She’s the best at this type of content. No one is better. This is classy-ish….its got respect really is what I’m saying. A lot of the other shows are raunchy.
Aren't we supposedly made in gods image? Im not religious but thats how it meant go. Dont think looks means anything unless ur shallow (which is fine with me, be u)@desm2358
Honestly I was like she probably gonna pick him but then probably not gonna like him because of how skinny. I’m the type of person that doesn’t really care about looks but honestly everyone has to have someone that they are attracted to but maybe he can put on some weight I liked the second guy but anyway, she barely hugged dude 😂 it’s like she wanted to change her mind
@@kaleyum778 forget about the skinny frame for a second, although i agree with u. he need to put on some muscle, but guarantee she doesn't like the way he dress like a teen boy. He need to learn to dress like a grown man, especially knowing he coming to a show like this. Also dont think she liked how young he looks in the face
It’s a pretty important factor but looks fade & vibes are forever. Imagine being old af & you with the most boring + lame ass person on earth… & they look like any other old person around y’all now, ykwim? This is how a lot of old couples end up miserable- once the looks fade then that only thing y’all had w physical attraction is dissolved. It’s simply just too temporary to be riding on & that’s when you see alot of these old couples be cheating because there’s genuinely now just nothing left between them.
This format doesn’t give me enough Arlette 😢 one of my fave things about pop the balloon is how she engages with the contestants and pushes them to share.
I feel that when they all answered "their heart is a flaw," it's not their heart that is a flaw; it's not being able to set boundaries to protect their heart that is a flaw.
@@PlayfulJoyfulidk if you meant that as a joke but it's actually true people who weren't taught how to handle emotions growing up do suffer that I know it happened to me growing up seeing parents fight and with a very angry damaged father and passive non existent mother. It's horrible. Exactly why I'm in therapy it's hard work tbh.
I love this young lady!, she spoke so articulately and so mature for being just a 22 year old. She really is a beauty with brains, definitely💯 Also the contestants as well, very well spoken and seems like they experienced the world at such a young age👏
He was long winded in his answers and said what she wanted to hear...he didn't answer alot of the question clearly and she didn't seem happy with her choice
@@tonnie4u2she only picked him because he was the one to mention marriage & God & that’s heavily trending….i wanted her to pick the music guy like?? You’re an aspiring dj !?
@@Koolmotor24He is not experienced, that's what makes him a breath if fresh air. I think he is genuine and seems happy about his pick. The ball is in her court.
Props to the person who came with the idea "From Looks to Character " she paid attention to the issue of POP THE BALLON (no more you're short, your toes are out, your hair) just a mature, genuine convo Surely everyone will have a fair chance.
True but physical attraction does matter.. people need to realize physical comes first then everything else after.. some don't care but a lot do and for that reason I don't think this episode or concept will workout
I talked to someone who I thought we were working on dating each other. He was literally the same exact height as me. It was funny, but it was cute and I didn’t care but had to cut him off because he just wanted a threesome. That’s been many years ago, but here I am engaged to someone taller lol😂 not that it matters, but I should’ve just bragged to him about it, but I’m not that type of girl
@@stephenwa7417 Exactly. That's why as long as Terrance held on to his balloon he was unhappy with his blind love date. Physical attraction definitely,atters
@@stephenwa7417 I am the type of girl that don’t really care about looks but I have to agree. That is the first thing we noticed of a person and for me as long as the person looks decent in looks, you don’t have to be dead, dropping handsome, but a little decent and looks like you can have big eyes, and I find it attractive and many things that I don’t like or it looks weird to me. I end up, loving like I never dated a bald head and time met some guy and was just his style I fell in love with it. And also in my high school years I had people to question me why are you with him and he looks ugly, but to me, I found the beauty in him. I found him attractive.
I picked #4 right from the beginning. He was smiling and had genuine positivity even before Arlette asked any questions. All the guys had good answers, but I think the woman really picked the best match for herself. I think they looked really cute together, and they both seemed very smart, thoughtful, caring, and open to stimulating new experiences/traveling. I like this blind date format because I think there is a better chance of a real relationship happening after the show. 🤍❤🤍
Arlette, when a person is eliminated and they get to see what the person on the other side looks like, you should ask the both of them are they each other’s type!
If someone doesn’t want a particular body type it’s not body shaming it’s a preference. If someone is shaming someone on how they look and making fun of them then it’s considered body shaming.
@@hotcoldman77 I think it should be a middle ground where at some point they get to see each other. Even better is I think when they apply to be on the show is to have questions of some preferences to help choose the lineup so people actually stand more of a chance of getting to the non-physical conversation more and can match better. If its people don’t want a person less than a certain height is THAT much of a big deal then make sure that lineup that episode doesn’t have short men etc. It may cause Arlette’s team to do more homework but would make for a better show of people actually finding matches not hung up on shii like height that could be fixed by a questionnaire beforehand ijs 😂💯
This was great episode but I kind of wish at the end that Ari asked the contestant if they're both interested after they matched because she didn't seem too excited to see him 😳
Right I feel like we got the okie doke I stayed but knew only disaster would ensue especially bc no3 was the most attractive to me before he spoke … and then he spoke and his voice wasn’t as attractive and his answers were crazy 😂
I want a messy version of this! Have her see the guys and rank them 1-5, then have her ask the questions without her knowing whose answering, then, reveal what she ranked them as they get eliminated
@@sweet_beginnings_2740 bro is on a show, he’s nervous. I corrected him right away when I heard that but I’m not mad because I make mistakes all the time when I have to do presentations
You've brought back to life a game show I enjoyed watching in the 70's and 80's. The Dating Game. Oldie but goodie. This is the beginning of the return of liking people for who they are and looks are a bonus. Great show! Our youth just might stand a chance after all. 😂
Thank you Arlette and BM for this Episode 1. What an impressive line up of young men. The female was a perfect lady, nice and soft spoken sprinkled with respect. I’m so proud of all of these contestants. Keep UP the good work!!
She needs to drop this on Thursday and continue with pop the ballon on Wednesday and have Friday as catch up Fridays where she ask the contestants how their dates went.
I love this version! This allows the potential couples to get to know each other based off of emotions and intellect instead of just the physical!! A lot of people miss out on there blessings because “they don’t look like my type”
This is so good! Love the format. Love that instead judging by looks first, they judge the character, mindset and intellect. Almost makes me want to submit an application. 😂
It's the trendy follower generation. Meaning they don't have their own minds or an og to guide them into the right direction to court a woman properly. Dark colors, big logos, sneakers, dry skin is the new wave if your a lost young man without guidance. It's not hard to Wear dress attire for a date. Dudes are just followers
Why? Why do people use the narrative "be yourself", but then want to dictate how others should/shouldn't present themselves. That's just so classist, superficial and falls under respectability. We are how we are.
You can be top notch but you can’t say that for others. That would be a false representation of themselves. One wins the girl and then she gets a different person afterwards. Some men are just simple and that’s okay 🤎
Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE Pop the Balloon. But this…NEXT LEVEL!! I love how sweet everyone is, hearing the depth of their hearts is so much more powerful than basing off looks.
I love the vibes Arlette brings and how classy she carries herself.. This was definitely very enjoyable to watch and I hope more people are able to find love through this wonderful couple 🤞🏾🙏🏾
Bring back the Love Connection format. Send them on the date then recap. If they’re not a match let us vote who is the most compatible and send them on a second date w/who gets the most votes.
Right? How can a flaw be a positive thing? She asked - a flaw or a red flag. They just rehearsed because they did not want to be dismissed, this is the real 🚩
Being "too nice" is not a red flag ... 😭😭😭 can people stop saying that dumb shit!! if you can't criticize yourself you probably aren't ready for a relationship. you mean to tell me you don't get jealous? maybe you're grumpy in the morning!! give us something smh!! that answer is such a cop out
Being too nice is a red flag! This means you have no boundaries, let people walk all over you, and have difficulty saying “no”. Usually a “too nice” person is also passive aggressive.
The problem with this format is the viewers don't really care about all the yapping and generic answers. "I love to travel" so does 99% of the world if they can afford it. Mannerisms, facial expressions, talking face to face, that's the interesting part of pop the balloon. The contestants aren't celebrities where the viewers might want to listen to them yap for 40 minutes. I don't think this series will continue for too long.
she wasn't feeling her date. not sexually attracted to him based off her hug and when they both walked off set she pretty much didn't wait for him and couldn't wait to leave. the first two guys she eliminated was her type fasho
Someone could have the best answers and sounding voice but if a 450 pound person coming walking around that curtain it ain’t going anywhere. That’s why balloon pop was better.
Filtering out the problematic baby mamas and baby daddies, the 40+ year old washed up s3x workers, all that, really set a classy wholesome tone to the dating show. Big up to Arlette & her husband. There is way too much humiliation content on RUclips these days. This was nice.
So glad to be back on this channel where there is class, people dress appropriately and the host is so classy and well spoken. I tried watching some other pop.The balloon channels and was literally embarrassed. No one tops Arlette.❤
My FAVORITE thing about his new segment is the thoughtfulness of the questions. I like that they will have to prepare because on pop the balloon, people ask struggle, silly, questions, sometimes. No, what's your sign nonsense. Because of the questions, we also got well thought out answers. So, looking forward to more of these. It feels more intentional.
what is presentable? what society tell you what look good when every man there look clean, you may not like it but what about they caracter moral principles that should over shine what someone wear to a certain extent.
The key word is "too". Being too kind is an issue. Think the coworker who always gets tricked into doing a bunch of work off the clock. You let yourself be taken advantage of
Arlette I think you should put headphones on the contestants who aren't answering the question because I feel like these guys were listening to one another and taking all the good points and just repeating them at some point 👀 Also add a timer for each answer. Like 30 secs to a minute cause some of these guys were rambling on and on! They needed to be stopped! 😅 Can I also say that I love how this concept is exactly the opposite of Pop The Ballroon? PTB is hyper focused on the physical aspect of a connection whereas, this eliminates that for the most part and focuses on matching personalities. Love it
@@dsanders799You know that’s a lie. You’ll cry for days with these Black American men, they’ll impregnate 10 other women and leave you a single mom! You and I know it’s true😂 Black American men are not honest and don’t have good values in all honesty. Africans on the other hand stick to one woman and build a family till death, and take care of their family. Most of my family uncles, aunties, grandma, grandpa and parents have been together ever since i was a child and are still together and we’re African. Black American men don’t understand FAMILY, and LOVE. It’s kind of scary that such people with a mindset exist tbh!
@@dsanders799 A non-African Black man is only the best if you want to end up a single mother. Most only treat you well for as long as they can use you. This is just facts. Both in real life and on the daitng apps, they are the worst options hands down.
(I’ve been married for 26 years and am very happy, but) I listened while cooking dinner, so I didn’t see the men’s faces and that’s exactly who I would have chosen. I hope it works out for them ❤️
What’s crazy is that from the first round after hearing him talk and how sure he was about how he wanted his life to be I knew he was going to get chosen ❤
I was surprised she eliminated number 1. As soon as he came around that corner, you could tell her heart sank because she was attracted to him. I personally liked number 1's answers. He came off really mature and solid, but I think she found him forgettable... until she saw him lol. But number 4 had great answers too. He's attractive and seems like a great guy, but that fit was a no for me. I was like, "omg, I guess I do judge men by their outfits sometimes" 😅😂
The ones with less options say cheating is a deal breaker. Being a man with alot of options most have been in sitiations where they worked through temptations. So that shouldve easily told her who would be attractive and who wasnt.
She did say "were real happy". I'm hoping that was her way of reciprocating. She just seemed nervous. We'll see! I'm most exciting that she's into DJing and he loves music festivals. They should have highlighted that more in the end but something about music is definitely coming out of their update for sure.
Yay for a new series and new episode! I like this twist! If I were her, I would prefer to take notes on the answers because it can be hard remembering what people said when you're only hearing their voices. Having a face to face interaction makes it easier to remember who said what. But she did a great job keeping track. And having only 5 contestants definitely makes it easier. Keep the episodes coming! ❤
Truuuue💀 he was not wrong though. Things are not always black and white. Sometimes people let themselves get too heated and emotional in some situations that can be solved with proper communication. Imagine ending a years long relationship because there was a disconnection and for a bit people were so overwhelmed with life - because kids, family matters, etc. (pandemic was a "good" and trying time for relationships) they could not even get the chance to work through it. People cheat and forgive, they are just not honest about it, this guy seemed mature with his response. Apologies about the huge comment
The contestant 4 was trying hard to speak well to win her affection (instead of being relaxed and being himself) and the girl fell for it. In the end though she wasnt impressed by his physical appearance and possibly also outfit. I didn't really see much vibe between them and it probably lasted as long as it took them to get out of the camera's range.
You know what would be cool, if the other guys wore headphones w/music so they can’t hear the others’ responses. I enjoyed this.
@@Jstwatching that's a great idea
I was thinking that! That way no one’s answer is influenced by anyone else lol!
@@Jstwatching yes!
Yeah cause the guy that won definitely was not original lol
Yes, it would have helped even better
I like how Arlette switched it up. Too many pop the balloon creators. But nobody has her skills nor class ! She’s #1 in the game
i really like her too...shes just sweet!!
Same! She’s an incredible host and just an overall classy woman.
She’s the best at this type of content. No one is better. This is classy-ish….its got respect really is what I’m saying. A lot of the other shows are raunchy.
she always smiling
💯
When I heard “My name is James”
I swooped my head so fast to be sure it wasn’t Mr gourmet pies😭
You can't un-hear it atp 😂
😂😂
I hope my boy james is the cater for Mike and khes wedding
LOL “Hi I’m James with gourmet pies” 🥧
lmaoooooooo
Lol, she was feeling the 1st dude when he came around😂😂😂 looks matter. No matter how much we wish they didn't
Blind dates are tough - you can connect mentally but when the eyes see something unattractive - it changes everything.
yes it's almost like looks are nearly everything. Oh that's right, it's because they are
lol!! Exactly!!! Ppl try and throw out the physical when God Gave us looks for a reason!!!
This sums up her reaction to a T 😅
Aren't we supposedly made in gods image? Im not religious but thats how it meant go. Dont think looks means anything unless ur shallow (which is fine with me, be u)@desm2358
Yeah thought the guy she picked was cute but way too skinny
I'm convinced #3 was jus ready to leave when he said "yes I cheated b4 and I DON'T think it's a deal breaker!" 🤣
He was hungry or something😂😂😂😂
Right 😂 it’s no way he thought he was staying after that. Points for honesty though
Lmao 🤣 I was like lord. He like I need all mines all the time.. and I'm not explaining shi to anyone
She was actually feeling 3 physically 😂. She was mad about letting bro go lolol
He's just a player. No further explanations needed.
The guys are answering questions like they’re at a job interview
Yep lying their ass off to get the job
My worst flaw is that I have a big heart, caring and loving 🤣
Dates kinda are like interviews. Right ?😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@mafaldap5330lmfao was looking for this
I was rooting for contestant #1 🥺 she matched with him perfectly 👌
I agree. Not only was he fine and mature but he knew what he wanted and was very articulate.
He was gonna get illuminate. He says "of course" at cheating "its something you do when you are young"
No , YOU JUST THINK SHE MATCHED WITH HIM PERFECTLY.
I actually liked #1 for her as well, but contestant #4 is definitely a keeper.
True (contestant number 1)
Bro really said he was finna cheat and thought he was getting a match 😂😂 i like his honesty
Loved his honesty too. But would have eliminated him for it too. 😂 the irony of life
I don't know what he came there for!😂😂😂
I probably would've picked him. Because the others probably did. He just was honest
@sharonanyango6766 in real life I think she would choose contestant number 3 over 4 any day 😭 no Diddy but he looks better than him
@@stephenwa7417probably but that would have clearly been the wrong decision. Which 98% of women do on the daily
“Get to where God needs me urgently” touched my soul 🙏🏽
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THANK YOU ALMIGHTY GOD AMEN 🙏 🙌 ❤️ 😌 ☺️ 💖 🙏 🙌 ❤️ 😌 ☺️
I was so hype when said that.
To get to God urgently is death
Why did that touch your soul?
@@fadumonor868if missed the point was a person!
I already miss the sound of popping balloons 😂pop, pop, pop
🤣🤣🤣
I do as well😂😂
You didn't hear them pop as they walked out😂
A balloon pop is the new sound of rejection lol 🎈💥
Pop Pop Hell yeah that shit is so hilarious 😂😅
I THINK AT THE END OF THIS TYPE OF SHOW YOU SHOULD STILL ASK THEM IF THEY WOULD LIKE TO MATCH WITH THE PERSON THEY WERE TALKING TO JUST A SUGGESTION 🎉
I agree it shouldn’t be automatic!
That’s offensive for people to change their minds after seeing their date. 😭😂🤣😂🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😭😭😭😭
I feel like that would defeat the purpose of why they came to the blind date show.
No. That's all the point of a blind date : pick a match based on what you hear
@@MJWife07❤
we can't deny the fact that physical attraction matter lol
Honestly I was like she probably gonna pick him but then probably not gonna like him because of how skinny. I’m the type of person that doesn’t really care about looks but honestly everyone has to have someone that they are attracted to but maybe he can put on some weight I liked the second guy but anyway, she barely hugged dude 😂 it’s like she wanted to change her mind
It does but it shouldn’t be the main thing. I’ve seen a lot of attractive people and they were absolutely toxic. Looks fade anyway.
@@kaleyum778 forget about the skinny frame for a second, although i agree with u. he need to put on some muscle, but guarantee she doesn't like the way he dress like a teen boy. He need to learn to dress like a grown man, especially knowing he coming to a show like this. Also dont think she liked how young he looks in the face
It’s a pretty important factor but looks fade & vibes are forever.
Imagine being old af & you with the most boring + lame ass person on earth… & they look like any other old person around y’all now, ykwim? This is how a lot of old couples end up miserable- once the looks fade then that only thing y’all had w physical attraction is dissolved. It’s simply just too temporary to be riding on & that’s when you see alot of these old couples be cheating because there’s genuinely now just nothing left between them.
Yes looks matter. But The persons character and who they are is truly what keeps the attraction going.
This format doesn’t give me enough Arlette 😢 one of my fave things about pop the balloon is how she engages with the contestants and pushes them to share.
I like this format and I think she should mix it up at least 1 episode a month with the blind dating
Yea I skipped most of the show. Wasn't feeling it.
@@brandikeeler7383 Yeah, and I miss her “WE’VE GOOOT AAA MAAATCH” - DANCE” 😂🤭
Yes l agree with all y'all l found it disappointing, lacklustre. Also l would say "if it ain't broke don't fix it"
Yes i do agree with this@@Deenique16
I feel that when they all answered "their heart is a flaw," it's not their heart that is a flaw; it's not being able to set boundaries to protect their heart that is a flaw.
Well said. 👍🏽
Or they are emotional and immature
@@PlayfulJoyful😂😂
I've learned that in therapy
@@PlayfulJoyfulidk if you meant that as a joke but it's actually true people who weren't taught how to handle emotions growing up do suffer that I know it happened to me growing up seeing parents fight and with a very angry damaged father and passive non existent mother. It's horrible. Exactly why I'm in therapy it's hard work tbh.
I love this young lady!, she spoke so articulately and so mature for being just a 22 year old. She really is a beauty with brains, definitely💯 Also the contestants as well, very well spoken and seems like they experienced the world at such a young age👏
Woww definitely agree 😍
#4 answers were fire 🔥
Contestant #4 is such a lover boy and so well-rounded. I need one of HIM in my life!!
I know right?! That’s what I said too lol I love his voice 😍
Yall can get finessed easily I see lol 😂
@@BenevolentDictator13 That's why they always single...they love the lies😂
@@kjm85😂😂😂😅😅
He just said everything y’all wanted to hear literally word for word he was working OT capping to win but y’all easy 😂
She picked the winner🏆 he's so handsome, well spoken, eager to learn and appears to be successful.🥰
Did she pick 5? Or did she go with the winner from the start #4. @Digital78Native
He was long winded in his answers and said what she wanted to hear...he didn't answer alot of the question clearly and she didn't seem happy with her choice
@@tonnie4u2I agree. Very long winded and sounded like he was reading off a script. I’m surprised the girl didn’t peep that and picked someone else
@@tonnie4u2she only picked him because he was the one to mention marriage & God & that’s heavily trending….i wanted her to pick the music guy like?? You’re an aspiring dj !?
@@Koolmotor24He is not experienced, that's what makes him a breath if fresh air.
I think he is genuine and seems happy about his pick. The ball is in her court.
8 minutes in, and number 3 is a walking FLAMING red flag.
The dude was honest. But no one likes honest these days. Sweet lies
@@brianfreckles8542 y’all need to go sit on a bench and heal. Cheating is not okay and therapy is okay.
He gots to go
OHHH FOR SUREEEEE !!
@@brianfreckles8542 He can go cheat on another woman who also likes to cheat. There’s somebody for everybody.
This was so mature I love it !! #5 was kicking arse with those responses, bless his heart😚
My Kenyan brother 🇰🇪 You represented us well bro am proud of you
Does that mean you're all the same?
yeah big up to my Kenyan bro too. Congrats!!! Super composed and very ambitious.
sweet talk but poorly dressed for a first date
His entire aesthetic and vocabulary is that of a black american. I was shocked when he said he was Kenyan 🇰🇪
@@comment2karepeople in those professions arent really going on shows like this. Could be career suicide reputation wise
Props to the person who came with the idea
"From Looks to Character "
she paid attention to the issue of POP THE BALLON
(no more you're short, your toes are out, your hair) just a mature, genuine convo
Surely everyone will have a fair chance.
True but physical attraction does matter.. people need to realize physical comes first then everything else after.. some don't care but a lot do and for that reason I don't think this episode or concept will workout
I talked to someone who I thought we were working on dating each other. He was literally the same exact height as me. It was funny, but it was cute and I didn’t care but had to cut him off because he just wanted a threesome. That’s been many years ago, but here I am engaged to someone taller lol😂 not that it matters, but I should’ve just bragged to him about it, but I’m not that type of girl
@@stephenwa7417 Exactly. That's why as long as Terrance held on to his balloon he was unhappy with his blind love date. Physical attraction definitely,atters
This idea, is from an old show in the 70s n 80s called The Dating Game Show.
@@stephenwa7417 I am the type of girl that don’t really care about looks but I have to agree. That is the first thing we noticed of a person and for me as long as the person looks decent in looks, you don’t have to be dead, dropping handsome, but a little decent and looks like you can have big eyes, and I find it attractive and many things that I don’t like or it looks weird to me. I end up, loving like I never dated a bald head and time met some guy and was just his style I fell in love with it. And also in my high school years I had people to question me why are you with him and he looks ugly, but to me, I found the beauty in him. I found him attractive.
she’s a pretty girl and the guy she chose is a cutie pie. he seems really sweet & genuine. best wishes to them!
100% agree...it's more so the outfit. If she can show him how to dress, we may just have a match!
@@IsabelisLOVESityeah his outfit isn’t giving.
I picked #4 right from the beginning. He was smiling and had genuine positivity even before Arlette asked any questions. All the guys had good answers, but I think the woman really picked the best match for herself. I think they looked really cute together, and they both seemed very smart, thoughtful, caring, and open to stimulating new experiences/traveling. I like this blind date format because I think there is a better chance of a real relationship happening after the show. 🤍❤🤍
She seemed way more interested when he was behind the screen vs when he came out😭
😂😂😂😂
Don't blame her
Arlette, when a person is eliminated and they get to see what the person on the other side looks like, you should ask the both of them are they each other’s type!
Perfect !!
Great idea! I hope production is reading all of these comments like I am! lol
Exactly just like the other show, But overall this sucks I guess they are bored with the original show.
great Idea
I think it defeats the purpose of the show. it's a blind date for a reason
SUPPORTING ANYTHING Arlette!!!
I do! 😅Loll
IKR 🎉❤
She needs to get paid! Her shows are better than TV!
Yessir! And ALWAYS rooting for her and BM
Number 4 knocking the questions out of the park. Smart guy for being so young.
His answers sound rehearsed up until the last round for me
@nonapplicable9590 you girls keep making assumptions about guys you don't even know. You aren't a fan of facts, I see.
@@mrohsolive3951 he said his age? I may have missed it
@@mrbrave29 he didn’t come off
Genuine he came off like he wanted to win
His name Tavier. He a chill dude. He just be himself 🔥🔥🔥
The intros when they show everybody in slow motion are so hard !!!🔥🔥🔥
She’s trying to get them to disqualify themselves by revealing their red flags but bros are too smart 😂😂
Exactly
I’m sure women will be doing the same. You have to sell yourself.
The first dude eliminated wasn’t too bright he answered that cheating question poorly.
Is not that they’re smart is just the fact when you say, what are you red flags? She’s already giving them a heads up and they all make excuses.😂
@@onealrocky70ya if you notice she eliminated the two guys who said they cheated first
She literally eliminated them in order of handsomeness without knowing 😂😂😂.
Nr 4 was less attractive than nr 5 though
I told my girl this says a lot and she said yeah it means ugly ninjas be lying and they full of poop. 😂😂 (she call me ugly everyday) 🤣🤣
I said the same thing. Lol
@@313abailey😂😂😂
She didn’t look pleased with her choice 😂😂😂 lol. The follow up should be interesting
Finally a segment that won't have too much body shaming and stereotypes based on appearance just purely about mindset and energy 😊
Right I agree 💯
All those things you mentioned is what made the show fun though. This spinoff episode or whatever it is was boring as hell 😴
If someone doesn’t want a particular body type it’s not body shaming it’s a preference. If someone is shaming someone on how they look and making fun of them then it’s considered body shaming.
Yeah, but the batch of men are pretty weak.
@@hotcoldman77 I think it should be a middle ground where at some point they get to see each other. Even better is I think when they apply to be on the show is to have questions of some preferences to help choose the lineup so people actually stand more of a chance of getting to the non-physical conversation more and can match better. If its people don’t want a person less than a certain height is THAT much of a big deal then make sure that lineup that episode doesn’t have short men etc. It may cause Arlette’s team to do more homework but would make for a better show of people actually finding matches not hung up on shii like height that could be fixed by a questionnaire beforehand ijs 😂💯
her body language changed once she saw him she felt like she made a mistake lol
Nah..she definitely thought he was cute! The way she was flipping her hair and then she said we both didn't make a mistake....
This was great episode but I kind of wish at the end that Ari asked the contestant if they're both interested after they matched because she didn't seem too excited to see him 😳
We can all agree, this is a group of well spoken, intelligent black men.
Definitely ❤❤
I immediately thought of the girl who popped in season one and spoke down on that man for how he spoke lol
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The obnoxious, zebra print, church dress dummy 😂 @@SlyXD-mb1so
Totally agree and they are very young.
I clicked this video as though it was about to disappear 😭😭
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It did earlier actually. I was watching it, and they took it down when I was about 10 min in 😆.
Same 🤣🤣
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she wasn’t feeling dude at all wouldn’t even look at em
True 😂
How are ppl in here already! LOL. Yesss another show!
We obsessed
Yes we are
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We in Chere Baybay! 🎉😎
We her na
I thought this was pop the balloon I didn’t even look at the title I just clicked 😂
Same here. I wasn’t expecting this setup. 😅
Same and I'm not sure how I feel about this segment. I do see where they were potentially going with this and why they had this set up butttttt idk🤔
Right I feel like we got the okie doke I stayed but knew only disaster would ensue especially bc no3 was the most attractive to me before he spoke … and then he spoke and his voice wasn’t as attractive and his answers were crazy 😂
Me too😂
@@nonapplicable9590 I swear 😂 but I had a feeling after listening to number 4 that he was gonna be the one.
As soon as #2 said his name was James I IMMEDIATELY followed with "of James Gourmet Pies" 😂😂 Congrats Arlette on the new show, keep growing!! ❤
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😂😂😂 BRING JAMES BACK!!
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I want a messy version of this! Have her see the guys and rank them 1-5, then have her ask the questions without her knowing whose answering, then, reveal what she ranked them as they get eliminated
I love how this promotes to look internally at an individual instead of focusing on outside traits.
Number 4 was that Guy for show, no competition, Big up
#4 sounds young but he’s intelligent and very meticulous with his answers.
The contestant that said he was “fearful “ when he should have said “fearless ?!! lol
@@sweet_beginnings_2740😂😂😂 ppl make mistakes
@@sweet_beginnings_2740 bro is on a show, he’s nervous. I corrected him right away when I heard that but I’m not mad because I make mistakes all the time when I have to do presentations
@@nitateethey a good match
He's definitely good at lying
You've brought back to life a game show I enjoyed watching in the 70's and 80's. The Dating Game. Oldie but goodie. This is the beginning of the return of liking people for who they are and looks are a bonus. Great show! Our youth just might stand a chance after all. 😂
We need two per week now, blind date and pop the ballon 👏🏽
Pop the Ballon is cooked and over saturated 😂 but it's entertaining
Agree!
@@SuperWarpath yes its over saturated but watching them on this channel is way more original.
Yes I want the same😂
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To me this proves physical attraction does actually matter 😂
Yup
Oh yeah 100%
For sure!!!
Anybody who said it doesn’t is capping hard
She look disappointed as heck
They stole Arlette show idea and she switched it up. LOVE IT!
True story
They been doing pop the balloons. She didn’t come up wit it
This is a British show format
She was the best at it, and I hope she continues with it.
You think it was Arlette who came up with this idea? Pop the balloon has been trending on youtube for years.
Thank you Arlette and BM for this Episode 1. What an impressive line up of young men. The female was a perfect lady, nice and soft spoken sprinkled with respect. I’m so proud of all of these contestants. Keep UP the good work!!
If you’re agreeing to participate in a blind date scenario, you’re saying that you don’t prioritize looks very highly. I commend their bravery.
Her reaction when she saw her final guy said otherwise 😂😂!!
@@drtash21 that baby was not impressed. Him on the other hand… SUPER excited.
@@virtuoso8642but she acted well 😂
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Exactly, that's why I couldn't be on this show. I know myself enough to know that looks play a role in overall attraction!
Arlette and her hubby are unstoppable!!! Keep growing that empire, we love it!!! May God bless all of your endeavors!
She needs to drop this on Thursday and continue with pop the ballon on Wednesday and have Friday as catch up Fridays where she ask the contestants how their dates went.
Very true we need updates
Love this new format so much ! No superficial choices just all based on answers and vibes. Love the switch up ! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love this version! This allows the potential couples to get to know each other based off of emotions and intellect instead of just the physical!! A lot of people miss out on there blessings because “they don’t look like my type”
We really wearing hats, fire graphic shirts, ripped jeans and sneakers on dating shows while the women look classy????? Ok.
What you can see is that it’s not the clothes that counts but the personality
He's into music, he's a creative. It's his expression of self. He's not for everybody but he'll be an amazing man for whoever he ends up with.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
It’s 2024…people don’t wear suits much anymore.
man lmao some of the women on the pop the balloon segments be wearing damn near halloween costumes neither gender is consistent in this regards
Okayyyyyyy!!!! This is literally my brotherrrr and she picked the kindest most GENUINE God fearing Man !!! Congrats T!!!!!!
Give us an update!!!
He is an absolute angel, I hope he meets someone who can match his depth 🫶🏼
Updates pleaseeee?
This is so good! Love the format. Love that instead judging by looks first, they judge the character, mindset and intellect. Almost makes me want to submit an application. 😂
These dudes have to step their attire game up.
It's ok to be comfortable but presentation should be TOP NOTCH.
It's the trendy follower generation. Meaning they don't have their own minds or an og to guide them into the right direction to court a woman properly. Dark colors, big logos, sneakers, dry skin is the new wave if your a lost young man without guidance. It's not hard to Wear dress attire for a date. Dudes are just followers
I agree. Arlette need to come to NY so I could show her proper attire.
Why? Why do people use the narrative "be yourself", but then want to dictate how others should/shouldn't present themselves. That's just so classist, superficial and falls under respectability. We are how we are.
No they don’t. They need to be themselves.
You can be top notch but you can’t say that for others. That would be a false representation of themselves. One wins the girl and then she gets a different person afterwards. Some men are just simple and that’s okay 🤎
Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE Pop the Balloon. But this…NEXT LEVEL!! I love how sweet everyone is, hearing the depth of their hearts is so much more powerful than basing off looks.
Agreed! 💯👏🏽
After a while, people will start saying what they know the guy/ girl wants to hear to get picked...
Nah pop the balloon is more entertaining
@@ifelovyep they’ll all be competing on who got the best game aka lying to get the most attention and likes
She was smiling on the outside, but crying on the inside at the end.
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I love the vibes Arlette brings and how classy she carries herself.. This was definitely very enjoyable to watch and I hope more people are able to find love through this wonderful couple 🤞🏾🙏🏾
Bring back the Love Connection format. Send them on the date then recap. If they’re not a match let us vote who is the most compatible and send them on a second date w/who gets the most votes.
Ooh! That sounds cool!!
I was just thinking of this. The show that came to mind was Change of Heart
Yessss!! Chuck Woolery would hopefully approve lol
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I used to watch that show love connection I remember that
My Kenyan 🇰🇪 guy is right there with the world-renowned bracelet. Well done to him 👏
Arlette about to be the QUEEN of the online dating game...
#SALUTE
Taking old dating shows and revamping them
Already is..
Kenyans to the world❤ .watching from Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪Good luck gentleman.
I can tell Arlette is a wonderful wife. Man mans hit the Jackpot
Word. The whole package
Facts
I hope you find yours
@@Harlemsweetie82 I really appreciate that but I’ve been happily married for 14 years now.
You tend to see African women like that who love their culture back home as well as the American one
“Biggest red flag is due to my heart because of how people treat me” ???? That’s literally not a red flag and feels deflecting
They probably toxic
Right? How can a flaw be a positive thing? She asked - a flaw or a red flag. They just rehearsed because they did not want to be dismissed, this is the real 🚩
Yes i was like what are these guys talking about
It’s like a job interview where you list a “flaw” that isn’t too bad - then list how you overcome it, just the dating version
That answer is the red flag lol it screams I will beat you 😂😂😂
Being "too nice" is not a red flag ... 😭😭😭 can people stop saying that dumb shit!! if you can't criticize yourself you probably aren't ready for a relationship.
you mean to tell me you don't get jealous? maybe you're grumpy in the morning!! give us something smh!! that answer is such a cop out
Being too nice is a red flag. Means you are a people pleaser and you say yes to any abd everything. Be kind , don't be nice.
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I been waiting on this comment. They all practiced that response.
Being "nice" is in direct conflict with the truth. Many lies get told in rhe interest of being "nice". It absolutely is a red flag.
Being too nice is a red flag! This means you have no boundaries, let people walk all over you, and have difficulty saying “no”. Usually a “too nice” person is also passive aggressive.
I’m glad Arlette and team have multiple shows so she doesn’t get put in a box for one thing
The problem with this format is the viewers don't really care about all the yapping and generic answers. "I love to travel" so does 99% of the world if they can afford it. Mannerisms, facial expressions, talking face to face, that's the interesting part of pop the balloon. The contestants aren't celebrities where the viewers might want to listen to them yap for 40 minutes. I don't think this series will continue for too long.
Agreed! Super immature conversations. No depth.
Definitely agree. It was boring everyone was yapping and that was a perfect summary. Not interested in watching another episode.
Agreed.
But I will continue to watch these if I have to kill time…
Fasho
facts
she wasn't feeling her date. not sexually attracted to him based off her hug and when they both walked off set she pretty much didn't wait for him and couldn't wait to leave. the first two guys she eliminated was her type fasho
The dressing would have eliminated the guy in opo the baloon
I agree with the first part you said, but I think she liked 1# from her reaction when she saw him.
Facts I noticed that right away she was looking for a looker with all the good character qualities which usually don't come together
@@foodrealityeconomicsfe7851bingo. Usually the very attractive do not have the best character when it comes to men.
@foodrealityeconomicsfe7851 thank you you can't have it all
Arlette's face at 6:30 is hilarious! Because what do you mean, it's not a deal breaker?!
right! i peeped that
That made me come to the comments. Her face made me holler! I felt that.
That's a 🚩🚩
lol like huh???
Was bout to make the same comment, 😂😂😂
I knew it was him from the beginning. He's so perfect for her and so well rounded
His appearance wasn't what she expected from the way she reacted after seeing him 😂😂I see lots of boundaries and friendzoning coming out of this
Someone could have the best answers and sounding voice but if a 450 pound person coming walking around that curtain it ain’t going anywhere. That’s why balloon pop was better.
The way they walked off😂😂
Yeah he looks like a lil brother to her
Yup should’ve picked 5
@@Yomnshx she really wanted 1 you seen her reaction she definetly regretted it
Filtering out the problematic baby mamas and baby daddies, the 40+ year old washed up s3x workers, all that, really set a classy wholesome tone to the dating show. Big up to Arlette & her husband. There is way too much humiliation content on RUclips these days. This was nice.
Agree
Arlette you should give this game its own day. Pop the balloon is usually on Wednesdays so that’s what we were expecting.
I agree completely. I was a bit disappointed to see this.
I agree
I lowkey was waiting for it to I got food and high and everything 😭😭 but this will do. It does need its own day though
Agree!!!
Variety people. Great Job Arlette.
So glad to be back on this channel where there is class, people dress appropriately and the host is so classy and well spoken. I tried watching some other pop.The balloon channels and was literally embarrassed. No one tops Arlette.❤
This show will be another hit b/c many will be disappointed with who they end up with 😂
That’s sad yet funny
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You can tell that the lady is already regretting her decision 😂
You’re messy
My FAVORITE thing about his new segment is the thoughtfulness of the questions. I like that they will have to prepare because on pop the balloon, people ask struggle, silly, questions, sometimes. No, what's your sign nonsense. Because of the questions, we also got well thought out answers. So, looking forward to more of these. It feels more intentional.
Absolutely!
Oh a thing about this one is that you get to hear a person for who he/she is. And these guys were responding very well, and sounded like gentlemen.
Great group of men, even number 3, atleast he was honest, respect.
Why aren’t these dudes coming on the show looking presentable!!?? Mind blowing lol
Same thing I was thinking 🤔
@@raquel7675 Exactly. None are attractive.
At first I thought they were just pulling people off the street. lol
I think all of their outfits aren't that bad actually.
what is presentable? what society tell you what look good when every man there look clean, you may not like it but what about they caracter moral principles that should over shine what someone wear to a certain extent.
Ain't gonna lie, that guy that got eliminated first would've been a crazy match with her appearance wise. They even look similar in a sense.
Idk.. it seems to me that most women love tall dark chocolate and 4 has a great personality to match.
Eww
Looking similar, like siblings? Thats nasty work.
You worried bout the wrong things
Yea, I was like girl you just eliminated your match 😭
Unpopular opinion: Being too kind/trusting is NOT a red flag, just a lesson learned
I don’t think kindness is a red flag, but consistently allowing people to take advantage of you is a red flag.
I think it’s people pleasing and being kind trusting is not a red flag
The key word is "too". Being too kind is an issue. Think the coworker who always gets tricked into doing a bunch of work off the clock. You let yourself be taken advantage of
being too nice is a way to get taken advantage of, kind and nice are two different words
@@E.Mastery not having boundaries and standing on your personal principles is a red flag
Arlette I think you should put headphones on the contestants who aren't answering the question because I feel like these guys were listening to one another and taking all the good points and just repeating them at some point 👀
Also add a timer for each answer. Like 30 secs to a minute cause some of these guys were rambling on and on! They needed to be stopped! 😅
Can I also say that I love how this concept is exactly the opposite of Pop The Ballroon? PTB is hyper focused on the physical aspect of a connection whereas, this eliminates that for the most part and focuses on matching personalities. Love it
A grounded African is the best husband!!! Once they are not into multiple women , then you have struck gold!!!!
Lol a non African black man is the best he can treat you very well
@@dsanders799You know that’s a lie. You’ll cry for days with these Black American men, they’ll impregnate 10 other women and leave you a single mom! You and I know it’s true😂
Black American men are not honest and don’t have good values in all honesty. Africans on the other hand stick to one woman and build a family till death, and take care of their family. Most of my family uncles, aunties, grandma, grandpa and parents have been together ever since i was a child and are still together and we’re African. Black American men don’t understand FAMILY, and LOVE. It’s kind of scary that such people with a mindset exist tbh!
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@@dsanders799 A non-African Black man is only the best if you want to end up a single mother. Most only treat you well for as long as they can use you. This is just facts. Both in real life and on the daitng apps, they are the worst options hands down.
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Arlette and her team said these ladies need their blinders put on and I’m here for it. The short guys were getting zero breaks
This episode should be titled Short Kings Unite
How could you tell their height? @@stephenwa7417
@@djrjbostonwhen they got up..
@@stephenwa7417lol
and unfortunately they still won’t if one of the girls happens to pick a man that is short in the end and that’s not her preference.
(I’ve been married for 26 years and am very happy, but) I listened while cooking dinner, so I didn’t see the men’s faces and that’s exactly who I would have chosen. I hope it works out for them ❤️
it won’t 🤷🏽♂️
Me too. He is so well spoken
@@Partystreet_qaonly to someone dumb. He used multiple terms wrong, didnt answer questions right, and wasnt concise in his delivery
@@BenevolentDictator13 And you don’t know how to use apostrophes, so can we call you dumb, too?
I hope so too. I see how they could be genuinely happy as life partners and living life to the fullest. ❤
What’s crazy is that from the first round after hearing him talk and how sure he was about how he wanted his life to be I knew he was going to get chosen ❤
I was surprised she eliminated number 1. As soon as he came around that corner, you could tell her heart sank because she was attracted to him. I personally liked number 1's answers. He came off really mature and solid, but I think she found him forgettable... until she saw him lol. But number 4 had great answers too. He's attractive and seems like a great guy, but that fit was a no for me. I was like, "omg, I guess I do judge men by their outfits sometimes" 😅😂
I agree!
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I liked #1 also
The ones with less options say cheating is a deal breaker. Being a man with alot of options most have been in sitiations where they worked through temptations. So that shouldve easily told her who would be attractive and who wasnt.
Yeah I think her and number 1 complimented each other 🤷
#4 told her she’s beautiful and she said thank you 🤣🤣🤣 no return compliment. He’s definitely getting friend zoned
Lmao
She did say "were real happy". I'm hoping that was her way of reciprocating. She just seemed nervous. We'll see! I'm most exciting that she's into DJing and he loves music festivals. They should have highlighted that more in the end but something about music is definitely coming out of their update for sure.
The hug at the end gave it away
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It's unfortunate because he's handsome af and had the best answers and meant them
Yay for a new series and new episode! I like this twist!
If I were her, I would prefer to take notes on the answers because it can be hard remembering what people said when you're only hearing their voices. Having a face to face interaction makes it easier to remember who said what. But she did a great job keeping track. And having only 5 contestants definitely makes it easier.
Keep the episodes coming! ❤
Right. Like how they do it on Love Is Blind with the lil notebook.
Personality means so much to me... well-done please do come to south Africa Arlette I really love your show🎉❤
This is cute. *BUT PLEASE BRING BACK “POP THE BALLOON”* 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
It isn’t gone😂😂
@@daveadu3563It better not be😏
😂 I rather 🎈
They just finished season one lol
literally
The look on Arlette"s face at 6:30 when contestant 3 was saying people need to work through cheating was priceless 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂 I missed it the first time but yeah that was funny
in 4 minutes of the video you already got to minute 6:30? tf?
Truuuue💀 he was not wrong though. Things are not always black and white. Sometimes people let themselves get too heated and emotional in some situations that can be solved with proper communication. Imagine ending a years long relationship because there was a disconnection and for a bit people were so overwhelmed with life - because kids, family matters, etc. (pandemic was a "good" and trying time for relationships) they could not even get the chance to work through it. People cheat and forgive, they are just not honest about it, this guy seemed mature with his response. Apologies about the huge comment
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@@LokyZenI always watch these videos on x1.5 goes by waaay faster sometimes even x2 if they talk very slow
The contestant 4 was trying hard to speak well to win her affection (instead of being relaxed and being himself) and the girl fell for it. In the end though she wasnt impressed by his physical appearance and possibly also outfit. I didn't really see much vibe between them and it probably lasted as long as it took them to get out of the camera's range.
I agree she didn’t seem like she liked how he looked physically and she seemed kind of awkward
That’s exactly how I received his responses. He was responding to grand and lengthy. Trying too hard and not being authentic.
That ish not going to work out. She not feeling him
They were all repeating the same answers and was also trying to say whatever she wanted to hear
The chemistry disappeared when she saw him😅😅
I love this❤they look so cute together..I like this over pop the balloon because you get to learn more about the person instead of going off looks
No 4's answers were so mature and well-articulated. Good job!
And he is so young. Whoever raised him did a great job!
U should give her the choice if she wants to change her mind at the end 🤷🏾♂️
FOUL! 😭
FACTS!
It is a blind date for a reason
@Rocka7038💯
Now we on Blind Dates? WOW ..Episode 1 Let’s go!! 🎉
I'm so pumped! 😂
It is not new, back in the days we had The Dating Game show, used to watch on a 12 inch black and white TV.........
@@martincarr4204 I didn’t say “Blind Dating” is new, but it’s a new concept on this Channel. Thank you 😊
@@supbrice that is following The Dating Game show concept....
@@martincarr4204 duh.
I like this intro music and the fact that yall added another segment to this dating show. Pop the balloon is good too. Amazing job BM & Arlette