'Dying is not as bad as you think' | BBC Ideas
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- Опубликовано: 4 сен 2019
- It's time to break the taboo that exists around death, argues palliative care doctor and author Kathryn Mannix.
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This description about dying is so accurate, I evidenced the same when my mum was dying last year. Its a peaceful process, but we wondered if she could still hear, so we said thank you to her for all her teachings and told her that we will be in reunion in heaven later, even after her last breath. The same phenomenon was also observed on a 12 year girl with severe disabilities whom I helped for many years. A very sad but peaceful process. I've learned a lot about dying through witnessing their death. Hope when that happen on me, I have no fear to slip into it. Thanks for presenting this video, very comforting.
Death was not what I expected at all, I was an atheist, now agnostic due to several recent experiences... I was with my mum and dad as they died, both deaths were the most intensely intimate, deeply spiritual, the most human experience I've ever had by orders of magnitude. There was a certain beauty weaved in amongst the sensation of loss, pain and a lot of other emotions, I feel a little guilty and affirmed to admit I saw that beauty because of how society told me I should deal with death. We lay with my mum holding her hands, upon her final breath she smiled and I sensed peace.
The grace of god.
Wow this is really beautiful to read
They died peacefully and surrounded by love
I only want out from my deadly relationship that lies n steals n used me when he was homeless n now he stole my drugs car n dogs
My lovely Dad passed away on 12 October it was totally horrific. He was in hospital for 5 weeks of torture, they were trying to keep him alive when really he should have died earlier. Instead he suffered more pain, needles put in his arms, blood transfusions, scans on his chest. Pure torture to my poor Dad who was terrified and in absolute agony. He knew he wasnt going to make it and he was fully aware of everything to the end.
That’s so sad, sorry to hear that. He isn’t suffering anymore and is at peace which can put your mind to rest.
I am so sorry for not only your loss, but the torture that you and your father went through. In my opinion hospital's do whatever is necessary to keep patients alive for money. If you look at the specific cost breakdown of a person's hospital stay that included death, the majority of the bill is from the final 24 or do hours before the person dies. Hospitals are a business, and businesses need to make money to stay open.
I'm so sorry
Oh I'm so sorry. May God strengthen you.
I’m sorry for your loss and for your bad experience. That said I have to respond to a comment by jimtemple here. I work in a hospital. In the ICU specifically. I am around these scenarios all day every day. When a patient is admitted to the hospital, we have to get information from them or their power of attorney that designates how far they want us to go to keep the patient alive. We must abide by this. We cannot keep a patient alive that is known to be dying against their will. It’s not only unethical but illegal. Hospitals are run by their workers. The people that work in hospitals are good people who just want to help and do good. It’s not fair to say we would subject people to torture to make more money.
The topic of death is something that has haunted my entire life so far, I'm 32 years old right now, sometimes I get angry at the fact, I'm going to have to experience family members dying and I get infuriated at the fact I am have no choice but to experience death myself sometimes I just wish I wasn't born in the first place
Same here, I'm turning 24 in 2 days and see no point of living, life doesn't get excluded from stress and anxiety, it has been always tough and exhaustive for me, I have lost faith ages ago and I want all this agony to end same as I didn't want to be born and exsisting from the getgo
@@mohammedbazzi7592 I understand dear, have you heard of David Benatar? UG Krishnamurti is excellent.
Sick to the back teeth of the medical profession presuming to take control of the dying process. The traditional arrogant "We know best" attitude. It's like the macho medicine culture is one of I the Doctor will not be beaten by this or that disease (forgetting about the actual dying human being) when the natural dying process would have been so much quicker if left to it's own pace with the inclusion of appropriate pain and other symptomatic relief.
We should all see death as our last adventure, an immersion into something we have an idea but we clearly don't know, just like when we go on a trip.
But isn't life about making memories? Without memories, what are we? And, without the ability to make memories, what could possibly be the meaning of those final experiences for the dying person?
Hmm. I could have possibly just answered my own question... I need to check out Buddhism and the practice of "living in the now", yeah? Sometimes the idea of that practice seems impossible to conquer.
well, we don't know if after dying our consciousness survives, and if it does then we will have memories of our death, we can only speculate about this topic, unfortunately. Living in the moment is about mindfulness, it is like any type of mental/physical exercise, requires time, think of the act of typing a message here on RUclips, you were just typing without actually paying attention to every single letter you type or where the letter was positioned in the keyboard, weren't you? so the mind is not naturally inclined to be mindful, but our consciousness can do this if we focus.
@@youthecat honestly life can be anything if you want it I have been suicidal but I can't kill myself because I can't die like a b**** so I rather get in a fight with like a tiger or something I also don't want to die old either like a b**** I just don't know 😂
Valhalla 😎
@@djangosouthwest6043 : Who's gonna care *how* you went? More to the point, how will YOU care how you went? When one is truly at their wits end, there's nothing worse than figuring out how to remain alive for the next 5 minutes... and the *next* 5 minutes, etc. The pain would be so great that HOW you go wouldn't even register on the give a shit meter.
This is exactly what happened today with my mum and I'm so happy I was holding her hand X I feel blessed x
When I thought I was going to die I just felt I was going to pass out, like a faint. That was it. I had very blood pressure and a very low heart rate. I kept myself calm as I couldn’t see the point of getting upset as I wouldn’t help me or the resuscitation staff at the emergency department. This lady, in my humble opinion, has a point worth saying..
My mums passing was so, so much worse than I was expecting. We need to educate people about how distressing it can be. All four of us siblings experienced trauma. In a hospice, maybe staff are around to help and inform. In normal hospital, it was terrifying. We are all having flashbacks. Mum was utterly terrified and afraid until the last 3 minutes when she was so starved of oxygen, she fell into unconsciousness and breathed her last 6 breaths. It lasted about 6 minutes. She was the most beautiful Christian lady. I thought she would go peacefully.
Death is the blessed calm which life interupts with it's woeful tasks.
For some it can be something to look forward to
It's different when u got an accident and death just happened to be there so quick we don't notice about our dying moment
I love this video about dying.......I think most people live their lives in total fear of death ...that in fact our whole society is built around the fear of death.......The fear of death and dying inhibits people from being free to really live......our society is built on the notion of working your whole life to attain security ....when in-fact there is no real security because we all die ...wether we work that 9-5 job or not.
Biggest motivation...
@Iynda Diamond: we want security when we live. Death is just a natural process. And by 2045 Death won't be there for any humans because of technological advancement, one can remove the gene of Death.
@@virajharimkar7783 What do you mean?
Having just witnessed the death of my beloved spouse, I can say, it is not peaceful and gentle. I was told it would be like going to sleep. It was not, it was hprrific and very traumatizing. To see someone in so much fear and pain, and suddenly struggling for each and every breath and not being able to do anything is something I will never forget. So no, dying is not pleasant, not like going to sleep.
It is different for everybody.
My condolences to you. Sorry to hear this. I wish I saw my dad take his last breath because I don't know whether it was painful or not.
It's so sad that some people don't have the peaceful deaths as described here. My younger brother was recently fortunate enough to have a peaceful death where he slowly drifted off into oblivion, almost exactly as described here, but I'm cognizant of the fact that there are some who aren't as fortunate, and my heart goes out to them and their loved ones, as it does to your spouse and to you, and I don't pretend to know how you must have felt, or what you went through.
I’m sorry you went through that. Same with my mother in law
Sorry to hear but How did they die.?
You described a peaceful death in a comfortable situation. But I have lost several people in violent situations, such as my mother in a car accident when I was nine, or my cousin whom I loved from suicide at eithteen, or my best friend in a motorcycle accident months later. There is a lot of profound suffering when the sudden death of a very close person happens, and when it occurs in bunches, as it happened to me (I omitted a few in between), it leaves a mark.
So very sorry for all your losses
Yes, however it remains painful for the living - not those who have passed on. In that way, isn't it just life that is the painful part? Not living but feeling?
This video was so comforting ....words of wisdom .....
Beautiful person and wonderful words. Thank you so much for this video.
Very, very nicely done. Thank you!
Death is something that happened to every body no matter how noble or evil they were no matter how powerful or meek they were all will end the same way as I would ... So no don't fear something that each and every one of us would experience ...
Thanks for having a high threshold of tolerance for my demise. That’s an easy thing to glibly toss off.
The real "envy" shouldn't be the riches of this world but the envy of those resting in a peaceful afterlife.
Thank you for this video! So important to be talking about death and dying.
Great explanation, clearly death is one of the few guarantees we are born with but yet one of the least talked about inevitable events we will all come to experience. I have family that when brought up will say "I don't want to talk about it" or "Why would you bring that up" and even cry when attempting to discuss the topic of final wishes etc... I'm afraid its getting worse in younger generations and the sheer rejection of the inevitability that time is limited is almost problematic and arrogant. I have found that it seems more accepted in latin cultures but none the less great video.
This is a generalization but latin cultures tend to more commonly have multi-generational households where young children are closer to the process of a grandparent dying. In non-Latin cultures, in wealthy countries, there is higher tendency to ship older folk off to retirement homes or other facilities where the process of dying is remote and abstract.
Brilliant video and excellent explanation which I think will help a lot of people. Thank you for sharing
for years my solution to the fear of dying has been both depression, and deservedness.
when you are depressed you care little about losing life.
when you think of yourself as unworthy to be the only one to escape death while everyone else still has to deal with it.
but youve helped me see a better way to view death so that i dont have to rely on either coping mechanism.
i would like to just sleep that would be nice. my life so fragile that a gentle process could tear it apart for me and remove my pain and fear.
My condition now, actually think that death will be my peaceful adventure, no more worries, struggles and the pains
There is a fear of dying in any culture and any country in the world. The word we use such as "Demise", "6 feet under", ..... relates to the fact that we don't want to face death because of fear. People rarely discuss about death and dying because of their fear of death. Human being from the time they born till their last breathe unconsciously look at their own graves.
"I know I'm going to die. I just don't want to be there when it happens".
Woody Allen.
Thanks 😊 very useful speech about an important topic 👌
Beautiful explanation. Thank you wise being :)
This video is so calm and beautiful for my grandpa he had throat cancer so as he was coming closer to his day of passing my bad dying he literally just choked to death it was hard to watch I couldn't watch him 😔
well done......and so true. thank you.
Thanks 🌞 Kathrine, Words of Encouragement and Wisdom. Sharing your Thoughts, IMHO 🤔 Thank You.
Thanks for making this
Thank you for this. I'm someone who often ponders at the inevitability of the end of the universe. It scares me a lot, the idea of nothing. What you've described was so peaceful and calming. To the point where I'm now looking forward to my death. Not to experience nothing, but to remember the rich life i lived surrounded by the people who love me.
Particularly when you mentioned that during sleep, you go unconscious for a little while. Just like birth, you grow until you wake up. As you age, you just sleep a little more and more each day, until you fall asleep.
Thanks. That’s actually really helpful.
So kind of you thank you
It depends on how you die, I had an nde, and that was an amazing experience. As you feel your soul separating from your body, you feel lighter and lighter
Do you believe it really is the soul separating from the body, or do you think it has a perfectly material, physiological explanation?
@Michael Edwards I don't believe it, I felt it, and experienced it.
@@cooking_innovations did you felt it or experienced it as if it was happening with you ( sometimes dreams also feel real)
Hey cooking thanks for sharing, I want to ask though, would you say that experience felt more real than you being alive right now?@@cooking_innovations
@crystalwater505 Hi, and I hope all is well. The experience was very real. This is how I would describe it. One of the reasons I say this is because when my spirit rose up, I felt the separation between body and spirit. It's like being in a body full of worry, then the feeling of all physical emotions coming from my shoulder and going into pure bliss.
Maybe as a generalisation "we" as a nation have stopped talking about dying and instead use euphemisms such as passed away but in many Afro-Caribbean communities we're not afraid to talk about death. We just tell it as it is and accept that death is a part of life.
Edit: "as a nation", I mean the UK
Wonderful video 🙏🏽🙂
Thank you nicely done.
I knew a man who was dying, and he knew it, too. About 20 people walked past him, to say something to him. Each person passed him; said something to him, and kept talking to the others as they were walked away.
I waited a bit, and then went to him.
I cared about him, and loved him; others thought he was “different”.
I stayed at the end of the line. A lot of the folks were chattering to him.
The group was saying loudly a lot of things after, and I waited.
When I walked to him, I just said, “I love you.” His smile opened up, and said the same thing to me-“I love you, too.”
Not about as woman and man, but as two human beings who care about each other.
Old chemists never die, they just reach equilibrium.
I'd like to hear the opinion of someone who's done it before please
I'm sorry but what I hear from the loved ones of people with the same illness as my dad, with metastatic cancer to the brain and elsewhere, what they say the experiences of their loved ones death was not like this at all. They said lots of crying out in pain, for example, for 10 days I just read from someone. I'm fkin terrified for when the time comes.
Sometimes i think death is actually mercy, none of us live forever and i think at some point it would be better to be dead than continue life. Why live longer only to live in pain and agony for that period. I have struggled with fear of death almost all my life and what to expect... i still struggle with it. I can also see the point of others on here who have mentioned "what is the point to even be born if death is the end result anyway?". I cant speak for others but i believe that life is a test, its a test of who you are and what will you do with what you are given however long you are alive. Its not about what day you are born or what day you die, its what you do with the time in between. I believe in the end we are all judged by that. I am not a great person, i am nothing special, i am as ordinary as they come. i have made mistakes and knew i was making them while i did. God have mercy on me, To me i know matter cannot be created nor destroyed simply change forms, so i believe something goes on beyond death that is uniquely us, why do we all have different fingerprints no matter who we are? its individual it sets us apart from others. Even though we are all human, we all have different interests and ideas. and we come in a variety of colors and shapes and sizes. I dont know if i will get backlash for saying this or not but i dont care, my mother was a devout Christain her whole life, she died in peace. i struggle with it, and i am not perfect i didnt live like my mother did unfortunately, But in my life i have seen too many things to make me think otherwise i know Jesus Christ is real. I am not preaching here cause i am not perfect i have flaws but maybe if you really want peace with death and thats why you are here like me, maybe you should ask God to show himself to you in a way that you will know for sure. Life insurance is good it takes care of the ones we leave behind, the money never hurts, and we want our loved ones to be taken care of which is wise. Get some life insurance if you can just remember the best life insurance policy for Death is belief in God, and that is free. I will not sway from what i know to be true.... even if i am not perfect,, God is real, i am not perfect but he is, whatever brought you here I simply ask you to ask him yourself. You just might find a greater peace than you ever imagined you would.
I believe that you are only at the moment of death absolutely you are free..
I enjoyed the piece because for most it's tragic but it's a happy time
Dying is better than living in the society we live in
we live in a society
Yes you are correct@ Butch Swim Productions.
What a wonderful description of a natural death.
So cool... Kind of Assurance that Death itself is COOL 💕💕
I died 23 years ago, but my family don't realise this...
♥️♥️❤️♥️🥰 beautiful to listen to this - and read experiences below
Thank you ♥️
I saw this happen as my father died, I held his hand as he drew his final breath.
My dog died today💔
RIP your lovely dog 🙏
My mum passed away l was there and my family she had after care l miss her she with the Lord now
What if you were told you had to live forever that would be alot more scarier i peobley would have done killed my self if i knew i had to stay here forever
This reminds me of the coffin song.
This was a nice fairy-tale about dying. Many people have children who die before them. Trust me when i say dying can be worse than you think. The death of a child can destroy you. Anyone who has had a child that ended up dying can tell you that dying can be worse than you think.
"The death of a child can destroy you." - But that's about the feelings of the people who are still living, not about the dead child.
@@GeorgWilde
Dying usually affects more people than just the person who dies. And its usually a bad thing. Obviously the person who is dead doesnt know anything about it though. Died myself once. Had a cardiac arrest and dropped dead on the floor.
Knew nothing about it up until the point the paramedic shocked me back to life.
Hey Tony, when that happened to you, did it take away the fear of death?@@Tony-1971
@@crystalwater505
I don't think so. That part of my life is a blur and always will be. I think even when you lose the will to live and you no longer care about life, deep down you are still afraid. I was on edge of sanity for a good while there and didnt care whether i lived or died. My behaviour was literally crazy, reckless and totally irresponsible. Deep down i was full of fear, as well as anxiety and loathing.
When you start to really understand that nothing and nobody in life lasts very long and the people around you are going to die (many of them before you) it does fill you with anxiety and fear. It wasn't me who pulled myself through that dark horrible period in my life. Im not a strong person and im way too sensitive for my own good. I was lucky enough to meet someone in life who cared about me enough to help me survive and start caring again.
I can only speak for me. Other people may feel differently.
Its animal instinct to fear pain/death - your own death and the death of others. Its quite interesting to see how animals react to seeing other animals of the same species that have died. They kind of aren't really sure how to react to it and you see them slowly move away from the body after smelling at it. The instinctual fear of death and being hurt is a survival mechanism.
Counterintuitive to suggest that humans and other animals shouldn't fear death. If we really didnt fear it most of who are here now wouldn't be.
Then to top it all he got covid and couldn't breathe it was horrific watching him he was unable to talk and the only thing he shouted was pain.
I’m still scared to die tho I hope I go to heaven I believe there’s a heaven
Real
Damn, new definition. Dying- being unconscious all the time.
There are different types of death. You describe a gentle decline and eased passing through. The body dies but the spirit lives on of course in all cases imho. I have seen family members after their body died. There are those very painful and horrendous deaths. I have read a few comments below and some brave souls have lost near and dear ones in an awful way.. IN those cases in it not and easy death and horrendous for all involved. So very sad. But once over they are in a much better place. God bless them.
We say passed away and not died, because not all of us are closed minded materialists, some of us believe in life after life.
background music is really really misplaced
I agree! It seems that nearly every RUclips video must have some kind of intrusive sound - someone tinkling on a piano for example. Always utterly irrelevant, always totally unnecessary. Drives me nuts!
ngl I just don't want to die because I want to be here Sith my family and have kids when I'm older and if I die before I achieve that IL never be happy
Now how in the hell would anyone know how it is to die,my god people will fall for anything
I cant wait to die and pass on and be at peace it makes me feel so good when I know I will die one day
Dying isnt the end
I do not want to die so I'll just have to find a magic lamp that first I wish that my next wish comes true and second I wish that I had unlimited wishes and third I would not die
When I die it’s gonna be absolutely amazing.
What’s your problem
I don't agree. The only thing we can do is to help, be there, to make it possible to dye at home. Nobody seem to want to dye the day they do.
Die not dye. XD. (not making fun of you).
True but we all will day some day anyday but we all fear death
Good let’s seed up the process. I’m ready to go. 🎉
I’m dying and I can’t wait
But when you pass away it can be harmless to your body you won't get injured you won't feel pain you'll just pass away
love hearing about saliva when i feel like shturtles
Okay I'm sorry to burst your bubble but most times it cannot be comfortable it can be painful say if you were katana'd or Bazooka'd or spring Bonnie'd or something like that then it could do harm to your body so I'm sorry to say this but Diane cannot be a gentle fate
Totally agree. And doing my little bit to pass it on with my latest book Sacred Death by Catherine Shovlin. Let's decolonize death!
Srry, but the pain of death cannot be described
I always wondered as a child “ why does Hollywood want to make death look like a life in hell ? Hollywood is good at scaring the whole world. Stay Safe.
Well, how would you know huh?
I dont know man. No one has ever told me from their experience... It certinly isnt as bad after. Not good ieither just nothing
This video is nothing but the truth
Yes I agree I like videos like this
In islam, We believe that death is "A passage to the other world" Now if you were a righteous worshiper of God, You'd be living a peaceful life in your grave until the day of judgment. Now if you were a disbeliever of Allah, you'd be have a part of hell in your own grave. I had been thinking of suicide for more than 7 years.
Dying is painful - period.
Stop sugarcoating
Calling death a 'process' is hardly better than saying someone has 'passed away'. "Consoling one another"? This can't take place so long as outright ignorance is the basis of our treatment of 'death'. Families gather uncomfortably around death beds, not knowing what to say because they do not, apparently, know about death, or life, and have never troubled to find out. There is a popular equation between being alive and being physically functional, hearts beating and legs walking, minds knowing etc. We do not 'die' at death. As I insist on this, I recognize that you may elect to insist that we do, that life 'ends' there. Neither I nor my life ends as my body ceases functioning. How I know this is nearly irrelevant, because there are various ways people can discover this. I had an experience once that showed this to me. All this popular tolerance of the idea that 'we die' and that t is an end is appalling for me to hear. Each of us will see as we pass over what I am talking about. For now, I can only wish you well and recommend looking into the endless array of near death experiences and accounts on youtube. Additionally STE's (spiritually transformative experiences) also indicate life after death. If you think life after death is too good to be true, consider that your present life IS life after death, life that succeeds prior living experiences. If only reality was so easy that all you have to do is die to be accomplished, but dead. There's so much more to it than that.
By referring to it as a process, Mannix was not suggesting that we should refer to it that way as an alternative to 'passing away' or whatever. She was making the point that, like birth, death does not happen out of the blue without warning but typically follows a more or less predictable pattern (I guess as a palliative care specialist she has seen this on quite a few occasions). Understanding this process and what to expect may well be helpful to all concerned (I would personally expect that it is). As to whether or not 'death' is simply a gateway to some kind of after-life cannot be resolved here but you are entitled to believe whatever you like. However, your assertion that consolation is impossible without accepting your claims about an afterlife is objectively wrong. People find consolation in various ways after the death of a loved one and what they believe about the finality of death does not necessarily have any bearing on this.
Ive enduring anorexia and i have unbearable pain and occasional seizures. Teh doctors dont want to give me my anti seizure meds. I will now be back to severe agony. Im 4 stone 13. Im five foot 1 though my heart shows no sign of failing yet. I think death is close. I wont eat anymore. People were asking was the food nice so i kept throwing the food out. The migraine treatment was so successful and then they got rid of it. I would just feel sicn and not be able for food. My whole family estranged me. I had a dream in which my big brother said id pass away and join him soon and not to be afraid. Im badgered by people on the phone and my weight keeps plummeting have to get rid of simm card. I cant wait to join eugene❤ im hated nobody talks to me or supports anything i do down to playing the guitar and my license "disappeared " ok then fxxk that.
People don't have a problem with death. Life is good, and it'd be nice to avoid death as long as possible. There is nothing more to say than that.
Literally every single point you made is wrong. People DO have a problem with death, it's in our DNA to be afraid of it. Life isn't good either (at least for 90% of people), it's full of needless pain and suffering. There are also people who are suicidal (both actively and passively) who don't try to avoid death and desperately want it to come sooner.
@@archangel4597I agree
You also forgot something you can get your final wish
Dying is every bit as bad as anyone thinks, you stop existing for all of eternity. Complete oblivion, yeah you don't suffer but you don't feel anything either. It's not the dying that terrifies me, it's the knowledge now that i will never exist again anywhere in any way. I see why people believe in religion to abate that. I can't lie to myself and believe it though. The Universe exists for nearly uncountable years, stars can survive for billions if not trillions of years and all we get is a measly 78 years on average. Our existence is pathetically short as it is let alone only one time with no other chances.
I feel exactly the same..
Yes
I never existed for billions of years and it has never been an inconvenience. in fact I could've not existed at all. I was just extremely lucky that I'm here.
Your consciousness of your current self ends. However some matter of your physical existence remains in a coffin or an urn just like some matter and energy remanifested as you when you were conceived. You can think of yourself as a temporary incarnation of matter that exists before and after you. As Carl Sagan said The cosmos is within us. We are made of star-stuff. We are a way for the universe to know itself.
exactly how I feel
This woman dies before
Everyone says they belive in god but yet everyone is scared of dying something don't add up about these Christians,why would you be scared nothing about death is as scary as his world n life we have here nothing can be that bad !if you think God is real why would you be scared of dying what is so good about this world u wanna stay I haven't found it yet,I can't wait to see what's next I hate it here
You alive...hush....all you got is theories
Can we speak about something more enlightening?
my underneath is enlightening you know what i mean😎🖕🎅🏿🔫
She's "pro-death" wink wink.
Copium.
This video is teaching people to be hopeless. I totally disagree with it. Life is beautiful and worth the fight. Go to a high mountain, take a deep breath and think how amazing life is. Sorround yourself with friends and family. Enjoy relationship. Never surrender until your last breath!
JohanClaudio92 lAmen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏼🙏🏿
I disagree, dying proccess shouldn't be a fight. The video is about the cases when death is inevitable.
For all of us, death is inevitable, it is only a matter of time.
This is about people who are bed ridden and at the end of their lives. What you are talking about is great, but in the end this is what we all must face if we are lucky. i found this video useful as my 92 year old father is at this stage now in a hospital. We are surrounding him with family , love, photos, music and memories of a life well lived, but this video has given me an insight of what to expect in the coming weeks. Sadly not many Dr's will talk to the family about this stage of life.
A peaceful death is not one which you should have to fight against. If the time came, would you rather be some place familiar with friends and family around you, or would you want to be in agonising pain and fed tons of med while in the intensive care unit? Most people would choose the peaceful way to go. The video is saying how dying should be seen and spoken about as a special part of life, much like your birth.
What a total bunch of nonsense!
Your pfp is a bunch of nonsense
Money Maker enjoy making money until your very last breath, then you might realize in that final moment that you could’ve spent time with your family and other people then getting bread
This didn’t help.