How to buy Pads or Diapers for BLADDER LEAKAGE?! | Options for SEVERE urinary incontinence

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024

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  • @xwrtk
    @xwrtk 2 года назад +5

    I’ve seen many elderly people use pads as an adult diaper. Majority of them specifically ask for a night time pad. This was back when I helped with pantries and we had no adult diapers in stock to give away for free. The call for donating adult diapers eventually came in 2021. I did see elderly men happy to see pads as they would use it as a diaper.

  • @TedTalksDrag
    @TedTalksDrag 2 года назад +9

    due to a neurological condition ive developed incontinence over the last fe months, now i have very severe/total incontinent and absolutely no control and i’m going to start using large pads with the fit pants to hold them in place as my current incontinent pads arent cutting it anymore, i’m 17 and found it so embarrassing at first but now i don’t care because it helps me live my life and i can’t control it 💞

    • @tamarillo2378
      @tamarillo2378 6 месяцев назад +1

      I'm so happy to hear you sound so brave and mature beyond your years! A lot of much much older adults wouldn't be able to say the same thing. More power to you! Go forth and kick butt!!!

    • @יאיראביבי
      @יאיראביבי Месяц назад

      תלבש חיתול אני גם

  • @tarrySubstance
    @tarrySubstance 3 года назад +9

    I really appreciate your professionalism Dr. Malik. Can you do a video on nocturnal emissions and debunk it's myths.
    Thank you.

  • @mikeholley8307
    @mikeholley8307 9 месяцев назад +3

    I’ve been using Depends underwear plus a pad for day time use post prostectomy ..it makes changing when I’m out in public easier since I don’t have to disrobe .. can lower my pants and change pads..adds to the expense but worth it.

  • @SneakerGurus
    @SneakerGurus 2 года назад +5

    Thank you for this video. Really helped me. As a man idk anything about this stuff but I'm 26 and have to take care of my mom whos 62 but has alot of health issues and peeing is one of the things she lost control over. Ive suggested the "diaper " and try to explain how that will probably be the best but no adult wants to have to wear diapers. But hopefully this video will open her mind to them because she has "full flow " and I'm just learning about this and just being told about her problem . And she told me most of her pads she used "bandaid" is the term we use which means over soaks and goes threw the pad and underwear and pants. Which she says happens multiple times a day. So I know the "absorbing adult underwear " would be best for her. But for now she's getting mad at the idea every time I bring it up. Right now she's using moderate level poise pads her aid got her and she says they are better then the dollar store ones shes used to (my mom tried to get everything from the dollar store even tho I'm willing to buy her whatever she needs and get her the best of the best when it comes to anything but she's just used to living on a budget and not having much . Now I take care of my mom and I will get her anything she needs to be comfortable. But anyways. I just want to thank you so much for the video. Their isn't any other video I could find that was this helpful. I'm going to show my mother this video after this comment and hopefully open her mind to the diapers cuz she's "full flowing" more and more often. But I have to figure out what the best option is for pads . I haven't finished watching this video but I know it will have the answers I'm looking for. God bless you !

    • @mrs_hopfrog
      @mrs_hopfrog 2 года назад +3

      Just wanted to say you are an awesome son for taking care of your mother so well. Im 53 , but have RA and in a wheel chair. So I have wetness problems also. I have an awesome son too , who helps my husband take care of me. Your mom is blessed to have you , ♥♥♥

    • @janetta5827
      @janetta5827 7 месяцев назад

      You might try just buying mom a pack of the adult diapers and just leave them in her bathroom, saying nothing about them. She may decide to try them on her own. To you from another 62 year old mom, I thank you for taking care of your mom. Best of luck

  • @candicejewell1456
    @candicejewell1456 Год назад +4

    Thank you. My leakage was horrendous when I placed pressure on the diaper to stand up. Please remember when testing ....... the diaper does not just lie there with no weight or pressure.

    • @toniamcdonald1838
      @toniamcdonald1838 10 месяцев назад

      I agree with you. And all reviews show the liquid being poured gently along the length of the pad but when we pee it comes out in one spot and has to absorb to other areas. I recently used a *Because pad and the urine pooled in the front half of the pad but never absorbed towards the back and then it overflowed and I had to change. Thank God I made it into the house and wasn't out in public. 👀

  • @leoinsf
    @leoinsf 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for offering help re. this sensitive subject.
    Great presentation and very professional approach!
    Thank you, Dr. Malik!

  • @qienna6677
    @qienna6677 3 года назад +5

    Honestly, I use the Tena night time pads to sleep in, when I'm on my period, because then I don't leak on my sheets. Night time period pads never seem to be able to catch everything.

  • @chuckhamilton1101
    @chuckhamilton1101 3 года назад +4

    Bought the pure wick system for my wife it is great! Saves from getting up at night!

    • @cassandrawilliams5745
      @cassandrawilliams5745 3 года назад

      I agree. Especially if the individual can not get up in the middle of the night.

  • @Eldientesdechivo
    @Eldientesdechivo 3 года назад +2

    Super touchy subject. But glad its being addressed. I use better dry for overnight and ID slip for mornings. I can hold after a few hours after waking up.

    • @Plasmastorm73_n5evv
      @Plasmastorm73_n5evv 6 месяцев назад

      The only reason it's a super touchy subject is because people won't talk about it. Just like women's periods use to be taboo to talk about until Young women started talking about it on RUclips.

  • @HunHun94
    @HunHun94 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this. Had a hysterectomy and now my pelvic wall is shot. I'm at the "severe" point and
    ready to look into surgical options, but until then, I need something and maxi pads aren't cutting it. I
    will definitely look into these products.

  • @tamsiracuse
    @tamsiracuse 3 года назад

    Thank you so much for telling "me" about Because pads. I bought the Because premium pads, maximum--2 cups. They fit beautifully. The best part? NO more towels on the bed which left me irritated and frustrated. Thank you Doctor, for sharing this informative video.

  • @Jenn-iv1he
    @Jenn-iv1he 3 года назад +5

    Could you make a video talking about bed wetting that continues past a "normal" age it stops?

  • @Ashutosh0020
    @Ashutosh0020 3 года назад +1

    Nice informations, People usually get confused and don't know much about the product, So it is great that you discussed about the product in details,👍

  • @mitzaz8812
    @mitzaz8812 2 месяца назад

    Suffering from epilepsy has made incontinence a way of life,especially nighttime. I've tried other pads, but none have worked for me as well as Poise.😊

  • @dailydoseofmedicinee
    @dailydoseofmedicinee 3 года назад +3

    Important topic

  • @chrispop99
    @chrispop99 3 года назад

    For those in the UK, Tena have an online shop with lots of advice, and a range of products for men and women. They can be supplied direct to you in discreet packaging.

  • @dariorichards8278
    @dariorichards8278 3 года назад +2

    I love your professionalism on these issues, Thank you

    • @scores718
      @scores718 4 месяца назад

      Dr Malik ppms over 35:yrs. ngb as bad as it can be ..where is worst place woman can have "accident". ?

    • @scores718
      @scores718 4 месяца назад

      In 35yrs have seen 5 urologists urodyn study 3x

    • @scores718
      @scores718 4 месяца назад

      A cup. How many ounces?

    • @scores718
      @scores718 4 месяца назад

      Since I wear xs (f) my choices limited tried youth sz, kids XXL. U name it I have tried. No medicaid so out of pocket:(

    • @scores718
      @scores718 4 месяца назад

      Obviously the topic of cost, insur can't be addressed here

  • @bunionpain16
    @bunionpain16 Год назад +2

    Although I am male, I use the women's Poise long length level 6 ultimate. They work perfectly for my needs and shape.

    • @YolandaMReyes
      @YolandaMReyes 2 месяца назад +1

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼I applaud you! You figured out how to make an uncomfortable situation into a comfortable situation that worked for You!! Best of luck!!

  • @frankeasterling3402
    @frankeasterling3402 3 года назад +6

    Lord I pray I can avoid this issue as I get older.

  • @mvally2714
    @mvally2714 Год назад

    I started using them because I used pads. Period ones and i have so much relief now

  • @pijnto
    @pijnto 3 года назад +2

    Excellent information, one thing I have noticed in Australia is that mens public toilets do not have disposal receptacles for these, I can't speak for the US, my partners father finds this to be a big problem.

    • @annawood8912
      @annawood8912 3 года назад +1

      I always thought about this too when I would walk by the aisle that has incontinence products. There really needs to be a trash can in men’s stalls, not just for trans men that have periods but for men who need these products.

    • @chrispop99
      @chrispop99 3 года назад

      Here in the UK, I have to use toilets for the disabled for this very reason.

  • @persona21597
    @persona21597 Год назад

    Before this, I used to wear a familiar pad, I didn't know the existence of incontinence products. I just knew Poise but after watch this in the next time I will try another products

  • @jsusna1972
    @jsusna1972 3 года назад +1

    I buy cheap, usually store brand, sandwich bags with zip-loc closures to dispose of used guards in a small can in my bedroom. They keep the odor locked away until I dispose of them in the outside trash can. I am a male and use guards, so this won't work for large pads or underwear.

  • @lindaberg1695
    @lindaberg1695 Год назад

    I just checked and Prevail has suspended it's free sample program.....not sure about the other brands. Great video!

  • @ENEMA_AND_YOGA_CHANNEL
    @ENEMA_AND_YOGA_CHANNEL 2 года назад +2

    Perfect for oil enemas leakage protection for men and women.

  • @dddoda
    @dddoda 7 месяцев назад

    Very informative and helpful. I actually purchased some Because diapers (for men). Pro: they do work quite well. Con: they use very coercive sales pitch to get you to become a repeat customer, and I found it nigh impossible to close my account. In fact, they would not close it.

  • @headbanger1853
    @headbanger1853 Год назад

    I personally liked the Attends Discreet and Because pads since they worked much better than Poise. Now that I have to take bladder meds and wear pull-ups, my insurance gives me the Prevail women's underwear, which are useless without a booster. I also buy the Because overnight underwear and they work so much better than traditional diapers in my experience.

  • @alilr4499
    @alilr4499 3 года назад +2

    I only watch you because you look like my ex 😅. But I loved your content, thanks for all your efforts ❤️

  • @madrowlawsin2262
    @madrowlawsin2262 Год назад

    The tena intimate pads are my favorite they actually held a full void 😮

    • @t2216
      @t2216 Год назад +1

      Tena Night Super pads hold even much more. Easily at least two full voids. Very good to use for travelling or when not possible to get to toilet in long time

  • @72493
    @72493 Год назад +2

    Link to the free samples please?

  • @Hawtpinklady
    @Hawtpinklady Год назад +1

    How do you know if you have OAB? specifically urge incontinence or stress. i love in the south west so im always drinking something to stay hydrated and i thought that would be it but i really noticed the importance of timing about 6 years ago. i was in a car accident 6 years ago and while i didnt have nerve damage or anything i did shatter my ankle and ive never been able to walk the same since. i can walk but im a lot slower. and at times if im somewhere in public i get the sudden urge to go and always cant make it to the Loo. are diapers recommended for that or would i need to be prescribed by a Dr? logic says just wear one but i dont know if theres another way to address it. thanks and i hope to hear back. thanks

  • @cooljohn1977
    @cooljohn1977 3 года назад +1

    always discreet underwear is a good underwear to buy because they are very soft with leak guards

  • @madrowlawsin2262
    @madrowlawsin2262 Год назад

    Incontinent n low-key feminine pads idk why but i love em especially to double up my diaper

  • @PureVikingPowers
    @PureVikingPowers 3 года назад +3

    I wear Tena slip maxi when i sleep because i'm still bedwetter 😢 I am a boy no medicine work i think this is my biggest shame in my life i wear diapers when i sleep even if it's called incontinence brief i'm smart enough to know it's just diapers! And i get my diapers from some health care for free.

    • @diapers4eva
      @diapers4eva Год назад

      It's not your fault, I wear maxi nappies & plastic pants.

  • @lisas2538
    @lisas2538 7 месяцев назад

    The link to the Attends Super Pad on Amazon are not the same pads shown in video. I see this video is 2 years old. They may not have them anymore. I don’t know. But they look very different. I think the ones shown on video would have been perfect for my mom. I wish I could find them.

  • @dddoda
    @dddoda 7 месяцев назад

    I intend to make a few more international plane trips, if possible. My incontinence is Whenever I get up from a sitting position, my brain has trained me to rush to the bathroom and empty my bladder within 10-15 seconds, even if there is only a 1 or 2 oz. dribble. to 5-6 ounces I can just see myself on the plane waiting in a line for an open bathroom, maybe 30 times in a 19 hour trip to India. I am sure there are millions of other men with the same problem, but no one addresses it. I think my sphincter muscles are slow opening and slow closing in my old age. But with more urine in my bladder, my urine flow is just fine. But when I stand up, I can feel the urine dump into my prostate and the lower sphincter muscle is holding it for dear life. Might you find some solutions? Greatly appreciate it!

  • @sy2.083
    @sy2.083 2 месяца назад

    I cup of water is inadequate for a test

  • @GoldenAngel-
    @GoldenAngel- Год назад +1

    I use these pads , mostly it happens when I cough a lot
    Otherwise I don't have inconveniences 😢

  • @pavelow235
    @pavelow235 3 года назад

    Didn't know you practiced in the DMV, nice....

  • @marvinhenrie6705
    @marvinhenrie6705 8 месяцев назад

    Excellent video thank you for sharing

  • @jkej2029
    @jkej2029 2 месяца назад

    Getting ready for my old age. Check 🎉

  • @sanjayboro1
    @sanjayboro1 2 года назад

    Hi rena can you also advise on male incontinence products too?

  • @TeamStudNation1280
    @TeamStudNation1280 17 дней назад

    What happens if a male uses a woman's incontinence pad? What would happen?

  • @haratakro5490
    @haratakro5490 3 года назад +1

    You are awesome

  • @Kim-uu8fc
    @Kim-uu8fc 2 года назад +1

    I'm having a lot of difficulty with pads, this video certainly helped but I can't get attends pads in my area. Can anyone recommend some absorbant pads for incontinence for women?

    • @TeamStudNation1280
      @TeamStudNation1280 Год назад +1

      The Honeypot Company, Cora, Rael, or Tena. Oh, and Northshore and Seni

  • @hplc123456
    @hplc123456 3 года назад +6

    I never understood why this is common in humans when it's anything but normal in other mammals

    • @samanthawoodward7551
      @samanthawoodward7551 6 месяцев назад +2

      Really? When did you last see a horse or cow stop eating,.walk to a toilet and pee and poop.

  • @vikingdrive
    @vikingdrive 3 месяца назад

    Available in Australia?

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    @lindsayasha7514 3 года назад +20

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      @scotty76 3 года назад

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      @finleymcarthur416 3 года назад

      I heard her strategies are real good

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      @denisgoldberg3421 3 года назад

      Yeah it sure

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      @ianradcliffe5636 3 года назад

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  • @bboyer6778
    @bboyer6778 3 года назад

    Thank for your Great videos. I've seen ads about shock wave therapy for ED. Dose this work? Can a H-wave machine work the same way. thank you

  • @sandramolteni3875
    @sandramolteni3875 3 года назад

    A bladder with a volume of 600 ml? Mine was measured barely 100 ml because due to my incontinence it is unable to stretch. I can leak even just after half a hour after voiding.

  • @madrowlawsin2262
    @madrowlawsin2262 Год назад

    For incontinence underwear i actually find the always discreet to work best as i uhm hang lower than most men lol

  • @chrisiequinn3330
    @chrisiequinn3330 3 года назад +1

    I'm 45 years old and my doctor told me i have urge and stress incontinence caused by being on antidepressants and taking pills for anxiety plus i'm perimenopausal. Instead of proscribing me to wear diapers she put me on pills for my bladder that has bad side effects. I'm too embarrassed to ask her to give me a prescription to get diapers because i rather wear diapers instead of taking pills witch has bad side effects. So how can i get over my embarrassment and ask her to prescribe me diapers?

    • @jvmiller1995
      @jvmiller1995 2 года назад

      you need no script to buy them and in the US most insurance wont pay for them unless you are in hospice or a home. Then if they do it is cheap horrible versions that are not the best

  • @sandramolteni3875
    @sandramolteni3875 3 года назад +2

    Urine reaches the pad in one single point and then spread out, not like the pouring you did on the pad.

  • @glenwalker44
    @glenwalker44 3 года назад +1

    Hey Rena, I've been watching your videos for a while now and find them very informative and useful so thank you for making them. Could I make topic request for a video on condoms please. I only request this because it took me 20 years to find a condom I like. I started out with latex, which i'm not allergic to, but found i couldn't maintain an erection or ejaculate with. I then went through a phase of not using them, which you don't have to be a doctor to know isn't very good practice. I then discovered thin condoms made from polyisoprene which are great, but the standard size was a little snug so since I found the larger ones I've been very happy. If you do a video on this you could discus the different materials, sizing (link you does size matter vid for stats), and lubes you can and cant use (link your lube vid) you could also talk about female condoms and of course health risks. Thanking you in advance. Your hair is absolutely gorgeous by the way 😍.

  • @dollyperry3020
    @dollyperry3020 2 года назад

    I'm trying to find 3x and 4x underwear type control for my friend. I'm finding it very difficult and expensive.

  • @vincenzaperriano876
    @vincenzaperriano876 Год назад

    Reusable gave me yeast infection

  • @kevinteachnor330
    @kevinteachnor330 Год назад +1

    Kevin Technor

  • @KevinJones-pj8kx
    @KevinJones-pj8kx Год назад

    My wife had poor results with because. She ended up with urine scald. I would not recommend them

  • @vasil6776
    @vasil6776 2 года назад

    That means if you are incontinence does that me be in diapers for good ?

  • @chelseatv9880
    @chelseatv9880 5 месяцев назад

    I wear big boy nappies it doesn't bother me

  • @pushpakrishna3668
    @pushpakrishna3668 Год назад

    Is it available on line in India

  • @hazelh.miller6991
    @hazelh.miller6991 7 месяцев назад

    Just found you on RUclips.

  • @MrCurleymoe
    @MrCurleymoe 2 года назад

    I have a huge flow at night that I cannot control. I have tried many things please help.

  • @danielgartin-oh9ik
    @danielgartin-oh9ik 12 дней назад

    Hi cutie, I pee myself at night and I wear Pull Ups at night and I’m a young man with neurological issues due to cerebral palsy

  • @adamthrussell7466
    @adamthrussell7466 3 года назад

    @ Adam Thrussell of City of Melbourne, State of Victoria , Australia. Dr Rena Malik thank you the RUclips about incontinence.
    I had an operation for bowel cancer in May 2012.
    Therefore nine months of chemotherapy therefore muscles near bladder is weak.
    Any suggestions to strengthen muscles near the bladder ?.
    Big M 1981 Marathon Frankston to Melbourne Town Hall
    Stay healthy and well

  • @mss627
    @mss627 2 года назад

    I'm amazed at how little advancement has taken place in this field. Male genitalia tends to move around during the course of a normal day which means the pads aren't always in the optimal position for maximum absorption. This usually leads to leaking. The diapers are made of flimsy material that ofter tears even when putting them on. I would think something like a cup would be a much better solution, especially for men who have active lifestyles.

  • @paulzarobell2753
    @paulzarobell2753 2 года назад

    Is it possible to get an adult diaper with prints

  • @justinblackburn4356
    @justinblackburn4356 2 года назад +1

    Prevail diaper cute ☺️ cute so diapers cute so cute 😊

  • @danielgartin-oh9ik
    @danielgartin-oh9ik 12 дней назад

    You’re pretty

  • @mromero00
    @mromero00 3 года назад

    Inquiring minds want to know, what is the yellow liquid? There’s no way it’s urine. at least I hope not lol

  • @darshnarach8889
    @darshnarach8889 10 месяцев назад +1

    Interesting but you test tge products like someone who has never hadvan incontinence accident. The flow of urine can be too fast for the absorbant core. And you drizzles iy back snd forth... yoyr body doesn't do that it will only fill the padd from on spot. So it would be more informative to pour only in one spot consistently for the anatomy area.. also lets not for get gravity from tge position. 😊

  • @lss-xw8qn
    @lss-xw8qn 3 года назад

    hi doc maybe you can cover this topic: if a middle aged guy has trouble getting and/or keeping an erection takes male performance enhancing pill which has the effect of opening or widening the blood vessels and this temporarily solves the mans erection problem for like one day, we can conclude that the cause of his ED is blood flow right? so if blood flow is the problem, is there a more permanent treatment to solve the blood flow problem(invasive/non invasive) so a man doesnt have to keep taking these "blood flow improving/blood vessel widening" pills?....

    • @jvmiller1995
      @jvmiller1995 2 года назад

      Lots of things including Low T can cause it. Just tell your doctor and get it checked out. They are professional. I have to take testosterone injections 2 times a month and I feel better all around after getting it back up

  • @amyleeming245
    @amyleeming245 Месяц назад

    I really want to have issues like these so I can justify wearing diapers

  • @MrCurleymoe
    @MrCurleymoe 2 года назад

    BTW Because does not work for me.

  • @vincenturena7154
    @vincenturena7154 3 года назад

    Can men wear pads for urinary incontinence?

    • @chrispop99
      @chrispop99 3 года назад

      Absolutely. There are many types, with different adsorption rates.

  • @willieg9731
    @willieg9731 3 года назад

    when is next ask anything?

  • @brandonfay14
    @brandonfay14 2 года назад

    I wearing plastic tape diapers and pull up diapers

  • @kristyluv7925
    @kristyluv7925 8 месяцев назад

    You wouldn’t happen to be a doctor in Tennessee would you

  • @PureVikingPowers
    @PureVikingPowers 3 года назад

    No it is not diapers Rena it is pull-ups you never show a diaper the diaper have tape on the side can you make a video with real diapers and talk about bedwetting i did not relate much to this one 🙂

  • @neilpeel4231
    @neilpeel4231 3 года назад

    Being a man I am sorry but watching all the tv ads I just think women should wear nappies.
    It also makes me think when I meet a girl if she has pissy pants.

  • @justinblackburn4356
    @justinblackburn4356 2 года назад +1

    Prevail diaper cute so 🥰😘😀☺️diapers cute so

  • @barbaradavis393
    @barbaradavis393 9 месяцев назад

    No useful information, except for knowing 3 new expense, online products. Maybe I am asking the wrong question.

  • @tomschaars2036
    @tomschaars2036 2 года назад

    The way you test the product is laughable. Pour the liquid in one spot! Not across the product! Then see how it works!!

  • @randomtube8226
    @randomtube8226 2 года назад

    Why is this so embarrassing and hard to talk about?

  • @tomblank6269
    @tomblank6269 3 года назад

    Rena are you a sikh?

    • @tomblank6269
      @tomblank6269 3 года назад

      @Prashant M she looks like a sikh, notice how long her lower jaw drops thats a lot of disgrace on her face bro , its a sign.

    • @tomblank6269
      @tomblank6269 3 года назад

      @Prashant M shes a coconut

    • @chrispop99
      @chrispop99 3 года назад +1

      I think she is a medical doctor...

  • @kevinteachnor330
    @kevinteachnor330 Год назад +1

    Kevin Technor