She can say whatever she wants. She had already cheated in her heart. She had zero respect for him. If a woman brings up an open relationship, you're already in one. Cut your losses and move on.
Ethan is a smart man who knows his worth. She was trying to sell open relationship to the wrong person. People need to stop chasing traditional people and then trying to change them.
Good man Ethan. Never lend your partner, your wallet, or your underwear. My favorites part is her saying if he said 'no' she would have dropped it. Never happen, she would just start manipulating.
He was smart to know that you already made the choice in your heart to do this, and will thus keep bringing this to him. You're entitled to pursue your desires, but not within the relationship that he envisioned for you two. The idea was so far beyond his boundaries that the mere tought of an open relationship was offensive to him, not even considering your possible candidate lineup.
Just another cheater no matter what you justify it. He dodged a bullet she would have cheated regardless. If my wife of 28 years mentioned an open relationship I would never utter another word to her. She should be single as fast as the law would allow.
The minute you brought up Collin, it was over. He probably figured IF you have not already cheated with him, it was just a matter of time before you would.
"Brooke" admitted the fallacy of the Open Relationship when she said former partner. "Jessica" was and is a complete idiot. She said that he was reserved, which means that he would NOT like that idea.
"She's the type who likes to go out dancing"...with other dudes. Red flag. "She needs new thrills." Dump her yesterday. An open relationship is a dead relationship.
A relationship should be comfortable. A safe place where two people can grow together. If you think a relationship is confining or controlling you shouldn't be in one. I'm nieve so what do I know.
“How can he just throw everything away so easily?” He was probably about to ask you the same thing 🤣 Also: once two girls named Brook and Madison start talking to your girl about relationship advice there’s gonna be trouble 😭
It's hilarious that she belives that she painted him in a bad light in any way in this story, like he did anything wrong at all. That she doesn't understand why he would never be able to trust her again, and how somehow she feels that she can't trust him after her betrayal is crazy. She sound completely delusional
There is no way you can be in a serious relationship and be in an open relationship there's no such thing. If you were in a serious relationship where you really love this individual the very idea of sharing him or her with someone else would be off the table so to say that you want an open relationship means that you are not really 100% committed to this relationship the other individual is just a safety net for you while you're out there having your fun and if you have friends who are saying that it's okay to have an open relationship that there's nothing wrong with it then I think you need to find new friends because they are not the type of people to be getting sound advice for a good relationship
Don't like trapdoor spiders Jessica. Never have. And they see nothing wrong with bushwhacking some one who thinks you the cat's meow in a closed relationship with a request for an open one.
You already cheated and had another guy lined up. So what is the point to discuss. My personel opinion as a male, why the heck should i share my wive with other men? There is one thing we can share only with our partner.´and you wanted to give it to other men. So what the point sacrificing my freedome for her. You wanted to entertain other guys and he walked off - to me a no brainer.
being influenced by bad advice is one thing, but when you forget who you are with and want to change the rules, you tear down the contract; "open relationship" is no relationship. it's being single and sleeping around with a regular FWB. it is not a commited relationship. when you love somebody you just don't want to share nor be shared; unless agreed from start (and even..) they never work. Can't figure out the mdelusional mentality of those born cheaters 304
He was totally right, he was honest about his expectations about a relationship, she tried to slip the "open relationship" when in fact she had a candidate already. The aftermath was obvious, she isn't relationship material and the lesson here is guys: don't let that kind of women try to distort the facts, they could even blame you for all the mess.
As soon as those words leave your lips, trust is lost. Either she will do what she wants behind his back or, even if she doesn’t, even if she never does anything, he is still left wondering if she wants to be with other men. He has to live with the fact she doesn’t choose him; she just puts up with him cos she doesn’t want to lose the relationship. And he will always be paranoid after that. The question itself is death for a relationship in every way, because of what it says about you as a person, being someone capable of asking.
97% of open relationships go wrong. It went wrong when you set everything up before you spoke to him you even had counter argument for him to say no. He should have listened to you but he talk to you why he said why he didn’t want
This op is totally self center. She even couldn't realize her mistake and point finger at every opportunity toward his bf for not understanding. Disrespectful toward his bf feeling and being selfish abt her needs. Some issues indeed couldn't be discussed for men as they already knew the answer. So why drag it on? And now she could have freedom to travel all around the world and sleep with variety different size, colour and shape for her personal growth.😅
"It was the silence that hurt the most." A man's greatest superpower is the ability to walk away.
She can say whatever she wants. She had already cheated in her heart. She had zero respect for him. If a woman brings up an open relationship, you're already in one. Cut your losses and move on.
2 years of marriage and she's already bored. Zero possibility that this would have lasted much longer. Loyalty is not negotiable.
Ethan is a smart man who knows his worth. She was trying to sell open relationship to the wrong person. People need to stop chasing traditional people and then trying to change them.
Good man Ethan. Never lend your partner, your wallet, or your underwear. My favorites part is her saying if he said 'no' she would have dropped it. Never happen, she would just start manipulating.
The least belivable part of this story is that someone like her wasn't already cheating on him when she was away, I don't belive that for a second
Well it can’t get any more open than that
Good job on Ethan
He was smart to know that you already made the choice in your heart to do this, and will thus keep bringing this to him. You're entitled to pursue your desires, but not within the relationship that he envisioned for you two.
The idea was so far beyond his boundaries that the mere tought of an open relationship was offensive to him, not even considering your possible candidate lineup.
Break up in the spot. The fact shes even asking means she's lost interest in you. The end.
Her : " I lost my future Meal ticket "
Just another cheater no matter what you justify it. He dodged a bullet she would have cheated regardless. If my wife of 28 years mentioned an open relationship I would never utter another word to her. She should be single as fast as the law would allow.
Good for Ethan did the right thing now she can sleep with who ever she wants and become one of those "just for fun girl"
The minute you brought up Collin, it was over. He probably figured IF you have not already cheated with him, it was just a matter of time before you would.
I'd drop you before the end of your sentence "I was thinking of an open relationship, what do... hey where you going?
"Brooke" admitted the fallacy of the Open Relationship when she said former partner. "Jessica" was and is a complete idiot. She said that he was reserved, which means that he would NOT like that idea.
"She's the type who likes to go out dancing"...with other dudes. Red flag. "She needs new thrills."
Dump her yesterday. An open relationship is a dead relationship.
A relationship should be comfortable. A safe place where two people can grow together. If you think a relationship is confining or controlling you shouldn't be in one. I'm nieve so what do I know.
“How can he just throw everything away so easily?”
He was probably about to ask you the same thing 🤣
Also: once two girls named Brook and Madison start talking to your girl about relationship advice there’s gonna be trouble 😭
It's hilarious that she belives that she painted him in a bad light in any way in this story, like he did anything wrong at all. That she doesn't understand why he would never be able to trust her again, and how somehow she feels that she can't trust him after her betrayal is crazy. She sound completely delusional
Ho in disguise. He lucked out.
Area Code 304.
That dude should never see or talk to her ever..that silence will alone eat her alive
Well that escalated quickly...
There is no way you can be in a serious relationship and be in an open relationship there's no such thing. If you were in a serious relationship where you really love this individual the very idea of sharing him or her with someone else would be off the table so to say that you want an open relationship means that you are not really 100% committed to this relationship the other individual is just a safety net for you while you're out there having your fun and if you have friends who are saying that it's okay to have an open relationship that there's nothing wrong with it then I think you need to find new friends because they are not the type of people to be getting sound advice for a good relationship
Don't like trapdoor spiders Jessica. Never have. And they see nothing wrong with bushwhacking some one who thinks you the cat's meow in a closed relationship with a request for an open one.
Does she even listen to herself??? She's a lost cause.
Very strange way to show love .
So he said yes
Yep, he left so she could sleep with as many guys as she could without having to worry about anyone else.
You already cheated and had another guy lined up. So what is the point to discuss. My personel opinion as a male, why the heck should i share my wive with other men? There is one thing we can share only with our partner.´and you wanted to give it to other men. So what the point sacrificing my freedome for her. You wanted to entertain other guys and he walked off - to me a no brainer.
being influenced by bad advice is one thing, but when you forget who you are with and want to change the rules, you tear down the contract; "open relationship" is no relationship. it's being single and sleeping around with a regular FWB. it is not a commited relationship. when you love somebody you just don't want to share nor be shared; unless agreed from start (and even..) they never work. Can't figure out the mdelusional mentality of those born cheaters 304
He was totally right, he was honest about his expectations about a relationship, she tried to slip the "open relationship" when in fact she had a candidate already. The aftermath was obvious, she isn't relationship material and the lesson here is guys: don't let that kind of women try to distort the facts, they could even blame you for all the mess.
The moment Brooke said former partner OP should have realized the problem.
Omg! Move on and find another guy that likes the “cheaters” life. That’s going to work out. Right?
wow the audacity 'I couldn't believe how he could throw it away so quickly' nuh uh! you did! lmao
As soon as those words leave your lips, trust is lost. Either she will do what she wants behind his back or, even if she doesn’t, even if she never does anything, he is still left wondering if she wants to be with other men. He has to live with the fact she doesn’t choose him; she just puts up with him cos she doesn’t want to lose the relationship. And he will always be paranoid after that. The question itself is death for a relationship in every way, because of what it says about you as a person, being someone capable of asking.
97% of open relationships go wrong. It went wrong when you set everything up before you spoke to him you even had counter argument for him to say no. He should have listened to you but he talk to you why he said why he didn’t want
Another ethan 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Relationship is commitment BOBO😂😂😂
This op is totally self center. She even couldn't realize her mistake and point finger at every opportunity toward his bf for not understanding. Disrespectful toward his bf feeling and being selfish abt her needs. Some issues indeed couldn't be discussed for men as they already knew the answer. So why drag it on? And now she could have freedom to travel all around the world and sleep with variety different size, colour and shape for her personal growth.😅
What a poor choice for an AI voice ! Thumbs down.
It was the silence that hurt the most...Remember fellas