Why you are always running late? The law you never knew about
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- Опубликовано: 14 окт 2024
- Let's face it, we are all against the clock. By knowing this principle it changed my outlook on how I view time - check it out
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As someone with serious time blindness, I would honestly love it if someone did this for me. My entire family is like this, and though I've spent years trying to unlearn it, it still happens sometimes and I hate it. Being tricked into getting somewhere early isn't bad if it works!
This is why people need deadlines and timelines and calendars. Elon Musk once said if you have to move out in 3 days, you'll take 3 days; but if you have to in 3 hours you'll move out in 3 hours. Sometimes, even a lot of the times, you perform better when you're under pressure and up against the clock or that deadline.
I’m retired. I have no tasks. I’ll take your word for it.
It's nice isn't it.
Resentment incurred when they find out you rushed them to wait.
Aha! Judiciously applied parental fibbing. Always a time saver.
I have someone in my life who I habitually tell that things start fifteen minutes to half an hour before they actually start. So far she hasn't caught on. I don't like deception, but it's the only way I know to make sure she's on time to things. (Friend fibbing and parental fibbing are two different things.)
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ADHD is a real condition that can cause this
I was always taught if you are early, you are on time. If you are on time, you are late and it you are late without letting someone know that you are going to be late - If you can't give someone the simplest of respect, what does that tell someone about you.
There's a law that says that the atoms of a gas will fill out the space available. I often think like that about myself and time. I procrastinate a lot. I like to feel inspired. Much time goes to finding inspiration and often I end up doing things "half baked" because in the end I have to rush them. I know I would do things better if I planned more, but for some reason I think that planning is killing the soul and removing the magical beauty of life. Maybe it's because the rewards I get from not planning are more instant than the rewards I would get from planning and performing the plans? I also really hate when I fail to realize my plans.
Hey buddy! U might want to look up "ADHD" in case you aren't aware about it!
Great video
Thanks for sharing.
Im hearing procrastination, tunnel vison and reverse psy all at play 🤔 lol.. utilize your time wisely ...however that looks for you 👈
🙏 doc
Don't forget the bigger issue, and don't ignore root cause analysis. Or you might just be enabling bigger problems down the road. Why was it so important for your son to try on soooo many combinations of soccer gear? Why do his shin guards matter? He has a legit, deep answer to many questions like this that caused the scenario you described. You might be surprised by his answers if you can get the truth. Beyond Parkinson's Law and general procrastination, what is it about preparing for a public engagement that causes this? Try to find out.
Already found my answer it seems she isn't available. 😊
You and your son need to embrace Lombardy time! Don’t know what that is? Look it up!
Spot on .
That's just another form of lies!
be calm and mindful, improve your meditative mind and become disciplined, then you dont dont have to lie yourself as Parkinson law will fail
🙄 So basically you're saying to lie to your Children to save yourself from.. whatever 🙄 you people 🙄
I don't understand your angle here. This could indeed be a helpful tactic to wrangle symptoms of ADHD while also learning to respect other's time and manage schedules properly. All of which can improve the lives of children with or without ADHD who grow up to become adults one day. All of which every single person that cares for themselves or others needs to learn.
I don't see how it's lying, it's setting a time boundary which helps regulate and learn time flow and responsibility as well as respect for ones own time and others.
Saying you have 5 minutes to get ready isn't a lie, it's a challenge. Can we beat the clock? Us ADHD people love it! It helps give structure to making sure time is well spent and awareness of it is being built. All good things.
Your children will hate you for this, but what do you care? They've got no power over you.
Funny joke? I think kids have tons of power over us, because we want to give them everything. So, as the parents, it’s my fault.
Sure that's why my parents blamed me for "making them" feed me what junk food I was addicted to...
Soccer is a complete waste of time and money….Just buy him a dress…
What's the point of this comment? Seems unnecessary and mean