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  • Опубликовано: 23 июл 2018
  • In today's video we are chatting about how to prepare to be a wife. When you're engaged or even single it is important to prepare yourself to become a wife if it is your dream to be one. Things like cooking, and fixing your attitude are all things that come with preparing to be a wife. I hope this video helps you in your journey as a fiance, single woman or even as a current wife.
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Комментарии • 199

  • @ceeceedior21
    @ceeceedior21 5 лет назад +296

    1. Work on attitude and relax
    2. Domestic skills
    3. Create good vibes for home
    4. Learn how to budget
    5. Compromise
    6.be supportive

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  5 лет назад +14

      Chels Luv yasss! Thanks for summing it up love!

    • @peyotekaiyote4312
      @peyotekaiyote4312 3 года назад +5

      I love this! I have after many years in childhood groomed myself for most of this but never wanted marriage. I was finally given an engagement ring by my ex and a week later he left me for a coworker. Let me tell you- It prepared for mastering budgeting and paying bills in my own home for the first time ever
      Now I am in a new relationship with a KING of a man and he has provided a noticeable shift in building a foundation for the next and long term step of marriage
      Thank you and~~~~ you are absolutely gorgeous

    • @MrsDMG2024
      @MrsDMG2024 3 года назад +1

      Ok

  • @pycees
    @pycees 2 года назад +115

    Thank you! Currently 31 yrs old studying how to be a wife on youtube. . . IM NOT ASHAMED. I am proud of myself. And this is my FIRST video i came across. Thank you!

    • @tomconsandwich3830
      @tomconsandwich3830 2 года назад

      My dear if you want help to do this

    • @tomconsandwich3830
      @tomconsandwich3830 2 года назад

      ➕19142064085⏭⏭

    • @JasmyneAlexis
      @JasmyneAlexis Год назад +2

      Me tooooooo. I never thought to go to RUclips but I'm learning ALOT

    • @ceescooking2768
      @ceescooking2768 Год назад +3

      This is literally my life right now. I’m 31 years old & im preparing to be a wife. I told myself I want to dedicate myself to learning how to be a better woman, mother & wife. This is first video I came across & i love it !

    • @kristin8413
      @kristin8413 Год назад

      I am too! I’m 36 single, wish I got married in my 20s. Good news though I have a boyfriend and we are talking about marriage seriously. My advice is date a man in your friend zone, that’s my boyfriend and I don’t even know why I did that he’s amazing and sexy

  • @PKr_0
    @PKr_0 Год назад +5

    As a 25 year old woman, I feel like I've been pumped with so much that's holding me back with what I really want in life. Thank you for this video.

  • @ashleynicole6480
    @ashleynicole6480 6 лет назад +47

    That's right sis. You have to know what you are worth. And i know I'm worth the wait until marriage

  • @ashleighlloy7009
    @ashleighlloy7009 6 лет назад +78

    Literally noooo where near getting married but watching anyway cause it's you!

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  6 лет назад +8

      Ashleigh Again aww hey boo!! 😘 what you wanna see next?

    • @ashleighlloy7009
      @ashleighlloy7009 6 лет назад +7

      itsBRENNAE omg you actually replied... please do the yoga challenge!

  • @KeiyaHood
    @KeiyaHood 3 года назад +15

    Love how you just got into it.
    It recently dawned on me that wanting to be married is not the same as wanting to be a wife.
    I am committed to changing my heart, my mind and my behaviors.
    Great job!!!!

  • @nycolecousins3437
    @nycolecousins3437 4 года назад +71

    I'm getting married tomorrow and I'm glad I found your channel wish it was sooner, either way you got a new subscriber !!!

    • @briajewell585
      @briajewell585 3 года назад +3

      Hey girl I hope your marriage is going great

    • @nycolecousins3437
      @nycolecousins3437 3 года назад +10

      @@briajewell585 yes ma’am and we’re expecting dec 4!!!!!

    • @yp8053
      @yp8053 3 года назад +1

      Congratulations!!!! Hope your marriage has been going great!!!

    • @eberebest8756
      @eberebest8756 3 года назад +1

      I wish you well dear

    • @dunemae
      @dunemae 2 года назад +1

      @@nycolecousins3437 that’s amazing!!

  • @asmrwithkay
    @asmrwithkay 6 лет назад +68

    I love how you put everything into perspective being that you’re in the situation already. I’m taking notes. I’m working on ME so I can be ready to be a future wife that will balance out all the differences or obstacles I may face with my future husband.

  • @kellimcgovern5154
    @kellimcgovern5154 5 лет назад +73

    My goal for this year is to start watching my mouth. I get angry for the smallest things. I am tired of it and I'm sure my man is too.

    • @janettex08
      @janettex08 Год назад

      3 years later, have you improved in this department? It’s so hard to change our traits when we’ve had these unhealthy responses all our lives.

    • @kristin8413
      @kristin8413 Год назад

      I have got like that too, I started vaping thc:cbd and it’s really helped, also CBN:THC sleep gummies! Give it a try :)

  • @Hotcashe1
    @Hotcashe1 6 лет назад +27

    Hi thanks for making this video! I'm not married yet but I hope to be in the future and I want to be the best wife I can be. This video was a Godsent thanks again! God bless

  • @mommaashtalks
    @mommaashtalks 5 лет назад +14

    Girl thank you. This information is invaluable and much needed especially for someone who never had a healthy representation of what relationships should be (like me)! I agree with so much of what you said, I definitely have to work on my shortcomings first. Love this!!!!!

  • @reaghan5870
    @reaghan5870 2 года назад

    I love this. Thank you! I took notes and I already had things I wrote down prior to that need to work on, but just continuing to be intentional about them. So, forever grateful for this video😌

  • @theparttimehomemaker
    @theparttimehomemaker Год назад

    No lies were told in this video. 100% facts right here!

  • @hiddengem4293
    @hiddengem4293 3 года назад +2

    I'm working now on my weight loss journey before becoming more interested in being found!
    Also, allowing The Holy Spirit to work in me to end complaining/murmuring/grumbling!

  • @shannonroseboro5961
    @shannonroseboro5961 2 года назад

    I’m so happy I found this video. I’m divorced 7 years and thought I was ready for a relationship but quickly learned I have a lot of work to do first. This was super helpful . Thank you so much

  • @kaylawybo5181
    @kaylawybo5181 2 года назад +1

    This is the type of conversation I long for with women❤️ thanks Brennae

  • @ShastaGulley
    @ShastaGulley 6 лет назад +3

    This video has so much wisdom!!!! I hope everyone who watches it will get some wisdom out of the video. ❤️

  • @MrsDMG2024
    @MrsDMG2024 3 года назад +3

    I love setting the atmosphere in the home

  • @pat4sythe
    @pat4sythe Год назад

    I really admire your channel you're inspiring women I'm an army veteran and I was giving up until I see that there's light at the end of the tunnel like women like you encouraging others

  • @cspann33
    @cspann33 6 лет назад +3

    Wonderful!! Just raw and to the point!!! Thank you.

  • @tomeradebarge
    @tomeradebarge 5 лет назад +28

    Andrew should do a how to be a husband video 😍😍

  • @Sharneselynn
    @Sharneselynn 2 года назад +1

    This was such a real & honest video. Glad I’m on the right track

  • @kristin8413
    @kristin8413 Год назад +1

    Omg this is so helpful! This needs to be watch by so many more women! :) This is really helping me I might be getting married soon thank you! ❤️

  • @alexandriaramos3687
    @alexandriaramos3687 6 лет назад +3

    So glad I found your videos!! I love your personality !!!

  • @straightindie
    @straightindie Год назад

    Trying to work on grooming myself. My new guy is upset that I raise my voice when I get upset and I say damn when I get frustrated talking to him. He said that’s a non-negotiable and he holds a woman to be his wife to a much higher standard than he normally would. Lesson learned.

  • @briannawhittsett3910
    @briannawhittsett3910 6 лет назад +41

    Brennae you motivate me so much I’ve been pure all my life and I honestly look up to you and your husband because y’all help me stay encouraged but I would love if y’all did a video on masterbation.

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  6 лет назад +11

      Motives sure! Maybe I’ll have my hubby come on and do a video about it. :)

    • @briannawhittsett3910
      @briannawhittsett3910 6 лет назад +3

      itsBRENNAE thank you so much ☺️

  • @JasmyneAlexis
    @JasmyneAlexis Год назад

    One of the best videos on this topic thus far 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @wshelby83
    @wshelby83 6 лет назад +2

    This was very informative. There's a lot of things I have to work on

  • @tanishamclovely8961
    @tanishamclovely8961 6 лет назад +6

    This video is very helpful. Thank you!

  • @mimiholistichairhealer8868
    @mimiholistichairhealer8868 5 лет назад +4

    ❤️ Love this! Getting Married This August ❤️ This Helped Lots‼️ ❤️

  • @miguelinapierre4410
    @miguelinapierre4410 4 года назад +2

    Thanks you so much it’s really helpful for us women who wants to get married.

  • @LunieeS
    @LunieeS 5 лет назад

    Thank you so much for this video I truly needed it

  • @Whatupcoach
    @Whatupcoach 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this video!✨

  • @MiVidaBellisima
    @MiVidaBellisima 5 лет назад +20

    Im already a wife (newlywed) but im here to maybe learn tips on how to be a better wife.
    Your birth video was so inspirational!!! Seeing another strong black woman endure that i know i can do the same ❤

  • @hisirihwyd
    @hisirihwyd 4 года назад +1

    real and authentic yesssirr

  • @TheGallahers
    @TheGallahers 5 лет назад +8

    This was right on time✨

  • @itssricaa96
    @itssricaa96 6 лет назад

    GREAT Video !! Amazing tips , love it & you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sekhohliweyisraelmoloto8926
    @sekhohliweyisraelmoloto8926 4 года назад +2

    This is very informative, thank you 🌸

  • @daniellemelendez3544
    @daniellemelendez3544 6 лет назад +5

    I love the title itself

  • @CM-kr3rj
    @CM-kr3rj 3 года назад

    Lol @ the last bit. This was 👍

  • @gilbertbwerere
    @gilbertbwerere 3 года назад +1

    Great message ,thanks a lot

  • @1NicolaPratt
    @1NicolaPratt 6 лет назад +3

    Great video, love your advice x

  • @zahraquiblier6587
    @zahraquiblier6587 6 лет назад +2

    Thanks dearest, you described the person I'm.. I'm working on comparison part and what say when I'm angry cause I become mean stuff. the

  • @Clauds71
    @Clauds71 5 лет назад

    This is soooo good, I’ve subscribed 😍💯🙏

  • @noor4450
    @noor4450 6 лет назад +1

    Loved this!

  • @chunshekafields1911
    @chunshekafields1911 3 года назад +3

    Thanks so much!!! I really do appreciate it 🥰. Me and my husband will be married 5 years June 13th 2021 and it has been rocky. But the first video I watched it HAD ME!!! I WENT TO MY PHONE AN SUBSCRIBED IMMEDIATELY!! THANKS 💋 XOXO

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  3 года назад

      Ahhh love it!! Welcome to the family! Praying nothing but love and growth for you guys!!💕

  • @pricelessjewel4007
    @pricelessjewel4007 6 лет назад

    Fantastic video. Thanx for sharing 😆. Really informative

  • @ela.lovs7
    @ela.lovs7 6 лет назад

    Thanks for the video and especially thank you for the last words about ´don´t be like I don´t need a man bla bla´ can´t hear this anymore. I like the vibes of your video

  • @MelissaKarmel
    @MelissaKarmel 6 лет назад +1

    I love this !

  • @HTyana92
    @HTyana92 6 лет назад

    Loveeeeeeeee this!!!

  • @Leivarx7
    @Leivarx7 6 лет назад +9

    I knew I subscribed for a reason! Delightful 😊💜

  • @JessicaCTiller
    @JessicaCTiller 5 лет назад +2

    Love this! Sidebar: I like your hair and makeup and your skin looks beautiful! ❤️

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  4 года назад

      Thanks so much beautiful!!

  • @GabAlexis
    @GabAlexis 6 лет назад +2

    👋 Hey y’all! I loved this video. Thanks for all the real appreciated advice, I just love 💕 to see that young healthy relationships do exist! By the way how old are y’all?

  • @Saturdaycreations
    @Saturdaycreations 6 лет назад +1

    Yayyy! Nae's backkkk 🤸🏾‍♀️

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  6 лет назад

      dope creation yasssss!😊 I’m back boo!

  • @erinnbeautychanneltooson42
    @erinnbeautychanneltooson42 3 года назад +1

    Wow I love this video 💖💖✨✨✨

  • @abeautifulfamily8654
    @abeautifulfamily8654 2 года назад +1

    I’m happy you didn’t get all God this God that I love the lord but this is a very practical and truthful video. I love it I have been married for 17 years and still enjoyed it very truthful and informative

  • @shereenashley679
    @shereenashley679 2 года назад +2

    I asked God for a true female example to guide me and her I am. Thank you for this video ❤️

  • @quelquun2018
    @quelquun2018 2 года назад +1

    I love your hair and you have such a beautiful face! I also have short hair so I’m happy to see another black woman with short hair❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @themaine2289
    @themaine2289 4 года назад

    This confirms that I am not qualified, not even the raw materials. I love your channel and you inspire me but sis I salute you. He who finds a wife a good thing!!!

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  4 года назад

      I appreciate that! You're qualified!!

  • @mashalakiana9358
    @mashalakiana9358 4 года назад +7

    I am not married but I am in an active relationship. This has been one of the best videos on this topic have watched. I am still learning how to compromise and take a chill pill though. Right now my BIG problem is "being love and peace". I am a huge nagger especially when I see wrong and I want it corrected right away. I am trying to work on that but don't know exactly where to start. I also have a hard time working on myself without feeling as if I am ONLY focusing on ME and NOT US.. Thank you again for this video. It was great.

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  4 года назад +3

      Aww thank you for watching! You got this girl!!

  • @tiffanywhiting299
    @tiffanywhiting299 6 лет назад +11

    I really appreciate this ~!

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  6 лет назад +1

      Tif'sCreativeMusings awww yay! Glad you enjoyed 💕

  • @je39981
    @je39981 6 лет назад +4

    Omggg long time no see ! Yaaaay.

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  6 лет назад

      smh heyyyyy! Ikr? We moved this week so it’s been a minute :( but I’m back!!!

  • @gumbocooker9743
    @gumbocooker9743 6 лет назад +1

    Great video love ya'll

  • @Princessaa111
    @Princessaa111 4 года назад +4

    I’m doing everything right except for the part where I’m way to independent and I always leave them because of something really small things maybe I need to work in my patience and attitude lol

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  4 года назад

      Haha i understand. I was like that too 😂

  • @TB-og3ot
    @TB-og3ot 3 года назад

    Really great video!

  • @lulumanyi1031
    @lulumanyi1031 4 года назад

    So much insight thanks

  • @andreabrown3302
    @andreabrown3302 4 года назад +1

    Yes lord! This was good 😂

  • @iloveall94
    @iloveall94 6 лет назад +3

    Can you do something about from your perspective of someone who was intentional about being a wife the things that you want your potential husband to be doing to prepare as well.

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  6 лет назад +5

      Life to Lori I could try to. Honestly, I think I would want a future man to be doing the same things that I mentioned in this video. I’d be wanting him to be practicing leadership, and working on his finances, his home skills etc.

  • @mwebazacharity1240
    @mwebazacharity1240 6 лет назад +1

    I enjoy your videos, a how to be a husband would also be a good one

  • @Veda-knowledgeoflife907
    @Veda-knowledgeoflife907 6 лет назад +1

    You’re AWESOME ! So full of wisdom! I’m really taking notes 📝 🗣❤️🔥🔥

    • @Veda-knowledgeoflife907
      @Veda-knowledgeoflife907 6 лет назад

      Ps. I’m a hot mess hahah I’m working on it I don’t want to be married until I get myself TOGETHER ❤️😂🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @lsunjae1774
    @lsunjae1774 4 года назад

    I'm just seeing this but great advice Queen

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  4 года назад +1

      Black Stallion thnx for watching ❤️

  • @joannaajoi8539
    @joannaajoi8539 4 года назад +1

    This was sooo beautiful!! So well spoken!! Thankss for sharing Sis !! I'm currently preparing to become a Wife!! I've been w my spouse since 16 , so for Ten yrs now & we also have a family! I loved your personality & video, great tips !! 😊😍🖤💪🏾👑

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  4 года назад

      Wow!! Amazing!! Thanks so much for watching!!

  • @lashawnrhyne5411
    @lashawnrhyne5411 2 года назад

    Good message 👏

  • @beautifulqueen748
    @beautifulqueen748 5 лет назад +1

    I am already ready

  • @ronadanoel8824
    @ronadanoel8824 6 лет назад +3

    Hey sis, great video .

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  6 лет назад

      Ronada Noel aww thanks for watching sis!

  • @MyJaxJingles
    @MyJaxJingles 2 года назад

    Thank you

  • @jasminesimpson8034
    @jasminesimpson8034 2 года назад

    21. Have mother / wife qualities just have a manly attitude because I’ve always been the provider. My soon to be husband allows me to be free and not work meaning it’s different from what I’m use to so I have to learn that I can relax now and be more feminine but it has BEEN SOOOOO HARDDDD

  • @holidayadventures2670
    @holidayadventures2670 4 года назад +1

    Work on those limiting beliefs as they arises up :) each and everyday become a better version of yourself. Help and heal each other become in union!♡

  • @justshayla8555
    @justshayla8555 2 года назад

    THANK YOU I NEEDED THIS VIDEO♥️♥️♥️

  • @lolaoye2892
    @lolaoye2892 4 года назад

    Thank you.

  • @sithuleleluyanda1214
    @sithuleleluyanda1214 5 лет назад

    Wow I love you ..you my role model..am starting today 😘

  • @makaylasanai
    @makaylasanai 3 года назад

    thanks!

  • @solsh7418
    @solsh7418 4 года назад +1

    You’re absolutely gorgeous ❤️

  • @LifeasTokyo
    @LifeasTokyo 4 года назад +2

    My ex just told me that I’m not ready to be a wife. Although it kinda stung, there was some truth to his statement. I definitely need to work on my attitude and learn to stop being to quick to say “ fuck it. “
    Thank you for these tips 🙏🏾

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  4 года назад +1

      Thank you for watching ❤️

    • @AshleyLoiseau
      @AshleyLoiseau 3 года назад +2

      Don’t put your worth on someone view on you. Yes, it’s maybe true that there’s certain things your dealing with but that doesn’t mean you’re not worthy to be a wife. Just now learn to be a better wife or a better person.

  • @NinaBlow
    @NinaBlow 3 года назад

    Wheres the follow up video about getting your heart ready? I didnt see it :(

  • @amy22331
    @amy22331 3 месяца назад

    🙏🏼

  • @godsdaughter3738
    @godsdaughter3738 Год назад

    I just need help with cooking and laundry

  • @TaneshaJanee
    @TaneshaJanee 6 лет назад +3

    I saw you at Walmart last week! I felt so lame for not saying hey lol great video though girl!

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  6 лет назад

      Tanesha Janee' lol omg really?? Walmart where? I’ve been all over the city this month!! You should’ve said hey!!😘

    • @TaneshaJanee
      @TaneshaJanee 6 лет назад

      itsBRENNAE the walmart in Snellville! If that wasn't you, you have a twin!

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  6 лет назад +1

      Tanesha Janee' hmm that might’ve been me. My parents live out that way I visited them last week.

  • @godlywalk2868
    @godlywalk2868 6 лет назад

    New Subbie 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @treasurcanada5953
    @treasurcanada5953 2 года назад

    What if your on the road with your husband all the time and we eat out all the time and don't have time for home life like it's 2022 and this is my life

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  2 года назад +1

      That’s okay :) you guys have to do what’s best for you! Just make the best and healthiest decisions that you can for your circumstances ♥️

  • @accountdoesntexist716
    @accountdoesntexist716 6 лет назад

    I am that 12k'th ubbie love ya!!

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  6 лет назад

      Bella's World awww!! Love you too girl!!

  • @Winterbee14
    @Winterbee14 3 года назад

    👌🏻

  • @rosesmith000
    @rosesmith000 4 года назад

    Will you teach us how to cook your favorite recipe?

  • @danitoscano100
    @danitoscano100 2 года назад

    I just came across with your video and I have to say that I noted all those tips 📝. I really need it cause I just got married like 2 months already but I need to work on my attitude, and be financially stable. Thank you so much for your advice 💕🫶🏽

  • @dikachiekeke4426
    @dikachiekeke4426 3 года назад

    I love you presentation

  • @ayorow123
    @ayorow123 5 лет назад

    ❤❤👌👌👌

  • @seansean2090
    @seansean2090 2 года назад

    I hope my future wife sees this

  • @MsRae-ev9hs
    @MsRae-ev9hs 4 года назад

    #Modelwife #modelchick you are beautiful and inspirational!! :)

    • @itsBRENNAE
      @itsBRENNAE  4 года назад

      Aww this was sweet!! Thanks so much!!

  • @melissacarroll3716
    @melissacarroll3716 2 года назад

    I believe behind every good man is a good woman and visa versa

  • @roslynw7
    @roslynw7 5 лет назад +1

    I'm selfish 😔😔