Thank you for your comment. It does matter a lot to us. We are the same generation. I am 50. I was 17 back in 1987. There are good open minded men. Not all ✓✓✓
37parman I'm with you, bro! I'm totally understand and i see good girl and god man. The transformation is just process, it ended and then you have woman (man) at the end/result of it.
As a Filipino transgender woman in Tinder, I have placed it in my profile for men to read. I always believed that being honest at the onset can either make or break the momentum.
@@danielbaltutis4071 but people are not thinking about reproducing right away. It's like saying a woman or a man who don't want to have children have to put on the profile they don't want kids, or a sterile woman to put on her profile she can't have children. That's way too personal, you have to first chat with the person to know about those details. Now, that's if they already had the surgery and everything, otherwise I don't know, I guess is personal choice how they want to disclose it.
@@watchingyoutube9240 a Trans woman is a Trans woman, and there's nothing wrong with that. They're not just women. I love trans people, but the whole Trans women are women thing is just setting you up for failure.
@@watchingyoutube9240 I can see that argument, but the reality is that it’s a big part of who someone is. At some point it seems like if you don’t tell someone that you’re trans, you’re withholding a big piece of yourself. Many trans people don’t even transition until they’re adults so it would be kind of weird to be in a relationship with someone and never bring that up. Also - what if you find out the person you’re with is transphobic? Wouldn’t you want to make sure they weren’t right away?
@@tr33r0t Sadly many are jealous and begrudge others being happy, because they will never know what unconditional love is, or be in a caring, sharing, considerate, equal relationship like Mathilde and Christian, they are both lovely genuine people the world needs more like them.
Best wishes to the both of you. I have to say, I'd be so lucky and honored to find someone like you. Hope you guys stay safe during these tough times with the pandemic. And on the side note, has anyone told you that you kinda look like Gal Gadot?
Christian comes off as a really amazing, supportive guy. I think it's great that he said he is secure in his sexuality, cause that's a really important thing. Too many men are afraid of what other people will think.
Sam Lee Nobody asked you this. The comment section is of different topic. And here you're telling unnecessary and mismatched garbage. Everbody loves Mathilda. Case close...
@@wghmnb9136 you’re forsuuuure the weirdo if you came to the comment section of this gorgeous girl’s video just to pretend she’s a “man” - which you’re only even aware of because she was brave enough to let the internet know that she was born a male so she could combat the stereotypes of trans people that live in so many people’s dense heads.
I started dating this Wonder girl who is transgender and our relationship just started, I became madly in love with her. I dated a few girls out there but her personality hit me before I even knew what happen. She did open up right away like you did but to me, I was having fun with her with our chat and the things we liked and now it doesn't really matter. I'm happy to to be with her and we only met online. Hopefully once covid is over, I can go meet her in real life. Wish me luck.
@@melissareed3101 the relationship lasted one and a half years. I always loved her and probably will hold her place in my heart but she broke up with me and I think it was because I was very serious about it and wanted to move to the next step but she broke my heart. It is what it is. But I was very faithful, never got into an argument and spent as much time into her as I could. For a guy who was straight, I think I did great but that's life, a relationship can't be one sided. Sorry for the bad ending to my story
@@dion5804 I think I gained a lot of experience. She was definitely someone who taught me a lot of things. Everyone has their own speed in a relationship, I learnt that loving someone with all your heart might not match with theirs even tho there is love in the air. I am on my next journey to love, in fact I'm in Vietnam on a family recommendation, she is very cute so far and I am providing as much room as possible but showing off my sweet and manly side :3
He's a good guy, and perfect for you! He genuinely wants you as a person and that isn't really common. Some people never find someone who genuinely loves them for who they are. So congrats on that. I hope you guys are forever ❤️.
You are so lucky to have each other - Mathilda for having such an understanding guy and Christian for having such a beautiful woman, among other things. May you find much joy together.
@@dayceem "Such ununderstanding guy" 😂😂😂😂😂😂 This guy just doesn't want to accept to himself that he is gay. So he choose to take guy who look like girl 😃
@@nadiamordvinkin6310 As I understand it, sexual identity is made up of at least a couple of components - the physical and the psychological. For most people, the two line up; physically they look like a girl and psychologially they feel like a girl (and vice versa). For transgender people, there is a mismatch; they look like one but feel like another. The psychological component is very strong and dominates over the physical one. Psychologically, Mathilda feels feminine and considers herself a woman. Christian is therefore in a relationship with a woman. Now if someone has a preference for a woman with male physical parts or if it's something they overlook, that's their business. I don't think it necessarily means they're gay, but so what? In the end, a person likes what a person likes, Christian says he is secure, and their happiness is what counts most.
@@dayceem Sex made up by biological factors: chromosomal set and body structures and organes that comming from chromosomal factors. Psychology of human being is depending of work of parts of brain and neuronal connections between them.
As an open minded cis male, an attractive woman (whatever may fit your definition of the meaning) is exactly just that! As long as you’re a kind soul, that’s all that matters 🙂 You guys make a cute couple, and congrats for finding one another!
@@fadumayusuf9879 how is someone who is attracted to biological women (Yes also to transwomen he was majorly attracted to ciswomen) and only dates female looking people with vagina looking genitalia gay? Omg get a reality check genuinely!
I feel you on the non dating cos of dysphoria . Thats how i am atm . One day it will change. Would you consider doing a video of whats it like being trans in sweden? How does your gov support you if they do and how do swedish ppl react to trans ppl?
Short answer, they are handeling it quite well It's basically free If you visit a therapist and the people there are quite supportive, with some exeptions. Which is basically how it is in a Lot of european countries
Thank you for sharing! I hope I can find someone to be in my life that accepts me the way Christian has accepted you! Blessings to you both for joy and happiness!
I'm so happy to see both of u understanding each other and laughing happily together,u guys were amazing,,...To me,the reason why u tell him that ure a trangender,its because u loved him so much..sweet couples,live happily 4ever
@Ashutosh Gurao lol but she has bigger balls then you. Because she made her self happy she listened to her body and so and done it.and been even so brave to give it to public.and you negative pay her bills then say something. Democratic and tolerant friend.
@Kali Evelynn You said it right: she _looks_ like a woman but in reality she is _not_ a woman. The person has a penis and women do not have penises but vaginas.
I love how boys never really go into detail they’re so simple and us girls like to know EVERYTHING! I love watching your videos so much 🥰 you’re one of my fav youtubers now! I’m glad I found your channel :’)
@@wghmnb9136 You're a sad case, huh? Nothing better to do with yourself than shit on other people. Other people that you'll never meet. You obviously have a lot of self hatred and lots of serious insecurities. Trying to make other people feel bad about themselves is both pathetic and viciously cruel. I hope you figure out a better way to interact with other humans.
Her telling him straight away is really important. If they're the person for you, they won't reject you. But they could reject you on the basis of being lied to. Without honesty there isn't a real relationship.
You both look cute together omg ♥️ I am a trans as well. I recently started to talk with a boy I met him online and he's so far the only guy who has been interested in wanting to be in a relationship with me. I met him on Grindr surprisingly.
This is the way it should be! It shouldn't matter, if the person was a male before. This gives me so much hope for our world and that people can accept everyone no matter what sex or gender they are.
@Kuzuri Kam Yes I agree with being honest and upfront and she was. She told him right away. Other than not being able to birth children, I see a woman not a man. I think the key is allowing the other person to make the decision as to whether or not it matters so honesty is integral at the very beginning. I think we as a society has stigmatized this as a bad thing, but I can't imagine being born in the wrong body. I want equal opportunity for the trans gender population to find love and acceptance for being themselves.
@@alyalenox2129 To call a male "she" is incorrect. Didn't you study English grammar? "She/her" is used for females while "he/him" is used for males. Females have vaginas, period, X chromosomes, get pregnant while males (such as "Mathilda") have penises, XY chromosomes, produce sperm, cannot get pregnant. Those who end up cutting their junk have _fake_ vaginas which do not turn them into women.
I respect you for acknowledging that it's a gender dysmorphia. I soooo love that you were mindful of him and his sexual health by telling him beforehand allowed him to exercise his sexual autonomy.
I don’t think this is gay for what he doing, she is more attractive enough to be a female and could of fooled me, I support your relationship and feel like in the future; more people will be more supportive
If you want someone to accept you lovingly... best way to find that person is being honest. So you where honest with an honest guy and got a very honest loving result.
That wasso sweet. Your boyfriend id a lucky guy. It is nice to see thstbyou met somebody supportive and the accept and love you. You are so adorable it always makes md happy to watch your videos.
So, I have a partner, FWB who is preop trans. When we started fooling, she pushed my boundaries a bit, and made me seriously think about my sexuality. Also, it awakened the life long identity that I had always felt guilty and suppressed. She has allowed me to step forward, and start transitioning as well. Stories like yours make me so happy, that love can be found no matter what our meat suits may say, and glad you found someone who recognized your gender for what and who it is.
I think this is soooo critically important to discuss and share. I was just about to bring this up on another video you made about how hurt you are when being misgendered. I am a straight guy. I am obviously an ally. I also want to be a support to help the world and each of us figure out how to better understand and deal with this. Its so complicated on both sides of the fence. Everyone has concerns and misunderstanding on both sides of the fence. I think as members of the ally club that it's our responsibility to be open and understanding to both sides of the fence's concerns and questions so that we can hopefully one day come to a peaceful understanding. I think it's important that we target the specific section of the scenario by developing a think tank that helps us pull together the concerns and beliefs of both sides (allys, and non-allys) so that we can find constructive ways to work through this. Otherwise there's just going to be continued hurt and ongoing harm done in both directions. As allys we are the only ones that seem to be willing to work towards this goal of understanding. Therefore it makes it a bit of a responsibility of ours. Anyway, just my thoughts. Unless we get organized and start to sort things out in a constructive manner in order to help educate this is going take forever for people to understand and be accepting.
My friend/ girlfriend I knew was transgender. It has almost been 8 yrs. I have seen her evolution. We have made a connection. She was still married when I met her. We didn't have anything other than a hug until her divorce. On the plus side, she only had to kiss one frog. 😘🐸 I always tell people " I am her first love and she is my last romance. " ❤❤
I'm unbelievably happy for you! This gives me hope. I'm still genderqueer and a cross dresser just working on small things, but I do want to transition. My parents aren't going to let that happen under their roof so I have to cross dress in secret and really live my life in secret, but hopefully I'll be able to move out within the next 2 years. One of my fears (that wasn't going to stop me anyway) was relationships. Personally, I'd likely be a lesbian, but I'm just glad that there is hope for that. Thank you! You're my favorite trans RUclipsr
Omg i totally understand! Everyone thinks im like somekind of pornstar when i tell them im trans and its really hurtful. Thats why its so hard to figure out who to talk to!
Mathilda you are so beautiful and your boyfriend is so handsome. He looks like the guy from Vampire Diaries. You two make a cute couple. Wishing you both well!
I wish local men in my country like your boyfriend openminded in terms of trans relation , thank you for sharing your love story Very inspiring love wins 🌸🌸🌸
Transgender woman also here from philippines🇵🇭 mixed of spanish🇪🇸 and portugese🇵🇹😊 sis me too i always say to all guys directly that im a trans cuz i dont want to waste my time and effort to those homophobics 😊
Two special people. If it would only happen for me! Very good tip to tell someone "I was not born a woman." Yes, tell someone early on - why waste your time, can be dangerous. Mathilda's videos are just so great and helpful.
OMG! The two of you are so cute together! Both of you are keepers and fit together so well that it seems like fate. I really enjoyed this video and I especially enjoyed watching the interactions between the two of you. Much love! 😊😘💋❤💃💞💞💞
I like your way of saying "I wasn't born a girl" instead of "I'm transgender". Sometime the word "transgender" can carry a lot of social perceptions and get in the way of letting people know who you are as a person.
A word from GOD ALMIGHTY in Prophecy 153 at amightywind.com. Thus sayeth GOD ALMIGHTY " And I have another thing to say to you who think you can just change your sexes. Though I created you to be a man and gave you all the sexual equipment to prove it, plus the DNA, the hormones and you women who say, "I want to be a man," I have a secret for you. You will appear before the FATHER OF CREATION-in the sex that I decreed that you were to be from the moment that you were implanted inside as an egg in that mother's womb. You'll not fool Heaven. So repent while you can. For you're not fooling Heaven. You can fool the earth, you can fool yourself, but you're not fooling your CREATOR. I tell this world to repent. “
A word from GOD ALMIGHTY in Prophecy 153 at amightywind.com. Thus sayeth GOD ALMIGHTY " And I have another thing to say to you who think you can just change your sexes. Though I created you to be a man and gave you all the sexual equipment to prove it, plus the DNA, the hormones and you women who say, "I want to be a man," I have a secret for you. You will appear before the FATHER OF CREATION-in the sex that I decreed that you were to be from the moment that you were implanted inside as an egg in that mother's womb. You'll not fool Heaven. So repent while you can. For you're not fooling Heaven. You can fool the earth, you can fool yourself, but you're not fooling your CREATOR. I tell this world to repent. “ GOD ALMIGHTY will accept you if you repent and change your old ways. Everyone is making reservations for HEAVEN or hell. You decide.
It’s crazy how you can suffer from dysphoria years after transitioning and the transition was so successful. I guess I don’t understand, so it never goes away? It’s like a chronic illness I guess, sometimes it’s good and sometimes not? It’s a confusing disorder (it is a disorder right?) idk trying to understand better, dysphoria is so foreign to me
itz sha False If Matilda was born a girl she wouldn’t have Gender Dysphoria because that would mean there would be no feeling of Distress about the body not being aligned to the female sense of self that’s why Gender Dysphoria is a thing I know because I have It myself so If I was born a female I wouldn’t be feeling dysphoric but I do most of the time
You make a BEAUTIFUL COUPLE! Both stunning and fit like puzzle pieces 🧩❤️🌈 P.S Christian needs to get his bum to a film studio he is like actor perfection, reminds me a bit of someone but I can’t think who!
Wow, you have a wonderful boyfriend... You're a very lucky girl Mathilda. It's harder for me, I'm a trans woman but I like only women, it's so hard to find a gal who likes trans women. I wish you both all the happiness that life may bring...
J. J. J. Im 48, 6 months in to my transition, and haven't even begun to consider dating yet. Im thinking that finding another woman who is willing to date a transgender woman, such as myself, is going to be terribly difficult. I'll just have to hope for the best when I decide it's time to try to start dating. Best wishes for you in your journey.
Your videos are always soo helpful. Gives me the motivation to keep on going 😊 Because of your videos I was able to discover who I am truly, like in my country there are no transgender girls/women that appear like cis women. Idk why but pretty much all of them I know are actually like the stereotype that people think of when they hear trans. Also this caused me to not being able to identify with them, since I don't want to be any what associated with guys. Like if I could be a cis woman that would be just it. I didn't think it was possible until I saw your videos and then also others. It gave me hope, allowed me to identify myself with a specific type of transgender women and took a lot of my fear. Thank you so much! I can't possibly put in words how much this means to me 🙏🏻
I think you are beautiful. I'm 48 and have only been in relationships with cisgender women, but now I'm single. As I grow older and wiser, all that interests me now is a decent personality. I could see myself falling in love with the right transgender woman and being perfectly happy
Transpeople who transitioned usually want to be Physically atractive to their partners as the gender their gender, like if someone likes me just for my personality i would feel bad, like dysphoria doesn't 100% disapear after transition, and being atractive as your gender to your partner helps you to alleviate the remaining dysphoria. In conclusion both thing are important for most trans people.
I think if I looked like you I would have way less dysphoria - I mention this because you said you still suffer from it. My experience with it is that it correlates with some contitions: If I feel good about my life in general dysphoria lessens. It also lessens if I take care of myself better visually. Clothing and makeup and how my hair looks. But it's also random. Such things as lighting conditions. Finally it is about accepting yourself as you are. I had SRS but nothing done to my barely a cup breasts. That was an issue for me for years but now I am much happier with it and don't plan on having anything done. Learning to love yourself and not forcing yourself to be a stereotypical woman...
It’s really difficult to find the right time and the right people when you’ve got a “backpack” like this. I’m a crossdresser and submissive and tell people right away too. I don’t want to force anything on them but I don’t want to be in a relationship where I hate to hide my real self either.
If you just crossdress (which is fine), it means that you have 2 "self", one masculine the other feminine, that you want to express depending on your mood, desires, etc. But it does not mean that if you hide a (dressing) part of your feminine side to your partner you are not yourself. There are other ways to express your feminine side such as care, creativity, etc.
The thing is that you gave him an option. A chance to make an informed decision. And that has led to this beautiful relationship. I have come across answers on Quora and Reddit where trans women and men say they don't want to tell even potential boy or girlfriends (not just casual dates) about their history. While of course they ain't obligated to and many fear any violent backlash, many trans men and women genuinely don't wanna even tell in a message to a potential partner in fear of getting rejected. That in my opinion is just asking for trouble and in many cases lead to bad feelings Your case is the ideal one. You gave him an option to accept you as you are or to walk away. He decided to accept you.
I’m shocked at some of the disgusting and ignorant comments on here. It’s made me really angry. I think you’re lovely Mathilda and I’m really enjoying your videos.
I wish to meet a guy as sensible and understanding as Christian... I've been through good times and bad times, but ... let's be honest, it's not that impossible to find a guy who is able to accept something like this, but relationship will either work out or it will not work out, but the problem is - how many of them are there willing to try a relationship ... ? And thats it, I really don't know where to look anymore ... 🙄 For me it's really hard and stressfull to think about when I have to tell him, because even if it's not something that obvious, I want the person I want to be with to know 😒
Well, if you're a post-op who passes like a real woman 100% and end up with a straight man, you'd have to hide it from him - if who you want is a straight guy. On the other hand, if who you want is a guy who wants to be with you despite your being transgender, then the only option is a gay guy because straight guys want to be with real women.
@@romamegalopolis469 Well, thats nice and all, but do you really think gay guy wants to be with a women? Because the reason he is gay, is that he wants to be with a man. You know, this is really difficult... Gay doesn't want to be with MtF transgender, because he is gay and str8 guy doesn't want to be with MtF, cuz he cannot cope with the knowledge/image of the woman's past... but still.. MtF woman is more suitable for a str8 man, from the point of view of a standard couple, because she is basically just a woman, it only depends on coming to terms with the past ... this is really complicated
@@AylaBuvelle Personally, if you were a post-op trans girl who I really liked, I would not have an issue. Surely the limit of not being able to have biological children is still a big deal but, for the rest, I think I'd be good with it. Every guy is different, and you might find the one that is perfectly fine with who you are. As for the gay thing, as long as a guy plays with a penis, he's either gay or - if he's also into women - bisexual. Personally, I could never deal with the fact that there's a penis attached to the person, and no matter how cool the person may be, I cannot force myself to like and accept something that I naturally reject. So, if I personally met you, Ayla Buvelle, as a fully operated woman I found attractive/hot, I would be in your sack in no time. And I say this with 100% honesty.
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world There is nothing enlightened about shrinking down so others won’t feel insecure around you. We were all meant to shine as children do. Its not just in some of us it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear. Our presence automatically liberates others.
She is so cute, as a straight guy I find her attractive. I imagine someone like you who passes really well would have a lot less conflict in that area.
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Thanx Mathilda, this was a great story.
I don't see you as transgender. I think that term implies a third gender. An alternate gender. I see you as someone who transitioned.
How amazing
@aurora3655 I have no idea how you came to that conclusion mate.
As a 52 yr old cis man, I want you to know there are people like me who understand. All the more power to your happy journey.
Thank you for your comment.
It does matter a lot to us. We are the same generation. I am 50. I was 17 back in 1987. There are good open minded men. Not all ✓✓✓
Oof when you're that old you'd settle with a guy huh?
@@crazyshemshem7897 this is unironically the new zoomer meta. "If you ain't me, you gay". You behave like soi rappers lol
@@MrZatyro what rapper? All I'm saying when you're a certain age you would settle for a guy
37parman I'm with you, bro! I'm totally understand and i see good girl and god man. The transformation is just process, it ended and then you have woman (man) at the end/result of it.
As a Filipino transgender woman in Tinder, I have placed it in my profile for men to read. I always believed that being honest at the onset can either make or break the momentum.
Yess 👍
@@watchingyoutube9240 for reproductive reasons
@@danielbaltutis4071 but people are not thinking about reproducing right away. It's like saying a woman or a man who don't want to have children have to put on the profile they don't want kids, or a sterile woman to put on her profile she can't have children. That's way too personal, you have to first chat with the person to know about those details. Now, that's if they already had the surgery and everything, otherwise I don't know, I guess is personal choice how they want to disclose it.
@@watchingyoutube9240 a Trans woman is a Trans woman, and there's nothing wrong with that. They're not just women.
I love trans people, but the whole Trans women are women thing is just setting you up for failure.
@@watchingyoutube9240 I can see that argument, but the reality is that it’s a big part of who someone is. At some point it seems like if you don’t tell someone that you’re trans, you’re withholding a big piece of yourself. Many trans people don’t even transition until they’re adults so it would be kind of weird to be in a relationship with someone and never bring that up. Also - what if you find out the person you’re with is transphobic? Wouldn’t you want to make sure they weren’t right away?
You are a very lucky girl. Christian is gorgeous, and he clearly cares for you a lot.
And he is obviously a very fortunate gentleman to have her
“Girl”
No.
Lucky dude*
Male
@@davidturczak7253 girl*
She is beautiful. He is also beautiful. I am happy to see them develop their relationship. ❤️
Really???
@@antheaamonini2536 ?
@@tr33r0t Sadly many are jealous and begrudge others being happy, because they will never know what unconditional love is, or be in a caring, sharing, considerate, equal relationship like Mathilde and Christian, they are both lovely genuine people the world needs more like them.
@ML F Jealous, poor didums 😭
@@suzannel2414 Get a life terf.
Best wishes to the both of you. I have to say, I'd be so lucky and honored to find someone like you. Hope you guys stay safe during these tough times with the pandemic. And on the side note, has anyone told you that you kinda look like Gal Gadot?
You look great together! I think is time to open our minds and love people without judgement... God bless you❤️😍😍😍🙏
thank you for spelling judgement correctly
You cant exclude judgement and try to include God. God judges everyone and his judgement is perfect.
we love a man without a fragile masculinity
Christian comes off as a really amazing, supportive guy. I think it's great that he said he is secure in his sexuality, cause that's a really important thing. Too many men are afraid of what other people will think.
ecostarr yup ain’t that the truth
Not wanting to bone a man that looks like a girl has nothing to do with being fragile. But if he's comfortable that's cool.
@@phantasmo9998 but Matilda isn't a man who looks like a girl, she's a woman, who looks like a woman.
Sam Lee Nobody asked you this. The comment section is of different topic. And here you're telling unnecessary and mismatched garbage. Everbody loves Mathilda. Case close...
I’m a trans guy. Super scared I’ll never find someone. My biggest dream is to have a family, but it feels like no one could ever love someone like me.
😘
I’m a trans woman, I feel you
You will find the right person, don't worry. Lot's of people are not bothered about us being trans if they really like us. 😊
@@sophiemac1632 I hope you’re right. :) ❤️
Are u straight?
This makes me smile so big 😭 y’all are so cute!
FTC Rage fr tho
Gay couples really gettin out there
Your videos are amazing. And he is how every guy should be.
She*
@@wghmnb9136 nope, a WOMAN living her TRUTH instead of letting ignorant people like you steal her life away from her for no goddamn reason.
@@wghmnb9136 you’re forsuuuure the weirdo if you came to the comment section of this gorgeous girl’s video just to pretend she’s a “man” - which you’re only even aware of because she was brave enough to let the internet know that she was born a male so she could combat the stereotypes of trans people that live in so many people’s dense heads.
@@wghmnb9136
I like u😂😂
@@wghmnb9136 they can't, considering they completely ignore biology lol.
I put trans on my profile, cuz i dont feel comfortable without letting them know. But then there are men who don’t READ profiles haha
So relatableeeeee
Cool.... always good to be up front....you go girl 🙂
Omg same om Badoo
I fucking read make sure I dating a REAL WOMAN NOT A IMPOSTER
@@finessecompeletion5581 same dude. I would never dare a trans woman
I started dating this Wonder girl who is transgender and our relationship just started, I became madly in love with her. I dated a few girls out there but her personality hit me before I even knew what happen. She did open up right away like you did but to me, I was having fun with her with our chat and the things we liked and now it doesn't really matter. I'm happy to to be with her and we only met online. Hopefully once covid is over, I can go meet her in real life. Wish me luck.
Update?
Yeah we need an update on that
@@melissareed3101 the relationship lasted one and a half years. I always loved her and probably will hold her place in my heart but she broke up with me and I think it was because I was very serious about it and wanted to move to the next step but she broke my heart. It is what it is. But I was very faithful, never got into an argument and spent as much time into her as I could. For a guy who was straight, I think I did great but that's life, a relationship can't be one sided. Sorry for the bad ending to my story
@@FioMioDesuYou're very cute. All relationships are ways to get self-knowledge and maturity.
@@dion5804 I think I gained a lot of experience. She was definitely someone who taught me a lot of things. Everyone has their own speed in a relationship, I learnt that loving someone with all your heart might not match with theirs even tho there is love in the air. I am on my next journey to love, in fact I'm in Vietnam on a family recommendation, she is very cute so far and I am providing as much room as possible but showing off my sweet and manly side :3
He's a good guy, and perfect for you! He genuinely wants you as a person and that isn't really common. Some people never find someone who genuinely loves them for who they are. So congrats on that. I hope you guys are forever ❤️.
@@wghmnb9136 You really need to get a life....
You and Christian are a cute couple. I wish you both nothing but happiness.
You are so lucky to have each other - Mathilda for having such an understanding guy and Christian for having such a beautiful woman, among other things. May you find much joy together.
@@dayceem "Such ununderstanding guy" 😂😂😂😂😂😂 This guy just doesn't want to accept to himself that he is gay. So he choose to take guy who look like girl 😃
@@nadiamordvinkin6310 As I understand it, sexual identity is made up of at least a couple of components - the physical and the psychological. For most people, the two line up; physically they look like a girl and psychologially they feel like a girl (and vice versa). For transgender people, there is a mismatch; they look like one but feel like another. The psychological component is very strong and dominates over the physical one. Psychologically, Mathilda feels feminine and considers herself a woman. Christian is therefore in a relationship with a woman.
Now if someone has a preference for a woman with male physical parts or if it's something they overlook, that's their business. I don't think it necessarily means they're gay, but so what? In the end, a person likes what a person likes, Christian says he is secure, and their happiness is what counts most.
@@dayceem Sex made up by biological factors: chromosomal set and body structures and organes that comming from chromosomal factors. Psychology of human being is depending of work of parts of brain and neuronal connections between them.
@@nadiamordvinkin6310 The largest sexual organ in the body is the brain.
As an open minded cis male, an attractive woman (whatever may fit your definition of the meaning) is exactly just that! As long as you’re a kind soul, that’s all that matters 🙂
You guys make a cute couple, and congrats for finding one another!
Then your gay
@@fadumayusuf9879 Nah, I’m just not a transphobic piece of shit.
Maybe you just don't want biological kids, and that's okay
@@fadumayusuf9879 how is someone who is attracted to biological women (Yes also to transwomen he was majorly attracted to ciswomen) and only dates female looking people with vagina looking genitalia gay? Omg get a reality check genuinely!
I wish/hope every trans person can find a partner like this ❤️
I feel you on the non dating cos of dysphoria . Thats how i am atm . One day it will change. Would you consider doing a video of whats it like being trans in sweden? How does your gov support you if they do and how do swedish ppl react to trans ppl?
Short answer, they are handeling it quite well
It's basically free If you visit a therapist and the people there are quite supportive, with some exeptions.
Which is basically how it is in a Lot of european countries
If you trans refugee Muslim black it's ok. Only when you're heterosexual native Swedish you're discriminated against
I feel u
Thank you for sharing! I hope I can find someone to be in my life that accepts me the way Christian has accepted you! Blessings to you both for joy and happiness!
You have a long way to go, mister.
James B jeez your a terrible person
Lmao nver thought id see a male karen
I'm so happy to see both of u understanding each other and laughing happily together,u guys were amazing,,...To me,the reason why u tell him that ure a trangender,its because u loved him so much..sweet couples,live happily 4ever
Love is love as long as both are adults who love each other. There’s nothing wrong with that. Congrats
@Ashutosh Gurao So is it? he accepted she as are . that's what matters, she's a girl now :)
Well said 👍
@Ashutosh Gurao lol but she has bigger balls then you. Because she made her self happy she listened to her body and so and done it.and been even so brave to give it to public.and you negative pay her bills then say something. Democratic and tolerant
friend.
@Kali Evelynn You said it right: she _looks_ like a woman but in reality she is _not_ a woman. The person has a penis and women do not have penises but vaginas.
@@romamegalopolis469 but will you stop commenting on everything? you look ridiculous. sex and gender are two different things. educate yourself.
He's so kind. Definitely he doesn’t care! 😂
I love how boys never really go into detail they’re so simple and us girls like to know EVERYTHING! I love watching your videos so much 🥰 you’re one of my fav youtubers now! I’m glad I found your channel :’)
Yup Jesus loves you:)
More boys like Christian, amen
It's great that you have found someone who loves you for who you are. I am so happy for you both and wish you both a bright and happy future.
@@wghmnb9136 You're a sad case, huh? Nothing better to do with yourself than shit on other people. Other people that you'll never meet. You obviously have a lot of self hatred and lots of serious insecurities. Trying to make other people feel bad about themselves is both pathetic and viciously cruel. I hope you figure out a better way to interact with other humans.
Girl you got a man that looks like Paul Wesley (Stephen) from the Vampire Diaries.
I want thinking exactly the same!!!!
Maybe hes Paul's Doppelganger lol
Exactly what I was thinking lol
U r r8
Nordic Stephan
Thanks for sharing your story with us, Mathilda. You two are great together!
Her telling him straight away is really important. If they're the person for you, they won't reject you. But they could reject you on the basis of being lied to. Without honesty there isn't a real relationship.
You both look cute together omg ♥️ I am a trans as well. I recently started to talk with a boy I met him online and he's so far the only guy who has been interested in wanting to be in a relationship with me. I met him on Grindr surprisingly.
This is the way it should be! It shouldn't matter, if the person was a male before. This gives me so much hope for our world and that people can accept everyone no matter what sex or gender they are.
@Kuzuri Kam Yes I agree with being honest and upfront and she was. She told him right away. Other than not being able to birth children, I see a woman not a man. I think the key is allowing the other person to make the decision as to whether or not it matters so honesty is integral at the very beginning. I think we as a society has stigmatized this as a bad thing, but I can't imagine being born in the wrong body. I want equal opportunity for the trans gender population to find love and acceptance for being themselves.
@Kuzuri Kam she was honest. so shut up and take your tossic masculinity elsewhere.
@Kuzuri Kam She* not he. at least respect the pronoun. (SHE)
@@alyalenox2129 To call a male "she" is incorrect. Didn't you study English grammar? "She/her" is used for females while "he/him" is used for males. Females have vaginas, period, X chromosomes, get pregnant while males (such as "Mathilda") have penises, XY chromosomes, produce sperm, cannot get pregnant. Those who end up cutting their junk have _fake_ vaginas which do not turn them into women.
@@romamegalopolis469 Shut up Transphobic.
Good vibe between the two of you! Nice communication and respect towards eachother. Very pleasant to watch you two!
I respect you for acknowledging that it's a gender dysmorphia. I soooo love that you were mindful of him and his sexual health by telling him beforehand allowed him to exercise his sexual autonomy.
I don’t think this is gay for what he doing, she is more attractive enough to be a female and could of fooled me, I support your relationship and feel like in the future; more people will be more supportive
You need look at more females
He is gay. Two men dating makes them both gay
Good looking couple. I am a straight guy and as far as women go you are very attractive. Best wishes to you both for a happy and full filling life.
@@wghmnb9136 She*
@@alyalenox2129 he
@@kasadam85 She*
@@alyalenox2129 he
@@kasadam85 She*
If you want someone to accept you lovingly... best way to find that person is being honest. So you where honest with an honest guy and got a very honest loving result.
That wasso sweet. Your boyfriend id a lucky guy. It is nice to see thstbyou met somebody supportive and the accept and love you. You are so adorable it always makes md happy to watch your videos.
So, I have a partner, FWB who is preop trans. When we started fooling, she pushed my boundaries a bit, and made me seriously think about my sexuality. Also, it awakened the life long identity that I had always felt guilty and suppressed. She has allowed me to step forward, and start transitioning as well. Stories like yours make me so happy, that love can be found no matter what our meat suits may say, and glad you found someone who recognized your gender for what and who it is.
True Love Has No Genders, It Joins Two Souls.
I think this is soooo critically important to discuss and share. I was just about to bring this up on another video you made about how hurt you are when being misgendered. I am a straight guy. I am obviously an ally. I also want to be a support to help the world and each of us figure out how to better understand and deal with this. Its so complicated on both sides of the fence. Everyone has concerns and misunderstanding on both sides of the fence. I think as members of the ally club that it's our responsibility to be open and understanding to both sides of the fence's concerns and questions so that we can hopefully one day come to a peaceful understanding. I think it's important that we target the specific section of the scenario by developing a think tank that helps us pull together the concerns and beliefs of both sides (allys, and non-allys) so that we can find constructive ways to work through this. Otherwise there's just going to be continued hurt and ongoing harm done in both directions. As allys we are the only ones that seem to be willing to work towards this goal of understanding. Therefore it makes it a bit of a responsibility of ours. Anyway, just my thoughts. Unless we get organized and start to sort things out in a constructive manner in order to help educate this is going take forever for people to understand and be accepting.
My friend/ girlfriend I knew was transgender. It has almost been 8 yrs. I have seen her evolution. We have made a connection. She was still married when I met her. We didn't have anything other than a hug until her divorce.
On the plus side, she only had to kiss one frog. 😘🐸
I always tell people " I am her first love and she is my last romance. " ❤❤
I'm unbelievably happy for you! This gives me hope. I'm still genderqueer and a cross dresser just working on small things, but I do want to transition. My parents aren't going to let that happen under their roof so I have to cross dress in secret and really live my life in secret, but hopefully I'll be able to move out within the next 2 years. One of my fears (that wasn't going to stop me anyway) was relationships. Personally, I'd likely be a lesbian, but I'm just glad that there is hope for that. Thank you! You're my favorite trans RUclipsr
Omg i totally understand! Everyone thinks im like somekind of pornstar when i tell them im trans and its really hurtful. Thats why its so hard to figure out who to talk to!
Mathilda you are so beautiful and your boyfriend is so handsome. He looks like the guy from Vampire Diaries. You two make a cute couple. Wishing you both well!
Lookism discrimination of ugly people. Social justice warriors are watching your comment
Right.
Couple goals!!! You two are such a cute couple ❤️
I love gay male couples too
@@jamesb4898 But they are a straight couple tho
James B hope you find the right man for you 😌 unfortunately there’s only 1 mane in this vid and he’s taken
Ashley ford lol and replying to something 2 months ago? Someone has a lot of time on their hands
Moni Omnas literally
I'm glad you tell people early on about your journey because it helps the relationship.
I wish local men in my country like your boyfriend openminded in terms of trans relation , thank you for sharing your love story Very inspiring love wins 🌸🌸🌸
Transgender woman also here from philippines🇵🇭 mixed of spanish🇪🇸 and portugese🇵🇹😊 sis me too i always say to all guys directly that im a trans cuz i dont want to waste my time and effort to those homophobics 😊
@Stony Korpes And still looks better then you i bet.
Congratulations, lovely genuinely, kindness couple. I very happiness with you're both. Enjoyed life together.
I really appreciate how respectful u are to each other.
You are an angel. I wish both of you a happy and a prosperous future.
Two special people. If it would only happen for me! Very good tip to tell someone "I was not born a woman." Yes, tell someone early on - why waste your time, can be dangerous. Mathilda's videos are just so great and helpful.
Thank you both for sharing your story. I think you both make a very nice couple. You've taught me how to talk to any future boyfriends. :)
@@wghmnb9136 ur so transphobic
He's a gem.
Mathilda appreciates his sense of humor, other wonderful personality traits which have made him a loyal boyfriend.
OMG! The two of you are so cute together! Both of you are keepers and fit together so well that it seems like fate. I really enjoyed this video and I especially enjoyed watching the interactions between the two of you. Much love! 😊😘💋❤💃💞💞💞
I like your way of saying "I wasn't born a girl" instead of "I'm transgender". Sometime the word "transgender" can carry a lot of social perceptions and get in the way of letting people know who you are as a person.
You can't tell that she's a trans just by looking at her. She's beautiful. ♥️♥️ best wishes for you.
@shoahshanagoldberg-shekels5253
Small head, average nose, average hands.
Stop lying, you're just projecting cuz you look like Shrek 💀
I also never had a relationship until now after I transitioned..
Hi
You are still a man
@@ladyinred9656 no I am not, Science proves that Trans women are women! Even if you don't think so. does not effect me.. I never was one nor am I...
A word from GOD ALMIGHTY in Prophecy 153 at amightywind.com. Thus sayeth GOD ALMIGHTY " And I have another thing to say to you who think you can just change your sexes. Though I created you to be a man and gave you all the sexual equipment to prove it, plus the DNA, the hormones and you women who say, "I want to be a man," I have a secret for you. You will appear before the FATHER OF CREATION-in the sex that I decreed that you were to be from the moment that you were implanted inside as an egg in that mother's womb. You'll not fool Heaven. So repent while you can. For you're not fooling Heaven. You can fool the earth, you can fool yourself, but you're not fooling your CREATOR. I tell this world to repent. “
A word from GOD ALMIGHTY in Prophecy 153 at
amightywind.com. Thus sayeth GOD ALMIGHTY " And I have another thing to
say to you who think you can just change your sexes. Though I created you to be
a man and gave you all the sexual equipment to prove it, plus the DNA, the
hormones and you women who say, "I want to be a man," I have a secret
for you. You will appear before the FATHER OF CREATION-in the sex that I
decreed that you were to be from the moment that you were implanted inside as
an egg in that mother's womb. You'll not fool Heaven. So repent while you can.
For you're not fooling Heaven. You can fool the earth, you can fool
yourself, but you're not fooling your CREATOR. I tell this world to repent. “
GOD ALMIGHTY will accept you if you repent and change your old ways. Everyone is making reservations for HEAVEN or hell. You decide.
It’s crazy how you can suffer from dysphoria years after transitioning and the transition was so successful. I guess I don’t understand, so it never goes away? It’s like a chronic illness I guess, sometimes it’s good and sometimes not? It’s a confusing disorder (it is a disorder right?) idk trying to understand better, dysphoria is so foreign to me
if she was born a girl she wouldn't have gender dysphoria
the gender dysphoria will still exist bc she was born physically a boy( dna..ect).
itz sha False If Matilda was born a girl she wouldn’t have Gender Dysphoria because that would mean there would be no feeling of Distress about the body not being aligned to the female sense of self that’s why Gender Dysphoria is a thing I know because I have It myself so If I was born a female I wouldn’t be feeling dysphoric but I do most of the time
girl u got a real keeper right there, a guy that loves u no matter ur past and and rightout said it doesnt bother him, thats a rare find ^^
Thats a guy
@@branielsolano8358 no shes not, srsly how ignorant can ppl be.. she was a guy, but as u should be able to see with ur 2 eyes, shes not a guy anymore
We need more men like him
Which one?
Soldier no
@@soldier9453 xd
@@soldier9453 Oh yes
@@soldier9453 XD moment.
Great video it was supposed to be a video about how you met but turned into a comedic moment of reflection love it
What a beautiful couple!
😅
Two handsome men
I'm so happy for them honestly
You make a BEAUTIFUL COUPLE! Both stunning and fit like puzzle pieces 🧩❤️🌈
P.S Christian needs to get his bum to a film studio he is like actor perfection, reminds me a bit of someone but I can’t think who!
I don’t know the actors name, but he reminds a lot like the guy from the vampire dairies, kind’ve 😁
Wow, you have a wonderful boyfriend... You're a very lucky girl Mathilda. It's harder for me, I'm a trans woman but I like only women, it's so hard to find a gal who likes trans women. I wish you both all the happiness that life may bring...
J. J. J.
Im 48, 6 months in to my transition, and haven't even begun to consider dating yet.
Im thinking that finding another woman who is willing to date a transgender woman, such as myself, is going to be terribly difficult.
I'll just have to hope for the best when I decide it's time to try to start dating.
Best wishes for you in your journey.
So you’re a straight man then. Why transition at all?
@@jamesb4898 I struggle with that concept too . All that hassle to be with women but some people want to be a girl
Very lucky man mathilda. I think your auto correct messed that up, good thing I caught it ;)
You are beautiful don't let the haters bother you
Your videos are always soo helpful. Gives me the motivation to keep on going 😊
Because of your videos I was able to discover who I am truly, like in my country there are no transgender girls/women that appear like cis women. Idk why but pretty much all of them I know are actually like the stereotype that people think of when they hear trans. Also this caused me to not being able to identify with them, since I don't want to be any what associated with guys. Like if I could be a cis woman that would be just it. I didn't think it was possible until I saw your videos and then also others. It gave me hope, allowed me to identify myself with a specific type of transgender women and took a lot of my fear. Thank you so much! I can't possibly put in words how much this means to me 🙏🏻
Mathilda, I admire you so much, you're my favorite RUclipsr hahah. Thanks for your videos, I love all of them!💕
gurll im soo happy for u
I think you are beautiful. I'm 48 and have only been in relationships with cisgender women, but now I'm single. As I grow older and wiser, all that interests me now is a decent personality. I could see myself falling in love with the right transgender woman and being perfectly happy
Looking beautiful as always girl, love your videos ❤. Cant wait to see what the the next one will be about .
Glad you uploaded this video. You two make a great couple.
He was able to see you for who you are as a person :) as it should be. Like someone for their personality. Happy for you two ❤
Transpeople who transitioned usually want to be Physically atractive to their partners as the gender their gender, like if someone likes me just for my personality i would feel bad, like dysphoria doesn't 100% disapear after transition, and being atractive as your gender to your partner helps you to alleviate the remaining dysphoria. In conclusion both thing are important for most trans people.
@@stefaniefanny9949 Are you a Transgender Woman?
I think if I looked like you I would have way less dysphoria - I mention this because you said you still suffer from it.
My experience with it is that it correlates with some contitions: If I feel good about my life in general dysphoria lessens. It also lessens if I take care of myself better visually. Clothing and makeup and how my hair looks.
But it's also random. Such things as lighting conditions.
Finally it is about accepting yourself as you are. I had SRS but nothing done to my barely a cup breasts. That was an issue for me for years but now I am much happier with it and don't plan on having anything done. Learning to love yourself and not forcing yourself to be a stereotypical woman...
He’s so lovely. Congratulations ❤️
Who do you mean ? The man on the left or right.
Sarita Kotze the person on the left is a women and they meant the person on the right
@@bintousylla5443 Natural born woman that God made. You are what your born with. You cant turn a man into a woman.
If she identifies as a woman then she is a woman
It’s really difficult to find the right time and the right people when you’ve got a “backpack” like this.
I’m a crossdresser and submissive and tell people right away too. I don’t want to force anything on them but I don’t want to be in a relationship where I hate to hide my real self either.
If you just crossdress (which is fine), it means that you have 2 "self", one masculine the other feminine, that you want to express depending on your mood, desires, etc. But it does not mean that if you hide a (dressing) part of your feminine side to your partner you are not yourself. There are other ways to express your feminine side such as care, creativity, etc.
SHES WHOLESOME ! 😙
So happy for you.
The thing is that you gave him an option. A chance to make an informed decision. And that has led to this beautiful relationship.
I have come across answers on Quora and Reddit where trans women and men say they don't want to tell even potential boy or girlfriends (not just casual dates) about their history.
While of course they ain't obligated to and many fear any violent backlash, many trans men and women genuinely don't wanna even tell in a message to a potential partner in fear of getting rejected.
That in my opinion is just asking for trouble and in many cases lead to bad feelings
Your case is the ideal one. You gave him an option to accept you as you are or to walk away. He decided to accept you.
You are so feminine, and your smile is so endearing. How fantastic to find love, you make a great couple!
It's probably a woman who is scamming the Trans band wagon.
What a good dude, you're both fortunate to have one another.
Gay guys are always so happy together
Atl Chopperz lol stop hating
Bisexual men
so this is what being a good looking young guy in 2020 gets you
Lmao
I am soo jealous. You and your boyfriend are absolutely gorgeous.
What a truly, lovely couple.
I like your natural ness it's good to see honesty works!
I’m shocked at some of the disgusting and ignorant comments on here. It’s made me really angry. I think you’re lovely Mathilda and I’m really enjoying your videos.
What a Lucky Guy!!!😜j/k that's great that you to found each other.
This video never gets old for me i can watch it again and again
I wish to meet a guy as sensible and understanding as Christian... I've been through good times and bad times, but ... let's be honest, it's not that impossible to find a guy who is able to accept something like this, but relationship will either work out or it will not work out, but the problem is - how many of them are there willing to try a relationship ... ?
And thats it, I really don't know where to look anymore ... 🙄
For me it's really hard and stressfull to think about when I have to tell him, because even if it's not something that obvious, I want the person I want to be with to know 😒
Well, if you're a post-op who passes like a real woman 100% and end up with a straight man, you'd have to hide it from him - if who you want is a straight guy.
On the other hand, if who you want is a guy who wants to be with you despite your being transgender, then the only option is a gay guy because straight guys want to be with real women.
@@romamegalopolis469 Well, thats nice and all, but do you really think gay guy wants to be with a women? Because the reason he is gay, is that he wants to be with a man. You know, this is really difficult... Gay doesn't want to be with MtF transgender, because he is gay and str8 guy doesn't want to be with MtF, cuz he cannot cope with the knowledge/image of the woman's past... but still.. MtF woman is more suitable for a str8 man, from the point of view of a standard couple, because she is basically just a woman, it only depends on coming to terms with the past ... this is really complicated
@@AylaBuvelle Personally, if you were a post-op trans girl who I really liked, I would not have an issue. Surely the limit of not being able to have biological children is still a big deal but, for the rest, I think I'd be good with it. Every guy is different, and you might find the one that is perfectly fine with who you are.
As for the gay thing, as long as a guy plays with a penis, he's either gay or - if he's also into women - bisexual. Personally, I could never deal with the fact that there's a penis attached to the person, and no matter how cool the person may be, I cannot force myself to like and accept something that I naturally reject.
So, if I personally met you, Ayla Buvelle, as a fully operated woman I found attractive/hot, I would be in your sack in no time. And I say this with 100% honesty.
@@romamegalopolis469 Thanx for your honesty, I appreciate it :)
@@romamegalopolis469 have you ever eat fried flies?
you did a good job on your tranzition, i would never in a million years would look at you and say she is trans, even your voice is amazing
I love your sweater!!!💕
I've never heard of a trans person having gender dysphoria after transitioning. What does it mean? What does it feel like?
I am trans and I think that nobody would want to be with me....this gives me some hope
Be yourself. Be confident. There is someone out there youll meet and be happy with
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
Your playing small does not serve the world
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking down so others won’t feel insecure around you. We were all meant to shine as children do.
Its not just in some of us it’s in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear.
Our presence automatically liberates others.
It's official. Most gorgeous couple in the world
You found True Love.
Don’t let anyone break you up
Thankyou,may your lives be full of love and light ✨♥️🌼
I think telling someone five minutes in is good, that way you won’t waste time.
Its really cool that you were up front right away. And your boyfriend for being so open minded and secure in his sexuality.
I think people should tell the person they’re talking to before anything physical happens or even before they meet if possible for there safety.
She is so cute, as a straight guy I find her attractive. I imagine someone like you who passes really well would have a lot less conflict in that area.
@@wghmnb9136 didnt say I was dating her. Maybe I'm more secure in that fact?
Interesting Story 😍😍😍. Congratulation Sis