Bride Cancels Wedding Dress Order Because The Groom Doesn't Like It! | Say Yes To The Dress
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Ivania had already bought her dress when she learned that her groom didn’t like it, so she’s back with her fiancé to find a new one. Meanwhile, bride Jaclyn comes to the boutique to find her perfect dress.
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The bride needs to keep the dress she likes and cancel the fiance.
She says, "He has to be in on every decision made"... and I'm thinking, RUN AWAY.
Truer comment never made!
It's a show. She more than likely got that dress as payment 😊❤
@@patjones5723 you don't get paid anything to be on the show and you have to pay full price for anything you buy. It's not glamorous to be on the show at all.
@@NH-tb2smimagine being on TV, they choose your episode because they managed to create drama out of it that would lead to either cyber bullying of yourself or a member of your family, and make profit out of your episode while you get nothing other than the bad reputation and bullying
I’m Latina and the fact she’s even following her fiancé’s taste feels like a recipe for disaster.
Controlling ....run now.
That sounds disrespectful towards all the Latinas! Chancla him! 😂
I agree. I'm Latina too and there's no way I would let him pick my dress. She needs a backbone. She seems to be a yes dear, no honey person.
What does being Latina have to do with it? Don’t know much about the culture and I’m genuinely curious
I am an old lady from UK and I thought just the same.
0:19 *”He wants to be in every decision made”* 🚩🚩🚩
My reaction EXACTLY RUNNNNNN AWAY GIRL!
Bingo! He'll never let her make another decision after she says "I do"...
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I think some people on here missed that little gem .
😮😢 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️
And this is why Lori says "No foxes in the henhouse!"
She didn’t even try the first dress on!!!! He looks like he’d rather be anywhere else…and he didn’t nix her dress, she sent him a list and he picked that one as the least favourite with no idea it was hers and SHE freaked. She’s bawling because she found HER ideal dress- the last time she found her cousin’s dream dress because SHE DIDN’T TRY IT ON. The man deserves a medal.
I love Lori❤
@grandthanks I missed that she didn't try it on, 😮 who buys a dress they didn't try on
How do Randy n Monte not have a show❤❤
Can we get a “Where Are They Now update?”😃
So many red flags with her fiancée. He’s a control freak and the whole marriage will be his way or the Highway. Forget that!
People say this stuff, but did it ever occur to you that maybe there are some women who like more controlling men? She specifically said she’s an introvert. I personally tried dating a man who was not controlling and was easy going and we are not together today because I felt he didn’t have a backbone.
@@AkireMaruI am an introvert as well. The older I get, the more introverted I become. My husband did not see my dress before the wedding. He is an extrovert, so opposites attract in our case. The groom is not supposed to see the bride in her dress before the wedding.
@@AkireMaru There's a difference between being controlling, introverted, laid-back, and not having a backbone.
Someone can be controlling but lack backbone and be an insecure weasel.
Like wise, someone can be laid back but know exactly what they want and how they want it. They're just not going to be uppity about it if it's not perfect.
introverted doesn't mean you need controlling, it means you need peace alone time. I'm introverted, if someone tried to control me, tell me what to do, wear, how to talk or think, kick them out of my house and tell them to go get a dog, because I don't sit on command. Eff that.
Can everyone just stop deciding about other people’s relationships? Everyone’s relationship works and looks different based on the two completely unique individuals who make up the couple. I know tons of women who had all sorts of things to say about what the groom wore. And I’ve known plenty of men who had a say in what the bride wore. Why would either be controlling? It’s their wedding *together* and many couples make their decisions about this incredibly expensive, most important day of their lives, collectively. That’s actually a really healthy thing. Now if she said she wanted to pick it out on her own and surprise him but he didn’t respect that, that would be a very different story. But that’s not what happened here.
He was not that bad, I've seen much worse on the show, he was quite supportive.
Since when do we show the groom the dress before the wedding?
I know. There are some people who do believe in not letting the groom see the dress until the ceremony.
@@dr.emilyacevedo812 I took only my fiancé when I went dress shopping.
No harm in showing the groom the dress, if that's what you both want.
We do this when he’s a control freak.
When he needs to control everything, she needs to run
To start with I thought 'uh oh' control freak, but actually he was super sweet and supportive. She didnt even try on the first dress, her cousin tried it. It became clear he was on her side. He jumped straight up when she cried. The test run for dancing and 'we got the dress' cheer was everything ❤
I completely agree! Why do the people hate this man?? what the heck is wrong with your grooms opinion 😢 he said nothing about her looking inadequate, he just though the dress looked like a curtain ?
if you are not confident in yourself and need your husband’s approval for your wedding dress, just don’t get married.
Not a bride. A doormat.
Righttttt
exactly
She looks so sad 🥺
The first bride is so passive to a point it's so annoying.
She’s shy. He’s controlling. That isn’t a good “balance”.
Shy or slave🤏😂
Shy or slave🤏😂
I can't see the video for all the red flags in the way.
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That first bride's fiancee was too demanding. Run.
Right? narcissist pur sang.
She didn’t even try the first dress on!!!! He looks like he’d rather be anywhere else…and he didn’t nix her dress, she sent him a list and he picked that one as the least favourite with no idea it was hers and SHE freaked. She’s bawling because she found HER ideal dress- the last time she found her cousin’s dream dress because SHE DIDN’T TRY IT ON. The man deserves a medal.
I thought he was lovely
@@irenadiab3173he made her cancel a dress she rlly liked… for her wedding… she looked so sad and almost cried like ?? Clearly he cares more about how she looks than her happiness
Both brides look beautiful in their dresses.
both brides ?
😅😂😂😂😅
She has no will power. You can tell that she really liked her first dress but he changed her mind. So sad that he lied that he said and I QUOTE “ the last two pictures she sent him he said what were they thinking when they made these dresses “ and now he said that, he is wrong. Millions of people heard him and I hope she finds her voice and Stands UP for her self
Did you watch it. She didn’t though. She liked it on her cousin. Not herself. She loved the one she picked this time.
She didn’t even try it on!!! They might actually balance each other…she is sooooooo passive, it seems like she’s the one who’s dragged him along. She didn’t even try the first one on and people are giving him shite for it??? Wild.
No, she won’t.
Bro cancel his ass, instead.
She didn’t even try the first dress on!!!! He looks like he’d rather be anywhere else…and he didn’t nix her dress, she sent him a list and he picked that one as the least favourite with no idea it was hers and SHE freaked. She’s bawling because she found HER ideal dress- the last time she found her cousin’s dream dress because SHE DIDN’T TRY IT ON. The man deserves a medal.
@@grandthanks oh piss off she changing because him he is controlling Dumb arse
I hate when the groom does this. It should be the bride's choice. So controlling.
She didn’t even try the first dress on!!!! He looks like he’d rather be anywhere else…and he didn’t nix her dress, she sent him a list and he picked that one as the least favourite with no idea it was hers and SHE freaked. She’s bawling because she found HER ideal dress- the last time she found her cousin’s dream dress because SHE DIDN’T TRY IT ON. The man deserves a medal.
From what he said about not going with her because of the bride's family that groom wasn't going to like anything the bride's family liked. The bride should have known that before sending him pictures of the dresses she tried on.
He definitely was not the groomzilla I was expecting ❤❤❤
So i'm not sure I was watching the same video I was... The groom didn't seem controlling, he seemed like he cared and was genuinely happy when she found the dress that made her cry. She literally said that her cousin is the one that tried on her first dress not her... Seems like her family was controlling and that she didnt really have a say the first time.... Its 2024 folks, not everyone sticks to the same traditions... Before everyone starts bashing what im saying you should know that I have never been someone others can control or manipulate, I have been happily married for 14 years and we had a very traditional church ceremony.... I just understand that everyone is different and what I saw was a supportive man not a controlling a**!
I completely agree. I find it strange that people thought he was controlling, when it seemed like it was the original family that was controlling and forced her to choose a dress that looked good on her cousin. Plus remember he didn't know which one she picked, he just didn't likes that 1 from the photos. He was honest, and he told her his preference. Sure she might have self-esteem issues, but as soon as she liked the dress enough to cry, he comforted her and he accepted that dress. Men don't want their wives to dress like their Grandma's LOL
I also agree with you.
I am glad the first bride found a dress that made her happy, but there were a lot of red flags 🚩🚩popping up along the way.
The bride who cancelled her wedding dress should be calling of the wedding. I don't understand why a groom thinks he should have an input o the brides dress. That is just the start of things to come.
@@donnabradley9926Not necessarily and it just depends.
1st bride needs to cancel the wedding and revaluate the relationship. 2nd bride chose a beautiful dress.
What the hell are you talking about?? When the first bride came out in the 1st dress, it was horrible. When she came out in the dress of her choice her fiancé loved it. When the tears flowed, he jumped up to comfort her. He was not controlling her.when he saw the pics of her first pic, he said he hated it. A little strong of language, but she was the one who showed it to him, so??He liked it better in person, so he would have liked it on the wedding day, after alterations had been made and with a veil. But she chose to show him the pic and from there they ended up back at Kleinfeld’s and she left with a gorgeous gown.
Never did the groom-to-be show any aggressive or controlling behavior.
I used a skill called critical thinking. You may want to look into it. It is very helpful in situations such as this.
Yeah ...I bet they don't stay together long or she lives very unhappy.
@@songbirds3712eh really? Just really?
Absolutely no need to cancel the wedding. I foresee them celebrating many years together.
@@sharcrum They’re still together with 3 children. Not sure if they’re happy 🤷🏼♀️
Unpopular opinion: I didn't find the groom controlling at all. He was there to support, guide (as she wanted his input), reassure, and share in the moment. I find it wild that a groom helping to plan the wedding is considered 'controlling'. It's not the bride's day - it is the couples day and if the bride wants it to be all hers, then there are some red flags for you.
I agree with you and he was not that bad.
Disagree his a walking 🚩
The only thing that struck me as controlling was her saying he has to be in every decision and him saying he didn't patience for shopping or didn't like shopping or whatever it was. So, I had thought, "...So, why are you there then?" But by the end of it, I didn't actually feel like he was being controlling. He was supportive of her, especially when she started crying over the dress she loved, and he seemed genuinely happy for her.
he literally said her wedding dress was ugly
I agree 100% imagine if it was flipped and the groom said she wants to be a part of every decision in the wedding and everyone said 'red flag' poor guys can't win. Some people are controlling but this guy didn't seem to be at all.
i thought the second dress was the best fit for a spanish-themed wedding, since it had that flamenco style. idk why guys automatically see all lace as "grandma's doilies." at least the bride found a dress she truly loved.
The better be tears of joy is more what he means. I hope this girl figured him out before this wedding.
Their wedding was actually shown on the show so no lol
She didn’t even try the first dress on!!!! He looks like he’d rather be anywhere else…and he didn’t nix her dress, she sent him a list and he picked that one as the least favourite with no idea it was hers and SHE freaked. She’s bawling because she found HER ideal dress- the last time she found her cousin’s dream dress because SHE DIDN’T TRY IT ON. The man deserves a medal.
Ladies stop bringing boyfriends or groom to see the dress it’s bad luck that has been always the saying ! It’s suppose to be your choice and I don’t like people telling me what I love It’s my day !
If people want to bring their groom, then I don't see why not. Not only is the dress the bride's choice, it's also her choice who she brings. No difference between asking her mother, asking her best friend, or asking her groom. Whoever she wants. Having said that, this particular groom seems rather controlling. But that doesn't mean they all are.
She didn’t even try the first dress on!!!! He looks like he’d rather be anywhere else…and he didn’t nix her dress, she sent him a list and he picked that one as the least favourite with no idea it was hers and SHE freaked. She’s bawling because she found HER ideal dress- the last time she found her cousin’s dream dress because SHE DIDN’T TRY IT ON. The man deserves a medal.
A reasonable groom would love what she loves and not have to be involved in every decision being made. You can see the dynamic here already and he knows it!
For all the people criticizing the 1st bride for inviting the groom, it is memorable day for him too. It is ultimately the bride's choice, but why should mother's, inlaws, and assorted females have more say than the one standing across from you, and helping you take it off later?
0:50 the look of concern on the consultant’s face 💀
She didn’t even try the first dress on!!!! He looks like he’d rather be anywhere else…and he didn’t nix her dress, she sent him a list and he picked that one as the least favourite with no idea it was hers and SHE freaked. She’s bawling because she found HER ideal dress- the last time she found her cousin’s dream dress because SHE DIDN’T TRY IT ON. The man deserves a medal.
Poor girl, she seems so sweet. I pray he doesn’t ruin her 😬
I like the way he looks at her, she doesn't really know what she wants and who she is, maybe he can give her confidence. To me he seems to be a nice man, warm and loving
My fiancé says he wants me to wear a flower crown and Aline dress. Guess what? I’m wearing 3m veil and mermaid dress! He knows that and supports it, as ultimately I’m the one wearing it! And she looks stunning in the dress she chose as the first one
She didn’t even try the first dress on!!!! He looks like he’d rather be anywhere else…and he didn’t nix her dress, she sent him a list and he picked that one as the least favourite with no idea it was hers and SHE freaked. She’s bawling because she found HER ideal dress- the last time she found her cousin’s dream dress because SHE DIDN’T TRY IT ON. The man deserves a medal.
OMG -- girl run. Run, run, run.
I'm surprised by all the comments! Like who made the rule that the groom can't see the wedding dress before the bride walks down the aisle anyways? Is the wedding dress police gonna show up and arrest them? Are they gonna be struck by lightning?? Honestly don't get it. And so many other brides on the show care about the opinions of their mother, father, friend etc, because duh, we're social animals?? But suddenly when a bride cares about her fiance's opinion and he actually is into the wedding and wants to be involved in planning it, now it's like oh no she's a doormat, he's controlling, they shouldn't be getting married, run... Really??🙄
I didn't like any of the dresses on the first bride.
I’m so glad he finally said yes to the fourth or fifth dress thank God . She’s so sweet !
Me preocupa.un poco la primer novia... A ambas les deseo todo ala felicidad del mundo!!! Que sean buenos esposos
He 100% will be, at the very least, emotionally abusive. Poor girl.
I was worried about the first couple at first, but I think they are really great together. Usually, a man inserting himself in the wedding shopping is a red flag. But in this case, the bride is just a super passive individual. She allowed herself to be bullied by her family and needed the groom's support in order reject their pick. This is not great. She needs to develop a backbone. But it is what it is. I thought the groom's reaction to the dress he said he didn't like was super sweet. He didn't really notice the dress. He was reacting to how beautiful she looked. Also, he automatically responded in a loving way when she found "the" dress. The final test was if she could dance in it, which was important to both of them. It's a superstition that the groom can't see the wedding dress before the ceremony. That's not what makes or breaks a marriage. I think they'll be fine.
Look at him in the dressing room. He is almost sitting on top of her!
The consultant looked so annoyed with the first couple at the end😂
“It’s gonna be a great wedding”
(Not a great relationship) I think she saw it.
Red flags 🚩 … she needs to become more assertive & independent
That 1st lady seems to have confidence issues.
Huh no you're not
Well , I was in a relationship for around 15 years and without telling everything else, one thing he did was tell me what I should wear , criticise what I was wearing, when I was out he made me actually change! , criticise as I was just about to leave. So I would be out feeling very uncomfortable, very low self esteem and no confidence. I’m out of that now in a new relationship and wear what I choose even if it’s not fashionable all the time. I can’t live like that . Get out now . These men don’t change 😢
She didn’t even try the first dress on!!!! He looks like he’d rather be anywhere else…and he didn’t nix her dress, she sent him a list and he picked that one as the least favourite with no idea it was hers and SHE freaked. She’s bawling because she found HER ideal dress- the last time she found her cousin’s dream dress because SHE DIDN’T TRY IT ON. The man deserves a medal.
Exactly, Sallykins. Ppl see her lack of confidence and think it’s her character flaw, when most of the time it’s the effect a person like him constantly doubting her has on her ability to feel good and solid about herself and her decisions.
They destabilize in order to prey upon their target. Thats part of how they do it. I hope your life is as happy as you want to make it now!!!!
Sounds like a control freak.
My goodness I would tell the groom to be , to just take it easy and just let the bride enjoy what she likes and just be happy for her. He is putting so much stress on her .Thank goodness she found a dress. I hope he mellows out when they get married , especially when she wants to decorate her home. Sometimes guys should stay out of women’s business . I would tell him to go decorate the garage and leave me alone.
She didn’t even try the first dress on!!!! He looks like he’d rather be anywhere else…and he didn’t nix her dress, she sent him a list and he picked that one as the least favourite with no idea it was hers and SHE freaked. She’s bawling because she found HER ideal dress- the last time she found her cousin’s dream dress because SHE DIDN’T TRY IT ON. The man deserves a medal.
You need to evaluate your relationship!
the click bait wasn't aligned with reality. She tried the canceled dress on, and he liked it.
There are sooo many Red Flags here!
Ngl the first dress was fire on that first bride and she picked it for a reason. Even the groom was impressed so you know it was good. I can’t believe he literally got her to pick a dress with no character.
My ex fiancée was Hispanic and just like this guy. He wanted control over the entire wedding. We ended up not marrying and I thank the Lord.
She didn’t even try the first dress on!!!! He looks like he’d rather be anywhere else…and he didn’t nix her dress, she sent him a list and he picked that one as the least favourite with no idea it was hers and SHE freaked. She’s bawling because she found HER ideal dress- the last time she found her cousin’s dream dress because SHE DIDN’T TRY IT ON. The man deserves a medal.
Girl run as fast as you can. Control freak
Awww, they are sweet together. ❤
i completely understand where everyone is coming from but to be honest, i love my partner very much where i’d want his approval on my dress as well. He doesn’t have to LOVE it as much as i do but i would want him to like it as well. I’d want him to be part of searching for my wedding dress along with the family. But that’s just me.
Both looked pretty
I feel really bad for her because if he's controlling now what is it gonna be When they get married.RUN!!!!
Oh, no, this guy is not for her. Take care!
It would be interesting to see the first bride's first appointment. It seems very strange that someone else was trying the dress on for her. I don't think I have ever seen that in this show and the dress wasn't that small for her. Maybe if she was heavily pregnant or something, but bride's try on dresses that don't zip up all the time. I'm glad she found a dress she liked and it definitely seemed more convenient for dancing than the first pick.
Ppl are acting like he’s rude but I think he’s so nice and trying to reassure her. I think she is more insecure and a bit of a pushover but mostly wanted her husband to really like her dress.
He’s so nice for making her cancel her dream dress for her wedding lol? And then suddenly switched up which is even worse, idk if that’s my definition of nice
The first case, please tell me they didn't go through with the wedding
The bride with a controlling groom needs to cancel him - it will be easier to do it BEFORE the wedding than after.
Her original dress was beautiful on her. I am afraid for this woman that she would lose all confidence because her fiance did not have a positive reaction. He should have been supportive regardless, because she is wearing it.
yeah she’s very passive but it’s ok with her so let them be happy
Red flag and siren!!!
She didn’t even try the first dress on!!!! He looks like he’d rather be anywhere else…and he didn’t nix her dress, she sent him a list and he picked that one as the least favourite with no idea it was hers and SHE freaked. She’s bawling because she found HER ideal dress- the last time she found her cousin’s dream dress because SHE DIDN’T TRY IT ON. The man deserves a medal.
I really don’t think this episode makes the groom look like a red flag. So what if he wants to like the dress too? She didn’t even try it on the first time, her cousin did. Not to mention, I think she picked a better dress the second time around anyways. He seemed really supportive but honest the whole time.
1 minute in to the video and I can already tell she's controlled and abused, at least mentally. That's why he made her come back without her family😔
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Abused? Lol. He clearly loves her. Stop being ridiculous
Isolation is the number 1 tool of an abuser. He already started before they got married.
He's a controlling bully. Run girl run!!
Run girl run!
Bro so many red flags. HELL NOOOOO
Beautiful dresses and brides. 💟💯👌
"They look fantastic dancing, it's going to be a great wedding." But will it be a great marriage is the important thing.
Why are we as intelligent women that have educated ourselves hard working and beautiful are making the biggest mistake of showing her groom the dress . We are forgetting the point of the curiosity . Omg is he marrying her or the dress ! Men need to stay out of the dressing room . It’s absurd !
I see an abusive relationship in her future if she stays with her control freak fiance....this is a huge red flag situation
This marriage will end in tears - best case scenario.
Ewww….pushy controlling groom…yikes.
Red flags everywhere with the first groom 🚩🚩🚩🚩
Run.
Never show the groom the dress before the wedding
Run girl run
This is exactly the reason why Lori doesn't like Grooms in her salon
Noo
"I'm shy, and he's more outgoing"...so that means he tells her what to do
I’m shy at times too but even I wouldn’t want a fiancé that would decide everything for me. The dress she chose was beautiful and if that “man” can’t just love her in anything she wears for their wedding, RUN AWAAAAY!!!
I very much doubt that marriage will last cuz everyone has a limit/breaking point.
Remember she said "i was not sure" and still she selected it. Seems like she is just a people pleaser and has no opinion of her own.
This marriage won't last.
The older I get, the more against marriage I become.
Uh oh, 2nd bride
Bride Ivania has tire tracks all over her face. First it was her family influencing/pushing her to pick a dress she is not at all that sure about. Then it's her fiancé not liking the dress but then when she puts it on he loves it. And _then_ he gets all "tired" and bored. Buddy, you are the reason Ivania is back at the bridal boutique! 😡
I get big, big bulldozer vibes. I think Ivania herself is having second thoughts about marrying this man. Trust your instincts, Ivania!
Assolutamente no niente fidanzati alla scelta abito sposa a meno che ci sia la trasmissione non ditelo alla sposa
Her groom will dictate the whole marriage life. Hopefully at some point she will have the guts to stand up to him .
1st bride's fiance wasn't so bad. He was supportive of her and the 2nd dress was much more suited to her
I was thinking the same! I didn’t think he was bad at all. From the title it makes it sound like she liked the dress and then he vetoed it when the reality is she wanted his opinion from the beginning (some brides actually do it’s not uncommon at all) but her family talked her out of it AND she never loved the dress to begin with. So, she came back and brought him with her like she wanted to from the beginning. When asked what he wanted in a dress, he didn’t emphasize something tight and sexy, he said something she could dance in. When he got bored he didn’t rush her or complain, he just wandered the store. When he didn’t like a dress, he didn’t trash it, he responded quite gently with his thoughts. Then when he saw she finally fell in love with a dress, he immediately told her she looked beautiful in it. What’s there to complain about, again?
I agree and I wonder why everyone is looking at it so negatively? He seemed like a sweet guy and was supportive of her. I find nothing wrong with him giving his opinions. He was reasonable and supportive.
I told my boyfriend early on that he can have his opinions and preferences, but that doesn't mean I will do it. For example, shaving my legs in winter is a no no for me, it's bad enough in summer. They itch and burn on bad days, and I don't want to add dry winter skin to that. Plus, it's too cold to have them show
Beautiful beautiful couple. Fiance was so supportive.😊❤❤
They were all nice and relatively conservative dresses. She's a grown girl and can dress herself.
I like the dress the second bride chose. Very unique but classic. Although you could not gain any weight
Manland 😂😂😂 exactly
Wow! Get out!
All you peeps , 😂SHE made the choice in her dress when she cried
There should be a law, not allowing the groom into the bridal salon.
How old are these episodes typically?
She’s crying because you are stressing her out to no end