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Story 1: Bro, don't feel bad. She asked you reluctantly answered. Her overthinking sounds like a her problem. Not a you problem. Her insecurities aren't your problem unless you make it your problem
You're correct. I knew a lady just like this. Her overwhelming sense of having to get the spotlight by playing the victim (in situations that she caused) and act like the smartest person in the room by perpetuating the myth that she was always “right,” led to her destroying every single relationship with everyone who ever cared about her. Even her own kids eventually cut her off and barred her from seeing her grandchildren. Even that wasn't a wake-up call. I heard through the grapevine, she's a miserable old woman now who whines, to anyone who will listen, wondering “what went wrong” with her life. Talk about zero awareness.
Story 3: No, buying a game for $70+ that doesn't have all of the content is unreasonable. $300 for an aesthetic feature in a game is f***ING insanity on crystal meth.
@@csargent31 I definitely use cosmetics but $300 is way too much for a singular cosmetic. I'm picky about my cosmetics, and I will sure as hell dodge the price tag on it too if i don't like how it looks
I hope the boyfriend just stops buying OP things. Hes wasting his time and hers. Give her a card with a gift card inside thats all she seem to be happy getting.
Story 1 The gf is so stupid she pushed op to name a celebrity then when he does she gets offended for the stupidest reason dating life is crazy man lol
The first story: Absolutely NOT the jerk. I'm so over people using anxiety and overthinking or anything else similar as a reason to be an overreacted main character syndrome pain in the butt. For the record, I'm asperger's, have anxiety and chronic PTSD yet I don't behave like a tantrum-throwing five-year-old when I don't get my way. The girlfriend baited OP into an argument. It was clear she was looking for a conflict and she got it. If you ask me, he needs to break up with her and go be happy elsewhere. If he doesn't, he's going to be on edge, walking on eggshells and hyperly vigilant that there's going to be a blow up over the most mundane or trivial things. Given her attitude, it's a given that is going to happen again. Also, it seems like this is massive projection on her part. I think she's the one cheating. Long story short, she's not a grown woman. She's an overgrown middle school mean girl with the emotional temperament of a toddler. I've seen this happen first-hand. There was a lady I used to know who was much older, who overvalued her own opinion and had zero problems with seeking the spotlight, having all eyes on her, getting the last word, perpetuating the myth that she was always “right” and pulling focus, no matter how inappropriate the situation may have been all because she had a huge ego. Her go-to excuse for when she got busted for her gross lack of respect for boundaries was, “I'm human. I'm allowed to make mistakes. God forgives me.” As you can imagine, that excuse got old very fast. Her apologies fell on deaf ears because apologies without changed behavior are just empty words. Even trying to explain to her that mistakes are good faith errors, not deliberate, malicious actions, was like trying to explain algebra to a puppy. She just dodged accountability at every turn. It should be of no surprise whatsoever, this lady ruined every single relationship with everyone who ever cared about her, including both of her marriages and her children. I haven't had any contact with her in over 10 years, but I did hear through the grapevine, that even her kids got sick of her crap and barred her from seeing her grandchildren. I can't help but wonder: at what point, does a person finally have the epiphany that they [gasp] might be the root cause of all the problems in their life? The sad, all too obvious truth is, some people never do.
Story 1: I know a lot of people are quick to just tell other people to break up with their partners but if ever there is a case to break up with someone it's this right here. Because this isn't going to be a one-time thing this is going to happen over and over again if the original poster stays with her. If she doesn't want to get her issues under control well then there's no point really being with her.
Agreed. She's emotionally abusive and clearly has insecurities as well as trust issues. It's not OP’s job to fix her. He's not a psychologist. She needs therapy and she can go pay for it like everyone else instead of taking out her issues on him.
*Story 1:* What's her damned problem? We've all found certain celebrities attractive. That doesn't mean that we love our current GF/BF any less, nor does it mean that we're *"cheating"* on them.
women more so then men. I mean, if you ask my husband he'd tell you he has 2. if you ask me I'd start by asking you how much time do you have and then I'd read you a list that goes back to old 1940s movies and even includes a disney character from a movie I saw as a kid.
Story 1: I dumped one of my exes because he asked me a question such as this and had a similar reaction. OP’s girlfriend asked the question. If one vindictive jerk from OP’s past, and the answer to a question that she asked is all that it takes to jeopardize their relationship, then maybe it isn’t worth staying with her. Talk about controlling!
Agreed. I'm prone to chronic migraines thanks to my sensitive eyes and, when it's really bad, I can't even look at my phone no matter how much I dim the screen. She's just a lying entitled parent who favors one child over the other. I guarantee you, if she doesn't wise up, she'll one day be whining to anyone who will listen wondering why OP has cut her off completely and from any eventual grandchildren she may end up having.
Agreed. Thanks to my sensitive eyes, I I'm prone to bad migraines. When it's really bad, I can't even look at my phone screen no matter how much I dim the brightness. It's clear that the mother is an entitled parent who clearly favors one child over the other. If she doesn't wise up, she'll one day go all shocked Pikachu face and, predictably whine to anyone who will listen, when OP goes no contact then cuts her off from any grandchildren she may eventually end up having.
Story #5: As a wife of someone who survived 6 cancers, it takes a toil on the body, the soul and mind. My husband fought 6 cancers, but 7th cancer took him. I cared for him, I went to hospital visits, I went on updates, and everything. And there might be doubt from people here, that's ok, I know that I helped him, visited him in the hospital during chemo treatments, sat with him, after surgeries, supported him when he lost his job, went back to school, got his teaching degree. It seems like this guy doesn't know what cancer is like. My nephew died of a brain cancer, he went through a lot as well. I wouldn't trust him, especially if he's like "oh you don't believe me."
Es importante ser honesto en una relación, pero también respetar los sentimientos del otro. La comunicación abierta y la confianza son clave para resolver malentendidos sin causar daño.
$300 for a skin... for god's sake, not even most collector editions of full games cost that much. You could pay that amount to literally buy 6 other, relatively new and popular games.
Story #1: my girlfriend is similar with insecurities, shes never accused me of cheating but the few times ive pointed out a celebrity being good looking shes been down for a bit of time. Ive solbed this by differentiering the words "attractive" and "good looking" where "good looking" just is an appreciation of their looks whereas "attractive" has some feelings involved with it
Story 1: i actaully get nervous around over react people ans if i was the man getting confused i wouldve just tried to explain and if she doesnt believe- i mean alr os i dont think your the jerk
First story. The OP should ask if his girlfriend is going to have a problem with female co-workers, female friends and attractive female family members. Second story. It wouldn't have helped if the OP stayed quiet, they would have eventually asked why he isn't storing the food in the communal fridge. Third story. The OP should show her husband some horror stories about kids spending thousands or even ten thousands dollars of their parents money from micotransactions.
Story one: I'm single, but if I get a girlfriend and she gets upset at me for something out of my control. Or getting upset at me for honestly answering a question. I'd dump her immediately. Story 3: $300 DOLLARS?! just buy a whole console at that point!
300$ skin for a video game? I'm pretty sure that's the LoL skins that went viral for being so expensive. I'd say that saying no to buying that skin is the right thing to say. I still can't believe they even made such an expensive cosmetic.
There's an episode of Big Bang Theory that the last story reminds me of. Sheldon takes Penny to the hospital because she dislocated her shoulder, the ER nurse tells them patients are seen in priority order (its been a little bit since i seen the episode, I know that's not how she phrased it XD), and Sheldon comments mostly to himself that there's a man claiming to have a heart attack but he feels well enough to play Doodle Jump on his phone. OP's mum has had a headache for two days and is fine to scroll her phone? As someone that gets extremely frequent headaches and knows different headaches react to different things, anything that lasts two days isn't gonna appreciate a phone in the face :/
Story 3: I feel like they're not talking about USD when they say dollars. $300 USD for a skin in a game is absolutely ridiculous. That's half the price of a game system at that point.
🤣 a TRUE RELATIONSHIP is when BOTH are crushing on the celebs as they watch a movie. My man even said some dudes were attractive. 😑 Does that mean I IMMEDIATELY jump to the CONCLUSION that he's GAY??? 🤣🤣🤣 seriously, wtf? No TRUST, NO RELATIONSHIP. 😑 SIMPLE.
Story 5: your definitely not the jerk here i wouldve asked for proof too, abd if he said he wants to be with someone else and he still hasnt showed you proof he just wants to get attention.
Story #3: If the husband's so upset, why doesn't HE just pay the $300.00 for the skin? Story #5: Does the guy think he's Dead Pool, or something? So the guy either only committed insurance fraud, or he's also LYING about having CANCER! I know/knew people who have/had different types of Cancer. R.I.P. to the ones we've lost. Cancer's no joke!
Story 3: Yeah no. I definitely dont think your the jerk i mean your son just wanted the video game for 300 dollars lets just see how he would react when he cant afford it and his kid wants a 300 dollar video game
For the chances faking thing, I believe it breaks a federal law because my freinds Freind over Minecraft faked cancer for 50$ and ended losing contact with my freind because of it
7:32 well skins in Fortnite do improve my gameplay cause if I am wearing spectra knight I am dog water but if I am wearing miles morales I play like a god
@ no if you get 1000 v-bucks you can get the battle pass and the least skins you can get are 3 but yea if you get 2000 v-bucks then it will be 14$ and 7$ for 1000 But yea the skin he wants is 300$
Stop storytelling made up story’s it’s dumb and I have prouf why is every person you talk about is 31 why a year ago all the videos you made all hade 31 year old males why is that and why now you put women in your videos and it’s still the same age 31
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Story 1: Bro, don't feel bad. She asked you reluctantly answered. Her overthinking sounds like a her problem. Not a you problem. Her insecurities aren't your problem unless you make it your problem
I agree. Just because one finds a celeb attractive, that doesn't mean that they're being unfaithful or that they love their partner any less.
She seems very controlling. OP needs to break up with her.
@princessmarlena1359 I would've.
Yeah
You're correct. I knew a lady just like this. Her overwhelming sense of having to get the spotlight by playing the victim (in situations that she caused) and act like the smartest person in the room by perpetuating the myth that she was always “right,” led to her destroying every single relationship with everyone who ever cared about her. Even her own kids eventually cut her off and barred her from seeing her grandchildren. Even that wasn't a wake-up call. I heard through the grapevine, she's a miserable old woman now who whines, to anyone who will listen, wondering “what went wrong” with her life. Talk about zero awareness.
Story 3: No, buying a game for $70+ that doesn't have all of the content is unreasonable. $300 for an aesthetic feature in a game is f***ING insanity on crystal meth.
$300 for cosmetics? Is this that suicide squad game we talking about? Either that or EA 😂
@@sab3redg333 or a CSGO skin. I have heard that those sell for hundreds of dollars
@@csargent31 I definitely use cosmetics but $300 is way too much for a singular cosmetic. I'm picky about my cosmetics, and I will sure as hell dodge the price tag on it too if i don't like how it looks
I'm pretty sure the son plays league of legends. That's the only game I can think of where that's "normal".
300? Just for 1 item jeez. Even i wont pay that most i ever paid for dlc was 45
I hope the boyfriend just stops buying OP things. Hes wasting his time and hers. Give her a card with a gift card inside thats all she seem to be happy getting.
Story 1 The gf is so stupid she pushed op to name a celebrity then when he does she gets offended for the stupidest reason dating life is crazy man lol
The first story: Absolutely NOT the jerk. I'm so over people using anxiety and overthinking or anything else similar as a reason to be an overreacted main character syndrome pain in the butt. For the record, I'm asperger's, have anxiety and chronic PTSD yet I don't behave like a tantrum-throwing five-year-old when I don't get my way. The girlfriend baited OP into an argument. It was clear she was looking for a conflict and she got it. If you ask me, he needs to break up with her and go be happy elsewhere. If he doesn't, he's going to be on edge, walking on eggshells and hyperly vigilant that there's going to be a blow up over the most mundane or trivial things. Given her attitude, it's a given that is going to happen again. Also, it seems like this is massive projection on her part. I think she's the one cheating. Long story short, she's not a grown woman. She's an overgrown middle school mean girl with the emotional temperament of a toddler.
I've seen this happen first-hand. There was a lady I used to know who was much older, who overvalued her own opinion and had zero problems with seeking the spotlight, having all eyes on her, getting the last word, perpetuating the myth that she was always “right” and pulling focus, no matter how inappropriate the situation may have been all because she had a huge ego.
Her go-to excuse for when she got busted for her gross lack of respect for boundaries was, “I'm human. I'm allowed to make mistakes. God forgives me.” As you can imagine, that excuse got old very fast. Her apologies fell on deaf ears because apologies without changed behavior are just empty words.
Even trying to explain to her that mistakes are good faith errors, not deliberate, malicious actions, was like trying to explain algebra to a puppy. She just dodged accountability at every turn. It should be of no surprise whatsoever, this lady ruined every single relationship with everyone who ever cared about her, including both of her marriages and her children. I haven't had any contact with her in over 10 years, but I did hear through the grapevine, that even her kids got sick of her crap and barred her from seeing her grandchildren. I can't help but wonder: at what point, does a person finally have the epiphany that they [gasp] might be the root cause of all the problems in their life? The sad, all too obvious truth is, some people never do.
Story 1: I know a lot of people are quick to just tell other people to break up with their partners but if ever there is a case to break up with someone it's this right here. Because this isn't going to be a one-time thing this is going to happen over and over again if the original poster stays with her. If she doesn't want to get her issues under control well then there's no point really being with her.
Agreed. She's emotionally abusive and clearly has insecurities as well as trust issues. It's not OP’s job to fix her. He's not a psychologist. She needs therapy and she can go pay for it like everyone else instead of taking out her issues on him.
*Story 1:* What's her damned problem? We've all found certain celebrities attractive. That doesn't mean that we love our current GF/BF any less, nor does it mean that we're *"cheating"* on them.
women more so then men. I mean, if you ask my husband he'd tell you he has 2. if you ask me I'd start by asking you how much time do you have and then I'd read you a list that goes back to old 1940s movies and even includes a disney character from a movie I saw as a kid.
@jasoncarpp7742 your bringing facts to a feelings fight.
Story 1: I dumped one of my exes because he asked me a question such as this and had a similar reaction. OP’s girlfriend asked the question. If one vindictive jerk from OP’s past, and the answer to a question that she asked is all that it takes to jeopardize their relationship, then maybe it isn’t worth staying with her. Talk about controlling!
Last story: she couldn't have had much of a headache to be scrolling on her phone
Agreed. I'm prone to chronic migraines thanks to my sensitive eyes and, when it's really bad, I can't even look at my phone no matter how much I dim the screen. She's just a lying entitled parent who favors one child over the other. I guarantee you, if she doesn't wise up, she'll one day be whining to anyone who will listen wondering why OP has cut her off completely and from any eventual grandchildren she may end up having.
Agreed. Thanks to my sensitive eyes, I I'm prone to bad migraines. When it's really bad, I can't even look at my phone screen no matter how much I dim the brightness. It's clear that the mother is an entitled parent who clearly favors one child over the other. If she doesn't wise up, she'll one day go all shocked Pikachu face and, predictably whine to anyone who will listen, when OP goes no contact then cuts her off from any grandchildren she may eventually end up having.
Story #5: As a wife of someone who survived 6 cancers, it takes a toil on the body, the soul and mind. My husband fought 6 cancers, but 7th cancer took him. I cared for him, I went to hospital visits, I went on updates, and everything. And there might be doubt from people here, that's ok, I know that I helped him, visited him in the hospital during chemo treatments, sat with him, after surgeries, supported him when he lost his job, went back to school, got his teaching degree. It seems like this guy doesn't know what cancer is like. My nephew died of a brain cancer, he went through a lot as well. I wouldn't trust him, especially if he's like "oh you don't believe me."
Es importante ser honesto en una relación, pero también respetar los sentimientos del otro. La comunicación abierta y la confianza son clave para resolver malentendidos sin causar daño.
$300 for a skin... for god's sake, not even most collector editions of full games cost that much. You could pay that amount to literally buy 6 other, relatively new and popular games.
Story #1: my girlfriend is similar with insecurities, shes never accused me of cheating but the few times ive pointed out a celebrity being good looking shes been down for a bit of time. Ive solbed this by differentiering the words "attractive" and "good looking" where "good looking" just is an appreciation of their looks whereas "attractive" has some feelings involved with it
what game would have a skin that costs 300
thats fucking ridiculous
League of no showers probably
Story 1: i actaully get nervous around over react people ans if i was the man getting confused i wouldve just tried to explain and if she doesnt believe- i mean alr os i dont think your the jerk
First story. The OP should ask if his girlfriend is going to have a problem with female co-workers, female friends and attractive female family members.
Second story. It wouldn't have helped if the OP stayed quiet, they would have eventually asked why he isn't storing the food in the communal fridge.
Third story. The OP should show her husband some horror stories about kids spending thousands or even ten thousands dollars of their parents money from micotransactions.
Story one: I'm single, but if I get a girlfriend and she gets upset at me for something out of my control. Or getting upset at me for honestly answering a question. I'd dump her immediately.
Story 3: $300 DOLLARS?! just buy a whole console at that point!
300$ skin for a video game? I'm pretty sure that's the LoL skins that went viral for being so expensive. I'd say that saying no to buying that skin is the right thing to say. I still can't believe they even made such an expensive cosmetic.
There's an episode of Big Bang Theory that the last story reminds me of. Sheldon takes Penny to the hospital because she dislocated her shoulder, the ER nurse tells them patients are seen in priority order (its been a little bit since i seen the episode, I know that's not how she phrased it XD), and Sheldon comments mostly to himself that there's a man claiming to have a heart attack but he feels well enough to play Doodle Jump on his phone. OP's mum has had a headache for two days and is fine to scroll her phone? As someone that gets extremely frequent headaches and knows different headaches react to different things, anything that lasts two days isn't gonna appreciate a phone in the face :/
Story 3: I feel like they're not talking about USD when they say dollars. $300 USD for a skin in a game is absolutely ridiculous. That's half the price of a game system at that point.
I could buy a Switch for close to that price.
Story 3. I was thinking the exact same thing. The husband wants the skin and asked his kid to ask for it.
Last Story: If you have a favorite child, you're not a good parent.
Wow I can’t remember when the last time I had 3 meals in one day.
Really I have 3 meals every day
@ I’m lucky if I get breakfast.
🤣 a TRUE RELATIONSHIP is when BOTH are crushing on the celebs as they watch a movie. My man even said some dudes were attractive. 😑 Does that mean I IMMEDIATELY jump to the CONCLUSION that he's GAY??? 🤣🤣🤣 seriously, wtf? No TRUST, NO RELATIONSHIP. 😑 SIMPLE.
Story 5: your definitely not the jerk here i wouldve asked for proof too, abd if he said he wants to be with someone else and he still hasnt showed you proof he just wants to get attention.
Story #3: If the husband's so upset, why doesn't HE just pay the $300.00 for the skin?
Story #5: Does the guy think he's Dead Pool, or something? So the guy either only committed insurance fraud, or he's also LYING about having CANCER! I know/knew people who have/had different types of Cancer. R.I.P. to the ones we've lost. Cancer's no joke!
Story 3: Yeah no. I definitely dont think your the jerk i mean your son just wanted the video game for 300 dollars lets just see how he would react when he cant afford it and his kid wants a 300 dollar video game
Not a video game a skin a different person no new stuff but to have new clothing
For the chances faking thing, I believe it breaks a federal law because my freinds Freind over Minecraft faked cancer for 50$ and ended losing contact with my freind because of it
Story 1: Break up with her.
13:52 modern women nowadays are only transactional. We're it's how much money you can spend on them.
"cure egg" 💉 🥚
What
11:27 yes the op is the jerk. As if men tell the woman anything about them. Women will weponize it against the men.
Story 2 sounds like they are taking advantage of you because they are trying to guilt trip ypu
I bet the skin was for League of Legends
Srory 3: 7:10 You probably didnt play war thunder which one tank cost 2000 dolars
Story him showing u that was a joke
That much money you can buy a brand new Xbox
7:32 well skins in Fortnite do improve my gameplay cause if I am wearing spectra knight I am dog water but if I am wearing miles morales I play like a god
Yes but a fortnight skin is on average 14 dollars and what he wants is 28 times that
@ no if you get 1000 v-bucks you can get the battle pass and the least skins you can get are 3 but yea if you get 2000 v-bucks then it will be 14$ and 7$ for 1000
But yea the skin he wants is 300$
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Pretty sure this is a bot and for the record the comment before it is edited say your GAY so yea
Stop storytelling made up story’s it’s dumb and I have prouf why is every person you talk about is 31 why a year ago all the videos you made all hade 31 year old males why is that and why now you put women in your videos and it’s still the same age 31
Because there 700 million 31 year olds
@@Bunnygojump-3pyeah but why one year ago it was only male
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