6 Ways a Gentleman NEVER Spends His Money
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- Опубликовано: 31 май 2024
- To become a gentleman, stop wasting your money on these six things.
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Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
0:42 #1
1:47 #2
3:00 #3
4:07 #4
5:19 #5
6:40 #6
8:15 Conclusion 
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DO NOT BUY A 10YR OLD MERCEDES, you will spend more on maintenance than either leasing a new car or buying a non German used car. A 10 year old Lexus is a safe used luxury option and will last for years without any huge wallet breaking costs.
Talking from experience I reckon
I agree but there are some Mercedes I recommend. C class or E class typically. And get the cheapest trim level. Less things to break after 10 years.
Any Lexus is 🔥 tho. I still own my 02 GS300, best car Toyota ever made.
"Nothing is more expensive than a cheap Mercedes" (or any old german car really)
Maybe I'm the exception? Bought a 2009 Mercedes CLK 350 new and still driving it at 112k miles now. No problems.
Just got one from 2007 lmao
I am 70 and Gent Z is correct on every point. One of the main themes here is waste: of time, money, effort. It requires maturity and focus to stay on a path that may seem austere, in order to put everything you have and do in to achieving the goal of a gentleman. But it is worth.
I also am enthousiast about your chanel, well done
Indeed; as I wish this lad would have been around with this content 45 years ago; could have saved me a lot of grief in life had I heard the things he mentioned here...! 🤨
I completely agree with all of these points. I wish my parents restricted my video game habit back in high school. I wasted a lot of time gaming that could have been spent improving myself and spending quality time with friends. I haven't touched a video game in over a decade now, and I don't miss them at all.
Good for you!
Gotta take the opposite approach here. I got deep into Counter Strike in my teenage years. It led to my career in finance as it gave me a fundamental understanding of trading. It made me sociable as being the an in game leader when I played with friends thrust me into student leadership positions. It taught me self improvement as I always suspected the enemy of using cheats as a last resort - I always thought ‘if he’s legit, how would we pull that off?’. Even staying up at night for an objective to play so many matches taught me dedication - something I lean on in my part time law school at the moment. Ultimately, I don’t think its video games but rather how one approaches and makes sense of experiences - not just video games.
@@holdingspacetrue. I however do believe in dialing back a bit on online games. I think online games suck the soul out of me personally. Plus they are made on the same model as how addictions work. Which is why I believe story mode games are simply better.
Salutation, don't mind me too much maybe I'm too late but I will nevertheless say that every activity can bring good things for your improvement like abilities or knowledge or coordination like reflex, everything depends on how much time you dedicate to them as matter of speaking also keep lasting even for videogamess. But this games also can have effect on improving some kind of brain functions like imagination or 3d reasoning and memory and spark new passion in you that will you pursue new pathways and reflex like mind hand one as I was saying before about coordination.
Though the equilibrium is key.
As alwaus said it is the dose that makes the poison from an old chemistry professor.
You can still play but do over waste money and time on it as yiu wouldn't do the same overtraining in gym maybe. Keep it sane and clean you're the one in control also try to avoid games online where there is a toxic chat environment.
These are many masterpiece that now costs less than you think and I will suggest them cause they also bring in them valuable lessons of life.
Told this have fun.
Kind rewards my fellow gentlemen 😂😏
I am not a young man in fact I will soon be 65. My Grandfather was raised to be a Scottish gentleman, in turn he raised me to be the same. In my 23 years on the internet I have never viewed a better and more concise video on the subject of being a Gentleman. Well done and I look forward to more of your content in the future.
Listen up and learn young gentleman. As a man in his 40. I find Gent Z very sound and comprehensive.
Thank you for sharing and please expand on your ideas, it helps us all.
Much appreciated
Thank you very much, sir
Wel said here! And ps I’m 50 and a man
@@domi7171 I’m nearly 50 and everything he says here is true 👌🏻
“A gentleman gets his drugs for free” I had to pause and laugh at that part, i like the jokes 😂😂
Man, I'm a game developer. I need to find a way to continue being a gentleman and test and enjoy the product of my work 😂
Concept artist here. I just restrict my game time to “study” time. I take notes on designs and ideas I like when I play games. I only buy 2-3 games a year.
@jamescornwell9502 same here, I only play on weekends for 1 or 2 ours a day maximum. But I do it to enjoy it as the piece of art the game is. Mostly single players with rich environments, good stories and wonderful art direction. I really enjoy it, it is like watching a good film for me
if you do gaming/development for work, i suspect you would do notably better with it if you designated some game-free time, ideally for a physical activity. and all the better so if for a team sport, ie soccer...
even if it's just one day per week, or only a few hours on that day, it will reset your brain and make you ready to go back into the gaming world with a vastly sharper edge.
@Numantino312 yeah that's something I need actually, I love baseball but in the country I'm working sadly it is only possible to play it during 5 months a year due to the cold temperatures. Although I do every day some kind of mid or low intensity training to give my body and brain some activity during the cold seasons
@@esponru5602 recently fell in love with lacrosse. in my part of the states (north dakota has short summers too), it's not terribly popular, and 90% of it is done at high school level.
at adult age, one has to be a super-organiser + persuasive personality to get a team sport going. 😐
sounds like you understand importance of physical activity regardless. hope you find a way to spend some time on the diamond.
“A Gentlemen Never Spends His Money On Drugs… He Gets It Fr Free”😂
You Need More Off These Jokes In Your Videos
A Little Laughter Never Hurts
as a watch nerd, I can agree seiko is the best money for value brand there is. They're also highly customizable
I disagree, ORIS are the best value watch money can buy and it's Swiss.
@@sambadham1404 seiko has more history though
I am not a watch nerd but I swear by Casio watches.
@@Aurora-bv1ys those are good too, i just prefer the more classic look of seikos
I love my seiko samurai, and it beats paying 20k for a rolex
Great video. I agree with the list. I would add going on expensive first dates. It’s fine to spend money on a quality woman but don’t throw money away just trying to vet women on a first or even second date
That's a nice piece of advice actually. I met my partner on a coffee date, and a nice summer walk :)
It depends. Personally, I like nice restaurants, and going out to dinner is one of my favorite things. So I wouldn't downgrade my own experience of that just because it's a date
fair enough. I also like quality restaurants and spend good money on them as well but the problem is you don't know if they are good company yet so you may downgrade your experience just by not having the right vibe there@@Gent.Z
I've said it but this channel is freakin awesome
Thank you, sir
Holy smokes. I too made the mistake of owning a vintage Jaguar in my twenties. It was a beautiful car and it looked amazing in the driveway, as it rarely ran. Eventually, it caught fire on the freeway. My next car was a lovely lightly used Honda Accord.
Ouch! Yes, mine was very easy on the eyes. But the problems were never ending. Luckily, nothing as dramatic as catching fire, though
I had an S-type Jaguar that never gave problems while under warranty. When the warranty expired it cost me $8k that year in repairs. I drove it to the Toyota dealership and left it for an FJ Cruiser that I loved.
I agree. The money you could save by avoiding pornography and Only Fans can be used to purchase arms and ammunition. Bad times are ahead! LOL!
I Think Gambling is a big point to because some gambling like Blackjack on a table is fun but setting on a maschin burning money away is just wrong.
I am 55 and am happy to hear such advice for young men. As regards video games, as a child the only electric devices in my room were a transistor radio and a reading lamp!
A gentleman does not belittle or argue with service workers. Take matters up directly with management, but never make a scene in public, especially with hourly workers.
I'm an older man. And I have a life that most can only dream of. This wasnt an accident. I made good choices. And I strongly agree with GenZ’s advice. Don’t waste your time and money on things that won’t further your goals or, even worse, are self-destructive. Before making any decision, one should always consider the long-term consequences to their health, finances, career and especially family.. If one wants a good life then they must do the things that produce a good life and avoid the things that don’t. It is as simple as that
Agree My friend. I am 65 and I have only bought two new cars and regretted both. As you said buy used. Let the other guy take the depreciation. And never finance a watch. I really like the looks of your watch by the way. Best regards Ron
Always second hand, for sure! And thank you, Ron
I am guilty of financing an Omega Speedmaster, but i didn't regret it. I have an excess money every month and already got the savings in. Its alright to finance as long as it is reasonable and you have thought it through like a 1000 times. It will be a family heirloom for my son. Not a regret. But on the other hand financing a expensive car, that is a bad decision, i have to agree.
Right on every count. Be real. Be prudent. Go with quality.
Cheers
It is so shocking that most people think that designer clothes like Gucci, Louis Vuitton , supreme and etc are high quality clothes in reality it is the biggest scam in clothing history(by the way Gent Z keep up the good work)
@@jheagy1234567890even for a black person for it is a genuine waste of money but when you have a culture of splash and splurge especially you look at rappers that tell a story in my eyes
@@jheagy1234567890Just had to bring race into it. Not very gentlemanly.
Hello,
yes, you are really right! It is really alarming, that 80-90% of people are so stupid and blind to everything. Those designer brands are total scam for big money telling people "hey, give me 4000 USD for this bag, that was made with cheap materials and go away". I really can´t believe, that people give money for this!!! Such stupid herd supporting villains and destroying small traditional shop owners, who really deserve the money. Bunch of idiots people trully are.
Great video, I have to disagree on the video games point though. Games made by companies like Rockstar, Insomniac, and others make impactful and enjoyable interactive experiences that tell stories and teach lessons that would be too long and detailed for a movie format. There’s also nothing wrong with spending a couple hours on a good battle royal game every now and then to foster your sense of competition.
Video games are a new form of art. Some of them at least.
Absolutely amazing video.
Im a middle-aged woman and sending this video to my nephews.
Its very much needed.
Pls make more if you can.
Thank you very much. I am producing videos every day
I would hate my aunt if she sent me this video
@@foolonthehill8410😂😂😂😂
Well done..Spot on without being pompous or arrogant. A true gentleman. Much respect from a boomer. Keep up the good work.
Agree on everything apart from computer/video games. Sometimes you just need some way to completely zone-out from life and burn a few hours. And computer-games are a great way to just completely forget about everything and relax for a few hours and blow off some stress.
When I watch the classic movies, look upon vintage photos and other reminders of better and elegant times I note how the men and women dress, groom, speak and more. Gentle Men don't use makeup, dye their hair, use botox or other cheats. Good health, self confidence, posture and gaze are all one needs.
"A gentleman gets his drugs for free." I was beginning to think this guy had no sense of humor.
As a wise-learned middle aged man, I would caution a young man against purchasing any 10 year old car, including a Mercedes unless you can buy it outright and not feel the financial squeeze. If you finance a car that old, you'll be paying for the car AND the inevitable maintenance needed on any vehicle of that age (and Mercedes are not cheap to fix). My advice is to find a nice car that's a couple of years old with 50K or so miles. Someone else has already taken the depreciation, and you'll have a newer car that you can drive for several years while you build your wealth. THEN you can buy the Merc and impress your friends.
A nice watch on the other hand, is a one time purchase, probably won't need servicing for several years. There's something about the low key IYKYK-ness of wearing an Omega Seamaster that just gives a man a boost. If you're going to splash out on a luxury item, a good watch will last more than a lifetime.
You make a great point, but most men don't have any watch at all, or have a piece of garbage. Seiko or, even better, Orient, is a great alternative to a $5-8K watch that you really can't afford.
Notice that Orient only makes mechanical watches. I think a gentleman should never wear quartz OR a so-called designer watch.
Seiko is the best watch you can buy, price/quality 💯
Nice video once again! Loving to watch your channel! You deserve more subscribers!
Being more than old enough to be your Dad young man, I must commend your channel on its content, its class, its wisdom & its wit... As far as 'this' episode, you were str8 on point with everything, thank you very much for this presentation, and I look forward to your next content...! Just 'Real Tauk'...! 😎
Thank you very much, sir
As a personal finance professional I will say this is an excellent video on the subject of money. Right on all points
I’m happy to see the views and subscription numbers on your channel going up. It’s heartening to think that young men are watching and learning from you. It’s sorely needed.
"A gentleman gets his drugs for free" made me laugh out loud. Thanks! Thanks also for all the great advice.
Great video. Thx for sharing.
More like this!!
Sure thing!
Thank you, I have been trying to articulate this point about clothing for some time.
I’ve listened to a lot of finance stuff. But framing finance through the lens of being a gentleman really brings something new to the table. Thank you for bringing this perspective!
Thank you, sir. I also consume a lot of finance content but many of those guys miss out on a lot of the pleasures in life to save as much money as possible. I look forward to making more videos like this in the future
Ramit Sethi is definitely the exception there! @ramitsethi However, even his content lacks that sense of gentlemanly virtue. Thanks again! @@Gent.Z
The porn issue is a lot like the drugs issue where because the elite want it and are so capable of advocating for it, they don't care about the havoc it can wreak especially for those not in their class
Very good advise.
I don't even need this advice, but I still enjoy watching your content because it is so refreshing and makes such good points
As an older traveled lady, I applaud you and your advice for a gentleman. You are right on all points. You are delightful! Thank you for sharing these life lessons with style!
It is most refreshing to see someone like you being so mature and sensible at such a young age. I salute you.
Great eyebrows. Oh, I bought that old Jaguar - 1989 british racing green XJS convertible.
That Bill Nighy drugs quote caught me off guard 😂😂. He is a well dressed man who may be worth covering in a video :)
Oh I didn't know that was a Bill Nighy line 😅
@@Gent.Z ruclips.net/video/luBk4VrMHNI/видео.htmlsi=M2rwynvIT8MHGj1v a classic lol
This guy is a gem.
25 minutes ago RUclips suggested a video from you. Now I´ve watched three of your videos and subscribed.
Thank you!
Your channel and content are simply great!
No smoking, no drinking, no porn, minimal/no gambling, buy a classic car big engines get respect - fix the body work, buy good quality clothing, be clean shaven, have associates that create networks, never go on package holidays, never eat at cheap franchises, wear lounge shirts daily with chino's, never wear jeans. never use public transport don't be flash live below your means etc
I think having a shot or two of whiskey or rum is alright once in a while. Jeans and public transport are alright, too. I agree with you on the other points though.
"Never use public transport" - I suppose you're an American?
@@fhujf he sounds like a snob
No. @@fhujf
Excellent advice loved your sense of humour here 😂
Another great video with some top tips thank you keep them coming
Number 1 don't simp. There is nothing more un-gentlemanly.
Just perfect, congratulations! Salute from Brazil.
Great video again, watching you every day.
Thanks, Tyler. I'm keeping new ones coming every day too
Great advices, thanks
My Mercedes (CLS 350 CSI) is now 16 years old. I bought it new and I have never had any significant problems with it and believe me it makes a much better impression than a Lexus.
Amazing video, as always.
I've found Christopher Ward timepieces to be both elegant and affordable. Most of their models are made with high-quality Swiss perpetual movements.
I appreciate this video and the more you'll make. I'm turning 54 this year and I'd like to reinvent myself (a male version of Jane Fonda's Third Act lessons) and become that fabulous and glamorous gentleman that I've always wanted to be since I was a kid (James Bond but I don't have to kill anyone). Thank you and I look forward to the next video.
Love your outfit. I hate how these days I can’t find an Oxford at a store. Went to a Dillards and TWO Mens Wearhouses- NO oxford button downs. 😓
Good advice!
Nice video, thank you. One about the best way of spending would also be interesting.
I was raised with gentlemanly qualities, but have to confess that modernity has had a strong influence on me. Thanks to your videos I’m finding my way back to things that really matter.
I agree with every point. My only note is that video games can be a great and artistic hobby not all games are murder sims and even Grand Theft Auto is meant to be a critique of our culture. Even something like Pacific Drive is a nice way to relax. Like any hobby, it is up the the user to be responsible in terms of how much time they spend on it.
You’re entertaining and hilarious, great content 👏
Another financial tip I’d offer is to be consistent with your income and overall wardrobe. As a student, I’ve made some large, impulsive purchases, as well as some well-thought-out ones. I once went to Suite Supply for a tailor-made suit, spending $2,000 without hesitation. On the other hand, at the same store, I bought a pair of trousers for around $450 with taxes, which was a frivolous expense. I understand that the fabric is likely high quality and will last a long time, but consistency is key. Wearing $400-$500 trousers doesn’t make sense with a $30-$40 shirt. It’s pointless to have one extremely expensive clothing item. You can find high-quality items that may not be Egyptian linen but are still durable and stylish, allowing you to economically own multiple pieces. For me, once I tried something on in the store, I felt bad backing out in front of the salesperson, partly due to my ego. We should also have a desire for consistency. Sometimes it’s beneficial to look for bargains and consider used items of good quality. If not used, it’s worth exploring alternatives while being mindful of the fabric. It might also be interesting to make a special video about fabric care, including cleaning processes and recommendations for maintaining high quality. After all, it would be a shame if an expensive garment looked worn or faded after just a year.
Old Mercedes are expensive to repair. Ask me how I know . . .
Can be! Depends how old you go
Another great video!
I like your cocktail kit
Great video sir. Please make more like it.
I concur with the points raised in this video and extend my gratitude for the insightful discussion. In today's context, particularly within the United States, leveraging thrift stores has proven to be an effective strategy for acquiring high-quality attire such as suits, ties, and shoes at a commendable value. Location plays a significant role, and residing in proximity to affluent areas enhances the likelihood of finding premium items. Personally, frequenting Goodwill establishments situated in upper-middle-class neighborhoods has yielded favorable outcomes for me. I am keen to explore further avenues for prudent financial management. I welcome any additional insights or strategies from fellow viewers on effectively managing expenses.
Good advice. well made video and subject matter. A year ago I went in to an MB dealer to get a CLA45 and lease it. The dealer recommended a demo they had that they could give me cost on, a CLA35. It was cheap enough to pay cash and although both were within my means, the 35 was a much better deal since I've been going to that dealer for decades- this was a hook up. No car loans needed, well within my price range, still an epic car. I'm glad I settled.
A few months ago I was in the market for my first Rolex. Instead I got a nicer Breitling for half the cost and with the money I saved I started making my own watches- another hobby, and a useful skill. Now, I'm not a watch snob, I am educated on the subject via first hand experience instead.
Learn to do everything, find useful hobbies, be self made, a man with skills, not just money. People will treat you differently and look to you for answers. These were just two examples, it's time we all create our own as learned men of interest.
Awesome video man, keep up the great work!
Thank you, sir
That's a great video! I like the way you're building a community or a society here! We have to bring back the gentleman clubs, and what gentleman used to do right there. A video about it will be awesome!
Video dropping on this very topic today
can u pls check your dm once
@@Gent.Z
Regarding wrist watches I was gifted a gorgeous vintage Tudor Submariner which I cherish to this day... but every few years you've got to crank out hundreds of dollars to maintain a watch of that Rolex Omega standard Etc. My watch box has some Seiko and Casio in it and tasteful pieces for not much money. It's nice to change up wrist straps are the spendier watches with a NATO strap or if you have some of the cheaper watches just change it up entirely.. good advice on the whole you always will provide and thanks for a great Channel
Hi, Gent Z, my name is Malcolm White, and I just wanted to say that I am such a big fan of your RUclips educational channel, and the value that you add to your video topics are absolutely incredible, and insightful as well. Please keep continuing to do this brilliantly motivational channel up, and running, my good friend! PS: Do you think that you can please do a video topic about on how to be like Harvey Specter, and dress like him? If you don't mind?
What an excellent display of the way of a gentleman👍🏻
Do you have any recommendations for books about beeing a gentleman?
Maybe it would be also interesting for other aspiring gents like myself.
Keep up the great work! Best wishes
Max
Absolutely, I will certainly do both fiction and non-fiction books in the future
A gentleman should never appear in an only fans video.
I’m trying to stop, I swear.
Age 52 from Greece. Amazing Chanel, great tips, awesome fellow, congratulations!!!
Video games! You hit the nail!!! That's i'm guilty!!! But i only play campaign games. never liked multiplayer games. But nowadays i'm playing less than i used to.
I am on the same page as you. Online games like League of Legends are cancer
Now there is some British humor at work here, I guess: #3 Telling people not to spend money on drugs with a cocktail bar in the background. But who am I to tell: You are absolutely on point with everything! And a good glass of wine or a decent cocktail is a blessing, not a curse. It all depends on your composure and drinking behavior. When I was in your age (30 years ago), I also had a cocktail bar. I have some great memories, throwing cocktails parties in the flat that I shared with two like-minded guys while studying. And a nice cigarillo or cigar once in a while doesn't hurt either. Just remember, that it is the dose that makes the poison. I really like your content and would love to join you in Chicago. I've been there just once and that was with a student exchange program in 1985. As I live in Munich, Chicago is just not around the corner. So I hope you have a great event over there.
good points
A gentleman doesn't need porn.
My timepiece is a Burei, which garners compliments all the time.
I love my Seiko I bought an Automatic Swiss watch quickly sold it hated winding it whenever I wore it
Brilliant 🥂✨
A gentleman should only pirate the Onlyfans content and not buy.
Lol
Great content
I learn a lot to become a gentleman thanks to your channel.
Thank you 🙏
I was still buying logo (albeit small logos) until I was 40. Then I suddenly desired no logos. If I had had that realization sooner, I would have saved a lot of money.
I'm 57 yo and had the reverse experience. I could not afford any logo (supermarket brands for me only!) until I hit 50, only then could I afford, and felt my age needed, subtle small brand-recognizable logos. Also, I ditched t-shirts completely.
Great clip! What brand watch are you wearing? Thanks
Most of those I completely agree with, the video game one I must give my two cents on.
My online friends are some of the best people I've had the pleasure of knowing. They've enabled me to travel places and meet them, opened up doors and cultures otherwise completely foreign to me.
I am lucky enough to travel a lot, and it's only thanks to people I met over the internet that I would otherwise have never talked to.
Video games are more about choosing the right ones, I'd say. Indeed there's not much fullfilment to get from CoD or FIFA, but some games offer artistic expressions, human experiences, life lessons. Those, I would say are worth your time and money.
I can literally buy any car I want but drive a 25 year old VW polo,I get it it serviced every 2 years, had it 20 years and only let me down once. Wouldn't waste money on expensive watches.With clothes I buy mainly one expensive brand, Paul and Shark. Their knitwear and leather jackets are quality and looks good.Not to sure about their other ranges like shirts and trousers. I only buy them at the right price though.
The golden rules for purchasing a car... Do NOT lease. Save for a down payment accordingly. If buying new, you must be able to pay off the loan in 48 months or less (safe for a down payment accordingly). If buying used, you must be able to pay off the loan in 36 months or less (safe for a down payment accordingly). If you are unable to follow these rules, you are likely living beyond your means.
You might like to consider covering Horse Racing. 40 years ago a friend introduced me to the joy of horse racing. He was a gambler, but I was not, it had no appeal to me. But I started to wonder why the late Queen Elizabeth was so involved in racing as well as so many other gentlemen of standing. Lord Howard du Walden for example at the time., the Aga Khan. Then I discovered it was all to do with the breeding and the classics, particularly the Derby. The great late Sir Henry Cecil trainer was a superb role model of how a gentleman should dress and conduct himself in public, and the sport of kings has been a very rewarding interest of my since then, but absolutely not gambling, which is just a waste of money.
Buttery smooth old chap!
I view video games as an extention of a book. I'll either read or play - usually open world games like AC or HZD. These have good story lines.
What about a Video how to act like a dekadent Jet Setter without Money,- like going to Grand Openings of exibitions ( free drinks and catering) or to Horse Races without placing a bet ( Sitting and cheering in the first row is such fun!) Cheers
Haha that is quite a funny idea
I'm a bit older than you, and being a big fan of the super famicom back in thd day inspired me to learn Japanese. I think of games as another form of art, a lot of work goes into them. I appreciate the soundtracks especially on retro games. My son has learned aot from playing minecraft. I suppose it's a question of whether every hobby or interest should have a productive outcome or if it can be enjoyed from its own sake. Definitely agree nothing good comes from playing 8 hours a day! But you can let any hobby get out of hand I'm English and if people start talking about football my eyes glaze over. They can talk about it all day! Love your channel, you've inspired me to start dressing better after a bit of middle age dad Comfort wear.
Video games is a good point!!
#7. A gentleman never spends money on a girl for hire.
#8. A gentleman never spends money on another man's woman.
*** A gentleman never spends time with another man's woman, also, and discovers
that he never wakes up with a shotgun in his face.
I do believe it can be possible to find enriching community, healthy competition, and real joy from playing video games. Obviously more solitary games are lacking in the social component but if you can control yourself and not binge entire days away in front of the screen or at the table, gaming in general can be a healthy, stable, and fulfilling way to develop a community at a “third place”-somewhat like being a regular at a bar or the like.
Good advice except for the part about buying a used Mercedes over a Jag. Jags are the best used luxury car value out there. But make sure to have a pre-purchase inspection done by a qualified mechanic (get referrals) who you can also trust to perform maintenance and repairs when the time comes. Independent shops are more reasonably priced than main dealers on both parts and labor. That said, if Jags don't do it for you, go with a used Lexus. Used BMWs are money pits and Audis are grenades just waiting to go off! Porsches are fun, of course, but very expensive to run.
2:36 - @Gent Z - if not overdone, can one piece of your ensemble, whether a sweater or, in warmer months, a polo, sport the Ralph Lauren logo without being gauche or over the top?