of us.
Does he accept his own errors?
...And the world is full of people never "called to attend to their deceitfulness," who never "have to face the consequences of what they've done."
Peterson is preaching karma, the notion there are intrinsic moral laws inherent in reality, meteing out rewards and punishments. An atavistic, servile superstition!
Whereas his pal Nietzsche declares "Let us restore innocence to becoming!"
@@jamesbarlow6423 going through the list and reposting hoping to be an antagonist.....I've seen people call you out here for your copied and pasted comment and you fold like a house of cards. Take stock of your true intentions. It's to start an internet fight. You know it and so does everyone else. Don't watch the post if you don't like it, but don't insert your holier than thou crap here.
Jordan is the dad everyone needs. Gives real advice
Embracing our missteps is a crucial step toward personal growth
“It’s almost like you have to die and be reborn” Jesus said we must be born again
Siddhartha Gautama said the exact same thing centuries prior. Hindu yogis and gurus have said the same thing millennia before him. It's the message of all religion. Heaven and Hell are states of mind not places you go. Consciousness is God, the creator of everything and the ego is the devil.
@@ti2218false. Heaven and Hell are real. Can you please point me to quotes from these yogis etc that say you must be born again? I'm curious honestly.
@@Zoalsoul I never said you "must" be born again but Jesus said in the Bible that the kingdom of God is within you. He is a son of God not THE son of God. We are all God's "children". Because God is consciousness. The creator of everything you experience is consciousness. Consciousness manifests reality, and reality manifests consciousness. The two go together, like everything else in this world. You cannot have up without down. You cannot know good without evil. Out without in. Self without other. This applies to everything in this reality. That is a big part of Hinduism and Buddhism as well, both of which are many lifetimes older than Christianity. Non-duality is realizing these things all go together and that self and other are the same. I believe Christ was enlightened, but he was human, the Catholics meddled with the bible to scare and control people (in the real world they would torture and execute any "heretics" and non-believers, and they'd scare people into converting by saying if they don't then they'll go to hell afterwards), they were the sole redistributor of the Bible and they did so many awful things, so truth within the Bible has been corrupted. But you can still see some of it there. I think Christ got his ideas and his awakening through the silk road and/or surviving texts from the library of Alexandria which was burned less than a lifetime before he was supposedly born. It all lines up together perfectly. I can't name any yogis that may have taught Jesus specifically but these are all timeless concepts that go way beyond recorded history in India, everybody who's taught it and helped others awaken are just messengers.
@@ti2218 Gonna stop you right there. Jesus Christ is THE Son of GOD. The WORD of GOD in the flesh and in spirit. GOD the Father has exhaulted his WORD above his name. Jesus is the ALPHA and OMEGA. He is the first born of death. Please don't compare yourself to him as a son. Yes you are grafted into his kingdom to become sons of GOD but you and I are not in the same league. Christianity is just the group label we give to people who believe in the Jesus Christ of the bible. The WORD of GOD has been here in the beginning and will be here in the end, he outdated any religion or spiritual ideology. All things were made by him and for him.
All that I have said is biblical.
@@ti2218 well said But what I'm interested to know is what are your thoughts about the after life or life or life overall ?
The internal conviction to my actions as a child and young adult has definitely been a weight I've been carrying for far too long, and to find anyone to speak to that has a heart big enough to see my truth has been extremely tough
"He who is forgiven little loves little. He who is forgiven much loves much." "He is near the broken hearted."
What an awesome quote you've recalled. I think Jesus said this?
Jordan Peterson as such a gift
Professional jealousy is one of the most wicked sins in our lives and careers today.
It is a brutal blight that spreads a poisonous toxin over the minds of those so inclined.
What?!?!?!?!?
Been hiking back for 6 years now. I’m tired, alone and full of scars. He’s not kidding. It’s hell looking at yourself…and seeing only you standing there. I know I’m a bad man. But I’m one step closer to becoming a good man. Thanks dr. P
Exactly. Rebirth is the key. Sadly, it comes from a moment in life that kills your soul.
NOT YOUR SOUL.
YOUR EGO.
THAT IS WHAT TODAYS BIGGEST SOCIETY MIS UNDERSTANDING IS.
EQUALING SOUL WITH YOUR EGO.
@@MK-es2jeyet ego by definition is "a person's sense of self esteem or self importance". Today's society has forgotten the true definition of words. Having an ego can be positive or negative. Like anything it is defined by how it is applied. "False ego" would be a better use in my uneducated opinion.
Currently working on this and he hit the nail on the head that you basically have to die and kill that version of yourself to move forward and be better.
Amen 🙏 I come out of hell and I left my soul there but my Lord have given me new one a new mind New Soul and new heart
The truth shall set you free, but you have to endure the labour pains of giving birth to it
Thats deep, thx for that insight
The mind of CHRIST !
I'm currently trying to make up for my very serious past mistakes. My own internal suffering is all I know how to do about it. I've been beating myself up for so long for mistakes I made honestly that I can't seem to move forward at all. Listening to this man gives me hope for myself and others. If only I could have a conversation with him.
Try and remember being that person making that mistake. And think what you would do now to avoid that same mistake. It’ll help re-map your brain. Allowing your anxiety to lessen, due to having made it clear to your mind that you will not repeat that mistake.
I feel the same way bro... I'm not as afraid of the consequences as to not keep fukkin up... so I feel the same I feel I'm in lockstep or some shiit and it hurts too because I've moved through so much and changed a lot also witch scares me more if I can fall this low in a different way than before
@@elFRIJOLMALO I have identified many ways and now all that is left is to forgive myself
@@sirtko " what scares me more is not knowing if i can fall this low in a different way " - Sir Tko 🙌😉👍 💧ing💎s
Does he accept his own errors?
...And the world is full of people never "called to attend to their deceitfulness," who never "have to face the consequences of what they've done."
Peterson is preaching karma, the notion there are intrinsic moral laws inherent in reality, meteing out rewards and punishments. An atavistic, servile superstition!
Whereas his pal Nietzsche declares "Let us restore innocence to becoming!"
Forgiveness is there but you can't run away from consequences of sin. You have to pay the price for the deed.
This man is so highly intelligent. His words are so profound. Scary
This is so damn true, it’s scary
This man is an absolute gift to the world it's sad he is not treated as such
That's the world.....even Jesus wasn't treated as such, ".....had they known, they wouldn't have crucified..."
My past is very dark and worse, i want to change myself but i sometimes do mistakes and regret and cry and gets anxiety, but I want to change im going forward to be better and make my parents proud ❤. In Shaa Allah i'll success this journey❤
No wonder the people doing wrong things are trying to shut this guy up and “retrain” him.
Thank you. I am walking back now from bipolar 1 manic episode. I went high and then I crashed and realized all I had done. The road back has been long and hard. In the end, what doesn’t break you makes you stronger. I love Allah and stand prouder today thanks to my belief in a higher power ❤🎉
Mashallah wa alhamdulillah
SubhanAllah
I cannot even begin to tell you how much your warning resonates with me. I watched the demise of someone close to me through compounded moral error…the consequences were dire and ultimately, she did die, and only came to full recognition of her part in her own suffering and personal and financial losses in her final months…it was almost unbearable to watch…😣
Oh, that's tough
I love you loads my distant proff. Listening to you since during covid has helped me tremendously. I'm better upstairs, my expectations are clearer and more realistic. Same for people I encounter daily.
MOST IMPORTANTLY, I'M NOW MORE TRUTHFUL TO MYSELF🎉
NO MORE DILUTIONS. I try and face my pain, fears, truth, ugly.. I wish I had known you for up to 10yrs, MY LIFE WOULD HAVE TURNED OUT DIFFERENT. Better choices better life.....
But, I'm still grateful to God for the little ones I'm able to work on.
Thank you
Thank you
Thank you
Thank you Sir Jordan Peterson.
You don't know how far I've come😢😢. God bless you sir for STANDING.
Currently getting off drugs, I'm 1 week in, I've done some shit, lost everything on the way, friends, money, u name it. Almost my own life.. And Oh god I got lot of things to work on, now it's like everything is falling on me because I was was trying to numb everything for a long time and I'm going through breakdown after breakdown. But I will stay strong and I will hold on,whatever it takes man.
Keep it up! Once you rise above it and re establish yourself, those who once looked away won’t even be able to face you. You’ll be on a whole other level of enlightenment, wisdom and strength. They will have no choice but to look up to you
I hope you've made some great progress by now. If you've tripped or fallen, get back up. Never give up on being that better version of yourself that you so desired since you posted this.
This is so true. When the crisis does happen so much of your past will come to the table. It is a very very hard thing to admit to yourself that you have to change. So hard ❤
I've listened to so much of this man and many things relate to me and also many others but nothing he's ever said has hit home with me like this one. It's like he's seen my life and it's unbelievable how his mind works. I really love this man and what he says
One of the great thinkers of modern era.
Believe me! I am living it right now! 😮💨😮💨
Me too😶
Much love & Respect for Jordan Pedersen. This IS sooo very true. Peace Jordan
I'm so glad that you are back, Dr. Peterson.
We don’t always know it, but sometimes we really need to hear uncomfortable truth spoken, preferably by someone who cares
It is my intention to move forward through life without hurting anyone
God bless U💕
Gotta be accountable to yourself first. That includes being accountable for the good and bad results.
I think it's just as hard to come back from a relationship with bad people. If it happens when you're young enough, there is no getting over it, you just have to learn to live with it and try to stop moving in circles
✔️ He is with you through the storm
Amen 🙏
I was reminded of Saul on the Way to Damascus. He can take the Worst and....
THIS IS THE BEST ADVICE I'VE HEARD THIS PERSON GIVE. YOU CAN REPENT BUT YOU BETTER MEAN IT.
Even worse is being acused of a mistake you did not do..
If you never make a mistake you never grow. ❤️
Yes growing may bring difficult moments, be ready. Be ready for the consequences of your acts.
no one is perfect, so the mistakes is what makes you human
He's speaking on the mistakes that will break and fracture your spirit. You could never shine When something dies in you just from breaking the heart of your SO that it breaks yours in doing so. It's like Purgatory with myself for too long now.
You do need to face all your wrongs and make them right repent I think we all must repent because no matter what no one has followed the 10 Commandments we are all sinners
@@SuperLuciaandrade yes that's why it's called a mistake. Once u can identify it as a mistake you can fix it or learn from it.
My goodnes why is Dr. Peterson such an enchanting, likable person! He is so sincere in everything he delivers. God bless him and his dear ones.
@krackerkrunch
Probably because he is worth 10 million dollars, makes 3 million dollars on UT and $220,000 a year in his private practice, $50,000 to speak at an event. My friend told me he found this all on the web. I do not know this guy.
AMEN
I've lived through it,and it takes a heavy toll on the mind and SOUL! I found the worst toll is from our own eyes.
I’m LIVING this. The remorse and shame are crippling. I’m still too ashamed to look at myself in the mirror but I put my faith in God and try to atone the best I can moving forward
That's exactly where I am right now! I've been struggling with chronic depression for the last 3 years and in the last year and a half or so it has severely blown up in my face to the point of being unable to work, loosing my job and now my marriage. I seriously couldn't have imagine such a state and such pain!
I can't love this man enough. He is just too honest with his words 💞💯
I respect and love this man, he helped me in many many ways I am so grateful to him.
i wish him and his family all the best .
Just sometimes i find specially lately that the way he speaks is a bit catastrophizing, after listening I feel like life is so hard and terrifying that I can't even find any courage to do anything , and I am left with a very hopeless and painful and depressing feeling. it just my experience, all the love and respect to this man though.
He is not being negative, he insinuates that we all have to be aware of negative aspects of life.
Yeah I feel the same too. He's become more intense in his words recently. (Sorry for my Englist btw I'm not a native) I think it's because he has experienced and saw so many tragedies and hell that people go through in his lifetime, and wants to tell us that we are not at all different with those who go through hell so he wants us to avoid it. Also it seems that JBP is recently been emphasizing this theme "The world is fundamentally not safe and you(or your psyche) are totally in the danger of getting destroyed by it." I personally agree a lot on this.
But still, even though I do understand his claims, his recent videos really makes me feel that humanity is just fundamentally 'doomed'. and it makes me feel as if there are only two choices for us: obey the rules of life or burn in hell. This sometimes make me feel so frustrated and choky, leading me to question the reason for my whole existence. JBP helped me to realize it's really hard to see hope and meaning in life unless we go deeply into religious or spiritual terms, but I think Peterson is going too deep recently and ironically starting to lose joy or peace in his own life even though he himself is not in any trouble...
I sometimes wonder, "If all there is in life just pain and hell, why doesn't god(If god really exists) just end it all? Does he have any purpose on leaving the world and humanity as it is now?" And that leads me to assume that 'maybe', maybe God wants sth from us even though how doomed and sinful we are... and this kind of thinking gives me some tiny hope in life.
I'm still struggling to find some unbreakable meanings in life but I hope that you also get to find some deep meaning that brings hope and light in life. :) Sorry for the long comment, haha
Life has troubles each day. Take it one day at a time. Move through it. Do what you can and MOVE ON. Make good, healthy decisions. You survived previous hardships. Keep moving. Keep focused, reward yourself. If others can do it so can you! When I get really down I look at photos of burn victims, cry, and get busy!
He is reality. Get tougher, you can do it. Manifest it. Think,smell,taste, your victory.
With due respect; consider how much he’s been crucified for speaking truth, attacked on every level. His family has been threatened, friends abandoned him, had his integrity and reputation savaged by people who are so far down the morally bankrupt path he’s describing here; that rather than admit it and necessarily start the long journey back to salvation, they double down and attack with ever more vitriol; all while being cheered on by similarly corrupt souls. It’s a wonder he hasn’t become more vengeful honestly… take care
It’s not easy, but possible & so worth it. I got clean just over 2 years ago & turned to the Universal Higher Power I’d been running from most my life.
💟🕉️☯️ Love•Light•Liberation
He is spot on about that stuff coming back in a time of crisis.
I really never gave much thought to all the bad shit I’ve done in life and just shrugged it off as “oh well, what’s done is done I can only look forwards and do better”. Which is true, that’s not a bad thing, that’s the goal actually. However if you don’t take a good long look inside after you’ve done something morally compromising then you’re in for a world of trouble when the crisis comes.
I fell into a pit of anxiety and obsessive thoughts earlier this year. Since then all the shit I have regretted in the past came back to haunt me. It’s almost like god forced me to take a look at my sins one by one.
This shit hurts mentally but also physically as well, but ultimately this was the jumping point of my healing and my evolution as a person.
You have to face who you used to be in order to let go, and grow into the person you want to be.
Such a profound and profoundly beautiful man. And in a striking suit
And beautiful tie!
words of truth. a simple "sorry" will not cut it for severe transgressions.
“Its almost like you have to die just to be reborn”. Thats the quote.
And you do this in Christ... thank you Lord...
that is a true statement Jordan. face the consequence of your actions and repent with real intent. things to get better in life after repentance.
The consequences are not always the same for everyone either, some are harder to live with because you made them come about not being true to yourself and what you knew.
@@EnglishAaron everything is different everything can have a different results. The sole purpose is trying to get out of the mess you put yourself in with bad decisions . With good decisions, you will still face challenges. You can't learn unless you have a challenge. As long as you stay out of your comfort zone, keep moving forward in a positive direction with a little Force each day, you can still learn fairly easy, without a major challenge in your life. If you are grateful all the time, even when you have major challenges, the challenge doesn't seem to be a challenge at all. You can never look back on your life and find two days that will be exactly the same, everyday is different. We all learn to move around obstacles that stand in our way with little common sense and meditation. Sometimes you have to use more common sense and meditation than other times. I really believe, people have forgotten that they have common sense. Life can get better and better everyday or worse, it is our choice.
True. Proceed with caution in life.
as a young man at the end of 20 years of bad decisions, I joined the air force and it made me new and good. it was a huge change but worth it.
Dr. Peterson you continuously blow my mind your critical thinking is amazing. I finally understand what critical thinking means. Thank you.
School was the single handedly most traumatizing phase of my life i took a lot of time to move on
Jordan is the centerpiece for the construct of rational, moral demographics
I wish he was my dad growing up. What he says here is so profoundly accurate.
I am still and always be responsible for what I have done. I have been shown that you are forgiven, but also have to change your mind, ways and trust me whatever you do to someone else. You most likely will have it come back to you. Working it through. Thanks Mr. Peterson. ❤
i've found that my mistakes took 4 years to catch up to me
Same with me, 4 years living in peace even tought I commited a GREAT moral mistake, then it got me and fried me alive. Best thing I did was telling my girlfriend and that killed the guilt instantly as she accepted my mistake with real love.
I got guilty about it again since being free from it for like 6 months but it's like 2 or 5% the guilt I felt when it first got me.
That may be my sisters time line until she faces the court for stealing every single penny off me, leaving me homeless two years ago. Treachery will catch up to you in the end.
Jordan Peterson - a wise man speaking the truth.
"No man has truly lived till he has truly died".
Thank you. I’m a soft heart and I still feel I have much to repent for
This is one good reason as to why I'm thankful for your friendship. Dr. Jordan Peterson is a lighthouse in the storm.
Exactly, that's what finding the Lord and accepting him means. You are reborn and although you still have the weight on your shoulders because those things don't go away they have to be resolved, the new you can handle it. You allowed the divine into your life were as the old you had the lack of. Having the Lord's peace means having the ability to handle yourself amid the madness that's everywhere.
your IQ is high
The key to life is happiness and you have to live with your life.
I really value Jordan Peterson
Wow we need more this guy a lot sooner
America can not grasp this concept as a society anymore.
Oh no it lives by it.
Does he accept his own errors?
...And the world is full of people never "called to attend to their deceitfulness," who never "have to face the consequences of what they've done."
Peterson is preaching karma, the notion there are intrinsic moral laws inherent in reality, meteing out rewards and punishments. An atavistic, servile superstition!
Whereas his pal Nietzsche declares "Let us restore innocence to becoming!"
@@jamesbarlow6423 i agree millions of evils out there never ever pay consequences! However; this is a bit more complicated because one way or other eventually have to be a pay back, this I say because I have seen it literally a man was my lawyer he was a big play boy handsome super rich, always put me down, looked down on me, hang up phone on me, and I heard from strong source he was taking money from clients and not doing good job, and many clients were mad at him and so on,,,, this source told me the lawyer had big accident from neck down paralyzed! Sure enough a month later I got a call from a woman admin, she said the lawyer was asking me and others for forgiveness! 😏
The hardest thing I had to walk back from was finding out about my late husband's lies and betrayal.
Wow, this is...spot on. I'm just now finally getting my life back in order after some terrible mistakes. And just like Dr. Peterson said, it was in the middle of a crisis. My father was dying of cancer, I was caring for my deteriorating grandparents (who I loved so much), and I absolutely spiraled out of control. I became a terrible person who made an absolute disaster out of my life. It nearly cost me everything. I'm so eternally thankful for the redemption found in Christ. I have never been a person to do therapy but it probably would have been nice to have someone like Dr. Peterson to warn me of the pitfalls I was heading toward.
This man is wisdom personified
So true. Grace is oversold. There’s a balance.
Not so much oversold as misconceived
People deserve themselves.
Don't I know it....Jordan some how,,and I really don't know how...but he has actually saved me and continues to do so,,the bad days which still come to this day,,I deal with them cause of this man...could never thank him enough...my son and my team owe him a great deal...much love to whoever goes thru it...
Jordan Peterson is so wise. I absolutely love listening to him speak
Exactly, that’s why repentance is preached in the Bible so much. It means to change one’s mind, not just say you are sorry. You are to have a fundamental shift in your actions and direction regarding the sins you have done.
But what he is saying sounds like anti- repentance, he is basically saying your mistakes will haunt you forever.
I dont think that would encourage any growth in anyone
Being saved from your sins it’s not a Catholic doctrine it is a biblical truth.
Yeah but the Catholic religion teaches you that you have to just confess your sins to a priest and then chant some prayers and you’re good to go. They pick and choose from the Bible and make up their own bs
And the Bible is of catholic origin. Coz early Christians did not have it. 😊
@@vawor4471 The origin of the Bible is actually Judaism. Hebrew
@@naynay3174 nope. New testament is mostly Greek, Hebrew and Aramaic forming rather small portions. And put together by the Catholic church. Do some reading. Israelites don't believe in the New Testament. And so the Bible as compiled today was put together by the Catholic Church and then corrupted by protestants who took out some books.
@@vawor4471 But you didn’t say “the New Testament”. You said “the origin “. If we’re talking about the origin of the Bible, wouldn’t we be referring to the Old Testament?
I'm still trying to get back. It's been 21 years now.
Please Keep at it none of us is perfect. And please establish a close personal relationship w/Jesus. Read the Bible daily. Let the words, stories, pictures it creates in your mind penetrate into every cell of your body. Let it all wash over your mind, heart, soul, emotions. Talk to Him Pour out your heart-can be short simple sentences.If it’s easier for you, write a letter to Jesus, communicating everything to Him. Then, sit back, be quiet, quiet your mind. Practice quieting your mind. He will answer you softly, silently almost, inside you. If you’ve written, He will respond as if He’s talking back to you-just write down what you’re hearing. It may not be audible, but you will know He’s communicating with you. Why have I said all this? Because Jesus loves YouHe forgives you-and maybe you need to develop a relationship w/Him, and in doing so, learn to love and forgive yourself the way He already has forgiven you.
God bless you
Look forward not back. The past is point of reflection for lessons learned. To define yourself by your past is to say you don't learn from your mistakes.
Very and I mean VERY true! Never give in to Evil!