Why and what happened when I took a month off drinking alcohol

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @sylvievicenza179
    @sylvievicenza179 17 дней назад +73

    I love when women talk about the real things. Thank you so much.

  • @caroldaviddaviejohnson2225
    @caroldaviddaviejohnson2225 13 дней назад +19

    There is nothing more empowering than holding a mirror up to ourselves. Sometimes we don't particularly like what we may see reflected back, the task is to recognise our shadow self and work on it. Great video, honest and insightful. 👏👏👏

  • @sheilamesick5964
    @sheilamesick5964 17 дней назад +40

    You are smart and brave for taking on this project. Glad to hear about the positive results regarding blood pressure and sleep. You appear less swollen in your face. Carry on!

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  17 дней назад +2

      Do I look less puffy!?! I can’t see it but glad you think so x

    • @lyndakling901
      @lyndakling901 16 дней назад

      Yes, your face is definitely thinner.

  • @wbflowersvt
    @wbflowersvt 17 дней назад +37

    Good for you. A great argument on the power of a little reflection and discovery.

  • @beckyscheller9358
    @beckyscheller9358 17 дней назад +25

    Such an important message. Have lost family members to alcohol and also heavy smokers, i appreciate your honesty and courage

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  17 дней назад +2

      Thankyou - feels v out of comfort zone but also proud of self and if I can do it…

  • @salardis8804
    @salardis8804 17 дней назад +31

    Well done Georgie. Very important subject to be discussed.

  • @jukerdanz
    @jukerdanz 13 дней назад +10

    It is great to hear a woman speaking so openly about her relationship with alcohol without guilt or angst. I stopped drinking a few years back after, like you, spending a few years cutting back. I no longer have an ‘adults drink alcohol’ mindset and i sleep better, which was a big part of my desire to give up alcohol. It meant ending a certain type of relationship with my husband, who still enjoys his wine. We used to enjoy sharing a bottle of wine but we have got used to the way we live now and it’s fine of course. Thanks for being honest and brave.

  • @bevharrison8157
    @bevharrison8157 5 дней назад +7

    I do admire you opening up and telling us about your relationship with wine.
    I also as middle aged woman with all that entails , one thing was that I suddenly disliked the taste of of wine and any alcohol a win win , I can’t say I feel fantastic for it but it must have a positive impact on my health. My friends are shocked that I still don’t want a glass now it’s been two years , but realy I don’t miss it at all .
    Love your channel .😊

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  4 дня назад +1

      you're lucky to suddenly lose the taste for it x fantastic! x

  • @jackiek3407
    @jackiek3407 4 дня назад +5

    I’ve stumbled across this video and it’s strange because I have thinking about the volume of alcohol I’ve been consuming these last few years due to a traumatic event which has changed the direction of my life forever. So, I think it’s time for me to (off the back of this video) action a new approach to my mindset and relationship with the booze. I’m glad I listened to you. Many thanks. 🌷

  • @merylwilliams2268
    @merylwilliams2268 17 дней назад +20

    Thankfully, I've never been a drinker but my husband is a recovering alcoholic - 19 years and counting. I find that tiredness is the worst thing for challenging our willpower Georgie. I now try to stop doing physical or mental work within a specific time period so that I don't become as tired and reach for those biscuits or crisps! Love your honesty and for being so willing to share your personal problems ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  17 дней назад

      @@merylwilliams2268 I can totally see that being overtired would sap will power xxx your husband an example to us all xxx

  • @evelyngriggs8356
    @evelyngriggs8356 17 дней назад +11

    Georgie, that post was a very brave thing to do. I found it very scary because we all make excuses for actions we know are not reasonable/ unhealthy/ unaffordable and/or unsociable. I recall the smoking phase in my very long life,( I’m older than Googie!) when it was smart to have a cigarette poised between your
    fingers that made you feel adult/ joined in/ sophisticated, even sexy!
    But you stank of tobacco that no amount of perfume could eradicate. I was just out of college and earning
    poorly. I remember totalling up my cigarette expenditure and realised starkly why I could not make my income last a full month.
    I love your honesty and hearing you articulate your thinking and your reasoning was very emotional. I wish you every success in your effort to reduce your alchohol consumption.❤Evie.

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  10 дней назад

      I have to admit I've spent my time in the smoking corner too x

  • @marksiezure3285
    @marksiezure3285 17 дней назад +21

    Very good honest talk.

  • @AngieRoss-x7w
    @AngieRoss-x7w 13 дней назад +4

    I love your channel and have never commented. I live in the US and have been an NICU nurse for so many years loving my red wine darling! I am 52 years old and for the last two years, I have been flower farming and decreasing my red wine intake. Thank you for your honesty.

  • @maristermcsorley4203
    @maristermcsorley4203 11 дней назад +5

    First video for me and I’m so happy for your honesty I do have a problem with alcohol and my blood pressure is at moment no lower then 160/90 and is worrying me and I know is the every night bottle that is doing it and and is easy to start a new one and pass out and don’t remember much of what happened,thank you will start tonight 🎉

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  11 дней назад

      I hope this helps xxx

    • @racheljenkins4800
      @racheljenkins4800 3 дня назад

      I work in a homeless hostel with alcoholics and addicts. Most of the reasons for drinking is trauma, loneliness etc, the drink is a plaster on a cut that doesn't heal. Try your own AMP. Alcohol managmdnt plan. Keep a calendar. Cut down to 2 glasses a night. Put a time frame on it. Then skip every second night. Eventually you only allow yourself to drink at weekend. Then not every weekend. Best of luck❤

  • @racheljenkins4800
    @racheljenkins4800 3 дня назад +4

    It takes a lot of courage to be candid and honest with ourselves about any bad habits, drinking as a reward is never a good idea,we all know deep inside when we are over doing it but changing patterns can be hard. Fair play to you for discussing thus very private topic to the world. My tipple is gin ,2 is enough, 3 the mood changes. 😮 DURING COVID UNLIKE EVERYONE ELSE I DRANK NOTHING. The garden got done.😅

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  2 дня назад +1

      you were wise during covid - my mother in law ordered me some wine for my birthday and by mistake they sent waaaay too much and we couldn't return it so that was my covid drink xxx

  • @bernadette1510
    @bernadette1510 17 дней назад +12

    I think this topic was brilliant. Thank you for sharing.

  • @6732Louise
    @6732Louise 17 дней назад +14

    Good for you Georgie ❤ I really recommend Allen Carr’s book ‘Stop drinking now’ its incredible, my husband and I both stopped straight away after reading it that was 7 months ago and we’re not going back to alcohol now! Also Andrew Hubermans podcast on alcohol and what it does to your brain even at very small amounts is shocking 😮

  • @susanskinner8855
    @susanskinner8855 17 дней назад +8

    Well done video. Alcohol is a real issue with many woman, especially woman ! Woman, wine, book clubs, etc….lots of fun but long term effects are not worth it. Great job !

  • @juliaknight2548
    @juliaknight2548 17 дней назад +9

    Great video Georgie. I’m in the US but love British television… remember Rosemary and Thyme? Anyway - there seems to be quite a lot of social drinking on British TV and it always makes me want to run out and buy a bottle of gin! LOL! To the point though, I understand where you’re coming from and am doing the same thing - have cut way back and only drink occasionally. Thanks for introducing me to Sober October!

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  17 дней назад

      Glad you enjoyed it - we are big drinkers here I the uk so I’m glad to have taken a long hard look at why and how I drink and hope to keep the cut back cut back x

  • @stephengary1217
    @stephengary1217 17 дней назад +8

    Thank you for your honesty and bravery. I've lived with a recovering alcoholic for 35 years and we are very active in 12 step programs. I never thought I could have fun with a sober life but the last 35 years have been the richest of my life. We have developed close intimate friends of all ages and from all walks of life and from all over the world. When my husband got sober I had to look at my own relationship with alcohol, especially wine.

  • @judyjohn2248
    @judyjohn2248 17 дней назад +10

    Thank you for sharing your experience. It is empowering to know the "why" of a behavior and then be able to make a better choice for oneself. The delightful result of menopause for me was the joy of not spending time imagining what others were thinking about me. I became more direct and calmer in my personhood. Amazing how a couple of hormones have such an effect on how we see ourselves, No?

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  17 дней назад

      Totally agree - I like the feeling that I’ve earned my post menopausal status and am Deff more direct and I think calmer too x

  • @jacquelinegreen9157
    @jacquelinegreen9157 17 дней назад +7

    I love your channel no matter what the content, but I don't always or often comment as you have so many comments to answer. However I just wanted to say I really admire and respect your honesty in this video. Always look forward to your videos. Thank you for sharing. xx

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  10 дней назад

      thank you so much x comments are always welcome and I always answer them even if as in this case several days later x

  • @marilynstolberg5534
    @marilynstolberg5534 17 дней назад +19

    Thank you for your insight and honesty. Good advice.

  • @sunitashastry5270
    @sunitashastry5270 16 дней назад +3

    Thank you so much for doing this video. Your honesty in covering all the details of your relationship with alcohol is commendable.. You are doing yourself and all of us a big favor. Your coverage of both the psychological consequences and the health consequences is also very important. I’ve been watching you for a year or so and this is by far the most important video you have done. I don’t have a wine problem because it gives me a headache. But what you say about the “ party” aspect is key. We need to address this very much in all our groups and cultures. Your blood pressure data especially was very telling. So thank you for using this platform in this very significant way. .

  • @katesclan5043
    @katesclan5043 17 дней назад +8

    So much of what you said resonated and I too have flipped my drinking. I love zero % gin or kombucha instead. I found it so important to have a replacement I enjoy to hand. Sleeping better, feeling better ❤

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  17 дней назад +2

      Wonderful! Yes something instead really helpful x

  • @ninacobfeld5808
    @ninacobfeld5808 2 дня назад +2

    So good to listen to your reflections on drinking wine. I drink a glass and a half every evening while cooking dinner . I think a big part is signaling the end of the day and winding down. I’m going to try the non alcoholic g&t- thanks for reminding me. I want something non sweet and refreshing.❤

  • @Barbara-yj5tl
    @Barbara-yj5tl 17 дней назад +4

    That made me laugh out loud. The idea of ringing up the company to complain the wine made me ill. Would I need to tell them it took two bottles though? xx

  • @gco3694
    @gco3694 16 дней назад +4

    I have also reevaluated my relationship with alcohol this year, and settled on a massive reduction. My top tip is to buy much smaller wine glasses!! it sounds silly, but has made a big difference.

  • @mariejacobs9721
    @mariejacobs9721 16 дней назад +6

    I enjoyed your talk. Wine after a big day at work was my excuse to relax for awhile for many years. I love the taste of wine, particularly a nice red. An artist I followed last year stopped drinking alcohol which I found inspirational, and the timing couldn't have been better as I had been thinking I was drinking too much, only wine, and honestly I didn't think I could stop. However I did from April until December, no alcohol at all. I won't pretend it was easy, but I slept better & had no other side effects apart from fighting the wee imp on my shoulder who tried his best to make me drink. Lots of water & green tea was consumed. Xmas day 2023 I had a couple of glasses & enjoyed it. On rare social occasions after that I enjoyed a glass of wine & tried not to have wine in the house. About 2 months ago at a birthday party I drank a half bottle of red, woke up the next morning feeling wretched & haven't wanted a wine since. I still will enjoy a glass of red occasionally, however the feeling of need has gone and for that I am thankful. Apart from the cost saving I know I am not an alcoholic. I am now at an age where I can do what I want and not be afraid of being judged. We should do what feels right for ourselves, that is important. Well done, the beginning of anything different is often the worst part. M (NZ). 🍷

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  11 дней назад

      thank you so much - yes we drink for so many reasons - I'm so relieved to have been able to call time on it for the moment x

  • @stamatiamcgrath7992
    @stamatiamcgrath7992 17 дней назад +11

    Georgi! Great video. I appreciate your honesty and courage. We are so proud of you! Good luck on your journey . As we age, we have to amend our lifestyle and take better care of ourselves. What a wonderful message you are sending especially before the holiday season!! Best of luck! You can do it!

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  17 дней назад +1

      Thankyou so much - yes the holiday season can be challenging on many fronts x

  • @kymcrowart7876
    @kymcrowart7876 17 дней назад +29

    I’m a definite 2 to 3 glasses of red wine a day. I am an artist and my studio is in my home. So I am home all day every day. I love wine with my food, so I start with a glass at lunch, then I take a glass with me to the studio after…then another with dinner….that easily turns into at least half a bottle a day! I have been thinking about that this is way too much sugar etc….I eat healthy and try to maintain my health…walking etc…I’m 59! I have seriously been contemplating stopping my wine consumption. This video is exactly what I needed and as it is the first video of yours I have seen, I feel it is Divine Intervention! Thank you! However, I think your mention about Alzheimer’s and wine is incorrect. Moderate red wine consumption has been proven to actually reduce the risk of the disease….Im sure moderate is a few glasses a week not a day like me …lol

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  10 дней назад +2

      a bottle a day might be quite a lot - glad you found the video helpful and good luck! x

    • @5apph1b1u3
      @5apph1b1u3 7 дней назад

      Excessive’ drinking is linked to an increased likelihood of dementia according to Alzheimer’s org.uk.
      Excessive is defined as more than 3 drinks on any day (i.e 5 oz of wine) or more than 7 drinks per week for females.
      Canadian government guidelines recommend we limit our drinks to no more than: 2 drinks/day, 10 drinks/week, 3 drinks on special occasions + days without alcohol.
      I like my wine too so I find my husband, casually, gives me the polite reminders. I now try to keep it to 2 glasses on a Friday or Saturday. Like Georgie mentioned, awareness of your patterns/habits is important.
      Now, I need to tackle a ‘no sugar’ month.

    • @JillyAnnaKist
      @JillyAnnaKist 2 дня назад

      Please link to ANY study that shows wine is associated with improved health or living longer. It is a fallacy. Alcohol is carcinogenic and to obtain the amount of polyphenol in wine needed to improve health would entail drinking around a barrel.

    • @catherinebent5101
      @catherinebent5101 15 часов назад

      Just came across your channel today. I, too, struggle with blood pressure. Caffeine was my culprit so I limit it severely. Glad you feel better.

  • @AnaCatarina1964
    @AnaCatarina1964 17 дней назад +5

    I feel this episode was for me, thank you Georgie for a real reminder to take a hard look at the why with our relationship with alcohol. My sleep has been a struggle for a long time and I need to face the music with letting it go, not worth losing so much sleep and not being at my best.

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  10 дней назад

      the best thing about this whole experience has been improved sleep x

  • @alwayshoping125
    @alwayshoping125 17 дней назад +8

    Thank-you for this encouraging 0:11 info ! The pre dinner drink routine can sneak up on you. I really appreciate the reminder about doing things on autopilot. Lately I have become aware of this phenomenon in my own life, and am putting a stop to it 😊

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  17 дней назад

      You’re right about there-dinner drink - time to call time on it for me x

  • @BlessingsfromNorthIdaho
    @BlessingsfromNorthIdaho 17 дней назад +5

    Good for you Georgie! My family leans towards the alcoholic and I dealt with that as a child and teen so I never saw an allure in alcohol. I have a drink once in a blue moon. I’m almost 70 so I grew up in the time when EVERYONE, or so it seemed, was doing drugs but they weren’t for me. Too much like the irresponsible drinking and I wanted none of it. Unfortunately my drug of choice is sugar. Seriously. Not candy really, but anything baked is my downfall. Right now I’m abstaining from sugar to get the inflammation in my body down and it’s tough. So kudos to you for your successful Sober October. P.S. you ARE NOT boring. You’re witty, competent, compassionate, and hilarious. I wish I could visit with you in person. Have a wonderful week. TeresaSue

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  17 дней назад

      Thankyou so much TeresaSue and like you I too love a cake but try not to be too well acquainted with the biscuit tin x

  • @KarenSmith958
    @KarenSmith958 17 дней назад +3

    You are a complete inspiration, Georgie, and I noticed a new definition to your face. I can relate to virtually every point you make. My husband and I find we drink less wine than we once did, a situation that just evolved over time. We are currently staying with a close family member who recently kicked a pretty strong alcohol habit. Over the years, she got into a strop with most every family member while intoxicated, but now feels virtuous enough to alcohol-shame anyone with a grown-up drink in their hand. There is a balance and a level of understanding that comes with taking control of oneself. I feel motivated to begin 'wine-free winter'.😺

  • @vivsgardenflowersbees
    @vivsgardenflowersbees 16 дней назад +3

    This was really inspiring to hear, thanks for talking so honestly. We have switched our drinking habits to 5 days off or more instead of 1 or two only in the last month. I have fizzy water mostly and alcohol free guinness as a treat. I find it easier to get up, sleep better, for me big help is im less anxious about things feel more positive. both of us loosing weight slowly a bonus. Thanks again for sharing.

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  11 дней назад

      you're welcome - the five two way is my way forward too x

  • @dollyhare5186
    @dollyhare5186 9 часов назад

    I did the same this Oct and like you I fell off the wagon for one night. I felt all the same things as you, tired at first ate loads of chocolate then slept soooo well. I’m trying like you to moderate my intake and energy levels have gone up! Thank you for this, it’s inspired me to keep going! ❤

  • @hungariancottageadventure77
    @hungariancottageadventure77 5 дней назад +2

    kudos to you for being honest and open about your fears, much of what you've said resonates, I did a 30 day challenge just over 3 years ago, just over 3 years later I haven't touched a drop since. I've learnt so much on this journey, have you heard of the book Alcohol Explained by William Porter? he's also done many podcasts on YT .....I think you'd enjoy his writing, a very pragmatic approach, BTW im much better company now i've stopped drinking, I think so anyway

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  4 дня назад +1

      thank you x you're amazing to have given up for three years x

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  4 дня назад +1

      funilly enough i've just read the book - very interesting x

  • @courtneycullen6289
    @courtneycullen6289 13 дней назад +3

    Such a juicy conversation. I gave up drinking 21 months ago. I've had so many unexpected positives in my brain and my life. Ooh, I had TWO zero-alcohol aperol spritz on my birthday last week and it was everything I could have wanted. Having a mocktail really does trick the brain and fit that feeling.

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  11 дней назад +2

      I need to find an alcohol free red wine - that would be delish - but meanwhile am loving the non alcoholic gin and tonics x

  • @deborahburgart561
    @deborahburgart561 14 дней назад +3

    EXCELLENT video!!!!!! Thank you!

  • @pamlempi5491
    @pamlempi5491 17 дней назад +8

    I'm proud of you, Gorgie.🎉 Bravo🙌

  • @tamiratliff4459
    @tamiratliff4459 17 дней назад +4

    This is also a great teaching experience for your teenage children, very proud of your conviction to moderate ❤

  • @Wob-rt1sc
    @Wob-rt1sc 3 дня назад +2

    New subscriber here-I’ve just discovered your channel and what a lovely lady you are! The wine o’clock drinking really resonates with me. I have been an anxiety sufferer all of my life and a chronic insomniac who used wine for years to help me sleep. I was also addicted to the taste - the drier the better (a bit like the ‘hit’ you get on the back of the throat as a smoker)- I gave that up after having my children.
    I love the whole ‘lovely glass’ and ‘nibbles’ setup. I’m the same age as you and am seriously worried I have damaged my brain. I gave up for 7 months last year and I did feel so much more wholesome and sleep was so deep I couldn’t wake up. I also lost weight until starting to replace it with chocolate and scones and all things I wasn’t bothered by, prior to stopping. My anxiety didn’t improve, sadly, so now I’m back on a nightly tipple and I just want to stop but feel if I’ve damaged my brain this much then what’s the point? I’m a ‘normal’ mum and have a lovely life otherwise. Is it too late?

  • @judithhatch6175
    @judithhatch6175 10 дней назад +4

    super on point subject. I drink zero calorie Tonic with lime on ice without the gin and love it. cheers to no alcohol or very low intake. Good for your mind and body bravo

  • @gginah84
    @gginah84 7 дней назад +2

    Thank you for sharing. So interesting to hear you reflect on this, a lot rings true with me too.

  • @carolfield8803
    @carolfield8803 16 дней назад +3

    You are just what I needed. I too have a relationship with wine and I feel you are amazing to have coped. Honestly I feel I would miss the ritual/habit of sitting and sipping. I hope you have inspired me. You've certainly given me something to ponder and I thank you for your honesty. Peace

  • @YarrowPressburg
    @YarrowPressburg 17 дней назад +9

    Fabulous, love your attitude and sensibility.

  • @milkanilsson129
    @milkanilsson129 17 дней назад +8

    Thanks for sharing ❤ a very important topic! You are brave!

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  17 дней назад +1

      Thank you so much! X

    • @kathrynmettelka7216
      @kathrynmettelka7216 17 дней назад

      Some people in my mother’s family drank alcohol because they were self-medicating for depression. Those were the days when nobody talked about mental health. I’ve found that a glass of wine makes my essential tremor disappear, but since my husband doesn’t drink, I usually forget. My real addiction is Coca-Cola, which I’m wrangling with now. I only smoked cigarettes for a couple weeks my first year in college, but stopped when I found I was allergic to tobacco. Nobody looks sophisticated when their eyes nearly swell closed and their nose drips. Sometimes our bodies protect us - if we listen. All the crutches we use to get through something makes us forget to ask why we are undergoing the stress.

  • @TerryArmelin
    @TerryArmelin 17 дней назад +4

    You are an amazing lady I love your honesty and will power. Best wishes to you.

  • @karenwojtowicz5514
    @karenwojtowicz5514 11 дней назад +3

    An inspiring video. Thank you for your transparency.

  • @tuto108
    @tuto108 17 дней назад +4

    Georgie, you are courageous and real. I admire you so much.

  • @suegroen9613
    @suegroen9613 17 дней назад +9

    Well done, it's hard to break lifelong habits. Being mindful is the key. Alcohol is such an accepted vice in our society and harmful side effects are conveniently disregarded by those who love a drink (me included). Thanks for your honest chat👍

  • @joinmeinthedirt5186
    @joinmeinthedirt5186 17 дней назад +11

    I use to have wine every Friday after work and couldn’t on Saturday because I worked Sun-Friday. When I retired it became more frequent then I watched a doctor say its a habit not an addition. That changed my mind set and it helped me ween my self off of wine. It never did anything any way.

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  17 дней назад +1

      Yes Deff habit and a good habit to break x

  • @racheltree7533
    @racheltree7533 2 дня назад +2

    I went out on Saturday to a rare nightout to gig & had a great time trying to relive my late 20 something years ? Sank a few - well guess what? Late 50s now & it's going to definitely take me a week to get over the hangover!. There is a lesson & a message in there.

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  2 дня назад

      ooh sorry about the hangover - i know what you mean x

  • @emmacazaly483
    @emmacazaly483 10 дней назад +2

    Love this video- thank you so much for sharing! Incredible to hear about your drop in BP too!
    My relationship with alcohol is very similar- love the feeling of relaxing with a glass of wine after a long day of work or when catching up with friends. But recently I’ve become more and more concerned about my dependence on that as a relaxation method, even though I’d rarely have more than a glass or two at once.
    I’m now 3 months into 9 months of no alcohol (you can probably read between the lines there 😂) and despite feeling like I’m hungover a lot of the time, it feels amazing to have kicked my addiction to wine as my main relaxation in the evening! Am thinking about giving up alcohol for good now!

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  10 дней назад +2

      I'm so relieved as well that I could give up for a month - and going forward we'll see whether alcohol stays a part of my life xxx I realise how much I do it just to be part of the gang x

  • @davidcurran8039
    @davidcurran8039 7 дней назад +2

    Very interesting video but my favourite piece is pausing. Pausing to look at why we routinely do things be that drinking a little too much booze, saying yes to things we don’t always want to do, feeling we need to have the house pristine when the in-laws come over, wearing blue because someone said it suits us. The list is personal and almost endless. Reaching that place, that space in your life where you are free to finally be you. That’s worth achieving. Thanks for prompting those pauses and yes, I will have a think over a particularly delicious glass of wine this evening. By choice. Have a lovely weekend. David, Galway, Ireland

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  6 дней назад

      totally agree re the pause - and enjoy your wine - or not, if you choose something else xxx

  • @lynnegunns604
    @lynnegunns604 9 дней назад +2

    Thanks for your honesty. I’m not a drinking but have seen the effects of those who do. Real good thought provoking stuff. You will help a lot of people. Well done. ❤

  • @ro2929
    @ro2929 12 дней назад +3

    Awesome. I do frequent breaks and it feels fantastic and you sleep better. Then you are mindful when you have 2 glasses -

  • @moniquerichards6099
    @moniquerichards6099 17 дней назад +3

    I So enjoy listening to your chat and I also feel inspired to stop drinking wine! Over the winter months I have decided to drink hot chocolate instead 😊

  • @gypsyheartsouls
    @gypsyheartsouls 17 дней назад +5

    Good on you! It's enheartening to sit with One's Self and ponder these things, sometimes. You are looking great lately. It seems that your face has become "sleeker" of late. Love and Blessings. 💜💙💚💫

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  17 дней назад +1

      Ooh I love it if I look sleeker - Thankyou x

  • @skyartsmanagement
    @skyartsmanagement 5 дней назад +5

    I applaud your introspection and logical decision making. I also gave up drinking several years ago. Although I definitely had some youthful indiscretions, I had never had ongoing 'issues" with alcohol. There were several motivating factors: my health - alcohol is a known carcinogen and we have Alzheimer's in the family, my pocketbook - it didn't make sense to me to spend $$ on something which gave me only marginal pleasure, and the planet -- it has quite a high carbon footprint because it is so often imported. I worked in theatre for most of my career, which has many festive occasions so alcohol was ubiquitous; but once the decision made, I never really missed it -- except for a frosty stein of beer on a blistering day. Like you, I explored the non-alcoholic options, esp those made locally. Ironically, I have retired to the heart of one of Canada's most popular wine regions, so my abstinence sometimes raises a surprised eyebrow. But I truly like the health benefits and simplicity. (PS. I also licked smoking too - cold turkey the day I discovered I was pregnant).

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  4 дня назад

      @@skyartsmanagement Thankyou - yes I feel much healthier drinking so much less x

  • @dawnevans4272
    @dawnevans4272 15 дней назад +2

    Eloquent as ever, Georgie. Love your honesty. I'm also 57 and also cutting down drastically on the units. Home-made Kombucha is now my chosen non-alcoholic tipple on most nights - tastes different every batch and very seasonal. Went on a hilarious course with Caroline Gilmartin of EveryGoodThing in Bristol - there's not much she doesn't know about good-for-you ferments!

  • @ellenpaasch4743
    @ellenpaasch4743 17 дней назад +3

    Many thanks for sharing. Here in California we have many regional and imported wines. This past year I cut back on my wine intake from a 1/2 bottle a week to a few glasses every other week. From summer until today I have enjoyed as few as two glasses a month. I have never been a heavy drinker nor an alcoholic. Knowledge of wines and tasting have given me much enjoyment.
    It’s always good to take stock and reflect on the why’s of life.
    You are indeed a joy!

  • @jennyjohnson9012
    @jennyjohnson9012 17 дней назад +2

    Thankyou for talking about this Georgie. I have two G & T's every night but I'm sure I could do without it! I do drink a lot of water as well, but it's definitely given me food for thought and you have done so well xx

  • @susanjackson1616
    @susanjackson1616 16 дней назад +2

    Love your honesty, very inspiring, “food for thought “ … I now enjoy elderflower tonic with ice 🎉

  • @mojow9841
    @mojow9841 16 дней назад +2

    Thank your for a very thoughtful look at life and the role of alcohol. I hope all goes well for you with your new way of thinking about it.

  • @lorrainereid5707
    @lorrainereid5707 17 дней назад +17

    Good video Georgie , I love that you speak about real stuff , you're looking great btw

  • @Liz-og9gc
    @Liz-og9gc 17 дней назад +2

    I love the candid talks among us women and anyone who wants to listen in! Great talk and advice, Georgie! ❤ Many thanks again 🙏!

  • @jeannet9592
    @jeannet9592 16 дней назад +2

    You are courageous for sharing your story. I’m happy that you’ve experienced such positive improvements.

  • @myrnaburgoyne2082
    @myrnaburgoyne2082 2 часа назад

    This has been quite timely for me to see. Thank you for shining a light. I’m going to have a hard think about what you’ve said, and believe there will be some substantial changes coming for me. I enjoy a kombucha, a ginger beer (not sure soda is a great choice), and a squeeze of lime in water. There are certainly ways to cope aside from the wine.

  • @martacheetham845
    @martacheetham845 14 дней назад +2

    Your words are very inspiring. Thank you. I just happened onto your channel. I needed to hear this. Thanks again!

  • @mmandrac1
    @mmandrac1 17 дней назад +4

    Well done Georgie! Keep it up. You are an inspiration. I wish some of my friends would reflect on why it is they drink. I can only hope it happens one day.

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  17 дней назад

      I’m a big believer in working out why we do things rather than just doing on autopilot x

  • @kentvegplot
    @kentvegplot 17 дней назад +3

    Your comment about alcohol marking the end of the working day resonates. I now keep zero alcohol drinks ready for that 6pm ‘treat’

  • @MillyMM20
    @MillyMM20 16 дней назад +2

    Thank you for sharing this it was so thought provoking and honest and so appreciated!

  • @mhubertcfi
    @mhubertcfi 15 дней назад +5

    This seems to be the age that the crows come home to roost. I do live a glass of wine or beer every night but as I see friend after friend with health problems it does give pause. Thanks for sharing your experience. It’s a great conversation

  • @Christine-j7b
    @Christine-j7b 6 дней назад +3

    Not on school nights! I share a bottle and sometimes 2 with hubby over the weekends,
    I used to drink a bottle to myself and often not just on weekends so am doing ok.

  • @VictoriaColemanArt
    @VictoriaColemanArt 16 дней назад +2

    Thank you so much for being so honest, it’s interesting to hear why you drink and the alternative beverages sound good, you have inspired me…I’m so glad I found you this morning! 😊

  • @gillian4033
    @gillian4033 17 дней назад +4

    Thank you for this Georgie... it's definitely given me food for thought as my regular wine consumption is too much and I definitely need to adjust it. Thanks for the inspiration, you're a gem. G xx

  • @deenab6476
    @deenab6476 17 дней назад +2

    Well done georgie, you will be feeling so much better. I done sober October and dry January for many years….then 2 years ago …dry January arrived….and I felt so awful …swollen ankles…high BP …the whole Shabang …dry January came….and I’m still off alcohol….i just can’t bring myself to take another drink ….i can’t believe I’ve done it…tbh….thank you for your honesty….marvellous video. I tried alcohol free last week for my 60th…I actually felt drunk 😂 but it’s empty calories …I don’t need …so it’s plain water for me ❤

  • @Mersthamgal1
    @Mersthamgal1 17 дней назад +2

    Thank you for your honesty G. Lots of things to mull over now❤❤❤

  • @shannonslayton2903
    @shannonslayton2903 17 дней назад +2

    Your advice on any topic is something I certainly take to heart. I rarely have any alcohol, but so appreciate your honesty and scientific way of presenting your personal findings. We can all learn well from your introspection.

  • @melaniehudson5190
    @melaniehudson5190 13 дней назад +2

    Well done Georgie. Your honesty is always so refreshing and helpful to so many. X

  • @maureenmckenna5220
    @maureenmckenna5220 17 дней назад +22

    For me, my addiction is sugar. Milk and cookies always hit the spot. Being aware of what the stuff we put in our mouths does to us is the first step. I read labels and will always enjoy real sugar in my coffee, but because sugar is in everything here in the States, I do try and eat fresh, no anything. It all adds up. Alcohol is no different, but can be more destructive. Sugar, alcohol, drugs, all get us through, we think. We are often just adding a problem to the myriad of problems we already have. Water, yes, and with lemon, the best. Much good luck with your journey and congratulations on your trip so far. Great job!

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  17 дней назад +8

      thank you so much Maureen - I will admit I'm amazed at the blood pressure going down so much so that if nothing else should help keep me on the straight and narrow - cheers I say as I raise a glass of no alcohol gin and tonic to you x

    • @tinahart1712
      @tinahart1712 17 дней назад +4

      Hello Georgie, I absolutely love this video. You look very healthy to me, your face and neck look slightly different. I’m so proud of what you’ve done not only in your abstinence of alcohol for a month but also sharing it with people which isn’t an easy thing to do. I have never been able to drink alcohol without being very poorly, but my partner used to drink a lot before I met him. I think what is interesting is as you get older. Your body isn’t able to recover as well as it used to and so therefore the morning after tends to get worse. As far as I know, the liver can repair itself, but it is the kidneys that suffer and they do get damaged over the years. I think this video is a super inspiration for people who are looking for a healthy lifestyle and possible answers to why they are not as fit as they used to be. I was on blood pressure tablets and have weaned myself off of them by eating high fibre foods that include flaxseed. In my opinion, doctors are very keen to dish out tablets and not to ever really talk to you about the root cause of many ailments as this is not where they make their money. Good luck on your journey and thank you for sharing. I love the idea of your lemon water, I have lemons as a tea throughout the day, but I also add nettles from the garden and mint from the garden also. It’s a nice drink and has lots of vitamin C, potassium, iron, vitamin, B6 and magnesium. I hang the nettles out with the mint and dry them out and then just snip of bits as and when I need it. I harvested my mint last week, nettles need to be as young as possible ❤

    • @Laura-g1c1l
      @Laura-g1c1l 17 дней назад +3

      I agree Maureen, it isn't easy to put down the cookie....or the chocolate....or the tart....or the...well, I understand:). Just move more.

    • @MsYingyang2
      @MsYingyang2 17 дней назад +3

      I admire your courage and honesty to share your story. You have some very amazing results. I too was a frequent drinker of vodka and soda. 2 glasses a night starting at 7 pm and I would finish by 9 pm then go to bed. I did this while I worked before retirement and even after. I finally gave it up. I lost 30 lbs, went from a size 10 to a 6. I no longer have arthritis symptoms in my fingers. It is all good now. I do miss the feeling of the relaxing.

  • @BrendaElliott-q6t
    @BrendaElliott-q6t 17 дней назад +2

    Thanks Georgie…great talk…I gave up alcohol when Covid started and haven’t looked back…..good for you

  • @aswinthasteketee5771
    @aswinthasteketee5771 17 дней назад +3

    Thank you so much for this honest video. And we are all so proud of you for drinking less 💪🎉😊. I never drink alcohol, and when you don't drink people look at you if they see water burning 😂😂. But I don't care. Keep up the good works, and thank you again for sharing this personal story ❤️🍀

  • @karenchadwick9323
    @karenchadwick9323 17 дней назад +2

    Very helpful post. Thank you x

  • @susieharris5303
    @susieharris5303 17 дней назад +4

    I have been noticing that your face was looking less red. Your face is glowing. Keep going. Too much alcohol is not good for us.

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  10 дней назад +1

      ooh really - that's great - I can't see much difference but we all look at our own faces in a way that nobody else sees them x

  • @karenseger5455
    @karenseger5455 17 дней назад +9

    Real talk. I have quit drinking also. I can still have fun!

  • @victoriahewitt-coleman1112
    @victoriahewitt-coleman1112 17 дней назад +3

    Thank you Georgie, for your honest chat. And well done. 😊

  • @JoyStanford-ps7ef
    @JoyStanford-ps7ef 17 дней назад +4

    Good on you Georgie your such a inspiration

  • @rosavargas539
    @rosavargas539 10 дней назад +2

    Thanks for the great video, I’m in the USA , I’ve been day drinking since Nov 5😢 hopefully my liver will make it through inauguration 😫😭social drinking is such a pressure to belong, I book vacation around vineyard to visit I’m 50 yrs empty nester married 35 plus yrs me and hubs are enjoying life but definitely feel like taking it easy, maybe this Lent period I’ll give it a go wish me luck❤

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  10 дней назад

      ooh day drinking not ideal but that's imho - lent always a good time to take a break - Fabrizio gives up for six weeks every lent x

  • @anniewildmush1284
    @anniewildmush1284 17 дней назад +5

    thank you.. i needed this

  • @JT1358
    @JT1358 15 дней назад +4

    Don't know why this popped into my feed but maybe the universe is trying to tell me something! Gin'n'tonic is my weakness and especially at weekends gin o'clock arrives and off I go again. Keeping a count of the units was a wakeup call, but not enough. At 66 I am now on medication for high blood pressure, my father had dementia, and I can totally relate to waking in the early hours with palpitations!! The financial cost is real - a good gin isn't cheap and nor is tonic!
    Thanks for the inspiration.

  • @MyFocusVaries
    @MyFocusVaries 17 дней назад +4

    You're full of introspection of late. I love it. After COVID, we took a hard look at our alcohol consumption. We gave ourselves a bye during COVID with alcohol being a consolation for all the stress, and that drifted for quite a while after into everyday life. So we successfully did a hard cut back that has stuck.

    • @theflowerfarmer
      @theflowerfarmer  17 дней назад +1

      Yes Covid was a steep downward slope for me too - never having to drive didn’t help and the general level of apocalyptic anxiety x

    • @MyFocusVaries
      @MyFocusVaries 3 дня назад

      @@theflowerfarmer ❤️

  • @hannahbest2274
    @hannahbest2274 16 дней назад +2

    Great, what an insightful video

  • @carololiver5315
    @carololiver5315 17 дней назад +4

    such a great chat,, thank you

  • @marianamejia3743
    @marianamejia3743 9 дней назад +1

    Thanks so much for this video. I am passionate about gardening and I like wine too! I connected to all what you were saying.

  • @christinewotherspoon6655
    @christinewotherspoon6655 День назад

    Great video, packed with insightful positive thoughts 👍

  • @5262janna
    @5262janna 12 дней назад +1

    Thank you for sharing. You are making a choice to take care better and that is awesome . You have a lot to give your family and all of us and none of that has wine drinking involved!

  • @sheilamesick5964
    @sheilamesick5964 17 дней назад +5

    Helpful and a topic for women’s circles.