"DIALOGUE" │ The Relationship Idol ft. Janette...ikz & Ezekiel Azonwu of P4CM plus more
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- Опубликовано: 2 мар 2015
- Jessica Chinyelu sits down and DIALOGUE's with married couples, Matt and Janette..ikz Watson, Ezekiel and Kiyanna Azonwu and Rickie and Queen Smith on, "The Relationship Idol."
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Matt Watson: @truthtotheyouth
Janette...ikz: @iamgenetics
Ezekiel Azonwu: @wordsbyezekiel
Kiyanna Azonwu: @thisisglory
Rickie Smith: @rsmith903
Queen Smith: @queenk_smith
SOCIAL MEDIA:
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Instagram: / jessicachinyelu
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Cinematography: Cordell D. Franklin
Dialogue Intro Song: Written by Jessica Chinyelu
Song Produced by: Giampiero Scuderi
I been saying this for awhile. So many young Christians are obsessed with courtship and marriage, they act like it is the total sum of the Christian experience.
EXACTLY!!!
Facts
When a man loves the Lord and his true desire is to serve God, he really endeavors to love on his wife thereby making submission to her husband easier
God gave you that man, its beautiful to see (You even admitted in your vows that you didn't believe that that person existed) Enjoy each other
I hope you all are well and happy. I pray that you are continually blessed
I live in Toronto Canada, I am freaking out because all the black women on the panel have natural hair. How beautiful.
pbg98pbgpbg98pbg I absolutely LOVE being natural!!! We can do sooo much more as naturals!!!
Imagine 4real!if that is uncommon to you then u gotta go back to who you were created like.
pbg98pbgpbg98pbg and they’ve got beautiful long black hair healthy hair they all look amazing wow
"It takes a patient man to peel back all those layers"
Janette is anointed and hilarious!
Now this is positive black RUclips!
I am muslim and I enjoyed the discussion.
God guide and bless y'all!
lamaryam Amen. god bless you
John 3:3 ❤🙏
I'm Christian. I declare God's Blessing on you too darling.
Please pray to God to tell you the true path. God bless you Maryam Mi
Allah is not God, only Jesus Christ is Lord and Saviour. Seek Him! I answered His call at the age of 24 having no Christian parents. I have no regret 7 years later. Jesus Christ loves you!
This gives me hope, there are still God men out there! I will wait patiently for the Lord for He knows my desires!
Ikr
Watching this for a second tome 5 yrs later and I’m hearing this with new ears. This video is such a tremendous blessing!
Who is still watching this in 2019 🔥❤❤❤👌
Had to rewatch
2020🤗
Eunice, I'm watching in 2020.❤
This is so needed to be told to young single women all over the world. One thing I've learnt submission is power under authority.
Glory to God for this whole video because I am a young single man, in the military, no kids and a lot of what i see is like Ezekiel's niece had said in summary "Broken marriages".. Honestly realizing who Christ is and that we are nothing on our own without him and in the military I see a lot of these relationships without a Christ center/foundation painful to see because there is so much emptiness and its like nothing but hate or animosity toward spouses always arguing. But its because of the Christless relationship. I see other men are aren't faithful and the first beautiful woman that walks past they're looking like a dog with a steak hanging in its face and even worse, adultery. But i also have to say that i also have idolized the whole "if she aint bad, she ain't worth it" thing with idolizing the perfect (looking woman) in the past but with giving my life to Christ i strive to seek God first and focus alot on my relationship with Christ. But I also do want to be with someone. I have read in Corinthians about Paul talking about how it is better for you to be single because then you are fixed on pleasing the Lord. Though he also says that if you choose to marry there isn't anything wrong with that. But i definitely have a better understanding from listening and hearing you all that there is a whole lot more to marriage than just what it looks like on the outside. There is sacrifice and really understanding and knowing who you are in CHRIST FIRST and then knowing who you are as a married couple. I really like a lot from what Kiyanna had said about letting God's desires be our desires. So... lately for the past couple of months I have thought about the type of woman i would want and its that Proverbs 31 woman, a Godly woman, a woman with a Christ heart. I understand if it might be setting the bar high because we are not perfect. But I would want a woman who loves God as much as I do and seeks Him first. I have also been doing a lot of praying just honestly being patient and just trusting God in when He see's i'm ready for wife. Also really seeing all people as Jesus see's us. Looking at the inside and not the out. I would like advice on what helped you all, brothers and sisters in Christ, keep that focus on God and making sure Christ is at the center before while you all were single.
At the center of it all is Jesus.
"He desires to love on his wife, it brings him pleasure to love on his wife"
Even more of a reason to love your husband Janette, he definitely loves you the way Christ loves the church (it especially came through during your courtship and your wedding)
I hope that your ability to be soft and to truly trust your husband grows as you become closer as man and wife enhances every aspect of your marriage and your love for each other. He gave you a patient man willing to take his time to love you truly and deeply.
Wow! This was so awesome, helpful, informative, and restoring all at the same time. I am 31and have decided to wait for God's timing and plan for my life concerning marriage and that road has not been easy at all. This video brought me back to the prayer that the Lord would be my contentment above anything else. The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak...this video definitely strengthened the spirit. Thank you to everyone who was a part of making this video. It is truly appreciated and I pray that the Lord strengthens you all where you need it.
The relationship idol is such a huge struggle for me so it was really helpful / humbling to listen to your conversations, thank you so much, you're all such beautiful people, I pray that I can start applying these lessons to my life :)
Kate Dubillyew Same here girl
Y'all should've let this go on for at least an hour 😊
I love that, the portrayal of your relationship or marriage can't be more important than the actual ministry of your marriage
Hearing truth from young people is always so beautiful. Thank you ♥️
This is the first time I am seeing this program and I have to say I am blessed by this episode. I had never heard of the relationship idol before but the more I listened I knew exactly what you were taking about. I would have to say that I have been victim to the relationship idol at one time or another. I have seen a couple ans have wanted to have something like it and then begin to wonder "why am I still single?" When I already know the answer. The promise I made to wait until God has sent the one he has picked for me and in the mean time work on myself to make sure I am the woman that man deserves. Thank you for this.
triniredgal31 I'm sooo happy you were blessed by this episode of "DIALOGUE!" Waiting for God's best is always the right choice. Don't ever compare your life to other's. What God has for you is for YOU! No matter how great another's relationship may appear, the Lord will bless you with your own. Be content in this season my dear and work on being the BEST YOU! God bless you!
This is excellent! I'm single and am quite a bit older than these couples-oh, she's 35, so maybe I'm not quite a bit older, just a little than at least one couple - :-). I know marriage will happen for me, only b/c God said it. However, I know I will have to get used to a lot and learn to not seek my own comfort. At 40, that's a difficult thing to conceptualize, because I'm used to doing me - LOL. So, it's great to hear these young people talk about the "realness" of marriage. I spent so much time idolizing relationships when I was younger. I needed God to show me that marriage is to fulfill His will for me. That's when I was able to say "God, it would make me sad, but if I'm supposed to be single for the rest of my life, I will, I don't want marriage unless it will advance Your Kingdom." I meant that. We really do tend to idolize the companionship, the sex, the "somebody's got my back," instead of placing God RIGHT at the top. Thank you young couples! This is still good learning for me! God CONTINUE to bless you all!! :-)
+Melody Laster I'll be 35 at the end of this year. I have been going through this paradigm shift myself. That marriage is to fulfill His will and to glorify him. Not to idolize the companionship, the sex and having a teammate. Those are not bad things, however they are secondary to what marriage is primarily is! Thank You!
Afrika Minus
AMEN lady! I will be praying that you will be able to make that shift smoothly and then be content until God moves. You know what? We really must remember that at no matter what age it happens, it will be perfect when we wait on God. Praise God!! He's awesome!!! Thank you for sharing your story. Blessings!
You are ONE with your spouse. Individuality no longer comes first. Marriages are KILLED by this daily. Love this.
Like my godmother says keep gleaning the fields and you'll find your Boaz.
I am not single. .I'm in a relationship with God..
So blessed to watch this..
Glory to God!awesome
This was such a blessing to my life. I love the depth of their own personal relationship with Christ Jesus. They were so original in their own unique walk with Jesus. Thank you for you Testimony.
This was such a blessing and just rich in confirmation of what Christ has been speaking to my heart to let go of all idols! Wow, I'm blown away by your transparency! Thank you for pointing us singles to Christ, with Love your sister in Christ!
From the bridal shower I recently went to, to this panel. My eyes are wide open to what a true oneness is really going to look like. Not looking so rosey anymore but with the correct one God chooses I'm sure all things can be worked through.
There needs to be an "absolutely love" button made especially for this video.
I hope you do this again. It's rare to find such humble advice. I love how they all kept it real.
This was GREAT and such a BLESSING ! I am a single christian and I learned alot. Thanks :)
I am just seeing this and I am truly blessed. Thank you. It is hard for my friends to understand that I am 33 and not concerned with marriage. Reality is a life without Jesus is a life without purpose, AND not everyone is meant to be married. While I do think of how things would look in a natural romantic relationship I have grown to understand that whatever God's will is for me is far better than what I could desire or gain for myself through myself.
This is so helpful I'm gonna cry. Absolutely needed to hear this.
I just prayed that the Lord would help me to keep my focus on Jesus so intensely that He would have to pry me away from what I’m focused on doing for Him & the Kingdom in order for me to see the man He created for me. I want to be that focused & that satisfied with just Him. This has helped me to see within myself the ways I have idolized relationships. 🙌🏾♥️👑
Janette 36:36 YESSSS!! :) so real. I love it. So much word inside these individuals. Thanks for sharing! Love you guys. God bless ❤️
This DIALOGUE is extremely refreshing. I was married over 12 years and in studying Christ and His desire in marriage. I appreciate the accurate communication and REALNESS. I respect how the women were confident, however the humble behavior shined. Thank you for encouraging and recognizing God must be our desire. I am unsure if I'll marry again, but my focus is my purpose for God and accepting his plan for my life will be accomplished as I follow his guideline. I pray overflow of blessings in all of your lives, continue to encourage his people.
yolanda webster WOW!!! Woman of God thank you soooo much for sharing your testimony and your story. We thank God you were blessed. ONLY GOD WE CAN THANK FOR THIS. I pray the Lord shows you your purpose and it becomes more and more clear each day! I also pray that the tricks of the enemy will never allow you to think that you won't be married again. I believe you are a true treasure and you deserve the absolute BEST. God bless you sister.
This was such a blessing!!!! PLEAAAASSSEEEE do another segment
This changed the way I look at relationships so much. Thank you guys SO much!!!!
Catherina Raymond we are sooo happy this blessed you and has changed your outlook on relationships! Thanks you for watching, subscribing and sharing! God bless you!
Catherina Raymond Exactly!!!
I am watching this video in Botswana, Africa and i have learnt so much from this video! God Bless you all!
Thoroughly enjoyed the discussion.
36:35 Great encouragement for singles to not focus on this temporary human experience, but on the eternal forever in the presence of God, of which marriage is just a foreshadow.
"one of us has to die..." 🤣
So I've watched this & took away a lot & I'm gonna watch again in another week or so, so I can take something else from it that I may have missed. Very awesome guys.
Please do part 2
Sammy James we do hope to have a PART 2 of this segment by God's grace.
@@JessicaChinyelu still praying for one haha🙏
So much wisdom poured out in so little time.
You guys are great! May God give u more wisdom to share wt us!
This is awesome. Thank you for this
What an absolute BLESSING!!! Thanks for sharing! Praise God!
Words cannot even explain how much I love this video and the Dialogue on The relationship Idol. Great Job guys! God bless.
Oh my gosh, this was beautiful... These guys share so many of my own perspectives...even in this stage of my life. I'm learning to enjoy my singleness and being satisfied in my relationship with Christ. At then of the day, if ALL I have is God, then I would have gotten EVERYTHING.
This was such a HUGE blessing to me! THANK YOU FOR SHARING SUCH GEMS WITH US! GOD BLESS YOU ALL!
Check out the latest episode of DIALOGUE featuring Janette...ikz and Ezekiel of P4CM alongside their spouses and Life Coach and Mentor Queen Smith alongside her husband Rickie Smith. We got deep into our generations craze over relationships.
Sounds great!
This was truly a blessing for me! I've been married going on 3 years in October and this past year has been trying. But I'm learning what marriage is really about. And God's grace and mercy continues to keep me.
God bless you guys am learning.... So much
YES! when is part 2 coming?! =)
Excellent conversation!!! For anyone who wants REAL BIBLICAL TALK on relationships, this is a great resource!
I love how Kiyanna said she was an individual before she got with him and she didn't lose that in the marriage by seeing what he did and adapting his quirks as if it were hers. That's awesome. And the recap in the end is what we all needed ❤!
Wow this is so encouraging. Right now ministry and God are the two most important things in my life. But after that is my boyfriend. We plan to get married soon, but we´re living together as of now. So, I constantly find myself struggling with the convictions of sex before marriage, and people of course say “you´re playing house”, but I know that this has encouraged me to tackle those convictions one at a time and do it in a way that shapes my relationship after God.
Right here, right now this was LIFE-GIVING!! ♥️ So much wisdom found within you all...
This was simply beauiful. Thank you!
This has BLESSED me. Thanks for posting. Can't wait for the event this month! :)
The KG Lifestyle OMG, I remember you from months ago! We NEED to connect and even get you on the show soon. Sooo happy you were blessed and thank you for tuning in. God bless you sis! Can't wait to finally meet you!
Yes ma'am! I can't wait to meet you as well! Definitely open to being on the show! :)
I am totally encouraged! I loved this!
Loved it! Please do part2.
When two people are striving to become like christ and put God first in there relationship it will stand on a solid foundation.
such a blessing thank you!
This is so good! Thank you!!
This was amazing, praise the lord 🙌🏾
THISSS! Was more than awesome!! Really eye-opening! Thank God for you all!
Appreciating this!!!!
One of the best I've seen on RUclips so far!
This was simply beautiful. Thanks for sharing!
If submission is practiced to your spiritual head, it will not be so difficult to practice in marriage. Also remember the man must also submit to God. He is also suppose to treat his wife the way he would treat his own body Ephesians 5:22-33
Amen...also at that same chapter before those verses but at verse 21 SUBMITTING YOURSELVES ONE TO ANOTHER IN THE FEAR OF GOD...So it's not only a woman but the man also yet in the FEAR or Love of God because when both are submissive to God first, then you will to one another...Stay Blessed...
Janette is 35?!? She looks Amazing for her age:)
Amazing! This blessed me! There's more to you than the men you have attached yourself to! Thank you!
I love all the pc4m people. They always keep it real!! Im always encouraged when I watch their stuff.
Thhank you!! I t was encouraging and inspirational
I truly thank God for this program and P4CM!!! So encouraging and uplifting. It is also WONDERFUL to see people TRULY SPEAKING THE WORD OF GOD!! Love it!!!!!!!!
I love this! This was very inspirational.
wow..i truly enjoyed this...praise GOD
What a wonderful video, such a blessing. I know this video will be fruitful in my life, many times over! God Loves you all and God Bless you all.
Thank soo much for organising this talk. Matt and Janette always inspires me. God richly bless you all for your good works. am happy about how you are all helping to increase the population of people to be going to heaven.
VERY GOOD discussion! Part 2 please!! 😊
Love this! Thanks for sharing
Right on point...Thank you so much for sharing your testimonies....God bless all your ministries. Praise God for perfect timing in all things.
This was much needed. thank you to all the lovely couples.
This is such a blessing!
I have no words to describe how grateful I am for this video, I mean we have fallen into this relationship ministry trap so much we are gradually losing sight of who Christ is to us. Thank yo so much for this!
Amen to all these pearls being dropped in this discussion!! So good!,
Thank you so much. Keep up the great work
thank you so much for this! God bless you
Loved this!!! Thank you!!!
This has truly been a blessing to me...watching in 2017 of March
Praise the Lord for these Spirit filled relationships!
AWESOME!!😊
why is this video so awesome? thank you Jessica for being obedient and allowing the Lord to lead you in creating this wonderful ministry. i loved each and every one of the couples and their amazing, right on time advice. as a young woman seeking after God's own heart i learned so much pertaining to relationships, but at the same time i got the reaffirmation that ultimately the same thing remains, and that truth is all i need is God. hope to see part 2 in the future and the other amazing things you have coming our way.
Alexandria Bennett we thank God you were blessed by this episode of "DIALOGUE!" I pray the Lord continues to pour more and more of HIS truth into you by the power of the Holy Spirit! Part 2 will be filmed soon as well as many other great episodes the Lord has placed in my spirit! God bless you!
That was awesome! It touch my soul on so many different levels. Thank you so much for sharing.
Yassssss Janette keeps it SO REAL!! Thanks for this video. Definitely serves!
You guys have blessed me with this video
Wow… Awesome Word and teaching needed to hear it🫡👊🙌😉👍
Thank you so much to all who has listened to the voice of God and post this video...This has bless me greatly! Be bless people of God.
WOW, this was amazing!!! So glad I stumbled across this video. New subscriber!
Wowwww. This is some good stuff!
AWESOME AWESOME AWESOME !!!💚💚💚
GOOD STUFF... WHERE WAS I ALL THIS YEARS... I LOVE THIS..
This was NICE! Loved the input from everyone. Blessings to ALL of your marriages and thanks for sharing!
Just wanna say a big thank you!!! I learnt a lot. More grace Jessica.