That poor woman, his wife, may she rest in peace. She gave him six beautiful children. Then to go and do this to her and his kids.. What a monster he is. Thank goodness this monster wasn't too smart.
Same .. growing up with abusive parents I watched as my parents would manipulate emotionally and physically abuse each other and us as kids made me grow up not fully trusting ANYONE .. and I myself a mother once my relationship broke down I just decided to stay SINGLE and co-parent with my ex we both communicate great but I communicate with my kids better if they give me a reason to doubt their dad or anyone around them I’d be direct with whoever seems to be the problem .. a decent adult will always listen and take on board what’s being said instead of deflecting
I wonder what happened to the death penalty in the case of torture and 1'st degree murder. Do you have to drive a truck bomb into the Pentagon to receive the death penalty nowadays ? or just execute 20 random children for absolutely no reason. It seems like the bar has been raised BY A LOT, and I bet that a 100.000 killers and rapists are lingering forever in US prisons just to increase the revenue of the private companies, and is ( imho. ) a fate that's worse than the death penalty for the inmates + drains close to infinite resource for jack shit reasons other than liberal and moral high ground citizens that want to pretend like the Western society is "peaceful"
I had no idea you could buy freaking poison by mail?! What a horrible man, killing his Children's mother. Poor Angela. The only good thing is he is incredibly stupid.
He didn’t even think about the 6 children he was depriving of their mother, nor her own family and what her death would mean to them. I’ve met millions of awful people who can pass Law, Medical and Dental school. It doesn’t mean anything that he was a successful dentist. Only that the people who claimed to know him likely didn’t, really. His “I didn’t do it” is typical of a narcissist. So is the puzzle comment. This guy may have had anti-social (psycopathy) traits, too. He was sadistic, entitled, lacked empathy, had no boundary recognition and had a grandiose view of himself where he thought he could get away with this. The premeditated nature, going to all that effort to create new email addresses and advise the office assistant not to open a package was all in line with a narcissistic psychopath to be frank. He’s a monster!
This is the 2nd case recently where the victim was aware they'd been poisoned in the past... So I think it's important for everyone to read this: HEALTHY SAFE PEOPLE WILL NEVER POISON YOU! If you even have an inkling you've been poisoned, GTFO! Do not consider staying. Wake up and run!
And I say that from a position of care. I was manipulated for a few years by a man who had serious sociopathy. But the MOMENT I realized the mountain of lies... I ran. I didn't wait for him to kill me for my life insurance. And I cross my fingers every single day that he hasn't manipulated a new woman. When it smells fishy... Run! Man or woman, you run when those hairs stand up on the back of your neck.
All my life, I have been looking for a way to strech my day, from 24 hours to 34 hours, so I can finish the tasks I am obligated to to, but since I started watching your analysis vedios, you have made e believe that your day must have 34 hours, for you to do such incredibly detailed analysis, study, research, humor filled, reports and do the job so well, over and over again. I enjoy watching your vedios and I'm so glad that I found them. I started watching you at first, when I was looking for a similar diagnosis for the symptoms, my biological mother has, she turned out to be a narcissist. Thank you for the great work you provide your audience, God bless you.
I am doing a training in my course and there's a phrase for us : "Never try to be smart trying to do wrong things in secret, because there will "ALWAYS" be someone "smarter" than you who will find out.
The least painful way out of a failing marriage, if unwilling or unable to fix it, is a divorce. You would think that in 2023 people would not have to fear any stigma associated with divorce. Yet, some people (usually men) resort to murder to end a failing marriage. It seems like the most inhumane and risky way to end a marriage and I can't help wondering what would drive anyone to make that decision.
Your level of intelligence just baffles me, Dr. Grande! ♡♡ My heart just broke when I heard you say how she was so concerned and caring about her monstrous husband, all the while he was purchasing obscene amounts of poisons to kill her. It was chilling when you said, "There is something particularly sadistic about Jim's behavior...."
Perhaps Chris Watts and James Craig can share a cell, talk about their rambunctious affairs, bitch about their dead wives, and how no one can understand their homicidal reasons to have a better life.
@@neige4221 oh she did though. He poisoned her. She knew he wasn't normal... She ignored the red flags. It's sad but she knew. And if we dug deep enough, other people also know he's a nutcase. I'd be digging around for the people who are no longer his friend... They get rid of anyone who stands in the way of their ego. They swap out friends if they don't feel idolized. I'd bet there's a list of folks who felt he was a psycho.
@@tishwitch I truly believe that she believed his excuse for why he drugged her the first time, which is that he didn’t want her to stop his suicide. I wish she was smart enough to know that the fact that he was still living proved that he wasn’t telling her the truth. Sadly we see what we want to see….
I think maybe the fact that they are Mormon played a part. A lot of religions really frown on divorce. I could be wrong, but it was just a thought I had.
Man that's so evil poisoning someone that's more evil then shooting someone in the head just like spitting in someone's face is worse than punching them in the face..so messed up ..definitely GUILTY
Omg, I read the text exchange between him and his wife. He's playing the role of a caring husband knowing damn well he's the reason she feels like crap. Sad she didn't just leave him after knowing about his multiple affairs. How dare he take her away from their 6 kids.
Damn he had issues! If you’re a Dentist and you are bankrupt you are either the worst Dentist on Earth or you have serious spending habits! I can’t even afford to fix my teeth they charge so damn much. So this guy was lost in all sorts of ways. R.I.P. to his poor wife.
Dr. Grande-I’m a dental hygienist. Love the constant and witty explanations using dental terminology ! He made sure he extracted the source of the pain in his life. And unfortunately it all happened around 2:30 (Tooth Hurty 😂) . How about just get a divorce dude?
Before get divorced they usually meet with financial adviser or lawyers to talk about how much they lose or pay in afterward. He probably realize he will have nothing left considering 6 kids the new wife won't be happy.
I read every single text message from the affidavit and it’s simply sick and horrifying, she was getting so sick and dying, and he was the one killing her…. These poor children 😭 He is literally pure evil, the prosecution has such a strong case I wouldn’t be surprised at all if he pleads guilty…
@@mpalmer7800 this isn’t Romper Room. Those specific “poisons” have a ton of industrial uses. Of course they’re available, but he had a hard time getting at least two of them, for good reason. But he was able to get them for equally good reason. He’s a dentist and at least one compound is used in metal plating for prosthetics, among other things.
Mormon men are known for having a God complex because their religion is centered around them. He was a higher up in his church so that added to his feelings of superiority. Their religion teaches them that they will become Gods. The women and children are told to be entirely submissive, obedient and without question. Women are instructed to have as many children as possible whether they want them or not. Very patriarchal. Outward appearances of a perfect family life is very important to them. So it helps to understand this case in a strict religious context.
Poor Angela, her husband was a monster. That is a awful horrible painful way to die. Poor thing had to be so scared knowing something is horribly wrong, but not being able to do anything about it. I hope his cell mate is a cruel person who tortured Jim everyday.
@@jeffs4483 She was brainwashed by patriarchy. They were Mormons, and in the Mormon religion, males are always to be trusted. So when he lied to her, she believed it. Abusive males like you love the patriarchy.
@@jeffs4483It would be really hard to accept the fact that your spouse would actually poison you. It's the kind of thing people think only happens in novels or movies, or to other people.
Might be better to get info from both those disillusioned with the Mormon religion and those who are not. I am a Mormon. None of this is true about women just randomly obeying men. My ex husband cheated. My bishop and church leaders actually helped me catch him. My ex lost his church membership (aka was excomminicated) These church leaders DID NOT PLAY! I was blown away with the overwhelming support I received from my church leaders. They made it very clear that God did NOT expect me to stay married to a cheater. Women are equal with men. Mormon's who live with the idea men can mistreat women and who are misogynistic are not living the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Doesn't matter the religion or lack of religion... there are good and evil people in all walks of life. Expecting a truthful representation from a former member of a religion is like expecting a person who just got fired to speak highly of the boss. Or a player who is cut from a team to praise the coach who cut him. Anyone worth their salt, as well as any psychologist who knows anything about anything would absolutely expect negative reports in these kind of situations. I dare anyone to find better men than the men in my life who are faithful God-fearing Mormons. Sure, I know a bunch of Jack ass Mormon men, but their behavior is in no way a reflection of the true Gospel of Jesus Christ.
I’m curious why Angela or her brother didn’t mention the prior poisoning in 2017(?) to the nurses or doctors on this hospitalization. Of course who knows if there would’ve been time to save her. And I’m NOT blaming Angela or her brother!
Let's take a moment to think about the 6 children whos mothers life was snatched away by non other than their father so he could cash in on her death. Not something I would wish on my worst enemy.
I hate Jim. Heartless, to be so callous to another's intense suffering. He probably could have saved some time and money just by biting her with his venomous fangs.
What was going to happen next if in his mind he was successful offing his wife, the mother and obvious caregiver and protector of their six children. Start taking out the kids one by one or just one mass killling when his world continues to unravel….because they would clearly not fit in with his newly found freedom with a new lover. Sad for his wife and kids, thank God he has been arrested. I can’t imagine him being with those kids was going to play out well given the alleged actions, if in fact he got away with it.
It's not victim blaming, if my husband tried poisoning me before who is to say he won't do it again and be successful at it the second time around. To much extra marital activities had him bankrupt. You have all these kids rather than work to create a legacy from which they can build his out there ever so often on the prowl for women.
He was a "called of god" leader in the mormon church, which highly stigmatizes divorce and teaches that wives are property who must obey husbands. This absolutely was a factor.
@@katherinemckee5001 False. Women literally pledge in the temple to obey their husbands. But husbands don't have to obey their wives. And men can have many wives in the afterlife but women can only have one husband. Sound "equal" to you, Katherine? Are spreading lies on purpose or do you need me to educate your further about the church?
@@You-Know-Youre-Right Yup. Women have no priesthood power. No authority in the church. Pledge to obey their husbands. Weren't allowed to pray in Sacrament meetings until 1978 and it wasn't until 2013 that a woman was allowed to pray at General Conference. It's a highly patriarchal institution.
7:36 You know you're an awful person when you think that isn't still a messed-up reason to order poison. Also, this guy ordered arsenic (which is very much detectable, by the way!), potassium cyanide, and oleander? Might as well go all the way and order some castor beans to extract ricin from as well! /s
Isn't this something? Glad you're looking at it! How can people think that no one is going to look at the computer searches they've done? Why do men not care if they spend the rest of their lives in prison?? Love your thoughts and analysis as always.
Having a degree doesn’t mean you’re smart or having good common sense. On top of that, if you’re selfish and grandiose, you’d think no one else is smarter and can figure you out. Divorce is not a good option in these people’s mind. Spousal, child supports are expensive. Having assets split in half is not acceptable to them. I’ve always believed that seeing how someone spend and use their money, that should tell you a lot about that person. People use money to control, buy favors, affections, fame, etc. If they show no empathy and that they value their money over you or your life, run the other way.
He was a big phony and egotist. Men in this religion can never appear broke, always acting like a big success, and problems like gambling, affairs, and stupidity are hidden. Phony, it slays me, and literally slays others. So many stories about this!
Side note: if he’s going to try and play a card saying he needed the potassium cyanide, is there actual “benefits” in small amounts or is it just 100% poison to the body
Thank you , doctor. Your videos have been very informative and interesting. I know the APD, they would not have arrested him in the first place if there was a tiny possibility of him being innocent. APD is probably the only police department in Colorado where the officers are very kind and sweet and would do very extensive researches before arresting anyone. I'm assuming that the family was a Mormon family, an assumption based on the number of children and you mentioned the wife's trip to Utah, which makes this criminal way more dangerous than any other regular criminal. People in that church try to be ideal and stay away from all sorts of harm if possible. With that in mind, you can see why Jim had violated more laws and rules than regular criminals. I don't have much experience in the field of psychiatry but I am a doctor and I don't understand what can make someone like Jim commit such an ugly crime. You did give a very precise personality profile but as a woman I still don't understand why he killed the woman that was there for him for 16 years.
I think the fact that they were Mormon probably contributed to her wanting the marriage to work. Like a lot of really intense religions, divorce is frowned upon.
Another narcissist that thought they could easily get away with killing their wife. It’s laughable how stupid he was and how obvious it is that he did it!
Oh yeah ole Jim was sick if he really told his friend wife that it'll be like unsolving a puzzle if the victim wasn't his wife Angela.. Oh wow that's some sick shit there
That poor woman, his wife, may she rest in peace. She gave him six beautiful children. Then to go and do this to her and his kids.. What a monster he is. Thank goodness this monster wasn't too smart.
Bless the dentist who told the nurse who called authorities…..quick justice!!
I think an employee of the dental office called the partner dentist’s attention to irregularities first.
I hope anyone who suspects foul play would do the same.
I can’t even imagine, it’s one thing growing up with a abusive father , but having to grow up as a child of a wife& mother killer …just awful 😢🤦♀️
Same .. growing up with abusive parents I watched as my parents would manipulate emotionally and physically abuse each other and us as kids made me grow up not fully trusting ANYONE .. and I myself a mother once my relationship broke down I just decided to stay SINGLE and co-parent with my ex we both communicate great but I communicate with my kids better if they give me a reason to doubt their dad or anyone around them I’d be direct with whoever seems to be the problem .. a decent adult will always listen and take on board what’s being said instead of deflecting
What do they always murder their wives in Colorado instead of getting divorced 🤷♀️
Thank you for your videos, Dr Grande!
Jim sounds very impressed with himself. I hope the other prisoners are impressed with him as well
Well Idk wtf the rant above is all about, does anyone?
You cut to the chase. Consequences. Reality check. His future isn’t looking bright.
@@lauras6603 lol. Perf.
Nah he's probably getting beat up lol
I wonder what happened to the death penalty in the case of torture and 1'st degree murder.
Do you have to drive a truck bomb into the Pentagon to receive the death penalty nowadays ? or just execute 20 random children for absolutely no reason.
It seems like the bar has been raised BY A LOT, and I bet that a 100.000 killers and rapists are lingering forever in US prisons just to increase the revenue of the private companies, and is ( imho. ) a fate that's worse than the death penalty for the inmates + drains close to infinite resource for jack shit reasons other than liberal and moral high ground citizens that want to pretend like the Western society is "peaceful"
Maybe he'll be a successful dentist in prison.
I had no idea you could buy freaking poison by mail?! What a horrible man, killing his Children's mother. Poor Angela. The only good thing is he is incredibly stupid.
He didn’t even think about the 6 children he was depriving of their mother, nor her own family and what her death would mean to them. I’ve met millions of awful people who can pass Law, Medical and Dental school. It doesn’t mean anything that he was a successful dentist. Only that the people who claimed to know him likely didn’t, really. His “I didn’t do it” is typical of a narcissist. So is the puzzle comment. This guy may have had anti-social (psycopathy) traits, too. He was sadistic, entitled, lacked empathy, had no boundary recognition and had a grandiose view of himself where he thought he could get away with this. The premeditated nature, going to all that effort to create new email addresses and advise the office assistant not to open a package was all in line with a narcissistic psychopath to be frank. He’s a monster!
This is the 2nd case recently where the victim was aware they'd been poisoned in the past... So I think it's important for everyone to read this: HEALTHY SAFE PEOPLE WILL NEVER POISON YOU!
If you even have an inkling you've been poisoned, GTFO! Do not consider staying. Wake up and run!
And I say that from a position of care. I was manipulated for a few years by a man who had serious sociopathy. But the MOMENT I realized the mountain of lies... I ran. I didn't wait for him to kill me for my life insurance. And I cross my fingers every single day that he hasn't manipulated a new woman.
When it smells fishy... Run! Man or woman, you run when those hairs stand up on the back of your neck.
I agree 💯
Most definitely 🗣️RUN!! 🏃♂️🏃 😆🤣😂
Right! Like why stay with someone trying to kill you ?!?
@@love_reka_8877sunk-cost fallacy
All my life, I have been looking for a way to strech my day, from 24 hours to 34 hours, so I can finish the tasks I am obligated to to, but since I started watching your analysis vedios, you have made e believe that your day must have 34 hours, for you to do such incredibly detailed analysis, study, research, humor filled, reports and do the job so well, over and over again.
I enjoy watching your vedios and I'm so glad that I found them. I started watching you at first, when I was looking for a similar diagnosis for the symptoms, my biological mother has, she turned out to be a narcissist.
Thank you for the great work you provide your audience, God bless you.
I am doing a training in my course and there's a phrase for us : "Never try to be smart trying to do wrong things in secret, because there will "ALWAYS" be someone "smarter" than you who will find out.
I think this always applies. Even in conversations about any subject. Never just assume you're the smartest guy out there, our _always right_ etc etc.
I’ve said something similar to my son who I suspect is a narcissist.
The least painful way out of a failing marriage, if unwilling or unable to fix it, is a divorce. You would think that in 2023 people would not have to fear any stigma associated with divorce. Yet, some people (usually men) resort to murder to end a failing marriage. It seems like the most inhumane and risky way to end a marriage and I can't help wondering what would drive anyone to make that decision.
For those spouses, it seems they don’t want to split assets or pay spousal support. Their love of money overrides any senses of fairness.
@@yarnpower very well said..He did not want to pay for all 6 kids and her, so very sad 😥
The men don't want to pay for the kids they helped create, so they ruin their lives instead.
They don't want to pay child support or alimony or share custody. If course, being a narcisstist prick also helps.
Money. Alimony, child support etc
Your level of intelligence just baffles me, Dr. Grande! ♡♡
My heart just broke when I heard you say how she was so concerned and caring about her monstrous husband, all the while he was purchasing obscene amounts of poisons to kill her.
It was chilling when you said, "There is something particularly sadistic about Jim's behavior...."
Perhaps Chris Watts and James Craig can share a cell, talk about their rambunctious affairs, bitch about their dead wives, and how no one can understand their homicidal reasons to have a better life.
This is my moms bosses friend. So crazy how sick this man is and that i even breathe the same air anywhere near him.
The crazy part of it is that he passed for a “normal” person; not even his wife saw his “crazy” side. These people with ASPD are scary indeed.
@@neige4221 oh she did though. He poisoned her. She knew he wasn't normal... She ignored the red flags. It's sad but she knew. And if we dug deep enough, other people also know he's a nutcase. I'd be digging around for the people who are no longer his friend... They get rid of anyone who stands in the way of their ego. They swap out friends if they don't feel idolized. I'd bet there's a list of folks who felt he was a psycho.
@@tishwitch I truly believe that she believed his excuse for why he drugged her the first time, which is that he didn’t want her to stop his suicide. I wish she was smart enough to know that the fact that he was still living proved that he wasn’t telling her the truth. Sadly we see what we want to see….
This poor woman! I wish she had left the first time he drugged her. Never stay in a relationship longer than you need to.
I think maybe the fact that they are Mormon played a part. A lot of religions really frown on divorce. I could be wrong, but it was just a thought I had.
Man that's so evil poisoning someone that's more evil then shooting someone in the head just like spitting in someone's face is worse than punching them in the face..so messed up ..definitely GUILTY
Love your ending!! You are quite clever Dr. Grande ❤
Omg, I read the text exchange between him and his wife. He's playing the role of a caring husband knowing damn well he's the reason she feels like crap. Sad she didn't just leave him after knowing about his multiple affairs. How dare he take her away from their 6 kids.
Yeah, the authorities NEVER look at your computer or anything 🙄
Ryan is a hero in my book. He deserves a 👑.
Your Dentistry related puns at the end of this one were brilliant! Loved it!
Damn he had issues! If you’re a Dentist and you are bankrupt you are either the worst Dentist on Earth or you have serious spending habits! I can’t even afford to fix my teeth they charge so damn much. So this guy was lost in all sorts of ways. R.I.P. to his poor wife.
He had at least six affairs during the course of their marriage. Winning them all over with money he should have spent on his 6 kids.
@@alienvomitsex AbsoF’nLutely!
This guy also has gambling habit.
The guy had 6 kids...
$250,000×6. Do the math lol. Anyone would go broke.
@@jennypham3998 sounds like he had a problem with instant gratification
Dr. Grande-I’m a dental hygienist. Love the constant and witty explanations using dental terminology ! He made sure he extracted the source of the pain in his life. And unfortunately it all happened around 2:30 (Tooth Hurty 😂) . How about just get a divorce dude?
Divorce?? What??? No.,,he’d rather live with a bunch of sweaty dudes, gross food and shortage of females🙊
Didn't Dr G say he extracted the "root" of the pain? I know root was in there too 😄
Divorce doesn't get you thrown in prison forever
I’m relieved this murdering dentist has come to the end of the Invisalign
Before get divorced they usually meet with financial adviser or lawyers to talk about how much they lose or pay in afterward. He probably realize he will have nothing left considering 6 kids the new wife won't be happy.
6 kids in 16yrs and he had multiple affairs. I hope he gets everything he deserves.
He will, count on it.
Wife should have left him after the first affair
@@nealkelly9757 correct. Still hope he pays for his crime.
@@nealkelly9757 Did she know? If Dr. Grande said, I missed it.
I'm sure he has and will continue to
I read every single text message from the affidavit and it’s simply sick and horrifying, she was getting so sick and dying, and he was the one killing her…. These poor children 😭 He is literally pure evil, the prosecution has such a strong case I wouldn’t be surprised at all if he pleads guilty…
I don't understand why these monsters don't divorce.
@@lf9341 agree
I would. His narcissism won’t concede defeat.
@@lf9341 because they don’t think like normal people. He’s a narcissist. To him, she was his toy or thing. He could do what he wanted with her.
If he divorced he would lose his position in his church community
All those dentistry related puns were so deliciously sweet that I think they might have given me tooth decay!
Many thanks from a long time listener.
Love the tongue and cheek humor! No pun intended 😅
"George Santos" is ripe for a study by Dr Grande.
From his brazil days and on up to now. Thanks!
"Some time around 2017/2018, Jim drugged Angela... There was *talk*of divorce". 😳
Uh oh 😮😂
That shocked me too, who knows what was going through this poor woman's decision process to let that one slide
It's probably not easy to come to terms with the fact that the man you had six children with wants to murder you.
@@CC-ju6vo he told her that he was planning on offing himself and he drugged her to stop her from interfering. Man's a professional liar
@@xxxXKPoPXxxx interesting context, thanks
There seems to be alot of crazy murder cases in Colorado
Being able to purchase those poisons online is very disturbing to me..😵
Yeah, and his colleague knowing that he purchased it and had no reason for it didn’t alert police!!!
Should "they"ban them?poisons don't commit murder, poisoners do,let's ban them!
These poisons exist because they have use. If he didn’t use arsenic, he could use draino.
I think that’s the frighteningly sick thing understanding that such potential deadly substances are available online!!!
@@mpalmer7800 this isn’t Romper Room. Those specific “poisons” have a ton of industrial uses. Of course they’re available, but he had a hard time getting at least two of them, for good reason. But he was able to get them for equally good reason. He’s a dentist and at least one compound is used in metal plating for prosthetics, among other things.
Mormon men are known for having a God complex because their religion is centered around them. He was a higher up in his church so that added to his feelings of superiority. Their religion teaches them that they will become Gods. The women and children are told to be entirely submissive, obedient and without question. Women are instructed to have as many children as possible whether they want them or not. Very patriarchal. Outward appearances of a perfect family life is very important to them. So it helps to understand this case in a strict religious context.
Not true. I’ve been a member of the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints for 50 years and that’s not how it is.
@@aimee1098
Yes it is. Stop lying.
@@aimee1098I think it's a pretty good description. Not all Mormons follow the teachings to the letter, but many do.
Excellent analysis as always‼️ You always construct the dialogue so cleverly 😊
😂 I love the ‘closing thoughts’ thank you Dr Grande. You are my daily dose of sanity 😅
A fun drinking game would be to take a shot for every dad joke in a Dr. Grande video
He gets a D- in the planning of this murder. I’m only giving him partial credit since he didn’t go to Walmart to buy a murder kit.
Poor Angela, her husband was a monster. That is a awful horrible painful way to die. Poor thing had to be so scared knowing something is horribly wrong, but not being able to do anything about it. I hope his cell mate is a cruel person who tortured Jim everyday.
He poisoned her in the past and still chose to be with him. She was a fool.
@@jeffs4483 that’s just so sad.
@@jeffs4483 She was brainwashed and gaslit.Your comments about are just as abusive as what he did to her.
@@jeffs4483 She was brainwashed by patriarchy. They were Mormons, and in the Mormon religion, males are always to be trusted. So when he lied to her, she believed it.
Abusive males like you love the patriarchy.
@@jeffs4483It would be really hard to accept the fact that your spouse would actually poison you. It's the kind of thing people think only happens in novels or movies, or to other people.
How in the world is someone able to get arsenic from Amazon?
Might be better to get info from both those disillusioned with the Mormon religion and those who are not. I am a Mormon. None of this is true about women just randomly obeying men. My ex husband cheated. My bishop and church leaders actually helped me catch him. My ex lost his church membership (aka was excomminicated) These church leaders DID NOT PLAY! I was blown away with the overwhelming support I received from my church leaders. They made it very clear that God did NOT expect me to stay married to a cheater. Women are equal with men. Mormon's who live with the idea men can mistreat women and who are misogynistic are not living the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Doesn't matter the religion or lack of religion... there are good and evil people in all walks of life. Expecting a truthful representation from a former member of a religion is like expecting a person who just got fired to speak highly of the boss. Or a player who is cut from a team to praise the coach who cut him. Anyone worth their salt, as well as any psychologist who knows anything about anything would absolutely expect negative reports in these kind of situations. I dare anyone to find better men than the men in my life who are faithful God-fearing Mormons. Sure, I know a bunch of Jack ass Mormon men, but their behavior is in no way a reflection of the true Gospel of Jesus Christ.
He's sadistic, and maladjusted, Dr. Grande, you missed the opportunity to work in the dentist song from Little Shop of Horrors
Hahahahahaah
Kudos to staff and pardner who interviened
Your deadpan is on point in your closing remarks! 😅
I know I’m late to respond to this video but the tooth clichés are killer!
Stumbled on ur video today. It’s amazing. U got a new subscriber and I’ll have to watch all ur old videos. Great video. James is a vile human!
I don't know why an investigation was launched when the wife kept getting sick several times and gone to the hospital that's very puzzling
Because they had no evidence. She was sick, but no proof of poisoning because they didn’t run a toxicology test.
The dental puns. 😂 I kept saying “STAAAAP!!!” but I was laughing the whole time.
She should have left after First poisoning!!!
I’m curious why Angela or her brother didn’t mention the prior poisoning in 2017(?) to the nurses or doctors on this hospitalization. Of course who knows if there would’ve been time to save her. And I’m NOT blaming Angela or her brother!
Let's take a moment to think about the 6 children whos mothers life was snatched away by non other than their father so he could cash in on her death. Not something I would wish on my worst enemy.
I love all of the dentistry puns!
I'm always amazed these idiots think they will get away with it. He failed as a husband and father.
He fought tooth and nail. He was long in the tooth 😂
This video (while the subject matter is definitely tragic) is very punny and I'm here for it 😂
I'll just stay single. I'm good with that.
Best idea. Works for me.
I’m here to 3rd this idea!!
or be a smarter killer
Chickens!
Me too. We should all stay single together! 😅
I checked her obituary. She was loved by everybody but her husband. Sad 😥😳
I can't wrap my head around the fact that he wanted the wife to stay, but then he murdered her. Go figure.
I hate Jim. Heartless, to be so callous to another's intense suffering. He probably could have saved some time and money just by biting her with his venomous fangs.
I thought of Chris Watts also, and their homes looked very similar, poor woman and innocent children
What was going to happen next if in his mind he was successful offing his wife, the mother and obvious caregiver and protector of their six children. Start taking out the kids one by one or just one mass killling when his world continues to unravel….because they would clearly not fit in with his newly found freedom with a new lover.
Sad for his wife and kids, thank God he has been arrested. I can’t imagine him being with those kids was going to play out well given the alleged actions, if in fact he got away with it.
Can you speculate on why there appears to be a high number of murders in LDS families and other high demand religions.
Because they never identify people as being a Catholic or Lutheran or Baptist when they commit a crime.
@@petercrookston6006good point
Seems Jim was lacking some wisdom teeth.
Your last statements about this case had me crying 😂😂😂😂😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
Can you analyze the case of Christian Longo? Another family annihilater. Evil and creepy 😬
Sorry for Angela. R.i.p.
The dental jokes at the end are priceless. 😂
I loved the last bit of your video . Dr grande you must dislike dentists alot for you went all out in the end😂😂😂
There needs to be a swift and severe punishment for spouses that murder. Death penalty period.
Men run the world unfortunately. That will never happen.
Agree
I am convinced that he is not the only doctor getting rid of his wife and relatives, but more intelligent ones doing so...
I'm surprised that there was no mention of psychopathy in this video.
It's not victim blaming, if my husband tried poisoning me before who is to say he won't do it again and be successful at it the second time around. To much extra marital activities had him bankrupt. You have all these kids rather than work to create a legacy from which they can build his out there ever so often on the prowl for women.
Did he forget he had 6 children? Did he think his latest lover was going to help raise them? I feel very sorry for his children!
a psychopath has no need for anyone
I don’t think he cared about others. He exhibited narcissistic and psychopathic behaviours.
patricia Yes so true. these poor kids, Jim is a brutal psycho killer that never deserved Angela, never.
The likes of him only think of themself and their own needs and want,unfortunatly no one else gets a thought, hence no care about the children.
What is in the Colorado water?
Did I just hear he ordered arsenic from Amazon??
Beezy got them chemicals on lock
Very witty and incite full
Awesome dental puns!! Former dental assistant
Puns aren't really appropriate here though
The dental jokes 😂😂😂 Dr Grande…you always make me smile at your wit 😁
Do you ever really know someone???
No.
Afraid not 😮
Not even yourself.
He was a "called of god" leader in the mormon church, which highly stigmatizes divorce and teaches that wives are property who must obey husbands. This absolutely was a factor.
This is absolutely false. In the main Mormon sect husbands and wives are considered equal and wives are NOT considered property.
My dad is strictly Mormon and he has the same mindset of female obedience, it makes me sick
@@katherinemckee5001 False. Women literally pledge in the temple to obey their husbands. But husbands don't have to obey their wives. And men can have many wives in the afterlife but women can only have one husband. Sound "equal" to you, Katherine? Are spreading lies on purpose or do you need me to educate your further about the church?
@@You-Know-Youre-Right Yup. Women have no priesthood power. No authority in the church. Pledge to obey their husbands. Weren't allowed to pray in Sacrament meetings until 1978 and it wasn't until 2013 that a woman was allowed to pray at General Conference. It's a highly patriarchal institution.
I think that's all true Christian churches. Divorce or "" putting away "" is selfish. And the husband is the leader in the household.
Next time, use the public library's computer to research ways to commit a crime.
There s a case the guy used library computer and he still got caught. The police asked the librarian to check out the same laptop for him everytime
@@jennypham3998The library makes you sign into their computers so a record is kept of your search history.
7:36 You know you're an awful person when you think that isn't still a messed-up reason to order poison.
Also, this guy ordered arsenic (which is very much detectable, by the way!), potassium cyanide, and oleander? Might as well go all the way and order some castor beans to extract ricin from as well! /s
He's narcissistic too
When are you going do another movie analysis? I would love to see you break down The General's Daughter, starring John Travolta.
Please and thank you!
Isn't this something? Glad you're looking at it! How can people think that no one is going to look at the computer searches they've done? Why do men not care if they spend the rest of their lives in prison?? Love your thoughts and analysis as always.
These types are delusional and believe they are smarter than others.
Having a degree doesn’t mean you’re smart or having good common sense. On top of that, if you’re selfish and grandiose, you’d think no one else is smarter and can figure you out. Divorce is not a good option in these people’s mind. Spousal, child supports are expensive. Having assets split in half is not acceptable to them.
I’ve always believed that seeing how someone spend and use their money, that should tell you a lot about that person. People use money to control, buy favors, affections, fame, etc. If they show no empathy and that they value their money over you or your life, run the other way.
He was a big phony and egotist. Men in this religion can never appear broke, always acting like a big success, and problems like gambling, affairs, and stupidity are hidden. Phony, it slays me, and literally slays others. So many stories about this!
Side note: if he’s going to try and play a card saying he needed the potassium cyanide, is there actual “benefits” in small amounts or is it just 100% poison to the body
Americans never learn!!! Divorce should be open to being an option before murder. Trying to keep material things, you’ll lose it ALL!
Murderers murder.
“aMeRiCaNs NeVEr lEaRn!” Ah yes miraculously murders don’t happen wherever you’re from
So, no one in another country has never killed their spouse for the money??
Thank you , doctor. Your videos have been very informative and interesting. I know the APD, they would not have arrested him in the first place if there was a tiny possibility of him being innocent. APD is probably the only police department in Colorado where the officers are very kind and sweet and would do very extensive researches before arresting anyone.
I'm assuming that the family was a Mormon family, an assumption based on the number of children and you mentioned the wife's trip to Utah, which makes this criminal way more dangerous than any other regular criminal. People in that church try to be ideal and stay away from all sorts of harm if possible. With that in mind, you can see why Jim had violated more laws and rules than regular criminals. I don't have much experience in the field of psychiatry but I am a doctor and I don't understand what can make someone like Jim commit such an ugly crime. You did give a very precise personality profile but as a woman I still don't understand why he killed the woman that was there for him for 16 years.
Easy answer: he is a psychopath.
Why try to understand? Don't you see males doing this DAILY to their female partners? If I had a daughter, I would tell her to stay single.
I think the fact that they were Mormon probably contributed to her wanting the marriage to work. Like a lot of really intense religions, divorce is frowned upon.
Another narcissist that thought they could easily get away with killing their wife. It’s laughable how stupid he was and how obvious it is that he did it!
I always look forward to seeing what pins you will have in store next!
Oh yeah ole Jim was sick if he really told his friend wife that it'll be like unsolving a puzzle if the victim wasn't his wife Angela.. Oh wow that's some sick shit there
Women need to take a hint and just leave. Quit looking for answers and reconciliation.
From 14:00 to 14:37 - those tooth metaphors were off the chain 🔥😎 Love watching this man. Always a pleasure. Great stuff👏🏻
It would be creepy to discover the person you trusted with your family's health is a murderer.😮
The DRY sense of humor with the tooth jokes CRACKS me up!
He had 6 affairs and poisoned his wife at LEAST once before eventually murdering her from poisoning her again..WHAT A SCHMUCK
"...root of the problem..." That hit a raw nerve. Teeth clenching stuff.
shows that educated people isn't necessary wise.
Very sinilar to the Chris Watts story
I’m in the dental field. I have yet to work for a dentist that isn’t batsh•t crazy.